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July 01, 2026 / 49:30

This episode of Grit in the Boardroom features Patrick Dunn Obbe, chair of Board Delta, discussing board effectiveness, governance practices, and the dynamics between CEOs and chairs. Key topics include risk appetite versus risk tolerance, the importance of constructive feedback, and strategies for effective decision-making.

Patrick shares his experience working with various boards, emphasizing the significance of clarity in roles between chairs and CEOs. He describes the ideal relationship as one of mutual respect and trust, where both parties understand their responsibilities.

The conversation highlights the necessity of open communication, particularly during the onboarding of new board members. Patrick explains how he facilitates discussions to ensure everyone feels comfortable contributing from the start.

Patrick also discusses the concept of risk appetite, advocating for a nuanced understanding that goes beyond simple metrics. He stresses the importance of considering consequences and the need for diverse perspectives in risk management.

Finally, the episode touches on the value of next-generation boards and the importance of training both new and existing board members to foster a culture of experimentation and constructive challenge.

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Patrick Dunn Obbe discusses board dynamics, risk management, and fostering effective communication between CEOs and chairs.

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It's really important to listen to what people say, but it's even more important
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to listen to what they think. Half the decisions you take which go wrong are because you did the wrong thing and half
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of them are because you chose to do the right thing, but you got the implementation wrong. Risk appetite is
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about the risk that we are prepared to take on. Risk tolerance is our ability to withstand that risk if that
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materializes. >> Welcome to grit in the boardroom. I'm Erica Norris. Today's guest is Patrick
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Dunn Obbe, a leading voice in board effectiveness, governance practice, and he's also the chair of board Delta.
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Welcome to Grit in the Boardroom, Patrick. >> Great to be here. >> So, you've worked closely with chairs
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and CEOs um and executives for decades. What do you think separates the productive relationship of CEO and chair
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and an unproductive relationship? >> Yeah. Well, I mean I'm a mathematician by background and I'm dyslexic. So I
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tend to see a lot of things in terms of mathematical images and my image of this
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is a ven diagram. >> So I think where it works really well you have a healthy level of
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intersection. So you've got clarity of role on each side. So for the board that's ensuring we've got the right
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strategy, the right resources, the right governance for the executive that we've
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got uh you know good they're delivering developing the business plan and strategy and they're maintaining
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financial operational integrity. Where it doesn't work is where those sort of two plates two circles move apart and
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you have a sort of parallel universe type situation or they come too close. Yeah. and the board is and the chair is
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trying to do the CEO's job. Um and so I think it's talking about it. It's good level of respect and trust. Um that's
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where it seems to work well and where I'm chair I you know that's one of the things you really got to focus on.
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That's a key key relationship. >> Yeah. And do you think if you're new to the role and there's a new chair coming
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in or if you're an existing chair and you have a new CEO, it can be quite difficult right at the beginning of a
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relationship to be able to work out what what works and what doesn't work. Any ideas on kind of where to start with
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that sort of thing? Yeah, I mean I uh the latest chair role I have is the Royal Voluntary Service which I took on
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in December 23 and I remember in the you know in between being sort of appointed
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and starting uh you know I had a great chat with the CEO and you know the first chat was all about you know getting to
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know each other but also how are we going to work together and then the uh agenda for the first meeting where I was
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chair I chose to um basically focus that agenda on how are we going to work together as a board and how are we going
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to work with the executive because there was a bit of a reset moment. Um and I think if you think about it, if you talk
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about it, if you reflect, if you give feedback, uh then it then it all works. I mean I have a the two situation where
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chair I I have a weekly catch up with the CEO. Sometimes it's very quick, sometimes it's a bit longer. There's no
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agenda. um we just sort of talk about what you know stuff that's going on, things we need to think about. Sometimes
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it's thinking about the board meeting after the next one. >> Um that that that kind of thing. Um and
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um yeah, I've got one of those this afternoon. So u it I think it's just a constant
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>> kind of um thoughtfulness. >> Yeah. And are those the right sort of forums to to ring up bring up challenge
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and kind of questions about how things work? I presume if you have that opportunity to catch up open discussion.
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>> Yeah, they can be. I mean I I like a sort of little and often uh approach to to feedback rather than saving it all up
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for one day in a year's time. Uh so you know we will also reflect either the evening or the morning after a board
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meeting and you know one of the things we do in the in the boards around chairs we have a sort of 15 minute reflection
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at the end of each meeting we talk about how did we do did we rush that did we take too much time on that are we sure
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we you know how we've left the management feeling those kind of things and I get the CEO to do the same with
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the team and anyone else who's come in from outside to present and then the following day we'll usually they have a
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chat about, you know, we put the two bits together, say, well, what do we learn? Um, and then I might be giving
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individual feedback to uh to a board member or they might be giving individual feedback to me. Uh, where we
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might say, you know, well, I think you went in a bit hard there. You know, it was a fantastic point, but a little bit
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hard. You know, don't normally want the CFO crying kind of thing. So, you you'll have that
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kind of thing. Yeah. Um and um and I think if you encourage people to give feedback on you, you automatically get
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the right to give feedback and and I find if you treat people with respect, you're straightforward. There's no kind
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of side or game playing. Uh it it kind of works. >> Yeah, that sounds like a really good way
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of reflecting on the meeting. Most organizations that I've been in get through the agenda and then instantly
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people are packing their bags as soon as they go right a no a great let's just get on out
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>> but to have that opportunity to reflect must really help particularly in the moment
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>> I think so I think you know it's powerful in the moment and it's powerful afterwards so we might have that
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reflection you know that evening the next day about the board meeting and then in our next weekly catch up we'll
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probably maybe have some additional thoughts about things or you know you might say yes we want to do that um but
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you know there might be quite a lot of feedback about the way that we're going to implement and do that. So sometimes
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it's not just about you know taking the decisions. It's also you know scrutinizing the implementation and
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making sure we're comfortable with with all of that side of things too without getting into the weeds.
