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Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode

June 08, 2022 / 42:12

This episode covers the tumultuous marriage of Charlie Stevens and Kirsten Stevens, focusing on themes of manipulation, financial motives, and murder. Key discussions include the couple's age difference, Kirsten's gambling addiction, and the events leading to Charlie's death.

Charlie Stevens, a Vietnam veteran, was married for 40 years before leaving his wife for Kirsten, who was 17 years younger. Friends and family were suspicious of Kirsten's intentions, believing she was after Charlie's money. Detective Chris Burus from the Independence, Missouri police department investigates the case.

Kirsten's gambling addiction led to financial strain in their marriage, causing conflicts between the couple. After discovering Charlie's life insurance policy, which named her as the beneficiary, Kirsten's motives became more questionable. She was overheard saying Charlie was worth more to her dead than alive.

On March 7, 2014, Charlie was found shot in their home, and Kirsten claimed it was a robbery. However, evidence suggested otherwise, leading investigators to suspect her involvement. The discovery of a .22 caliber rifle hidden in their home further implicated Kirsten.

Ultimately, Kirsten was arrested and charged with first-degree murder. During the trial, she claimed self-defense, but the jury found her guilty, sentencing her to life in prison without parole. The episode highlights the tragic consequences of greed and deception.

TLDR

Kirsten Stevens murdered her husband Charlie for financial gain after gambling away his savings.

