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Barry Soper on Ardern, Garner & 12 Prime Ministers

June 14, 2026 / 01:11

This episode discusses the relationship between Heather and her partner, focusing on their age difference and public perception. Key topics include their initial meeting, the reaction from friends and family, and their marriage in Parliament's Green Hall.

Heather's partner recalls their first date at the Midland Hotel, where they acknowledged the significant age gap but decided to remain friends. He reflects on how their relationship evolved over time.

Despite the age difference, the couple received no negative reactions from family or friends. Heather's partner expresses surprise at the lack of public scrutiny regarding their relationship.

The episode highlights their wedding in 2009, when Heather was 24 and her partner was 57, noting that their age difference is often overlooked by others.

TLDR

Heather and her partner discuss their age gap and public perception of their relationship.

Episode

1:11
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Heather always looked like this very youthful but feisty woman. I remember, you know, press conferences she would
00:00:06
ask questions and people would be takenback by this innocent looking young woman. We got on really well and then we
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went out for a date and it was at at the pub just the Midland Hotel just down from Parliament. We chatted and
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basically we came to the resolution which was a good one in my mind then that the age gap was too big. We talked
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quite platonically about it and we really liked each other. The age gap was too big. Always be mates, but that was
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it. And we parted. I kissed her on the cheek, then went home to my daughter who was the same age as Heather.
00:00:42
>> When when when you guys started seeing each other, what was the reaction like
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from family or friends or the public? >> None really. >> I was honestly the thing that surprised
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me. Maybe they think I'm just a youngster, but I had no reaction. No, honestly, never a negative reaction, which I
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thought was great. >> You got married in uh Parliament's Green Hall in 2009. She was 24 at the time.
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You're 57. When you see you guys together, it doesn't you don't really notice it. You don't you don't Nobody
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honestly nobody's ever thought about

Episode Highlights

  • Unexpected Love
    A surprising romance blossoms despite a significant age gap.
    “We talked quite platonically about it and we really liked each other.”
    @ 00m 27s
    June 14, 2026
  • Marriage in Parliament
    They tied the knot in a historic venue, defying age expectations.
    “You got married in uh Parliament's Green Hall in 2009.”
    @ 01m 00s
    June 14, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • The age gap was too big. Always be mates, but that was it.
    Barry Soper on Ardern, Garner & 12 Prime Ministers
  • I had no reaction. No, honestly, never a negative reaction.
    Barry Soper on Ardern, Garner & 12 Prime Ministers

Key Moments

  • Age Gap Discussion00:27
  • Public Reaction00:59
  • Marriage Announcement01:00