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>> Yeah, it's a bit of a balance. It's about being human I Yeah, I think so. Yeah.
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>> Yeah. It's interesting. You talk about um kind of gritty situation. You talk about CFOs crying. I mean, that's that's
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not a great place to be. >> That didn't happen where I'm chair, but but I have experienced that in a former
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life. >> Yeah. Because it is how you give that feedback and how you challenge. >> Yeah. I think something that I found in
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boardrooms is where there's a poor culture, you can end up with people pitting themselves against others. So
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they I've seen the CEO bring some of their management team in who are potential succession um people that
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might move along the track and they've been I suppose put in a position to made to be look a bit like a fool. So that
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that CEO felt more comfortable being with the board and thinking well actually look they weren't that great
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were they? They can't be my successor because look what happened in that meeting knowing full well having sat on
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the outside that actually that was they were almost set up and put in that position. It's not a great culture of
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course. >> Yeah. I think I think most canny chairs who've been around a while would had
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would see that coming and not allow that to happen. >> Yeah. Um, and you've got to be a pretty
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insecure CEO to do that. And I I would say to a CEO was sort of maybe limbering up to do that. You know, actually,
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you'll show weakness if you do. You'll show strength if you let them speak, if you don't finish their sentences, if you
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do >> those those kind of things. I had a lot of experience with that in the, you
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know, in the private equity world where I was for for quite a long time. >> What sort of experience did you have
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then? Was this as as chair or were we talking more as an executive? >> As an Well, I I was uh at 3II for for 26
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years. So, all sorts of types of investment, venture, growth, buyout, rescue, all that kind of stuff. Majority
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situations, minority situations. Um, and you you learn a lot about sort of board
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life. Um, and the the many different types of CEO there are. I mean, we would make I'd say, you know, we make serious
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money from uh often people who were, you know, maybe a little dysfunctional, maybe not, maybe too rampantly
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entrepreneurial. Um, but finding a way to bring out the best of those characteristics, but surround them,
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support them with uh people who would moderate some of the darker side. Uh, and just being clear with people, you
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know, look, we're not going to put up with that. Yeah, >> you can't do that. You know,
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occasionally you have to do that. I think if you say it with a smile, it's usually better.
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It's a very unique situation I think particularly with executives that sit in board meetings to have their bosses in
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there scrutinizing them and even the peripheral let's say bosses if we talk about non-exec director talk about CEO
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reporting into chair >> those other people that will also carry some weight in the decision of you know
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what's going right performance management that sort of stuff >> and most of their interactions are face
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to face and in real time and doing their work as opposed to most line management
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responsibility. You delegate something and you leave them to get on with it and you see the result. It moves up the
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chain. Yeah. >> But the board has to see the thought process that goes behind whatever that
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is. Um >> could be quite exposing. I guess >> it can be. I mean if you've got a very
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big decision to take as well. I think the I've never really liked because I don't think it's a very effective way to
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make a decision the idea that you have a big decision. You kind of tell the management you want a paper. They kind
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of guess what you want in the paper. Then they send it to you a week before and it's usually too long because
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they're guessing what might you might like and then on a wet Monday morning or whatever it is, you kind of in an hour
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or less you decide. I think that's a kind of vulnerable way to make a big decision. So I prefer a more iterative
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process where you break the thing down and you have a conversation about well you know really what is the decision
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we're taking and when should we take it and how should we take it and who should
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we involve and what information do we want to see in a board paper and then you have a kind of second conversation
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which is what's our preferred route which is you know the management giving you a sort of set of options in a
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recommendation you know the the cheap and nasty one the ridiculously expensive one or the one they want Uh and then you
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you kind of you know you decide what's your preferred route and then a third conversation where you you're finally
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confirming that decision but you're spending most of that meeting thinking about the implementation because crudely
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half the decisions you take which go wrong are because you did the wrong thing. >> Uh and half of them are because you
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chose to do the right thing but you got the implementation wrong. So I I think that process and and making sure you've
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got the time doesn't have to be over a long you know elapsed time but I think breaking it down into three helps and
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you see and you watch how the management kind of you know prepare the information
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deal with the challenges through those three sort of uh sets of experience I think you learn a lot more than if they
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just do your paper. Yeah, >> I think a lot is a lot of time is wasted by management teams and boards producing
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papers when people are guessing what should be in the paper. I think that of those things I said, one of the things
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that's really good is, you know, what information do we think we need to make this decision before we make it, not
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when you're trying to make it. >> Yeah, sometimes it can be difficult to find the time. And maybe this says
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something to the decision-m process before that point. But if things are business critical and they are real
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time, make a decision now. How how does that get managed? Because that's a different scenario all together.