Episode

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a 40-year marriage broken up when a rich man's head is turned by a younger woman
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the age gap struck me as odd she was younger than him she probably you know came on very
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strongly sexually she saw dollar signs and she seduced him friends of charlie stevens warned him
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everybody liked charlie and they all felt that kirsten was using him using him whilst he had money
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we interviewed a casino worker who overheard kirsten saying that charlie was worth more to her dead than alive
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we don't have very many women who kill i think kirsten's actions were a response to her wanting to continue her
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lifestyle she wanted to be mrs kirsten stevens as long as mr stevens could keep her in the manner to which she would
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become accustomed [Music] [Music] charlie stevens was almost the definition of a straight-up guy
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charlie had children with his wife and they had been married for quite some time
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and then you have this relationship his character is just the type that you know he was the type of guy to stay
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married forever he was the type of guy to work a job no matter what to provide for
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his family he was the type of guy to stay at a job for or a career for 40 years because
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that's the type of person that he was um he was a a vietnam veteran and just seemed to have a really good
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nice stable comfortable life then along came kirsten a woman with a plan they had met at um their place of work
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detective chris burus of the independence missouri police department he was in the pest control industry
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she's the new girl she's 17 years younger and kind of flirtatious and she thinks charlie's a catch so she
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really flirts and she really works it although kirsten had to work really hard to turn charles's head
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she did eventually i think kirsten represented excitement to him maybe a second chance at life
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maybe an adventure i think the fact that kirsten had this very rambunctious personality and was youthful
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and gave him all the attention the world made him feel good about himself and i think she knew exactly what he was
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looking for the straight-up father the doting grandfather still felt he had some life
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in him she gets charlie's attention and pretty soon the two of them are having an
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affair this affair um i guess you would say blossomed into a full-blown relationship
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before long it gets more and more serious and charlie decides to leave his wife of
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40 years and in 2005 charlie marries kirsten 57 year old charlie stevens had left
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sandy his wife of 40 years to make a new life with his younger co-worker his heartbroken sons brian and mike would
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one day tell police that they were deeply suspicious of kirsten's motives i don't believe that charlie's family
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liked kirsten probably because of how the relationship started it was after he married kirsten that he
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became estranged from the family and didn't have a lot of contact with him the the family all believed that she was
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kind of a parasite that she had married him for his money he saved his money and
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really um put together some some nice savings i can imagine charles's family must have
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thought whoa who is this woman that's come into his life that's taken him away from his his
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marriage while kirsten had charmed charlie his friends and family doubted that the
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woman he had married was a good person with good intentions it was not just the fact that she appeared to be after
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charlie's money i don't think that they liked her because of the way she treated people
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kristin's very manipulative if she didn't get what she wanted from you she would write you off you would be
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dead to her to look at kirsten stevens um her photograph says a lot she either had a very rough life or she's got a
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very interesting story to tell about where she came from it just she exudes something's up she just she has this
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image uh you know i mean she's almost got a perma scowl on her face um she just looks hardened she looks like
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she's had a rough life motivation perhaps to take what she could from wherever she could get it
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i think kirsten has always been very goal oriented and when she saw this man that she could
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probably take advantage of and lure even though he was already in a marriage i don't think it mattered to her
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forensic psychologist dr judy ho suspects that kirsten was always motivated by her husband's new money
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she saw dollar signs and she seduced him if charlie stevens had the same suspicions it didn't put him off in 2005
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the newlyweds made a home together on the outskirts of independence so the city of independence is
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approximately 120 000 uh population and we neighbor uh kansas city the area where charles and kirsten had lived was
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on the east part of town it would be considered a small town area uh the neighbors knew them some
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it's a pretty quiet town for neighboring uh to such a major city like kansas city
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kirsten and charlie's home was a wooden clad single story house on the sparsely
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populated tree-lined south jones road it's not uncommon to have the more violent crime on the western side of the
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city the eastern side you start to get more uh rural countryside and you just don't see those things
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after 40 years of responsibility and hard craft charlie was ready to enjoy the good life
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he's about ready to retire he's got a lot of money in the bank um he set himself up really well
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when he retired he had a decent sized pension kirsten was happy to enjoy the fruits of charlie's labor
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too she had a taste for the nightlife she gambled a lot uh her and charlie went to the boats uh and gambled quite a
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bit he doesn't gamble with her but he says that he likes to watch her gamble i can
