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Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!

August 06, 2023 / 01:06:28

This episode features a conversation with Archibald Arch Jelly, a prominent New Zealand running coach and educator. Topics include Arch's 100th birthday celebrations, his thoughts on athletics, and reflections on life experiences.

Arch shares memories from his career as a school principal and coach, discussing former students and their fond recollections. He recalls his 100th birthday celebrations, including a mile relay where he walked four laps of the track.

The discussion touches on Arch's ongoing interest in athletics, including his support for current runners like Sam Tanner, who aims to break the New Zealand mile record. Arch reflects on the evolution of running techniques and equipment over the years.

Arch also discusses his philosophy on life, emphasizing the importance of staying active and maintaining a positive attitude. He reflects on his experiences during significant historical events, including World War II and the Great Depression.

Finally, Arch shares insights on aging, mental health, and the importance of resilience, drawing from his own life lessons and experiences.

TLDR

Arch Jelly discusses his 100th birthday, coaching legacy, and reflections on life and athletics.

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hey Runners only with dime Harley Runners only with dom Harvey and for the second time Archibald Arch jelly g'day
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mate hi dog so great to have you back here move that microphone in a little bit uh
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first of all thank you so much for coming here it was um it was actually a little bit of a challenge you you were
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reluctant to do this I messaged you and you said to me um what what more is there to talk about
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we caught up a year ago not much has happened since then yeah well I don't think it is nothing much has changed I I
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don't think yeah but um I mean last year we we spoke for uh like an hour and you
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were 99 at the time so I mean come on that's like that's like 36 to 40 seconds
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per year of your life and it's been an amazing rich life and it's still going
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so I feel like there's a there's there's a lot to tap into and A lot's happened
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on the podcast since the last year I've got a studio set up now yeah um right TV cameras and stuff so and
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you're such a remarkable man with a remarkable mind and you've seen so much
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and done so much um and it's an honor and a privilege to have you here to um get some of these
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stories and preserve them so that people can watch them in the future no I hope they were just listening to of
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course they are uh first of all I I outsourced a lot of the questions for today I said on social media that you're
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coming over and there were thousands of comments a lot of them from former students
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so many of them like uh Tim Stevens who's 43 said uh Arch was my first Primary School principal how is he still
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alive and then there was uh Penny Burton who was at Mount roskill in 1960. oh yes I
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remember her well oh you don't do you no do you of course from 60 years ago yeah uh flew at Guthrie she says Arch
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was my principal at sunnybrae normal school in the 1980s would love him to share some funny or favorite memories
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from that time the 1980s yeah being a school principal and a school teacher for a big part of your life were there
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were there kids that had names that you associated with bad kids so you'd see
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the school role at the start of the year and you'd be like oh there's a oh
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there's a dougie Dougies are always bad news do you know what I mean no no no no
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no anybody anybody like that no never oh God there's a Dominic he's bound to be
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trouble all right all right I am something oh first of all how was your 100th birthday last year so we spoke um
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when you were 99 and three quarters uh you turned 100 you had a I saw the celebration on the news
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um how did you celebrate your 100th uh all sorts of uh celebrations and like there was a big one that uh at
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Pan song uh and you know many a lot of people there and then there was uh one at the bridge club and uh which was very
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enjoyable and then the next day we had the uh hundred by one mile relay and uh and even I had to no I was going to say
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run I didn't run I walked the uh the four laps of the track but I was accompanied by about 34 others I think
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on my leg so uh I think my uh I had the honor of uh of uh doing the slowest League
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you saw on your on your 100th birthday you run a mile which is four laps of the track now walked Walked it yeah okay
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yeah walked um how do you how do you feel after that at your age like are you exhausted after walking that far or ah
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not really because I was used to walking you know three or four k a day not that fast though yeah well it
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doesn't matter though does it you're still getting out you're still doing um
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a lot more physical activity than a lot of people three you know 75 years younger than you oh I'm doing a bit yeah
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I could I could do a bit more I think you know yeah yeah yeah yeah come on push yourself don't be lazy a bit lazy I
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see you're wearing it like a garment you're wearing a Garmin watch how many
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steps do you do in most days oh about uh I try and do about between five and six
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thousand yeah yeah yeah take the steps or do you take the elevator you take the elevator yeah
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occasionally I'll take the steps not often yeah um one thing that I since we've become
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acquainted one thing that I found quite interesting um so earlier this year I had Zane Robertson on my podcast uh it
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was like a oh this is after he um confessed to doping and received a seven year ban
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um and he he came on the podcast and it was very emotional and very tearful and then you reached out to me asking for
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his email address at the age of bloody 100. um can I ask what was your message to
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him what did you what did you say oh well you know I sympathize them in some ways but of course he he made uh a few
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bad decisions and you know you've got to live with that yeah there was it was very nice of you
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though to reach out I thought there was some remarkable you you still keep your finger on the pulse when it comes to
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Athletics oh absolutely yeah I've even noticed some on the the app Strava well
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whenever I upload a run sometimes I'll get a I'll get a like or a Kudos from
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Arts jelly I get the notification on my on my phone or my wrist and it makes me feel very happy
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makes me feel bad that I'm not running faster or longer yeah um and at the time of recording this uh
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it's an ambulance coming to get you uh Sam Tanner uh he has openly said that
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he'd like to break the New Zealand record for the one mile this year um which you and John Walker still hold
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oh I don't hold it you're very humble but you you don't you think you deserve some of the some of
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the critics coach I bet yeah so this was said in 1982. yeah twin John was 30. can
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you remember the time oh I think it was uh 349 08 correct yeah yeah how do you feel about
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that do you think Sam Tanner has gotten to beat that record uh I would think so yeah the uh
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uh it's very very hard to compare times uh present day times with times of the
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past how so oh well I mean the the tracks are improved the uh the springy shoes that they use that they they make
