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Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey

February 26, 2023 / 01:22:48

This episode features Dean Lonigan discussing his experiences in boxing promotion, his past as a rugby league player, and his relationship with his son. Key topics include his transition from sports to media, the challenges of promoting fighters like Joseph Parker, and his insights into the boxing industry.

Dean shares stories about his early career in rugby league, including a notable match against Australia in 1991 where he suffered a concussion. He reflects on the impact of that game on his life and career.

The conversation shifts to Dean's work in boxing promotion, particularly the Fight for Life events, and his efforts to support New Zealand boxers. He mentions fighters like Jaya Pattaya and Andre Michaelovich, highlighting their potential and talent.

Dean also discusses his personal journey, including financial struggles and the importance of family. He emphasizes the value of resilience and learning from mistakes throughout his life.

Finally, Dean talks about his current living situation with his mother and sister, expressing gratitude for family connections and the importance of being present in life.

TLDR

Dean Lonigan shares his journey from rugby to boxing promotion, family ties, and overcoming financial struggles.

Episode

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Escape Runners only with dime Harley 's only with dom Harvey and Dean lonigan
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g'day mate how are you yeah fantastic thank you so much for coming over no problems it's fair to say haven't done
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too much running of late you're looking like a Scandinavian racing sardines and
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I'm looking like a fairly bloated pump that way or maybe oh you're being
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too hard on yourself what is um first of all thanks for coming over I had I told
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some people you were coming over and they said oh what's he selling or what's
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he promoting I said no nothing he just agreed to agreed to come over is that a reputation you have oh I'm assuming it
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is you know by Nature I think I'm a Salesman and we I sell stuff for a living that's what I've been doing for
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the last sort of 30 or 40 years and at the moment we're in the business of selling boxing and we're we're
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re-establishing ourselves back here in New Zealand we've got some stuff coming
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up but I'll talk about anything you want to talk about Dominus you're uh you
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asked me over I have no idea what the agenda is so we'll just roll with it well there's there's no agenda this is
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just um basically to unpack your fascinating life I've always found you a fascinating dude I promise you it's not
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that fascinating especially when you sit in the middle of it so um first of all yeah the podcast is
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called Runners only what what is your relationship with running do you run at all not anymore Once Upon a Time
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obviously uh when I was a young fellow I aspired to be a professional a football
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player which I sort of managed to achieve on a semi-professional basis and used to do quite a bit of obviously
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training like predominantly short stuff but uh you know with a benefit of time and looking at the times when I achieved
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the most I did them in sport uh the longer distance was definitely the way to go to get a base and the sport that
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we participate in now in boxing and we don't participate we organize all boxes
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if you want to be good they have to get out and do the miles on the road in the morning five six miles or whatever that
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equates to in case gives them a good base running for 45 minutes to half hour sorry 45 minutes to an hour and that
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that provides the base for what they do but yeah certainly a long time ago I used to do it I get out and I walk you
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know and I've got to get out and move more and walk more I'm probably about 20
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kilos overweight so I've got 20 to lose so I'm working on it um yeah the distance you were talking
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about that's probably the best Pad like 10ks and uh I know like Tyson Fury and
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Joe Parker those guys do that most mornings and David nikau who is in Australia in similar location to where
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you've been he's um he's a demon isn't he runs super he's an outstanding
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athlete you just got to get his shirt off to see is that he's he's cut he's very much in
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the uh he could be a male model quite easily yeah ridiculously good looking and what I can't believe I think he's
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about six foot three six foot four and he fights a Cruiserweight which is about 91.5 kilos how he gets down to that
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weight is beyond me because he is all muscle so I can only imagine he's got fairly light bones so God knows what
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reason and he must have reasonably skinny legs because he's just he's built
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like a brick [ __ ] house up top so and he is an exceptional boxer uh he's going to
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be a great New Zealand Talent yeah phenomenal and you you're back in New Zealand because the the fight for life's
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coming back oh at some stage I'm sure we'll be announcing that but we come
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back here uh we had a contract Liam and my son we run a company called DNL events which stands for Dean and Liam
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it's very clever I never would have guessed it short to the point um and you I tell you what when people
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are taking down your email addresses you have to spell it out them letter by letter by letter because it's actually
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not that easy strangely enough and they look it looks like dandel events but it's not but um we had a contract with
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Fox Sports I think for seven and a half eight years and unfortunately that come to a conclusion December 31 and so we've
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still got a stable of fantastic New Zealand boxes uh and Andre mccailovich is is one who's a middleweight he's
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probably the greatest middleweight Prospect this country's ever seen we've
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got Jerome pampalone and they're both world rated guys and we're looking to do
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a deal and maybe put some stuff on with a young lady called miyamatu who was quite Sensational she uh she's capable
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of fighting for a world title so we've got some really great New Zealand talent
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and we've currently got the only male world champion in Australia a guy called
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Jaya Pattaya Jay is without doubt the toughest man I've seen in my entire life
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and I I would say he's probably the toughest Combat Sports sports athlete on
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the planet he fought in a world title uh July 2 last year on the Gold Coast and he fought the number one guy in the
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division a guy called Morris breedus he broke his jaw Joy broke his jaw in the first two rounds of the fight so he had
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to fight 10 Rounds with a broken jaw but then and I was right ringside when I saw
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this he broke it on the second side um in around 10. so his whole Jewel for two rounds was literally flopping around
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in the breeze and I I should can you imagine the intense Agony every time you get even a light gray he couldn't talk
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afterwards he was just an immense pain but to be able to still walk forward like he was taking shots on the chin
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biting down on his jaw and it was just flopping he said it was like bite into a mouthful of marbles and like he he
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couldn't hold the jaw together but he still kept fighting but I don't know
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anything like that I'd be so mad at my corner for not throwing Talent well I
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think I'd go over there and grab that towel myself to be fair Joy Joy would have been gutted if they did that
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because his his goal is mate he this is what he does for a living he's always
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wanted to be world champion he got his chance and he is the greatest advocate for
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um how do you get over pain and adversity this is a guy who had a broken hand for five years so he's a South poor
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and his left hand is power weapon he couldn't fully land that because it was
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broken for five years and he kept fighting and didn't tell anyone because he needed the money
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this is a guy who probably started boxing age eight or ten went to the Olympics was selected for the Olympics
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for Australia when he was 16 fought when he was 17 one of the youngest boxers to
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ever go to the Olympics um got his chance at a world title and nothing was going to take that chance
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away from him no matter what broken jaw he actually broke his ribs a month before the fight and Rib injuries I
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don't know if you've ever had them done but I fractured as well that's excrucia
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they are excruciating well he it not only broke it separated crossed over another rib and ripped all the rib
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cartilage off and Rib cartilages are the most painful injury you can ever have and normally these things are take two
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three months minimum he was fighting six weeks later he did the injury on a Thursday had surgery on it on a Sunday
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and about a week and a half later it was back in nearly full training his tolerance of pain is through the roof
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and I can't everything you see on Conor McGregor on the outside and how angry and tough he
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looks that's what Joy's got on the inside and uh watch out for him he's
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something very very special I've never seen anything like him and uh Liam and
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herself think he's going to be something special okay now this is the funny thing
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this Joy guy that you mentioned and all those kiwi Fighters hand on heart I've
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never heard of any of them but you and your son do such a phenomenal job like promoting these people like you you
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should have made Joseph Parker a household name well we worked with Joseph yeah all we did was provide him
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the platform and Joe took advantage of it by doing what he did which is win fights the reason why you haven't heard
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a lot of Andre michaelovich and miyamadu and and Jerome pampalone is simply because we've been over in Australia and
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these guys have been fighting over there so our job over the next 12 months is to
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blow these people up because they are seriously world-class they're all they're coached by a guy called Isaac
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Peach who's a hardcore heavily tattooed West aucklander who lives out in West
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Auckland but in my opinion he's a Bastion of world-class Excellence he really knows what he's doing when it
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comes to boxing he's he's got a world champion where he's got a guy called
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David light's going to fight for a World Championship uh I think March 25 in
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England against Lauren sir Cole who's a WBO World Cruiserweight Champion he's
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got miyamadu he's got um he's got uh um Andre michaelovich and Jerome pamplon
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that's fascinating about all these Fighters he's had them all for about four years or more none of them have
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lost yet he is just an incredible uh boxing trainer and I think you're going to see
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some big things out of him and over the next sort of couple of years you're going to start seeing New Zealand boxing
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you know come to the four again Joe Parker's going to keep what do it Joe does I think Joe's an exceptional Talent
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mate I think he could go back to a heavyweight title at some stage he's not that far away from it kiwis can be very
