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Murder in Mind

October 15, 2025 / 01:59

This episode discusses Brian Kohi's childhood in Grand Junction, Colorado, his family dynamics, and his experiences with autism. Kellen Pyer, a former classmate, shares insights about their community and Brian's upbringing.

Kellen Pyer reflects on growing up in the Redlands area of Grand Junction, where he met Brian at Broadway Elementary. He describes the supportive nature of their neighborhood and how families interacted with one another.

The episode highlights Brian's family background, noting that his mother ran a daycare while his father worked in construction. It mentions the separation of his parents and how Brian primarily lived with his mother but often visited his father's home.

Kellen observes Brian's unusual mannerisms in elementary school, including exaggerated movements and loud speech. He mentions that Brian's mother reported his mild autism and sought help for him from an early age.

The discussion touches on Brian's social awareness, with Kellen noting that he often pushed social boundaries, which may have been a way for him to seek attention.

TLDR

Kellen Pyer reflects on Brian Kohi's childhood, family dynamics, and experiences with autism in Grand Junction, Colorado.

Episode

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Brian, since he was a small child, had grown up in the Grand Junction community. His family lived out in the
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Redlands area, which is a nice upper middle income area of our town. >> My name is Kellen Pyer. I'm a former
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classmate of Brian Kohi. I grew up here in Grand Junction. When I was about 8, we moved up to the Redlands. Um, and
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that's when I started going to Broadway Elementary, which is where I met Brian.
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Brian lived in a similar part of the Redlands to me. All the people knew each other. It was very nice living there.
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You always kind of felt supported. You kind of felt like you knew all your neighbors. It always felt like you could
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always reach out for help. People often brought each other cookies, treats for the holidays. So, it felt very, you
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know, tightknit. >> Brian Khi's family seemed normal. They seemed like they had normal, steady
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jobs. His mom ran a daycare out of the basement of our home. His father worked in
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construction. His parents were separating. And they were living in two homes, not
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very far from each other. He lived primarily with his mother, but he frequented his father's home.
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>> Brian's mannerisms in elementary school were a little bit uh strange. He seemed
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to exaggerate his movements a little bit. He spoke very loud, often times would over pronunciate his words.
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>> Brian Kohi's mother was reporting that he had mild autism. From the time he was
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very little, she was reaching out for help, trying to have him assessed, and trying to get him the right help.
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>> I would definitely say that Brian seemed to lack social awareness. Um, often
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times it felt like he didn't necessarily know where bounds were supposed to be or
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maybe he felt like pushing on those bounds was the best way to get attention.

Episode Highlights

  • A Tight-Knit Community
    Kellen reminisces about the supportive nature of the Grand Junction community.
    “It always felt like you could always reach out for help.”
    @ 00m 42s
    October 15, 2025
  • Brian's Unique Mannerisms
    Kellen notes Brian's exaggerated movements and loud speech in elementary school.
    @ 01m 19s
    October 15, 2025
  • Brian's Autism Diagnosis
    Brian's mother sought help for his mild autism from a young age.
    @ 01m 32s
    October 15, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • It always felt like you could always reach out for help.
    Murder in Mind
  • Brian seemed to lack social awareness.
    Murder in Mind

Key Moments

  • Childhood in Redlands00:03
  • Community Support00:42
  • Family Dynamics01:04
  • Social Challenges01:46