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EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case

April 13, 2025 / 02:14:05

This episode features Detective Inspector Scott Beard discussing his battle with cancer, his extensive police career, and the challenges faced in law enforcement. Key topics include prostate cancer, the Grace Millane case, and the evolution of policing in New Zealand.

Scott Beard shares his personal experience with prostate cancer, detailing his diagnosis and treatment plan. He emphasizes the importance of regular medical check-ups and encourages men to prioritize their health.

The conversation shifts to the high-profile Grace Millane case, where Beard played a significant role. He reflects on the emotional toll of the investigation and the impact it had on him and the victim's family.

Beard discusses the changes in policing over his 45-year career, including advancements in technology and the increasing complexity of crime. He highlights the importance of empathy and support for victims and their families.

Throughout the episode, Beard expresses his commitment to community service and the importance of mental health, both for himself and his colleagues in the police force.

TLDR

Detective Inspector Scott Beard discusses his cancer battle, the Grace Millane case, and the evolution of policing in New Zealand.

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Detective Inspector Scott Beard, welcome to my podcast. Dom, thanks very much for
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having me. I'm here with Scott Beard today. I'm just day off playing those
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undercover. undercover. So, you are you are you 15 minutes late. Um, which is is fine. U, but you said
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you you sent me an email uh um long before the podcast saying that you were going to be 15 minutes late and you said
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you'll explain everything when you get here. Yeah. So, by by the way, it was
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the most copish email ever. So, the point. No, look, I and breaking news. You know, my family know, close friends
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know, but my cancer's back and I've been up at Oakland Hospital all day today
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having had CT scan, MRI planning cuz I' got to have radiation which starts next
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month. So, uh, when I had the prostate cancer back in 2019 and the operation, you know, I was told at the time was a
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lot more advanced, aggressive than anticipated. So I've been monitored every 3 months uh since the operation
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and last year my PSA and I don't have a prostate PSA still sits there uh levels
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went up and they went over the line where you have to go and see the radiation oncologist and it stayed above
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the line hasn't gone up but it stayed above the line and so it's I'm been I've
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been told and I'm accepting it's more precautionary let's get in early fix it
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and radiation is what I'm going to have to have be a month uh starting 12th of
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May. So yeah, I know you weren't expecting that, but that's uh unfortunately been at Oakland Hospital
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and the staff there have been so good and as I've been there since 8:00 this
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morning and um why didn't you why didn't you cancel the podcast? Well, because I
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was sort of in the city and it was just, you know, we'd planned it and I've got
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in my mind, okay, I've got this, got this. Originally, I was supposed to be in the hospital yesterday. It was going
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to be on the Wednesday, but then late they changed and said, "Oh, can we do
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the Thursday?" I said, "Yeah, okay, that I have to look after myself, my
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health." And that's the thing about the prostate, you know, like I put the
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message out there and I don't, you know, I don't want the sympathy. I just want
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people to know that, you know, I diagnosed my prostate was diagnosed rather because I was getting yearly
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medical and blood test and my PSA back in 2019 was shown to going up. six weeks later was up higher and then I diagnosed
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prostate had prostate out and I think it's just men out there it's it's a
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simple blood test and it can save your life and that's the message I just want
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to get out there um you know woman's testing is so much more invasive than what a man has to go through as I say
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all I had was blood test and that's what I've been having every three months are
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you feeling um you I mean you sound really optimistic are you feeling optimistic and positive yeah I always
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have been positive and I take and it may we will be the medical people the oncologist saying look this is we've got
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it think we'll get there early and it's better to you know do the radiation now
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and wait to see and so I've I've had an MRI month six weeks ago um been seeing
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the radiation oncologist I've had to have hormone treatment to lower testosterone because the cancer feeds
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off testosterone so so then you have that hormone treat and there's a lot side effects and uh basically told my
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kids it feels like menopause because I get hot sweats and flushes and um yeah I can get a bit grumpy and my kids said
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yeah what's changed so so look it is what it is I can't change that but um I
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just want people out there sort of to know that there are a lot of people that go through it I'm normal human being and
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um yeah looking after health is a priority so if I have to watch my diet watch what I drink then that's what I
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have to do still exercise. Yeah, you you're very fit. You're you're a fit
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bugger. This this all feels um it feels quite it feels quite cruel. Like how old
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are you? You're 64 now. 64. 64. Yeah. So you're almost retirement age. you've had
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this um incredible life of service like from the age of 19 when you join you like you've done so much and it's like
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feels like it's the stage of your life where you should be winding down on the
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career and just enjoying the fruits of your you know lifelong service and um yeah I don't know it it feels unfair
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yeah well I don't I don't look that way I look at I look there's a lot people
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worse off than I am and I think hopefully I've got it early enough the radiation will
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I I have I know a few people have been through this and it was at the time I was on the prostate um the operation had
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it out you know the indication was that this could well happen and so while it hasn't been in the back of my mind now
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it happens okay stop that and you deal with it um I yeah it is what it is I can't change that I just uh do what I
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can you know I don't never wake up not wanting to go to work I really enjoy the
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work I do I enjoy you know the involve when I have cases and working for you know families faro just and so they're
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on tragic cases but you know like I've always said oh I treat people the way I
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would want to be treated and it doesn't matter what their backgrounds are you if
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they've lost a loved one to murder then they need this wrap around support yes what so prostate cancer 2019 um
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diagnosed shortly after David Melain's funeral around. No, no, it was so we had
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the Grace Main investigation in December 2018. In early January 2019, myself and
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the victim leazison officer flew to the UK for Grace's funeral, but there's a
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whole lot of investigative work to do over there. And you know every February I was having
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my medical checkup with the doctor and came back late January early February had medical.
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Since then there's been throat cancer melanoma. Yeah. It was back in it was during CO actually and once again my
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February check up with the doctor and he just did a test and what and then he says anything else I said oh you got
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this niggly cough but I think it's just because I'm wearing a mask all the time
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he goes oh he feels oh you got a lump so he end up having an ultrasound having a
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biopsy and oh hang thyroid cancer there so I had half the thyroid taken out most
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people stab me in the back um but it was funny and at the time at a time he said oh you've got a dodgy mole
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in the stomach I said well why don't you take it out and he said well I didn't
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have your consent I said like I wouldn't give you consent under anesthetic so I
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went back we took it out and then get a call three or four days later this is melan get back in here so they take a
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big chunk out uh and they came back and said look we've got it earlier had the
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it's almost yeah the tenles grow down and um hadn't And so he said, "We've got it." But
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every six months wake the skin check. Yeah. Thanks for sharing this stuff. Yeah.
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What a um Yeah, this has really rattled me. Yeah. Uh but that is life. And there's a lot of as I say, there's
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people who've gone through worse than what I'm going through. And you know, I
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can still exercise. Um yes, I get a bit more tired easier. Can't run as far as I
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like to, but um I can still exercise. And I have have a good life. f my kids, my grandkids, my partner. It's
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well, good luck with this this chapter. Yeah. Yeah. It's just another phase in
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my life and uh get through it. Yeah. So, uh on doing the research for this podcast today, I realized you and I have
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got something in common which I never knew. We both are from uh Palmer North. Yes. Um same um education background as
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well. So, the the Latin phrase nihil labor, what does that mean to you? Nothing gained without hard work. But
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it's hard labor actually lesson for labor. So yes, that's the Palms boys
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high school model school motto and uh yeah it was uh I went through there. I was a prefect there.
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Who was the who was the principal when you were there? Eric White. Oh yeah. They called him recctor then. Yeah.
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Yeah. Fantastic. And what was your what was your house? Gordon Albian Vernon. Vernon. I was
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club captain. Were you club captain? Yeah. I was captain of the first 11 football team. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Were
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you um did you embrace the marching? Of course. That's why so that's why I was
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so good at police college when I had to march. I could have done it. This is this is one thing I love about um uh
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this school that that that we shared Palmer North Boys High. Um I've been organizing a podcast in the previous
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week with um Ruben Love who's like an up andcoming rugby player. Plays for the
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Hurricanes, plays for the All Blacks. Um he's a lot younger than lot younger than
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you and I. um but same school background and on in our DMs we've been going backwards and forwards about what house
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we're in and the marching. So there's all these traditions that were at the
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school when I was there in the 80s you were there in the 70s I guess. Yes. And um they're still going on today. Yeah.
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It was interesting because I uh when was it end of 2023? I was guest speaker at the boys high school old boys
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association annual dinner. something went down there and then they had a few guys sort of, you know, at school when I
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was there and some of my good mates came along. It did really good catch up. Um,
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yes. So, and it was straight after school that you um went down to Trentham to um become a police officer at the age
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of 19. Got there's so much to talk about with you um Scott Beard. Um but in doing
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this research, so you've been a cop for 45 years. You you were in the news just
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last week for um you you were speaking outside court and it was for an offender that was found guilty for some covert
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filming. Pleaded guilty. Yeah. Spy camera, right? Yeah. And and it it just made me sort of think of the um just
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incredible changes you've seen in your careers. Like this crime would not have
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been possible in 1980 when you started. No. Technology has changed the world and
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sometimes for good like investigative wise CCTV what we can do around phones you know computers you know really helps
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with the investigations but it also is an enabler for those and you just take fraud scams u things like that uh you
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know the dare I say the child sexual abuse and exploitation online horrendous [Music]
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yeah other changes in your career, DNA, um drugs I guess as well, like just the complexity of drugs and the drugs that
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are available. Yeah, absolutely. Like I worked up in Kao as a detective for nearly 3 years way back in the early
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'90s and cannabis was huge. Yeah. You know, at times I thought the economy revolved around cannabis, but now it's
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the myth, you know, across society. It's myth is the scourge of society. Mhm.
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Um I've got a photo here. Oh gosh. What uh what do you think when you when you
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look at this guy? Yeah, that was the uh young console at the Trentham Police College cuz it wasn't
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Peru then. It we Trenth and uh Yeah. So 19 19. Yeah. I like I was at school in fact as a prefect my final year at
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school in 1978 and prefects were allowed to hand out detentions and so I was the first
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prefect to hand out attention they said oh you just be a policeman you know and guess what
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yeah is that what you why did you why did you want to be a cop did you want anything else well I had thought about
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being a lawyer it's just but I think the academics you know just yeah I there's I
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cuz I played football against some police officers who were, you know, at senior level at school and they were
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really good guys. I like them. And then my next door neighbor, their son was a detective sergeant, Snow Pratt in Palmer
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North at the time. And um yeah, just it was just that influence. I thought, "Oh,
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yeah. Okay. Yeah, do this." By the way, I've used the word cop a couple of times
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and I've noticed you've said um um police officer. Is is cop an offensive
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term or is it a uh I won't Well, no. not using it directly. Like way back it was
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the traffic cop and we were always just police and New Zealand police and I've
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always I just use the term police cuz I joined New Zealand police. Traffic? Yeah. Traffic cops. Ministry of
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transport. I vaguely remember them with the big boots. Black and white cars. Yeah. Yeah. You would have been you
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would have been a a police officer when the merger happened. Yeah. I was in KO at the time and you know like we Kao was
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small. You didn't have a lot of staff. you didn't have Dr. CB staff and we
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worked closely with MOT and so you know the merger was nothing too different for us really
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because we worked with them anyway so no one liked the e yeah it was different back then a different vibe um yeah that
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must have been an interesting change because suddenly you know you had police that did policing and then suddenly you
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had to you know I don't know hand out like speeding tickets and things and take on traffic duty abuse and and but