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a significant difference uh and if you compare say uh the times that Peter Snell did 144-3 in the the
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record is you know about three seconds faster but none of the present-day Runners could could match Peter's time
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on the on the grass track that he ran on yeah so it's hard to Compare running
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through it yeah and times it's remarkable isn't it that this was 41 years ago and this record still stands
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in spite of all the advancements oh it's incredible Runner yeah yeah how would you feel about would you
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would you rather die with that record still intact or would you like to see it beaten or are you just oh and different
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no it would it wouldn't worry me at all either way because all records are made
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to be broken yeah and I suppose it's a testament to John's ability and your
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coaching that it's uh stood for so long oh well you know he in in his time he
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was the uh the best in the world for you know for about three years and and you know
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that's what you've got to match really I mean I think Sam I I think he's a great
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Runner and uh the Birmingham games uh his run of you know 331 that was the highlight for me I thought it was a
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fantastic right now just shows that he's he's got the ability to uh you know go a
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long way still got so much love for the sport like I can see your eyes light up when
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you talk about Sam Tanner and what he's what he's doing do you regret um not coaching a bit longer no no no no
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no I know okay for years but you've still got so much so much knowledge and so much to offer
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oh yeah but it's um oh it's a great sport to be associated with yeah um can I ask you today uh the day that
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we're recording this um you're 100 years old um a couple of months away from turning
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uh 101 how old do you feel uh well I do feel a bit older than I than I previously felt but uh I don't
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know you can't put a number on it really but you wake up in the morning you feel
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good you wake up and you think I'm lucky it's another day or oh I just I just
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feel that you know the same as I've always felt what are the um as I said um I put on
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social media that you're coming in and got a lot of questions um this one or
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variations of it came up repeatedly uh what do you think of the top tips for a long healthy rewarding life
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oh I think the the main thing is is to keep moving and you need plenty plenty of exercise I mean of course when we
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were when we were young uh nobody had motor cars and we walked or or soccer everywhere and I remember when
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I used to I was walking working in the city in Dunedin and uh we used to get the cable car down and and if we if we
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missed the cable car we we ran down beat the cable car and uh so you know all good training and yeah we talked about
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your walking before so you're still active to this day what about and you're
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not um you're not a smoker um you're not much of a doctor I gave up smoking yeah
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yeah yeah but you told me this last year so you you smoked like a few times when
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you were like eight or something no no no no and drinking alcohol hasn't played much
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of a part in your life not really no no yeah um what about diet what's it what's an
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average day look like for the jelly house household oh we always have Partners decide whether we eat anything
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really no special diet yeah but you like in terms of like when you were a kid to now I'm guessing there
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wasn't a lot of processed food back then like there was no fast food no not much
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junk food it's quite healthy and clean growing up oh yes I grew up in the depression and so it
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seems were you know very tight where everybody was really hard up but we didn't feel uh deprived at all yeah so
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this is the Great Depression of the 1930s so you would have been um like 77 years old yeah no in the late
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late 20s late 20s yeah yeah things were pretty tough yeah what did your dad do for employment he was the local barber
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and a Tobacconist and he was a a Gallipoli veteran he's wounded there and and I think one and he was a tremendous
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smoker and we work at how many million cigarettes he smoked and but he had followed with all five of us and uh none
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of us have ever really smoked yeah heck what do you think that is how come none of the jelly kids took to her
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oh well it kills my father hmm but I mean so this is the like the 1930s we're talking about yeah I remember
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seeing TV commercials from like the 60s or 70s and they said doctors recommend smoking and yeah smoking was seen as
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like a cool sort of thing so you didn't have the knowledge back then that it was
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a killer no no it didn't no that's right you just didn't like it oh yeah
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don't know yeah just wasn't interested really yeah well that's lucky isn't it
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yeah and um what someone wanted to ask what's your earliest memory I I know on
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the podcast last year you shared a story um about your brother chopping your finger off when you were fine oh no I
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think I I've got one earlier recollection that's when uh I was at the uh I think it was called the uh the
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South Seas Exhibition at in Logan Park in Dunedin and I was on I think I was about four and I was on a little
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Merry-Go-Round and and I think if I had blew off and a nice I tried to get my head and I sort of
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fell off and they had to you know stop everything and then um yeah the lawn mowing thing
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for anyone that hasn't listened to the podcast last year so you and your brother were mowing the Lawns you said
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it was with scissors do you mean like sort of um shears or we didn't have a lawnmower and and it was only a small
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lawn and I was cutting the lawn with uh scissors ordinary scissors like okay like how
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sewing scissors yeah and uh my elder brother who's only uh you know two years
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older than me he uh dad had given him the hedge clippers and we got too close and uh one of my fingers had almost
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slashed off where's how did the surgeons do a good job what finger is it oh no oh
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it's oh that one there oh yeah oh hold it up to the camera oh wow wow and then so then um you you
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didn't have a vehicle so you had to run to the hospital I remember um uh my uh the tip of my finger was
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hanging by a thread I remember my father cutting it all and dropping it in the holes in the garden
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whereas today you'd have put a put it on ice on ice and reattached it and then we
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uh I was yeah I was about five or six I remember we walked up to the cable car and that's about uh a thousand meters or
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so and then took the cable car down to the city and then took the electric tram along and then walked from there to the
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hospital and then I was there for about a week were you quite calm or were you it wasn't really painful right right
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amazing uh someone wanted to know um if you've got any War Stories you were you
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were in a submarine run were you part of the Navy uh for a while yeah so this was World
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War II um how long were you were you away for you told me a story last year on the podcast about uh coming back home