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>> I think I I mean I break it down in in I use three a lot. Uh it's a human thing
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but um I I think if you break it down into okay, so we have this decision to take. What do we need to do before we
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take the decision? what do we need to do during the decision so we get constructive challenge and all the rest
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of it and then as importantly you know what are we going to do after we've made the decision how are we going to follow
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through and I think if you think about how can we make the best decision you kind of balance those three things right
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so so raw voluntary service to bring it to life we've just launched this new uh national volunteering platform go um
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it's only three weeks old but it's already looking like a big hit and Um, we did we did all that. This was a
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massive investment for us. Um, and you know, high-profile, you know, stakes are high. If we it up, then we wasted a
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lot of a lot of money. Um, and we we just we did that. We said, you know, well, we need to decide whether we're
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going to do this, when we're going to do it, how we're going to do it. Um, and we
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we just broke things down into a very simple kind of set of process. So, you know, and we've launched it slightly
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ahead of time within budget and it works. Um, but we probably spent more time at the front end
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>> than many people would do. Um, but actually we got the benefit of that through, you know, the process and the
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buyin and all the rest of it at the back end. So um yeah >> when you talk about buyin is that buyin
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from who? >> I think when you're thinking about buyin I mean if you're a chair you have to
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think about you know you have to think about the board you have to think about the executive team you have to think
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about the organization more broadly and you have to think about your main stakeholders.
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So uh you know if I think of in in in private equity land that's pretty straightforward
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and for most organizations you've probably got half a dozen main stakeholder groups. you know, they there
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might be more, there might be a few less. And if as a board you're you understand what those stakeholders want
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and need from you, and you know what you want and need from them, and you got a way of, you know, measuring that so you
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know they're getting what they want, you know, you're getting what you want, then
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usually, you know, you can get the buy in that you want. And I I found at 3II, I mean, one of my responsibilities for
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many years was uh I was on the operating committee, I was on responsible for investor relations. So yeah, we had
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25,000 shareholders. They're not homogeneous group. There's all sorts of uh types of different uh shareholders
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and you have to have an understanding of what you know what their motivations are
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especially when you don't necessarily like their motivations. You have to have a an idea of that and you have to have a
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way of you know explaining what you're doing that fits with, you know, their world. Um sometimes you know they might
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not agree with what you want to do and that's fine. At the end of the day you as a board have to make a judgment uh in
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terms of balancing those different uh those different requirements that other people have. Um but I think if you're
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clear and you understand what they want and what you want from them, it's much easier to do that.
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And what sorts of things thinking about as you say the the people that maybe don't agree is the probably one of the
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more challenging let's say approaches to take. Do you think that there's a particular way that you can engage with
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them or questions you might ask yourself or how you might approach that? Particularly if it's something that
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really does annoy you and just think why on earth is this particular group of stakeholders whoever they are thinking
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the way they think totally don't agree with it cannot understand it but obviously you need to start to unpack
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that a little bit so you can at least bring them along the journey. Yeah, I I think I mean I grew up in a very
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conflict rich environment in in Liverpool. I was born in born in Topsters and delivered fruit and veg
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around Topsters when I was at you know when I probably shouldn't have been but um and learned a lot about conflict
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management and um and risk management um and I think you know later on I realized
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you know reading and bit being better better educated that um fundamentally you can do five things in a in a
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conflict you know you and Thomas and Kilman the sort of world experts on this nailed it. They said, you know, you can
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compete, you can collaborate, you can compromise, you can avoid, or you can accommodate. And the thing to be clear
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about is, you know, which one of those do you think might work with that person or that group of people? Y
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>> on that day on that issue with that atmosphere in the room with all the contextual stuff and sometimes um
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avoiding has a bad connotation. and you know it feels like oh we're you know we're we're we're wimping out. Whereas
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actually in that moment in a board meeting for example it might be better to kind of um save the conversation
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um for afterwards or actually even better you might have anticipated. So I spend a lot of my time. My grandmother
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had this great expression as a kid. She was Irish. She had no education. And she
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said to me as a little boy, you know, it's really important to listen to what people say, but it's even more important
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to listen to what they think. >> And so before every board meeting, I'll often go around the room in my head
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thinking, you know, what would Joe or what will Mary or what would Erica think of this today? Yeah.
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>> Uh, and you know, I might know that, you know, Erica has strong feelings about
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this and I I might chat with you beforehand and we might sort of agree, you know, how you how you might sort of
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how you make your point in a way that doesn't derail the meeting, Erica. Um, or how actually if you're an introvert
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and and I find it fantastic to have introverts on boards. I think we've got a bias to extroverts in our society.
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>> Yeah. You know, I think sometimes before a board meeting, you can do quite a lot
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to help an introvert sort of feel comfortable saying something that they feel uncomfortable saying beforehand.
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So, a lot of it is in the prep. And I I did a LinkedIn article a while ago called Getting in the Zone because I was
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fussed that you know if you take elite performers in other fields, music, um athletics, they they've got all their
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training, they've got all their knowledge, they're all match fit, but still before that match or race or
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concert, >> they have this little routine to try and lift their performance in in that
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particular >> um concert game, whatever. Um, and I I don't think we do that as much as board
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members. And I've I've tried to do that for a long time to think, well, what's what if this is my last board meeting?