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look if you're looking to save lives and you know a lot of our work is around
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prevention you know and I want to talk about you know child sexual abuse later because you know that's one of my key
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worlds in terms of what I work in but it's just looking at the f trying to save lives and what and so speed alcohol
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drugs driving badly you know whether it's innocent or they kill themselves they're killing people dying and you
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just have to see the figures and uh and we got to have a role to play that Yeah.
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Yeah. I I mentioned on Instagram you were coming here and I asked if anyone had any questions and there there was um
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actually very few questions. They mainly just like um statements, people saying,
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you know, please thank Scott for his empathy and his compassion and you words like that that get bounced around. Are
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they are they good words to describe you? Do you think? Look, I can walk through an airport and somebody will
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stop me or straight someone say, "Oh, you're that policeman, aren't you?" And
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then they'll say, "Thanks for all you do." Yeah. Which is terrific. But I'm
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the public face and have the media profile. Yet my staff and the staff right around the country do fantastic
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work, you know. And no, we're not always going to get it right. It's just
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reality. But you know, investigative wise, you look at some of the investigations around the country and
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the results they get and you know, they put in a lot of work um working with the
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families, working, you know, and just getting to where they get to do a prosecution. And of course for me I I I
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would never go by without saying it's a team effort has to be the team and yes I
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sit at the top uh and I the media but it's a staff on the ground doing the hard yards and yeah we direct and
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guidance and that but they're out there doing it and uh it all comes together.
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Everybody it's no it's no different from a sports team the different positions if
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everybody does their part as a team you'll function well. So, um there's been massive changes in
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policing in the the time you've been involved. Um what about this guy here? Uh change big biggest changes in this
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guy here between then 1980 and now. Gosh. Well, I still Well, I'm playing walking football now. So, that's an age
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thing. Uh I I think it's just my knowledge. I think when you first join the police,
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you know, you look and because we deal with, you know, 90% of our work is dealing with some bad people, but in
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society, they're probably only 10% of society and it's easy to lose focus. And
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I think with experience, with age, you know, I look and I, if I use child sexual abuse as an example, uh I in fact
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I spoke up in Kaikoi beginning of last year, a group up there called massive men against sexual violence and they
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just wanted to highlight the sexual abuse of primarily children but also women up in society there. and they
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asked me to come and speak and I did and I I said look we get complaints we deal
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with them and we have to hold the offenders to account and that's our job but I said I've been around long enough
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now to say well what's happened to offender from this age growing up and as it was the speaker after me was a former
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gang member leader who's out of the gang his late 60s and he got up and started
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speaking and he just looked at me and he said from this age here I was physically
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being sexually abused are we not to do the same thing and so you know what are we doing in society to look after our
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young ones because they're the future and I I did a research paper health board and while what I what we're doing
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was more for juries around medical examinations but we looked at 20 years and one of the things I just because of
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my curiosity I just looked at where are these victims now and what he did from 1999 to
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2019. And so many of them were either alcoholics, drug addicted, criminals, lived in violent
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relationships, had health issues, mental health issues, and the worst thing I saw
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so much suicide. Now they are our children who are being sexually abused at a young age.
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Now, if we can do something now, we're going to save society so much money down
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the track. You know, the alcoholism, drug addiction, criminality, suicide, mental health. Um, and you know, I've
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worked in child sexual abuse 1989. I started working that field as a detective for three years. Uh, I've been
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a detective sergeant in charge of a child abuse team as it was as a detective senior sergeant. I uh oversaw
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the child abuse team or became a child protection team. And even now as a DI, I still and I, you know, I have child
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protection team, the child exploitation, which is all online stuff, child sex offender management, so the sex offender
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register and all the people on the register who have to be monitored by the team. So, so right through my career and
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yes, I've done other done homicides and I've worked with organized crime and
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financial crime stuff in general work, but that child sexual abuse has always run through my career. And um I just as
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I say when I go back to all the football coaching I've done it's because I see
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that as being kids in sport has been really positive a it's mentally good for
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them but physically it's good it teaches them life skills teamwork discipline
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punctuality I was a tough coach at times um and yeah and it's and if they're
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teenagers you've got them off the street and they're sort of involved they got to
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focus and I just I look back and I think gosh can society can we do more with some of the children who don't get the
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opportunity what can we do but what can I do and anyone listening to this is is it a is
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it a a neighborhood thing and a community thing oh yeah it it is a community thing like there's a lot like
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one of the things I've always thought of was you know say in the lower social
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economic where it's difficult and parents can't afford children being sport and um you know like if you had
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some type of social worker volunteer social worker pick kids up in a van, take them and then whether it was
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basketball, whether it's women touch rugby, whether it's football, you know,
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by just getting them out active and just it's something positive. But yeah, and
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it's easy for me to say, but it's hard to put into place, but you know, that's
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where you have volunteers out there who or sports, cultural groups, whatever. And it's fantastic. and I've been a
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volunteer and so I take my hats off to them because you know they give up their own time and it's for the betterment of
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future. Um it's hard to imagine a more like draining arm of the police to be in than
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um you dealing with the kids stuff. Yeah. And if I use child homicides, baby homicides, it's really difficult. And
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you know, a lot of our staff we work on there will have young children. Yeah. So
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I've got to be mind as a leader and boss. So I got more mindful of that and it's yeah I couple of years ago I was
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asked to facilitate management serious crime course at police college for two weeks which was for detective senior
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sergeants and senior detective sergeants um and the course theme was child homicide because I've run so many and I
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have a lot of contacts within the child abuse world. uh headquarters detective inspector and I ran the course and it
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was tough. You could see on those participants it's tough but you know the police are so good now compared to say
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when I started you know the wellness the welfare the psychological counseling you
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know psychologist available some of those squads you know my child protection child exploitation child sex
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management they are mandatory have to go for psychological counseling a couple times a year.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. The change changes in that time must have been seismic. Like um when you started I
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suppose you couldn't sort of show any sort of weakness or vulnerability at all. Um people tell you to harden harden
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the [ __ ] up. Yeah. Basically it was it was take a concrete film. You're Yeah.
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You're a [ __ ] if you But but it was Yeah. It was just a little bit the way
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it was the culture of it at that time. But you know like I look back at some of my DIS that I had as bosses and yeah
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what they said went. But there was nice good guys and you learned a lot and look
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as a boss you I've got my good points I've got my bad points and people can
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learn from me and I really enjoy now passing on my school's knowledge experience to the staff like I've been
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in Wellington this week uh you know presenting the course and uh you know I've got to that age where you know like
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what can I do to help this staff grow and be better detectives better police officers. you what are the biggest sort
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of leadership lessons you've got over the years? I think communication with the staff is
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important. like you know there was some bosses I had who it was just bang bang bang you do this there's no consultation
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no and I think communication is really key and important for our staff particularly the younger generation and
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consultation and I remember couple of years ago homicide we're working on and
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we're going places and so during the night my mind raised right should the business so I had a meeting with the
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NCOs's before we had a big team meeting and I said right this is what I want
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blah blah blah blah And one of my detective sergeants said I thought what what if we did this and did it that way
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and I thought actually that's better than my fault and you know he's operational he's on the street you know
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I basically s my office stuff like that and I thought no you're right and so I
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was quite prepared to change my view on what we're going to do because yeah and
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that's listen to my staff and I think that's important for staff and as leaders you know we've got to listen to
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our staff because they're the ones out on the You know, it's different on the street
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now than what it was when I was on the street. And I can have my views and I've
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got, you know, I've been there, done that for a lot of things, but it's different now. And so talking to the
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staff, it's that communication, that interacting, and you're not there as a
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boss, bang, bang, bang, you know, like you do as I say because I'm your Yeah.
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It's, you know, how's things going? You know, what's happening at home? you
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know, you know, like and like for me with my football, there's a number of staff who support various English
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football teams and so we have a good banter, you know, and I think that's that's really good for them. They
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haven't come to work. Yeah. I know some staff, well, I don't really speak the
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boss, but you know, the staff that know me come to life. And have you always been um like quite a compassionate and
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caring guy or is this something that you've um sort of developed over the years after dealing with, you know, so
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much sort of misery and grief? Well, I think early on in my CIB career, as I say, you know, there are some
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cases and you work on them and there were quite big cases, you know, the Rex Bill homicide in North Motel in
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1988 and then in ' 89 had the Swedish inquiry uh operation Stockholm and just
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dealing particularly operation Stockholm. I was involved with Swedish families when they came out. It was high
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department hogman at that time it hadn't been found and you know you feel for
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them and I think then I started working in child abuse and you these young children who are being abused and what
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can you do for I remember there was one young girl and it was a gang member sexually abused her
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and in the end he sort of made partial admissions when I interviewed him but back in those has Cor in New Zealand had
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cor and needs to fly a plane load of children over to Disneyland and I managed to get this young girl he's 9
00:25:29
years old to um on the flight to go to Disneyland and I think if we can do something for our children they've been
00:25:37
through grief you know my partner Gory Masters she's a survivor but she's just
00:25:42
written a book keeping kids safe and it's just gone out to every school in New Zealand and you know that's about
00:25:49
looking after the adult survivors of child sexual abuse because the triggering things that trigger them in
00:25:56
life and just carry on and on and on and whether they've been to the police,
00:25:59
whether the person's been charged, convicted, whatever, you know, they have to live their whole life knowing what
00:26:05
happened to them. And it's so abusive and yeah, intrusive. I Yeah. So I I do a
00:26:13
lot um quite happy to support he runs a charity called Handing the Shame Back. It's all about supporting adults
00:26:20
childish and I know I've been asked by them by have a help promote a global hand sign for children under 16 which is
00:26:29
a simple because children can't talk in certain situations. They don't know how
00:26:37
to verbalize or they're very scared or be believed. And so how do teachers, parents, family, friends pick up if
00:26:48
they're not saying anything? But if they use this a hand signal and it has been used and it has
00:26:56
saved some. So yeah, I'm I'm as because my career has lot in child sexual abuse.
00:27:04
I'm keen to work in that area. Yeah. even voluntarily just to help out so that as a society, as a country, we can
00:27:13
do something better. You mentioned a couple of um high-profile cases there from earlier in
00:27:19
your career. Um yes. So, let's go back and we'll run through some of these. So,
00:27:24
you graduate in 1980 as um a 19year-old and then um so all you're known at that
00:27:30
point is Palmer North and then you get sent to Oakland for some reason. paint a picture of Oakland in 1980. So
00:27:37
you're living you live in like some sort of police barracks, right? At the police
00:27:40
station. Yes. So some good homework. No, the uh Yeah. So you get when you join the police, I was asked, you know,
00:27:48
what's your four um main where would you want to go? You know, rank four places.
00:27:53
So I put I want to go to big cities. So Wellington's close to Palm. So I put
00:27:56
Wellington. I thought I like Napia, Hawksway, Napia, New Plymouth. And I'll put Palmer last. And they sent me
00:28:02
Dorland. So hello. Uh we used to have to live in barracks in Vincent Street right
00:28:08
next to the central police station and that was a 100 me walk to work and but there's an intercom in your room so they
00:28:15
could get you anytime they wanted and I I'd been to Oakland once for a football
00:28:20
tournament and you stayed on the shore and the tournament was at college and so I had didn't know at all and I remember
00:28:27
my first couple of weeks I was walking beat in Queen Street and someone comes up to me and you expected to be a
00:28:33
walking side and Someone came up to me and said, "Oh, where's the Canterbury
00:28:38
Building Society?" I looked and said, "Christ Church." Well, it was across the
00:28:43
road and about 50 m down. So, you soon learned, but that was that's what I knew. I that's all I knew. I didn't know
00:28:50
