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Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!

February 12, 2025 / 46:45

This episode features Steven Gibson, known as Steven from Denan, discussing his life experiences, sports interests, and personal challenges. Key topics include his love for rugby, basketball, and cricket, as well as his relationship with his family and friends.

Steven shares his concerns about recent fires affecting his planned trip to LA for his 50th birthday celebration, which he ultimately decides to postpone. He expresses anxiety about the situation and reflects on his favorite sports teams, particularly the Otago Highlanders and the Los Angeles Lakers.

The conversation touches on Steven's past experiences in radio, his nickname's origin, and his emotional connection to his late mother. He recalls significant moments from his life, including a memorable trip to the Super Rugby final in 2015.

Listeners learn about Steven's daily life, including living alone and the support he receives from friends and community members. He expresses gratitude for the donations he received for his upcoming trip, emphasizing the importance of social connections in his life.

The episode concludes with light-hearted banter about past adventures and Steven's hopes for the future, showcasing his unique personality and the friendships he cherishes.

TLDR

Steven from Denan shares his life, sports passions, and personal challenges in a heartfelt conversation.

Episode

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stepen Gibson better known as Steven from denan Welcome to My podcast well good afternoon Domin it's just
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unbelievable from the radio Su station now to your own podcast studio with your favorite name here Dom Harvey podcast so
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unbelievable [Laughter] unbelievable have you have you ever listened um to the podcast do you know
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how to listen to podcast I do listen to the podcast because I see your stories they come up on Facebook and everything
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so yeah oh okay so you see you see what gets shared on social media but you you don't know how to like listen to
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podcasts no no I don't know no but you know how to work YouTube I do yeah yeah
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so well how see I'm a bit worried because how are you GNA how are you going to watch this podcast when it
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comes out because hopefully um JJ yourself will share it to me right and give it to
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me it be so much easier if we taught you how to work YouTube anyway how are you you're not too bad and how are you I'm
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good thank you it's great it's good to be here in your studio yeah what do you
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think yeah not too bad yeah so you're in Oakland at the moment because um just to
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time stamp this conversation uh we were going to fly out to LA tonight that's JJ
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myself and you and the reason why that why we're in here orland is due to the
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bad fires and um and our way and I really thought that to show some respect all the abilities have lost their houses
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and everything and demolition over there due to the fires and everything so we decided um JJ and I have decided that uh
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that um we would delay that joing the end joing the at the end of the year so and to make it look better to go over
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there and to have more fun over there because we were meant to be doing it for my special 50th birthday celebration yes
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were you were you a little nervous about the fires I was way bit nervous than everything yeah uh and uh with my um I
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was really um anxious and everything about going over there and I really I really spoke to you and JJ B and
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everything I really had singing thoughts about going over straight I when as soon
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as I heard the Raging fires were going over there and I want yeah so well I mean we want you to have a really good
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time and we want you to we don't the last thing we want is for you to be stressing out about it so we thought we
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just wait um does mean we're going to miss out on an amazing NBA game we were
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going to go and see we're going to go and see my favorite team the Los Angeles
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Lakers playing the Boston Celtics and that's going to be on this Friday night
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uh Friday afternoon at 4:30 if anyone was interested in watching that game they D that iy could have been there so
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yes so by by the way I I need to let you know because when whenever we've had um
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uh chats before it's always been on the radio where there's been like a time
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restriction so it's like 3 minutes 4 minutes in length podcast go for a long
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time so we can relax a little bit if we want we will go relax we're not like
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another Jason Pine in everything so what what's what what does that mean Jason
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Pine just LS down you only Le a couple minutes with him on this his um show so yeah oh Jason Piney the sports guy P you
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know Piney quite well right I me I'm just I'm just saying that because people
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listening may not know who he is yeah so the thing with ZB do you just listen to
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that just because you love your sport I just listen to Tob on News Talk CB with Jason Pine of course cuz you know I do
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love my Sport and everything so and I'm a passionate sports fan and Sport Sports
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person so yeah oh you're not a sports person are you I'm I just love my sport
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that's why I listen to talk back yeah so you love the otago Highlanders and also
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the otago Nuggets basketball team and that's one thing I'm looking forward to
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going back to listening to hearing to who the Nuggets coach for for this year because they they're getting a new coach
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so that's what I'm looking forward to seeing who the new nuggets coach so
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right right oh remember that time you came out to watch the nuggets and and that's we won it as well but no do you
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remember the motel you were D it oh that the awful one yeah yeah what Happ J you
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asked JJ about it CU JJ went to see the bedroom and oh look like um look like your next door neighbors were cooking
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meths unbelievable but a travel agent organized that for you yeah then we we got you another place to stay yeah so