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critical if they don't see amazing performances every time someone steps out yeah it's terrible thing it is a
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little bit but you know what the fact is that they care enough to have an opinion
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and you'd rather have people who've got an opinion good bad or otherwise and
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people not have an opinion and not knowing who they are yeah that's true um right enough about other people let's
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talk about you Dean lonigan so you um so you you became famous like in the late 1980s uh early 90s playing um for the
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Kiwi League team I wouldn't quite say famous but I was interested involved in
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uh involved in back then there was no social media there's no fragmentation of
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media that I think there are only probably three or four TV channels going at the time and uh the kiwis played
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Australia I think in 1991 at Mel in Melbourne we hadn't won against the Aussies for a long long time and uh they
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had one of the all-time great teams that had the likes of Steve roach I think Wally Lewis and a number of other really
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high profile players and in 91 we went over there with a very unheralded young Underdog side I was part of that along
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with Clayton friend and Gary Freeman and Peter Brown and a whole lot of other guys and we managed to pull off a win
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and uh at the time I got knocked out probably 10-15 minutes into the game I uh was
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this the one is this the one where you um you were like convulsing on the floor yeah right yeah I guess it was like a
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concussion a head knock yeah it very much was we um might still be on YouTube if anyone wants to look it up but it's
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it's sickening right well it's not great but we I was very very keen to put a big
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shot on roach because we'd played Stevie roach and we played Balmain early in the
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New Year early in the preseason uh Auckland rugby league played Balmain and one new roach was going to be in the
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side so we had a bit of a fracker in that game and I was very keen to put a big hit on him early on and you know try
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and intimidate him it was the dumbest thing I could have done because I ended up getting knocked out he ended up with
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about 20 stitches in his head I got knocked out and convulsed on the field I got carried off and came back on a
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little bit later yeah that was sort of the incident that blew us up and then I got a job on radio
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hierarchy after that right wait wait wait you are moving way too fast like this uh we need to digest this somewhat
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like the podcast will be over in four minutes so yes so you get knocked out it's sickening um I feel like this was a
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golden era for league and it was a time where yeah fights were still sort of encouraged and you know if you squirted
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some water on your head and came back on the field you were considered like like
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heroic in a way that wasn't the reason behind it right pretty much as I was being dragged off I could see George
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Mann who I'd played with in the Auckland team and I played against him in quite a
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few Club competitions George was warming up and I just thought man I've fought
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too hard for you to have the spots yours so as soon as I regained my George ran on and as soon as I regained my stuff I
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said to Bob on it Bob Bailey who's a coach this is mate I'm ready to go back
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on it was 10 or 15 minutes later so he threw me back on and I've only I've
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watched the game once and I know how do you feel when you watch it all right it's like somebody watching somebody
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else yeah but I know when I come back on if I'm staggering all over the place we
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managed to get through the first I don't remember much about the first half we've
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got we got through the game and we won the game and what's really interesting
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right is that you don't know what people are going to come into your life as a
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result of things like that and Liam and myself have been working in Australia for the last seven years and the
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commentator who called that game was a guy called Pat Walsh and Pat had gone on to be quite instrumental in uh in
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Channel 7 Brisbane and massive media context so Pat has been incredibly he remembered the game he remembered me
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from that game Pat Walsh has been he only just retired incredibly helpful toward for us in terms of connections
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all around Australia you know so it's just and those sort of connections they
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last for a very very long time so yeah it's quite it's quite interesting where
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where things end up and what you end up doing how many other times were you can cast I I couldn't tell you are you right
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now yeah I think so so my memory is not as good as it could be but then again most people well you're in your late 50s
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so that's yeah I'm 57 you know so but you know you look at guys overseas in
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Australia in particular and they've all got the fading memories like I think the
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Ray Price has got some issues I think Steve mortimer's got some issues dodge a bullet do you think well I
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finished quite young so that the the game that I got knocked out and I played one more test match after that and I
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might have had another five or six games after that then I finished up so I was only 26 when I finished rugby league and
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then I was lucky enough you know that I didn't think much of it at the time but
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I was lucky enough to get a job on radio hierarchy and I got to tell you Dom you
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did 25 years plus on radio yeah there is no doubt that in my opinion of all the media of anything you can do radio is
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the greatest job because you know I I wouldn't have done I never took it as seriously as you did as your career
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right and it was something I just stumbled into and just got lucky but um I got a job on radio hierarchy I used to
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do six to nine fine I'd turn up at five to six and I'd leave at nine o'clock
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you're part of a very successful show called the morning pirates with um was
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it Mark Perry and Leah Mark Perry and Leah we took what happened was that what sort of music was it a rock station
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classic rock to The Cutting Edge and made it we hierarchy at one stage it was very very popular in Auckland way back
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before the days of the fragmentation you've got now and you're all up and in
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the country and it was very very popular so how how did that um how did that career come about like were you just
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quote were you were you quite charismatic at aftermath speeches and stuff or you had another natural Flair
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for no I think what happened was uh I'd been on this show a couple of times because you had Phil Gifford and um I
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can't remember the other girl's name and Mark Perry was on the show and then I'd
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been in the studio a couple of times which was one of the local rugby league players and when I got knocked out
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obviously there's a bit of I was quite high profile and I yeah I was in the media a lot for a very
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short space of time but uh I ended up being quite good mates with some some of the radio guys Dan Boyle was in there
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and Mike Regal who was a program director and when um for whatever reason I think more FM Cam and poached Phil
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Gifford and I think it was Kathy at the time and they took them down to Christchurch so that's when Phil left so
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all of a sudden there was a space so they got me in for a few days to cover a few days turned to a couple of weeks a
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couple of weeks two to a couple of months and then a couple of months turned to I think I did seven years so
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it was just luck amazing I feel like you get bored of things too so seven years for you is a long time you know what I
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really enjoyed it radio is a lot of fun and do I get bored with stuff some maybe I don't know but I did enjoy
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radio and it's a great meeting to be part of and I'll tell you the perfect
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place to do radio would be Sydney London or New York where they get paid Millions
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to do it yeah because it's the world's easiest job and I know a lot of people
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you know a lot of people aspire to it and and and they should do and a lot of people are in there for their careers
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get all nervous about it and they do a lot of work and that's fantastic but I
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can only tell you how my experience and compared to bloody working 12-hour shift
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set at Coca-Cola driving forklifts and packing loads or being an offsider on trucks delivering Coca-Cola you know and
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then I was also I used to be a cleaner so I used to run three jobs yeah I used to run three jobs so when I first left
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school I went what you'd call to be an offsider on trucks so you help people
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deliver soft drinks right then I'd finish that and I'd come home and I'd do
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I was a cleaner at a school at my school I used to work at so I used to go to school at and then after that I would be
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at rugby league so effectively I had three jobs because I was getting paid for all three of them so it's a with
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money any good in Rugby League at that time yeah I was right yeah you know like so these jobs sort of LED before you
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were a professional player yeah a lot we were getting paid to play rugby league and it's all relevant right back then I
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remember I brought my first house as an investment was like 75 grand well when I
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at the time I might have been making 50 or 60 Grand a year before tax you know so it's very very easy to get into these
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things and when I was a young fella maybe 21 22 I remember having two or three houses you know so um it was a lot
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there's no doubt it was a lot easier back then compared to what you've seen
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now in average house prices are up over they're now coming back but yeah so and
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the opportunity to buy in was a lot easier unfortunately you know I was going to keep these houses and have 10
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or 20 by the time I'm 57 didn't quite work out that way ex I remember um just when I sort of left school and
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started in radio this would have been like 1990 I guess early 90s I'd come up
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to Auckland stay with my friend Robert Scott who's on the breeze now and because you guys were on 2xs together
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right that must have been a great place to work because I've I'm on social media
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it's one of the great things about Facebook Facebook friends with a few people and I always see this 2xs stuff
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come up and people say what a great time it was down in the manner with two in Palmerston yeah
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for like really quite good radio talent for some reason yeah um but yeah I'd
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come up and stay with Robert and he lived in sarsfield Street and I'd point out your house really and I don't know
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if you were playing League at the time or maybe just started on radio but it's
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like one of the most expensive streets in Auckland now that it has probably worth seven or eight metal it probably
