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He swiped 2 million times. 2,58,000
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times. He got 2,000 matches from that.
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Mhm.
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Which turned into 1,200 chats, which
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turned into one date. Such a system is
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failing a huge percentage of people.
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What's the honest advice that someone
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like him needs?
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I would not spend my time discussing
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what you're doing on the app. I would
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discuss what you're doing off the app.
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And if you ever are even off the app,
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the amount of hours of swiping that
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you've done, obviously this is not
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yielding anything. Why are you
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continuing? 5 years is an enormous
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amount of time in your life. I feel sad
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for you. Have you been with with your
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friends? Do you have friends? Have your
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friends introduced you to people? Have
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you gone to places where you are more
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likely to meet people? If you're trying
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to park in a space that you can't get in
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at some point, don't you go look for
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another space? So this is not an
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indictment of the app. This is not an
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indictment of disperses. This is an
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indictment of the relationship between
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us and something that we have been told
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is going to deliver to us. And when it
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doesn't deliver, we'd rather humiliate
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ourselves. A sense of what's the matter
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here? Why is this not happening? What's
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wrong with it or what's wrong with me?
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It's a statement of this thing doesn't
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work for me and men don't get answered
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on the app. And you get this whole
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plight.