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and not recognizing your little brother I I went away when I was uh 20 we went to uh in the Navy and we went to uh
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England via uh Panama New York and then and then to England and uh I had my uh 21st birthday at in Jack Dempsey's bar
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in New York but I wasn't a drinker at all but we were in the that's where we had had the
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celebration and then I was in the three months course at uh shotley gate in England that's near Ipswich Colchester
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and then I was posted to uh a cruiser just uh HMS Bermuda and we were on the Russian Convoy and we went
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to uh picked up the Convoy uh just uh just near uh in Iceland rich javik and then
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we went on to uh Nicola Inlet and we were and we were very lucky because the the weather was bad uh very low
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visibility and uh low clouds so we we didn't there were no uh the German submarines and the uh uh planes and that
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sort of thing we never saw them and on the way back it was the same we had bad weather and we got through and nobody
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and no ships in the Convoy were were sunk do you look back now and think how lucky you were that uh that you made it
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home November December which is in in the middle of winter over there and of course tremendously cold but on the uh
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uh action stations where I was I was down about uh three flights in the uh in the high angle control room and very
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warm down there because we know no show getting out of anything happened you know you heard in the bells of the ship
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but you never thought about that sort of thing yeah it was it only when you when
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you get home or as you get a bit older that you think actually that could have been very very different yeah well thank
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you for serving our country I appreciate that how many years were you gone for because you did mention last night when
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we got back uh to uh UK I was seconded to the uh what they call The King Alfred that was at Hove near
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Brighton and I did the uh uh sub lieutenants course and when I was there uh at the end of
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the course they you had to say which branch of the Navy uh you'd you'd like to serve in
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and not that that would make any difference because but you are like put you with a tough life so for some
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unknown reason I said I'd like to uh soon in the submarine service I don't
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know why uh generate so I was sent up to uh lies up in Northumberland and I I did
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the submarine Corsair which was fairly stringent and then I was supposed to uh Coastal submarines
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either as a uh torpedo or Gunnery officer or my last job was officer Navigator I
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suppose being a young a young man from Dunedin like the thought of even seeing a submarine let alone being
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on one is quite enticing hmm I I think I was going to say to after I finished the
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uh the course the sub of tenders course at King Alfred some bus were sent to Greenwich to do sort of a
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uh or sort of to learn the ways of the Navy you know to have the right demeanor for an officer all that sort of stuff
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and I suppose they tried to make a gentlemen out of here and who who was it the uh somebody said I was just thinking
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the famous New Zealander uh I can't record who it was but he said uh about this course he said we're not
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gentlemen we're new zealanders I love it how's your how's your mental
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health been over the years mental health is a it's a very very big topic now and
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um you know you look at the the statistics and stuff and uh you know we're in a mental health crisis here in
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New Zealand but something that has struck me with um the elderly people I've had on the podcast is it's just not
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something that was ever discussed about or almost seemingly not even a thing how's yours been over the years I mean
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you don't get to 100 without you know dealing with a lot of heartbreak loss grief and sadness oh no I've just sort
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of coped okay you know yeah what's been the what's been some of the toughest times
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I'm thinking of the passing of your of your wife yeah you know you would together for many many years oh yeah
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well that was that was very sudden we you know it was all over in the month we didn't know anything about it you know
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you've just got to you know you just got to come to terms with that sort of thing
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yeah where does that resilience come from do you think I'm not sure really uh
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yeah I'm not sure really but that uh the uh the phrase the philosophy I I quite
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like and it's probably what uh and Martin have had it then but there's a
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uh you know the actor Michael Kane yeah well uh he was when he was uh first acting as a young actor he was ready to
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uh come on stage and there were there were a couple already on the stage and they were having a violent quarrel and
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somebody who won them through a chair and it and it it blocked uh the entrance way where Marco was
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supposed to come on and he said there's quite my gun to do and uh the director
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said use the difficulty and by that so he said he used the difficulty he said if it's a tragedy
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submission's here and if it's a comedy fall over it and so by that he meant that even though
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a situation might be very very bad it's uh there will be something good that you know can come out of it it's
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just finding that silver lining is it yeah and then right in the last few months we've uh Gene and
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I have both stopped driving and and that's sort of a situation which you know you're not very keen on because
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you're tends to take away some of your independence of course but uh there are
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positives in that because firstly uh uh you're far better off financially without having a car and uh and secondly
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you can you're forced to do a lot more walking so it helps your general fitness
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so that was the so we were using the difficulty yeah because a lot of people these days
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talk about just the um the you know the impact that the the pandemic and the lockdowns that had on people and the
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impact it's had on our mental health but I mean just some of the stories you've
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read it off in the last 20 minutes about you know your dad coming back from Gallipoli and uh you being raised in the
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Great Depression you're going to war and you think of all the things that you've
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said in your lifetime and um you've just seemed to manage to like just brush
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everything off and just you know keep and carry on as the postices yeah well I think yeah I think you've
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got to I think you know your attitude to what so and your philosophy of life you
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know plays a big difference as opposed to you know a big part you know thanks for sharing that Insight
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someone wanted to ask the question um and I I being exactly half your age myself 50 I like this question uh what's
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been better the first half or the second half just while you think about that I was um
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thinking about that on the drive to your retirement village this morning to pick
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you up um all your huge successes with John Walker happened in the second half career you know career-wise it's a