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is and I wish I had to keep the bloody thing but yes I was in Southfield Street we were right down the bottom of it and
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it was a lovely it was amazing neighborhood yeah but like I said it's a lot easier to get back getting it back
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there what it is now and I think yeah I paid about a half a million bucks for that place whereas now it's like
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whatever it's worth and at the time it was a real stretch for me and you know
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and I was really I was being a wanker to be honest because we used to live in a place called wanganui Ave which is on
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the other side of uh Hoon Bay and I love her I love wanganui Ave but that was sort of the Southern slopes and all the
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knobs were on the other side of the uh the northern slopes and then my stupidity as a young fellow I thought it
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was a call to be with all the knobs but you know I should have stayed where we were it was a lot a lot less to get in
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there and make great place to live it's close to where we are now in the podcast
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space so um were you were you married at the time have you ever been married no so you so you you're um a father of one
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Liam and one thing that strikes me about you from my relationship with you is just how much your relationship with
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your son means to and I'm talking way back when you used to work in the same
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building as me and you'd come in and Liam was a young fella at the time and you always give them a shout out on the
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year using his middle names the whole lot that's yes I've got a mate of mine
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Leah I've got Leo Malloy who's Run for the mayor of Auckland always calls them
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lrd which is Liam Robert Daniels which is I always call them uh Liam Robert Daniel on here so yeah no it's you know
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we got Perfection on the first go there's no need there anymore so so Liam's mum and your ex her name is
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Julie Julie it is yes you were never married no we didn't marry but we're
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still really good friends yeah you know she's been an amazing mum and you know
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she's a good friend of mine and I get she's married now and I get on very very
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well with her husband so yeah it's been a while it's not never ideal it's been
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as good as it could be I think when did when did you break up when Liam was quite yes yeah Liam was on a young
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father maybe one what happened you want to talk about no and not particularly it's not a period that I'm proud of I
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made a complete dick of myself on a number of occasions yes infidelity or yes but look there's a lot of water
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under the bridge oh the answer is you're right and we all do stupid we do it younger you can't you
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can't hold that much killed in the same quarter of a century later if I had my
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chart if I had my time again you'd do things way differently so yeah it's not
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it's not a proud period of my life wasn't it she forgiven you though oh yeah you need to forgive yourself well I
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probably have I just don't ever want to talk about right but you were I mean you were famous at
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the time you know you were young you were successful I suppose there was a lot of they're not excusing your
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behavior but there was a lot of Temptation it's really interesting you say famous
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right I don't kill anyone says you can't be famous in New Zealand there's five
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million people live here you might a whole lot of people might recognize you when you go past but I once spend some
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time with a guy called Mark Jackson and Mark played in the AFL and he fought in one of my fight for life he was a real
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character a real character and he used to say you know these people of Australia think they're [ __ ] famous
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they're not famous Frank Sinatra is famous and I hung out with Frank Sinatra
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in the 70s you know what I mean like these if Tom Cruise has got real Fame yeah and it's true when you look at the
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likes of the Brad Pitt's and the Chris rocks and the the rock and all these different Arnold Schwarzenegger they're
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really famous that's real Fame yeah the stuff we have down here is just a few
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people recognize you on the way through and annoy the [ __ ] out here when you go
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out and you might you might have a drink when you go out no I actually don't
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drink milk milk and water's my drink of choice yeah actually I I do want to get
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to that well by the way I got you a drink if you want to I've got your own milk Dom actually would you believe this
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with my current fat guts I need to stay off the milk I love milk it would be my favorite drink if I wanted to I could
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drink four and five liters a day easily but I choose not to because it's not
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good for me yeah I went to see it like a nutritionist years ago and she was like
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oh you need to cut your coffee out you know milk is used to fatten babies well correct and it's not only milk is used
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we use another species milk the cows to feed us I don't know that it's overly
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healthy but I do love the stuff better yeah and that's one thing that struck me
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about you always like if you're out at a bar with you you'll have like a pint of
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milk and it's like you'd be probably the only person I know over the age of eight
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that drinks milk is like a recreational drink it's a very bizarre site so I think you know like now I'm sitting
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there with the milk we've actually I the the late great Phil Kingsley Jones I
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went to Wales with him and we were searching for people to fight in one of our fight for life one year and we and
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Phil was a great guy a good just an amazing character for anyone that doesn't know Jonah lomey's manager he
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was General but he was way more than just that he was a personality in his own right and he's a great speaker and
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had great jokes but we went up to the uh The Valleys of of Wales which is and that's the coal mining area and I've got
00:22:27
to tell you I've never seen so many rough hardcore women in all my life and they all knew and loved Phil and one of
00:22:34
the piece of his ass back then but um yes and he could not believe I'd send him to the bar and he'd have to order
00:22:40
pints of milk yeah so yeah um why have you never been married do you think are you sorry just going back
00:22:48
to that are you better on your own or you just never found the right person or are you just busy focused on Career
00:22:54
stuff it's really interesting have you been married yeah I'm well I'm still
00:22:57
legally married to JJ but we broke up about five years ago yeah look I've had
00:23:01
some significant relationships but haven't quite got around to doing the Marion
00:23:06
thing and you know I as you get older in life I think you can reflect on a whole lot of things and you
00:23:12
go you know what maybe I was the problem as opposed to them so as you get on in life you go
00:23:21
yeah it's not uh and look I I live an amazing situation at the moment which I
00:23:28
can't believe I'm in but I'm there and I really enjoy it you know it's very cool
00:23:32
what is it what's the situation I live with my I live with my mum and my sister
00:23:37
and I absolutely love it I'm telling you right because I've been transient for
00:23:42
the last or leaving myself in particular I've been transit for the last bloody um
00:23:46
the last probably five or six years between here in Australia you know we had an apartment over in Brisbane for
00:23:52
quite some time and then uh we moved sort of down to the Gold Coast and we come and we become a
00:23:58
little bit transient and one of the things I I hate in life I just hate it is moving house it is the worst it is
00:24:05
one of my pet hates and I've been a transient for 30 40 years so uh yeah that's the hell is your mum now you're
00:24:12
in your late 50s my mom's 77. that's nice and your dad's still alive as well yeah you should I had 79
00:24:20
dead Deads and they're both incredibly fit and healthy like all the mum's
00:24:26
um brothers and sisters one brother died young but they all lived to a ripe old age you know the older sister got to 92
00:24:33
I think and so I expect mum's got a few more uh miles left on the tires getting dad's
00:24:40
dad still he lives in waiki Island trains three times a week and very very strong still well it looks a lot like
00:24:47
you to be honest Fitness wise so he does a lot of weight training and and exercising and the Germany's been doing
00:24:52
it for 20 25 years and Dad's committed no matter what happens to get into a hundred so you know which is it's a
00:24:58
pretty good goal to have that's a great goal so wow is it that seems like a weird
00:25:04
dynamic living with him so your sister's a similar age you know 50. my sister is
00:25:08
uh she's four years younger than me she's 53 and my mother's they brought a
00:25:13
house together going back probably 20 years ago and then they sold that house and they brought a really really big
00:25:19
house so we live in a big house it's like three stories high and I sort of have commandeed the middle level mum has
00:25:25
the bottom level and my sister has the top level okay so you're not all three
00:25:28
of you are sitting on the sofa it's a big house I've got to get the situation sorted out
00:25:35
I can promise you that you know like I've got some land up in taupaki that I
00:25:39
need to um I need to get a house on at some stage but uh yeah I I just feel like you're not a not overly
00:25:45
materialistic were you materialistic before you lost your fortune and that's
00:25:49
that's such that's a big understatement I was very very committed to when I was
00:25:53
a young fella and I was going to be done and dusted by 30 or 40 you know I retired yeah retired and doing nothing
00:25:59
and made millions and you know unfortunate I've had ups and downs yeah I want to get into the seat you have
00:26:08
your radio career which is very successful then you get out of there never we had a great time but never made
00:26:14
huge money out of it got paid okay yeah but enjoyed it immensely but never like you were rooming at one stage to be on
00:26:21
300 000 plus a year which is brilliant money oh yeah yeah a bit more but more than
00:26:26
that especially if you get the kpis there you go um which is if you're doing
00:26:30
radio and a three-hour shift and I know you probably prepped a lot more and you're turning yeah I took it way too
00:26:35
seriously you turn up at four and you go you know then you're prepping afterwards
00:26:39
you've got to do that if you're going to be paid the big money yeah um but you also got to enjoy it along
00:26:44
the way and I've got to tell you some of the people I got to do to to work with
00:26:48
like the absolute highlights like Leah panapa um she's still a great mate we
00:26:52
went out to lunch just recently Nathan rarely I was very lucky to be on air with Nathan Nathan's real strength on
00:26:59
radio and this is very rare his real strength was the same guy turned up every single day and was pleasant and
00:27:07
was a nice guy and he's just such a good guy to deal with and you would know this
00:27:11
Dom over the years you want consistency whereas you know some people in radio they come up they
00:27:18
might have different things are happening in their lives and they're all over the place which it happens because
00:27:22
they're creative talented people and uh mate he was uh Nathan was amazing you
00:27:27
know and we got luckily got to talk with Ian Smith as well who I think is one of
00:27:32
the all-time great Cricket commentators no anywhere in the world his commentaries over the years there'll be
00:27:37
nothing short of stunning and I'm saddened to see he's not working with Skye anymore yeah so that you're talking
00:27:42
about that's when I got to meet you so you um you you lost all your money with
00:27:47
the circus thing yeah so you got back into radio we're gonna we'll backtrack and we'll
00:27:52
get into that but when you're working with um Nathan and Smithy I remember this clearly we're in the same building
00:27:58
and it was um all the radio stations faced this internal Courtyard and you'd
00:28:02
be I don't know how many voice breaks you did on here but you're wander around
00:28:04
the courtyard on your phone all [ __ ] morning and then Nathan would tell me stories that um I think you were
00:28:10
contracted to where to wait 30 or 9 A.M and he said 9 aim on the dot if in the middle of an interview or something and
00:28:16
Dana would just give him the thumbs up like let me take the headphones off and set a
00:28:20
tiptoe out oh that was more out of necessity like when I when we I did about seven years I
00:28:29
think on radio Herrick you know I think about seven or maybe eight years I think
00:28:33
it was radio what was it called live talk spot lifestyle live Sport and I got a call out of the blue from Brent Impe
00:28:40
and Brent had been instrumental in me getting the job already howicky Brent as it turns out uh he's a Bastion of New
00:28:46
