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David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator

May 04, 2025 / 01:49:59

This episode features David Luss, a prominent New Zealand journalist and television presenter, discussing his career, personal experiences, and the evolution of his show, "Missing Pieces." Key topics include his early life, transition from print to television, and the emotional impact of his work.

David shares anecdotes about his upbringing in Ty Poonamu and Fiji, his journey into journalism, and the challenges of finding missing persons. He reflects on the emotional toll of his work, particularly the connections he forms with individuals seeking answers about their families.

Throughout the conversation, David discusses the evolution of his television shows, including "Missing Pieces" and "David Luss Investigates," highlighting how technology and storytelling have changed over the years. He also addresses the importance of empathy in his work and the profound moments he has experienced with guests.

Listeners will gain insight into David's perspective on fame, his personal life, and the impact of aging on his outlook. The episode concludes with a discussion on the significance of human connection and the stories that resonate with audiences.

TLDR

David Luss discusses his journalism career, emotional experiences, and the evolution of his show "Missing Pieces."

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David Less, welcome to my podcast. Oh, thank you. Yeah, you're my running companion. Oh, yeah. I I didn't realize
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listen to her research, but yeah, you you still run. Yeah, I run. Well, I try and run most days. Yeah. And uh when I
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run, I listen to you. Oh, actually. Yeah. Podcast. Well, I always listen to podcasts or or things like that. And
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I've listened to, you know, all your mainly your sports ones, but listen to Julie Christie.
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What an opening. What an opening. Oh, this is unbelievable. Well, we're off to
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a off to a great Well, this is really humbling. I actually um I I wasn't going
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to bring this up, but um you and I have never met. Eh, I don't think I don't
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think so either. I was in um New World last week and uh you were in the selfs serve um next to me and I was told about
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this and you were too scared to talk to me. I was like, "Is that David Lis? Is
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it not David Lis?" And when I could positively identify you, I was like, "Is
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now the the the moment to ask him to come on my podcast or not?" And I let the moment go. And then the ne the very
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next day um one of your publicity team messaged me asking if if you'd be a guest on the podcast. It was very funny
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because um another podcast had asked me to go on it and I just said no don't
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like them and better not say that I suppose in case who it was but then I said no and then
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one of the publicists came back and said what about you and I said well he's
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great I listen to him. Oh amazing. Oh well thank you. This is your very first um podcast. First? Yeah. Podcast as
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such? Yes. Yeah. Lots of interviews but not podcasts. There's there's so much to
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talk about. Um yeah. First of all, like the Oh, I mean there's so many directions to go in. Like I I really
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want to get to know um the, you know, David Lis, you know, beyond the investigates series. Um but then there's
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so many questions. I said on Instagram you're coming and there's so many
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questions from people. So what do you want to do first? focus on missing pieces or focus on David Lass. You're
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the boss. That's true. Well, first of all, um on Instagram, uh one of the questions I got was um during his time
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in news, was Kate Hawksby the loveliest and best news reader he ever worked for.
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Did Kate send it in? She did. She did. And then she said, "Give him my love."
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No, she she was fantastic. She Yeah. Amazing to work with. Just so um skillful. I mean, I can't remember what
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it was. with some big event on and we were doing live and it was just she just carried it without him blinking an eye,
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you know. Amazing. Yeah. Yeah. I've been Is that all right, Kate? I've been I
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message you like every 3 months or so to try and get her to come on the podcast.
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I'll eventually wear her down. I've got a huge amount of admiration for her and
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Mike. Yeah. No. Yeah. So, um yeah, David LZ, um your TV show launched in 2009, 16
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years ago, eight or nine, I'm not sure. Yeah, you've done your research. Um, names
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including Missing Pieces, Lost and Found, and David Lomass Investigates. Why? Why the is is this a network thing
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jumping from network to network? Do you lose the the rights to the name or No. Um, like NZ on Air has this sort of
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policy that every after four funding rounds, you need to reinvent yourself. And so each time you have to reinvent
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yourself, you have to change the name. So, Missing Pieces was 30 minutes and we did two stories and a what we call a
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call out, you know, asking, "Has anybody seen this person?" And then um so that
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was fantastic that very short and it was sort of um I'm looking for the dad.
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There's your dad. Go and say hello. And that was the story. But then we went,
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excuse me, um, then we actually went to a thing called, um, Family Secret, um, which we just did
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for a year, which broadened it out and we'd look for people, we would we'd
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solve mysteries, but the network was terrible, the network wanted to go back to um, just strictly family
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stuff. So we started lost and found and that was um two stories to the hour and sometimes just one story and it got much
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more complicated and involved and uh and then we got to then we had to change our
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name again and nobody could think of a name so they said call it call it David Lis investigates and we've done that and
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um and next year we're going to do a new one again which is going to be called
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Breakthrough with David Lis. So yeah, for the same reason the NZ on every in how does how does a [ __ ] like seven days
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get away with it? Well, yeah, there's lots of um sort of funny things like they fund uh country calendar. They
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don't tell country calendar. They don't fully fund country calendar. They don't
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tell them to change their name. But it's, you know, but it is good because it reinvigorates you. you have to think
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about what you are and what you're doing and um and look look how he can change
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stuff and and it gives the viewer a sort of um new look too. So that's good. So
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all these different names but it's all basically basically the same sort of concept and in that time there's been
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over aundred stories. Oh many more than that. Um probably three or 400 to hear. Unbelievable. And over 12,000 requests
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for help. Um it'll be yeah definitely over 12,000. Yes, it might be up around 15 by now.
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But when when I say that there's a lot of them um which write in and you know
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say I'm trying to find what happened to my grandfather, you know, well and and
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the person's 70. So we're not going to find a grandfather alive. So those ones
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sort of sort of um add a lot to the number of people who have applied, right? Like a junk pile. Um my words,
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not yours. Yeah. Well, but we we're looking to find people living, you know,
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we want to give an answer. And sometimes they're dead, but we find a living relative who who knows the person, but u
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to to search for some the history of a dead relative. That's not our our our
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story. Yeah. Yeah, cuz you you wouldn't get that TV moment at the end. Would you
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have someone running towards a gravestone? There's no Yeah, that's right. We've had a couple of tears at
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gravestones um when giving an answer. But uh yeah, and um the other ones which we get a lot of is um the impossible
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ones and um it's you know uh I had an affair in a pub and um you know I can't
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remember the guy's name, you know. So you can do DNA and get answers to those,
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but in the end if you just do you're just doing that and you do a DNA test, it's not much of a story, right? Yeah.
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You need a couple of strands of information to work on, don't you? And and um for most of these cases that have
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been on TV, you've done the flower technique. No. Uh no. Was that a new thing? No. No. Well, we started doing it
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when um the phone book started disappearing, you know, and um and we just do it when someone's in Australia or somewhere
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and you can't get to them and you you think, well, what do I do? And how do you you used to be able to send a
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telegram, too? I mean, you not in my not for this, but when we were younger. Um but how else do you do it? I mean, you
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can't you can hire someone to go and knock on the door, but it's cheaper to
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send flowers and you know, someone who gets flowers will always look at them and said, "What's all this about?" And
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and they'll think hard about it because, you know, there's been money spent to
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find them and all that sort of thing. So, yeah. So, it works and it's amazing
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how often it works. I mean, we actually did it to a woman in Christ Church who um I you know, we knew her address and I
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just couldn't get hold of her and I thought, "Oh, I'll send flowers." Rang
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up New Brighton uh flower shop and they deliver them that afternoon. That evening she rang me. It's just like
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that. What does the card say? Is it like a the same sort of text every time? No.
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Make it up on the day. I mean, yeah, it's hi. I'm I'm you know who I am and
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what what I'm looking for. Yeah. So, wow. It's a It's a great little hack.
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It's very very effective. Um, what's it been like for you becoming um becoming
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becoming famous at this age and stage of life? Like when were you like mid-50s, 60 before, you know, you started having
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that thing where you're sitting in cafes and you can notice people looking at
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you? Yeah. Um, it's just very funny. I mean, is it enjoyable? Oh, well, I don't mind because um yeah,
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most people are are being nice. I mean, well, everyone basically is nice. I mean, you know, it's um not like they're
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coming up and say, you know, you played a [ __ ] game yesterday, you know, poor all blacks and get get abused like that,
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but everyone just comes up and often tell me fascinating stories about their lives, which is good. But yeah, it's
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very strange. I mean because I never wanted to be on television and um if it was a surprise that um even this show
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you know missing pieces when we started it I was just going to um produce it and
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then the very first story we started shooting I was on the phone trying to find this guy and and
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um we just couldn't get him to answer and I'm ringing and I got hold of his
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son and um and his son says well why do you want to know and I said well I can't
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tell you until to talk to your dad and it was sort of become a standoff and and I said to the camera quick just shoot
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this yeah we'll never know if we'll need it and um and then um the guy actually
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agreed in the end and I had to drive way up to Lake Cage and uh by the time I got
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there it was night and he was in a farmhouse and out out in the middle of nowhere and uh he was doing some uh
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drainage work or he was a digger operator. you know, he was um fixing a road up there. And I said to the
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cameraman, "Run in the paddic and just start filming." And I put a radio mic on
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and went inside and and they filmed that. And then when I went back to the office, I just said, "Yo, look, we've
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got sort of an answer and all this, but um they started looking at the footage and um Greg Heathcoat, who was uh Julie