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running coach yeah probably did yeah yeah so what about anything's been a first half second half yeah when uh
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when I I started coaching John Walker I'd served you know a very long apprenticeship so it was really uh you
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know it was really a collision between a fairly seasoned coach and a and a in a a
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fantastic athlete and so uh I was lucky that I'd served at apprenticeship first
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so I I knew what I was talking about and what I was doing yeah so the hard work was done in the in the first half of
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your life and then you managed to to rip the fruits of your labor in the second half yeah because I've got a lot of
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friends the same age as me who are 50 and they're sort of like winding down you know that but I reckon it's like a
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it's a halfway mark and it's a new chapter and uh you're never too old to
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do anything new right oh absolutely yeah uh when did you notice people started to
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treat you differently because you were old okay I was probably yeah just since I turned 100 are they
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because I yeah that'd be right what do you I I would I would have thought people would treat you like more
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special since you're 100 like uh I don't know like like put you on a bit
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of a pedestal do you know what I mean oh no if I if I get a ride at a taxi and uh and uh and I mentioned that uh
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perhaps that I'm the oldest client he's ever had they they're absolutely staggered yeah
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well I think it's just I mean a lot of people say they they want to live to a
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lot of younger people or people my age say they want to live to 100 and I mean you uh I think you're the poster child
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for that because everyone wants to it's a figure it's almost like a mythical
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figure because not many people make it and to make it to 100 still be physically fit and mentally as capable
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as what you are I think um this is something that like everyone would aspire to so people want to like tap
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into that and find out if there is a secret no I don't I don't think there's
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any secret because you need a bit of luck because I mean I've survived quite
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a few you know fractures and uh operations and that sort of thing yeah you had a when did you get your
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knee done and 90 my knee yeah it was a full knee replacement I was I was quite young and I was only 98.
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I'm amazed were they reluctant to give you one like were they scared of the complications at that age or no Did you
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sort of have to push for it no no they seemed to be quite happy yeah yeah and you recovered all right
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oh yes accepted it it was a very successful operation but uh the patient nearly died because he he managed to
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contact pneumonia which is a bit of a killer for the old boys you made it through
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um in your opinion is society better or worse than say 50 years ago in your opinion is society better or
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worse than say 50 years ago uh I think it's uh far more violent than it was and uh like uh when when I was
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brought up I mean if there was a murder that was an incredible event you know but now it happens every week
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yeah there's a very big difference aren't they yeah of course there's a far
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more a far greater population but even even taking it into account hmm what do you think that is as a lack
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of respect or don't know it's uh I think the uh the social media and the uh you know uh
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iPhones I've got one of course but I mean I mean that I think that's got a
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lot to uh that's you know every everything can be seen you know right away now and and
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it makes things very different yeah I think it's that Insight someone wanted
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to know this is a running question what do runners do now which Arch thinks we shouldn't be doing and where we should
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go back and learn from the days gone by I can think of one thing uh I I probably
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rely too much on my watch like I'm obsessed with my rock watch if my watch hasn't connected to the GPS satellite I
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don't start running back in the day I'm guessing John was just doing laps or whatever without a
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watch and maybe you had a stopwatch that's right yeah yeah I think I think the uh
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you know what they did like for example the athologies uh scheduled you know were fantastic really and uh you know he
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sort of uh spearhead a revolution in training but uh on the other hand uh that doesn't mean to say that uh there
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aren't better ways and like most uh uh coach coaches in most countries they would have adopted
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uh artist ideas and just about every uh uh every top athlete would would be in in debt to Arthur for that but they've
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accepted that but then they've gone on and developed some better ideas and puts
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on on top of what I had to steal it so uh so not like not Reinventing the wheel just sort of tweaking it yeah and and
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making so I think it would be a mistake to think that if you uh if you uh train exactly according to Arthur that you'd
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reach the top now you wouldn't because but you're still uh you won't reach the
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top though an issue except aftercide is and then pin your own uh ideas on top of
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that yeah did you and Arthur have much to do with each other or not really oh yes yeah we we but there's one thing
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we never discussed running yeah when you've discussed running it's the one thing you've got in common
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isn't that odd and did you meet um when um Bill Bowerman from Nike came to New Zealand
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did you did you meet him I never met him no no um someone wants to ask what do you worry
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about these days oh I don't worry about much really yeah that's a great great space to be in what
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advice would you give your your 30 or 40 year old self save more for your retirement you're
00:29:17
gonna be here a while my my 30 or 40 years a bit late for that uh what is something that you didn't
00:29:26
care much for when you were younger that you place importance on today no I just can't think of anything uh
00:29:35
yeah really hmm what makes you laugh oh there's a lot of things on the uh you
00:29:47
know uh also there's all sorts of things that come over on the air and that sort of
00:29:53
thing that you know I quite like and I don't know if I laugh out loud you've still got a very good sense of
00:30:02
humor and it's definitely still intact um yeah we were talking on the drive on
00:30:05
the way and one of your favorite TV shows is the chase you watch that most nights oh yeah what's the chase a couple
00:30:12
of laughs on that no doubt but then Bradley the host yeah um as a um what are your thoughts on
00:30:18
disciplining and raising children how were you raised and how did you raise your kids
00:30:24
we we never had to uh you know uh hit the kids or anything like that you just treat them as Ordinary People you know
00:30:33
talk to them and that sort of thing and you know it's very very nothing special yeah
00:30:39
um what's something about the world that completely blows you away oh probably the uh
00:30:50
yeah the example the uh what goes on in the in the States you know when when they're
00:31:01
taking a new prison all this sort of stuff and you know there's millions and
00:31:04
millions of dollars involved it's it just seems absolutely crazy and and the
00:31:10
fact that uh uh to to be elected as president you've got to be uh someone who uh
00:31:19
encourages more guns to be sold and that's the thing I mean it's just absolutely crazy but it'll never change
00:31:25
yeah yeah no it won't you did right it's a funny observation thanks for that uh
00:31:31
as a society where do you think we have gone wrong uh it's hard to say really yeah yeah
00:31:40
yeah um is there anything you still have on your bucket list do you know what a bucket list is
00:31:45