Zealand broadcasting has been wonderful to me in my all through my life to be honest
00:28:52
my adult life because he he got me the job on he was chairman of the board or I think he was a CEO of the company when I
00:28:58
got on radio hierarchy then he was sort of really high up in the radio industry when I got given this job already alive
00:29:04
or live Sport and he also on a number of occasions put my Fight For Life on TV three you know and I've had subsequent
00:29:11
conversations with the Rugby Union about all sorts of things and Brent's been a
00:29:14
conduit to get me in there so he's been very very good to me that's great I'm
00:29:19
very very uh appreciative of the support that I've always had from from bimpy
00:29:23
unfortunately he's retired or fortunately he's retired now he's on a
00:29:26
few boards but he was certainly good to me and my broadcast yeah likewise as well actually great great man so okay so
00:29:33
you you leave radio helodecki is that when you start the fight for life is that when you bring the fight for life
00:29:37
like corporate boxing to New Zealand feels like it's such a big thing now even the non-televisions yeah like I
00:29:43
think around 2000 right maybe even just before 2000. oh yeah yeah no that's right no you did
00:29:53
right so I at when I left radio hauraki no I was I was at Radio hierarchy I finished Rugby League at probably 26 and
00:30:01
I had played at the Canberra Raiders got a phone call out of the blue from Tim machine says look we'd love to bring the
00:30:06
camber Raiders over to play in a local game and I said yeah that'll be fine so I did a joint venture with radio
00:30:14
hierarchy who I was working with at the time this is sort of the start of my entrepreneurial career I'd only been out
00:30:18
of rugby league for about a year maybe less and um we put this game on Auckland versus this is way before the Warriors
00:30:25
this is like 1991. so we put this game on Auckland versus uh the Canberra Raiders and they were the hottest thing
00:30:31
at the time you know you had Mel meninga he had Laurie Daley Bradley Clyde you had at least 10 to 15 bloody people who
00:30:40
played for Australia and New Zealand or you know state of origin it was a big big so it was a big we sold the thing
00:30:45
out and made it we made a couple hundred grand and I took a hundred and Harrogate
00:30:50
took 100 and I thought at the time geez this is better than playing footy so that's we concentrated on doing for the
00:30:56
next sort of two or three years and then I got tied up Kevin Barry came up for me
00:31:00
said look I've got this really hot young heavyweight David tour I don't know much
00:31:04
about promotion do you want to help out so I helped him put on the first David tour fight and uh just singing spiraled
00:31:10
from there and eventually we got to a thing called fight for life and what had happened with that a friend of mine who
00:31:15
used to work I think in a media works called Peter Spears a sales rep in there and he's a good Maid of mine and his
00:31:22
house had burnt down and he had no insurance so we put together a little fight night there's I fought on it Spiro
00:31:27
fought on it my mate Mark bournville fought on it and we got a few mates together and we we raised some money for
00:31:33
him to give him some money for his house so we raised about 50 Grand and made it
00:31:37
was like walking on ears one of the greatest things I've ever done is like I
00:31:40
don't drugs are not my go but I can tell you if drugs make you feel as good as
00:31:45
this you'd be on them all the time because it was just a real highlight and it was just to do something for a bloke
00:31:50
anyway one thing leads to another and there's a place called yellow ribbon Marco Marinkovic was at that event I
00:31:55
think and he said would you do that for us I said yes sweet but we gotta we'll try
00:32:00
and raise you a million bucks and we've got to get it on TV and we'll use rugby
00:32:03
league players he said sweet so he gave me full license to do what we did I that
00:32:07
first year I did it for nothing and we raised about half a million bucks and we ended up with the number one
00:32:12
rating show on TV three and it just yeah just it spiraled from there yeah so is that is that how I started so you're
00:32:18
doing like league players fighting rugby players yeah the clash of the codes and we had
00:32:24
some real Legends yeah you know for those who are old enough to remember we had Mark Graham and buck shelford and
00:32:29
there I had uh um Mark bournville who the horse who went on to become really amazing and
00:32:34
fight for life and Stevie McDowell we had Mel meninga fought with Kevin borovich so yeah there's a it was a big
00:32:40
deal to us at the time and it was a lot of fun to do it so when did you when did
00:32:43
you broaden it and get into a like other sort of mainstream celebrity started or
00:32:48
mainstream celebrities that just sort of continued on for quite some time and then um
00:32:53
we tuned into more of an entertainment event you know I think we need like dwarfs and yeah well no that was sort of
00:32:58
the second alliteration I used to bring in these really cool acts you know like we'd have motorbikes doing backflips
00:33:05
over the boxing ring and we'd have uh we'd have got you know motorcycle foot
00:33:09
juggling X coming in where we had all these acts and I thought oh wouldn't it
00:33:14
be a good idea if we took all these acts out of fight for life and put them into
00:33:17
a circus and that was probably the dumbest thing I ever did in my life but you're you're like you're a risk taker
00:33:22
so you don't know it's a dumb thing until you got the benefit of hindsight
00:33:25
so the you so you took a big bath on this one this year yeah we dropped in one year uh I'd done a number of things
00:33:32
it wasn't that smart so one I put the circus on I lost about a million bucks
00:33:37
on that I'd brought I I'd sold off previously half my company to a couple of guys and
00:33:43
they were good guys and I brought them out of the company and I had some issues around tax I was about 1.8 million
00:33:49
dollars in debt and I had no assets to back it nothing so what happened to those houses we talked about it well you
00:33:56
know you sell things as you go and you make mistakes you get separated and you make sure people are looked after all
00:34:02
that sort of stuff so you know like I've made if I could make some changes in my life
00:34:07
it'd be the slow accumulation of assets right I got mates of mine who had very
00:34:12
long-term plans and they've done very very well just out of slow accumulation
00:34:16
so that's my advice to all you Risk Takers out there it's fantastic Throwing
00:34:20
It All into one and you know having a crack but I suggest you just out the back end just accumulate those assets
00:34:26
slowly but um so yeah you mentioned um Leo Malloy before and I've had him on
00:34:31
the podcast and we talked about he he ended up bankrupt for a time after he set up a bar called cardiac yes he did
00:34:37
and he reflected on the podcast on his mistakes and he said he sort of through everything that he knew about
00:34:42
Hospitality out the window with this is that what happened to you do you think you got too big for your boots yeah 100
00:34:48
yeah you know you're taking look we hadn't when we're doing fight for life
00:34:52
so I was putting more and more money into the entertainment side of it and there was bugger all net profit coming
00:34:57
back it was just bigger and better events you know with bugger or net profit and so we got to the end of it
00:35:02
when we did this bloody massive circus which lost a huge amount of money and I got all the aspects of circus that you
00:35:09
get right I got them wrong so if you're the dumbest thing you can do if you're
00:35:13
ever going to put on a circus the dumbest thing you can do is fly the best accent from all around the world and
00:35:20
only have them compete or you know do their stuff for a week which is what we did in a fixed outlet and the reason why
00:35:26
it's dumb is firstly their prices through the roof and then you've got all
00:35:29
the accommodation expenses you've got all the bloody um airfares coming in to
00:35:34
be amortized over no more than sort of seven days smart circus acts right they have their
00:35:39
own tents they travel around the world or travel around the area and you employ them for a long period of time their
00:35:45
cost per day goes through the floor so you don't have to sell as many tickets
00:35:47
anyway so I dropped a million on that I was probably 1.8 in debt and it took me four years to pay it off there's no way
00:35:54
I was going to go bankrupt because I knew if I did that I was going to be all over the front pages of the paper so I
00:35:59
called my creditors in and said look here's my problem and I said to them if
00:36:04
you just hang tough with me I'll get you paid then I turned around and I borrowed
00:36:08
about half a million it was about 550k off three different people they gave me that so I managed to work
00:36:16
out a whole lot of non-risky events right that I could run there's no risk I
00:36:21
was going to make money so what we would do is I've got the half million and I
00:36:25
paid off as much of it keeping everyone happy and then I just went on the slow ride of sort of selling the events
00:36:30
paying them off selling new events and paying off the old credit that's when
00:36:34
you and I got to meet and sort of become friends because you got back into radio
00:36:37
first yeah well the radio thing came up because I desperately needed the cash so
00:36:41
I was working I was running a small business trying to make some money I was working for an organization trying to
00:36:47
raise their money and I was also working on radio so I basically had three jobs so when you were uh saw me on the phone
00:36:54
it's because I'm desperately trying to place the bills mate I can tell you this
00:36:58
I remember one day I'm on the North Shore and made I couldn't pay my [ __ ]
00:37:03
phone bill you know and having your phone disconnected is you won't do nothing so they were they were hard
00:37:10
times but you know you have some good times along the way I end up I went and moved into a flat with a good mate of
00:37:17
mine called Grant Church who I just love eternally and we we in it we're in this
00:37:22
flat or it was a house another major I know it's a three-bedroom house and I
00:37:26
was in one bedroom and he had the main bedroom which had the uh the ensuite it was really nice and uh it was a great
00:37:32
Victory to me when he moved out and I could afford to move into the main event for the simple fact like that was just
00:37:40
to move forward right you know was that like in the hindsight looking back was that period um I would say that's the
00:37:46
last period of your life man it was stressful it's got to be um I mean you you can probably like look back with
00:37:52
enough hindsight now to get a picture of things but to go from like being successful like being a successful
00:37:57
League player successful broadcaster successful promoter having like all the money all the assets and stuff and then
00:38:03
being down below zero it was just gonna be [ __ ] hard it was stressful yeah I reckon I was depressed for a year really
00:38:11
what did depression look like for you depression for me um the only Escape was sleep from the
00:38:19
pressure and like for the first year I knew that if I got it wrong I was going to be all
00:38:25
over the news and for doing this and doing that and I'm a low life when all you've done is made mistakes and tried
00:38:31
your best so the first year was the hardest right and when you get to the end of the first
00:38:38
year all of a sudden you realize I can actually do this and I'm going to get
00:38:42
out but when you talk about pressure the second you wake up you're stressed and
00:38:49
you're thinking about what's going to go wrong and then you're anxious right and
00:38:53
that feeling doesn't leave you and it doesn't leave you until you go to sleep
00:38:57
it's like going to bed with a wet blanket and when you go to sleep it disappears but when you wake up it comes
00:39:02
back and it's just stress and it's horrible so 12 months was probably like
00:39:06
that and then it started to diminish after 12 months because you go I can get out of this why did it start to diminish
00:39:13
were you just making a Headway because you're making Headway every time you paid off a bill or paid some money off
00:39:19
it's another it's another Victory you know and all of a sudden all the new
00:39:22
ideas you're forced to have they're working you know like you're never going
00:39:27
to get rich off them but you sure as hell are going to pay your debts so at the end of 12 months I've gone right
00:39:33
this is a long long tunnel but we go I can see the light at the end and it took another three years after that
00:39:41
see a therapist or anything in that time would I you know I don't think so no I
00:39:46
might have I might have you know and I read an article somewhere you were reading like a lot of self-help books at
00:39:52
the time yeah yeah yeah like this is a long time ago yeah yeah like so you know it's a long time again we've we've had
00:39:59
all sorts of successes and failures and challenges since then but having someone you could talk to is
00:40:06
essential because it's like a relieving of pressure yeah who did you have is it
00:40:11
like look I always have my mates right they were great you know like Mark bournville and Mark Bedford and Mike
00:40:17
Patton's mate Steve cousins you know they were fantastic that you know you also need to have
00:40:24
other people you and it's I would recommend therapist I'm not not big on Psychiatry
00:40:29
but certainly from am but if for some people that works for them but a psychologist someone you can go and have
00:40:35
a release valve too also I suppose if you're 1.7 million in debt spending 250
00:40:40
or for an hour with a trained professional probably a lot of people that's chump change look at me at the
00:40:45
time that was a huge amount of money you know so uh and it just took a long time
00:40:49
to pay it back which was pretty shitty I wouldn't want to go through it again why
00:40:54
I mean it says a lot about your character I think like not just declaring bankruptcy why didn't why
00:40:59
didn't you just do that that would have been the easiest thing to do right I
00:41:01
guess my attitude is is that if somebody supplies to you a good or a service right you're it's up to you to
00:41:11
pay for it now in that case it just took a long time for some people to get their
00:41:15
money but that supplied me the goods and the services so they have to be paid you
00:41:20
know and and the alternative you know the alternative as you end up on the front page of the paper and
00:41:26
[ __ ] all sorts of others but I've heard people have said that they've gone
00:41:29
bankrupt and the stress and pain goes instantly it was just not an option for me that was all just a character thing
00:41:36
to say well I don't know if it's character because everyone it was just it was just not an option yeah because
00:41:42
everyone approaches these things differently you know I've had friends who've gone through similar
00:41:47
circumstances and they did things differently and that's fine as well you know and I think the most important
00:41:52
thing you can do with people just be up front and tell them the truth yeah one thing I've said a fan over life