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What, you know, why don't we make this the best board meeting we've ever had? And um I'm a massive fan of Bruce
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Springsteen and that's his approach. He's done three and a half thousand concerts, but every one he wants to be
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the next, you know, the next one is the best. Um, and I think there's something about that that that can really help you
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and help you put the work in. >> Yeah. >> Because there's there's no substitute for the work. I mean, you you've got to
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prepare properly and also then get yourself in the zone. >> Yeah. >> Um, >> and how do you get in that zone? I know
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you spoke a little bit about going around and kind of thinking about what various people might say or react to
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various different gender items or even to each other potentially. How do you do that?
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>> So I I I generally start with um what should be the objectives for the meeting. So so if I'm chair there you
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know what do we want to get out of today? Well, of course, we want to make the right decisions, but we want to make
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them in the right way. And if uh so, for example, on you know, ro shows when I first became chair, I didn't know the
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board. We had some new board members. Um we were coming but not quite out of a of
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a turnaround. And so there are priorities you know we need to make these decisions but also I'm thinking
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how can I build in you know when you take over as J how can I build the right level of constructive challenge how can
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I make sure you know the execs who aren't the CEO feel very comfortable speaking in a meeting how can I bring
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out that inter and this is not like a one meeting trick you know you have to think that so over the course of you
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know several months I mean I so I I have a sort of set of objectives I set for myself for each board meeting which is
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you know really need to make the right decisions on these three things. So you can imagine when we were making the the
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decision on should we shouldn't we do this platform that's pretty key. Yeah. >> Uh but then um actually you know I want
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to make sure we really make the most of this new non-exec. Now sometimes it's tempting people sort of get into that
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well I'm you know first meeting I'll just watch I've never bought that uh I've always thought if you've got
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something to add had add it uh and so I will make sure before the board meeting I spoke to you say you know really want
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to contribute you know there's this item I think you'll be particularly useful on
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be great if you could be the first person who could speak on that and then they're feeling in that first board
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meeting I'm making a difference >> and the executive even noticing, oh wow, that person's got something really
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genuine to add. You know, they don't go away thinking, well, I didn't really get
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to know them because they didn't say anything. Um, you have to get the balance right.
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>> That is interesting. >> But I think having the objectives for the meeting. So, you know, in in workout portfolio
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land, I would my main two categories objective would be I want to know a lot of stuff because I've usually come to
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it, you know, I'm just fresh in the situation. Yeah. and I have to assume I'm ignorant. Um, and then I also want
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to build some rapport and some credibility because if I've only got a marity stake and I need to influence, I
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can't tell them what to do. Um, then, you know, I need to build some kind of rapport, credibility with them because
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otherwise, you know, why would they listen to me then if they don't have to? Um, so, uh, I'd have, you know, be be
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thinking about how do I do that through the meeting. H I think potentially it's some of your experiences as you've kind
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of moved along having done executive roles and then moving to do various other roles that gives you that
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>> train of thought because I I don't think I have ever heard a chair say that they
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have helped direct the individual preirst meeting in a particular direction as to which sort of agenda
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items might be helpful. But I can absolutely see the value in that because >> those let's say a new non-exec director
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doesn't know what the other skills necessarily on the board other than the biographies and everything that's just
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in front of them superficial. Exactly. But it's really interesting that you've brought that in because that does allow
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people to talk and I've spoken to someone else on my podcast and interestingly they said the complete
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polar opposite to you. They said sit in the board meeting and say nothing and that's absolutely fine. And that's all
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that's expected of you, which is not necessary in my own personal view. That's for sure. Because you you have
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statutory duties and you are equally accountable as everyone else is on the board. The day that you step into that
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boardroom, it doesn't matter the level of experience you have. >> Yeah, >> exactly. But yeah, what are your
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thoughts? Yeah, I mean the other thing that I do which I think is quite helpful is for a new non-exec, we usually have a
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chat deliberately, you know, we'll say we'll chat and I will ask them what they thought of the board papers because
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often a new board member has different take on on on things. Uh so that's really helpful and then I'll fix up a
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chat for the week after >> y >> few days after the board and I'll say you know what did you think at the board
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meeting and I'm genuinely want to know what they thought. I genuinely want to know if there's things I was doing as
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chair that got in the way or things that were helpful that I could do do more of
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and and you know their take on on um how the conversation went there's real value
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in >> in that. So I think the person who says you know just just sit there and be
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quiet that might work for them. I mean I think with a lot of these things it's what works for that group of people.
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that really really wouldn't work for me. Um I'd feel I didn't add any value. >> Yeah. uh and I'd feel there was a lost
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opportunity uh with within that because I'm also interested in how people react to points
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you make because it's very telling sometimes when you know if you get an overly defensive
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CEO or CFO um where they're not open uh to to different ideas, different thoughts,
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they kind of want you to rubber stamp the decisions. >> Yeah. And and I think again I I would
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say to CEOs I I would coach that that that's a sign of weakness. That's not a sign of strength. Um,
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>> it sounds like a lot of this comes down to emotional intelligence of kind of being able to read the room, being able
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to empathize with other people, to have some humanity and some humility about things and kind of step up, I suppose,
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and be be who you are in that meeting, but also think about everybody else. >> Yeah, I think so. I mean, early on,
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possibly because of my background, possibly because of imposter syndrome, I I would often feel at odds with the
00:26:09
consensus and almost worse than that, not able to have the right articulation to change people's minds. I re, you
00:26:17
know, I didn't have the same uh language skills. And so and I found that that quite uncomfortable, but I learned to
00:26:28
watch and learn and I'd learned that as a kid where where I was, you know, you really got to watch and learn. And so I
00:26:35
I would just watch really good chairs and and one of the things I discovered I'm a statistician as well M
00:26:43
statistician I think I mentioned then I realized actually I did a statistical count of something uh which was what's
00:26:50
the first word that someone uses when they're going to constructively challenge. I thought that might be quite
00:26:56
an interesting thing to know. >> And it was uncanny that the the really good chairs and really good non-execs
00:27:03
that I watched always seem to start their sentences with the word I. So it was I wonder if you could just go
00:27:11
through that again for me, please. I'm not sure I understood that. I wonder what our competition would think of that
00:27:17
or how will they react? It was always like and and we're often taught not to say I. Um so it may feel
00:27:24
counterintuitive to some people despite their egos but um and and I started to experiment and I suddenly found it was
00:27:34
much easier to constructively challenge when I when I did that. uh and almost you know um it it just liberates sort of
00:27:45
other people because it's not a challenge because you're saying you're taking yeah I'm not sure I understand I
00:27:50
wonder if I feel yeah or you know occasionally I might say I'm not sure why but I'm not sure I feel that
00:27:57
comfortable with that and leave a pause. It's always fascinating to see what happens when you do that.