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Christiey's sort of uh offsider or partner and um and partner in the program, not life. Um, looked at it and
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said, "This is amazing. You're on camera." That's what happened. And so
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all of a sudden, I was in front of a camera. Yeah. And now here you are in your early 70s and you're on the cover
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of Women's Weekly and it's it's a it's a um it's remarkable the twists and turns of life.
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Oh, staggering as I say. I mean, you know, I just and never imagined that anyone would you I could walk I couldn't
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walk down the street and be totally anonymous. But now all of a sudden, you know, lots of people sort of do
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recognize me. And um it's funny you know um my partner Clarinda was walking behind me in the supermarket and she
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says you wouldn't believe how many people say something after you walk by and start looking at you you know which
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is as I say it's nice because it means people are watching the program which is
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just fantastic. Oh they sure are like um you know re the genre reality TV or when
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I had Julie Christie on the D Julie Christie on the podcast I think she called it unscripted drama. Unscripted
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is that what it's called? whatever the whatever the the name is. But it's like it gets a very bad rap
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with shows like Married at First Sight, which is amazing by the way, but awful. Um, but then that that is the genre of
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your show, and it's just it's incredible TV. Yeah, it is. I mean, uh, you know,
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we're sort of a cross between I mean, every story I do would would be, you know, current affairs programs like I
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used to run 60 Minutes many years ago. If someone had come up and and said, "I've got this story." One of the
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reporters, we would have grabbed it in in a heartbeat. So, it's sort of between
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reality and and current affairs. I mean, because, you know, you you see the Herald if if the Herald get a story
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which they can solve about a family finding each other. It's it's in there.
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It's it's a big story. So, you know, we're not far from journalism. Journalism still, which is what I like.
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Yeah. I um Yeah. Yeah, sort of unrelated, I recorded a podcast last week with um Dylan Boucher, one of New
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Zealand's greatest basketball players of all time. Um just recently he's got the
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job of president of the Breakers. Um and I asked him when the last time he cried
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was and yeah, he said it was watching David Lumis investigates. He said most week he he cries. Um yeah, you you're
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making a lot of people cry. It's amazing. I mean, you know, two of the best compliments I've ever had come from
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a couple of, you know, sort of my heroes. Um I was in Parumu one day and this walking along the street and this
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car comes into a screeching hole out jumps this guy and runs up to me. He says David Lois, how are you? And it was
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Christian Cullen. I was just blown away. I I'd be running up to him and say, "Christen Cullen, how
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are you?" But he came up and so that was lovely. And then I was um doing a a race
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on Waki um um from uh on Tangi Beach to the warf and that and uh this walkers start and runners start at the same time
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and um old um Graeme Henry was standing there and the only time I've ever spoken
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to Graeme Henry was um when I was doing some work for radio and uh I'd asked him
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at a news press conference I says so you're continuing with the rotation this
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year and you just glared at me. He just glared at me and he said, "What rotation, but then he walked up to me
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out there and he just shook my hand." Said, "I just love your program." So,
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it's so lovely when that happens. Yeah. It's so gratifying, right? It's crazy.
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Um, all right. Well, let's go let's go all the way back um to paint a picture
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of, you know, who David Lass is. So, you're from a town called T uh Ty Ponamu
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in the South Island. Where is that? Ty Panamu. Yeah, it is the South Island. Oh. Oh, okay. Oh, I'll be editing this
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bit out. Okay. I thought it was a town in the South Island. Um, whereabouts in the South Island? Uh, well, I was born
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in Blenhan, but um I didn't really live a lot in South Island because we moved
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to Fiji when I was very young, but went back to um live out of um Deneden on the
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Ty Plains when I was in my uh standard two to standard six at school. Yeah. So yeah, you what's your earliest memory?
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My earliest memory um well it's up in Fiji. Um and you know we used we had a
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great life up there and I can just remember swimming in the swimming pool and and uh you know riding you know
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tricycles around and that sort of thing. Yeah. But uh I suppose that's it. But
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yeah, nothing startling. Yeah. So your dad was um an air traffic controller. Yes. So when was this? Like in like in
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the 1950s? Was it was it like sea planes or in Fiji or or Yeah, just in in like in in general? No, no. Um when I was
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born um dad was up at um uh Woodburn uh in Benham at the airport there. um uh he had been he had got into air
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traffic control through being in the air force in the um Pacific during the war and um and then it
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um sorry where we were going we were yeah um and so it was just the very start of air traffic control and then he
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got a job up in Fiji because all the um the longhaul planes from the US would would island hop that you know and um so
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They're always landing in in Nandy at the airport there and uh it was DC6s, DC7s and things like that and um Globe
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Masters and um and uh you know all all the celebrities in the world came through there at the time. Um you know
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what's her name? Um h gosh got a brain fade. Um, can't think of the name. Oh, are we
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still talking? No, no, this in Nandy. Um, breakfast at Tiffany's. Who was that
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actor? Oh, Audrey Hippen. Yeah, Audrey Hippon came through there. Yeah. Yeah. And I remember, you know, as um everyone
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at the airport was in in a buzz because she was going to get off the plane. So, you know, the mums were all down there
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looking. And um yeah, you had the Lord bound Baton and things like that wandering through. But yeah, it was a
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fascinating time. And and and now look at you. It's come the full circle now.
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You're maybe New Zealand's most frequent flyer. There's so by the way, there's so many
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questions on Instagram about your um your Air New Zealand status and some other um airport related questions.
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We'll get to them later, but um yeah. So um boarding school in Wellington in when
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was this? The late late60s. Um from My parents went back up to Fiji just when I was turning 15. So I did the last three
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years of schooling at um Wellington College. Yeah. So yeah. How was that experience? It was fantastic. Um abs
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absolutely amazing. I love boarding school and uh yeah, Wellington College was a very uh liberal boarding school.
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Um my parents had when I first left decided that I should um we actually private boarded when in the fifth form
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and then in sixth form I went to boarding school and but decided I should go down to Christ Church where a lot of
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mom's relatives were and sent me to St. Beads and I just hated it and um but I'd
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met all all these guys up in Fiji during school holidays and that most of them were going to Wellington College. So I
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so I said to dad, "Can you get me out of here? And and is this sort of when um when the
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love of writing or or journalism came because you you you and this is the cutest story by the
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way. This is something that would just never it would never never happen these days. But you used to write ice hockey
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reports and then just drop them on the doorstep of the newspaper and they publish them. Yes. Yes. Um it's the most
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random bizarre story now. Like imagine a handwritten note on the doorstep of the
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Herald. It's crazy. No. Well, I I'd started playing ice hockey um in in the third form. Um that I lived
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out in Miramar Way and there's an ice skating rink out there in those days and
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there'd been a bit of publicity about it and my brother who was a um Peter who
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was also a journalist and already a journalist. He had written a story about this rec recruitment campaign and he
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said go down and see see what it's like. So my brother and I and two or three
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mates went down there and uh we were told we can skate whenever we wanted to and all that sort of thing. And uh so we
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we started playing hockey and um and uh Peter used to get someone to do reports for the
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um talk to him about it and send and for the Dominion. And I thought well no one's doing it for the Evening Post. So,
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I just started writing them and I'd slip them. It was a little um thing. But
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sports in those days, a lot of people um dropped off sports results through this
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little uh cubby. Oh, like an after hours letter box. Yeah. And I started doing it
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and I never put my name on it or anything like that, but um they they just published them and and say I was at
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school one day and I was that that year I was still at St. Pat's College and um
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and the recctor of here calls calls me out and you know when you get called out at assembly you think you're in trouble
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and he handed me an envelope and it was a check for I don't know about 12 shillings or something I mean was a
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dollar 20 I don't know what it was but it was it wasn't a big amount but in
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those days it was it was good enough and um and one hell of a pleasant shock. How
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did how did they track you down? Um, I think they must have asked it at someone must have asked at the ice hockey thing
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and who who's doing this and and the guys there knew I was doing it. So, I suspect that's how Harry how he found
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out. But and I don't know why he sent it to school because if he had worked out
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who I was, he probably knew who my brother was. But but they sent it to school. And so did you do that because
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you loved Yeah. Why didn't you put your name on it? And and were were they just trying to
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get my head around it. Were they were they were they structured sort of stories or was it sort of Oh, they were
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basically very simple. You know, Red Hawks beat you know whatever the other team was in those days at 53 you know uh
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uh I was trying to think of the guys who played with Wind Van Wind Vanir you know
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stopped three made brilliant stops or something like that. So it was just like facts and information but but it was
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yeah just a little story about five or six parts probably. Yeah. But uh and is that is that where is that was sort of
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where the love of writing or journalism came? Is that where you thought I could make a career out of this?
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Well later um I started doing more stuff and then um Peter said why don't you come start
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doing some weekend work on the Dominion and um uh Alex Vasy who was sports editor of Dominion said yeah yeah we'll
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give him a job and um so I started writing the weekends for the um Dom the Sunday Star Times as went out then and
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um so I sort of stopped playing uh Saturday sports and started um you know covering sport and and it just grew from
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there. It was be it was never a conscious decision to become a journalist at that stage but
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as soon as I was doing it I just knew that's what I was going to do. So what
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else did you think you wanted to do? Oh because I've been raised Catholic for a