absolutely yeah I I don't I don't have a bucket list but I do like to have uh uh I do like to be
00:31:54
working on on some sort of you know project and that sort of thing and uh and that's uh you know quite an
00:32:01
incentive yeah what is it at the moment what's the project oh it might be writing uh a booklet on bridge or
00:32:09
something like that or or doing some work on uh genealogy uh had him like a family tree yeah yeah
00:32:18
I hope you've got relatives that are like you know picking your brains um because you've got so much knowledge
00:32:23
to share oh it's all uh it's all there electronically yeah um what is something that he wishes
00:32:32
younger people knew today yummy people yeah what is something that Arch wishes younger people today knew
00:32:40
oh I've never thought about that yeah [Music] what age would he like to get to
00:32:47
uh I've got uh I wouldn't have any thoughts on that except if I was uh as long as
00:32:57
long as I'm healthy uh physically and mentally I I don't mind yeah because you
00:33:02
you told me last year on the podcast that um you there's like a an app on your iPhone like a when will you die app
00:33:08
a death calculator you remember that yeah yeah so when did you do that 97 oh yeah that was just see you put in all
00:33:17
the uh it's all rubbish of course you you put in all the uh physical and mental characteristics and then it comes
00:33:26
out with a number and I think I uh I think they told me I had three years to go it was like four or five years ago
00:33:34
now yeah that's all it's all you know rather yeah uh What technological advancements have amazed to you the most
00:33:40
in your lifetime uh it'd really be to do with you know social media with the iPhones and
00:33:48
computers and that's all I have made a tremendous difference because it seems like um
00:33:53
I mean I can't speak on behalf of you but it feels like uh technologies that
00:33:57
have moved along you know relatively Speedy but then the last sort of 20 years it's been exponential so I'm
00:34:02
guessing when you were a little boy there was no not even radio well it was it was radio yep yeah we
00:34:08
were in a very we were very hard up family but uh we did have you know quite a good radio and uh and it was one where
00:34:17
you had wet batteries and dry batteries and that sort of thing what's a wheat
00:34:21
battery uh that's one you've got to uh you know chat and that sort of thing
00:34:26
oh well I suppose a a car battery is a wet battery right yeah and but I remember and be what it might be in the
00:34:34
uh 1930s and my father was a cricket fanatic and uh like he he Empires Cricket uh including matches against
00:34:45
various countries uh for about 20 years and uh and then right before he became an Umpire though uh we used to listen
00:34:54
into the uh the ashes and and it'd be uh it must have been in England because it was we would be we
00:35:03
were just kids but we would be up with Dad listening to the radio and and you know Brad Ben and woodfall
00:35:12
and kippax and all that crowd and uh and you'd hear the uh you're just here
00:35:18
because there's no TV you could hear the commentator then you'd hear the ball
00:35:23
striking the bat but of course it wasn't so all they were doing was uh tapping a
00:35:29
pencil off on the table and making sound effects yeah I I remember that very well we used to
00:35:36
uh uh we we used to be sitting up night after night listening and then when did when did TV come along do you remember
00:35:44
it was was TV something that only the rich had initially on a TV I remember getting TV when I was
00:35:51
lived in Mount Albert and that was about the late 1950s also you were like a grown
00:35:57
man by then oh haven't you yeah was that exciting oh yeah yeah yeah it was our I remember dad coming up and
00:36:06
staying at our place and uh he was uh it was a black and white TV and he was you
00:36:11
know watching the cricket he was quite impressed yeah how have you managed to keep up
00:36:18
with everything hey you know because it'd be very easy for you to like I don't know when cell phones came out in
00:36:23
the 80s or the 90s to just get a Nokia and be comfortable with that rather than you face the daunting Prospect of
00:36:29
getting an iPhone and getting getting familiarized with all that how have you coped with all the change because so
00:36:34
many don't I've always been a gadget man I've always loved I love gadgets I'd
00:36:40
always like to have the the latest up to date with us yeah and you you use it very well as I
00:36:46
mentioned before are you liking python Strava and things um what do you consider to be your greatest
00:36:51
achievement or proudest moments in life uh it would depend on you know which category we're talking about really but
00:37:03
I I don't sort of think about that sort of thing now there's a good chance I know you
00:37:07
don't think about it because you're very very humble it's hard to get anything
00:37:10
out of you but maybe now now's a good chance to put like let me get the ball
00:37:13
rolling professionally John Walker's gold medal oh yeah that would be uh that would be
00:37:21
a a top yeah absolutely okay and another compartment professionally in your career as a school teacher and
00:37:27
Headmaster um just making such a massive impact on thousands of kids life I mean as I
00:37:32
mentioned so many of them have reached out to me in the past week and no this is Testament to you and bear in mind
00:37:37
it's a different generation it's a generation where there was um corporal
00:37:40
punishment you could Strap kids or give them the cane or whatever no no one is not I was not I wasn't great on that oh
00:37:47
I I know I know this there's not one former student that has an unkind word to say about you which I think says a
00:37:53
lot um and what about personally the greatest achievement or proudest moment personally
00:38:00
oh it's probably you know when you get married the other day yeah yeah when was that when did you get
00:38:06
married 19 first firstly yeah 53 53 and she passed away two thousand yeah and then you married
00:38:16
um oh we touched upon this in the podcast last year but there's probably a lot of people watching or listening to
00:38:21
this that didn't listen to the podcast last year it's a hell of a story so you
00:38:25
and your first wife and your now wife and her husband you were like a like a foursome you used to yeah it used to go
00:38:33
away yeah and uh Gina Jean was my bridge partner and uh so Gene's your now wife
00:38:39
your second wife and uh playbridge and Rachel and uh David David Metzger they used to go and look at all the uh you
00:38:48
know uh shops and all that sort of stuff and while we play bridge yeah yeah and so then and there was never any
00:38:58
sort of attraction between um you and Gene while you were married and what she was married yeah you never
00:39:03
even thought about that but then and then when you did you did your first um Partners die in quite quick
00:39:09
succession yeah within the same year though but they died here yeah so it just seemed like a natural logical thing
00:39:15
like all you and me as we'll get together now oh I know we didn't think about the
00:39:19
southwest and then after a couple years we decided her just like a convenience thing or uh were you bonded on your
00:39:27
Mutual grief what was that uh somebody asked you to you know how I propose and she said well I don't think
00:39:38
he ever proposed and she said that Dean said that he's he's not the romantic type
00:39:47
and uh apparently I said oh no I'm the more pragmatic whatever that means yeah
00:39:55
so it just seemed like the sensible thing to do just move into yeah well Jane was uh Gene was living at uh at
00:40:02
Pine Sol in the village and I still had the house in La Vita in Mount Albert and
00:40:09
I sold the house and and went to live at panzero yeah how's how's Jane now how old is Shane how's her
00:40:20
health no she's quite young yeah she's only 90. you're like the younger woman eh crazy
00:40:28
uh what hobbies or activities have brought you the most Joy through your life oh this is easy Bridge right
00:40:34
Bridge all day oh yes I I mean it's an absolutely you know fantastic game really and uh no
00:40:44
matter how good you are you can always improve and and it doesn't matter how
00:40:49
old you are or how what size you are or what gender or what race you can play and I mean you only need 52 pieces of
00:41:01
cardboard and you're away but of course it's a bridge now of course it's more
00:41:06
sophisticated electronically which makes it easier and but it's you know incredible game how much do you play now
00:41:14
oh I just I don't I don't play often at night now but I play every Monday and
00:41:21
Wednesday at the club and then I play in uh at night online right on a Monday anyway
00:41:30
you just said a second ago you don't play much now that's it's like a lot of
00:41:33
problems every day of the week wow and what an um so that question was what hobbies or
00:41:39
activities that brought you the most Joy through your life what about earlier on
00:41:42
can you remember what sort of hobbies and activities as a kid what are you into uh
00:41:47
I've always done a lot of work a lot of research on genealogy and that's on to
00:41:52
five different families and I spent a lot a lot of time on that and a lot of that was done before you could do much
00:42:02
research electronically now it's probably a bit easier and I've always been keen on photography
00:42:10
and that sort of thing yeah and I have and I've always been keen on literature and poetry and
00:42:18
that sort of thing yeah nice how have your values and beliefs evolved over the years
00:42:27
I had to say yeah I've never even thought about it yeah it's the problem with um the the
00:42:35
generation now we overthink things you're sitting in front of me you just seemed like like a lot of these
00:42:44
questions which people sent in like it's like you're just sort of like batting
00:42:47
them off like it's almost like they're over overthinking things and you just
00:42:51
like get up and do it yeah um is that this might be another one of those questions is there a particular
00:42:57
piece of wisdom or philosophy that has guided your life uh oh I I think uh we talked about that
00:43:09
using it difficulty didn't we have we done that on here yeah we talked about