00:28:03
>> Silence is is really interesting because people do tend to feel that silence.
00:28:09
I've read a couple of books on exactly that of just the pause and even if you have to count in your head because the
00:28:15
pause seems difficult. >> You do tend to find people certain people certain personality types will
00:28:22
jump in and hate that silence and feel like they just had to keep talking and then sometimes you get more information
00:28:28
out of them than they otherwise would have given. >> You get a lot and eye contact can be the
00:28:31
same thing. So you I I learned from a policeman I was helping a or for a long time I was chair of a charity that
00:28:38
helped young people manage conflict more effectively and a copper told me one night he was in reading and that um if
00:28:44
you just stop a young person in the street and you just look at them there's an 80% chance they'll speak.
00:28:49
>> Yeah s I found anxious finance directors are just the same. >> Yes, that doesn't surprise me. And yeah,
00:28:58
they often give the game away. As you say, that anxiety piece, they will explain what it is that makes them
00:29:04
anxious. Sometimes that's something you need to know. Sometimes it's just helpful because you can then support
00:29:08
them. Sometimes it's information that they otherwise wouldn't have disclosed. >> Yeah. And you got to be careful with
00:29:13
that because you don't want to >> be intimidating or, you know, give nothing. Yeah, I think in most the best
00:29:22
relationships are, you know, there's a good balance of of that and there's a trust that that emerges, but but
00:29:29
occasionally it's quite a helpful tool. >> Absolutely. You are right. It shouldn't
00:29:34
be used as a a way of unbuttoning somebody or forcing them to do something that they otherwise shouldn't do to
00:29:42
manipulate them. >> Yeah, that's not the right. But on the flip side, if you feel that
00:29:48
there's something that might actually be hidden, >> Yeah. >> it's a good, you say, it's a good
00:29:53
technique. >> Yeah. Absolutely. >> To be able to implement. >> So directors, lots and lots of them,
00:29:59
they talk about risk appetite. Um, it seems to be a bit of a buzzword for many, but very few define what that
00:30:07
really means. um how do you help people to articulate that risk appetite so they
00:30:14
can make real decisions based on whatever risk appetite they may have. So I think like a lot of things there's
00:30:21
there's averages are very terribly dangerous things. They they conceal a lot uh of truth averages. So I don't
00:30:30
like to think of a risk appetite. I thought I like to think of risk appetites. So I think you know if you're going to
00:30:39
take big business risk then you need to have low financial risk. you know, if you're going to take big financial risk,
00:30:47
then you need, you know, low low business risk and so on. Um, so I I like to categorize risk. Uh, and then talk as
00:30:56
a board, you know, what do we feel? Uh, so for example, um, again at Royal Volunteer Service, we've we've done
00:31:03
this. We we've come out quite strongly uh from a from a turnaround period. Uh, we need to re rebuild our reserves. So
00:31:12
we're talking about, you know, well, in terms of our risk appetite, so for every
00:31:17
pound of surplus that we might make above and beyond what we plan to, what we going to do with it? So we we're
00:31:24
going to invest half, bank half, build back our reserves, or should we bank 70% so we build back our reserves more
00:31:33
quickly? That's a proper risk appetite conversation I think >> as opposed to you know is our risk
00:31:40
appetite a seven or a six. >> Yes. >> I think that's sort of futile. Uh that doesn't really get there for me. The
00:31:46
other thing I think is quite important is that we don't confuse risk appetite with risk tolerance.
00:31:53
So risk appetite is about the risk that we are prepared to take on. Risk tolerance is our ability to withstand
00:31:59
that risk if that materializes. And I think when people are thinking about risk tolerance, they often think
00:32:06
about events and and that again can lead to the wrong conclusion because what you really want
00:32:13
to think about are consequences. So a number of different events could cause the same consequence and often I think
00:32:20
if you look at you know generally when things are challenging in a business it's usually not one thing. It's usually
00:32:26
you know a number of things combining like the airline accident you know it's very seldom one single cause of failure.
00:32:31
it's usually combinatorial risk rather than singular risk. And so I think getting people to understand
00:32:38
consequences. >> Uh and co I think taught us a lot. I mean it was a horrible terrible thing
00:32:44
but it did lead us to think about some things perhaps in a more a healthier way than perhaps we might have done before.