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what are your uh what are your favorite sports probably got to say um uh rugby because um it doesn't take too long uh
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when the referee blows his bloody whistle and who's your favorite referee anyway
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um Ben o Keef because I've had him on the podcast oh have you yeah oh good okay uh probably uh then um basketball
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mhm and then Cricket right well Cricket's very long though yeah I like even the short format 2020 it's a long
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game I like watching 2020 yeah and who are your favorite um otago rugby players of all time well there's only one and
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probably well probably a couple but you got a you got a new mean Jeff Wilson of course uh who else do I like uh
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chainsaw Bren Lany cuz he has his actions like this said starting a chainsaw the
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chainsaw chainsaw BR Lany right and uh probably and probably Josh corfield have you tried to get him on here I've had
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him on have you clearly you're a big fan of the podcast unbelievable unbelievable
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yeah um and also also one I a support person uh we we got on the radio as well uh remember I want to to speak to Sam
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Timmons I don't remember who's Sam Tims oh no we oh no Josh hon sorry and who that is JJ tried to get JJ
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tried to get Josh hon on but we got met um um met bsle instead right are these all rugby players no basketballer on the
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nuggets on the Nuggets but you dropping a lot of names here that nobody knows of
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um I'm sure they'll appreciate it though what about um oh I can't believe you
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overlooked Aaron Smith Aaron Smith one of the greatest all black halfbacks of all time of all time and he's from your
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Nick of the woods but he's not from aago he just played for the highlands but
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he's from man or to unbelievable unbelievable yeah unbelievable okay so let's talk about um
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Steven from denan when was when was the character Steven from Denon born so not Steven Gibson when did you become Steven
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from Denon W that is a hard question Dom but probably when I um the first competition
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that um uh the age came down to theen and JJ remembers this quite well because we had a competition at the
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Meridian Mall and you um got me to give her a kiss and unfortunately Jer didn't
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like the kiss because I was um I had sausage breath and I had a sausage in my mouth and we kissed each
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other you like sausage bre it was a sausage Sizzle and I think you had like had a mouthful of chewed but not yet
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swallowed sausage in your mouth and JJ didn't like sausages after and everything and but we still continued
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kissing right so so the um the nickname Steven from Den is that something that was given to You by JJ at the ede it was
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it was by given by by R viws of the um station the ede and uh you J you and um Mike Peru and JJ feni you're all started
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that anything so okay I think that was before before I started the edge when it launched into nen but you you were one
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of the very first callers that the edge had when it launched into nen it was um and from there you ended up like just
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becoming like a like a uh I was going to say radio [ __ ] you're on like all any radio
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station that would have you you'd call yeah and but you got banned from most of
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the stations oh they just don't know what banter are like they just don't
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know what banter is like you guys just put up with all the banter and all the other white St all the other stations
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just had enough on me and everything so who cares when you when you talk about the ban they didn't like what do you
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mean exactly what does banter mean oh you know the way that I um like or I just they just um they didn't want me
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but the the radio people knew what I'm going to I'm be honest in here and just
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say that um well the prod the um the hosting M be on the radio but the producers were the different stories cuz
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the producers on radio sport and all the other shows they would answer the phone
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call they were just hang me up so really the hosts were okay with me but it's
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just the producers that are negative no I I have to say you are um you you are very very hard work to deal with yeah at
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times like you can be very demanding um and you know that I and JJ knows that quite well there were even even times
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where we would do a setup on the air and Mike Peru might be like so come in Steven from denen and on your end
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there'd be a problem you couldn't get your cassette that working so you you
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didn't want to talk on the air if it wasn't going to be recorded so you just
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leave us hanging now we were very very tolerant to be fair probably to the detriment of our ratings um but other
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people were more selfish and concerned about their ratings so they're like let's just not give this guy the time of
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day yeah yeah you're not disputing it yep okay fair enough that's fair enough
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Fair Point fair enough so how many how how many casset types do you have of yourself doing like radio segments well
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that is an interesting question that one I've got plenty of them and uh I've
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still got more um here because what's what's plenty like 5 10 no more than
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that I've got me yeah I've got more than that yeah I just record myself every
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time I go on radio when when I can and uh yeah so do you still I mean it's it's
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h sort of outdated technology now so it's hard to find cassette recorders and
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cassette tapes yeah but thanks to one of my friends and den and he brought me a cassette play for my 50th so I've
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started um um using it again and um going on radio so how many do you like 30 cassettes 40 cassettes yeah more than