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imagine she's probably very outgoing when she's in her element especially if
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she's on a winning streak it was all new and exciting for charlie who in his former life was more likely
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to go hunting or fishing than spin the roulette wheel but he soon discovered that his new wife liked more than a
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small wager she was a heavy gambler over time it becomes really clear that kirsten's hobby isn't just a hobby
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it's it's a compulsion she has a serious gambling problem gambling addiction is a diagnosable
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clinical condition in the dsm-5 and it's a really serious condition the dsm-5 is the standard classification
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of mental disorders used in the united states the individual has the same exact types
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of addictive mechanisms as they might when it's a substance abuse where they
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basically will do anything to get to their substance or process of choice at the expense of other things in their
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life at the expense of relationships other important life domains if charlie was unaware of kirsten's
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problem before their marriage he soon realized its extent afterwards and she spent all her time at the casino
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spending all of her new husbands money and maybe in the beginning it was actually exciting for him and he would
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go with her he didn't gamble but he would watch her but it was kind of this new world that he'd never been a part of
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and perhaps in the beginning it was even kind of fun for him but i think pretty soon he saw the depths of how bad it
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really got for kirsten he's saved all this money and she's burned through it at these casinos
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i think in some ways he understood especially because of their big age difference that kirsten was probably
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with him at least partly for his money i think there was probably a part of him that was afraid what would happen if he
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cut her off maybe she would leave maybe she would stop loving on him was charlie stevens keeping tabs on
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exactly how much his vivacious new wife was spending the riverboat casinos certainly were
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the casinos here keep records every win every loss every roll of the dice that kirsten had made laid out in
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stark black and white we were able to go back through casino records and from the period of 2006 to
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2013 there was about a million dollars that was spent at the casinos this was essentially charlie savings
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charlie's loved ones will forever wonder why he didn't simply refuse to hand over
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more money she basically put up with him as long as he was going to be her money bag
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i think kirsten's plan was to just carry on gambling her husband probably believed
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that if he continued to give her everything that she wanted then their relationship
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would get better kirsten had won big by marrying a man who could finance her every risky whim but when somebody has
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an addiction it's never enough and she just needed more and more over time she
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would have probably thought that the money would have just continued to flow but charlie's nest egg was all but gone
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charlie and kirsten had met married and planned to live out their years in comfort would their marriage
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survive when that dream crumbled eight years into their marriage kirsten and charlie were miserable now kirsten
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had gambled away most of his money charlie had taken on part-time work to help make ends meet as the money dried
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up he had to come out of retirement take a job at uh hardware store but money is
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still pretty tight and now the marriage is suffering as well neighbors uh frequently heard arguing
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coming from the house charlie's not happy kirsten's not happy carolyn canville is an emmy
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award-winning journalist with a special interest in crime and investigation they're behind on their taxes and now
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they have no choice they have to put up their house for sale in november of 2013.
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cash reserves very soon no home charlie's usefulness to kirsten was running out
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financial problems are so difficult for any couple to contend with even couples who seem very happy in the first place
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because it is a practical issue that affects how you live your life every single day and for kirsten it certainly
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got in the way of her being able to gamble the way that she wanted and have fun the way that she wanted so i can
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imagine a lot of conflict over that a lot of fights over it perhaps her even freezing him out until he was able to
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give her more money as the money had dwindled so did kirsten's commitment to her marriage
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there's no money left he doesn't have anything so she sets her sights on someone new we
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found out that she had had other lovers during her marriage was charlie their home on south jones road on the
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brink of being sold kirsten started packing up their belongings but as she did she made a discovery that changed
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everything while they were moving kirsten came across the life insurance policy where
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she was found to be the beneficiary and this kind of got her motivated you know here's a solution criminologist
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brian frederick believes that kirsten stevens shows all of the hallmarks of having a severe personality disorder
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female psychopaths are actually more interested in money and finances and funding their lifestyle when kirsten
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stevens found charlie's life insurance policy the path out of her financial troubles suddenly seemed clear he would
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need to die for her to collect on that life insurance policy he's named her as
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the beneficiary bless him he's got to go people often think that psychopaths are
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clever and cunning this is not the case with with kirsten we believe that this is what really pushed her to the point
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where charlie was worth more to her you know dead than a lot kirsten may have made a plan but could