00:41:57
is that um the the [ __ ] hits the fan for everyone at some point everyone goes through good good times and bad times
00:42:02
and one thing you find is people that you think are really good friends they're either like lean in or lean out
00:42:08
when that happens and uh Did you sort of I don't have anyone lean out yeah not by
00:42:13
any stretch the imagination they more leaned in yeah that's good yeah so you
00:42:18
know you're lucky I saw something by Tom Tom Hanks was sitting down there that I saw
00:42:22
on social media is a wonderful thing but there's this little sort of 30 second
00:42:26
one minute clip where he was sit with some really famous guys I might be Robert De Niro and and and and and
00:42:33
Steven Spielberg and a few others and he said when I was I wish someone had told
00:42:38
me when I was a young fella this too shall pass and what he was talking about is that you will have hard times in your
00:42:45
life this tooth shall pass you will have amazing highs in your life this too shall pass so you've I think the lesson
00:42:52
is try not to get too stressed because one way or another you're going to get
00:42:56
out of it or you know and um don't take it all too serious you've had to learn
00:43:02
these lessons the hard way though and where does where do you think this resilience comes from or is it something
00:43:07
that you've you've had to build by necessity over the years I have no idea
00:43:11
I don't know it's resilience it's just oh I know it absolutely you get you get
00:43:15
faced with situations and you just got to overcome them and it's really it's
00:43:18
about about the key thing is is just doing what's in front of you just deal tackle what's in front of you and then
00:43:25
tackle it again the next day and the next day and in the perfect world you'll
00:43:28
get to a point where there's the challenges are overcome and you start to get this from gravy and have some fun
00:43:33
[Music] um yeah you must be immensely proud of how you handle that whole situation
00:43:38
getting out of that hole looking back don't really think about it too much no
00:43:41
no just clearly learn some good lessons though yeah just glad I did it the way we did it as
00:43:48
opposed to take taking the option of not having to pay everyone yeah you know I think I read an article about you at the
00:43:54
time and you're talking about that flat situation with that guy Church you're
00:43:57
talking about and another guy called mango yes what was the flag called the the flat of broken men or something what
00:44:03
is it the house of misunderstood I used to write a bit of a Blog yes so we uh I had two guys in the flat with me
00:44:14
one was called Church which was obviously and church was when he was we went to school together and played rugby
00:44:19
together and church was and his an absolute rocket scientist like he is in six subject class at school used to do
00:44:27
five subjects of school C and I think he went to uh he went he could have gone to
00:44:31
University he got great marks but he ended up you know driving us a a uh a roller called the space shuttle he
00:44:39
called it Challenger Space Shuttle you know like those Steamrollers and uh he is just he's just a great guy
00:44:46
and and just just a really good guy an amazing flatmate you know I wish we were still living with the church because
00:44:53
he's such an amazing guy but uh we used to have this other guy called mango and
00:44:57
he was called mango because he used to ride motorbikes really fast and everybody would say look at that man go
00:45:08
oh God what a time God it sounds like it sounds like some sort of sitcom doesn't
00:45:13
it well I ended up at some at one stage there might I can't remember because all
00:45:19
the dates you know but I used to write this blog and my mum encourages me to to go back to writing a
00:45:28
Blog and it used to be called the house of misunderstood blokes and it was predominantly about the life of my mate
00:45:33
Grant Church who was the world's greatest drain layer and we used to talk about his uh how he'd go on dates and
00:45:40
you know like I was chronicling his life it was quite funny but I've said to her
00:45:43
Manuel if I do this again mum I'm gonna have to write about you and my sister
00:45:47
because that's who I'm living with what we call it did you uh like did you fall
00:45:52
back on alcohol or anything in any of these low points how do you not because a lot of people would like deal with the
00:45:57
stress of a situation like this by I made a conscious decision going through going through it that if you drink
00:46:04
alcohol like you know like I said it was I had a really hard time for the first year but if you drink alcohol
00:46:10
you're going to escape all your problems for three four five or six hours right
00:46:15
and then the problem is when you wake up the next day even worse it's way worse
00:46:19
and not only that is way worse for three or four days so I sort of thought right
00:46:24
I'll kick alcohol for touch and commit myself to doing what I've got to do
00:46:29
and at the back end of it which was four years I lost the taste for the alcohol hence I don't drink anymore because I
00:46:37
just don't like the taste of it there's no great hidden meeting like I used to
00:46:41
drink so much when I was a young fellow and I used to you know I used to have a good time and used to go out and have
00:46:46
plenty to drink but that's not the reason I don't drink anymore it's just I
00:46:49
don't like the taste if you could make alcohol taste like a strawberry milkshake
00:46:55
I'd get drunk 24 hours a day but as it turns out you can't that's good so you
00:47:01
got through that period with a clear head and very very dense bones for all the calcium you're having probably you
00:47:07
um but I'll tell you what I do now right with the milk I cut it in half suddenly that is my drink of choice is
00:47:14
half I get the biggest glass I can get half milk half water lots of ice it's actually really good and the key
00:47:23
thing is to have it cold but that way you can drink you know you can you're not drinking as much as milk because
00:47:29
milks I don't think it's overly healthy for you and I'm sure fonterra doesn't
00:47:33
want me to say this yeah but yeah geez you're an unusual guy was it around this
00:47:39
time when you're living in the flat with these two other misunderstood blokes
00:47:42
that you were you were adding um you had like a Nando's thing as well you're eating Nando's every night of the
00:47:46
week did I read that somewhere I don't think so you're making this episode did we
00:47:54
had those Espionage ah yeah I'll be all I am a creature have it Nando's is very good and very healthy so
00:48:06
do you think um part of it is like um I don't know like a a like a Steve Jobs or
00:48:12
Mark Zuckerberg thing you know they were the same clothes every day because it just takes a like a decision-making out
00:48:17
of their day like if you're eating Nando's you can't possibly put my name
00:48:20
in those two in the same sentence Jesus but um no but you know what I mean it's
00:48:25
like a decision every day that's like man it's because look I go to the same
00:48:29
Cafe most times because I like going there because I have food that I like I ate nandos if I ate Nando's every night
00:48:35
for God knows how long it's because I like the taste of it as opposed to taking the decision-making process away
00:48:41
right like I'm not I'm just not that complex I don't know but I think I think
00:48:45
you are smarter than what you give yourself credit for I I sometimes wonder yeah
00:48:50
um um what else was there so okay so so you get through that first year is difficult
00:48:56
and then you start to see a bit of Headway then you make more and more progress I suppose it's like a Snowball
00:49:01
Effect then how do you um how do you get back into the promotion game is this is
00:49:06
promoting all the way through yeah I was working on contract for a lot of people
00:49:10
I worked I'd do anything to get the money in and one of the contracts I got was with uh with Duco
00:49:17
and yet a guy called David Higgins who I don't have much of an opinion on and
00:49:22
John McRae were there and they were putting together the David tour versus Shane Cameron fight they didn't have any
00:49:28
experience at the time right boxing specifically but they had a nose they definitely had a nose for uh what made a
00:49:34
good promotion so I helped them put that together and I charged them through the
00:49:38
nose for it and uh and helped put them together and it turned out to be very very successful it's a phenomenal event
00:49:44
yeah the fight of the century I had um Shane Cameron on the podcast and we yeah he is a good guy he's a great guy and we
00:49:50
talked about that fight and quite a bit of length and uh he's got so many regrets he said it took seven years for
00:49:55
him to get over there I bet it did yeah seven years seven years before he realized huh I haven't thought about
00:50:02
that all day today wow crazy huh but that's that's what that's what been in
00:50:08
the boxing ring can do to people you know because that was Shane's whole life
00:50:12
was boxing and he built himself up along with his manager Kenny rangefield as you
00:50:18
have to do to be the L for male of the country and all of a sudden there's another alpha male who realizes you
00:50:24
might be a great white shark but this boy over here is a killer whale I mean he's the top of the food chain yeah and
00:50:30
and I'm sure Shane's made peace with it since then you know and David are
00:50:34
friends now they've had a couple of tequila nights together and yeah do you do you feel
00:50:40
um You probably don't it's just business but I mean they were we talked about the
00:50:45
interview that they did on a show it's called Uh close up at seven with Sansone
00:50:48
I remember it yeah and there was like it wasn't quality trash talk it wasn't
00:50:52
Conor McGregor style but it was high quality trash cool you think so why because it was authentic and it wasn't
00:50:59
and Shane was probably putting it on a bit right but tour wasn't Tua I remember
00:51:05
Shane and and and and giving David a hard time and it was just Shane doing the best he could from a trash talk
00:51:11
point of view he's a high quality human being and a great guy but David tour he
00:51:16
wasn't trash talking he did something like he he moved his neck around like that and made it crack and he just
00:51:21
looked I think at Shane and says I'm really going to hurt you and thank you for the opportunity that was about as
00:51:27
authentic as it gets yeah you know what I mean when David tour had never said anything like that in his entire career
00:51:33
and Kenny rainsfield who's a good mate of mine I've known for 30 years was
00:51:37
manager of Shane he really got under David's skin and he was doing things which as a promoter you look at him go
00:51:45
thanks Kenny you just did a great job and of course that sold massively well both at the venue down in Hamilton and
00:51:51
uh and on TV yeah Shane and our podcast he talks about regrets he's gone and he
00:51:55
conducted himself in a way that's not not him to his core yeah but do you feel
00:51:59
a little bit good about that because I feel I feel like you guys made him made him well not made him instead of hyped
00:52:04
the fight because all you can do right at the end of the day all these Fighters make their own decisions as to what they
00:52:10
do and all you can do is provide the platform and Kenny in particular Kenny really got he'd been a promoter himself
00:52:16
and Kenny rainsfield who was Shane's manager understood the need for promotion and Kenny was a genuine tough
00:52:22
guy as well you know he represented New Zealand in the Commonwealth Games I think he went to the Olympics as a
00:52:27
wrestler and one of the great stories about Kenny rainsfield is that going back 10 years ago and he's going to hate
00:52:35
that I tell the story but Kenny could hold himself well and account when it come to a street fight right because
00:52:42
he'd have all his background of wrestling but he got into a fight with a guy in ponsonby Road who was lesser
00:52:49
fighting more an altercation which the other guy should never have started but Kenny did something I've never heard
00:52:55
anyone do and was the most painful thing of anything in anyone's life he grabbed
00:53:00
the guy by the hand his thumb like that and he snapped it down with a quick movement so he broke the guy's thumb and
00:53:06
I've thought about that on many of occasions as one how do you think about doing that and two the pain and her that
00:53:14
you were reflected on someone yes is beyond beyond thoughts it's like torture
00:53:19
oh mate that's like medieval [ __ ] you know so Kenny was a he was an interesting cat and he's now chairman of
00:53:26
the New Zealand Warriors amazing there you go amazing so yes after the um the fight of the century the two of the
00:53:32
Cameron thing um it's when you you uh Duco started working with um Joseph Parker yeah I started they brought they
00:53:40
brought me into the company right I owned half of it okay and you you guys did a phenomenal job with Joseph Parker
00:53:48
like what what no look what was that noise all I can take it from is like um I was
00:53:58
on a top 40 radio station called The Edge and we'd never have a boxer on yeah
00:54:01
you guys um presented us with Joe Parker well I think we had him on as a favor for you because you're a nice guy and I
00:54:07
like it yeah and then he did a good job on the air and see then that relationship was formed so yeah you guys
00:54:13
sort of made Joseph Parker like a mainstream household name in a French sport all we did was provide the
00:54:18
platform and Joe took advantage of it don't forget David tour versus Linux Lewis
00:54:23
was the number one rating show of all time on television in New Zealand so to say boxing was a French sport I think
00:54:30
it's a probably a bit of a stretch because and I know it's not the All Blacks right but
00:54:34
tour went to fight for the heavyweight championship of the world his rise was well documented in New Zealand media
00:54:39
then Shane Cameron came along and he was there and Joe was sort of the next alliteration of that standing on these
00:54:45
shoulders to some degree so uh but Joe definitely all you do is provide the platforms up to the individual athlete
00:54:51
to take advantage of it yeah we have we hassled at people and got them on where we had to get them on and if they're no
00:54:58
good here's what my experience is most of these guys they start off not so good in the media some of them are born
00:55:04
to it right but most of them aren't that good but the more you throw them in you
00:55:07
can give them the media train in the world I'm not a big fan of it the more you throw them in the more you do it the
00:55:12
more comfortable they get and you start to see the real person come out and that's all we did with Joe was just keep
00:55:16
throwing them and throwing them and Joe's got a lovely personality and he's
00:55:19
a genuinely good guy you know so when that starts to come out it's quite amazing that he boxes for a living
00:55:25
Because deep down to be a boxer you've got to give some angry [ __ ] going on
00:55:28
yeah he's not a Savage is he I think deep down he still loves to fight anybody who loves to fight and
00:55:35
what look not everyone's going to be Conor McGregor right yeah but in all boxes good or bad but the really really
00:55:43