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that yeah almost because I it's a collection of um all the um Steven from denan Alfred yeah and and when do you
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like do you ever go back and listen to them or not really yeah sometimes I do sometimes I don't but yeah yeah when do
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you think you were peing well when do you think you what what types do you listen to and you like
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now that's when I was on fire when I was probably a few years ago when I was yeah
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when I had good when I I had good chats with Mark Watson on radio sport oh so it
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wasn't even with us and you guys of course of course I have to bring Bing the memories yeah
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yeah yeah you want me you want me you want me to be honest so I'm being honest
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absolutely absolutely oh that's kind of means a lot to you and I'm yeah we do we
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do worry about um this this chapter of your life now and I know that your sister's had a conversation with you
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about this um because um I'm not on the radio anymore neither as JJ and the whole sort of radio landscape in New
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Zealand is changing so it's kind of like it's been a very very important part of
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your life but it's a part of your life that might be sort of you know like all you you love your rugby so
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sports sports players they have their time don't they and then they sort of you know resign they they retire or they
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get retired and it might be time for you to come up with something else to do like what well I don't know that's for
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you to find out I guess yeah maybe get on my podcast every now and then or get or get on JJ's one yeah is going to do
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one soon L here as well so that's a big announcement now another part of the
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Steven from denan story why um on social media you love writing and and and bulk
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letters bold letters caps tools caps why because I don't care what people say and
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I don't care what people do if they if they want to read my post and everything
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they can if they want to if they don't they don't need to but the reason why
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I'm going to be honest out there right now and say the reason why I do capitals
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is that because I've got I'm sure s and I can't see what I'm writing so I just
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need to thing and that's why we're glasses as well okay well that that's
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good that's very good honesty um you did tell a little lie in there though and
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what's that you said you don't care what people think but once you've put a post
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up on Facebook I expect people to you'll give me a call and say oh comment on my
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post thank you Dominic and then if I comment on your post but I write something that you don't like you'll
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call me up again and ask me to delete it yeah yeah unbelievable so how many people do you when you put a
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post up on Facebook how many people do you call or message individually asking them to comment on it well well what I
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see every other post um on Facebook people get thousands and thousands and I and I'm not there to entertain everybody
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I want them to be serious enough and I don't know why I don't I don't get many
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people liking my com my post I think I I come out of my own way to do um post on
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Facebook and um people share stuff and they still get more um support from me um more support from other people so
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yeah that's you you enjoy it though are you enjoy the social media like it really adds something to your life well
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that keep that keeps my life and everything entertain because no if I didn't there's no social media there's
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no Facebook where would I be I'll be at H by myself lonely as that's about sad yeah I know so yeah
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yeah so what is you you live on because um Facebook and um messenger that will just keeps me in contact with everybody
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and because I only live by myself and yeah so yeah all that yeah how how is it living by yourself how long have you
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lived by yourself for now since the co about a few know about few years Anyway by myself cuz since we had to put dad
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back Dad into a rest time and here so yeah yeah okay well let's talk about that so you lived at home with your mom
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and your dad until until when until your dad went into a home yeah probably around about
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four when I'm 47 I'm I'm 50 now being 50 club now so three years yeah three years
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okay and um before that it was just you and your dad yeah um M until and your mom until your mom passed away can you
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remember what year your mom passed away well it was a famous Year too it was 2015 and that's when the mighty
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Highlanders won the competition and that's when you took me to the um Grand Final thanks to the eded listeners and
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yourself and you put me remember you must make sure you may you remember their time as well didn't you D oh yeah
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yeah yeah yeah I do 2015 you what are your Recollections of that of that day oh well you by the way I was sitting
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next to you and I was trying to record some content for the radio and there was a tense point in the game and you you
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slapped my phone out of my hand that you were you were so intense on the game yeah that was great because um I was in
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tears because um the the com the team won because and there was when mom passed away there was yeah so yeah that
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means a lot to me so are you did you had your mom passed away like before the the
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Super Rugby final thing and that's the reason why I went up there because you
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guys um sorted out and everything in 2015 to um your listeners and uh who some some sponsor also um uh some sent
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me up there thanks to you guys at the edge and yeah and and you and you um got us into the culprit um box and we met