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she execute it if she was to do so she would have to learn to do something she had so far found tough
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being discreet we interviewed a casino worker who overheard kirsten saying that charlie
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was worth more to her dead than alive none of the people she said this to really took it too serious and after
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the events took place people thought oh yeah these were red flags at this point the the only way for her to get more
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money to fund her lifestyle is if he dies well she's not going to ask him to die
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she has to do it herself written off by those who heard her as the brash words of a frustrated wife was
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she really at the beginning of a plot to kill charlie stevens being forced out of their home became a
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turning point on the 7th of march 2014 they're just about to hand over the keys to their
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house around 8 o'clock in the morning kirsten gets the call from the buyer he wants to come and take a look at the
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place so the new owner of the house knocked on the door that morning introduced himself
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said hey i own the house as she's giving a tour of the house to the new owner he looks into the master
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bedroom and sees a man lying in bed and she describes him as that being her father so they don't go
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in that room i think she was just trying to identify him as an uninvolved party with
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the house it was not kirsten's father but her husband charlie we're actually believed that he was
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still alive at that time but actually asleep in the bed because it was fairly early in the morning when this man came
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to look at the house later that day kirsten went out for a while when she returned a dramatic scene
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unfolded at 816 south jones road about a little after seven that evening kirsten returns home moments later she
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stumbled out onto the street kirsten was hysterically screaming they killed him and she seemed to be inconsolable
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kirsten goes running to the neighbors help me help me the phone call that came in to our 911 operator was a call that
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described a home invasion and that the one of the residents was possibly deceased inside
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within minutes first responders were on the scene meanwhile kirsten is just in hysterics
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and you know the neighbors are all around her and she's saying oh my god oh my god you know she says i was gone all
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day and i came home and and he's dead i was sent to the scene after the initial patrol officers responded taking
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the lead on a murder investigation was a relatively new experience for detective
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chris burus obviously any type of death homicide is tragic however i was looking forward to
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digging in deep and finding out what was going on so it was dark when we got there
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um this this scene had been roped off with crime scene tape we had officers doing scene security
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inside the home a grizzly spectacle awaited that charlie was lying in bed he was
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covered up and it and it looks like he was shot when he was sleeping and he still actually still holding on
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to his sheets he was shot in the chin in the chest and the abdomen there were five shots that were fired in the room
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two of them went into the wall and the other three went into charlie 65 year old husband father and
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grandfather charlie stevens lay dead in his bed former homicide detective rod demery
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knows the subtle clues that burus and his team would have been looking for they would look for
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signs of a struggle maybe there was a fight something knocked over they looked for bruises or defensive
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wounds to see if there was some sort of struggle or was this a complete surprise
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ambush there were no defensive wounds it looked as though charlie had been shot as he lay sleeping
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this struck investigators as surprising mrs stevens had told the police that it was a robbery that what she
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believed i guess the first part of some of our suspicions were that charlie was lying in bed he was covered up
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if this was a home invasion he posed no threat to the said burglar why would you kill him
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could charlie stevens really have been killed in a robbery gone wrong a few things are kind of in disarray
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maybe a lamp knocked over here and you know something out of place there but when they ask her what has been taken
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she can't really pinpoint anything one of the the first things you're going to
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look for is how someone got inside the house so from the moment they walk into the house
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you're going to be looking for signs of fourth century then they're gonna look
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for signs of fourth century into the bedroom it looks like a staged robbery nothing has been taken there's no sign
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of forced entry uh the the locks on the doors and the outer gates are not disturbed police didn't really believe
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that it didn't look like a robbery jackson county prosecutor michael j hunt worked with police on the case from day
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one uh they investigate enough robberies to know what a robbery looks like and that
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didn't look like one so right from the back they're looking at this as as pretty suspicious
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while assessing the scene cops were also trying to read kirsten stephens reaction
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to the sudden death of her husband on the phone to emergency services she had been hysterical
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while there's no true way that everyone grieves and grieving is different for
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everyone it does appear that her reactions in the aftermath of her husband's death was a bit histrionic it
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was a bit over the top but just minutes later kirsten seemed eerily calm when the police first arrived that was
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one of the first things they noticed that she wasn't acting like a woman who's had her husband murdered in his
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bed she wasn't crying like crazy she just wasn't exhibiting the emotions
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that you would expect from somebody who is in that situation i think it was easy for her to