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while I always used to put down priest you know because when they asked you what do you want to be and forest
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ranger. Forest ranger. Well, well, cuz I love being in the outdoors, but but uh yeah, you just had no idea when you're
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14 or 15, but from about 15 onwards, I always knew it was going to be journalism. Yeah. Yeah, that seems like
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a very um I don't know, even like flamboyant occupation at that point. Yeah, it was a long time ago. Oh, well,
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journalism was um you know, print journalism was was absolute king then, you know. Um radio wasn't didn't exist.
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television really didn't exist. It was it had started but you know you you didn't see it as um really serious
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journalism. It was um black and white and slow and always a day behind. Um so it was a a great place to get into and
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it's just it's the most amazing job. It's the you know grandstand on the
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world you know you sit there and you're right in the front row. So yeah it's
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crazy. Yeah. Just the the like the change you've seen in the media landscape e over your decades. Yeah.
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It's nuts. Like a lot of the a lot of the um the papers you work for, they're
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not they don't even exist anymore. No. Um I was trying to think if it's one
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that that I've worked for that still exists. Um Dominion kind of does. Well,
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no. Now they gone and changed it to the post only. And Oakland Star, that's no longer
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there. The Wongoi Chronicle. Is that still a The cron's still going. Is it? Is it? Yeah. How long were you in Wongoi
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for? Oh, only only about a year. I when I finished um I went went to Vastie because I couldn't left school and I was
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going to be a journalist, but I just wanted to enjoy life for a little while. I went up and um started playing rugby
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again and um still played ice hockey up here and um just had a great, you know, couple of years at Vasti and um then I
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thought I better get a job. So uh I went and did the journalism course at AUT AIT
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or ATI ATI as it was back then and um that was 6 months and at the end um the Herald offered me a job, the Star
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offered me a job but the Wonganui Chronicle was always also looking for someone and I thought no I'm going to go
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there because there I'd be someone because there's only three or four journalists
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whereas in the Herald and Star you you'd probably be writing up the shipping
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notes and uh taking the weather on uh Queen Street. So So uh I went there and then um I was there for about a year and
00:24:58
uh then chap called Arman Lindenberg who I'd worked with on the Dominion was up
00:25:03
covering the um athletics meeting where I think John Walker was running. But anyway, it was one of those classic mile
00:25:12
events at Cook's Garden and um he saw me there and he said, "Lus, what are you
00:25:17
doing here?" And I said, 'I'm working on the Chronicle. He said, 'N no, you're
00:25:20
not. You're coming to the Dominion. So about 3 weeks later, I was back on the
00:25:26
Dominion there. And it just world just kept going on. Yeah. What did life look like for a journalist back then? Well,
00:25:34
you weren't um you weren't getting wealthy. That was for sure. Um but it was just an exciting
00:25:41
job. I mean, you know, where else do you go? And every day is just something different. And, you know, you can be
00:25:48
jumping on a on a plane and flying to the west coast to, you know, a little one seater, you know, one one engine
00:25:55
plane down the coast when a boat's upturned and there's people stuck inside. You can be flying up to a train
00:26:02
crash at Wuru, you know, and, you know, fires out at murder scenes, you know, interviewing famous people. I mean, how
00:26:11
good for, you know, person in their early 20s. Yeah. And you covered some big stories in your time, e like um the
00:26:18
Arabus disaster. Well, Arabus was really funny because um it was just a really quiet night at work and
00:26:25
um there had been a um little fire on Brooklyn Hill and I'd just got in a car
00:26:30
and driven up there to see what it was like. And then I heard that um the um Air New Zealand flight was overdue.
00:26:38
So I shot back to work and we started working and I had a a mate John Barnhill who um was very good at police radio. So
00:26:46
I rang him up and I said, you know, can you get Mcmebermeto radio? And he fiddled round, fiddle around and and he
00:26:52
got it. And so back at the office I had the um McMmetoro radio on. I had John had his phone next to the radio and I
00:27:02
had the phone next to me and we were just sitting there listening and listening and they were searching. And
00:27:07
then um it must have been just after midnight they said you know we've located wreckage on the back side of
00:27:13
Arabus there there appears to be no survivors and that just came across and it was an amazing night because the
00:27:21
Dominion was going cold press that night so that they put an early deadline on and um I got this big break which we
00:27:29
knew it had crashed where it crashed and that there appeared to be no survivors and I had you know a recording of
00:27:37
And the presses were running and you know you know you love that idea of running down stop the presses literally.
00:27:45
Well I did run down and yell out stop the presses. Not didn't yell that out but and um the editor of the day he said
00:27:52
no we can't we can't we're doing you know it's we're stuck. And the um uh
00:27:59
printer the main printer there at the time a guy called Russell Gray just I had the script. Yeah, the um story there
00:28:07
and he came out and I gave it to him and he just disappeared. They did a new plate, stopped the press and shoved it
00:28:15
on and all of a sudden we have that story. I mean, no one else in New Zealand broke that for probably 2 or 3
00:28:21
hours, which was 2 2:33 in the morning or something. But the all all the other papers um could stop their presses and
00:28:28
do it. But it was just Dominion was on that um changeover between um you know hot type and cold cold. So it was an
00:28:38
amazing night. And um Mr. Asia maybe um New Zealand's most infamous um drug trafficker. Did you did you know Terry
00:28:46
Clark? No. Um you just involved in the story somehow? I was I was in Wellington. I
00:28:53
was doing a lot of police work in Wellington and I um when it started breaking the star broke it up in
00:28:59
Oakuckland and um but the Dominion sent me over to Sydney to sort of start investigating and you know try and find
00:29:07
out what was going on because the scene had been largely there and so I sort of did a lot of work on it but I couldn't
00:29:15
say at that stage but I did broke anything major. I mean I had new information in different parts but yeah
00:29:22
but you know my lucky break on that one came when I was asked to do the um uh documentary on it. Yeah. So yeah even
00:29:31
that's crazy the thought of like a journalist being sent over to Australia to like look at look into it like now
00:29:36
it's just sort of press releases from the police really that you're rewriting
00:29:39
isn't it? Oh yeah. And and that that was incredible because um that was what was
00:29:44
that early 80s or something like that. I went to King's Cross and and you know
00:29:49
just doing a bit of color stuff there. You walk into King's Cross and you went
00:29:53
into the um public toilets around around there and there were um you know syringes lying in in the in the in the
00:30:01
urinal really and and you know it was really seedy and um and uh make sure I get the right name. um a New Zealand
00:30:10
band name Dragon I think. Yeah, they they were said to be involved, you know, and uh you know, you were I was trying
00:30:19
to track down people who knew what they had been involved with and that and and just trying to track down people and
00:30:24
talk to police over there and and I was working a bit with the um police reporters on the Daily Telegraph in
00:30:32
Sydney. So, it was yeah, just quite an interesting time. Yeah. air travel was like um it was very expensive then you
00:30:39
know um I remember like mom and dad going to Sydney in I think 1980 or whatever when I was like seven years old
00:30:44
and it was an occasion you'd get dressed up and you'd have the flight over so for
00:30:48
a print organization to like send a journalist over that's a it's a big deal
00:30:52
yeah oh well it was the 80s it wasn't that bad early 80s before things got real
00:30:59
good was it and it was in the 80s that you made the transition over to TV late 80s So I I moved up to Oakland and um
00:31:09
work on the staff for a while and then I got offered a job on the um Oakland Sun
00:31:15
when that started. And so um and that was great because they first thing they did is they sent me to um to Paneang and
00:31:23
Malaysia to go and cover the Cohen trial, Aaron and uh Lorraine Cohen. And so I started work on this paper and I
00:31:32
was dispatched to um Paneang and I spent a month up there and then before and I never I hadn't seen the paper I was
00:31:40
working for until I got back to New Zealand and but you know I was writing all these stories from up there and that
00:31:46
was incredible. You covering a trial where someone was up to be um you know they could have been hung. Yeah. And you
00:31:55
know these um Aaron Lorraine each day they were marched into court and you know we as journalists we were always
00:32:03
there trying to talk to them as they came in and in court they were just sitting in front of us and we you know
00:32:08
we'd chat away and bit and um Lorraine's ex-husband Danny was up there and you
00:32:13
know he was always um Aaron's father and and was giving um you know helping them bringing in food
00:32:20
and things like that and but you know for those to I mean what what a experience I mean or a terrifying event
00:32:28
you know sitting there having their life decided by by a court. Yeah. Yeah. I think Lorraine's passed.
00:32:36
Is Aaron still alive? [ __ ] Had to be a great podcast guest, wouldn't he? Yeah.
00:32:40
I think I think so. Sorry. I don't That's right. He He ended up not getting
00:32:44
the death penalty, but getting um six lashes with that. Um he was going to get rotan. Yes. Right. Right. Which which
00:32:50
like breaks the skin of the the buttocks. It sounds most unpleasant. Yeah, it's like the old cane at school,
00:32:55
but but really brutal. Did you Did you get the cane at school? Well, as I say, when you get called at St. Pats, you get
00:33:03
called to direct go and see director after assembly. Yeah, I went to Palmer North Boys High
00:33:10
and um I think it was um abolished like midway through my my term there. Um so, in the first couple of years, parents
00:33:17
had to sign a consent form for their kids to be to be caned and um I was like, "Oh, sweet. Mom and dad won't sign
00:33:22
this." um because it was sort of 50/50, but sure enough they did. It's brutal.
00:33:26
Brutal. And the um yeah, Mr. Brookie, who was the the housemaster, like I think he got great pleasure every Monday
00:33:31
morning at assembly from reading out a list of names and then get to line up in the library for you and get whacked.
00:33:37
It's bizarre. Ah, those priests were a bit sadistic, I think. Yeah. So, um Yes.
00:33:44
So, so you you um moved from print to TV and um yeah, you you were working on the
00:33:50
home show, the iconic home show when that first launched on TV. Yeah, I went um as I say, the Oakland Sun, I went to
00:33:57
the Oakland Sun and that folded and then I was sort of unemployed and um an old old mate of well a friend of a mate of
00:34:04
mine who I'd become friends with, Paul Cutler, he um he said, "Oh, we'll give
00:34:09
you a job." And so I went and worked in TV. I had no idea what I was doing. And
00:34:14
um but yeah, they wanted someone who could find stories, develop stories. And um and then they were doing an
00:34:22
experiment with Paul Holmes. Um and we did a program called Midweek with Holmes. Um and it was about six of us on
00:34:32
it. Bill Rolston was one of them. And um it was an experiment to see whether Holmes would work on television. And so
00:34:39
we did that. And then um we launched Homes and uh we launched it with a bit of a bang.
00:34:46
Yeah. Episode one uh one of those iconic uh New Zealand TV moments. Um and it was
00:34:52
pre-recorded, right? The interview with Dennis Connor from um the US America's
00:34:55
Was it pre-recorded or live? Do you remember? I honestly can't remember. Yeah, I was there, but I can't
00:35:02
remember. But it's um it's a it's a walk it's a walk out. So, Holmes asked some
00:35:06
confronting questions and Dennis Connor's um he wanted him to apologize for for calling um the New Zealand
00:35:14
designer a loser, you know. That's right. So, like get off the stage. Losers aren't allowed on the
00:35:20
stage. So, what So, what what are your Yeah. What are your recollections of that time of that time? Well, well,
00:35:27
Homes, you know, was just a fantastic program to work on. I mean um when we launched it, it was a sort of total new
00:35:35
sort of current affairs style. I mean the first episode we had a um interview with a guy um who
00:35:45
um was suspected of murdering Kursa Jensen and you know I'd got that interview and that was you know
00:35:53
sensational enough. And then then we did a story on um uh a woman in Napia who had 39 cats and her neighbors were
00:36:02
getting upset. So doing a story that and then we had of course Dennis Connor to top it all off and and when it all
00:36:08
happened I mean it was just fantastic. But um the next day there was sort of a big split in the newsroom. There was
00:36:17
those who all thought that you know it was an outrageous show and it was awful and you know how dear all this happened
00:36:23
and this tabloid television and then the homes crew were we were sitting in another area whole thing
00:36:32
with are we going to survive is this going to be good and of course yeah there was a lot of controvers
00:36:39
controversy over it but you know it just boomed and then we just kept doing things and you know Paul was an amazing
00:36:46
chap to work with him? Did you work with him? No, I I met him a few times. Had some drinks with him at Radio Awards and
00:36:53
stuff. I was a huge huge fan. Massive massive fan of um Yeah. Sir Paul Holmes. But um yeah, I love hearing stories
00:36:59
about him. Did he ever blow a stack at you? He must have told you off once or twice. Oh, not really. But uh but we
00:37:06
created this Uncle Arthur thing and I got the job of taking him out. We we wanted to get him out in the field and
00:37:13
uh the our name in the office for him was sort of Uncle Arthur. And so he was always this goofy guy who goes out and
00:37:20
the first thing we got him to do was um Kelly Evan, the uh very good tennis player was in town. And um so we
00:37:27
arranged for him to do an interview of Kelly, but we decided that we'd get Paul
00:37:32
dressed up in uh white tennis gear and baggy pants and all that and stand on the court and try and hit a hit a serve
00:37:39
when Kelly put it down. And poor old Holmes, he's you flopping all over the place. But it was just, you know, that
00:37:45
was the creation of that Uncle Arthur sort of idea of him, which he did for years and years afterwards. And yeah, it
00:37:52
was just a really vibrant time. I mean, we did a everyone on the program just did amazing stories. Yeah. We we sort of
00:38:00