00:43:14
um Michael Kane yeah yes you've done that well I think that's a very uh important uh philosophy to to uh to have
00:43:23
really that there's always in my situation might appear very bad but there could be uh good could emerge from
00:43:32
it um yes for you how does the the pandemic is the biggest thing that you know most
00:43:39
people I suppose my age and younger have gone through um how did the pandemic um compared to
00:43:44
all the other things you've been through in your life Spanish Flu the depression
00:43:48
uh World War II I wasn't alive with the Spanish when was the Spanish Flu no it
00:43:54
was about 1919 I think right yeah sorry I'm sorry I'm aging you here yeah oh
00:43:58
minus three years the pandemic I mean there's nothing much you can do you can take precaution but
00:44:07
there's nothing much you can do so there's no use worrying about it and I
00:44:10
mean I got covered naturally and I was uh fairly cooked for a couple of days but then since then I've been you know
00:44:16
okay God nothing bothers you does it not really yeah no not to any great extent yeah what what what does get you wound
00:44:26
up these days what gets you in your nervous or anxious or mad uh I I don't think I get like that yeah
00:44:34
have you always been this way or does that come with um age and wisdom oh I think I think I've always been fairly uh
00:44:39
measured I'm a bit of an introvert probably and so pretty quiet yeah uh what are your hopes and dreams for
00:44:46
future Generations oh well I suppose it's the same with anybody and you just hope they'll people
00:44:56
will the society will will be a nice place to live and they'll grow up into uh
00:45:02
you know good human beings yeah yeah uh what were some of the most challenging obstacles you faced
00:45:09
throughout your life and how did you overcome them uh I remember when I was I'll just be about
00:45:22
19 uh let's say no twenty thousand four and uh I was buttering Gene's toast in the morning
00:45:33
she was still in bed of course and which is unlikely actually and all of a sudden
00:45:40
my left arm uh stopped stopped functioning so you you were a bad 80 at the time yes yeah and then right I
00:45:52
uh I I left down was just hanging by the side and then after 20 minutes it was uh
00:45:59
100 again so I finished buttering the toast and so that afternoon I went to see my
00:46:06
GP and he said oh something you know wrong I'm not sure what he said you haven't had a stroke but you know
00:46:11
something's there so I went through all the tests and that sort of thing and uh
00:46:15
and I went back to see the the uh the uh guy the medical guy and uh he said I've
00:46:23
got uh good news and bad news and I said well tell me the good news first and he
00:46:28
said oh there's nothing wrong with the brain it's just as good as it's ever
00:46:31
been I'm not sure how good it was and he said but have a look at the screen and he
00:46:37
showed me the screen there was a thing about the size of a small golf ball the back in the back of my head and
00:46:44
he said it's a probably a meningioma and he said that's the sort of uh tumor I would have if I if I had the
00:46:54
choice and he said I can take it out in July so he I said well I'd like her taking out
00:47:02
before then so I said but I can't I've got to go down to play in a bowls
00:47:08
tournament in Dunedin before that so I went and he said oh well I'll take him
00:47:13
I'll take it out after that so he did and I went into the hospital I think he
00:47:18
took it out on a Wednesday and then I and then they uh and that for that they all they do is to you know cut
00:47:28
the top off your head and and take it take out the tumor then and then staple them back on again and uh
00:47:37
so uh I I went home on a Saturday and then on the Monday I went back and played bridge but I didn't feel 100 but
00:47:48
then from that time on it's never bothered me and uh I remember my sister my now my daughter said well can you
00:47:55
bring the uh uh the tumor home as a souvenir and so I asked the doc about that he's on I can't do that he's just
00:48:03
got to go to the uh biopsies yeah the biopsy land yeah and uh but he said what I'll do is I'll take my camera in and
00:48:12
I'll take a camera of your brain and the two men you can have that and so I've
00:48:16
still got that I've got all that in Technicolor you know I've noticed you've got um
00:48:22
you've got quite a few scars on your on your forehead what's what's that from
00:48:25
what's uh I had a sort of a uh a skin cancer there and it's and never so a few months ago but it's it's
00:48:38
okay now yeah and you you mentioned on the car right here you're not exercising
00:48:42
at the moment because you had like a growth taken out on your that's right on
00:48:45
my leg Yeah Yeah Yeah but that that's been resolved yeah have you always been
00:48:52
quite good New Zealand men are typically um a bit slow at uh you know getting medical treatment or you're talking
00:48:59
about health yeah I'm probably typical yeah yeah really really yeah yeah I would have thought you would have been
00:49:07
super diligent no not really no no so well what I'm I was hoping to like sort of pick your brains to see how any
00:49:15
one of us could could get to 100 and still be as fit and healthy and vital and vibrant as what you are but it's
00:49:21
this does seem like there's a bit of luck involved oh absolutely yeah yeah absolutely yeah I mean when you consider
00:49:28
my two grandfathers died at 57 and so you know I've lasted a bit longer than that is there longevity in your
00:49:36
family at all on my mother's side yeah yeah like what anyone else made it to
00:49:40
100 no no no my my I think my eldest cousin she died at 97. um and I know my great grandfather he I
00:49:52
think was a great grandfather he uh immigrated and uh and he landed in New Zealand in uh 1860 and I think he was
00:50:02
85 or 86 when it when he came and with his family and and uh and grandchildren yeah yeah that wouldn't have been an
00:50:11
easy trap especially at that age yeah well I think he he lies until he was in uh about 94.
00:50:20
yeah that's an interesting thing isn't it the the just the transportation
00:50:23
changes that you've seen in your lifetime like we've gone from ships to Aviation absolutely yeah can you
00:50:29
remember the first time you saw a plane or went on a plane uh let's say I don't I think the first plane I was on
00:50:40
was on a flying back from flying from Auckland uh to Melbourne that's what we talked about this in the
00:50:49
podcast last year so um like a c plane I've been on a seaplane before like to go to one of the
00:50:54
islands in Fiji but this is like a big one for an international flight and you yeah that's right
00:50:59
um you were you were a good runner and you you could have stayed back in New Zealand and trained hard and maybe
00:51:03
qualified for the what was the known as the Empire games no let me finish but instead you went to Melbourne on a
00:51:09
seaplane to chase a girl yeah well actually I I wasn't in the shape to uh to be uh going for a place
00:51:20
in the in the games I I I I I I was only sort of a part-time Runner then I usually played tennis in the summer and
00:51:29
and then ran cross country in the winter so I wasn't really up after that but yes
00:51:35
I did there was a girl involved yeah and she didn't come back with you you didn't
00:51:40
get the girl no but I think that might have been a a a good result yeah absolutely what
00:51:47
were you what were you doing then were you a were you a school teacher at that stage I was always a school teacher yeah
00:51:52
yeah so I can imagine those flights would have been cheap that would have been it would cost you like weeks wages
00:51:56
I'd imagine I haven't got the faintish time yeah never thought about it yeah well can you remember much anything
00:52:03
about their flight that must have been like terrifying for the first time going in a no no no
00:52:09
you know without a hedge yeah and can you remember the first yeah the first time you got to ride in a car
00:52:18
oh yeah the first time as a car would be going to uh going from uh Mornington and
00:52:26
Dunedin to Ocean View and Brighton uh for a holiday was my great uncle yeah yeah it was was he was he rich like I'm
00:52:36
guessing the cars and this is a care of a friend of ours right we didn't we never had a car you
00:52:44
just didn't have the money I'm guessing it was just nobody had cars like there
00:52:48
were two uh people with cars on our street and they were both plumbers and like and when I went to uh College
00:52:56
in 1946 there were only two two of the lecturers had cars nobody else had a car isn't that amazing yeah what was your
00:53:08
first car can you remember yes yeah it would be uh 1928 Oakland well I'll have to look that up I don't
00:53:16
know what an Oakland does well it was a bit like uh a bit like a Model A Ford oh okay yeah wow
00:53:28
actually I only owned half of it my younger brother he had the other half we used to share it yeah and what about
00:53:37
what was the last car you owned oh it would be the emergency extreme yeah yeah and you so you decided not to
00:53:44
renew your license when you turned 100. when was the last time you you drove a vehicle uh the uh
00:53:51
almost a couple of years ago yeah yeah late 90s just the changes you've seen in
00:53:58
transport over your lifetime that's incredible it's remarkable what a treat
00:54:01
how has your perspective on life and aging evolved as you reached this remarkable age
00:54:08
oh well I've never sort of thought about aging or anything like that I've just
00:54:12
sort of carried on doing what I normally do yeah do you think the elderly get the um the
00:54:18
respect or the fear treatment they deserve in New Zealand or are they sort of like invisible to society in a lot of
00:54:22
ways no depends you know who they are associated with yeah oh that's good then so you haven't
00:54:31
noticed anyone treating you any any differently because of you I noticed that uh you know when they
00:54:38
find out how old you are they sat to you know treat you a bit differently but for the better I guess
00:54:46
oh yeah yeah um does thinking does someone ask the question does thinking about dying make
00:54:54