00:32:52
I think it's time for a lot of us to change the way they think about risk in a number of ways. And I think the the
00:33:00
combined audit risk committee is one of those things to think about because of the nature of the risks that we're
00:33:07
encountering in this sort of current phase of the world. >> Yes. >> Most of them most of the big risks that
00:33:13
most boards spend their time worrying about are the non-financial risks. The financial risks obviously most things
00:33:19
end up in a financial situation, but you know they're the other things. You know,
00:33:24
cyber being the most notable at the moment. And so you know the com the composition of an audit risk committee
00:33:30
is generally financially oriented people. >> Um and that might not be the best combination. Also talking about
00:33:39
reviewing the audit and financial control systems things might not be the the easiest mindset to transition into
00:33:46
you know a broader risk conversation. So some regulators you know like the risk committee to be separated out. Um I I'm
00:33:54
thinking you know in a number of places where where I've been um helping people that that actually in that circumstance
00:34:01
it would be better if they had a distinct risk committee with a different composition and more time uh on risk you
00:34:09
know in terms of that balance of time spent on audit and time spent on risk. >> Yeah. And what do you think
00:34:15
composition-wise when you talk about if you were to break away the risk committee um from the audit committee um
00:34:23
as you say not for regulatory purposes just because you feel that's there's enough of a topic there and enough of
00:34:29
discussion that you would like to do that as an organization. What types of people what types of experience or
00:34:36
skills would you expect of people that would be on a risk committee? You'd want quite a diverse group of of people in
00:34:43
terms of experiences, mindsets, characters, all of that. It's interesting when I became chair of the
00:34:48
operational risk committee at 3II, uh uh the committee was composed of, you know,
00:34:55
some of the best, smartest investors we had, but they were all of a certain generation. And and I thought actually
00:35:02
what we really need is a couple of people who were a bit wilder and uh you know, we're thinking about things quite
00:35:08
differently. Yeah. And so we we changed the composition and it was really valuable uh to do that. I think um it's
00:35:16
probably a separate topic but I think a multi-generational risk committee is really valuable and if
00:35:22
you have got a nextgen board you know maybe I mean I I think if you have got a nextg board it's good to have a member
00:35:28
of that nextg board on every subcommittee anyway but I think on a risk committee I'd probably have a
00:35:34
couple um who you know they're thinking differently and um they're aware of different stuff they talk about
00:35:41
different stuff and they feel differently about things and and that's probably quite a helpful thing to have
00:35:46
on the risk committee because they may be seeing risks that you know you can't see.
00:35:51
>> Yeah. And can you just talk a little bit more about that nextgen board kind of
00:35:55
concept? >> Yeah. So I've been a fan of this for for ages and so they're generally advisory
00:36:02
boards. So they're not involved in governance although some people put the chair of that nextg board on the main
00:36:07
board. So when I was um chairing EY foundation you know that's the model we had then um they uh nextgen boards can
00:36:16
be uh either a younger group or they can be a multigenerational group. The word nextgen can mean like the next
00:36:24
generation of people or it could mean about a group of people who were advising on us on the next generation of
00:36:30
the organization. And so it's used in two two different ways. They generally have a sort of two-year life. Uh so you
00:36:40
rotate them >> and when people start set up their first nextG board, they generally talent spot
00:36:46
for the first one and then they the second one they they have an open application and that's so they get the
00:36:52
model sort of refined. Um they can be either interacting principally with the executive or with the board or with
00:37:01
both. um it's generally a good idea to give them some kind of legacy project for their two-year spell. So where I've
00:37:12
been involved in setting them up, we generally give that firstg cohort the legacy of coming up with what they think
00:37:20
is the right model for the nextG board going forward. The EY Foundation is now on its fifth cohort and and you know the
00:37:28
model has been refined as we've gone by but a lot of the work that first cohort did got it nailed pretty much and and
00:37:36
you know we've developed it from there. You because two years is such a short time you really need to focus as well.
00:37:45
The three things that people tend to want to get out of an exg board are their insights because they've got
00:37:50
different insights. they want their challenge because they might challenge in a different way or they might find
00:37:55
things challenging that other people don't. Uh and there's also an element of legitimacy. I think you know one one
00:38:02
thing that's really interesting is if you look at churn rates by generation as opposed to by function or any other
00:38:11
thing. I think a lot of people are finding churn in those younger generations is higher than it is in the
00:38:17
the older generations. Um and you know a way of reducing churn is is younger people in organization feeling they've
00:38:25
got some voice some say uh in it but of course if you have an exgim board and you say you know we really want your
00:38:32
views um and then you don't listen to them you actually make it worse rather than better. So you've got to go into
00:38:39
this with you know an open clear mind uh about about what what you're doing. You
00:38:45
have to train and you have to provide the support. So um w with nextgen boards I'm involved in you know they each each
00:38:53
member of the nextgen board has an a board buddy. >> Okay. >> Uh so usually if I'm the chair I'll be
00:38:59
the the chair of the nextgen's buddy. Um we put one as I said before on each committee. I think that's really
00:39:06
valuable. Um and um and and you you know you get all sorts of surprising things happen you know good and good and bad. I
00:39:17
wouldn't also restrict your nextg board to fasttrack people. That's the common understandable thing to do. But
00:39:25
actually, it's less diverse if you do that. Um, and uh, I think you can benefit from having, you know, a broader
00:39:34
range of abilities um because it's the thoughts you want, not necessarily, you know, other things.