Aland at all. And uh you know, back then you had the boots, the skin, um some of
00:28:56
the bad boots. What are they? It was like a gang. Yeah. The skin head the boot boys. Yeah. Back then there was a
00:29:01
Yeah. Was that when um the the King Cobras were the Ponsby gang or uh they were? Yes. No, they were starting out.
00:29:08
Yeah, definitely out there. The head hunters were around. Uh yeah. And what were your big crimes then?
00:29:16
Oh, well, bank robberies, right? Yeah. I remember when I first joined the CV, bank robberies were huge. Yeah. All the
00:29:23
time. And um yeah, but we'll go into a bank, jump up the counter, fire a shot
00:29:28
through the ceiling and take money and run. And we did a lot of work around those. Uh be fair, fraud, like when I
00:29:36
first joined the CI, I was actually came as a uniform attachment and the weekend before I
00:29:42
started I broke my uh thumb playing football and a ball kicked into so they put me on fraud squad and course it was
00:29:50
check series back then. So you had the the checks of course. Yeah. It's a long
00:29:54
time ago. A long time ago. Checks have bounced and stuff like that. And uh yeah, sort of credit cards are just
00:30:00
starting to come into play. And it was different from Broadway where you look at it now and look at the online scams.
00:30:06
Look at the telephone scams, all that stuff. Yeah. You reflect on that now. It's a simpler time. I remember going to
00:30:12
the fish and chip store and there'd be like a wall of dishonored checks hanging
00:30:15
up there and please um and I've heard you make what what I think is a joke. Um, so the the police barracks where you
00:30:22
were staying, they had three rules. No women, no alcohol, no drugs. I've heard
00:30:26
you say in another interview you um obeyed one of the rules. Well, I think Yeah, you had drugs. No, sorry. Just
00:30:34
Yeah. Yeah. Jeez. Um, yeah. Can you remember your first arrest? I Funny you say because because I was thinking of
00:30:43
coming on here and it was in those days we could arrest people for being drunk in a public place.
00:30:50
And it was a female in her 20s and she was paraly. So we arrested for Ben. She pleaded not guilty cuz sometimes they
00:30:59
can plead guilty and pay a fine and go back then not guilty. Went to court and I had to go to court and the judge said
00:31:07
to me when I was giving evidence, could you understand her? And I said yes. He said she wasn't
00:31:15
drunk then and quitted her. And I thought to myself, I should have said yes because I've been drunk and I know
00:31:21
how to slur my words so I could understand. But anyway, it was but that was back then, you know, we don't do
00:31:26
that now. Yeah. Yeah. Um, when you started, how long how long did you see this career lasting? Did you imagine it
00:31:32
would be a entire your entire working life? Well, I I think back then, you know, it was one vocation in life sort
00:31:39
of thing, but I didn't know I didn't know where it was going to take me. Uh,
00:31:43
yeah, I I joined, you know, I was brand new in Oakland. didn't really know anyone couple of guys who were in my
00:31:48
wing and yeah you get to know people started playing sport get to meet more people uh you know met with wife then
00:31:57
wife and yeah married had children and you start to grow and then of course I've been in the job six years and some
00:32:04
of my mates had joined the CIB criminal investigation branch how is it oh it's
00:32:09
good it's really good you know lot of study it was bit fresher you know and I
00:32:14
thought Yeah, I'd been like spring block tour Queens riot. Um I just thought yeah
00:32:21
time you know murder is the number one crime in New Zealand and you want to be investigator that's what you want to
00:32:27
investigate. So joined the CRB in 1986. Just backing up a bit you mentioned yeah
00:32:33
the spring tour 1981. Yeah. Yeah. What was your involvement in that? So well I wasn't on the red squad but basically uh
00:32:42
particularly once the white Hamilton game was abandoned. Yeah. It was really ramped up. So I remember flying in
00:32:50
Hercules down to New Plymouth for the next game. Uh then we flew to Wonganui. In fact we flown to Wonganui. We got
00:32:58
down there. Intelligence was there was going to be a big protest in Ka Pass in Oakland. So we had lunch and we flew
00:33:05
back. We didn't even go to police the game and then you know you would obviously
00:33:13
every basically Wednesday and Saturday when there were games there were protests and so you'd have to police
00:33:18
those and yeah just yeah looking after Eden Park time security there for for a young man so 20 years old 21 years old
00:33:29
at that point um a relatively new cop um is that that exciting and exhilarating Uh yes and no. You know, it was the
00:33:36
unknown. Hadn't been through this before and you know, the training was different. We we certainly didn't have
00:33:43
the protective gear that police have to have now. And but it was also quite sad.
00:33:49
I remember one time there was a protest and was marching down Simon Street and we had to get on a bus
00:33:56
and line up as protest walk past and they'd be yelling at you and have phones. And I remember standing next to
00:34:04
one of the um Mari police officer and he got abused. Yeah. You know, they they seem to target him and I just I didn't
00:34:13
like that. And then but we had to then they'd walk past the protest would walk
00:34:16
past, we'd have to get back on the bus, drive further down the street, get out
00:34:20
and go through it all again because we didn't have enough staff and that's how
00:34:24
we had to police it. And uh yeah, so it was interesting and I I know people have
00:34:28
their views and I don't get into politics around that. Um my only thoughts is that police staff had to be
00:34:35
there. We didn't have a choice. That was our job to be there. Whether we be supported or not, uh we had to be there.
00:34:42
And sort of the worst thing for me was one of the guys I knew been on the Red Squad ultimately commit suicide cuz he'd
00:34:49
been severely injured. And um what was the Red Squad? So like the red squad was well no that they were a squad formed
00:34:57
trained and they traveled around with the spring box at their hotel and they did the Yeah. And they were the ones who
00:35:06
went on you know white cattle went onto the field um highly trained. Really good
00:35:10
guys. Really good guys. Yeah you know I knew quite a lot. Yeah. Yeah. Um yeah, in in terms of um like mental health and
00:35:18
and suicide within within police, is it much of an issue? The things that you guys you guys do and experience, it's
00:35:24
it's not normal. Well, I know of three star three star who have committed suicide way back. You know, the police
00:35:33
now, as I said before, have really moved on and in terms of their wellness and welfare for the staff, it's a priority.
00:35:40
And as a leader, it has to be my priority. I had to look and you know do I notice something going on here and if
00:35:45
I do hang on you need to take a few days off just um and you know the availability of going to a psychologist
00:35:54
you know which said before I've been to psychologist but it's a bit like I said
00:35:58
the analogy is you have a car you get a warrant for the car well going to psychologist means like get a warrant
00:36:06
just making sure that you are functioning last yeah I'm 100% what you what was When did you first see a
00:36:13
therapist? How old were you? Uh oh, no. This fact for me it wasn't no during
00:36:22
the around 2011 or 12 because some of the squads we had our child protection they were then had to go to see the uh
00:36:31
psychologist. And so I would go while I wasn't down in the weeds doing the dayto-day investig investigative work
00:36:38
you know because I had my staff there I had to deal with them. I would go so I could get a picture of a what's going on
00:36:45
with my staff if I needed to but also right okay this watch this with staff I've got to watch this myself thing but
00:36:53
you know I have to grace my own case I saw the psychologist just just to get essay it's like wonder if it get check
00:36:59
yeah yeah I I feel like in some areas there still is like a a stigma about it or it seem to be seem to be weak but um
00:37:06
it's definitely not it's it's wonderful it's like a personal trainer for your
00:37:08
head it's it That's brilliant. And you know, my children, we have grandchildren. You know, I want to be
00:37:14
good them. I want to be happy and playing and all that. Try to stay fit. Um, but Oh, no. As I mentioned earlier,
00:37:22
like I can't reiterate this. Um, I I think you're in great neck for for a man
00:37:26
that's almost at retirement age actually for any age. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I say I
00:37:30
just I've always believed that physically fit, mentally fit and cuz I've played sports. I've run, you know,
00:37:36
I used to run half marathons and stuff like that and uh yeah, age is catching up on me and some of the old football
00:37:41
injuries is catching up. So, I can't run as much as I'd like to, but you just
00:37:46
change what I do. So, I have a little routine now where you know I'll do press
00:37:50
ups, sit-ups, weights, um, and then go for a a basically K run, then do my sit-ups, weights, and do that again.
00:38:00
Then do five minutes on the X cycle, then do my sit-ups, press ups, weights, and stuff, then go for another run, you
00:38:06
know. So, I've just I've changed my fitness, but I still do that. I try and
00:38:09
do that two to three times a week. Yeah. So, I've heard stories about you from
00:38:14
previous colleagues that e even though you didn't have to do this, you still um
00:38:17
put your hand up to do the police fitness test like well into your 50s like dragging a trailer around and like
00:38:22
climbing up over a fence. You did it last year. Why? You're a desk jockey now, aren't
00:38:27
you? Yeah. But I just it's sometimes that's about leadership, you know. Hey,
00:38:32
probably for me personally, I'm not let them think I can't do it. Ego, but but I
00:38:36
for the Yeah, I'll go out and do it. Yeah. you know, and uh you know, like I
00:38:41
think at 50 you can touch the wall, but you know, last year I went over struggle
00:38:44
to get over it, but I got over someone took a photo of me going over. But yeah, no, it does. And that's
00:38:50
just a personal challenge. Can I stay fit enough to keep doing the PCT and the full PC going over the wall? That's
00:38:56
wonderful. I as a guy that's 52 now, I find that inspiring. Um yeah, I I hope
00:39:01
to be the same when I'm 64 as well. Um yes, so we talked about the uh the spring book rights in 81. And you
00:39:07
mentioned um also Queen Street Rights in '84. I had um I had Andrew Fagen on the
00:39:11
podcast last year who was the lead singer of a band called the Mockers. Yes. Yes. Um so they Queen Street Riot
00:39:17
um it was like an end of school year concert thing at AOT Square December 1984. Yeah. And andrew Fagen and his
00:39:26
band the mockers were playing in the afternoon. I asked him his recollections of it and he said, "Oh, there was some
00:39:30
bottles being thrown at him." But then afterwards, he just walked back to his
00:39:33
boat in West Haven. And of course, no internet, no cell phones, no technology. So, he slept blissfully unaware of what
00:39:39
was going on in his boat. And the next day, um, you know, managed to get to his landline and call his manager and his
00:39:45
manager was like, "Are you okay? Are you okay?" What What are your recollections
00:39:49
of that time? Okay. What caused it, by the way? Was it herbs in the afternoon? No. So, so what happened was there was
00:39:58
people who' got up on the o lane at the post office as it was then up on the ver and started
00:40:04
urinating. So police got up to put them down, you know, and you know, they got abuse, you know, and um
00:40:14
it started there and like that night cuz I was working at Aenddale myself and I had a permanent partner, a guy
00:40:23
car, but in it was a Friday night and that week we were our shift was 7:00 at night to 3:00 in the morning. But we
00:40:32
used to have to come in to this city to get a car for the night. And we had an inquiry, this is funny, we had an
00:40:41
inquiry section at Aenddale and they had this brand new, spanking new Ford Falcon. It was their pride and joy. You
00:40:50
know, it probably had even 100ks. It was so new and and we needed a car just to come to the station, get a car, go back.
00:40:56
So that's what we did. Took that on the way. And this is about 6:30 at night. on
00:41:01
the way. Oh, can you go to AT Square? It's disorder. It's out of hand. Um,
00:41:07
okay. Where do you want us to park? Oh, just park out where the picture theaters
00:41:12
are in Queen Street there. So, that's where we park this brand new packing gun. And at that time because we had our
00:41:19
PR24 to come out the longer pattern which come out during spring. Uh but we had had no he we just had a short sleeve
00:41:29
t-shirt and you get out there and next thing this riot is developing. It's getting worse and ultimately we ended up
00:41:38
doing bad charges down Queen Street but we had nothing in the bottle of flying. I think there's something like 56 police
00:41:44
officers taken to hospital that night. And I remember at one stage we were doing B charge down and you just go 20
00:41:49
meters instead of stopping the boss want to come back 10 meters which as soon as
00:41:53
you came back they b on but you'd be doing bon charge and the person I remember when the person beside me just
00:41:59
screamed and dropped you know and because all we had was our unifor we didn't have protective and yeah I think
00:42:07
I finished 3:00 the next morning and my partner was covered in blood. Yeah. And it was like a war zone. It was
00:42:16
horren. It was a riot and um yeah, I remember one time you'd heard that because we forcing them back down Queen
00:42:24
Street. Then you start hear the glass going and they were just smashing every shop window it was. And then you start
00:42:30
see the looting stuff. It was just out of control. And uh yeah, and the worst thing was that brand new wood falcon had
00:42:40
every panel smashed. He was on this roof and yeah, those inquiry staff because they're older policemen just gave me
00:42:48
grief. I still know see one of them and he still gives me grief. Oh, it was like your fault. Yeah, cuz we
00:42:55
took their car and you know cuz we're going to pick up our car we have the night and take their car back. You know
00:43:00
that didn't happen. So So I think um Dave Dobin faced some charges didn't cuz
00:43:06
I think his band Smash was on stage at the time. Yeah. Yeah. Um Yeah. Yeah. Do you like DD Smash or Dave D? I do like
00:43:13
the music. Yeah. I'm not impressed because I had friends who were cuz there was only police by a sergeant who I knew
00:43:21
I actually played football with and five star and of course it's a full AS square
00:43:27
and they turn on them and yeah it was pretty tough and they're just trying to
00:43:31
do their job. Um but yeah I do listen to that music. Does it is it triggering at
00:43:38
times? Yeah. Yep. And and in fact if Yeah. But when I hear the name, you know, yeah, right, am I automatically
00:43:45
where I go? Yeah. Yeah. And the funny thing just bringing up the differences between like then and now in terms of
00:43:50
policing, like a big part of the Grace Main case, and we'll get into that, centered around um this the incredible
00:43:56
um CCTV footage. Yeah. High definition footage everywhere back then in ' 84.
00:44:01
Yeah. Um none of those looters would have been caught, right? Because there was not a camera anywhere. No, no
00:44:06
cameras there. Um, and another one you mentioned before, um, Operation Stockholm, the
00:44:12
Swedish tourists. Yeah. So, what was your involvement with that? That was down Cormander way, right? So, what
00:44:17
happened was I was working a dirty weekend and it was a Saturday and or Sunday, it might have
00:44:22
been. And uh the Swedish couple were missing. Not that we knew uh cuz it last been in ts and it had a car and the car
00:44:31
was found in Wland Street in M. And so the DI John Hughes at the time got a group of us together cuz we were
00:44:38
working and uh he just basically said right you you and you'll be on this quarry and you and you you'll be on till
00:44:47
the end. And he pointed to me you'll be on to the end. Uh and it started from
00:44:51
there and so we started doing general inquiries trying to background and stuff and then um cuz I had a couple of young
00:44:59
children at the time so staff who didn't went to based in teams I was based in
00:45:04
Oakland and yeah we went for a few months and then David Tam Harry's name came up and I was we we had a code that
00:45:16
if the detective senior sergeant rang us and said copy's boiling. We were on to
00:45:22
it. Definitely on to it. And I don't know, Wednesday night, something like that in the week about
00:45:29
7:00 and I get a phone call from Danger Coffees. Well, you know, because been full time on inquiry and so I went out,
00:45:38
I had to get a search warrant for the address where this family lived in Aenddale. And then we found property
00:45:46
belonged to a Swedish couple and it went from there. And then the next morning, uh, I think I finished about 2:00 in the
00:45:53
morning back at work 8:00 briefing and they had a team to go up to Men where Tim Hi was and I was included in that
00:46:03
team part of the interview team and and it started from there and and of course that day admitted to stealing the car,
00:46:14
but that was all. And it just went from there. And then my one of my tasks was to do background into him or his
00:46:23
criminal offending or cases and stuff like that which which I did and yeah we interviewed him a number of
00:46:31
times and he got charged and trial and you know it was a circumstantial case you know nobody's been found in no scene
00:46:41
was circumstantial and yeah got convicted. when you're interviewing someone like
00:46:46
that. Um yeah, what's it like? Do you Michelle Obama's got this quote that um I've you
00:46:54
I've used on the podcast heaps. I'll probably botch it up, but it's something
00:46:57
like um most people are hard uh to dislike up close. I feel like there's probably exceptions to that rule. And
00:47:03
I've had um an old lady who was on the podcast, Chuck Henwood. Oh, yeah. Yeah.
00:47:07
Yeah. Yeah. Um we talked to him about um who was Malcolm Ray. Oh, Malcolm Ray Jerry Thompson. Yeah. Yeah. No, Malcolm
00:47:14
Ray. He said dead in the eyes. Yeah. Imp impossible to like up close or far away.
00:47:18
Yeah. Um when you with someone like Tamahi who's, you know, been convicted and at that point was accused of like
00:47:24
murdering these um these backpackers. Yeah. What's it like? Look, he was an intelligent enough guy. He could talk
00:47:32
quite willingly talk about a whole lot of things. Obviously talk about the bush um that he grown up in.
00:47:37
Yeah. Like Yeah. He wasn't I've dealt with people before who we left in a room
00:47:43
with them where I never got that that Yes. I totally believe and I know it's
00:47:48
been through appeals and you know just even last year the court of appeal still found him guilty and um and I've always
00:47:56
believed that he was guilty you know my knowledge of all the files where he was involved in and my dealings with him and
00:48:03
yeah he won't people won't convince me otherwise. M yeah mate of mine put out a
00:48:08
podcast last year this guy Ryan Wolf put out a podcast called Gil which revisits
00:48:12
that when um you do do things like that like like do you listen to it does it bother you does it piss you off are you
00:48:18
indifferent about it you know I I have listened to it and I've spoken to Ryan
00:48:22
and uh there's certain things in there I go oh no that's not quite right but
00:48:27
there's other things oh that's interesting um but then you know from the investigation I was based in Oakland
00:48:31
yes once a week we had to go to Tims for a briefing to catch up with anything. So, I wasn't involved in a lot of the
00:48:36
stuff that went on down in Temp and the Daily Breakers, but we had so much work in Oakland to do. Uh, yeah.
00:48:45
Um, yeah. Another thing in your um amazing career, the 1990 Commonwealth Games, were you were you involved with
00:48:52
Protecting the Queen? Oh, yes, I was. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. So, uh, sorry been on a a brand new team basically called
00:49:01
witness protection. That's VIP squad and went down do personal protection officer training.
00:49:11
Did that and and that included driving, firing this. Uh we then when the Comwalth Games
00:49:22
were on and Prince Andrew came first and I was a security car driver behind their