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Christian Cen and Andrew Mertens and have you had these guys on your podcast yet I've had um C on I
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haven't had Andrew Mertens on yet though well you going to try and get Andrew
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merens on there that'll be a one day as remember okay and then what happened
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what happened after the game so your your team um that that you've been supporting since the competition began
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Highlanders they won for the first time ever right yeah and and then um you we were going to go and party you me
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Christian cull and we beat your team the mighty hurricanes yeah yeah I I wasn't I
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wasn't as worried about it as what you were um but then what about after the
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game what did I offer to you well you offered to take me go out for um a a good night out and I said no thanks I
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just want to go home and have a cup of tea and go to beard because I didn't want to celebrate but I nothing to
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celebrate we had we had a good celebration and the um the CET box with you yeah but
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that could have been like the opportunity of a lifetime for you like we were you know Christian hang out two
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old blacks Christian C and merant we would have gone out yeah yeah but you had a good sleep yeah I had a good sleep
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yeah that's the main thing so that's the main thing yeah um yeah so let's talk about your mom
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because um I you were very close a um and my my earliest memory of your mom is probably
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us being to off by her like she was she was really protective of you and she was
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really worried that we were like um taking the piss out of you on the radio and then I think after a while she got
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to see that um you know that that it was a like it was a genuine friendship and it was a bit of ban you gave us a hard
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time we gave you a hard time but it was all love at the end so yeah tell us about your mom and what she means to
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you well she meant a lot to me and everything and everyone knew that how how highly I spoke about her and
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everything um been a it's been a long time been long um 10 years without um without her
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and everything and uh it is lonely without her being around because she was a good supportive mom she really helped
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me and everything when I needed her she was there for me and so yeah and now it's a struggle because Dad's in rest
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home and there's no support for me around the place but I've got wonderful
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friends back at home and denan looking after me as well but Mom has be one of my favorite people in my life and
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everything so yeah and sadly she passed she passed on she passed had she had Parkinson so
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yeah yeah how was that for your dad after after your mom passed away you and your dad actually well it was a struggle
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and everything so and he all the phys all the phits he's had in hospital and
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uh all the wonderful people have looked after him as well especially in the rest
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time the mon Sol rest time and everything they they they really looked after him and he's really well been well
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well looked after as well cuz unfortunately he's got a away bit he's um I don't know if I want to say that
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but uh the doctors have uh said that he has been diagnosed with cancer and everything so that is going to be a hard
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battle between and that's probably another reason why we've also um delayed
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the trip as well so hopefully nothing happens between now and then how old's
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your dad now he's in a 84 yeah so how often do you go and see him at the home
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every single day yeah yeah uh we go on Monday Wednesday and Friday and sometimes Saturday but lat it's going to
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be hard seeing them now we just lying down in town yeah CU how he's quite old
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is he 8 84 84 so you going who takes you to visit him has friend John oh yeah oh
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John who dropped you off at the airport today yeah yeah um and can you you still
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talk to your dad yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah he's still CH he's chatting yeah
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yeah so you go visit yeah what is an average day look like for you these days so you're living on your own a and a
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what what's it called is it it like a an assisted flat no it's a it's a community
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uh uh flat and with the den city council and everything and they looked after and
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everything so so you live on your own I do live on my own yes and who who helps you who helps me to do what oh well
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okay well I remember the first time I went to your house this is this is before 2015 cuz it was when your mom was
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still alive and your room was disgusting so someone must be tiing up for you I thought there was going to be something
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else that you brought up as well what the orange tail no we're not talking about the orange tail I'm
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believeable when I when I saw Steven's room for the first time there was the
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Jeff Wilson autobiography in a very very suspicious looking orange tail next to it oh just saying oh unbelievable isn't
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it yeah but yeah so so do do have you got helpers that thought occasionally got helpers they coming and everything
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but since we've had the last uh couple since we've had the last year or two
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it's all gone slowly because we remember we had Co and everything and all gone
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all gone downhill from up there so right but so someone comes in and and like cleans for you occasionally yeah like
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once a week uh twice a week couple Yeah couple times a week and what about like groceries or meals well I just do my own
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grocery shopping but I've got people going to come and help me in next couple