um there hadn't been anything like it in New Zealand television and uh yeah, it
00:38:06
probably hasn't been anything like it since either. Yeah. Because during that
00:38:10
time he he became like proper famous like probably the most famous man in New Zealand I guess like he was um yeah the
00:38:16
the ratings were increasing on ZB and he was doing this evening show. Um, yeah, there were pap when his marriage broke
00:38:23
up, there's paparazzi outside his house. It was like a he Yeah. One of the most
00:38:27
recognizable men in New Zealand and probably highest paid as well. Did he Did he change over that time or No, he
00:38:33
he was incredible. I mean, you know, I'd go out with him quite a lot on, you
00:38:37
know, doing shoots with him when he was talking to people and things like that. And he was just um an incredibly
00:38:45
um able to relate to just about anyone, you know, and you know, gang guys would come up to him and talk to him and he'd
00:38:52
just chat away. He was, you know, the common touch they call him, I think. Yeah. He he was, you know, really good
00:38:58
at that. Yeah. And um but you know, he he was really stretching himself. He was doing the morning show, as you say. He'd
00:39:06
come into work. We'd do a a morning meeting with him. go go go home and have
00:39:09
his sleep for a couple of hours. Come back and prep for the evening show and then you know he's up again at that
00:39:17
finished at um what 7:30 or whatever it was and then a slight debrief and find out what was going on. Then he'd go home
00:39:24
and up at 3:00 in the morning to do his morning show. I mean he was uh yeah pushing it.
00:39:31
Yeah. I I had Sir John Key on the podcast and he told a story about homes. He said he was at a restaurant in Panell
00:39:36
like one Friday or Saturday night with Brona and Holmes was there with a group of friends and they called him over for
00:39:42
a drink. So he had a drink with him then he was like no I've got to Holmes was
00:39:45
ordering another bottle and John was like I got to go cuz we're we're interviewing tomorrow on Q&A or whatever
00:39:50
it was. So he went home for sleep and then um Holmes ordered another bottle and then the next morning he said home
00:39:56
seemed a little bit dusty but then as soon as the cameras were on just sharp as attack. Yeah. No, that was him. He
00:40:01
was he had an incredible stamina for a for for a chap who really didn't have
00:40:06
stamina. Yeah. Amazing. You were um you were involved in um the helicopter crash. Yes. Yes. Yeah. So this was 1989
00:40:16
89. Yeah. Middle of June or end of June actually. Yeah. Do um do you want to talk are you okay to talk about it?
00:40:24
Yeah. There's no So yes. So what happened? You you It was you Paul Holmes. Well, there was a chapam Rana White who
00:40:33
uh was a police commander. Well, yeah, an inspector in Wellington who was an old mate of mine and he'd just been
00:40:40
promoted to become the first Mai district commander for the East Coast and they were going to have a formal
00:40:48
welcome for him at um the Tiki Tiki Marai up right up the top there. And so I got hold of Rana and said, you know,
00:40:56
would you do it? and and you know can we come and do a big program on of homes and he said yeah and Holmes was really
00:41:03
keen because he was uh very sympathetic to all things Mali and that so um we flew down there it was a a Saturday and
00:41:13
uh the welcome was on in the afternoon but it was um torrential rain and so we'd flown to Gisbon in a um charter six
00:41:25
six or eight seater plane And then we'd got a helicopter up to um uh Ticky Ticky
00:41:31
and because it was torrential rain, everything ran late and um and then we had a sort of deadline because Paul had
00:41:39
a speech he had to do in Oakuckland that night and um and we had to leave I can't
00:41:45
remember at 4 4:00 or 4:30 but um the thing was late so it was getting close to 5 or whatever it was at the time and
00:41:54
we all jumped in the chopper And um because we're all soaking wet, it sort of steamed up a bit and and we took off
00:42:01
and um and then um our sound man, we'd been out up in the air for about 5 minutes and remembered he had left all
00:42:09
his radio mics on different people in in the Marai. So we flew back and landed there. Took off again. By this stage
00:42:16
we're we're getting quite late and dusk is coming in and uh we flew down the
00:42:21
coast and still raining and the chopper was fogging up a bit. we sort of keeping
00:42:26
the windows clear and um then we flew we were flying quite low so because the pilot I think was following the coast um
00:42:34
I'm not sure how high but I didn't think it was a few hundred feet up and uh we
00:42:40
threw flew around a headland and he just flew into a squall and um totally lost visibility I suspect that's what we've
00:42:49
told and um and you know you hear that um noise in a chopper when it's um blades are slowing up or something. Is
00:42:57
that D, you know, and just that and then the next minute we're upside down in the
00:43:02
water and uh it was uh you know what the hell's happening here? So yeah. Is that terrifying at the time or
00:43:12
is it does it happen so quick you just sort of bewildered? I had absolutely no idea. It was flying thud thud thud and
00:43:19
then you're upside down water. I cannot actually remember the crash and it was just all so fast and I
00:43:30
um I think the chopper pilot had when he had lost vision had had sort of pulled back speed altogether. So I think we we
00:43:38
didn't fly into the water. We we sort of just rolled into the water and um yeah
00:43:44
we're upside down but it was almost dark then. I mean the the houses as we'd been
00:43:50
coming along the coast the lights were really you know showing so you know it was quite
00:43:57
dark and then when we're upside down it was very dark and um then we all got out
00:44:02
and um uh well all of us but the cameraman got out and um and we got out and we're looking
00:44:11
around where's where is Joe and um uh then we realized he wasn't there. So, I
00:44:17
dived in and uh looked for him under in the upside down chopper and I grabbed him and I fel felt his leg and and um
00:44:26
that must have um shocked him into action because he jumped out and who was holding me down or something like that
00:44:31
when he got up and um and then we sort of uh just gathered on in the water and uh the pilot um had got the emergency
00:44:42
locator beacon out, but that was like a brick, a genuine like a brick. and and um we were sort of holding well I was
00:44:49
holding at that stage and we were talking about and I said what's the use of this you know we're it's by this
00:44:55
stage about 6:30 or something in um off the east coast of uh New Zealand what plane's ever going to fly across here
00:45:02
who's even going to know for a long while that we're missing and um uh so we decided to throw that away
00:45:11
because nobody's going to see it or get get the signal And uh we tried to swim
00:45:17
ashore and um and uh on the way in we lost Joe and um which was terrible. Um it was quite squaly and you know we got
00:45:29
him quite a long way in and then um another big squall came through and cuz he couldn't swim. He he just panicked a
00:45:36
bit which of course you would if you're lying there if water's you know going
00:45:42
into your mouth and that and um and uh we lost him there. Yeah. How far from shore were you? How far did you have to
00:45:50
swim to get in? Well, I estimate we went when we went back the next day to um you know sort
00:46:01
of bit of research and and not not for research but just to get some give the searches a bit of an idea what what had
00:46:09
happened. Um I thought it was probably about 700 800 meters out. Um but I don't
00:46:15
know for sure. I mean but yeah, there's no way of knowing. It took us uh probably 45 50 minutes to get ashore,
00:46:23
but I mean um most of us were in quite heavy and big coats and that I I stripped down to my shirt and
00:46:33
and with took my pants off and shoes off and that um Holmes took his jacket, big
00:46:39
coat off, but he for some unknown reason he kept his shoes on and um maybe they were
00:46:44
expensive. And anyway, um when we got ashore, it was um you know, it was freezing of course because it was middle
00:46:53
of winter and um the water wasn't that warm either. But um and then we didn't
00:46:59
know where we were cuz when we got ashore there was no lights anywhere. We're just up against a cliff. And uh so
00:47:06
we sort of I climbed up a bank and I could feel um there was a flat area and I could feel it was a path or a track
00:47:15
and we got so we all got up there and we said which way to go and uh the decision
00:47:19
was to go left because people had seen lights on the left just around when we're out swimming
00:47:27
in there'd been lights on the left. So we went that way and got to a farmhouse
00:47:31
and uh all of a sudden raised the alert that we'd crashed. Yeah, that must have been bizarre for
00:47:37
the people in the farmhouse. Paul Holmes, one of the, you know, most recognizable New Zealanders on, you
00:47:42
know, the the doorstep in this disheveled sort of state. Well, yeah, we knocked on the door. I'm standing there
00:47:48
in my undies basically homes the um chopper poll and I had sort of carried had homes between us cuz he was
00:47:59
quite hypothermic really at that stage and yeah banged on the door and this old couple came to the door and we said oh
00:48:06
we're in a helicopter that's crashed and well they didn't know of course but you
00:48:11
know we thought people would know by then but um yeah so that's how we alerted people. Yeah. Oh, and you to um
00:48:19
strip homes off and get them in a bath. Yes. Well, yes, I can say I've taken strip four homes. Yes. And one of
00:48:28
one of many of the stories out of belief. Um yeah, that's a that's a really traumatic thing to go through.
00:48:35
Yeah. How how do you process that? Like there's this is so this is 30 35 years
00:48:40
ago. So there's a lot more awareness now about PTSD and mental health and triggering situations. But you did you
00:48:47
have any counseling or therapy or anything after that or Yes. Um TVNZ sort of insisted but I went and saw a um
00:48:54
someone I can't remember what what um title they had and it was good because
00:48:59
it was just a chance to to talk because um again it was that uh newsroom feeling
00:49:05
when you know afterwards it's um why why did we do that? Why why did we get ourselves into that situation?
00:49:15
And you know and TVNZ changed its protocols quite a bit after that. You know that um everyone had to go do
00:49:23
underwater evacuation training that the helicopter going way back. The helicopter had no um life jackets in it.
00:49:32
So that's when we got out. There was nothing nothing that could float. And uh
00:49:36
that's why we had to swim. If there'd been life jackets, Joe would be alive
00:49:40
today, of course. Um and uh why did we fly in that weather? You know, who had made those decisions? And um you know,
00:49:49
so it was and so it was quite intimidating back in the office because uh you know, people had lost a a very
00:49:56
dear friend and colleague and Joe and they're wanting answers and you know who
00:50:02
who made the calls, you know, and and when you think about it, nobody made the calls. It was just we were going there,
00:50:10
we're going to film that, and then we jump in the chopper and fly back. There
00:50:14
was no thought that anything like that would happen. No. Yeah. Did Did something like surviving something like
00:50:19
that change you as a person? Um, yeah. Made me I slightly rash decision. A few months later, I I got
00:50:30
married slightly on a whim. Um, well, just was it one of those moments where it's like life's too
00:50:37
short. I got a Well, it was because I' I'd was single and I sort of doing just
00:50:44
going out with different women for a while and um and then um I met a lady who I really enjoyed her company and um
00:50:52
and we just decided within 3 months of that crash and it was sort of a somewhere in there I'd probably thought
00:51:00
you know I've got to sort my life out because you know I've been given this ch
00:51:05
second chance but um you know, the marriage didn't didn't last, but but I
00:51:11
got a wonderful daughter, so you know, um but yeah, you make that decision and but yes, you're always very grateful
00:51:20
that you're you're still alive because you when you hear about other helicopter
00:51:24
crashes and things like that and you just think, why why did I survive and you know, why did we survive that one?
00:51:30
Yeah. Yeah. Very lucky. So, so the mar How long did the marriage last? Oh, for um 10 years or so. Yeah. Well, that's a
00:51:43
success. Is that a success? I having having been through a failed marriage myself, it's it's quite funny
00:51:49
actually. You stand in front of all your family and friends and you say you're
00:51:51
going to be together till you die. So, anything short of that does kind of feel like a fail in a way. But 10 years is I
00:51:58
mean it's it's an honest attempt. Yeah. I mean Yeah, I suppose so. But uh uh you
00:52:04
know if it lasted 10 years, you know, after little bit before that that it wasn't wasn't going well. So So yes, you
00:52:12
got two adult kids now. Yes. One from that relationship, one from another relationship. Yes. Is that the only time
00:52:18
you've been married? Just the ones. Well, going going way way back at university uh again um I was going out
00:52:32
with a lady there and um I was leaving town to go to the Wonganui Chronicle and back in those days early 70s I mean been
00:52:41
to lots of weddings by that stage of colleagues uh not colleagues but you know other people and I was moving down
00:52:49
there and and we decided that she would come down there too. And and with that decision, we decided to get married. And
00:52:57
um and that marriage went for six years. But then I joined the um was right into
00:53:03
newspapers and I when I went to the Dominion, I was working nights all the time and um and she was an accountant
00:53:11
and um our lives just drifted drifted apart and we didn't have children and uh
00:53:19
Yeah. And yeah, again um you know a very very nice person but um you know it we just drifted and that's what happened.
00:53:27
You still in touch or no? No. Um when I left Wellington I caught up with her and um and I haven't really
00:53:35
caught up with her since but if you're keen to I know a show that can help. Um and yeah so you've got a partner now
00:53:43
Clarinda. Um, I've read about I know about this cuz I've read about it in a
00:53:48
couple of um Women's Day stories. Women's Weekly. Women's Weekly. Sorry.
00:53:51
Thank you. They'll smack me on the hand if you Yeah. It's crazy. The twists and
00:53:57
turns of life like so in the in the ' 90s when you're with Holmes like he was
00:54:01
he was, you know, women's magazine fod and I suppose you could have never have
00:54:05
seen this for yourself and here you are at this stage of life and this is you. I
00:54:09
know. And it's it's funny publicity because um you know I have this sort of
00:54:15
thing. I ask people to be on television. I ask them to do this you know and I want to talk about their lives and and
00:54:22
so when people ask me will I do it I feel I can't turn around and say no it's
00:54:28
none of your business you know um I put myself out there. So you you feel you have a an obligation to you know respect
00:54:37
that other people want to know a little bit about you too. Yeah. Although this this this podcast by the way this it's
00:54:44
not a a stitch up or anything. So if there's anything I ask and you want to say none of your business, you just say
00:54:49
none of your business. Oh, can we go back? We can edit anything out. So, so funny.
00:54:56
There's nothing I edited out apart from a couple of dumb things I've said, but
00:54:59
you've you've been um the perfect guest. We've been going for almost an hour and
00:55:03
we haven't even started talking about missing pieces yet. Oh my goodness. Are
00:55:06
you on a are you on a time frame or anything or are you okay? Um should I say yes? No, I'd like to keep you on a
00:55:14
bit longer if we may. Okay. Um yeah. So, how you se We'll get to missing pieces
00:55:21
soon because there's so much to talk about with with that. Um, so you're 71
00:55:25
now? Two. 72. You're looking great, by the way. So you you you do ocean swims and you run.
00:55:35
Yeah, I I I not in your league any Well, not I don't know if I was ever in your