00:49:29
car. So I'd have British personal protection officers in the car and yeah we went round and then
00:49:38
uh on the on a closing ceremony could by then the queen had come across and so I
00:49:43
was driver behind the queen's car. So, I've done a lap of Mount Smart driving around. So badass. Yeah,
00:49:51
it's cool. I know. I know. Driving, not running. Um, yeah, there's some good memories,
00:49:57
eh? Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Absolutely. The job is fantastic. You know, like, and I'd say to people, everything is
00:50:02
what you make of it. Yeah. Within the police, there are so many different fears. Whether you want to be a dog
00:50:06
handler, if you want to work some search and rescue, if you want to work on eagle, you know, like in going work in
00:50:12
rural, like I've worked in Kaoi, it's totally different work in the big city.
00:50:15
So I know both aspects you there's different you can work in the school community officer roles, all that sort
00:50:22
of stuff, youth aid, there's a whole vast range and yeah, everything's what
00:50:26
you make of it. And make sure you're happy. And that's my job. Make sure the
00:50:30
staff are happy because if they're not happy, they're not going to do a good
00:50:32
job. Yeah. Yeah. Most of the career um has been in Oakland, but yeah, there's
00:50:36
been stints in Kaoi and Hogs Bay. Yeah, they they eventually got you to Hogs Bay. I got there. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
00:50:43
Yeah. What were How long were those stints for him? What was that? So, uh Kao I went up there because I had some
00:50:49
in-laws who lived Kitaya North. I had very close friends who lived Kerry Kerry and I just wanted something to you. I
00:50:55
just wanted to experience something totally different and believe me it was uh you know they called me the tar seal
00:51:01
detective when I got up there because a lot of the 80% of the roads in Northland
00:51:05
or the far north were not tal you know they're just yeah dirt tracks up um so but it was a
00:51:14
different and like I try and explain even to some of my staff now that I remember going out getting called to a
00:51:20
homicide at the back of openoni there was a single man I Uh there was myself as a detective. It's 45minute drive. You
00:51:30
go there, you could see the person in this house and then Foreman had been a convicted murderer. Uh if you go there,
00:51:37
you see the person and he's obviously dead in the house and his blood know he's been murdered. But a double story
00:51:42
house and thought gosh, we'll say someone else is in the house. Need to check. Stepping plates that you see at
00:51:47
crime scenes now haven't got to Northland. We had them in Oakland, not here, but we didn't have them in
00:51:52
Northland. So I have to rip pages out of my pad and to climb so I didn't in case I
00:51:59
contaminated the scene. There's none there. We get back. We then had to drive
00:52:03
5 kilometers to get communications. So we're out of comps where we were and then you have to wait 3 and 1 half hours
00:52:12
for the DI and staff to arrive from Pere. That doesn't happen in the big cities. But so I know what it's like in
00:52:21
rural small town New Zealand. What was Do you Did that feel like um Yeah. Is it a small town sort of job? Do you know
00:52:28
what I mean? Slower pace of life for a cop police officer. It was It wasn't a
00:52:33
slower pace of life. It was horrendously busy. I don't think I've ever been so
00:52:36
busy in my life. Wow. The serious crime was just Yeah. Bl. And but of course they didn't have they didn't have social
00:52:44
media. You didn't have media mainstream media up there. And so stuff that we
00:52:50
worked on would be front page news under the radar. So you had to work on it. And
00:52:56
you know if you had to go have a high court trial that was in fun. So you could have a case in say open which is
00:53:03
45 minutes away from Kaoi and the trial would be in fun and you've got to get
00:53:09
your witnesses there. So you start really early and get them. It's yeah it's a totally different world. And then
00:53:15
Hawks Bay what was what was going on down there? Was it a lot of gang activity? Yeah. Yeah. I I first one of
00:53:21
the reasons why I went down, you know, good out of Kao was we we'd come back to
00:53:26
Oakland for holidays and the traffic and of course there's no traffic lights in
00:53:29
KO at the time. I thought I'm not going back to Oakland. And uh then we lived on
00:53:35
a farm. We moved into the farm got moved into a police house and everybody knew where the detective lived. And then my
00:53:42
oldest son got beaten up to school cuz his dad was a detective and I thought, "Oh, that's not fair." and I've got a
00:53:47
you know yes it's an invention for kids but I've got to also look after them and
00:53:51
so I thought would always like horse bay so I was trying to get promotion to sergeant down there but a detective job
00:53:59
came up in so applied got that went down there and within about four or five months got a sergeant job at Hastings
00:54:06
which was a real open because I didn't know my way around and uh yeah had the
00:54:11
staff but it's also going back to uniform sergeant was leadership management 101 time. So, yeah.
00:54:21
Yeah. One thing that amazes me is like how much you've you've done. So, there's
00:54:24
the the career side of things, but also um your dad of four, three sons and a daughter. Yep. And a granddad now. We'll
00:54:29
get to that chapter of your life later, but um also like a a mate of mine, Brad,
00:54:33
messaged me and he said, "You coached his football team for a while and you
00:54:36
were president of the club." Um how Yeah. First of all, the extracurricular stuff
00:54:42
blows my mind and I suppose it's an essential thing to have that sort of balance, but I don't know how you how
00:54:46
you prioritize and fit it in. But also, um the family stuff like did you were there a lot of sacrifices made like
00:54:52
things that you missed because you had to drop everything in order to get back to a crisis at work? Absolutely. It was
00:54:59
um and and probably a really good example is we moved to Kaoi and we lived out on a farm in Kai. It was during the
00:55:06
school holidays. I had four children. My daughter was only six months old and within I think it's a week of being
00:55:15
working starting working up there. It was school holidays and cuz we live on farm so your nearest neighbor is about
00:55:20
200 meters away and you know my then wife didn't know anyone around and there's a homicide in Pong
00:55:29
which I got sent to and I was out of town for 10 days. So she's left by herself with the children and that's
00:55:36
where those small communities the wives and partners really get together and support each other which is really good.
00:55:43
So uh yeah I just think that there was times where yeah I did miss birthdays um which was
00:55:54
sad. Um but they understood you and we taught and kids are fantastic. They've
00:55:59
grown up now they're adults. I I know they're proud of me, but I am so proud
00:56:04
of them and what they've achieved and what they've done and uh Yeah. just
00:56:08
Yeah. that that they're my will. I just um the grandkids it's yeah and that's
00:56:15
you and you of course when your children start to grow up and they get to start playing sport and so I was involved with
00:56:21
coaching which is really great. as I said had three boys and a girl. Um I said to my boys once you reach teenage
00:56:27
years I'm going to stop coaching you because I don't want to lose the relationship the father son relationship
00:56:32
and give you advice but I'm not going to be coaching you and of course my oldest
00:56:36
boy at high school first year high school played football then I'm going to play rugby.
00:56:43
What? And that was but good on him. Yeah. He ended up playing league end up being vice captain of the college verse
00:56:49
15. Uh yeah that's it didn't matter as long as there's multiple boards you know
00:56:55
my daughter well gymnastics net football um some sons that surf I surf life saving all the kids that surf life
00:57:03
saving uh athletics I just anything to keep them occupied and yeah and I just got involved as a volunteer just got
00:57:11
involved coaching managing help me out uh and yeah then of course football club coast and 96 came back to Oakland
00:57:20
and just started coaching. One of mine in the police said, "You should get on
00:57:24
the junior committee did." And then, you know, just through the coaching, I I
00:57:31
ultimately did the international team coaches license back then through New Zealand football and I wasn't competent
00:57:37
yet at the end. So, I didn't gain that, but I had my national license. Uh but I
00:57:43
worked with New Zealand football coaching in theirmies and yeah I'd take you know week off work to run school
00:57:49
holiday programs up this coast and um yeah and then just giving back and then I got I like coaching the little ones
00:57:56
you know sort of seven eight years old but I also like coaching the 17 year olds the teenagers and because you can
00:58:03
have a really good a good role model and I know police throughout the country who
00:58:08
are involved in sports clubs and I've got some friends who've done it and I
00:58:11
think it's in the DNA to be community oriented, to be community-minded and get
00:58:15
out there and help in the community. And yeah, I see it. And you know, like for me, the big honor really is that there's
00:58:25
probably nearly a dozen players I've coached, both boys and girls, that join
00:58:28
New Zealand police, you know, and I think, well, you know, if I was a good role model for them and that's what
00:58:34
they've done. And I know there's other police out there around the country who
00:58:36
do the same thing. And I'm sure there's other kids who could have been doing the
00:58:40
police. God, you've been so generous, eh? You know, be easy to go, listen, you know,
00:58:47
I'm I'm tired. You I've got a I've got a family and my job and that's enough. Um
00:58:52
yeah, Brad, who I mentioned, a friend of mine. Um he wanted me to ask you about some FBI training. He said, "I've got
00:58:58
some you've got some great yarns about that." Did you What was FBI training?
00:59:01
So, you know, like I've been fortunate with New Zealand Police. Um some of the
00:59:05
leadership courses I've been on like back in 200 six I went to CRA for a month on a
00:59:14
what's called a management series crime course which is like almost a South Pacific type course but run by AFP in
00:59:21
CRA and there you get a lot of media training like we had almost a week of media training which was good you know
00:59:27
starts to repair you and although I'd already done some media I was I was a detective seen about it. And then in
00:59:35
2007, I went back to CRA for a um human trafficking for sexual exploitation course, a 3-week course um
00:59:46
which is around human trafficking, you know, forced labor, sex servitude. Uh and then I was really lucky in
00:59:55
2010. I was off the chance to go to quantico FBI academy over in the states for basically it's a 3 month or two and
01:00:04
a half month course which is like a university semester so you had to do seven subjects and I remember at the
01:00:12
time I was booked to go in January 2010 in the December my mother had been and she had had cancer 14 years earlier but
01:00:20
had been diagnosed with terminal cancer and I remember between the Christmas and
01:00:24
New Year I' taken down to the oncologist and she got off the toilet and I just
01:00:28
said to him, "Oh, next week I'm off to the States for 3 months and he just
01:00:31
looked at me and he shook his head." Oh. So I had to ring up and they changed it
01:00:36
to July and my mother passed away in February. Um so we yeah went across to Quantico seven sub you had to do witness
01:00:45
and law enforcement was compulsory. Uh the international students there's seven
01:00:49
uh there's sorry 272 people on the course and 30 of us were from all around the world. There was one from New
01:00:56
Zealand and the New Zealand police was at that time was sending one staff member every two years. So I was really
01:01:03
fortunate to go. Uh there's a couple from Australia but just Europe all around the world and uh yeah I'm still
01:01:10
Facebook friends with most of them and it's great. But yeah the course yeah so
01:01:16
fitness and law enforcement um international law paper. I did public speaking. I did police and the media did
01:01:25
strategies for dealing with violent crime, managing death investigations and last one was the
01:01:32
psychological profile of street and prison gangs. So it was like being at university the whole semester because we
01:01:39
had sort of small tests and presentations to do on it and uh but yeah it was fantastic but what I saw was
01:01:46
like my roommate he had shot and killed someone in the line of duty. There was a
01:01:51
guy across the room from me who had shot and killed a guy in the line of duty, but at the same time he had been shot
01:01:56
and you can see the facial reconstruction. Uh, and but that was the normal thing. That was life then. And
01:02:03
you know, dare I say, we're starting to see that a little bit now, New Zealand
01:02:07
police. But yeah, it was different like cuz in the FBI academy and they're from
01:02:12
all the law different law enforcement agencies across the state, police department, immigration type, um, drug
01:02:19
and alcohol Okay. Um, yeah. And they weren't allowed to have their fire for firearms. Well, they felt
01:02:26
naked. I remembered one time we went to a Walmart and they just couldn't believe
01:02:31
they were going without their fire for firearm. What? So what? You know, but not to them. Yeah. Yeah. What do you
01:02:38
think? Should should it should New Zealand police be armed? Look, I have I have views and it's easy for me because
01:02:44
I sit up in the office. I'm not on the street daily and I if I look at say small rural town small town rural New
01:02:53
Zealand where's your backup where's your and maybe they should you know in the
01:02:57
biggest cities there's a lot more backup it's getting to a stage you ultimately
01:03:02
you know a decision will be made now yeah I sort of swing both ways I sort of think in the big city maybe not um some
01:03:12
of the things that we put in place seem are doing well. They won't be perfect,
01:03:16
but once again, I'm not on the street. I'm not the one basic. And I read our
01:03:19
occurrences every day and there's always firearms being found. There's and you've
01:03:23
just seen the media. One of our team um this week found a 3D um firearm, you know, and all these guns
01:03:30
and there's a photo in the herald and and they look real and they do operate
01:03:35
like real and that's a real concern about firearms out there and the safety for our staff is huge.
01:03:43
So all this training you had the FBI staff and the media training in CA CRA I suppose um and all the experiences you
01:03:50
had as a police officer um pre Grace Main I suppose it all sort of you comulated yeah commulated commulated
01:04:00
yeah and to being the right man at the right time to be fair I had as a detective in Kao I'd done media as a
01:04:07
detective sergeant in Ory I'd had to do media so it wasn't knew and including like I was the 2 IC
01:04:16
of as a detective sergeant of the Joan McCarthy homicide in Pong 1998 and you know that role went for six
01:04:25
and a half weeks and there's lot and as to see you've got to organize coordinate
01:04:30
put the file together yes you have a team and you have a um B manager but everything falls on you to make sure
01:04:38
everything works and so there's a lot of pressure stress on that and so but my
01:04:43
boss let me do some meeting around that you know and and that's what I'm doing
01:04:47
I'm trying to get some of my staff to do more media some of them really nervous
01:04:50
don't worry but um it gets easy anything gets easier the more you do it correct
01:04:54
correct and so I had already done uh different media aspects and even leading up to before Grace Main I've done um
01:05:02
cold case series uh different TV show different media for different homicides crimes so you you the more you do the
01:05:10
more confident you get um you can never predict every question that comes and you can't answer every question
01:05:16
unfortunately because that's that's the nature of the work we're doing but yep
01:05:21
it's you get to grace me and and it was interesting because you know while I wasn't involved
01:05:28
in the media with the Swedish inquiry is international and the media and I know there's a lot of media involved uh
01:05:36
coming over particularly around time of resident court cases like that And you know I sort of was aware of me I wasn't
01:05:42
involved in that aspect of it obviously as as a detective but I was very conscious of it and you know there's
01:05:49
some other cases that came up where international and media and so as soon as that grace case the media was going
01:05:56
to be huge and and one of the things that happened was um and the family and like a lot happens here in New Zealand
01:06:02
now had put her missing on a community Facebook page and the Essex media had picked that up. So essentially some of
01:06:10
the British media knew before we even had the complaint that she was missing in New Zealand. And of course it didn't
01:06:16
take long once we had the complaint started investigating uh that media museum media picked it up
01:06:27
and it was even on day one and so came in on the Wednesday afternoon just got some basic inquiries
01:06:35
done and it was getting updated up to about 10:00 that night and the next day we start with the investigation get an
01:06:41
investigation team start and the media questions had already started And so I ended up having two police
01:06:49
media staff with me the whole time because it was so intense. Yeah. So So this all happens um in your
01:06:58
late 50s. You're 58 59 years old. Pro prior prior to that, what would you have said was your like career
01:07:05
definfining moment? Uh I'd had a couple before that like the you know the Swedish inquiry was huge
01:07:13
and you know the result and my involvement because I had been part of the interview team with Tamary. Uh and
01:07:21
so that was big for me. The Joan McCarthy homicide was really big because Travis Burns was the offender
01:07:30
and it had gone on for four months before we got on to you know him as being he is the offender
01:07:40
and there's a lot of pressure during the trial and so I was basically two years
01:07:45
on that from time of investigation in the November 1998 right through to when the trial ended tidy up everything uh
01:07:53
yeah two years on and of course a trial that big and there's a lot of pressure
01:08:00
right there's pressure um because that time you know DNA And you know crosscontamination was an issue uh
01:08:08
raised as defense and I know the SR scientist was under a lot of pressure and you I was told at one stage that if
01:08:15
we lose this case we could lose ESR from New Zealand and we police would have to
01:08:19
send their exhibits across to Melbourne testing. So there's a lot of pressure.
01:08:24
Um dare I say Joe Karum sat in the back of the court at time. Um you know you're
01:08:28
dealing with a family and it's restaurant is hard really hard for them. So that was a big case and that yeah had
01:08:37
a big impact because I was a detective sergeant. Yeah. I was living up on the coast and that's where it happened upon.
01:08:44
Yeah. So then then um 201 14 but again November 2014 the 1080 and the milk powder scare operation
01:08:58
Concord came on and I sort of ran that from the November through to February when because of the blackmail
01:09:05
implications on the government pressure. Yeah. a D super came in to run it and I
01:09:09
ended up being in charge of the suspect team and we had something like over 2,000 persons of
01:09:17
interest and we finally got down and got the offender and he pleaded guilty court
01:09:23
which was huge because there's huge that's probably one of the most politically motivated well not motivated
01:09:30
but um investigation political investigation we've done because we had to brief the
01:09:36
prime minister daily. Was that Helen? Uh, no that was John Ke and yeah because the implications what we were told
01:09:46
was in front collapsed then the New Zealand comes and that's huge. Yeah. And so yeah
01:09:54
there was a lot of pressure on that and like every day I had to brief headquarters on everything that was
01:10:00
going on and that included Christmas Day, New Year's Day. Do you want to pour? Yeah. Pause for a
01:10:08
drink of water. Oh my god. These the Yeah. Spent such a career. These these stories are just the things that you've