you sad not at all no no I mean I mean it's just part of life isn't it really that's the trade-off isn't it
00:55:02
it's something that we all have to have to go through Jesus you must have I'm just thinking like my situation like
00:55:10
off um I'm 50 now both my parents are still alive um the only sort of grief I've had to deal with is the death of a
00:55:15
couple of friends you know one through cancer one through suicide and the death of grandparents
00:55:20
um but just thinking about the grief that I've got coming up in my future and
00:55:24
how hard that's going to be is um it's it's quite daunting it's a lot to Bear
00:55:28
but I'm you you must have dealt with so much grief in your lifetime I've never thought about it I mean if it
00:55:35
happens well then you've got to deal with it then you guys got a lot of funerals these
00:55:40
days yeah but you must go to a lot of funerals these days oh well Gene and I are not great on going to funerals
00:55:47
though we we've been to you know into uh Bill Bailey's Murray hillberg and that
00:55:54
sort of thing but normally we don't go to funerals yeah oh yeah he passed away
00:55:58
last year uh were you did you have much to do with Murray Helberg uh well we're in the same Club but we're
00:56:05
never that close yeah um incredible man and incredible Runner the incredible athlete because he had
00:56:13
like um uh what was he he had like a disability it had been the power games now if he was alive wouldn't he uh
00:56:24
a rugby accident right so he had like an arm that didn't function properly yeah
00:56:29
incredible um what happens when you when we die who me yeah someone wants to ask ask
00:56:37
what you think happens when we die are you a spiritual man uh it depends what you mean by spiritual
00:56:45
oh oh well when you when your brain doesn't function and that's it well you know
00:56:53
that's that's nothing much I wouldn't do you don't think there's like a heaven or
00:56:59
an afterlife or no I don't think so no I mean people used to think you know heaven was
00:57:09
up here and all this sort of thing but I mean that sort of concept you know it's
00:57:13
got out the window really so you think the the humans are just like a computer and you know once the computer's
00:57:19
switched off that's it oh I don't think they're any I don't think they're any
00:57:24
different from any anybody else in the animal species I love you you're so pragmatic pragmatic
00:57:32
you're great um what are you going to miss the most when your life ends well you won't be in a position
00:57:46
from the from the position of someone that's um living a good and full life now so you you must Bridge you Miss Jane
00:57:55
no but you won't be in a position to to miss anything yeah that's true that's
00:58:01
true but when I was you know talked about that uh the log and all that sort of thing I mean uh
00:58:07
different people have got different ideas and that and I respect that I mean this it's a you know it's a there's all
00:58:16
different ways of thinking and everybody's got their own uh perspective yeah
00:58:22
do you have any regrets no I don't think so yeah no if you could live your life over you wouldn't do
00:58:30
anything different oh yeah you might but I mean it's uh a lot of things that happened to you it's
00:58:37
it's something that you can't do anything about yeah yeah you um oh something I forgot to mention you
00:58:46
um so you were a working teacher and principal throughout your whole career you never made a scent
00:58:51
through Athletics right oh it happens though no I was a an amateur coach and I remember
00:58:59
my first wife Jean saying that if if I had if I hadn't been coaching I would
00:59:06
have had uh we would have had enough to cash to buy another house well because of the sacrifices you had to make in
00:59:14
order to coach yeah but I never thought about it yeah that um I I'm going to ask
00:59:19
this but I know I know the the answer to the question already does it kind of annoy you now that you know if you were
00:59:24
a coach you're right here right now you'd be making a lot of money for coaching at the level no not at all yeah
00:59:30
yeah in those days I mean and of course nowadays too I mean the sport would probably perish if it wasn't
00:59:41
for all the uh amateur coaches unpaid coaches yeah and and that and that's probably the the case was just about
00:59:48
every sport um and you were telling me on the car right here you caught up with uh John Walker
00:59:54
just yesterday oh yes yeah yeah you're still quite close oh yes yeah we we meet
01:00:00
uh regularly with a few of our old buddies what's regularly like every few months twice a year yeah probably we'll
01:00:08
probably medium and about about three months or so yeah how was he so he's in his 70s now but
01:00:14
he's got um Parkinson's disease yeah yeah he's doing all right yeah what do
01:00:20
you guys talk about when you catch up oh we don't talk about the old days you
01:00:24
don't no no we just talk about what's happening now really when was the when
01:00:30
was you think the last time you and John Walker got together and reflected on like that gold medal performance in 76.
01:00:37
when do you think the last time was that you and John got together and like reminisced or reflected on that gold
01:00:42
medal performance I don't think we've ever done that that's amazing and um how would you like
01:00:50
to be remembered wouldn't worry me no it's it's nothing to do with me I I I
01:01:02
mean you know there's no answer there I mean I've gotten no preference really
01:01:09
um God it's been a great life and it's still going what's the oldest um who's the oldest
01:01:16
New Zealander ever have you got any idea what is it like 107 108 oh I know I know who's a third oldest
01:01:24
New Zealand is is that you no no no no I don't know nowhere near no Lloyd gearing
01:01:29
how old's Lloyd 105 right yeah yeah do you see I thought you're gonna be
01:01:35
around for a while yet aren't you actually oh I might be yeah who knows yeah what about music these days what do
01:01:42
you like to listen you listen to music much not not a great deal no uh not a great deal
01:01:47
[Music] um but I'm Keener on musicals and that sort of thing yeah rather than operating like
01:01:55
that yeah so what does an average day look like for you you wake up um quite leisurely like around 8 A.M about that
01:02:02
and then what you get up oh yeah we we have breakfast and there's a lot again
01:02:07
have coffee later on sometimes go up and meet a few of the guys at the cafe and that sort of thing Cafe on the grounds
01:02:13
of the Retirement Village yeah yeah it's a great setup you got there by the way
01:02:17
yeah it's not bad yeah and then so that's like sort of mid-morning lunchtime
01:02:24
yeah I mean home for lunch home for a nap oh well no never never have a nap yeah no I
01:02:32
haven't got time for that and then the afternoon how does that look oh well two afternoons I go and
01:02:40
play bridge yeah yeah and then uh the chase at 5 p.m oh usually yeah I do a lot of work on the computer do
01:02:51
you know what sort of work oh you know it's it's hard to do with Bridgewater to
01:02:56
do with geniality or something like that um well that seems to be the key here isn't
01:03:01
it just keeping yourself active keeping you keeping your mind and your body busy
01:03:05
yeah I like to have a sort of a project going on yeah so was it um am I having Gene that told
01:03:12
me um that during the pandemic you ordered in like a a stationary bike and you assembled it yourself
01:03:19
oh yes I thought it'd be all ready to go but when it when it arrived it was in 80
01:03:24
different parts and it took me two days to assemble it because the directions were weren't very good and I had to sort
01:03:34
of assemble then unassemble bits and but I finally got it got it going yeah that's amazing and then um and your
01:03:41
evening what does the evening look like you just you watch um the chase you watch the news you watch TV yeah
01:03:48
one or two things we watch on TV but uh we're not watching it every now yeah and
01:03:54
then what sort of time do you go to bed oh I'm not a huge between 10 and 11. a bit of a night
01:04:03
owl yeah yeah wow well thank you very much for these insights today um oh how was it last year when you when
01:04:12
you turn 100 you get the um the telegram from the royal family it was still the queen that was alive so you don't get
01:04:16
telegrams yeah what is that like a card yeah you get a card yeah yeah so um how was that I know we talked about this in
01:04:24
the podcast last year you weren't much excited about it uh when it came was it
01:04:28
was it quite an exciting thing or oh it was quite nice to get to get the cards and the queen yes it was yeah
01:04:37
yeah oh so it's just a like a green just a card okay and what is what does it say
01:04:42
oh it's just good it's I can't recall the exact words but it's just ordinary
01:04:47
but it's uh you know it's got her photo and all that sort of thing which is
01:04:50
rather nice to have yeah I don't want to say beeping noise is that your watch
01:04:59
oh well yeah that means it's 12 o'clock oh what is it what does 12 o'clock mean
01:05:05
well I don't know it just comes up and and says snooze but uh I haven't been able to undo that
01:05:13
yeah so the um yeah so the telegram the the card from the queen you went much excited about that because as you rather
01:05:19
nice together yeah because you as I mean you did you pointed this out to me last
01:05:22
year and rightfully so like she's not sitting in a room writing them all it's
01:05:26
uh but have you got it on display somewhere or oh yeah yeah yeah would you have rather have got one from the queen
01:05:34
or the king uh rather than us to get one from the queen yeah all right I Archibald Arch jelly one of
01:05:44
New Zealand's finest running coaches ever and just a just a good New Zealander um thank you so much for your
01:05:49
insights today um it's been a life well spent and I I I've got a lot out of this conversation
01:05:55
I hope a lot of other people do too just by tapping into the wisdom of just like
01:05:59
a just a good kind solid New Zealander thank you so much for coming over today really appreciate it see you again this
01:06:07
time next year hope so [Music]