00:55:40
league, but I I try and run about 50k a week if I can or 40 to 50. Um, and I try
00:55:47
and swim uh or during summer I swim every day if not twice twice some days. And um yeah, so
00:55:56
yeah. So I've become um I'm I'm 52 now. Uh in the last maybe 5 years I've become
00:56:02
obsessed with um like aging role models. So I I look to see someone in their 70s
00:56:07
that's still active and still working and still mentally and physically physically fit. And I find it incredibly
00:56:12
inspiring. Um so you want what Yeah. What were you like when you were my age? Were you were you incredibly active and
00:56:18
fit then? Yeah. Yeah. I started um running. I got to about 30 and I was smoking and uh working in Dominion, you
00:56:26
know, working nights, going to the pub down to Britannia every night at 7 for a beer and and you're smoking, then you're
00:56:35
staying up all night because you know, you socializing after you finish work and going home at 4:00 or 5 in the
00:56:42
morning. And all of a sudden I realized that's who I was. And I decided, well, I
00:56:47
I was still playing a little bit of ice hockey then and um a bit of badminton, but I wasn't really doing any real
00:56:56
sport, so I took up running and I sort of got into marathons and and multisport and that sort of stuff. And yeah, so and
00:57:05
you know, I kept I just kept running. Um and I've never stopped. Um you that's the physical picture. And
00:57:12
what about the mental side of things? How have you keep yourself mentally sharp?
00:57:17
Well, running helps you amazingly. Um when I go, sorry, I've got this croak in my throat. Um running Yeah, it does
00:57:28
help you amazingly. You go out and that's your that's your time, your your
00:57:33
think time. And I I find, you know, exercise is that time you can relax and thing. But but yeah, the job's very
00:57:40
vibrant. I mean, it it keeps your mind going, too. It's, you know, um you're
00:57:45
always thinking about what how you can do things, what what you have to do. So, yes. How many weeks of the year are you
00:57:52
away? Are you away quite a lot? Um, yeah, it's it's um it's hard to sort of judge it because
00:58:01
in New Zealand we do, you know, you're away for two days, but you're only one
00:58:05
night or that. Um, but I just got back from a trip um now which is uh one of the longer trips I've ever done, which
00:58:13
was um almost five weeks. And uh that was um it's funny I I used an app on this trip and I kept a track of um what
00:58:24
I'd done and traveled and I did um 53,000 kilometers flying, 70 hours of actual flying. I mean, it's um that's
00:58:34
quite hard work and uh it's really draining and um and especially with all the air conss and that you just Yeah.
00:58:42
This is probably why I've got the croaky throat cuz all the air cons they they
00:58:48
really hurt you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Let's talk about missing
00:58:52
pieces for a bit. Um so, um a lot of people want to know on Instagram about the boat shed. Yeah. So, is the boat
00:58:59
shed yours? I wish it was. Oh, you does the TV production company rent it from Yeah. Right. It was
00:59:10
um Julie and um Greg and Mike Mallaloy people who ran Touchdown Eye Works, they they owned
00:59:21
a boat shed down thing. And when we first started um missing pieces uh no missing pieces we just filmed in an
00:59:29
office a mad sort of scene but then when we moved on to Lost and Found we started
00:59:35
using the boat shed and we used Julie's one and then they decided to sell it but
00:59:41
they'd had a big party at another boat shed and um the one which we use now and
00:59:49
um and some very good friends of mine or my then wife and mine um uh rang us up and said uh David that boat shed you're
01:00:01
in you know do you know much about the boat sheds and I said no no we we that's people that works boat shed and
01:00:08
they said oh we're looking at buying one down there and I said oh yeah they were
01:00:13
fantastic and they told me which one I said oh that's an amazing boat shed because as I say we'd been to hired it
01:00:19
work had hired it for a party and they said, "They're getting in." And I said,
01:00:23
"Oh, yeah. Well, I'm looking for a boat shed to to do the program." And they
01:00:29
said, "Oh, well," and um yeah, you can use our one if you like. And um so um
01:00:34
that was John and Marin. They were amazing. And and so we use it for for filming obviously and and it's just a
01:00:41
fantastic location. So, do you do you actually sit there and do work or you there for an hour like doing a couple of
01:00:47
fake phone calls, a couple of fake emails, get the shots you need, and then leave? Um, I do work down there. I do.
01:00:55
So, it's not just getting the shot and then pissing off to the office at home.
01:00:59
Um, well, it was a lot of pissing off to the office at home as well. Um, and how
01:01:04
did how did the show like originally come about? Was it like your idea that you pitched or was it a producers's idea
01:01:09
or No, it goes way back to Julie Christie. I mean, Julie and I had worked together on um the Oakland Sun and and
01:01:17
she knew me and then um they she'd come up with an idea to do a thing called Lost Identity which was
01:01:24
um to reconnect young Mali chaps or Mali young Mali with their Marai and she wanted me to um produce it or direct it
01:01:36
and um and we talked about it and she said well that that'll be interesting first two or three times but after that
01:01:44
it would start to feel a bit repetitive and uh so we said why don't we just do
01:01:50
finding taking people back to meet family and um so it originated that way and and as I said earlier I wasn't
01:01:58
really meant to present it but when the first story we got was a um a woman in Australia uh was dying she needed a
01:02:08
um uh a um transplant. Not a transplant, but um bone marrow thing. Oh, yeah. Like
01:02:17
a transfusion or Yeah. And um so she was trying to find her biological father. And um so we did this, you know, frantic
01:02:25
search because it was sort of life and death. And that's when I would was trying to ring the guy in the farmhouse
01:02:32
and he was saying his son wouldn't give us the phone number. And so that was the first
01:02:38
story and and that's how I ended up on television. And um who was who was the
01:02:43
original host going to be? We wasn't going to be one. We were going to do it
01:02:47
as um all actuality. And um but then it the first instant as I say it turned out
01:02:54
that it was impossible to do as all actuality because the search was so integral to it. and um and you know by
01:03:03
accident I I became the presenter. It's amazing twist of events e Julie Christie
01:03:09
she's always had her sort of favorite presenter so it could have very very well been like Matthew Ridge present
01:03:18
or both of them with a can of fresh up. Um yeah, how how has the show evolved over time? Like um in terms of I think
01:03:26
technology has come a long way in the time since the show started. Landlines were a thing at the beginning and
01:03:31
they're not now. Has it be um Ancestry.com? I don't think that was even in existent when the show started.
01:03:37
Has has this made it um seismically easier or is is it is it just different? Um, when we look back at missing pieces,
01:03:48
it was relatively easy finding stories and and finding people. you'd get on the
01:03:54
phone and you'd ring up and if if that person didn't know, they'd tell you
01:03:59
someone else and you'd get on the phone and and and get there because we were
01:04:03
doing almost all New Zealand, Australia stories and everyone still had a phone, you know, 20 odd years ago or 18 years
01:04:11
ago. And um with lost and found it started getting more complicated and and as I say the um phones the land
01:04:20
landlines started disappearing and um and but also we were looking for stories where it was a bit of um travel
01:04:30
and searching and adventure and um so we we started looking for more complicated
01:04:37
stories and that's and we've just progressed doing more and more complicated as we can and and DNA was
01:04:44
fascinating when it came along, you know, that we could do DNA tests and get in, but then in the end um if a DNA test
01:04:52
is the way you solve it, it's not much of a story. I mean, but you can use DNA as a as a conduit to
01:05:03
an amazing story, which is what we did on uh the very first show of David Lis Investigates when we were trying to
01:05:11
solve the mystery of a baby left in a phone box in 1960 in Palmyon North. And um we tracked down um by doing a DNA
01:05:23
test we worked out who the biological mother was. But it was a confusing test because it seemed that
01:05:33
both the father and mother were somehow intertwined. And um and with that story we were able
01:05:41
to we worked out who who the parents were. And then but the real story is why did they
01:05:50
leave the baby in the phone box? And and then tracking down that story made it absolutely amazing. Um because it was a
01:05:59
I don't know did you ever see it? It was a story about a um a couple. It was a
01:06:04
uncle and uncle and his niece. They had got together um which is not an incestuous relationship. It's a legal
01:06:12
relationship. But back in the 60s they had no idea of that and they thought what they had done was illegal and so
01:06:19
they had taken the baby to the phone box, left it sitting in the phone box, sat in the car around the corner and
01:06:25
watched until someone found it. So um and that had been a mystery the police had tried to solve um quite a few
01:06:33
journalists over the years had tried to solve and um you know so that was an amazing story. So that's what we're
01:06:41
trying to do now. much more complicated stuff. How did you guys manage to solve that when so many others had tried and
01:06:47
failed over the years? Well, as I say, DNA, but the DNA was uh we found through the DNA we found the
01:06:58
son because the both the parents had died and he didn't know anything about the story. All all he knew, alls we got
01:07:08
was he was a match. And then we had to work backwards and find what the story was of his parents
01:07:15
and even he was raised by them. But he always thought the his father was his uncle because his
01:07:27
parents kept up the pretense of living in separate rooms even when they were raising him.
01:07:34
I'm going have to look at look for this episode. Being from Palmer North, I'm
01:07:37
not overly surprised. Um, what is what's the process when someone writes in like
01:07:43
there must be like some sort of filters or some sort of check boxes? Yes. Um, well, we we read them at work and then
01:07:50
you just look at them and you just think, does that work? Does that work? And then we we sort of come up a little
01:07:58
list of or constant changing list and we ring people up and um find out more information and try and find out how
01:08:06
solvable it is. Uh you know is is the story does it have the legs to make make a really good story and yeah so it's a
01:08:18
massive process of elimination. Yeah. Because because that's the thing it's
01:08:22
it's not a community service is it? It's um like creating you television
01:08:26
ultimately at the end of the day. Yeah. So while while you for the people that agree to be involved, it's um like a
01:08:32
service for them, it's the ultimate goal is to entertain a wider audience. It is.
01:08:37
Yeah. That um the people who get involved, they get an amazing deal. I mean, not only do we find their family,
01:08:43
we take them take them to meet them. Um that's part of the program. It's the
01:08:49
program pays for their journey. And so everyone gets a good deal in a way. Yeah. And at what stage do you become
01:08:57
involved? Like are you are you deep in investigation or are you mainly talent? No.
01:09:03
Um I Yeah. I mean I love the research part of it. Um but as the program's got
01:09:10
more complicated in my life, uh has too. So I don't get to quite do as much research as I like doing. um because you
01:09:17
know you're you're so busy filming and and uh putting the program together
01:09:22
afterwards. But yes, so it's a it's a funny old team. It's basically all old
01:09:29
people. Boomers. Boomers. Boomers working technology hard. That's right. Well, yeah, the television's pretty much
01:09:40
a young people's industry, you know, like reality type television. And when the uh you know team walks in the
01:09:47
average age the office goes voom. How yeah how big is the team? Uh most of the time well there's a cameraman who
01:09:57
there's two or three cameramen who work with us but they're all guys who I've
01:10:00
known for 20 or 30 years. Um there's couple of researchers depending on what we're
01:10:09
doing. They're both all both in their 70s and uh wow and you know like me. So
01:10:15
um and then um when we get into uh putting editing the program was um a post producer who's normally a very
01:10:23
experienced person and then there's a two depending on how many episodes we're
01:10:28
doing at a time two or three people cutting the stories. Are there many people that just don't
01:10:35
want to be found? Um yeah uh the people who just go to Australia and have no footprint. You know those
01:10:50
are the really hard ones. Um you know we've got lots of stories which we'd love to
01:10:56
solve and we just you know can't get any any link to them whatsoever. There's
01:11:02
a there's a Samoan chap who um a woman is desperately trying to find. It's her
01:11:09
father. Um she hasn't basically seen him in his life in her life. And um ironically, her father
01:11:21
is his his her father's sister is a very good friend of mine, but which just
01:11:26
coincidental and uh I've been looking for him for you four or five years. No,
01:11:31
probably seven or eight years. And um you keep trying to think you you might get him, but he he's just gone. And as a
01:11:38
Samoan, he he's probably taken a new title or something like that. And they just vanish. And there are we found a
01:11:46
guy in um Darwin once. His his daughter was looking for him. He was a um uh he had gone to the Philippines, had a baby
01:11:55
and um and then he had vanished into um the middle of Australia and by a very fortuitous methods um which a policeman
01:12:08
helped us. We um found out he was living in some um uh sort of state assisted housing and we tracked him down and he
01:12:18
lived in a house which had no furniture, nothing. He was he was just hiding from
01:12:23
the world and she got to meet him once and that was it. Was that what she needed? Was that
01:12:33
enough for her to like to give her peace? Well, it gave her two answers. Once she knew who he was and the other
01:12:39
she knew that he didn't want to continue a relationship. So sometimes they don't
01:12:45
get they don't get happiness but they get an answer. And it's it's bloody sad, isn't it? Like um
01:12:53
there's uh I watched a bunch of episodes over the weekend knowing that you know
01:12:57
we were catching up today. Um there was a recent one the girl from um the girl from Funanui uh Lithuania Justina. Yeah.
01:13:05
So, so she was adopted to a family in Southland. Yes. And she now lives in Fonganoi. How How old is she? 22. 22.
01:13:14
Yeah. And you connected her with her um biological mom. So So she was taken off her biological mom at a young age
01:13:19
because due to her mom's alcohol alcoholism, spent time in an orphanage. There was um so many elements to this
01:13:26
this story which was which was sad. Like there was this um God I had tears streaming down my my cheeks when in
01:13:31
Lithuania um you were walking through the grounds of the orphanage and some of the old caregivers came out. God, I'm
01:13:37
getting emotional just thinking about it now. Like it was um just the the bond that she had. Then then she was
01:13:43
reconnected with her mom and her mom's in clearly in a different place now. And
01:13:46
that that bond the um you know nature versus nurture thing was so strong. Um so that was wonderful. And then it just
01:13:53
made me feel after the show finished just made me feel incredibly sad for the adoptive parents in Southland as well. I
01:14:00
know. Um, you know, they' done a wonderful thing taking Justina and and her sister in and
01:14:09
um and you know, as you say, nature and nurture and and uh Justina's nature wasn't the same as the people who were
01:14:18
nurturing her and being a bust up between them and um but you know, they done a wonderful job getting her to