01:10:19
seen and done. It's remarkable. How you feeling? You going okay? Yeah. Good. I'm
01:10:22
fine. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um I watched The Lie last night on Netflix. Oh, yes. Um Yeah. I should have asked
01:10:28
royalties. No. Sorry. You've you've seen it. I You're involved with that. Have
01:10:33
you watched it? And how do you feel when you watch it? Uh well I watched it way back when it first in fact it was really
01:10:38
interesting because obviously I was involved in the production of it and the director from UK came over and then last
01:10:46
year I was in Europe and I went over to London and I actually stayed with Jillian Main for three nights just to
01:10:52
keep up which is really good for her because she could just talk to me about things. She couldn't talk about family
01:10:55
and friends cuz I knew everything gone on the uh like about what sort of stuff what sort of stuff would she would she
01:11:03
chat about with with you. So some of the Julian would chat to me about some of the personal stuff, you
01:11:14
know, around around grace, around the case and some of the things that went on which, you know, because there was some
01:11:21
stuff that was suppressed and, you know, I could talk to her and because cuz she
01:11:26
couldn't talk to her friends or family because they didn't know in the detail,
01:11:30
but I could talk and I think there's a very good outlet with her to and I remember a couple times we sat have
01:11:36
breakfast and then 3 hours later we're still talking. So that was good. Uh but
01:11:43
was while I was over in the UK and I had a friend in Aussie contact me and said,
01:11:48
"I just been looking at Netflix. I see this girl on there. Next thing I hear
01:11:52
your effing voice. What the heck?" I said, "What?" And uh he said, "Yeah." So then
01:11:59
I contacted Brenon New Zealand and said, "Hey, this the lie. What?" Oh, yeah.
01:12:03
It's going to start on Netflix next week. So I actually caught up with the director over in London. She didn't even
01:12:09
know. So yeah, it wasn't until I got home and then I watched that. Okay, I watched it. So I thought it was done
01:12:17
really well and I thought the message behind it, you know, in terms of the rough sex defense was really really good
01:12:23
and um particularly at the very end and you see all those names of all those women
01:12:29
that have died as a result of rough sex. Yeah. Um, so I'm just stuck on um Jillian Melain like yeah whenever I
01:12:40
think of her like it just it breaks my heart in a way like um first of all what she's done um you post losing um Grace
01:12:47
and David is remarkable like Kilamanjaro and she's done all this charitable stuff
01:12:51
the handbag charity and love grace campaign handbags. Yeah. Yeah. I can't imagine, you know, because people say
01:12:57
time heals the wounds, but I don't know. I don't think that's the sort of grief
01:13:00
that you could ever get over. And even though medically there's no way of knowing it, like there's um there's
01:13:04
there's Yeah. Uh yeah, her husband's um cancer had to be caused by stress, right? Absolutely.
01:13:12
Absolutely. It was interesting because Yeah. I got it really well. It was when we heard that he was flying over and
01:13:20
then we heard that he was a self-made billionaire and he's bring the media with him. I thought, "Oh my god, this
01:13:24
last week." So I said to my family l lay off, "When you pick him up, bring him to
01:13:29
my office." So he comes into the office and we we're just chatting away and I
01:13:33
said, "Look, one of the things I will do is I'll tell you everything before I
01:13:37
talk to the media cuz it's only fair that you're here first." I said, "Okay." I said, "There's
01:13:43
only one condition on that." I said, "If you talk to the media out of turn, I'll
01:13:49
have to be careful what I tell you. I'll stop talking to you. like that and he looked at me and I
01:13:56
thought, "Oh gosh, no one's ever spoken to him like that before." And and but he
01:14:00
was really good. Um he said, "No, no, I'm not here. This is your job. That's
01:14:04
your job." Blah blah blah. So I' just gone from saying, "I don't want you to
01:14:08
speak to the media out of turn." And then I said, "I want you to sit with me
01:14:12
at the media conference this afternoon," which he did, which and you know, he got
01:14:17
upset and it was pretty tough. Where were things at at that point? Did you She was just a missing person. Still
01:14:23
a missing person. And that and yeah, so she gets reported as a missing person. And this is one of the reasons why we go
01:14:29
to the media. It wasn't a homicide. And I totally understand the family violence
01:14:33
homicides, but usually we have that offended within 24 hours. And so you don't go to the media. But this is a
01:14:39
missing person. And so we can go to the media and because of the red flags right
01:14:45
from the start, you know, we had to go to the media. red flags as in a girl that was active on social media that it
01:14:51
wasn't. Yeah. Here's Grace um been in contact with her family every day since
01:14:57
she'd been overseas and she'd been in Peru before she came to New Zealand. Um
01:15:01
she had it was her birthday on the 2nd of December and of course she went out the night of the 1st December. She'd
01:15:09
messaged a friend while she with Kempson and then there's nothing. All communication stopped on her birthday.
01:15:20
Her family can't get hold of her. She doesn't get hold of her family. Friends
01:15:23
can't get hold of her. What's going on? So it was definitely rip. Yeah. And so
01:15:29
it came on the Wednesday the Thursday we start then we actually cuz he had been on space her Facebook page last one
01:15:37
comment and the Thursday afternoon he comes in. Well we found him. He came in and talk and of course he told the lie.
01:15:45
Um, not just one. Yeah. Where he said he was working when he wasn't working. Um,
01:15:51
he did just everything. Everything he said apart from his name was lie basically. Yeah. So, so, so, so when you
01:15:56
meet David Melain, um, what do you say to him? Do you do are you honest and you say, "I've got to
01:16:02
say like it's not looking good or do you do you try and keep things positive?"
01:16:06
And Well, you you have to you know, you have to be honest because Yeah. And like
01:16:11
I said, look, we're hoping that maybe, you know, there's some islands out here.
01:16:15
Maybe she's met someone just gone to an island. I said, it's not likely cuz you
01:16:19
know your daughter, she hasn't been in contact on her birthday. I said, that's
01:16:22
why we've got a big investigation team and we're doing everything we can to
01:16:25
find. So I said, um, you know, there is a worst case scenario. And he said to me, he said, Scott, I've been on a plane
01:16:32
for 24 hours. Okay. So you know I met him then and of course it's stressful for him and
01:16:40
we were his support. We had to wrap ourselves around and support. His brother came over the next day but of
01:16:46
course on the Sunday when we found Grace and um then he flew home and then of course we've gone across to the UK for
01:16:53
the funeral and that so met him and saw him in his home environment and with his
01:16:56
family and but I'd never known him prior to that all accounts a lovely guy. Yes,
01:17:03
he was a boss um businessman, but then when it came for the trial, he I just knew he wasn't right.
01:17:13
And I just it's the stress. There's no doubt. Such a burden. Of course. And you
01:17:18
know, every day we're sitting during the trial and they bring up the rough sex
01:17:22
defense and Jillian sitting beside me. She's sobbing, shaking, crying. And um
01:17:28
they had to listen to that, had to go through it. And yet we' done all the prep we could. And I remember on the
01:17:32
Sunday they write on Saturday, Charles Trolls Town Monday. On the Sunday I had them office and I was going through all
01:17:37
the evidence and of course one of the things I had to show them was the CCTV showing Kempson and Grace going up in
01:17:45
the lift and then see Grace walk out and that's the last time you see Grace alive
01:17:49
and of course Till was natural it. So, it was really tough, you know, and um you trying to be strong, but it does get
01:17:58
emotional as well. And you then go through the trial and every day to listen, hear, and yeah, you just And I
01:18:07
just knew David just wasn't the same person I'd met the year before. How could you be?
01:18:13
Yeah. Yeah. And so, yeah. And then you know basically soon as they got back from a trial which the verdict came out
01:18:23
on the Friday they flew back on the Saturday um he goes gets tested he's found cancer
01:18:30
and at one stage they thought come right and I spoke to him 3 weeks we passed and all your media stuff around this um
01:18:41
yes I've watched a heap heap of footage the last couple of days there was the um
01:18:45
yeah the media briefing after the suitcase was found um after the verdict comes out there's um the melaines and
01:18:51
you standing on their shoulder just outside the court. How um yeah how do you not break down? It's
01:18:58
tough. It is tough. um you know inside you know on the exterior I try to put on the brave wrong face but inside
01:19:06
you know you're feeling them you know like and as I've said in the media you
01:19:10
know I'm a family man with children around the same age and what they've had
01:19:15
to go through surreners but that's same with a whole lot of other homicide you
01:19:21
know families of homicide you know and I've talked before about one day on a
01:19:26
Christmas day having now of a homicide victim the more tree to identify their son on Christmas day. Yeah.
01:19:36
Yeah. That's just wrong. Just so sad for them. And um so for me it doesn't matter
01:19:43
what the background is. It's a loved one and we've got to work with that. We got
01:19:47
to support we've got to bring in victim support and our victim support to our
01:19:51
homicide staff are well trained. They do a fantastic job. Did did um David have to identify the body like a formal
01:19:58
identification process or was he that No, we did that through dental exciting circumstances. So I had a
01:20:09
podcast earlier this year with Mark Longley. I don't know if you've had any.
01:20:12
Yeah. Um and it's almost like the Maines and in reverse. He was in New Zealand.
01:20:17
His daughter's in the UK. He had to fly over there. And um yeah, one thing we
01:20:21
talked about is Yeah. He was like 20 I think it was 2011 or 2012 when his daughter's murderer um was incarcerated
01:20:28
and he was like good I don't have to think about this for at least 17 years and he sitting here now in 2025 with me
01:20:34
he's like that date's coming up alarmingly quickly and it's like another
01:20:38
trauma that he has to deal with again. Yep. It's [ __ ] eh? It is. It is. And uh
01:20:43
yeah, it was interesting. During the Grace M investigation, I had families of homicide victims of cases I'd run and
01:20:52
been involved in who sent me, sent letters, support. [Music] Um before Grace went missing, did you
01:21:01
did you know anything of Jesse Kempson? No. Was he? No, I didn't at all. No.
01:21:05
who's on the police rate but just not your personal Yeah. Yeah. Um and someone
01:21:11
who's um articulate or well presented like wearing a a waist coat. Do do you
01:21:16
naturally treat them better or sort of presume innocence even if it's a bias?
01:21:20
Well, at that stage we didn't know. He just happened to be the last person to comment on her Facebook page. So, we
01:21:28
didn't know his involvement. And of course, the circumstances us finding him
01:21:34
was interesting. and that would establish he limit the city life hotel. We'd seen him in the morning and he had
01:21:41
agreed that after work he would come to police station after 4:00 and so because city life we're just
01:21:51
after the city life to do some inquiries and it was early afternoon 1:00 and he walked
01:21:59
past and one of the cons says oh there he is there and of course when he looked in
01:22:06
and he sees the detectives there and of course they're in piece. Yeah. Saba bullet or bass which
01:22:13
is the body armor. And uh he sees soon as he sees him he turns his head away turns around and walks walked back to
01:22:20
Queen Street. Concier says oh there he goes there. So they go and start had to run
01:22:25
to catch him. and they get around to Queens and he's gone and can't find he'd
01:22:28
gone down um the steps of a shop and stood behind a um yeah display cabinet so he couldn't
01:22:39
be seen but they found him and he said oh no I was just in here looking for and he came back he came back station
01:22:48
and uh so that was well hang that and then of course during that interview he he
01:22:55
head. You know, yes, we met. We went up to um Sky City, Andy's Burger Bar, and
01:23:02
we left. I crossed the road, went down to Victoria Street to Queen Street, end up in a
01:23:07
bar, back home, and she just wandered off back to her backpacks I never saw again. And so that's what we had. And we
01:23:16
had no other evidence to disprove that. Uh and of course CCTV is a huge component nowadays particularly in the
01:23:24
big cities and so we had a team on that and then one of the interesting things at City Life Hotel there 14 cameras at
01:23:31
Sea Life Hotel. There are seven that we identified as key to what we needed to be looking at but their system at the
01:23:38
time was that you could only look at one camera at a time. So, if you wanted to watch eight hours, it's going to take 56
01:23:44
hours. And we You just don't have the time, do you? Well, no, but then I'm
01:23:51
sorry, I had to say this. You cannot pass forward because we could not afford to miss anything. So, they had to watch
01:23:57
it second by second, minute by minute, out. Uh but one day they picked up one of the cameras and they actually by that
01:24:05
stage we had during his interview and he said yeah he didn't wake up till 9 or 10
01:24:11
in the morning and they found CCTV of him going out at 8:00 in the morning. So when we went back with him to
01:24:19
investigate you and settled a detective put that to him and had the photo in the
01:24:24
lift. Is that you? Yep. Is that the lift? Yep. Uh this is 8:15. Oh yeah, that's right. Before he said he said
01:24:31
just confirming you said you sort of didn't wake up till 9 or 10. Yeah. This
01:24:36
is 8:00 in the morning. This is you. So yeah. And from there it was well okay now we're right on to it. We've got
01:24:45
something here which work on. So we did a search excuse that night at his apartment. Um and of course then it just
01:24:52
rolled from there. We found that follow the Friday night we did the luminal testing and so Saturday morning when I
01:24:57
come to work there's a photography photo section did a great job they had a photo
01:25:01
book it all ready for me they've been up all night and um yeah you can see the luminal and we
01:25:09
see all the blood around yeah we knew were and of course David's here we breeding him on a Friday afternoon he'd
01:25:17
been sent media conference with me and done a media conference on the afternoon. It's Yeah, it's just how it
01:25:25
happened with, you know, we'd had staff out of the way. By that time, our technology experts had said his phone
01:25:32
had been pulling the taceries. So, we had our staff out there and then he in his interview the second
01:25:40
time cuz we brought him in on the Saturday and one of the things I was doing when because I'd spoken to the
01:25:44
crown in the morning. I've been to the scene, had a look myself, spoke to the
01:25:48
crown the morning and we agreed circumstantially he had sufficient evidence to charge. So, we're going to
01:25:52
bring him back and while he's been interviewed, of course, I don't watch
01:25:57
these interviews. I have other things. Sometimes I do media, sometimes you other
01:26:02
administrative stuff. Um, but I had the head of search and rescue and we were talking about the way tack as we know
01:26:10
there's been other bodies found out there and he just said, "Look, it's got
01:26:13
to be somewhere where there's a layby or a car park because you can't just park
01:26:19
on C drive because we know it's windy. narrow. So I'm thinking like this and
01:26:23
one side of the road there's houses. Yes, there's bush in that and you know
01:26:27
covers the houses on the other side it's just bush. So case it's going to be the
01:26:31
other side of the road. And then during the interview, the second interview of course rough sex defense says everything
01:26:38
which I was saying was self serving and he actually indicated where described where and we
01:26:47
weren't far from that location and we went there and yeah there there was that
01:26:51
grave. So yeah and we just kicked in from there. Yes. That was probably the most um I
01:27:00
suppose memorable if that's the word um like media briefing that you did. So you
01:27:04
you went to site the body and then you face the media and um you it seemed like you were like getting emotional towards
01:27:11
the end. What what's what's the time between you um citing Grace Main in in
01:27:16
in a suitcase and then fronting the media? So it was interesting that day because you know as I say the media
01:27:23
intensity was huge as I had two full-time media people because there was just so many barrage questions media
01:27:29
from UK New Zealand and of course within the media you know the New Zealand bosses were saying to their staff don't
01:27:36
let the Brits get a scoop type scenario. The Brits were wanting to get a scoop. Um it was it was a frenzy within the
01:27:43
media itself let alone from a police perspective. So I' taken the pathologist out there
01:27:52
Scenic Drive around lunchtime because you know we thought it was going to be early afternoon and there's a lot of
01:27:56
media I had to close Scenic Drive for the safety of the staff cuz they're working side the road. Uh so Peters in
01:28:03
and of course the media down so put a barrier across so that the media could come up so they could see get the shots
01:28:09
in the distance cuz I I understand the media you know I've always tried to work
01:28:13
with the media when it's appropriate and um and then we sort of said oh look
01:28:20
we'll do a stand I'll do a stand at 4:00 and knowing that our New Zealand media
01:28:25
have to prepare for the six news the TV media so it did editing stuff like that So, well, it took longer to get the
01:28:34
suitcase out than we had anticipated. And of course, then the medium get a bit anty, oh gosh. And uh yeah, and then we
01:28:42
get it out. We had an X-ray machine there. I had the pathologist there unzip and you can see and open it right up,
01:28:48
but you can see this body in there and we just knew it was crazy. So, they had to get a message over the lane. Um and
01:28:54
so you go from once sort of here with the staff um and Grace making sure we get a message to David Melain. My media
01:29:05
person said say this. So within 5 minutes cuz we had got hold of David within 5 minutes I was standing in front
01:29:11
of press. Now it hadn't been a long investigation. had only been four days, but we'd worked some long hours and so
01:29:19
and it had been emotional, you know, because the case was it was getting sadder and sadder every day. And it's
01:29:24
like for me being in the media telling this crime novel that is getting sadder and sadder and so everybody's missing,
01:29:32
everybody's grouped. Um, and ultimately the worst case scenario is there. And so
01:29:39
within 5 minutes of his grace, they would have been told he stand in front of international and no prep like at
01:29:47
all. You know, every time I'd gone out to do a media release for that. And on
01:29:52
with most media stuff, you know, sit with the media team half an hour before you go
01:29:57
out that up. You do your presentation, they ask you questions. So you get in the zone and you go out. And I've done
01:30:03
that with the Graces case with a different media except this one. There's no time
01:30:08
to prep and you have to go out and and it is sad because you know we have found it which is yeah it is great on one hand
01:30:16
because at least family get to have great but you know now I've got this case and course we're charged against
01:30:23
not the murder and yeah it was tough holding back and then I got the question how the
01:30:32
family feel how do you think family feel you know I have a daughter and you know, in
01:30:38
the 20s and it just came out. It wasn't planned. It wasn't prepared. It was
01:30:42
just And it just Yeah, it gets you. You looked like you were um on the cusp of crying at that point. Yeah. I was having
01:30:49
to hold it together. Yeah. Yeah. Just Yeah. accumulation of long days and just the moment. It was just tiredness. It