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days do when I get back to the Newland so I'm don't want to mention yeah Beau
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people okay like friends yeah oh yeah yeah oh that's cool and and just so can
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you can you cook for yourself or take care of yourself or yeah I've got wonderful people that really do meals
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for me and everything and sometimes I can do meals on my own but it's quite a
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hard quite a struggle and everything yeah is it why is it a struggle because I'm not a good cook so that's why you're
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a good eater though I am a good eater so yeah so I tried my best of cooking I made the I'm made I'm probably made
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yesterday when I was coming up I made a good Stu for on Rice so yeah and you love your ear fryer right yeah yeah it's
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been haven't used it for a while because no one else because few people haven't
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come around to my house lately I just want to say don't want to mention any names okay um how do you find living on
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your own has that been okay or has it been been a strange adjustment well it's
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it's a lonely it's a lonely time and lonely and everything and no one to talk
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to and uh so I I'm glad that that John comes around every day sees me so yeah
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Dad's friend your Dad's friend that's really nice of him that is really nice
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why why does he do that because he just wants to give me support and everything yeah there I know there are other people
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underne always come and supports me around the place I need to mention one special
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person and um I need to and that's Lois yeah L Lois probably be listen listening when he wants to
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listen to this but I just think Lois is been a wonderful person he takes when um when he
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what it's all right you can get emotional that's okay you're right big
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fell it's good if you get emotion it means these people mean a lot to you I do want to say a good I I do have
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a few special friends out there they really look after me I just want to I do want to
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mention Lois and probably got to mention also he's been the for a while and that's
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Noah so you met them through your church group I'm not Louis but Noah through
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church and that's how this um how my even that's how my trip started off well
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cuz that's how we can we mention that yeah go ahead well um at church at cage and
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Baptist Church um Noah got me up on in front of everybody and had the segment called the Fast
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Five and he asked me the question uh that what was on my bucket list and I what was head and I really wanted to go
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to an NBA trip of a lifetime and everything and um and this and I want and I didn't know somebody fed and um
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videoed and somebody showed it to me and then I shot it to JJ and then JJ started
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off and giv it a give a little page and that's thanks to that's thanks to how it
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all started thanks to Noah and JJ full start it all up and she come JJ um started up and give a little page and
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yeah so that's Noah so he's you know him him through church Lewis how do you know
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Lewis well leis is just a great um um made of M um Inon he plays football for Ros and white Cary in and I support him
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big time and he supports me and that's what a true friendship should be like
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support each other um day and day yeah so yeah and they the same age what are they like 20 20 22 23 yeah
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23 gez and it's not always easy being your mate no you know like you push it
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sometimes and it's um I got to meet them at your 50th birthday at the cbin carard
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and um hang out with them a bit and they're um they're very good friends
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because at that stage of your life like it'd be very easy for them just to wash
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their hands with you when you're you know when you're when you're pushing the
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boundaries a bit do you know what I mean so it's good that they've stuck around
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they have been yeah that's really cool why do you get some emotional talking
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about them are you just grateful for what they they just do they just do so much for me and everything and and I I
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do I do I do got to be honest and do I do take people thing I don't know you
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just can't help yourself hey no but just there need to be other people like that really to come and socialize
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and uh support when you when you need when you're down you need some support
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and everything just just so just um to give other people in insight into what we're talking about here like um Steven
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will will perhaps call and if you miss the call he might then bombard you with um thumbs up like or an inappropriate
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gift maybe a hundred times hey like a 100 gifts like bing bang bing bing bang so your phone will
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just be sitting there if it's on silent just like vibrating away maybe for hours
00:25:50
and then the next maybe maybe we'll mute you for a while then when we unmute you
00:25:54
we'll be like what have you got to say and you're like oh don't worry about it
00:25:56
you know what I'm like H and probably blocked them some for a while and everything and yeah yeah do
00:26:03
you hear people blocking you often oh I don't they they if they want to block me
00:26:07
they can if they want to I don't doesn't want me I I see there a few people
00:26:10
blocked me already so I don't care yeah it doesn't want me doesn't want me
00:26:13
except who else de call so there's there's JJ myself uh Lewis Noah is it
00:26:19
Robbie that owns The Shoe Shop in denan yeah the shoe clinic clinic yeah yeah yeah yeah you you ring that his landline
00:26:25
number his business number Robbie and Stacy if you here they know who I am quite well yeah why do you ring them
00:26:31
they're running a shop yeah I know just I just want to keep hello to everybody
00:26:34
uh uh there's a Trav agent that always called to fent George yeah yeah and how
00:26:40
do you get by are you on a you on a benefit I am yeah yeah what's the benefit that you're on envil yeah yeah
00:26:47