00:39:41
>> Yeah, that's really interesting. It's definitely something that organizations
00:39:46
can consider. >> Yeah. >> Seen them in a few organizations, but not so many. >> Oh, well, we found when we did the five
00:39:53
generations at workbook, um found over 200. >> Wow. >> It's quite a lot. What sort of size
00:39:59
businesses? >> Uh you've got everything from um you know, you've got Gucci, Seammens, FT,
00:40:06
AOR, Storowenza, you know, lots of very large businesses. And then you've got lots of tech businesses have them. Um
00:40:15
and um it's it's becoming more common in the social sector as well. >> Um and I think you know if you if you
00:40:25
again like most things you know you you you do that before, during after thing and you think well what do we need to
00:40:30
think about before we set one up. Um and the training most people quite quickly get to we need to train them. What they
00:40:40
don't get to as quickly is we also need to train the executive who will be interacting with them because you know
00:40:46
you might say to your nextg board we really want you to challenge us you know as a board we want your insights we want
00:40:51
all that and then you know if you're the executive you're the ones receiving that
00:40:55
challenge mostly they go who are these who are these people you know I've been here 20 years and you know and and I
00:41:02
didn't get to be on the board that quick and you know so you have to manage so I
00:41:06
found where I've helped people establish Um, training the executive is is as important and the board is as important
00:41:13
as training the the next gen the nextg board. >> And if these people um kind of potentially get a a bit of a feel for
00:41:22
what it's like to be on a board, surely that can be a good thing. >> Ah, it's a fantastic thing because I
00:41:26
think we're developing with these a pipeline. >> We're developing board experience and
00:41:30
we're breaking down the generational barriers in that. Um, I mean I I remember for the EI Foundation was
00:41:37
fantastic young woman who was um uh on the next board and she was the one that we put on our nominations committee and
00:41:46
her radar was the best of all of us. Her uh way of questioning was stunning. Um and so very quickly
00:41:55
everyone wanted her on every interview panel that you could think of. She's now a litigation lawyer
00:42:01
quite successful uh at this early stage but uh it was great to see that and it changed a few perceptions I think around
00:42:10
what you know what what young people can do. >> I wonder if it's slightly more sector
00:42:15
specific in so far as sectors that have um the kind of next generation buying their products or that they are very
00:42:25
focused on that. I wonder if you looked at other organizations. >> We did. Yeah, we did. So, um uh yeah,
00:42:33
lot lots of the organizations in the book are, you know, got really big demographic sort of
00:42:38
>> balance. I think your point around the customers and um and suppliers uh is really key because if you really
00:42:48
want to understand your customers, I mean you'll do your market research, you'll do all of those things, but
00:42:53
there's nothing like having someone inside saying actually that's not how it is really.
00:42:58
>> That's not why we buy that. um you know because often you know market research
00:43:04
you know sophistication of it grown significantly but sometimes you miss things um and actually I realized when I
00:43:11
was on the board of the University of Warick we we had two student uh representatives on the board and and
00:43:18
occasionally they would you know we'd we'd we'd all be in this mindset of thinking ah that's the way it is yeah we
00:43:23
do that and the students will love it and then they'd go not really um for The most graphic
00:43:30
example of that was when we were deciding to outsource some of the cafes and restaurants on the campus and we
00:43:39
decided, you know, we'd go with a certain supplier and we decided on the size of it or that the team did and we
00:43:45
sort of were endorsing the decision and one of the students said, "Nah, that's just nonsense. That that's that's going
00:43:51
to be nowhere big enough." And all of the research said, you know, this is the size. And the the student stood his
00:43:58
ground and and said, you know, well, you know, it was about, you know, you just don't understand how we date these days.
00:44:05
Uh, what do you mean? He said, well, you know, we don't like in your day, you probably, you know, asked someone to go
00:44:13
for a drink that evening. We don't do with that. We go and have a hot chocolate straight away. And I think we
00:44:19
were all sitting there thinking, hot chocolate? How how exciting is that? Um and um so
00:44:27
we actually built them twice as big and we ended up building twice as big as we were originally going to and they
00:44:35
weren't big enough. >> Wow. >> So that that is a very small example but we totally misunder you know we did we
00:44:43
didn't understand that. Um so you know trivial example but interesting one >> and looking at people kind of moving up
00:44:52
um CEOs if they then decide to move on and do non-exec director career or they want a portfolio non-exec director
00:45:00
career alongside what they're already doing um as an executive. What do you think is maybe a couple of things that
00:45:08
they need to really consider um not necessarily about the organization itself but how they behave and how they
00:45:13
are on the board how different that is being the other side of the uh table. I mean three I I often used to encourage
00:45:21
CEOs who you know were not really letting their executive team have full delegated okay
00:45:30
>> sort of thing and and one of the ways I would do that is is is help them get a
00:45:34
non-exec job somewhere else >> one so they couldn't be as you know in the executive's face every day all the
00:45:41
time to they would learn and they would watch another CEO do their thing in their way and they'd watch the non-execs
00:45:49
do that. And also, I think if you haven't had if you're a CEO and you haven't had a non-exec experience before
00:45:57
you sort of stop and go down the plural route, I think you need a decompression space zone time. Yeah.