01:30:56
was the stress. It was the buildup. It was Yeah. It was, you know, there's truckload of media sitting there in
01:31:02
front of you. And um Yeah. And then when is it that you find out about the you know you said it gets grimmer and
01:31:10
grimmer and it got even grimmer still like when when do you find out about um yeah the nude photos on his phone
01:31:15
googling how to you know get rid of a body and the white hackeries all the all the other unpleasant stuff that came
01:31:20
afterwards. So that comes in afterwards, you know, because obviously investigation, we've only been going for
01:31:24
4 days. We can only do so much some CCTV. Uh but then getting into the technology
01:31:30
world, getting into your phones and stuff like that was, you know, it took a bit of time, but it came back came out
01:31:37
and of course what he had done, you know, he goes on, he'd organized a tender date, he'd taken photos, he'd,
01:31:44
you know, searched Googled certain porn sites. He Yeah. say it's hot as fire.
01:31:51
Yeah. Yeah. Especially eating birds like tacker rangers. Yeah. All that sort of stuff. And Yeah. And then and then he
01:31:59
actually goes out on a tin day on that Sunday and Grace is lying dead in his room.
01:32:04
Yeah. He obviously thought about he went he bought the suitcase. Um and the times that you've had to be
01:32:12
in his presence, are you in like disdain? Yeah. Well, I don't have to be. I you know like it's important as a DI
01:32:18
sort of like they call them senior investigating officers now that I sit up and I keep objective you know because I
01:32:25
have to make decision be decision maker so you have to keep that objectivity so it's no good me getting involved in an
01:32:31
interview because I'll start losing my objectivity so I didn't actually see
01:32:35
that interview because on that Saturday because I actually I was doing a press release you know and uh when that
01:32:43
interview was taking place not that I told the media at top. But yeah, um when you first this comes this comes
01:32:52
I guess much later. Um when you first learn about the defense case like are you furious?
01:32:59
No. Well, I have to say okay this investigator um the rough sex defense was raised in his second interview.
01:33:06
something. Okay, we're going to have to deal with this. And that's part of the
01:33:10
reason we go to the UK, make those inquiries around sex. And yeah, I think it was important because it meant that
01:33:17
when it came to trial, we went blindsided. You know, like Grace is 21, 22 years old. She's an adult. You can do
01:33:25
what you like. And that shouldn't impact on it just, you know, some of the lies
01:33:30
Kempson said around the rough sex. I didn't know what it was. some about, you
01:33:35
know, 50 shades. Yet we had through the investigation because it went on for a number of months afterwards, we
01:33:42
identified people who he had rough sex with consensually. So he knew what it was.
01:33:50
Yeah. Yeah. One thing in the trial that struck out to me was just how I think it
01:33:53
was from one of the pathologists like how long you have to apply pressure before someone passes out or you loses
01:34:00
consciousness. It's a very very long time. Yeah. It was uh couple of the range. One said 7 to 10 minutes, one
01:34:06
said 5 to 10 minutes. But it was constant pressure so that you don't start and then stop because when you
01:34:13
start again the clock starts again. So it has to be constant serious pressure for 5 to 10
01:34:21
minutes and you know Yeah. Come on. You know, common sense. 5 to 10 minutes. And
01:34:27
he said that he was intoxicated and he'd gone and have a shower afterwards. He
01:34:32
thought she'd got up and left. He would have tripped over her sh. Do Do defense lawyers piss you off? No,
01:34:38
they got a job to do. I understand that. I don't I get on fine with the defense
01:34:42
lawyers. Um, you know, I don't Yeah, it it's it can be frustrating. It's
01:34:47
difficult when you're sitting with the family, but that's their job. You
01:34:51
Everybody has a job to do and that's part of the system. And and it and I try
01:34:56
and tell my staff it's like sometimes sentencing people go, "Oh, they can get
01:34:59
a long enough sentence and stuff like that." Our job is to do a thorough investigation, good investigation, put
01:35:05
together a good pro prosecution case to work with the crown to put a prosecution
01:35:10
case and draw to the jury. The outcome is up to the jury sentencing. Yes, we get victim impact statements and stuff
01:35:17
like that. But it's up to the judge. Now, if I try and tell you you're going
01:35:21
to get focused and lose that, you might not work here because you know you're worrying about
01:35:27
something out of your control. Yeah, it's a great way of looking at it. And there there's that saying that
01:35:32
everyone um is entitled to a fair trial, which which they are, but it feels like
01:35:36
Grace didn't necessarily get a fair trial in this case. Well, well, that's
01:35:39
the thing. And I and I have publicly said that, you know, the rough sex defense basically just revictimize Grace
01:35:45
and she wasn't there to answer. And what I tell people is that there's no evidence that sex took
01:35:54
place. He says it but we know he lies. You know we have other people saying oh grace wouldn't do
01:36:01
that you know like that you know have a safe grace wouldn't do that and you know
01:36:09
and like something we had witness who said they had been back to tender dates back to kept and he flipped like J and
01:36:16
one of them managed I managed to get out before anything happened. Well, yeah. One of his former victims on
01:36:23
that documentary, The Lie, um she reckons that um he would have flipped out after Grace turned him down and that
01:36:29
would have been the But we'll never know, won't we? We won't we won't know,
01:36:32
he says. Do you do you hear any any like anecdotal feedback or stories about how
01:36:37
he's coping in jail and you get this feedback with a sense of glee or you just have no interest in it? Look, he's
01:36:44
there. He he got a minimum of 17 years nonprol then it doesn't mean you get out
01:36:48
after 17 years. Yeah. Um, I know Julie Mlain won't say his name, you know, because she says, "I'd rather use
01:36:56
Grace's name. That's who I love. That's who I think of. That's who I miss."
01:37:01
So, the the the the trial for you, um, obviously you had some work to do there, but it seems like you were mainly there
01:37:07
as sort of like a cheerleader or supporter of the family. Um, how Yeah. How how is it for you? Must be wonderful
01:37:14
experience. But I've been through roles before. I've done sort of that before.
01:37:18
Uh, you know, I had to give evidence during the trial. So, you know, you've got to get your head around it what's
01:37:23
going on in the trial and also just making sure everything's telling and working and but you got staff to do that
01:37:27
and they did a fantastic job. And the wait for the verdict, how long how long was that? Yeah. Uh, often
01:37:36
people put you like just amongst ourselves just as a bit of back humor. Okay. How long?
01:37:44
uh a day and a half, 2 days, 3 days, 4 hours, you know, like we just have a little bit and I thought ah they're
01:37:51
going to come back on Saturday cuz this is the Friday and of course they came back Friday night. Short turnound
01:37:56
usually means well we were obviously Yeah. Yeah. We Well, sometime sometimes come back quick not
01:38:03
guilty. Yeah. Uh but yeah, in this case, they went out just after lunch and they
01:38:11
were back by 5:00. And then um sense of relief. The sense of relief, you know, that courtroom was
01:38:19
packed. You know, every day of trial, courtroom is packed and there's a large
01:38:24
media contingent in there and cameras are in there. And of course when the verdict came out you know it's that
01:38:33
sense of relief obviously was emotional for Jillian and David um you know some of the public gallery were crying some
01:38:41
staff and tears you know a lot of the um reporters were young females you know in
01:38:46
the media and you can see they were up the jury some of the jury cry it was very
01:38:53
emotional so while waiting for the verdict are you are you with the messes like sort of managing their expectations
01:39:00
saying look this could go either way cuz you don't know. No, no, we don't know.
01:39:05
And yeah, I suppose you've been in situations before where you know the the wrong verdict has come out. Yeah,
01:39:11
there's been cases where we haven't got the verdict we thought we should have
01:39:15
got. Um, and then you got to deal with family. That's a different way to deal
01:39:19
with family. But it's that waiting is stressful cuz you don't know what is the
01:39:25
verdict and you know you've got to support the family and uh you know I know we had two other sex trials coming
01:39:32
up as a result of our investigation um against Kempson and one of the things Jillian did was fantastic was at
01:39:40
different times we brought the complaintants into court just to meet because they carried this huge guilt
01:39:46
that if they had reported Grace would still be And so went arranged and asked Jill if
01:39:54
she'd like to talk to them, meet them. And she did. And she said, "You didn't
01:39:58
do anything wrong. You didn't do anything, you know, like he did it. He's
01:40:04
the ones accountable. He's the don't feel bad." And that was really good and
01:40:09
reassuring for them. Yeah. And so for a mother in that situation, you know, to her situation to do that just showed how
01:40:16
lovely she she's incredible. Right. Yeah. Um yeah, the relationship you had with um yeah um the parents was seemed
01:40:24
like really close. Have there been other homicides like this or was this one different for some reason? Well, I think
01:40:30
this one was different because they were you know Grace was from the UK. She wasn't from New Zealand. They don't have
01:40:36
the port family here and you know David FL investigation. Her brother arrived today. So later we looked after that
01:40:44
there um and he was still here when we had the um individuals who's at the one sky city and then you know they came
01:40:54
back for the trial and once again it's just the two of them and family are all
01:40:59
back home friends their support so you have you have to support them you know I do you know speak to a lot of and with
01:41:08
the families and trials um in New Zealand and they're all New Zealand based and you'll there's a number of
01:41:13
there I know with them to support and that's great that's all they need but
01:41:17
I'll always be there to talk and they can talk me and just so so then so after that verdict
01:41:24
there's the um the media briefing outside where um yeah the are both sobbing and you're you're in the
01:41:31
background looking um stoic like you do what what happens after that you go do you go and grab something to eat you
01:41:38
just give them a ride back to their hotel what happens so after the verdict Yeah, we went back. We just quickly
01:41:44
debriefed. Um, we then because David then arranged to fly home the next day. So, nothing else to do. No. Well,
01:41:54
why? Yeah. The family, they had their sons back home, you know. Yeah. So, they need to go home. And so, we went out for
01:42:02
dinner. The crown, the police staff, close police staff involved in the lanes um at the hotel had dinner. And then the
01:42:08
next morning, that Saturday morning, myself and the picked them up and took them to the airport and it was really it
01:42:14
was quite sad because the airport had their flag at half mass and um but that was not as
01:42:23
noticeable. And one thing that I I will always thank you know airport for was they
01:42:32
allowed myself and the family as officer to walk in the lanes onto the plane. So
01:42:38
we had all that security and we could see them get in their seats and say goodbye. I thought wow I couldn't
01:42:46
believe we were to do that. But but that was important. I'm getting emotional
01:42:51
hearing this just like Yeah. Like um tears of of gratitude. Do um when do you cry about this? Like do
01:43:00
you on the car on the way back to your house? Are you are you having a cry? Like are there private moments? Yeah,
01:43:07
there's a private moment sometimes when um something comes up around grace or
01:43:14
Yeah. the lie, you know, or people talk to me. Some people come and talk to me. um you know just straight out of the
01:43:21
blue and like yeah you know and like when they the gratitude they show you know and uh yeah I was just one of the
01:43:28
team team and yeah but I do have emotional moments but it's in private yeah so um when I think of Grace Melain
01:43:39
um and this is probably the same with most people watching this or listening to this I I think of um the photos that
01:43:44
were shared. So there's one of her it looks like she's wearing activew wear
01:43:47
with a baseball cap on. There's another one. Hey, from the Bay of Honors, right?
01:43:51
Oh, was it? Yep. And another one of her with her um graduation cap and gown on. And both of them, one thing in common,
01:43:57
massive beaming smile. When when Yeah. When you think of Grace Main, Yeah. What do you see?
01:44:04
I just see this happy, lovely girl who is so loved by her family. You know, they were such a
01:44:12
tight-knit loving family. It was Yeah. And like we haven't talked about it, but
01:44:16
you know when David was over here for the investigation, Jillian, she had had cancer and she had had she was
01:44:21
undergoing chemotherapy treatment. So David's here dealing with his daughter, the only
01:44:28
daughter missing and circumstances aren't looking good. He at the love of his life, his wife Jillian is at home
01:44:36
undergoing chemotherapy and he's having feel that. That's why we had to really
01:44:40
wrap herself up because yeah, we just how do you deal? And then you look at Jillian now, you know, she's had to keep
01:44:49
living the fact that Grace has been murdered. But then David dies and it was the stress,
01:44:57
cancer. So she now has two, she has two sons and grandchildren, but two of Pope's family immediate family are gone.
01:45:06
And as she says, she'll never have them back. As much as she wants, she will
01:45:09
never have them back, but she'll never stop loving. Yeah. Yeah. And in the way she lost her
01:45:19
daughter as well, thanks for sharing that stuff. Yeah. Yeah, it is. It is tough. And there's,
01:45:26
you know, but but I sort of see it I see the sadness in a lot of family's eyes,
01:45:33
you know, at the homicide trolls. Yeah. When did you last speak to Jillian? Are you still in touch to your message or?
01:45:40
Yeah. Yeah, we we touch quite regularly actually. Uh like last year I was over in Europe and I went over to the uh
01:45:47
London and I stayed with Jillian for three three four nights and uh which was really good and it was good to catch up
01:45:54
and catch up with her family and their local in Essics the local um pub you know there's a someone who raised some
01:46:03
money and put a big oak table of chairs and cheers once David won races and and then you see what Julian and her niece
01:46:13
Hannah. So, Grace's cousin Hannah have done around the love grace campaign and
01:46:18
they got me to work in the garage packing handbags one day which is fine. It's you know like it's such a good
01:46:25
cause and in New Zealand now we have this love campaign and the thousands of handbags. So the women who are subject
01:46:33
to domestic violence and have to get out with nothing, they had this hand. And some of the letters that Jillian had
01:46:39
shown me that they get, you know, really touching sometimes these women just, you know, had nothing and
01:46:48
yeah, I was going to ask you at some point what like what joy have you got out of this job, but um I feel like it's
01:46:54
a most redundant question because I can probably answer it now. It seems like it's the the connections you form with
01:46:58
people at their potentially the most terrifying or the lowest point in their lives. Yeah, it's part of it. Yeah, that
01:47:05
is part of it. But I think it's the what you do for the community. What do you do
01:47:10
for our victims victims? What you do for the community and it's all police and you
01:47:17
know we're a good team and you know I look back on my career and we gosh so proud of that. And like as an example
01:47:26
during co I was contacted by a woman who when she was 9 years old was sexually abused at home. I was a
01:47:37
detective sergeant on the child abuse team and during co she had the courage to go
01:47:44
and get it was told you the family back then the now but get her file and of course and she got to me and said your
01:47:52
name's all through it you believed me you saved me so I've met that you know she's only
01:48:00
9 years old at the time I've met her and her husband and we catch up and um you
01:48:07
like one of the yeah as I've mentioned before you know the sadness as the result of child sexual abuse can be you
01:48:18
alcoholism, drug addiction and all that and you know I see her and she's come
01:48:23
through at the other end and we catch up and I just think gosh you know and I told myself you know what you do now
01:48:32
have a huge impact later these And and it does and I that's that is what and I look back on my career I go I
01:48:42
have helped someone come through life out of tragic situation that make me yeah and often police will never know
01:48:53
the impact they have this has been a we've been going an hour 48 I haven't even got the the Instagram
01:49:01
questions it's been a big day for you some bad news this morning Yeah. Um, yeah. How are you going for time? Yeah.
01:49:07
No, I'm fine. You okay? Yeah, I'm fine. Yeah. Um, you can leave it anytime you
01:49:11
run. No, no. I got to go home and run, go do some exercise. No, no, no. Yeah. You're not Are you doing You're doing
01:49:17
much running. You said before you run. I don't run as far now. I just I've just
01:49:21
changed my whole exercise routine. And of course, at the moment, because I've
01:49:24
had to go on to some hormone treatment or do all the um radiation and that makes you a bit more tired and so of I
01:49:32
don't have the same energy. And I think I should be faster than this, but I'm
01:49:36
not. But I'm not. Z age, you know. Yeah, that's what No one escapes it. I know.
01:49:41
Um, yeah. Has has fitness been like a big part of your sort of mental health strategy? Absolutely. Physically fit,
01:49:49
mentally fit. That's what I've always believed in and that's what I've always
01:49:52
adhereed to and I've just, you know, sometimes during cases I just want to go
01:49:56
for a run because it clears my head, you know, sweats out all the impurities and
01:50:00
I can think about and I just, yeah, I feel so much better. What about alcohol? Did you ever lean
01:50:06
into alcohol? Yeah. Yeah. Well, yeah. When you were younger. Yeah. When you're
01:50:09
younger. Not not I don't think I ever leaned as a coping mechanism, you know,
01:50:13
cuz I had my children had them when I was young and they grew up and grew up with my children. We used to go running
01:50:17
together, you know, like one of my sons and I played the same senior men's football team together, you know, which
01:50:23
is great. So, yeah. Look, I drank and him drink, but I don't, you know, say it's co mechanism. You know, I because
01:50:31
of my health issues, I don't certainly don't drink I drink 0% beer. Yeah. Yeah.
01:50:37
But who who do you who do you unpack stuff with? Is it just like internally with work mainly? Well, I have my part I
01:50:42
have my partner. Yeah. And you know, we can talk and um your partner as in your your life partner or a work partner?
01:50:48
Well, no. No. My my life partner. Oh, yeah. But but you can't there's things
01:50:51
that you just can't really you can't really share, can you? Or Yeah. No.
01:50:55
Well, you know, I can talk about just had a day like you know, like sometimes it's just you go bang bang bang bang. It
01:51:01
might not be investigation. There's a whole lot of emails come in. You got to
01:51:04
do stuff and you know, trying to mediate or negotiate or find out stuff. Um but yeah, like like I just talk and just get
01:51:13
out and just we do exercise together. Yeah. Like like one of the things I really like doing because I live close
01:51:18
to the beach is kayak fishing. And what do you like about it? Is it the solitude or it's everything?
01:51:24
It's just you go there's a bit of exercise to get out there. Uh and then
01:51:31
you know I generally like cuz I'm an early riser get out before sunrise and so you know like about a month ago I was
01:51:38
on the water and where there's the blood moon big full moon and so you have the
01:51:42