01:14:27
where she was and uh now she's found and a mom. But then a sad thing is there she
01:14:33
wants to go back and spend time. But it just might be very hard for her ever to do that. Why is that? Well, one,
01:14:43
she has to earn the money and and get there and and two, if she gets there, you know, she has to have something
01:14:51
which she can do and and you know, it's just sometimes not as real. It's not as
01:14:57
simple as you hope it will be. Yeah. And yeah, this this Yeah, these these poor people in South Lindo, like uh you could
01:15:03
tell that you they've done everything they could and all they want is for her
01:15:05
to be happy. Yeah. Um yeah. Yeah. It's God, it's emotional stuff. How do how do
01:15:10
you hold it together? Have you just Are you Are you just a grizzly old journalist and you don't get
01:15:15
emotional about anything? No. No. But um that moment and um you talked about it uh at the orphanage, but that just
01:15:25
caught us all by surprise. We we we had filmed her a little bit just wandering the grounds and we were sort of uh
01:15:30
starting to get some cutaways as we call them and all of a sudden was this scream
01:15:36
and uh I had my my cell phone. I just jumped it out. Evas Bers who's the cameraman. He he was on the other side
01:15:44
of the park and he just spun around and started filming and it was you know and you're sort of filming and almost crying
01:15:49
as you're filming because you know um you just don't get moments like that.
01:15:56
Well, you you don't get moments like that. Most of them we've constructed,
01:16:00
but that one we had no control over. It just happened. Boom. And it was so tearful and so intense.
01:16:08
Yeah. And there was just so much beauty to that moment because when you hear the
01:16:12
word orphanage, they tend to get a bad rap. Like you think of kids being you mistreated or not well looked after.
01:16:19
It's an institution um at the end of the day. But um just to see the love and the
01:16:23
bond um that this girl Justina had, you know, with with these women that she hadn't seen for like a decade or longer,
01:16:29
it was really powerful. And them, they were all in tears, too, meeting her, you know, and they couldn't even speak the
01:16:37
same language anymore. Yeah. So, so who's who's over there with you on these trips? Who's there? you and
01:16:45
on that that trip it's myself and my cameraman and and very fortunately my partner Clarinda came on that trip. It's
01:16:52
the first time she had gone on a trip and uh so normally it's just two of us.
01:16:59
It's a small operation, isn't it? It's when you compare it to like a I don't
01:17:03
know a Celebrity Treasure Island or something. It's an oily rag operation. You're punching well above your weight.
01:17:08
Oh yeah. Um but I keep it small. I mean, you know, other productions turn up with
01:17:13
three or four people and I just find that it loses the connection with the people you're traveling with. I mean,
01:17:19
like when there was two of us go and we take, you know, the person who's seeking
01:17:24
their family, we're a little team of three, you know, and we go out to dinner together and we
01:17:32
do it. But if you get into a group of four production people, all of a sudden the, you know, the bond disappears. And
01:17:40
also when you go to people's homes, I mean, I I wouldn't want, you know, four
01:17:45
people tramping into my home to film a TV program, but two people, especially two old people, it's not not so bad.
01:17:54
We're not Oh, okay. So, if you have less equipment like the the big less big
01:17:58
lights and intimidating cameras. Yeah. Okay. And it just makes people much more relaxed and and it's um and it's great.
01:18:06
Yeah. Yeah. and and behind the scenes, what's your involvement um like with the
01:18:10
seeker, the person that's seeking their family? Are you like a a counselor and
01:18:14
support person or do you do you try and keep a sort of degree of separation or No.
01:18:22
Um we're especially in a case like Justina's and um I don't know if you saw
01:18:28
the episode last night um guy we took to um uh Greece. I mean, you you really try
01:18:35
and look after them. I mean, not you know, you're taking them on a very emotional journey and you can't take
01:18:44
them there and leave them on their own. You have to be you have to try and keep a bond with them and and make sure
01:18:51
they're okay and and you know, talk to them about what's happening. And um you
01:18:57
know you you just can't make it take people on their own and and abandon them
01:19:04
and emotionally when they're there. So yeah and that's the good thing about the
01:19:09
people who work on the program. Everyone is of the same mindset. You know we try
01:19:14
and look after the people we we're taking on that journey and also the people we find. You know what does the
01:19:21
reunion day look like? Is it a long day? No, it's it's chaotic and and fast
01:19:27
because um you know it's um you probably know the formula. I I sort of say your family's up there and they walk
01:19:38
up. It's always a long way away, too. Like your family's like 400 meters over
01:19:43
there. Why is it such a long distance? Did you get all the shots you need? Yes. Well, bas basically to um because we're
01:19:51
trying to film um the people watching and the people coming there. So I often wave goodbye to the person and then I
01:20:01
run around the corner and and get the iPhone up and and try and film the people waiting. So you get their
01:20:07
reaction and you need to give give a bit of time and it just gives um more opportunity for you know a little bit
01:20:15
more emotion and and then when that happens it's it's sort of chaos with the actual reunion
01:20:24
and then you know we've try and very quickly refilm parts just because we can't get all the angles but you know um
01:20:33
they normally are slightly wider shots so or or or over the shoulder shot. So, it just gives us editing points. Yeah.
01:20:40
But cuz the the the moment itself, it has to be a one take wonder, doesn't it?
01:20:44
The main moment is a one take wonder. Yeah. Has the cameraman ever cocked it up?
01:20:50
Oh, well, the batteries run out or something's not quite as bad as that, but one one
01:20:56
one cameraman, Graeme Richie, um we were had two twins walking to meet their dad
01:21:03
and one of them bolted just went round Graham and up and Graham's running down the wolf trying to
01:21:12
catch up. Um, what's been your biggest lesson about humans? And, you know, I guess
01:21:19
like nurture versus nature and all that stuff. Two big lessons. Um, nature and nurture.
01:21:24
I'm I'm just staggered at nature. I mean, how much nature plays a big part.
01:21:30
I mean, you know, I've seen people walk up and meet each other and, you know,
01:21:35
they'll do a very unusual body movement like um you won't see it on podcast, but
01:21:42
someone goes like that and and two people went like that, you know, dad and daughter, and that's not natural, but
01:21:51
they just did it and they've never never met each other. M but personalitywise um
01:21:56
you know so many people talk about um they've met someone and and I say well
01:22:02
what are they like and it says it's like we've always known them they've just
01:22:06
walked back in the door been away for a while very very similar and the other big thing I I suppose I've learned is
01:22:13
that inherently everyone is good you know gang members come up to us and and tell
01:22:21
me their story and I've had um done big stories with both fairly high pro people
01:22:29
who've been fairly high up and done some sometimes quite bad crimes and both both
01:22:36
black power and mongrel mob but I haven't really dealt with some of the other gangs but not not because we we
01:22:43
haven't they just haven't appeared but I've had a a black power senior black
01:22:49
power guy balling his eyes out at his father's grave gave over a story which
01:22:54
we were doing. I had a mongrel mob guy shedding tears all over the place. You know, he had done six years in prison
01:23:01
comes out find we found his father and he's just balling because that's what
01:23:05
he'd wanted all his life. So, you know, even those guys were they might be doing
01:23:11
bad, but there's still that absolute longing for family. Yeah. Michelle Obama's got a quote that I really like.
01:23:18
It's um most people are hard not to like up close. Um, which is it's it's it's
01:23:24
really true. There's generally like a little bit of a little bit of good in everyone. What about you? Are you always
01:23:29
able to control the crying? What do you when you finish an emotional day of filming, do you you go back to your
01:23:35
hotel room and and cry or you are you quite sort of stoic? Um, as I say, I mean,
01:23:44
I the camera is always away from me in the big moment and because that's the
01:23:50
important moments happening with the other people. So, there are tears sometimes from me. But, um, to say I go
01:23:57
back to the room and cry, no, but I've rewatched programs I've done and I've
01:24:03
I've been in tears watching them because they're just so amazing. Well, so like
01:24:08
like like heaps of other New Zealand men, you're watching it on TV. Yeah. Seen the cut version. Yeah. Well, I you
01:24:15
know, like with some programs that you know, they'll come up and I'll watch
01:24:19
them four or five years later and you just sit there and watch it and think this is incredible. You know, not
01:24:25
because I did it, but what the event is all about. And it's it's just you sit
01:24:30
there and you cry, you know, because it is amazing television. And it's just,
01:24:35
you know, it's it's drama, but it's real. Oh, it's so powerful. Has the show
01:24:43
um taken a toll on you emotionally? No, I think it's um made me a better person in a way. Yeah. Um because you
01:24:53
you you I've always known I was privileged because of my upbringing and just, you
01:25:00
know, the fact that I had a good life. Um but when you realize how much better off you are than so many
01:25:07
people and um you just you know you just realize you got to be you know a bit more sensitive to people about a lot of
01:25:17
things the things I've gone through you know and you might think ah they're
01:25:22
terrible people but they've been through hell you know and uh you I was talking
01:25:27
to a woman yesterday and it's a story we may do but she's just, you know, telling
01:25:33
me her story of drugs, you know, um being sexually abused, all sorts of things. And uh you know, you just think
01:25:42
that's that's so terrible and how lucky we are that that was in our lives.
01:25:49
You can never tell what someone's been through just from um outward appearances. Do you think it's made you
01:25:54
like a more empatheticthetic person or you know better with like your your own personal relationships and vulnerability
01:26:00
and communication and things like that? Yeah. Well, the program's done that and
01:26:05
so is old age. Old age. You reckon? Yeah. I find um Yeah. I'm I'm definitely leaning into my
01:26:13
more emotional side as I I get older and I'm here for it. Yeah. Not mad about it
01:26:17
at all. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Do you think so? That's come with aging. you've been
01:26:21
very very um public about your your your relationship that you're in at the moment. Um and some of the things I read
01:26:27
that you've said about your partner are just like wonderful and really open displays of affection. Yeah. Well, yeah,
01:26:33
I work on a program where I expect everyone else to, as I say, tell the truth and and it's just true. I mean,
01:26:40
yeah, I'm just, you know, very happy. I mean, my life is um just a very lucky one at the moment.
01:26:48
I mean, you know, I got a great job. I got a great partner and I'm healthy. So,
01:26:55
it's just so good. I mean, something to smile about, isn't it? Yeah, absolutely.
01:27:00
What's someone actually I've got these Instagram questions. Yeah. Someone
01:27:03
someone asked, um, does he smile in real life? You I've seen a lot of teeth today. You're you're a very happy guy.
01:27:10
Is it Is it almost like a character that you're portraying in the show in a in a
01:27:16
you know what I mean? Hey, you you don't really smile or laugh in the show, do
01:27:18
you? Is it just not the environment? Uh, just a little bit, but but I'm very much
01:27:23
my persona on TV is that I'm the conduit and I'm not the star. I mean, I don't
01:27:31
know if you've watched, there's a British program where a couple of people
01:27:34
are adopes and they do a very similar program and and they're there holding the person and gushing and saying, you
01:27:40
know, I'm crying with you and all this and I want the story to be about the people. I mean, there's a heck of a lot
01:27:48
of me in it, but it it's taking the telling the journey. It's not not about
01:27:53
my emotions or how I feel. Um though we do have you know comments about you know
01:28:00
I'm worried this is going to happen and things like that but this the program is
01:28:04
about those people. Someone wants to know if you've kept in touch with any of
01:28:09
the people from the show a heck of a lot. I mean it's it's hard to keep up with them all but I mean you
01:28:18
know yeah I mean lots and lots of them you know lots of them are on my Facebook page. Um people ring me up every now and
01:28:26
again out of the blue and just have a chat. I mean it's great and you know it's a bond you create isn't it? Well
01:28:34
you've gone through a pretty amazing event with some of the people you know you know and um you know so much about
01:28:42
their lives that you know it's hard to just walk away and say they don't exist
01:28:47
anymore. Yeah. Now to the airports question. So many people would are curious about
01:28:53
the air points. So you must be um you must be on elite. Yes. How many banked years have you got?
01:29:00
I don't know. Enough to last you the rest of your life. No, it's only five or
01:29:03
six or something like that. Wow. But uh yeah, but but yeah, I don't sit in the
01:29:09
front of the plane. You don't fly business? No. [ __ ] Why not? Well, it's a New Zealand government funded
01:29:16
program. I mean, you can't go and spend a fortune there. Yeah, but you're you're
01:29:20
a man in your 70s. You've you've done very well for yourself. You've devoted
01:29:24
your life to this career. Um like pre this TV series, it's like yeah, like a
01:29:30
30-year journalistic apprenticeship that got you to this point. I think you've
01:29:33
earned the right. I thought the come up to work and do my negotiations for Well, the show we were
01:29:41
talking about before with um Justina in Lithuania, like you you flew separately and I thought I thought I know what Lis
01:29:47
is doing here. Um, she's flying economy, so he's flying separately so he can go
01:29:51
in his 1A seat. Yeah. Why did we fly separate? Oh, we flew separately. Some ground work, I think, in advance. Oh, we
01:29:58
sort of were, but but also um because we were doing a a big round the world trip.
01:30:04
We we were on a round the world fair. And so we were flying Star Alliance, but with Justina and the quickest way was uh
01:30:12
on um a direct route, but also but we we always land two to three days before the people who are coming because
01:30:22
we've got to go and do the work. Some days it's sometimes it's four or five
01:30:27
days because we've got research to do on the ground. Yeah. You're using your
01:30:32
points to upgrade to premium economy though, aren't you? Sorry, I'm still
01:30:35
fixated on the seat. Oh, no, no. I I do have a a little bit of upgrade. I I normally try and get premium economy.
01:30:43
Yeah. And and then I try and use my point my um upgrades, but in New Zealand's a swine because they have
01:30:51
these you get two upgrades a year and you keep them for what you think's a long flight and then you you apply for
01:30:57
them on the long flight and they're full and all of a sudden you lose your upgrade because they don't they don't
01:31:04
carry over to the next year. It's a scam, isn't it? It's a scam. I haven't done much travel the last couple
01:31:12
of years. I've just um I I went from elite to gold and then down to silver. Silver you get nothing. I can't even get
01:31:17
to the lounge anymore. It's terrible. Um you must be a very good packer when you travel. Like um you
01:31:25
you generally do um the show in black. Yeah. Do you do you just have carry-on or do you have chicken luggage? Oh, no.