00:46:06
>> Whatever. >> Go away for a month or something. But just clear your head because because the whole
00:46:14
nature of the exec role, there's so much pressure on you. you know, you're constantly prioritizing. Um, it's why
00:46:20
when I talked about conflict management before, you know, CEOs tend to be high and compete and avoid because they're
00:46:25
constantly deciding, well, I'll do that, I won't do that, and their time is tight. If you're a non-exec, you need to
00:46:30
be more reflective. You need to, you know, think things through more beforehand and all the rest of it. And
00:46:37
you and and that's a kind of way of being as much as the skills and experiences that that you have. And you
00:46:42
need to kind of develop develop that, I think. Um uh so that that's one thing. The second thing I think is really
00:46:51
encourage feedback. Um and really be free be experiment. Uh I don't think in general board people
00:47:06
you include myself in this experiment enough. >> Okay. >> Uh we don't take the risk of trying out
00:47:12
a new approach, a new way of doing something. um that kind of thing. I think we should be we should experiment
00:47:18
a bit more. >> Wow. Well, that's really interesting. Thank you very much. And thank you also
00:47:23
for your time today. Um it's been fantastic to catch up. >> Real pleasure. Thank you.
00:47:29
>> It was really interesting to have an opportunity to speak to Patrick today. Um, I learned quite a lot from him about
00:47:35
what it's like to be a chair and what it's like to have those new non-exec directors coming in and what sorts of
00:47:41
things the chair can do to support um what that non-exec director will then feel in that meeting and how they'll be
00:47:48
able to contribute. I think he was very clear that people that join the board should be contributing hopefully from
00:47:57
day one even if it may not be as much as other directors. And I think that's a really good starting point for anybody
00:48:02
joining a new board. Uh we spoke a little bit about CEOs and how they can step up to be non-exec directors and he
00:48:10
suggested a break was sensible in order to be able to get in the different headsp space that's required to be able
00:48:14
to take on a non-exec director role as opposed to an executive role. Finally, it's about scrutinizing decision- making
00:48:21
and what that board does. So when decisions are made, I think it's important to scrutinize why certain
00:48:29
decisions were made. Not necessarily to point the finger, but to bring forward um some learnings and to be able to
00:48:36
implement those for the future. Um but it also helps the board to kind of move forward. I know that Patrick spoke about
00:48:43
at the end of each meeting having almost a bit of a debrief before everybody leaves to say what works and what didn't
00:48:48
work with regards to that meeting, but that can be done as well with regards to projects. Um, and I think that that
00:48:54
could really support uh businesses improving on an incremental basis moving forwards. That's it for this episode of
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Episode Highlights

  • CEO and Chair Relationships
    A productive CEO-chair relationship hinges on clarity and respect.
    “A healthy level of intersection... with clarity of role on each side.”
    @ 00m 44s
    July 01, 2026
  • Feedback Culture
    Encouraging constant feedback fosters a respectful and effective board environment.
    “I like a sort of little and often approach to feedback.”
    @ 03m 47s
    July 01, 2026
  • Decision-Making Process
    Breaking down decisions into iterative conversations leads to better outcomes.
    “I prefer a more iterative process where you break the thing down.”
    @ 09m 46s
    July 01, 2026
  • Conflict Management Insights
    Understanding how to engage with conflicting stakeholders is key to board dynamics.
    “You can compete, collaborate, compromise, avoid, or accommodate.”
    @ 16m 32s
    July 01, 2026
  • The Importance of Preparation
    Preparation is key to success in meetings. You must set clear objectives.
    “There's no substitute for the work.”
    @ 19m 31s
    July 01, 2026
  • Building Rapport
    Establishing rapport and credibility is essential for influencing decisions.
    “If I've only got a majority stake, I need to influence.”
    @ 22m 31s
    July 01, 2026
  • Understanding Risk Appetite
    Defining risk appetite is crucial for making informed decisions in business.
    “I like to think of risk appetites.”
    @ 30m 33s
    July 01, 2026
  • NextGen Boards
    NextGen boards provide fresh insights and challenge traditional thinking.
    “They can be either a younger group or a multigenerational group.”
    @ 36m 16s
    July 01, 2026
  • The Importance of Diverse Boards
    Diverse boards lead to better insights and understanding of customers' needs.
    “It's less diverse if you do that.”
    @ 39m 28s
    July 01, 2026
  • Training for Executives
    Training executives is as crucial as training the next generation of board members.
    “Training the executive is as important as training the nextg board.”
    @ 41m 11s
    July 01, 2026
  • Understanding Customer Needs
    Having someone inside the organization can reveal insights that market research might miss.
    “There's nothing like having someone inside saying actually that's not how it is really.”
    @ 42m 50s
    July 01, 2026
  • The Value of Feedback
    Encouraging feedback and experimentation can lead to better decision-making in boards.
    “We should experiment a bit more.”
    @ 47m 12s
    July 01, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • If you treat people with respect, you're straightforward.
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  • Half the decisions you take which go wrong are because you did the wrong thing.
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  • There's no substitute for the work.
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  • Silence is really interesting because people do tend to feel that silence.
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  • You have to train and provide support.
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  • It's the thoughts you want, not necessarily other things.
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Key Moments

  • CEO-Chair Dynamics00:44
  • Conflict Management16:32
  • Building Rapport22:24
  • Risk Appetite Discussion30:10
  • NextGen Board Concept35:52
  • Diverse Boards39:28
  • Customer Insights42:50
  • Feedback Culture47:12

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