moonlight on the water on one side and on the other side the sun's not up but
01:51:46
it's coming up and you can see the orange haze on it. It's just beautiful.
01:51:50
and then catch fish on, you know, catch some snapper and you sit out there and you're at one with nature. It's it's
01:51:57
peaceful. It's just you can catch fish and then go in and Yeah, it's I I really
01:52:02
enjoy it. Um yeah, how do you not have a huge weight of all the all the stuff you've
01:52:08
seen and done? Like it's um there's some really crunchy stuff e that you've
01:52:12
experienced. How do you sort of compartmentalize that or Yeah. Well, that's what I I try and
01:52:16
compartmentalize. So work is work, home is home, families for family, sports for
01:52:21
sport. And you know there's there is you know been to the psychologist there's
01:52:26
ways to cope and one of the things and it you know it might not sound great but you know you have a serious case there's
01:52:35
going to be another one. So don't you know fall over this one cuz what about
01:52:40
the next one and then the next one and unfortunately that is a work and you can go from homicide to
01:52:49
homicide but you've got to you know this is job is a file one day it's also going
01:52:55
to be filed but at the time we have a job to do we have to be professional we have to be thorough and you know we've
01:53:03
got to investigate In in terms of retirement when do I look that young that old?
01:53:11
Really? No. No. Is um like is there a thing in the place where they sort of kick you out at the 65 or they start
01:53:16
like pushing you towards No. No. Well, when they used to have you you'd be able
01:53:20
to perf at 55 um because of the government superanuation public uh police superanuation scheme. You can go on till
01:53:27
you ever but you know I've got to look at the future and I've got to say I've
01:53:31
done most things in the police. I I really enjoy the level I'm at because I'm still operationally involved and uh
01:53:39
you know I've got staff get on well with staff but you know life is like a ruler.
01:53:45
It's only so long and I've had some health scares going through another one
01:53:50
now but um in terms of that ruler I'm 2/3 quarters of the way through it and
01:53:58
so what do I want to do? You know, I there's bucket list things I'm looking
01:54:02
to do. Like I'm I am thinking I'm convince you to follow the white at the
01:54:08
World Cup next year. Yeah. One more football. Um yeah, I know a number of the coaches after and Basley and all
01:54:17
those. And yeah, I want to travel a bit more. Uh yeah, I've got my grandchildren. I see them grow. How are
01:54:25
they now? How old are the grand? Oh, what? I got 15, 14 in a couple weeks. Uh, 10, and
01:54:34
cool age. So, yeah. And and that's I've still got others to come cuz some
01:54:40
children are married but haven't got children yet. Hurry up. No, no, no, no.
01:54:46
All right. From Instagram, um, someone wanted to know, uh, if you've seen the,
01:54:52
uh, TV show Adolescence. Yes, I have. Netflix. Yeah. What what are your thoughts towards that? Okay, so we have
01:54:58
our child exploitation team. Uh we did a lot of online stuff. I'm also involved my role is in Oakland City
01:55:09
as oversight of our national persons of interest and so they some of the younger
01:55:16
ones there can get into that incill stuff involuntary celibacy. Yes. Yeah. um that and there's other groups that
01:55:24
come out out of that and so it's very real and I'm aware that you know some of that stuff has
01:55:36
occurred in New Zealand with teenagers. Uh it's yeah it's not great and and it's
01:55:44
difficult for parents cuz how do you know what your children are doing online? And that's the one thing you
01:55:49
maybe we need to just be a little more harder to know because there are some manipulators out there across the
01:55:55
world who will manipulate your children and you know or the bullying. you take sexion, you know,
01:56:05
like initially people would take a teenager take a photo of the naked photo of themselves and send it to someone who
01:56:10
they thought was their age. It might have been, you know, a 50-year-old pedophile at the end or a relationship
01:56:18
breaks up and so that person breaks up, I've got this photo, you you pay me money, I'm going to send it to all your
01:56:23
friends. It creates stress. It's horrendous. We've actually seen some suicides as a result, you know, that
01:56:31
bullying. So yeah, I think you know the adolescence I think people parents watch
01:56:37
it and I' I've looked at a debate whether uh parents would watch it with
01:56:42
their children or parents should just watch it alone. You know some say they should watch it alone. Some say watch it
01:56:47
with your children and talk to your children because what you want you want your children to be able to talk to you
01:56:53
about what's going on if they're bullied or getting pressured to do something
01:56:57
because they want to climb a hierarchal Yeah. system in there and to do that you have to do something
01:57:03
different like say sextor tortion or blackmail someone or yeah so yeah what what what can be done is it is this a
01:57:12
job for um like parents to speak to their kids when they're sort of intermediate age or should the schools
01:57:17
be doing some programming around this well I always believe that it starts with the parent yes the school can
01:57:25
support but it does start with the parent and you know dare I say it there's a lot out there who uh have
01:57:34
difficult childhoods that don't have parents a single parent or whatever. I grew up never knowing my father, my
01:57:42
mother's sen mother until I was about 10 and stepfather came along and it wasn't
01:57:47
until my mother's dying of cancer terminal and my daughter wanted to find who's your father Dad I don't know never
01:57:56
met him and she did she should have been a detective she did some digging around
01:58:01
yeah she did some digging around and found him and yeah she ended up meeting him and then I met him and then he
01:58:07
said basically He said he didn't believe he was my father and um that's it.
01:58:12
Walked away. But how was that? Was it was that Yeah. Although I'd gone through my
01:58:19
whole life not having a father. So I was an only child. So I had no brothers and
01:58:23
sisters. My mother was from the UK. She had no family here. Um so yeah, so that's why sport was really important.
01:58:30
But I just accept I just accepted, okay, you've never been in my life. You've
01:58:35
never shown any interest whatsoever in me. And that's what you say. That's
01:58:38
fine. I've got my family up to Yeah. It's not like you're missing anything,
01:58:42
but it's almost almost like double abandonment in a way. Yeah. Yeah. Sucks. Yeah. It's really shitty.
01:58:49
Um, when you retire, what will you miss most and least about the job? Oh, what will I miss most? Oh, I think it's the
01:58:58
companionship, the camaraderie, you know, it's, you know, like So, it doesn't matter what investigator,
01:59:03
whether it's homicidal, you know, major case, you know, you work as a team. It's
01:59:07
that teamwork. I really like that. And uh I've made some really good friends.
01:59:11
New Zealand police. Um so that's what I miss. What won't I miss? Uh get up at
01:59:19
4:30 to get to work. No. Uh to be fair and and the staff who listen to this are going to laugh at this. I won't miss the
01:59:28
meetings cuz I meetings in my head. You know, particularly if the meetings for meeting sake. meters are good of a
01:59:34
value, but if I can get out of a meeting, they know I'll get out. No one loves a meeting. Is that a side of place
01:59:40
that most people would would be um surprised by? Like just how much how much BS and paperwork there is? Yeah, I
01:59:48
think and the higher the higher you go rank wise, you the more meetings and I talk about political [ __ ] you have
01:59:56
to deal with, but it's just Yeah. Yeah. And that's why I enjoy where I'm at. M
02:00:00
um best and worst days on the job. Uh the best days, you know, it can be both getting a result for say a
02:00:15
long-term investigation, whether it be a homicide, whether it be like the 1080 in
02:00:19
the milk powder. Um they're good plus the guilty verdict or guilty plea, you
02:00:25
know, because then done your job. you know you've done a thorough investigation that they they are really
02:00:30
good days the worst days dare I say it is hearing that a police officer and take Matt Hunt for example
02:00:44
my daughter went to primary intermediary school with him a lot of the people at the football club knew him um particular
02:00:52
of our area actually been to my house to play not that I knew that and so I know
02:00:57
and I know a lot of his close friends and you know it just it doesn't matter
02:01:01
but it's really sad. It's just gut-wrenching and it's a reality of the the job you're
02:01:09
doing isn't it? It is. You're putting yourself in harm's way on a daily basis.
02:01:13
Yeah. Um any regrets? No. No regrets. No. Uh I recommend the New Zealand police. I Yeah. my none of
02:01:22
my children joined the police. But for me, yeah, still in the police 45 years, like in a month's time and uh you calm
02:01:31
down. You haven't made it yet. Yeah, I know. Uh but no, I've just th I just
02:01:36
enjoy giving back to the community. I enjoy, you know, being successful, being a leader, working with the staff,
02:01:43
developing the new staff. from Instagram. Uh, do you take an interest in cases that you're not
02:01:49
directly involved with, eg Pulking Horn, Scott Watson? Uh, it depends. Like obviously Pulking
02:01:56
Horn was run in Oakland City District, so I had knowledge of that. Um, you know, because I took the team that run
02:02:02
it and uh, so I'm not into the weeds and the detail like I would be in other cases. Uh the Scott
02:02:11
Watson I I the only reason I really took a real interest was he had sailed past Great Barrier Island and way back in 96.
02:02:19
I've been over there for missing woman Nancy Hershey Fray and on the island two
02:02:24
weeks looking for her and um yeah he had sailed past the island. But to be fair so much going on
02:02:33
you at work in my own work world and then my private life. Well, you know the football club. Well, I've stood down
02:02:38
president now for the club. I didn't realize how much time it took up. But yeah, I'm wanting to get into with my
02:02:44
partner working with handing Shane back doing more work to support the victims of child sex. Yeah. Is there a time you
02:02:53
feared for your life? Uh there was one time when when I was in uniform was over North Shore. We gone to domestic
02:03:05
hospital at a house and the guy started up a chainsaw and came at us chainsaw and that's where fight of flight kicks
02:03:14
in. Boy, I ran. I ran. Uh yeah. So there was that. But I have had a situation where I
02:03:22
didn't know at the time but been in uniform we' stopped a car in the middle
02:03:27
of the night and it took off. We chased it. It stopped in the back streets of Andal. I get out on the passenger. I
02:03:33
walk up to the back passenger side of the car and the car took off and eventually car got stopped, caught and
02:03:41
the driver, the young guy said they were going to rob a service station in the middle of the night and had stopped. The
02:03:49
bender in the back of the car had a torn off shotgun and he said, "I'm going to
02:03:53
shoot the pig when he walks up," which was me. Um the young driver panicked and
02:03:57
took off. So you have to live with that. Um, and you don't know that at that
02:04:02
time, but within a few hours found out and I had a little baby son at the time. And so that has an impact. You think,
02:04:11
gosh, what could it have been? Do you tell your wife that at the time? Yeah, it was in the news,
02:04:19
right? Okay. Jeez. Yeah, that Yeah, for for the partners. That's um yeah I've also before been in
02:04:29
a domestic situation the the males left and gone to another dress. We've gone to
02:04:34
the address and through the a glass door basically front door and you know knock
02:04:40
on the door and all you see and you can see the shadow behind and he's got and
02:04:44
it's just sergeant. Yes, please put the gun down. But yeah, how long does it take you to come
02:04:53
down after that? Uh, when you're young, I don't think it takes as long as when
02:04:58
you're older. You older, you think about things a lot more. But look, look, it's
02:05:01
it's there. It's happened. I know it's happened. And that's why I feel for some
02:05:04
of the staff out on the street with what goes on now. Yeah. Uh, what has been the
02:05:08
most rewarding moment in your police career? Gosh, there's a there's a lot. I
02:05:16
think when we have an award ceremony and the um Grace Millions investigation team got
02:05:27
an award and I got a commissioner's commendation and it was also my 42nd year anniversary and so you have this
02:05:36
big um the race course um race course is full place pack the commission M police
02:05:45
was there and when they called my name out and I come up and the whole audience stood up and
02:05:52
applauded. It was just yeah it was quite emotional. Um but yeah I just oh gosh like there's lots of others who've done
02:06:00
a lot of work in this job. I just happen to have a public media profile. There's
02:06:05
others. Do you do you have like a a pool room at home or like a man cave or a I've got a
02:06:13
table to this table but do I put up occasionally but yeah my kids say I've got a shrine because you know we used to
02:06:21
have have an office then open plan so I can't put all my photos and yeah stuff
02:06:26
up so I've got a little office which I call it the shrine and all my photos people from these college days and all
02:06:33
that. Yeah. How do you feel when you go in there and see that stuff? Proud. Oh I
02:06:36
feel quite proud. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. How can you not? Yeah. Um, someone wants to know, uh, cop shows on TV. Any
02:06:42
favorites and any resemblance to real life? I don't really watch them. Yeah.
02:06:46
No, I like to watch sport on TV. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I do I do watch um, you know, I've got a case and it's been in
02:06:54
the media. Um, a cold case, Alicia Riley, a little six-year-old girl who in 1980 was raped and murdered in a home in
02:07:01
Aendale. And we're working on that and we're going down the genetic genealogy
02:07:05
path. So, I'd like to watch some of the YouTube clips around genetic gology. Do cold cases occupy much space
02:07:13
in your mind? Yeah. Yeah, I've got a few. Yeah. Um suppose that's what you
02:07:19
doing. Simon Bose 1980 murdered in Bruce Park. Do a bit of work on that. Yeah. Yeah. But you're not you're not thinking
02:07:28
about that when you're out kayaking, are you? No. No. No. No. I'm enjoying the
02:07:33
moment. I'm just enjoying being at peace and like particularly when the water's
02:07:36
calm, there's no wind, you just it's just so peaceful. So come down. That's
02:07:41
good. You deserve that peace. Yeah. Yeah. Um if you could give parents one tip to help keep their kids safe, what
02:07:48
would it be? It's it's difficult but just be aware of a change in them because what happens is people notice
02:08:04
change in the ch their children you know they don't want to go to someone friend's house anymore or something they
02:08:11
just react and they just changed a lot of times it's because they've been
02:08:16
abused and not necessarily in their home. So yeah, just if you see particularly the young children, if you
02:08:24
see something that changes, be aware of that. Plus, you do say the technology just have a little bit more
02:08:33
conversation. I know it's difficult to talk to teenagers. Uh but you know what
02:08:39
are they doing online? You just try to have a bit more knowledge about that because as I say lead down to horrible
02:08:47
past. God, it's never been more difficult than it is now to be a parent. Eh, I know. I know. I feel, you know,
02:08:52
say I've got my children got their children and I think they do a fantastic job, but it's not easy. You don't want
02:08:58
to be like a control freak parent or a helicopter parent, but then, you know, you got to be careful of the policeman
02:09:03
granddad. Yeah. Yeah. Um, what are the what are the greatest challenges police face on the front line
02:09:12
today? Uh, look, I think it is the violence towards police. Yes, when I was younger,
02:09:20
we had violence towards police, but now it's getting younger and younger. There's children's violence out on the
02:09:26
street, and it's also directed at police and yeah, it's tough. What do you hope your legacy will be
02:09:35
both within the police force and in the broader community? Wow, what a legacy. Uh yeah, I like to think that, you know,
02:09:46
police staff, we can be empathetic. You know, we are human and we can be empathetic and we're out there
02:09:55
doing our best. Yeah. As I said before, we don't always get it right, but you
02:10:02
know, there's a lot of things police staff do that the public will never see
02:10:06
or never know. You know the death and tragedies that my staff have to attend, you know, in one shift, one squad
02:10:14
attended three suicides. They have to deal with that. And that's why the counseling is Yeah.
02:10:26
Um that was a very selfless answer, but the question was um what do you hope your legacy will be? And you
02:10:34
managed to turn it into the broader. Yeah. I don't think there's a lot about
02:10:37
you. I don't about me. I don't want to be about me. I want it. Yeah. Yes, I'm a
02:10:41
policeman. Yes, I have a media profile. But the police in general, we're a team.
02:10:47
The team wins. Oh, you won because of him. Yeah, you might have scored a goal. We'll try, but the team wins. And uh
02:10:56
[Music] well as as I mentioned at the beginning um when I said on Instagram you were
02:11:01
coming in um there were some questions which we've just shared but they were
02:11:04
mainly just comments and the words that sort of came up repeatedly were I suppose like kind, compassionate and
02:11:09
caring. Uh which I think speaks volumes. Like if if your kids or grandkids or people that know you better than anyone
02:11:16
else had to come up with three words to describe you, what would it be? What would they be?
02:11:22
Yeah. kind like I'm a disciplinarian that's it's my thing I am but yeah like
02:11:30
see my granddaughters they grandad they come running up to me and um a father just says you're so loving you know they
02:11:38
just love you so much and yeah I whatever I just think yeah just put yourselves in other people's shoes just
02:11:49
be kind be nice you Sometimes as a boss of it a bit harsher, but in general, you know, like be kind.
02:12:00
Yeah, I love that. That's a great way to end it. Um, so what's what's next for
02:12:05
you in terms of the health stuff? Uh, 12th of May, a month of radiation, and then see where it's gone. Yeah.
02:12:13
Did you just find that out this morning? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I've It was
02:12:17
last year that my PSA levels started to go up. I don't have prostate PSA levels
02:12:23
uh cuz I get through nothing test. So to come up test it again and they gone over
02:12:28
the line and then they sort of stayed above the line and that's where they at. So
02:12:34
yeah it was just okay you need to go and see the radiation oncologist and it started from there now okay you need um
02:12:41
hormone treatment radiation and so yeah today was a pain day. So you ready for the battle? Yeah, been there before.
02:12:51
Yes, this this is this don't like losing. I don't like losing. I'm competitive and even on this sports
02:12:56
field, I didn't like losing. Hey, this has been so great today. Uh, Detective
02:13:00
Inspector Scott Beard, thanks so much. You truly are a great New Zealander and I can't thank you enough for we've been
02:13:05
going backwards and forwards for maybe 6 months. Yeah. Even though your office is
02:13:09
like um 15 meters from here. I know. And when we get the alarm goes off, the backyard comes through. See? Yeah. Yeah.
02:13:17
And and that's the thing that I noticed about you now that since we u have offices just over the road whenever I've
02:13:22
seen you you just have this good energy like you bounce in. You're always smiling. You're always laughing. Always
02:13:28
happy. Always lean and fit looking. Um yeah, you're a great New Zealander. Thanks so much mate. Thank you for that
02:13:34
Dom. It's been great. Yeah. And I just hope you know people will hear and take
02:13:38
something from it and particularly around the hills. Yeah. And metal. Well, thanks on on behalf of me for being on
02:13:44
the podcast today and also on behalf of New Zealand for a lifetime of service. No, thank you very much.