good ones what Conor McGregor's got going on the outside a lot of these boxes have got going on the inside they
00:55:48
just don't show it because mate it is not a normal thing to do these are the
00:55:52
Gladiators the mod Gladiators there's only about ten thousand maybe 15 000 professional boxes in the world and out
00:56:00
of those fifteen thousand no more than a hundred to 200 will make money out of it
00:56:04
and no more than 10 make the millions that you hear about you know so it's a
00:56:09
very very competitive Sport and it's uh it's very very cutthroat see what you want to drive back up who
00:56:18
called you but was it Kevin Barry was it yeah I think it was Liam's talking in the background I'm pretty
00:56:28
sure he's right was Judith Collins who was Joe's Auntie oh the Old National
00:56:33
party leader yeah really yes right Professor Collins my memory is terrible right concussions
00:56:40
oh I'm also of the opinion there's only so much your brain can do yeah yeah and
00:56:45
sometimes stuff comes in if it's going to stay there something's got to go out
00:56:48
to Wrangle around now you're right Liam Judas Collins did ring me about and tell
00:56:53
me about him see he wasn't on your radar at that point no no no and look this is a long time
00:56:59
ago crikey when did we first started promoting um Joseph 2010 maybe it's like 12 years ago it
00:57:08
just goes so fast what was that what was that groaning noise you made before when I when I
00:57:13
brought up Joseph Parker I just do cover is not a period in my life that I want to talk too much about I have zero zero
00:57:20
respect for the bloke awesome business four I think it's fairly well known why
00:57:23
we separated I mean it seems like a sad in a way because you guys were incredibly successful together and I
00:57:29
hope maybe there would come a time maybe they won't where you can look back and
00:57:31
reflect on that but it's yeah it seems sad like um like Kevin Kevin Barry and
00:57:36
David tour like it's another very very successful relationship that had a terrible split and it seems sad in a way
00:57:42
that you can't rescue anything from it at the end you guys were successful I
00:57:46
think you had the Charisma of the operation and I I don't know I'm guessing here but you you both bought
00:57:52
different things to your partnership it as a partnership you and David were very
00:57:56
success useful I can tell the way you're sitting here like I don't want to talk about one day I
00:58:02
might one day I might serialize it you know and tell what really went on and why I was separated one day and he
00:58:08
himself for that one day when it comes I can promise you that there's no no love lost no relationship
00:58:15
there now no um I once run into them in the gray Lynn RSA and I ended up chasing around a car
00:58:23
and unfortunately I'm fat and overweight and he's quite skinny so it's like I'm
00:58:27
like Wiley Coyote chasing the Road Runner and I just wish I could but that's not for the podcast
00:58:52
well I mean like time time he was done has a lot of words so maybe there'll become a time
00:58:58
where no chance wow not ever you don't want to get into any of I mean I've heard some marimbas over the years
00:59:07
about what happened but your neighbors are probably true right um but I've got a saying in life like you
00:59:14
know you shouldn't believe everything everything you hear uh they are usually
00:59:17
you know where there's some smoke there's some fire but yeah it's fair to
00:59:21
say you shouldn't believe everything you hear yeah yeah um move on okay so then so after after 2K that I I hope
00:59:29
there comes a time where you can look back on on that period um uh you know with some sort of pleasure because um
00:59:35
yeah what you did was very very successful you deserve it we did some okay things you know like the rise of
00:59:41
Joe Parker that was that was a lot that was a lot of fun and seeing someone like
00:59:44
Joe being successful also the NRL Auckland nines was you know that's right I forgot about the nrl9s
00:59:51
yeah that was very successful and uh that was very that was probably the most gratifying thing for me because we got
00:59:57
to bring rugby league you know to Auckland and it was a real great celebration of rugby league and
01:00:03
the Auckland rugby league Community got to come together and you know we we got NRL players out into the clubs and it
01:00:09
was really cool that was very cool been from a league background so then so then
01:00:14
um post Duke you go to Australia yep um how come why did you well when we had the split I went with
01:00:21
Jeff Horn who with Australian fighter Australian boxer welterweight and the Zenith of Jeff Horn was to fight Manny
01:00:28
Pacquiao at suncorp stadium and he beat many 51 000 people turned up for that event and
01:00:34
it's probably the signature event in boxing in Australia even to today um Manny pacca a little little Filipino
01:00:40
he used to be the president of the Philippines he ran for president ran for prison but Manny was in all one of the
01:00:45
all-time great stars of the game and he fought against the guy and I think Manny's end of that fight
01:00:51
was about 100 million dollars Bob's Aaron's in was about 50 million and Floyd's was probably about 150 million
01:00:57
so they made some serious money out of that so you were involved in negotiations not for that fight yeah but
01:01:03
for the one in Brisbane that we did yeah we I did it from top to bottom so your dealings with um Manny Pacquiao uh with
01:01:10
Bob Aaron right right Manny was a lot of fun was he a lot of fun when we we did a
01:01:15
bit of it he didn't need dog in Australia many was one of the most generous men
01:01:21
Manny Pacquiao did [ __ ] I've never seen in my life so he comes over to do a
01:01:26
promotional tour no he comes over for the fight and I had to have a quarter of a million dollars in cash which was
01:01:34
Manny money and many money was given out to all of the the cohorts that had come
01:01:40
over so he hired a private plane and brought about a hundred to 150 people with them all stayed in the hotel who
01:01:46
like his Entourage yes like all his friends Manny Pacquiao how many staff how many staff and how many friends I
01:01:53
honestly I couldn't tell you but what I had to have that quarter million dollars
01:01:57
ready for him when he got there and that was handed out he brought to that event
01:02:02
see every fighter gets an allocation to the fight nights and how much you know their tickets to give away he brought
01:02:08
850 000 worth of tickets to that fight I kid you not and so and we had to give him a
01:02:16
quarter of a million bucks as he got off the plane it was all deductible a person
01:02:19
stuff like that so many had this progression of Filipinos coming in from all around Australia which he's handing
01:02:26
out money and tickets to to go to the fight and whatever he's and generous like he'd be getting someone to shine
01:02:31
his shoes at the airport and give him a hundred dollar U.S tip wow Manny is the only boxer I've ever been out with who
01:02:38
offers to pay for stuff right so we went out and had a dinner and maybe there was
01:02:42
a couple of grand and there's a whole lot of people and it was he he's pulling
01:02:46
money out of his pocket to pay and go Mania you don't have to do this you know
01:02:49
I was um but many formed a friendship with a very very unique character called Jim
01:02:56
bannigan Jim's a very good friend of mine and I don't know how to describe Jimmy's
01:03:01
an Australian agent player manager he's been a very good friend of me a very
01:03:05
good friend but he is one unique individual and Jim is the guy in life that you can equally hate and love at
01:03:11
the same time because he will really piss you off I mean piss you off with things you've never seen before he was
01:03:17
at the time quite an obese overweight white Australian male with great religious beliefs and that's why
01:03:24
he's a Catholic and that's why him and Manny because the Filipinos are very
01:03:28
very religious and very Catholic so him and many Struck it off but we went on this bit of a tour and um Manny made the
01:03:36
mistake of giving Jim a bit of lip now Manny Pacquiao couldn't give anyone lip in the world
01:03:42
that he wants because he's Manny Pacquiao so we're in a small bus going from place to place doing his
01:03:47
promotional gigs and Jim Bennigan turned around and looked at him and says Manny Pacquiao
01:03:54
you can go and get [ __ ] now I promise you in 25 years of Manny Pacquiao being who he is he's never been told to get
01:04:02
[ __ ] in his entire life man he took one look at this fat overweight red-faced Australian telling them to get
01:04:09
[ __ ] and what the things he's going to do and he just cracked up laughing fell
01:04:12
on the floor of the bus and he's never laughed so hard in his life so you have
01:04:16
you meet some interesting characters and you and interesting things happen along
01:04:20
the way but equally that same guy Jim oh this is typical Jim bannigan right so I had Jim doing the media
01:04:28
uh on this Manny Pacquiao bloody tour and I sent him into the Philippines where many lived uh with a whole lot of
01:04:36
media worked him quite hard and Jimmy was under stress and pressure so Jimmy had a stroke about three weeks before
01:04:43
the fight so I'm very concerned about Jim because people die from Strokes so I
01:04:48
go in to see him one day I've made a few phone calls we're going to see him at
01:04:51
the hospital one day and he's got his whole family's around him and he looks
01:04:55
up at me and says this is your [ __ ] fault that's just over the top yeah but you
01:05:11
know you have you have your so there's some good yards you meet some interesting people yeah so financially
01:05:17
how are you now if you don't don't quite well out of um duko and Australia the
01:05:21
last few years look why are you living with your mum and your sister I'm sort of in between places right now
01:05:27
look we've done okay yeah it hasn't been brilliant we've done okay I've got some
01:05:30
land that I'm looking to develop up in taupaki at the moment but it's been you
01:05:34
know it hasn't because of the uh the entrepreneurial ride that you take man I've had ups and downs all over the
01:05:41
place what's your relationship with money money like now are you sort of neutral to it or I think so yeah like
01:05:49
Everyone likes would like to have a bit more of it and um and I've been very
01:05:53
very lucky I've similar had some amazing investors come along along the way and
01:05:57
wanted to be part of the journey so uh I think the path going forward is going to be a lot smoother as a result
01:06:04
you know we get a lot of advice off different people um you'd like to be more successful than
01:06:09
what you are but at the end of the day you know money is something that you should use
01:06:15
to just help you get through life and obviously you want to get ahead right but you know as you get older it becomes
01:06:21
less and less of a focus and and you want to be spending time with more time with family and friends but you also
01:06:27
want to have that success and then your financial side to help you achieve that more and more you know but it seems like
01:06:34
you you don't have an ego at all I think um I think you've got to have an ego to
01:06:39
get things done yeah you know like there you go I suppose like an ego like um when you when you went through that
01:06:46
circus stuff and then you know you you were stripped back to be a Basics like not even in the biggest room in the
01:06:51
house yeah um yeah I suppose you learned a lot about yourself then well when you go
01:06:56
through shitty times like that your ego takes a bit of a hammering yeah and you're not quite as good as you thought
01:07:01
you were you know and uh but you look back at those times and if I could look I had really good times in there it's
01:07:09
just if you could do it without the stress and the pressure you know stress and pressure is one of the
01:07:15
[ __ ] of life and and along the way I've worked out that I suffer from anxiety up until probably
01:07:24
five six years ago I didn't realize that I did but it's probably been a part of
01:07:28
your life for a very very long time what do you mean what did that look like for
01:07:31
you um like panic attacks or no no no no um your guts tuning on a regular basis worrying about how you're going to solve
01:07:39
problems overthinking things thinking things over and over and over again and it's only been the realization that
01:07:46
you do it you go oh wow okay this is what sort of I used to do some work for the phobic trust and they used to do
01:07:52
some stuff around anxiety and at the time I didn't know what was really all about but now I do and it's only with
01:07:58
realization that you you suffer from it you go oh okay now we've got to work out
01:08:03
how do you deal with this and I think that's been you know and one of my pet
01:08:07
things in life is I don't want to go through anxiety and I think a lot of people do and it's a shitty place to be
01:08:13
because that feeling in your guts that you you just work to get rid of it yeah fortunately there are I can actually I
01:08:20
think I can identify why I get it when you can identify why you get it then you can help yourself get rid of it Well
01:08:26
everybody's different why is it for you oh all sorts of different things yeah it
01:08:30
could be anything it could be um I don't know let's just say we're going to
01:08:34
announce a fight night and we haven't got a couple of guys signed up you start
01:08:38
thinking about it and go you know but all the thinking in the world doesn't necessarily solve the problem if you're
01:08:44
thinking the same [ __ ] over and over again yeah I I I saw a therapist a couple a couple of years ago and um she
01:08:50
asked me like about overthinking and doing that stuff and she said when you catch yourself doing it you just got to
01:08:56
pause and ask yourself is this helpful yes and it never is but it's easier said
01:09:00
than done to then just throw it in the back it's taking me years to work it out
01:09:04
and it's taken me years to understand I'm not sure I'm brilliant at getting
01:09:08
rid of it but it's taken me years to work out okay I when I get into work and
01:09:13
attack problems one by one by one the anxiety disappear years and you get on with it right but it's when you've got
01:09:18
that thinking time and and the worst time and this is I think this goes for everyone is when you wake up so two or
01:09:24
three in the morning as you get older and you're going to start suffering this
01:09:27
for whatever reason older blokes get up at two or three in the morning they have
01:09:31
a purse I don't know why it is but they do and if you can't get back to sleep
01:09:34
that's when it's at its worst you know I've talked to a lot of my mates about
01:09:37
it and they're all the same you know it's funny because you sell legit going to be the next
01:09:41
question I ask you like how do you sleep at night yeah well most amazing I get I
01:09:46
go to bed early right it's early like nine ten earlier 8 30 9. does your mum
01:09:53
make you no I quite like it I'm on the bed before we love that's truly tragic hey why are you
01:10:00
just exhausted at the end of the day or is it just yeah an old routine it's I've
01:10:04
always been to bed early you know and I always get up early and if you get up early you want to go to bed early so but