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Episode Highlights

  • Celebrating a Century
    Arch shares his experiences and reflections on turning 100 years old.
    “How did you celebrate your 100th?”
    @ 02m 28s
    August 06, 2023
  • The Philosophy of Resilience
    Arch discusses resilience and finding positivity in difficult situations.
    “Use the difficulty.”
    @ 20m 32s
    August 06, 2023
  • Living to 100
    A discussion on the aspirations and realities of reaching 100 years old.
    “I think you're the poster child for living to 100.”
    @ 24m 37s
    August 06, 2023
  • The Evolution of Society
    Reflections on how society has changed over the last 50 years, particularly regarding violence.
    “I think it's far more violent than it was.”
    @ 25m 57s
    August 06, 2023
  • The Joy of Bridge
    Exploring the lifelong passion for bridge and its accessibility to everyone.
    “Bridge is an absolutely fantastic game.”
    @ 40m 41s
    August 06, 2023
  • Reflections on Aging
    The speaker shares insights on aging and how they view life at 100.
    “I've never thought about aging; I just carry on doing what I normally do.”
    @ 54m 11s
    August 06, 2023
  • Thoughts on Death
    A candid discussion about death and what happens after.
    “Thinking about dying doesn't make me sad; it's just part of life.”
    @ 54m 54s
    August 06, 2023
  • The Royal Card
    Receiving a card from the Queen on turning 100 is a memorable moment.
    “It was quite nice to get the card from the Queen.”
    @ 01h 04m 31s
    August 06, 2023
  • A Conversation with Archibald Arch Jelly
    New Zealand's finest running coach shares his wisdom and experiences.
    “It's been a life well spent.”
    @ 01h 05m 50s
    August 06, 2023

Episode Quotes

  • All records are made to be broken.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!
  • You just got to come to terms with that sort of thing.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!
  • I don't think there's any secret to living long.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!
  • It's just a sensible thing to do.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!
  • I've never thought about aging; I just carry on doing what I normally do.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!
  • I've never thought about regrets; you can't change the past.
    Arch Jelley pt. 2 - 100-Year-Old Reflects on Career, Technology, Life After Death, and more!

Key Moments

  • 100th Birthday Celebration02:28
  • Philosophy of Life19:54
  • Bridge Passion40:41
  • Life Lessons45:06
  • Health Challenges45:42
  • Aging Perspectives54:04
  • Gratitude1:05:49
  • Future Plans1:06:07

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