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This episode stands out for the following:

  • 85
    Most heartbreaking
  • 80
    Most inspiring
  • 80
    Best performance
  • 75
    Most emotional

Episode Highlights

  • Detective Inspector Scott Beard's Health Battle
    Scott Beard reveals his cancer diagnosis and the importance of early detection.
    “I just want people to know that... it can save your life.”
    @ 02m 50s
    April 13, 2025
  • The Importance of Community Support
    Beard emphasizes the role of community in supporting children and families.
    “It is a community thing.”
    @ 19m 34s
    April 13, 2025
  • Child Homicide Training
    Training police on child homicide is tough but necessary for better outcomes.
    “The course theme was child homicide because I've run so many.”
    @ 20m 59s
    April 13, 2025
  • A Riot Unfolds
    A police officer recounts the chaos of a riot, highlighting the dangers faced.
    “It was like a war zone. It was horrendous.”
    @ 42m 14s
    April 13, 2025
  • Protecting the Queen
    The officer shares his experience as a driver for the Queen during the Commonwealth Games.
    “I’ve done a lap of Mount Smart driving around. So badass.”
    @ 49m 45s
    April 13, 2025
  • FBI Training Experience
    A police officer shares insights from his FBI training, highlighting the intensity of the experience.
    “It was like being at university the whole semester.”
    @ 01h 01m 35s
    April 13, 2025
  • The Rough Sex Defense
    A discussion on the controversial rough sex defense in legal cases.
    “I thought the message behind it was really good.”
    @ 01h 12m 23s
    April 13, 2025
  • The Emotional Toll of the Trial
    The speaker reflects on the emotional challenges faced during the trial process.
    “It was really tough, you know, and um you trying to be strong.”
    @ 01h 17m 53s
    April 13, 2025
  • A Mother's Heartbreak
    A poignant moment as a mother expresses her love for her daughter after a tragic loss.
    “I’d rather use Grace’s name. That’s who I love. That’s who I miss.”
    @ 01h 36m 54s
    April 13, 2025
  • The Impact of a Police Career
    Reflecting on the profound impact police work can have on victims' lives.
    “What you do now have a huge impact later.”
    @ 01h 48m 32s
    April 13, 2025
  • The Impact of Abandonment
    Reflecting on the emotional toll of never knowing his father.
    “It's almost like double abandonment in a way.”
    @ 01h 58m 44s
    April 13, 2025
  • Advice for Parents
    Emphasizing the importance of being aware of changes in children.
    “Just be aware of a change in them.”
    @ 02h 07m 55s
    April 13, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • I’ve always said, I treat people the way I would want to be treated.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case
  • Going to a psychologist is like getting a warrant for your head.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case
  • I did miss birthdays, which was sad.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case
  • It was really tough, you know, and um you trying to be strong.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case
  • You didn’t do anything wrong. He’s the one accountable.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case
  • It’s really sad. It’s just gut-wrenching.
    EXCLUSIVE: Detective Inspector Scott Beard’s New Cancer Diagnosis, Reflecting on Grace Millane Case

Key Moments

  • Career Insights15:31
  • Community Support19:34
  • Child Homicide Training20:59
  • Mental Health Awareness35:35
  • Sense of Relief1:38:17
  • Emotional Verdict1:38:33
  • Parenting Advice2:07:55
  • Health Battle2:12:55

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