01:10:11
yeah but I do watch a lot of Netflix and I have seen the Big Bang Theory at least
01:10:16
five times maybe six every single episode but when you um I suppose a lot of a lot of your work at least from an
01:10:22
outsider's perspective is being on the phone like if you get up early what are
01:10:25
you doing for those hours when you can't ring people um the first thing I do is go and have
01:10:30
breakfast that's all and then you sort of start your day at 8 39 if you can and
01:10:35
then you're away you know yeah so I I like to try and finish like you try and do nine to five but that's
01:10:41
not how long yeah I get told all the time that I'm on the phone all the weekend and you get you're all on the
01:10:47
phone all sorts of different times and one of the things as you get older I think you try and be more present
01:10:52
in what you're doing rather than being on a phone call or being a hundred miles
01:10:56
away or thinking about something else try and be present in the moment because that moment ain't coming back you don't
01:11:02
know if your family or friends or whatever you're doing be in that moment because that's important yeah what's the
01:11:08
rest of your um life or career going to look like you're never going to retire
01:11:11
are you what are you now 57 57. you'll be one of these people that keeps working when you man you have to I would
01:11:18
rather not really really what would you do what would retirement look like um retirement would look different to
01:11:24
what I do now right but you know I would like to have my build my Airbnb up in taupaki and have people from around the
01:11:34
world come and stay there and then six months of the year go off and do what you've got to do you know whether it be
01:11:40
Gold Coast whether it be going to the states whether it began England hanging out you know hanging out with friends
01:11:46
and family in particularly we've got Liam over here you know we used to do a
01:11:49
lot of traveling I'd like to get back to that but at the moment we've got to you know
01:11:53
we've just finished up in Australia we've got to rebuild our business back
01:11:56
here and mate there's another you know fight to be had literally and figuratively and we're
01:12:02
slowly getting there you know so um yeah as um is your relationship with your son
01:12:08
one of the things you'd say you're most proud of in your life oh yeah yeah it's
01:12:12
the number one priority I mean he's been sitting here he's a grown ass man but
01:12:16
he's been sitting here watching this whole interview and I think that says a
01:12:18
lot about a lot about you as a person and a lot about the relationship that you guys have together Liam
01:12:24
uh listens to more podcasts than any man I know so it will be remiss of me not to
01:12:29
bring him down to see how they're made he haven't seen hundreds of them yeah
01:12:33
but it's it's a podcast but it's still listening to your old man talk [ __ ] for
01:12:36
an hour and a quarter well there's no there's no there's nothing I've said
01:12:41
that he hasn't heard yeah right right well that's cool well you've always had
01:12:45
a real close relationship with them as as I said you used to come on my radio show and give them a shout out that was
01:12:49
the first thing you did and the fact that you're in business together now it's still incredibly close I think
01:12:52
that's his lot not every not every Father and Son relationship is like that no they're not and I'm sure I drive a
01:12:58
mentor quite often and I'm sure there's a number of times when he wants to
01:13:02
headbutt me and to be fair he would probably be quite right in doing so like Liam's managed to see things in our
01:13:08
business that I haven't seen and he's given me advice at times that I haven't
01:13:11
taken and I need to listen closer because he's got some great ideas that he understands
01:13:18
a macro part of our business you know so there's a lot of things we do now because if there's suggestions yeah I'll
01:13:23
say yeah yeah I suppose young ideas fresh ideas different perspectives not big time and if he really really
01:13:28
understands this game because maybe watches and loves the fights that we do and he loves UFC and he understands
01:13:35
media so you know it's a pretty good it's it's a pretty good ground yeah and
01:13:39
he's been rounded all his life Christ I got photographs of Liam when he was five
01:13:43
or six when I'm fighting and he's in the corner with a sinuses go Dad that's
01:13:47
pretty cool oh how cool yeah and what about um what about you personally yeah you hope to find the one do you believe
01:13:52
in soul mates I'm not holding my breath I've managed to get to 57 years and haven't quite you
01:14:00
know got there yet so yeah actually I was talking to um I I just had 50 the other week I've
01:14:05
got a mate has a similar age and he broke up how long you've been single for
01:14:08
now no four or five years oh I've been seeing I've been seeing a single lady
01:14:11
for the past year right um but me and JJ we broke up about five years ago is that your first marriage
01:14:17
yeah yeah yeah yeah I've got to make that broke up with his wife a similar time and he's he said the thing that
01:14:22
he's worried about is like getting like set in his ways now because he quite
01:14:25
enjoys being single now yeah and just being able to do as he pleases when he pleases but I think you like you're a
01:14:31
great guy and you've got a lot to offer someone I feel like you've learned a lot
01:14:33
about yourself as you've evolved you might want to give me one Dom give you one like metaphorically
01:14:42
speaking who knows like do you like are you on any apps or anything or no no no no no so you'd want
01:14:52
to meet someone organically like that yeah I don't think about it too often yeah
01:14:57
like if these things if they happen to happen if they don't they don't you know
01:15:01
it is what it is yeah and you just get on and at the moment I got other priorities and the priorities I
01:15:07
gotta we just we're coming back into New Zealand we've got to reestablish
01:15:10
ourselves back here we've got a whole lot of good ideas and we just got to bid
01:15:13
them in and get them done and most importantly we've got some Fighters signed to us who are very very good at
01:15:18
what they do and we they deserve to have a platform you know these guys are seriously seriously talented so uh we've
01:15:25
just got to provide the platform for them to do what they do best yeah well it's great to have you back in New
01:15:29
Zealand and to be here man I got to tell you like when you're overseas Australia
01:15:33
is a very very tough place to do business is that if you're a kiwi or for anyone for anyone like a lot of people
01:15:39
would say it's one of the hardest markets between that and China is the hardest markets in the world to crack
01:15:43
and uh it's it's nice being home with family and friends and what have you can
01:15:48
go and see on a regular basis you know you run into people in the street and stuff which is because you haven't lived
01:15:53
there all your life it doesn't happen in Australia yeah yeah and I mean back here
01:15:56
here you run into your mum and your sister every time you go home and how good is that
01:16:00
how good is that yeah that's gonna tell you this man when I was 21 the last thing I would have thought I'd be doing
01:16:06
is saying I love living with my mum and my sister but I do and I love I tell you
01:16:11
what else I love doing I love going down to waiheke on the weekends and living and and starting with dad's place at
01:16:17
Rocky Bay you know so little things in life man that's cool you're quite family
01:16:22
orientated as you get older you be you know you realize how important it is yeah but often as you get older you
01:16:28
realize how important it is but it's like if you had if you didn't have the
01:16:31
relationship with your son all the way through and you decide now it's important no no I agree yeah I agree
01:16:36
yeah you need to do the work all the way through yeah I'm talking about extended
01:16:39
family but even extended family when we were young we used to all going to work you on them for Christmas you know like
01:16:45
and you've been there for six weeks and you had six or different eight branches
01:16:48
of the family there and you'd hang out together on a regular basis and you don't realize you just think it's normal
01:16:53
right you don't realize our special letters until you actually you get older
01:16:57
and other people don't get to do that sort of stuff you know Mom and Dad they
01:17:01
had they built their first house in Massey they built a bloody they brought a section and built a house or built a
01:17:07
batch down at waiheke and we've had this lifelong affiliation with with waiheke
01:17:12
and Rocky Bay you know which goes right back to my grandparents in the 30s built
01:17:16
a place of Rocky Bay and back then they have to do like a one and a half hour trip on a tram or a bus to get to the
01:17:23
downtown then the ferry was another sort of two hours and they used to catch a milk cart from bloody the rocky Bay
01:17:31
store up to their place you know so it was five or six hours to get down there and they had six kids in tow
01:17:36
so uh it's amazing how times change you know and she said would have been your
01:17:40
dream being on the milk truck yeah you believe this you know sections back then when I was maybe 22 23 I had the
01:17:49
opportunity to buy sections for five thousand dollars a section those same sections are half a million bucks now
01:17:55
it's quite amazing with a passion of time you know but you got no regrets about
01:18:00
your financial decisions or anything yeah financial decisions of course yeah because if you could change three or
01:18:06
four fundamental decisions along the way life would be a lot easier but at the end of the day you can't change it so
01:18:11
you can't think too much about it the best you think you can do I think is learn from it learn learn from your
01:18:15
mistakes unfortunately wise people learn from other people's mistakes I have to learn from my own so uh you
01:18:24
know hopefully we've learned all the mistakes from the mistakes we've made
01:18:28
and we can Implement and go well I feel like you're living with your mum and
01:18:30
your sister by choice so it's not like a financial decision to be bluntly honest if I wanted to live
01:18:36
elsewhere I probably could but for Christ's sake don't tell them that they
01:18:41
can't see this podcast hey mate it's been wonderful sitting down with you
01:18:45
today I really appreciate you being so generous with your time and your stories it's all right brother and it's
01:18:49
wonderful to be here and it's great to see you're out having a crack by yourself and fingers crossed you get you
01:18:55
know you get up to a couple hundred thousand listens a show and you can sell it off for millions of dollars just like
01:18:59
Joe Rogan did that's that's [ __ ] terrifying doing something on your own I
01:19:03
mean this is new to me but you've been doing it for decades now but see what's
01:19:06
really interesting for you is this is not new to you you've been doing this exact thing for 30 years this is just an
01:19:12
extension of what you've done the only thing you're doing differently is you
01:19:17
don't have the guaranteed income and you've got to get out and sell it yourself and all those sales reps and
01:19:22
Those Years Gone by that you used to curse and swear for having you to read [ __ ] and endure stuff you didn't want to
01:19:26
endorse you're going they actually might have been good blokes because they helped pay my wages yeah they used to
01:19:32
say things like oh I pay you a wages and I'll be like [ __ ] off without the
01:19:35
ratings I deliver you've got nothing to sell exactly but I do understand it now
01:19:39
yeah well and the thing yeah eating a bag of [ __ ] yeah and look you know Dom I'm sure you're going to end up doing
01:19:46
this you'll be the biggest podcast in the country very very quickly you've
01:19:50
only done what 56 57 apps yeah just a year on a year that's incredible man what are you doing one a week yeah one
01:19:55
per week I think I think Joe Rogan does three a week three a week I'd love to
01:20:00
build up to that level yeah yeah something is you know the the the the the um things been set he's done something
01:20:07
like 1935 apps or something because I've become quite a follower of him and he's
01:20:12
really impressive it's incredible and you look back to the early stuff like he
01:20:15
was doing this 10 years ago so he's like an overnight sensation there it's been
01:20:18
years and years grafting away and he probably did it just because he loved doing it 100 yeah there were no
01:20:23
Financial reward in the first however many years which is I guess why you're
01:20:27
doing this is yeah of course you want Financial recompense but you actually like doing what you do yeah and you're
01:20:31
good at it look at some of the interviews you've done like Mike King I thought was outstanding oh thanks very
01:20:35
much yeah there's been some been some really really good ones and uh it's
01:20:38
getting easier and easier to get good people on the the issue that I have to get over is um I've always Associated
01:20:44
success with money right and I need to somehow split those two apart and realize that they're not always hand in
01:20:51
hand so I've had more feedback about this podcast I'm doing than what I had
01:20:55
in the last few years of radio so it's like I know I'm on to a good thing
01:20:58
that's because when um when you're doing short form radio like you have what a 3
01:21:02
three minute talk right yeah there's not much you can do you know it's like short
01:21:06
hits try and be funny get in and get out and you don't really get to talk in
01:21:11
depth like we're doing now oh 100 like if we're doing for a chat it would be
01:21:14
get Dean and talk about how he drinks milk get your Scala point and then send you on your way yeah pretty much you
01:21:21
know we wouldn't get to we wouldn't get to dig through the surface and find out
01:21:23
that you're living with your [ __ ] mum what's really fascinating right is that
01:21:27
what's really fascinating with social media it's all about short clips 15 30
01:21:31
seconds you want to get cut through get in and get out but Joe Rogan has shown that long-form media has got a real
01:21:40
place and that's what you you know you're starting to get into which is totally opposite to what you've done all
01:21:44
your life yeah which is pretty interesting that's enjoyable too it's enjoyable and I can't
01:21:50
thank you enough for coming and being so generous with your time today great to have you back in New Zealand and uh
01:21:54
those boxes that you mentioned at the beginning I look forward to um hearing more about them Andre michaelovich
01:21:59
Jerome pampalone and of course Jaya bataya who's the current IVF cruiserweight champion of the world
01:22:05
they're all very very special in their own way and they can really fight and
01:22:08
look ahead look out for them on the way through because they're about to do some
01:22:12
cool stuff sounds like a made-up name it's too good to be true he actually hit the open tires I think
01:22:20
come from West Auckland originally oh so he's been over there for a couple of
01:22:23
generations but yeah he's a he's something very very special all right and so are you Dean lonigan thanks
01:22:30
for your time good man