01:31:31
I have um chicken, but yeah. Um, the blacks are just for continuity of, you know, if you got a red shirt on
01:31:40
one day and a blue shirt the next and and you you think I want to use a bit of that red shirt day on the other day and
01:31:47
you can't because you're in different clothes. Yeah. Oh, that makes sense.
01:31:50
Yeah. Um, someone wants to know, "How do I help my mom find her father with no
01:31:56
information on him?" Yeah. What's the minimum information someone needs to
01:32:00
track down a um well no information it's a it's a DNA test. There's nothing else really you
01:32:08
can do. Um but one of the big things is getting getting your facts right, you know. Um we get so many people who apply
01:32:16
and they misspell names. They don't um they haven't done the basics. They they
01:32:22
don't you know tell us how old the person was, where it happened. I mean, it's getting all all the actual details
01:32:30
correct and and then it becomes easier and and if it's a New Zealand thing, the
01:32:36
thing normally is to go backwards or sideways um you know to try and find someone. So if you're trying to
01:32:44
find say an uncle, you go sideways and you find out you know um he might have had sisters or something like that. you
01:32:53
try and find them or you find someone who might have known him or go backwards and try and find out who the
01:32:59
parents grandparents were and work work that way. So, you know, it's not going
01:33:05
straight at them. Yeah. Right. Yeah. Is there a story that still sits in the back of your mind that you weren't able
01:33:11
to solve? Well, as as I say, the one about the Simone chap, I'd love to solve that one.
01:33:18
Um, there's lots of them. I mean, there's a um just trying to think which one's a
01:33:24
good example, but yeah, like um Justina's one, which I put off for basically 5 years because I said
01:33:34
she was too young when she was 17. Um trying to find her mom was great because it it
01:33:41
just she was a little nagger. She she'd ring up and I'd ring her, you know, for
01:33:46
for five years we'd keep kept in contact. And then finally I thought, right, you're old enough now. I'll give
01:33:51
it a crack. [ __ ] that's powerful. E, like you don't see something like that on TV, but like
01:33:58
you've had a real significant um impact in her life and made a real difference
01:34:02
to her life. I hope so. Yeah. I hope it it does her good. And um yeah, what's
01:34:09
given her some answers and Yeah. Yeah. Um, and she still has really good contact with the mom, even though they
01:34:16
can't speak the language, but Google Google Translate does a lot. Um, what's the bleakest slashcariest
01:34:24
place he's traveled to? You're not really going to scary places, are you?
01:34:31
Oh, well, depends what you call scary. Like, like I've just been in South Africa and um yeah, people say don't go
01:34:39
into a squatter village. Well, we went for a walk around the squatter village. You
01:34:44
know, most people, as I say, are good. I mean, there's probably some bad people
01:34:49
in that squatter village, but most people were good. And, you know, you just got to be careful walking around
01:34:55
there. Not because you're worried about danger, but but being just that terrible
01:35:01
white voyeristic tourist, you know. Um um scary places. Um I I don't know if
01:35:09
there are places which are meant to be scary and and they probably are but um you know like I went to Sierra Leone
01:35:17
which actually turned out to be an amazing place. Um uh where else? Trying to think. Um in
01:35:26
this series we went to um Honduras and and you know we're talking in the street and the
01:35:33
guy says don't go up there. You people with guns up there and that sort of thing but
01:35:39
um but absolutely scared? Probably not. I mean, um, no, it's like you can, I
01:35:47
mean, even here in Oakuckland, you can find trouble if you're looking for it.
01:35:50
Yes. And you can generally a avoid trouble and keep yourself safe in most situations, can't you? Yeah. Absolutely.
01:35:56
Do you do you run when you travel? You go to these places and you always. Yeah. It's just a magic way of um, you know,
01:36:02
when I arrive to go and scout the city. You know, you go for a run and you can find out, well, one, where's a good
01:36:10
restaurant around the corner? Yeah. Is there a good park? You know, normally I look up and maps and see where where are
01:36:16
good locations we might film and then I'll go for a run and take them in and
01:36:21
uh as I say it just freeze you freeze the mind. So yeah. Yeah. Well, your best way to shake off a bit of jet lag as
01:36:28
well. Yeah. Oh yeah. I I agree wholeheartedly. Best way to explore a new city. Um yeah. How's your how's your
01:36:33
body? Are your joints okay? Is everything your knees okay? Your hips okay? so far.
01:36:40
Um, has he ever thought about expanding and investigating other stuff? Well, just a question from Instagram.
01:36:48
Yes. Yes and no. I mean, that was sort of my career before I started this, you know, um, as a journalist. Yeah. Um,
01:36:57
yeah, I think that'll do from Instagram. There so many about the air points.
01:37:01
There's so much curiosity about that. Yeah. Um, do you want to do some We'll end up
01:37:11
with some personal questions. Eh, some more personal questions. Oh, I thought we'd done those. Yeah, but go ahead. Oh,
01:37:17
no. No, there's more. So, um, yes, you're in your early 70s now. Um, biggest adversity you've been through in
01:37:22
your life, you reckon? Would it be the helicopter crash? No one gets to the luxurious position of
01:37:28
being, I'd say my age, but even you've got a couple of decades on me without
01:37:32
going through some sort of crunchy stuff. Well, the helicopter crash in in a um one sense, but you know, um
01:37:43
relationship things, even if it's a good thing you get out of them, they're still difficult
01:37:50
to go through. Yeah, I'd agree. It's sad, eh? and it never gets any easier. Would you
01:37:57
get will you get married again? Have you had this discussion? No, we we haven't. But um and it's a funny thing.
01:38:05
I I I don't um hanging anything too much on on marriage anymore. I mean, you
01:38:13
know, you know, a relation a relationship is really good. You just know it. And and I don't know if I need
01:38:21
a tag on it. Yeah. Yeah. Your partner, she's been married previously. Yes. Yes. But she'd been
01:38:28
separated for quite a few years. Yeah. What would you say your best and worst habits are?
01:38:37
[Laughter] Good [Laughter] gracious. Worst habit probably talking too much. Oh, which it's very good for a
01:38:49
thing like a podcast. Um, and uh, best have it. I don't know. Hopefully I'm being nice to people, but
01:38:58
you know, I bark at a few people a few times. So, yeah. Yeah. Have you Have you gotten
01:39:04
softer around the edges as you get older? I think we all do. E. Oh, absolutely. Yeah.
01:39:10
Um you know you become more tolerant of some things but you get more annoyed at some other things which you know
01:39:22
just you know everyone talks about the the um what do you call it the u entitled
01:39:30
people the sense of entitlement these days and and you know the idea you know my politics are very left it and
01:39:40
um I get intolerant of of the very right, you know, and um you know, to heck with everyone else, they
01:39:50
haven't earned their money, you know. I do find that very sad. Yeah. I read in a couple of interviews
01:39:56
you you talked um about politics. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. Yeah. Why do you worry so much about something that
01:40:03
you can't control? Do you know what I mean? Well, if we all didn't worry about
01:40:07
it, you get Donald Trump. Yeah. The American people, it's like you've got what you what you wanted.
01:40:15
This is what you voted in. Yeah. Yeah. Um, is there a what if that keeps you up at night? What if?
01:40:23
Um, well, there's always what ifs. I mean, you But I laugh and I think, what what
01:40:30
if I'd met Clarinda, you know, when I was 20? But then again, I showed her a photo the
01:40:36
other day when I was 30 and she says, "Oh, God." So maybe we we would never
01:40:41
have got on then. Oh, were you sort of thinking that like she could have been your life partner? So in a sense, you're
01:40:46
sort of kicking yourself that you didn't meet her until your mid-60s. Well, no.
01:40:50
I'm I'm thinking what if if I had, but then you think, no, the person I was
01:40:56
when I was 20 is a totally different person to who I am now. you know and so what ifs um don't really count because
01:41:04
if you know you know what if I you know stayed at university and become you know
01:41:10
got a you know decided to be a lawyer you know what a what a terrible life that would have been. Yeah. Yeah. And um
01:41:19
you're back to your partner. I mean everything's a right place right time
01:41:22
sort of thing isn't it? Yes. Um when was the last time you cried? um probably about um two or three days
01:41:34
ago when I watched um one of the episodes we're doing and I just thought that that's pretty magic.
01:41:41
And uh and possibly when the Blues lost to the Crusaders. Oh, hell of a game though, wasn't it? My
01:41:48
god, that James iconic kick right on right on the full time. You know, the Blues Blues were 20 points better than
01:41:56
them, but I lost. Oh, if you're that much into the Blues, you must be used to
01:42:00
losing by now, right? Yeah. I don't have a good track record. I I like the Highlanders, the Blues, and
01:42:06
the Endure. Um, what are you most afraid of? Aging, but not really afraid of it. It
01:42:15
it it's not aging you afraid of it. It's um not being able to do things. What
01:42:24
What can't you do? Well, at the moment, nothing. That's That's what I love about
01:42:28
being fit and healthy and running. It means, you know, if I want to go for a pedal over to Rangoto, I can get in a
01:42:34
kayak and pedal over there. If I want to go for a swim, I can. And but, you know,
01:42:39
I've just been I'm editing a story at the moment where where a lady's in a
01:42:44
wheelchair. And I just think how how horrible would that be? But I I know you'd adjust and everything else, but
01:42:51
you know, I prefer I didn't end up like that. Yeah. You you've got great health
01:42:56
on your side, don't you? Is is is it good um genetics in your family or is this just through like hard work? Um no,
01:43:04
not no super genetics. It's Yeah, but yeah, I'm just very lucky. I I decided
01:43:11
to run and swim and I've always just kept doing it and you know as you know, it's it's invigorating and
01:43:19
makes you feel alive. I mean, you know, go out in the bush and run for a couple of hours. It's it's just incredible.
01:43:25
Yeah. Oh. Oh, no. It's it's wonderful. And the mental health side of things,
01:43:29
it's not something that I ever really thought of when I started running, but
01:43:32
um yeah, like with, you know, it's become very clear to me now that um it's
01:43:38
probably more mental than physical. Like the the buzz you get out of it. Yeah. It's incredible. Eh, um do you have any
01:43:44
regrets? Not not not any super regrets. Nothing nothing major. I mean you you always
01:43:55
regret you know some decisions you made but but but that's life. Yeah. Yeah.
01:44:01
Nothing which I think oh god I wish I'd done that. Yeah. What a great way to be.
01:44:06
Biggest flaws. Oh gracious. I'm hating this. E I can tell. I didn't Yeah.
01:44:17
Um Yeah. I don't know. Lack of tolerance. Yeah. Yeah. But but I don't know if I
01:44:26
but yeah. What about um the future goals? Future goals. Well, just to keep healthy. Really? Keep healthy and um
01:44:36
happy. Yeah. What about legacy? How how would you um want to be remembered? Not just as like a storyteller, but as a as
01:44:44
a person as well. Oh goodness. Um I don't know. I just Well, hopefully just kindly. I mean, I
01:44:55
hope people don't, you know, say he was a grumpy old bastard or um you know, he was pretty useless at that. um
01:45:04
you know just that people do have a a relatively good memory of me rather than a a bad one. And three words that your
01:45:14
adult kids would use to describe you depends what mood they're in. Oh, I know. Well, hopefully
01:45:30
um decent caring and um nice, but I don't know. I mean, you know, but I I don't know. Oh, they're
01:45:40
great words. You have to text them and ask them to see if they match up. Let me know. Um and last one, David LMA. So,
01:45:47
you're proud of yourself. Um yeah, I suppose so. I mean, you know, that's such a funny answer. You know,
01:45:58
um, Michael Galvin, Chris Warner on Shortland Street. Yeah. I had him on the podcast. Um, and I asked him that
01:46:03
question and he was like, "Well, I'm not ashamed of myself." Yeah. It's a It's a
01:46:09
strange one for I think men in particular of a certain age to answer because proud is sort of like it's your
01:46:15
ego. Um, you know, am I pleased with what who I've become at the moment? I think I am. Yeah. But to say proud, that
01:46:26
sort of, you know, takes you sort of praising yourself in a way, you know. Yeah. But you you look back on your life
01:46:34
and career, it's it's it's been pretty bloody awesome, right? As I say, I've
01:46:38
had a hell of a lucky life. Yeah. I mean, you know, it's just, you know, so many great jobs, so many great
01:46:46
opportunities, so many great trips, you know, it's and um, you know, and lots of
01:46:51
good people in it. But you're old enough to know that you you sort of create your
01:46:55
own luck to a degree. Well, that's what I say about um, working journalism and
01:47:00
that, you do create your own luck. I mean, you know, when you're doing stories, hard
01:47:07
work, when you solve something, it hopefully it's through hard work, not just luck. Yeah. And and the luck is
01:47:15
from hard work. Hey, this has been really enjoyable today. You got a hell of an edit to do.
01:47:25
Really? Oh, I I tend to I I um when I go to edit, I hate the sound of my own voice and I I find out I find what I
01:47:33
edit is generally the times I've said um or where I've said dumb things and I get
01:47:38
to the end of the edit and I'm full of self-loathing. So, I've stopped the
01:47:40
editing. I give every single guest the um the right to remove anything they want taken out, but otherwise I don't
01:47:46
really I don't really bother with it. Um well, what do you want edited out? Anything? Uh I mean, you stand by what
01:47:54
you say. I don't really care. I mean, in in that sense, it's nothing. Hopefully,
01:48:00
I've never said hopefully I haven't said anything which is bad. And um yeah, and
01:48:06
hopefully I haven't said anything that's stupid. No, you left that to me. Um
01:48:11
well, this has been wonderful. I've really enjoyed it. Um this is the first time we've we've met and um yeah, next
01:48:17
time I see you in New World, I'll definitely say good day. Oh, that's great. What What about you? Has this put
01:48:22
you off podcast for life or have you has it been a cathartic experience, an enjoyable experience? Well, it was
01:48:28
interesting because, you know, when I was asked to do this and I sat down, I thought, what the hell is he going to
01:48:33
ask? Because, you know, it it it's interesting being on the other side of an interview because, you know, um,
01:48:41
but most people, you're going to do an interview and you've got a specific
01:48:45
topic you're going to talk to them about. But when it's just, you know, life, you can't plan and and you're
01:48:53
sitting there and thinking, "Oh, my memory, you know, if you ask me about that, I God knows if I can remember
01:48:58
that, you know." Um because, yeah, it's hard to there's nothing you can prep for
01:49:04
on this sort of thing. Yeah. Well, from my perspective, um having done over 200 of these, I've enjoyed this immensely
01:49:11
and it's been wonderful to connect with you today and I can't thank you enough
01:49:13
for your time. I've heard you say that to everyone. I don't think I Well, I I I I genuinely
01:49:21
do mean that like if you know if if someone's going to come and give me like
01:49:24
a couple of hours of their time, which this has been today, um I'm definitely
01:49:28
going to go out of my way to do as much research and preparation as I can um out
01:49:32
of respect. Um yeah, and I I I genuinely do do mean that. That's um it's very
01:49:38
earnest. Yeah. Oh, that's great. David Lus, cheers. Thank you so much.