what does that mean who I don't know Sharon does looks looks after everything
00:26:50
Sharon your sister yeah so do you do you know what qualifies you for an invel invalid's benefit don't know no
00:26:59
like like what did your mom and dad tell you growing up they didn't say anything
00:27:02
so everything keep meone keep me in the secret so yeah right is that a good thing or I didn't know what yeah yeah
00:27:10
yeah I don't care what people yeah yeah yeah you you're fine people keep people
00:27:15
keep secrets and everything so yeah oh we're not keeping secrets today on the podcast though when we talk about
00:27:21
the trip to Sydney no we can keep we can keep some Secrets if you want um so um yeah really but I do really need to give
00:27:29
a shout out to a few um people on to say thank you okay yeah go ahead as soon as um as soon as JJ
00:27:38
started to give a little page for my uh uh to give a little page for my trip to the anyway when we're going to go I just
00:27:45
really want to say thank you to all the people around the nation around the country who really donated and we and
00:27:51
it's start we only one to to 10 and and I've seen it and it raised $115,000 so I just want to say to
00:27:58
everybody in the country and everything just want to say thank you it's much
00:28:02
appreciated from the top of my heart as well just want to say thank you thank you thank you for everyone who have
00:28:07
donated and everything yeah so the trip has been um it's going to be rescheduled
00:28:13
to a more appropriate time um yeah we did look at going over in March and going to Las Vegas to see the the
00:28:20
Warriors game in the NRL but um all the flights were booked so we we think we'll
00:28:24
let this NBA season finish and when the new one starts later in the year then we'll um rebook the trip then um but the
00:28:30
money raised for you on give a little 15,000 um that's going to pay for your
00:28:34
trip in its entirety and hopefully give you some spending money as well some people might be thinking that's that's a
00:28:38
lot of money but um to give you like a some perspective the NBA tickets that we had um I think they were about $1,500
00:28:45
New Zealand dollars each ticket so JJ and myself are both paying our own ways completely and um all the money from the
00:28:52
give little page is um entirely yours for your trip it's a trip of a lifetime
00:28:56
as well so I just want to say once again thank you thank you thank you to everyone who have helped me out donated
00:29:03
and everything and I just want to say thank you to you Dom and JJ for sorting the award out as well so oh pleasure
00:29:09
Steven you're welcome so where where have you been before in terms of travel
00:29:14
well there probably that's probably another thing about the age too um just remember the times where we uh we had
00:29:21
started JJ it's good thing JJ's always good at this she always things comes up
00:29:26
with her mind and everything from the top of her heart as well and top she brings on their mind that no one think
00:29:32
no one other radio stations think about this but thanks to JJ she thought about this um full thing about all the lovely
00:29:39
kids around the New Zealand she started up a um campaign and help with the edge called Jingle Bell and that's when we
00:29:46
got and that's when you got to thought about six um sick kids and everything
00:29:50
and we talk them all my trip of a lifetime as well and we we really we really enjoyed that didn't we Diamond
00:29:56
everything yeah I so what you're talking about is a a charity thing we used to do
00:30:01
called Jingle Bale where uh in December each year we' lock ourselves up in a
00:30:06
makeshift um Jil orell in a mall and we'd stay there until we'd raised $100,000 and with that $100,000 we'd
00:30:13
take round about 15 or 20 kids plus their caregiver uh to the Gold Coast for a holiday so is that the only other time
00:30:19
you've been overseas just on jingle Bale trips no no one time we went um we went
00:30:25
on a family holiday we mom and I and my sister went um to um the Australia so we've had a few trips and everything and
00:30:34
and probably the um good trip that Dad and I M went together we've had a um Cruise we're on a cruise ship fa um
00:30:42
what's it called Fair star oh amazing yeah was it a buffet restaurant they had
00:30:47
a buffet meal yeah oh it's amazing they didn't kick you overboard for eating too much at the
00:30:53
buffet no you used to be a very big eater yeah you are you still a big I don't think you're a big eater anymore e
00:30:59
no I can't I don't eat that much anymore but I'm looking forward to a good meal
00:31:03
tonight though guys yeah cuz I I um I picked you up from the airport and I asked if you're hungry and you said not
00:31:08
really and I asked when if you ate at the airport and you said no it's too expensive and you said you had some
00:31:12
toast before you left an Eden this morning back in the day I'd pick you up from the airport you'd want to get two
00:31:17
foot long Subways hey hey I was a big eater then making it up yeah weren you banned from
00:31:24
the saté noodle house for overfilling the containers no no just a rumor yeah okay so I just want to get back to these
00:31:30
um I just really want to get back to this this Jingle Bell Tru I still I still remember a couple of couple
00:31:37
friends that I made up that I made and I'm hope hopefully they'll be listening
00:31:42
CU JJ remembers the fellas as well um um he he was a good guy Jordan on the mount
00:31:49
M he was Jordan from Mount mongui and uh Cory from Christ Church JJ remembers them both so so that's good so Jordan
00:31:57
and um Cory yeah cuz for a few of these um jingle Bale charity fundraises we had
00:32:04
you helping us out we called you the Fanta Center hey by the way can you can you lift your your head I want to see
00:32:09
your hair color I know it's not it's not Ginger anymore yeah cuz you were the
00:32:12
world famous Ginger that was a name that you gave yourself and all I'm seeing
00:32:14
down the side of your cap is bits of gray hair oh it's still there kind of it's not fiery like it used to be
00:32:22
though was it no no Silver Fox now yeah hey like George clery yeah so um yeah you used to fundraise for us
00:32:31
you'd be in the Santa suit and you'd be rattling a bucket collecting coins from
00:32:34
people we called you the Fanta Center then you went on these trips and you did a really good job with the kids that's
00:32:40
when you and and that's a great memory you see you remember you still remember
00:32:43
the kids names and the boys and so that's what I just want to say that uh hopefully you're listening Jordan from
00:32:48
the mount and Cory and Christ jur because JJ remember those boys as well well that's such a nice moment
00:32:55
about about jingle Bale I feel like excuse me I'd like some clarity on why I
00:33:00
remember those SS really wait does the mic pick this up like when you guys talk is this going to
00:33:11
be in the recording oh yeah why would JJ remember those voice specifically why would JJ remember those
00:33:22
boys oh because we went we went on the rides together all right okay together your memories your memories you're
00:33:30
you're wir different to other people your memor is different I say to people
00:33:33
when people ask what Steven from denan really like I say to them um probably a pain in the
00:33:38
ass you see that I say to them Steven could meet you and then 10 years later you'll be walking down the street and
00:33:45
you'll hear him shout out your name cuz he'll never forget a face or a name yeah
00:33:49
great memory I do I'm and people do people do know that I do have a good memory even good memories for phone
00:33:56
numbers good memories for names yeah sometimes we wish you didn't have a good
00:34:00
memory for phone numbers no um well that was a nice moment about Jingle Bell so it's Pro would it be
00:34:06
inappropriate now to talk about some of the some of the some of the fun stuff we
00:34:10
got up to on on these trips all the trips they wonder you if you want to bring those kind of stories up this is
00:34:16