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Episode Highlights

  • The Toughest Combat Sports Athlete
    Jaya Pattaya fought a world title match with a broken jaw, showcasing incredible resilience.
    “He fought 10 rounds with a broken jaw.”
    @ 04m 26s
    February 26, 2023
  • Dean Lonigan's Radio Journey
    After a knockout, Dean Lonigan transitioned to a successful radio career, showcasing his charisma.
    “I got a job on radio hierarchy and I got to tell you, there is no doubt...”
    @ 12m 48s
    February 26, 2023
  • Radio Beginnings
    The speaker recalls starting in radio in the early 90s and the connections made.
    “It was a great time down in the manner with two in Palmerston.”
    @ 17m 03s
    February 26, 2023
  • Family Dynamics
    Discussion about living arrangements with family and the bond with his mother and sister.
    “I live with my mum and my sister and I absolutely love it.”
    @ 23m 34s
    February 26, 2023
  • Fight for Life Origins
    The speaker shares how the Fight for Life event began as a way to help a friend.
    “We raised about 50 Grand and it was one of the greatest things I've ever done.”
    @ 31m 37s
    February 26, 2023
  • Resilience Through Hardship
    Reflecting on the lessons learned from a year of depression. "I was depressed for a year."
    @ 38m 08s
    February 26, 2023
  • The Power of Truth
    The importance of being honest with friends during tough times. "You have to be upfront and tell them the truth."
    @ 41m 52s
    February 26, 2023
  • David Tour's Authenticity
    David Tour's unexpected moment of sincerity during a trash talk session.
    “I’m really going to hurt you and thank you for the opportunity.”
    @ 51m 23s
    February 26, 2023
  • Manny Pacquiao's Generosity
    Manny Pacquiao surprises everyone with his generosity during promotional events.
    “Manny is the only boxer I’ve ever been out with who offers to pay.”
    @ 01h 02m 38s
    February 26, 2023
  • The Struggle with Overthinking
    Overthinking can be paralyzing; learning to pause and reflect is crucial.
    “You just got to pause and ask yourself, is this helpful?”
    @ 01h 08m 54s
    February 26, 2023
  • Retirement Dreams
    Retirement means different things to different people; it's about finding what fulfills you.
    “I would rather not really, really what would retirement look like?”
    @ 01h 11m 21s
    February 26, 2023
  • Supporting Talented Fighters
    Providing a platform for talent is essential in the fight industry.
    “You’ve got to provide the platform for them to do what they do best.”
    @ 01h 15m 26s
    February 26, 2023

Episode Quotes

  • He’s going to be something very, very special.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
  • I made a complete dick of myself on a number of occasions.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
  • I was depressed for a year.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
  • If you drink alcohol, you're going to escape all your problems for a while.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
  • Manny Pacquiao is the only boxer I’ve ever been out with who offers to pay.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
  • You’ve got to provide the platform for them to do what they do best.
    Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey

Key Moments

  • Family Reflections18:20
  • Debt Struggles33:49
  • Mental Health38:08
  • Resilience43:11
  • Authentic Trash Talk51:23
  • Manny's Generosity1:02:38
  • Retirement Thoughts1:11:21
  • Personal Growth1:14:32

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