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This episode stands out for the following:

  • 80
    Most heartbreaking
  • 75
    Most heartwarming
  • 75
    Best performance
  • 70
    Most emotional

Episode Highlights

  • The Evolution of David's Shows
    David explains the reasons behind the name changes of his TV shows.
    “You have to reinvent yourself.”
    @ 03m 35s
    May 04, 2025
  • Finding People with Flowers
    David reveals a unique method he uses to locate people.
    “It’s amazing how often it works.”
    @ 07m 57s
    May 04, 2025
  • The Amazing Job of Journalism
    Reflecting on the excitement and unpredictability of a journalism career.
    “It’s the most amazing job.”
    @ 23m 17s
    May 04, 2025
  • Covering a Life-or-Death Trial
    The intense experience of covering a trial where lives were at stake.
    “What a terrifying event, sitting there having their life decided by a court.”
    @ 32m 28s
    May 04, 2025
  • Helicopter Crash Experience
    A harrowing account of a helicopter crash and the struggle for survival.
    “It was flying thud thud thud and then you’re upside down in water.”
    @ 43m 02s
    May 04, 2025
  • Life After Trauma
    Reflections on how surviving the crash changed life decisions and relationships.
    “You’re always very grateful that you’re still alive.”
    @ 51m 20s
    May 04, 2025
  • The Origin of the Show
    The show began with a concept to reconnect young Mali with their roots, evolving into a journey of family discovery.
    “It originated that way, taking people back to meet family.”
    @ 01h 01m 53s
    May 04, 2025
  • The Emotional Reunion
    A powerful moment captured when a woman reconnects with her biological mother after years apart.
    “You just don’t get moments like that.”
    @ 01h 15m 56s
    May 04, 2025
  • Lessons on Nature vs. Nurture
    The host reflects on the profound impact of nature in human connections, revealing surprising similarities between reunited family members.
    “Inherently everyone is good.”
    @ 01h 22m 19s
    May 04, 2025
  • Emotional Growth with Age
    The speaker discusses how aging has led to greater emotional openness and understanding.
    “I’m definitely leaning into my more emotional side as I get older.”
    @ 01h 26m 13s
    May 04, 2025
  • Finding Family
    Advice on how to track down family members with minimal information, emphasizing the importance of details.
    “It’s getting all the actual details correct and then it becomes easier.”
    @ 01h 32m 32s
    May 04, 2025
  • Legacy and Memory
    Wants to be remembered kindly, not as a grumpy old man.
    “I hope people don't say he was a grumpy old bastard.”
    @ 01h 44m 58s
    May 04, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • It’s a great little hack.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator
  • It’s the most amazing job.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator
  • You know, it was quite dark and then we’re upside down.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator
  • It's amazing how life and death can intertwine in stories.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator
  • Inherently everyone is good.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator
  • It's probably more mental than physical.
    David Lomas' Untold Story - Helicopter Crash with Paul Holmes & Becoming NZ’s Beloved Investigator

Key Moments

  • First Podcast Experience01:50
  • Finding People Hack08:32
  • Career Realization21:33
  • Arabus Disaster26:21
  • Paul Holmes' Fame38:14
  • Nature vs. Nurture1:21:22
  • Emotional Reflection1:26:13
  • Editing Challenges1:47:30

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