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compartmentalize her needs and to kind of set aside who she really was on the inside to present a a front that would
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get her what she wants from the very beginning of detective burus's investigation he suspected that nothing
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about the crime was as it seemed the night of uh things were not adding up the police didn't really believe her
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from the get-go [Music] late on march 7 2014 kirsten accompanied police to the station in downtown
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independence it would be a long night treading carefully detective buress probed the couple's background their
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lifestyle and the events of the last 12 hours it's always difficult too because when
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you have the spouse of somebody that's just been killed do you want to accuse them of things that you're not
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sure of yet kirsten was ready with a plausible answer for every question she gave us
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a statement about her being out a majority of the day that she had been to the mall that she
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had been to the casinos everywhere but home honestly she said that she came home found her
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husband in bed bleeding and then ran across the street and called 9-1-1 she talked about the guns that were in
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the house they had recovered at that point two shotguns and he clearly wasn't
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shot with a shotgun i always got those feelings when and talking to her that just something was
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not right i couldn't necessarily put my finger on it um i guess you would call
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it a gut reaction gut instinct kirsten's account was confident coherent but how much of it was true when you're
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talking to somebody you can kind of just tell that they're not being forthcoming
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with you or they have something that's weighing heavily on their mind there were plenty of other voices that
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night echoing detective beerus's doubts about kirsten we spoke with kirsten we spoke with her
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son charlie's stepson we spoke with her son-in-law and her daughter and then they started branching out
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talking to the neighbors they started talking to all the acquaintances that the stevens knew
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i think it's fair to say that on charlie's side of the family they they had their suspicions that kirsten was
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involved in kirsten's detailed responses to cops she had left out some crucial facts that
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she and charlie were stressed constantly arguing that they were facing financial
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ruin only as investigators interviewed friends and family did that information emerge
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the couple's fighting a lot they're screaming the neighbors can sometimes
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hear them fighting they found out that the house itself had been sold for back taxes uh
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the end of the year before but the couple is really in dire straits so of course she became my person of
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interest at that point if anyone had a motive to kill charlie stevens it was his wife but at this
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stage there were too many questions unanswered early on in these homicide investigations we always try to keep an
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open mind because we don't want to miss anything i recall thinking that we have
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to look at this from all angles we have to look at this like a home invasion we have to look at this
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as an intimate partner killing we have to look at all those options police didn't wait long for a
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breakthrough the very next day march 8 2014 charlie stevens autopsy confirmed that he had been shot with a 22 caliber
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rifle shell casings found in his bedroom floor from the same kind of firearm in her
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first interview kirsten had failed to tell detectives that she and charlie owned just such a gun
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there was a 22 caliber rifle that she made no mention of when they questioned her further uh then
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she made mention that she had forgotten about the long gun police still hadn't
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found the long gun when they were talking to her on the seventh in the very early morning hours of the eighth
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the rifle was the rosetta stone of this case um had that not been found i don't think we're where we're at today
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i think maybe potentially we have an unsolved homicide on the 8th of march armed with a warrant
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officers returned to kirsten and charlie's home investigators go back to the scene and
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they search further and during that search they find a 22 caliber rifle hid beneath this jacuzzi
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the person that found that detective sergeant jason young had been a former narcotics investigator and when
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he did searches he did searches in the main bathroom of the stephen's home the luxury bathtub was concealing
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what would turn out to be as good as a smoking gun uh he found the access panel and our minds are blown they opened up
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the panel and here is this long gun this long 22 rifle hidden away inside this jacuzzi tub
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we're like what is a rifle doing in there we take the rifle as evidence have it tested
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they swabbed it for dna and they also did ballistic tests on it detectives had a tense seven-week wait
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for the results of those tests in the meantime kirsten's alibi was being checked out
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she gave a detailed explanation of where she had been that day and where she had
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gone she'd gone to the mall that day she had gone to the casinos that required
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you know the review of video surveillance tapes review of records review of cell phone records
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her phone did not you know give them the gps coordinates of where she said she was she said she was at a sears door the
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video at the sears store was collected they watched every minute of that and she was never on it she said she went to
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a a casino and as we all know casinos have very good video they didn't have her on it
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she was a well-known gambler there her card was not used at this casino those were things that she didn't count
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on us doing they were able to with gps tracking of her phone and video they could prove that she was nowhere