your podcast let's do [Laughter] it who who was in um King's cross you me
00:34:23
and and Andrew Mulligan and you yeah you can say it you can say it because that's
00:34:28
a story that you brought up at my 50th birthday party did I bring this up at your 50th birthday party I don't even
00:34:33
remember wow uh now what's the story do you want to tell it from your perspective okay my perspective was uh
00:34:39
we were going down King's cross and uh we desired and what's um um Dom said
00:34:44
well we we we we we met a um person who looked like Steven Adams with your your kind of words um he um and um it's a
00:34:54
very very very tall woman he very tall woman looked like Steven em two apples or something you said oh big Adam's
00:34:59
Apple big Adam okay and um you and Andrew Mulligan really told me to go up and talk to him and approach him and ask
00:35:07
how ask her how much and um then she told me piss off [ __ ] and the other one and and the other and the other one that
00:35:24
you um who did we go with uh but you and I went to the strip club in Sydney well
00:35:30
not just well don't make it sound weird it wasn't just like the two of us was it
00:35:34
who was m still the year was probably yeah we went to the strip club and uh um they they took my glasses and put up the
00:35:43
bat unbelievable wasn't the bat it wasn't the bat unbelievable wasn't the
00:35:48
bat it was yeah hey and then put them back on your face yes yeah not the same glasses as
00:35:55
what you're wearing now though no yeah good memories it was great memories yeah
00:35:59
great memories great memories what I've had during the age and you with you and
00:36:03
D with you and JJ and when when you get home from that trip in Sydney um and your mom was still around then your mom
00:36:09
and dad say how is your trip stevenh what do you say just don't worry about it I keep it quiet keep everything
00:36:16
quiet yeah oh that's great and what are some of your other highlights from um
00:36:20
from the radio time like some of the some of your favorite moments or um there was a there was a moment that um
00:36:27
hope listening we wonderful time together with Joe Cotton remember that time we went to Joe Cotton you Jo you
00:36:34
know Joe Cotton yeah I know Jo cotton very well yeah she used to be a she used to be a a made for TV Gil B called Tri
00:36:40
on the radio she's lovely we were we were chained up chained up melodies or a
00:36:44
chained up thing we you you you guys hooked me up with a chain we had to go around the country remember that time
00:36:51
what was that oh Stephen your memory is great my memory is terrible I think it was before your time it was chains of
00:36:57
love and Steven was chained to about girls was it girls 24 and he was leading girls free and the
00:37:05
last one attached to oh no no I was I was there for that and yeah and he he got very very
00:37:12
emotional like imagine imagine a TV series of the bachelor where the bachelor like cries every time he has to
00:37:18
let a girl go and not give her a rose you got very attached to all the girls yeah but I'm going to be honest and say
00:37:23
the best one that we you you should have put this up at my 50th I think the best
00:37:28
one with JJ and Dom really got me going was when we had the APR of H joke remember that time where um we I had to
00:37:38
say April April April remember that time what was that can you tell the story I do vaguely remember it that I'd like to
00:37:44
hear from you from your perspective it was an ail false joke and everything I think and um we remember um we we did on
00:37:51
the that ear on the morning everything JJ thought it would JJ yourself thought it would be a good than for an April
00:37:56
false joke and um we be tending I was going to lose my virginity okay oh cuz you were like The 40-Year-Old Virgin
00:38:02
yeah yeah and I still remember that time and and they had what's it called everyone came along and said they had
00:38:10
the cameras and everything we're going to be at the spot we went to we were saying that we went to a nightclub and
00:38:16
we went to a nightclub in the morning and they had all the people cameras and everything people say we're not going to
00:38:21
listen to the show anymore and everything and uh and um and I was an APR fulling I said and I just said April
00:38:29
April April April fall stroke and then people got people started again it was it was yeah that's right that's right so
00:38:35
there was some some photographers hanging because we said where we're going we said we're going to I think the
00:38:40
place was called Stairway to Heaven and K Road and we said we were going there but we weren't we were just in like a
00:38:45
boardroom in the office yeah um yeah people got wound up about that yeah did you get in trouble for that back home no
00:38:50
no cuz my sister thought it was a dumb laugh so yeah it was a good so up do because they didn't know what day was
00:38:57
and apres and it was April Fool's joke how good these are good memories yeah
00:39:03
hey just shows that I've got good memory in my heart yeah but have you still got
00:39:06
all these things on cassette I think I have yeah yeah yeah but so they your favorite moments yeah they are the best
00:39:12
moments yeah yeah what do you have any moments on me Dom this one today I think yeah my
00:39:20
memory is terrible um no there was so many good moments there was so many good moments uh like those ones you mentioned
00:39:27
they're good um going to the game that was good fun as well yeah you're up in Oakland so we
00:39:33
thought and since we're not going to LA right now we'll just have a couple of
00:39:35
days in Oakland yeah um we're having our own mini holiday yeah so we're going to
00:39:39
go to Rainbow's End yeah hopefully you're tall enough to go on most of the
00:39:42
rides yeah that's what you've been saying all the time yeah unbelievable unbelievable D unbelievable
00:39:51
what if that's what a true friend is yeah so the future what does the future
00:39:54
hold for you I'm looking forward to I'm look really looking forward to this um
00:39:58
this week um this week ahead of us what we're going to do first of all yeah and
00:40:02
hopefully yeah yeah what about what about beyond that so later this year we've got the trip to La yeah um but
00:40:09
yeah you and I we're not young men anymore you're 50 I'm 51 unbelievable
00:40:14
yeah what's what are your goals for the future or what do you what else do you
00:40:17
hope to do I don't I don't really set goals but I just want to yeah just be
00:40:23
just be my just be myself be normal yeah so what ises an average day look like for you now so you wake up
00:40:30
when early still what's early it's just just a normal day for me so about uh
00:40:36
8:00 mhm yeah oh that's not that's not early early yeah you see wake up at 8:
00:40:42
then what oh uh go on Facebook MH annoy people messenger yeah yeah and then get up eat some breakfast yeah I do
00:40:55
yeah yeah and then what about during the day do you still go to the idar center you you've spent most of your adult life
00:41:00
like volunteering at this place in need a recreation center called the the center yeah you still go there I still
00:41:06
go there occasionally when I want to yeah yeah yeah but if you don't go there
00:41:10
what do you do I just stay home do you yeah and oh stay home and yeah just yeah not much not much happening do any of
00:41:19
these days right just well let watch TV or yeah yeah is that is that by choice or you just don't you don't have things
00:41:26
to do I don't yeah I just don't want to go because nothing else is happening
00:41:30
and you could go for a walk around like do people see you around and they toot at you and occasionally yeah
00:41:36
occasionally unbelievable yeah unbelievable you're the king of denan I am that's why I call my house the King's
00:41:42
Castle oh do you yeah I call my house the King's Castle I should have a sign like
00:41:48
students do call him the King's Castle yeah oh yeah yeah um you used to live around the corner from um the Banes
00:41:56
hey did you know did you know David I knew the family quite well don't talk about that yeah cuz I my friend Steven