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near where she said she was what investigators did discover when they visited those casinos was how much
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money kirsten had blown on gambling during the course of her marriage to charlie
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it's very unusual you're talking in excess of a hundred thousand dollars a
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year spent at the casinos through that time period she had a gambling problem and she had
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essentially had gambled all of charlie's money away step by step investigators were building
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a picture of a desperate woman addicted to gambling with a husband who no longer
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had the cash to feed her habit a husband who was also no longer of any use to her
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i think kirsten's primary motivation as it had been from day one was financial and i don't really think
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she saw him as a person in fact she had been heard saying that he was worth more
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to her dead than alive it was apparent that she was with charlie for only one thing and that was his
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money it was a theory but could the evidence be found to prove it part of the investigation we conducted
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searches of the computers in the home on kirsten's ipad investigators find some interesting searches they find that
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she has searched for how to kill your spouse huge red flags obviously there were searches for
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how to cut break lines how to stay in a sexless marriage and she's pulled up kelly blue book
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values and has listed in there the two vehicles that charlie and she own clever individuals would probably delete
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their browsing histories she didn't her skills at planning were very underdeveloped if this were a motion
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picture we'd be why did you just do that you know but this is the person that
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kirsten stevens is now police have collected quite a bit of evidence all of it pointing to kirsten
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a month later they call her in for questioning again presented with all of this kirsten
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stevens continued to deny having anything to do with her husband's death she insisted that he had died in a
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botched robbery she gives some more statements and they contradict her earlier statements so
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clearly the case is building against her i remember talking with the prosecutor several times i'm like when are we going
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to charge her this is what you would call a circumstantial case there was a lot of police work that had
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to be done before we believed we had enough to charge her with uh charlie's murder
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i would say that when you take a case to a jury you have to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt to
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12 jurors in that room i think in any case the discovery of evidence is is key but
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in in this case it was ultra important detectives got one step closer to proving their case in may 2014 when
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results arrived from the forensic ballistics lab about the 22-caliber gun found hidden in kirsten's bathroom
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the ballistic test came back first saying that this in fact was the murder weapon the shell casings that were
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recovered in charlie's bedroom were fired from the 22 long rifle the bullets that had killed charlie
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stevens were fired from the 22 caliber rifle it was a remarkable breakthrough followed by another weight this time for
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the kansas city police crime lab which was processing the swab taken from the rifle
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it wasn't until later that the dna came back the dna came back to christian stevens
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kirsten's dna and there is no other dna on that only kerstins so the circle is narrowing here she
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thought she was clever and that's why she left it under the jacuzzi tub behind
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an access panel thinking that we would come to the scene do our investigation and be done with it
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and say oh it's a home invasion we don't have any suspects we'll go about our
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merit wait but that's not how we do things you know that that was in june when the
00:31:05
dna results came back the balance was tipping from circumstantial evidence to hard proof
00:31:12
all the signs were pointing to the fact that kirsten stevens had killed her husband but kirsten stevens was not
00:31:18
prepared to give up the fight just yet she had actually kept in contact with the police
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she even called in at one point trying to give them another suspect in june 2014 police and prosecutors
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decided it was time to bring charges in the death of charlie stevens we had the evidence from the gun we had
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the dna on the gun we believe we had the motive uh for her crime we believe we had enough uh there was a arrest warrant
00:31:58
that was issued for her kirsten made a last-ditch attempt to stay out of jail once the police started coming up to the
00:32:05
house to actually arrest her she took off running at the time she was out at her
00:32:11
daughter's house and the police went out to that residence they sat up on it
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kind of half believing that she might run and in fact she did she didn't get
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very far they tricked her down and took her into custody kirsten stevens had tried everything to
00:32:28
evade justice lies deception even escape was justice finally about to catch up with her
00:32:35
on the 6th of june now we're talking three months after charlie was murdered kirsten is arrested and charged
00:32:44
with her husband's murder when she was arrested on the warrant she didn't talk uh we got no further
00:32:50
statements from her at that point she exercised her rights and didn't speak to
00:32:54
the police if mr hunt was hoping for a confession at this point he was to be disappointed
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she pleads not guilty she knows the evidence is stacked against her but kristin's a gambler so what the heck
00:33:10
it appeared she was kind of nervous but uh i don't think she was uh worried too
00:33:14
much i think she thought she could talk her way out of this kirsten was charged with first-degree
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murder and armed criminal action on october 1st 2016 in the dying days of a hot humid kansas summer she stood up in
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the jackson county courthouse to proclaim her innocence it was the prosecutor's task to prove to
00:33:33
the jury that kirsten was lying we went into the case thinking that it was going
00:33:37
to be a whodunit that we were going to have to prove our case as a circumstantial case whenever you close a
00:33:42
case like this and it's charged and you're waiting for your day in court you
00:33:46
always have questions about yourself as an investigator did i do this did i not do this should i have done this better
00:33:53
you know we didn't have a confession we had a gun we had a lot of good circumstantial evidence
00:33:58
but it was not a case that you would say this is a slam dunk case uh not to mention the fact that you've got
00:34:06
a female defendant who juries tend to give the benefit of the doubt to but as the trial got underway kirsten's
00:34:13
defense team dropped a bombshell she was no longer claiming that her husband had
00:34:18
been the victim of a trigger-happy burglar it was a date that she testified on her
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behalf in court where she admitted that she shot charlie yes she had shot him but she was arguing
00:34:31
now that she had to she was in fear for her life she got on the stand and she said it was
00:34:38
self-defense she said that you know charlie had abused her had beaten her uh she made the claim that the gun was
00:34:46
underneath the bed and that charlie was beating her and you know she got the gun
00:34:52
and was pointing it up and shooting charlie as he stood on the bed over her and he fell to the bed
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suddenly prosecutor michael j hunt's job had become much tougher we knew we had
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one issue that was going to be proving deliberation which is cool reflection upon the matter for any
00:35:11
length of time no matter how brief that was what we had to do to get a jury to convict her of murder in the first
00:35:18
degree and that was my biggest you know worry that i wasn't going to be able to
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overcome that if kirsten could persuade the jury that she had acted in the heat of the moment
00:35:28
to protect herself they would clear her of first degree murder but mr hunt had cold hard evidence on his side and a
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defendant nobody in the courtroom seemed to find credible she gave a depiction of how the crime
00:35:43
occurred that just didn't match the physical evidence my first thought was i was going to be
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very nice with her and i didn't want the jury to think i was beating up on her
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because i'm about a foot taller than her and you tend to you know worry the juries are going to
00:35:58
think well here's this big guy beating up on her well that changed kirsten claimed that she had shot
00:36:05
charlie as he stood over her and that then he had fallen onto the bed you know i put up a couple of pictures of him
00:36:11
laying in bed trying to show the jury how ridiculous what she said it looked like he had been in bed asleep
00:36:18
when he was shot the covers were up and he was clenching the sheets we started off very calm and i was just
00:36:26
kind of pointing out the inconsistencies in her story and then it just became obvious that we
00:36:32
were going to have a knock down drag out you know brawl here right there in the courtroom and we did
00:36:38
we were going back very hot and heavy i even got i was laying down on the floor with the gun holding it up showing how
00:36:45
ridiculous it was what she was saying the way charlie's body was positioned and the location of the gunshot wounds
00:36:53
suggested kirsten's version of events was a complete fabrication in fact over several months of
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questioning by detectives she had had ample opportunity to claim that her late husband was abusive one of the things
00:37:06
that we do in cases like this is we we ask are you the victim of abuse when we key
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in on domestic violence related issues we ask those questions because i think it's pertinent to the case we asked her
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are you a victim of abuse was charlie doing anything to you and she never took the bait um she never
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she never once said that he was abusive towards her the one thing about charlie is that you
00:37:35
know everybody who spoke of him just talked about him being just a nice guy uh who would just do anything for you
00:37:43
you could and ms stevens tried to paint him as this ogre who was just a horrible person to her
00:37:51
would yell at her and scream at her and just that was not the charlie that anybody
00:37:57
else knew that was more like what kristen stevens was kirsten stevens struggled to convince
00:38:04
the court that she was an innocent victim the jury just hated her they really did
00:38:09
when she got on the stand you know she made us so many mistakes that it just really pretty much handed
00:38:16
the case to us kirsten's motive had always been financial it was apparent that she was with
00:38:22
charlie for only one thing and that was his money and once his money was gone that was why
00:38:30
she killed him once the money started to dry up she realized that the only way that she could continue to make her
00:38:37
lifestyle happen was to dip in on his accounts and perhaps life insurance and anything else that would be an asset
00:38:43
only after his death yeah she had a lot to gain she believed that that was the last part
00:38:49
that she was going to be able to get from charlie was his insurance after she was arrested and put in jail she fought
00:38:57
hard to get that insurance money she's trying to get the insurance money knowing good and well that she killed
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him it is a scenario that forensic psychologists like judy howe have come across countless times
00:39:09
particularly when they murder their loved ones female murderers generally have a financial motive more
00:39:16
often than male murderers i don't think she saw a person there when she saw him several times i think
00:39:22
she just saw the dollar signs just like she did when she first met him motive established self-defense claims
00:39:29
debunked it was now down to the jury to decide if they trusted kirsten stevens when when the jury went out yeah we i
00:39:37
was pretty confident that we had a conviction you're never sure if you've
00:39:40
got murder 1 or murder in the second degree the deliberation is always the tricky
00:39:45
part but we felt pretty good about it much better than what we did when we first started the trial before she
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testified on october 5th 2016 kirsten stevens is found guilty in the murder of her
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husband guilty of first-degree murder and armed criminal action once the jury comes back with the guilty
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verdict on both the murder and the armed criminal action uh it was a good feeling
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and i think that was the best vindication not for myself not for my team but for charlie and charlie's family
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she was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole life without parole for murder plus 50
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years for armed criminal action with the murder in the first degree there's only one punishment and that's
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life in prison without parole but the jury at the point of sentencing for the armed criminal action
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that kind of tells us a little bit of what they feel about mrs stevens it is a little unusual for them to send someone
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to 50 years that's a long time and i think they were making a statement with
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it uh i think they didn't like her you know it's ironic because kirsten was the gambler right
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but charlie he's the one who bet it all and he lost he lost his stable marriage
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he lost his savings he lost his house and eventually he lost his life [Music] [Music]
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Episode Highlights