00:42:02
that's his brother he went the boys pade with me right right yeah don't talk
00:42:06
about the whole don't talk about it cuz you live quite close to the house so the house got burnt down after yeah
00:42:13
yeah yeah yeah why don't we talk about it don't no okay yeah to yeah okay and
00:42:19
and um did you go to the school where there was a politician called David Benson Pope Bayfield yeah did you go to
00:42:26
that school yeah yeah and he he was he he made the news us both yeah so he was a labor politician and he made the news
00:42:33
because some students some old students came out and said oh when he was a teacher if you were talking in class had
00:42:37
had like put a tennis ball in your mouth well lucky for some lucky for some I wasn't in his class I just can't I come
00:42:43
in on that because but other people just want to come in they can't hear the
00:42:46
can't they can they can't hear this say but I can't say anything about cuz I was
00:42:50
in his classroom so yeah yeah yeah geez you would have had all the tennis balls if you were in this class I probably
00:42:55
would yeah yeah good good old Bayfield yeah hey well this has been fun today Steven it has been hanging out hanging
00:43:02
out with you yeah is there anything else that you wanted to talk about before we
00:43:05
wrap up the podcast oh like what what do you think what no no no I'm just it's just a question no
00:43:15
no no not really not really but I just want to say thank you to everybody and yeah yeah that's cool and um good luck
00:43:22
to you I need it yeah do you why I need it I need all the L to go my way so yeah
00:43:27
do you why I don't know yeah yeah I do worry a bit about you for the future why
00:43:33
is that do well I feel I feel like you need to be um just just just doing more being active yeah yeah yeah yeah getting
00:43:40
out of the house a bit more not healthy for you just to sit at home yeah you're
00:43:45
a social guy I am yeah yeah I am yeah but but only you can do that yeah yeah not like no one no one else can make you
00:43:55
yeah y so we do that when we get back yeah which try do yeah by the way I'm very disappointed today that you're not
00:44:02
wearing um blue and goo TGO colors well that's something different because this
00:44:06
is out this is a special Advent this is a special time you don't have to be color you got to be look because I've
00:44:14
seen your out other people's outfits they wear they don't wear their true
00:44:18
colors so I just want to be yeah yeah yeah fair enough fair enough and the first thing I noticed today when I
00:44:23
picked you up from the airport you didn't have your transistor radio with you I've given been up radio for now on
00:44:28
since JJ and yourself have left radio so I've just yeah so oh no you you still
00:44:32
love it though I I heard you recently talk to Marcus slash on News Talk ZB yeah yeah that's that's different all
00:44:38
together though but you don't you don't you don't feel the need to carry around
00:44:41
radio and listen to I just don't listen to any other radio stations I like listen to talk B but don't like listen
00:44:45
to the music these days because they they're so they so they ramble on too much now these days and yeah they're not
00:44:51
too support they're not too supportive as well you didn't mind the rambling on
00:44:55
when it was uh us rambling on to you that's okay that's okay you guys you guys we we
00:45:02
we we got on we got on with each other yeah yeah we did we did and we still do and um you're a good friend yes thank
00:45:09
you Dominic uh Stephen thank you for being on the podcast today yeah and um let's give a high five high f
00:45:16
b where are we going for dinner tonight look or should we do the joke again oh God looking forward to going to the um
00:45:23
Sky to because I hear they've um got uh what's it the restaurant's called I think is um JD
00:45:30
Tomy um you if you go to the toilet and you you lose your table yeah it's a it's
00:45:36
a revolving restaurant yeah but what did you call it oh you said oh we're going
00:45:39
to a revolving restaurant tonight and I made a joke I said no no no we're going
00:45:42
to an unhygienic restaurant it's a revolting restaurant no it's not I'm I'm
00:45:46
I'm hearing I'm hearing it's lovely it's good food and everything I'm looking
00:45:49
forward to see what the meals are like no it it is it's very par and very expensive it's at the top of the sky
00:45:54
tower but it can be quite disorientating cuz it does it moves just very very slowly but it moves around in a full
00:45:59
circle I'm looking forward to seeing it and looking forward and getting lots of
00:46:02
photos for everybody yeah oh good on you yeah hey well Steven Gibson also known as Steven from denan um there'll be a
00:46:09
lot of people that have listened or watched this podcast that know you from the edge and maybe they had an opinion
00:46:15
on you and maybe that opinion's changed and there'll be a lot of people that are
00:46:18
just um learning about you for the first time but um thank you for coming on the
00:46:22
podcast thank you for having me yeah and thanks thanks for everything you've done
00:46:26
as well and I'm looking forward to tonight thank you

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Episode Highlights

  • Steven from Denan's Journey
    Steven shares his journey from radio to podcasting, reflecting on his past and future.
    “It’s been a very important part of your life.”
    @ 11m 02s
    February 12, 2025
  • Memories of Mom
    Steven opens up about his late mother and the impact she had on his life.
    “It’s been a long time without her...”
    @ 17m 04s
    February 12, 2025
  • Facing Family Challenges
    Steven discusses the struggles of caring for his father after his mother's passing.
    “He’s been diagnosed with cancer...”
    @ 18m 15s
    February 12, 2025
  • Living Alone
    A heartfelt discussion about the challenges and loneliness of living independently.
    “It's a lonely time and no one to talk to.”
    @ 21m 19s
    February 12, 2025
  • Gratitude for Support
    Expressing deep appreciation for the support received from friends and the community.
    “I just want to say thank you from the top of my heart.”
    @ 28m 04s
    February 12, 2025
  • Trip of a Lifetime
    Plans for a significant trip are discussed, highlighting the excitement and anticipation.
    “It's a trip of a lifetime.”
    @ 28m 56s
    February 12, 2025
  • Memorable Moments
    Recollections of humorous and emotional moments from past experiences, showcasing friendships.
    “You got very attached to all the girls.”
    @ 37m 23s
    February 12, 2025
  • Memories of a Nightclub Joke
    A humorous recollection of an April Fool's prank at a nightclub.
    “It was an April Fool's joke!”
    @ 38m 26s
    February 12, 2025
  • Looking Forward to the Future
    Discussing future plans and goals as they age.
    “What does the future hold for you?”
    @ 39m 52s
    February 12, 2025
  • Dinner Plans at a Revolving Restaurant
    Excitement builds for a unique dining experience.
    “We're going to a revolving restaurant tonight!”
    @ 45m 39s
    February 12, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • I was really anxious about going over there...
    Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!
  • It’s lonely without her being around...
    Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!
  • It's a lonely time and no one to talk to.
    Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!
  • I just want to say thank you from the top of my heart.
    Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!
  • I keep everything quiet.
    Stephen from Dunedin - NZ’s Most Infamous Radio Fan, Givealittle Bucket List Trip & More!
  • I need all the luck to go my way!
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Key Moments

  • Unbelievable00:23
  • Mom's Passing17:34
  • Dad's Health18:15
  • Living Alone21:19
  • Gratitude28:04
  • Good Memories39:00
  • Future Plans39:52
  • Dinner Excitement45:39

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