  • A Marriage Torn Apart
    Charlie Stevens leaves his wife of 40 years for a younger woman, Kirsten.
    “Charlie marries Kirsten, leaving his family heartbroken.”
    @ 03m 37s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Gambling Addiction
    Kirsten's gambling addiction spirals out of control, straining their marriage.
    “Kirsten's hobby isn't just a hobby; it's a compulsion.”
    @ 07m 45s
    June 08, 2022
  • A Chilling Discovery
    Kirsten finds a life insurance policy that changes everything.
    “Charlie was worth more to her dead than alive.”
    @ 12m 29s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Night of the Murder
    Kirsten returns home to find Charlie dead, claiming it was a robbery.
    “Kirsten was hysterically screaming, 'They killed him!'”
    @ 15m 26s
    June 08, 2022
  • Suspicion Arises
    Detectives begin to doubt Kirsten's story after observing her behavior.
    “She wasn't acting like a woman who's had her husband murdered.”
    @ 19m 31s
    June 08, 2022
  • Kirsten's Financial Motive
    Kirsten's primary motivation for killing Charlie was financial gain.
    “It was apparent that she was with Charlie for only one thing and that was his money.”
    @ 27m 36s
    June 08, 2022
  • Kirsten's Arrest
    Kirsten Stevens was arrested and charged with her husband's murder after months of investigation.
    “Kirsten was charged with first-degree murder and armed criminal action.”
    @ 33m 17s
    June 08, 2022
  • Trial and Conviction
    Kirsten Stevens was found guilty of first-degree murder and sentenced to life in prison.
    “On October 5th, 2016, Kirsten Stevens is found guilty in the murder of her husband.”
    @ 39m 57s
    June 08, 2022

Episode Quotes

  • Kirsten represented excitement to him, maybe a second chance at life.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode
  • She was a heavy gambler; over time it becomes really clear.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode
  • She has to do it herself.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode
  • Kirsten was charged with first-degree murder and armed criminal action.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode
  • Kirsten's motive had always been financial.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode
  • Kirsten was the gambler right, but Charlie's the one who bet it all and lost.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 32 - Stephens - Full Episode

Key Moments

  • Marriage Breakdown00:05
  • Affair Begins03:19
  • Murder Discovery15:26
  • Investigation Begins20:00
  • Suspicion Grows22:24
  • Financial Strain22:38
  • Evidence Found24:44
  • Trial Begins34:13

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