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Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode

June 08, 2022 / 42:59

This episode covers the tragic case of Manling Sang Williams, who murdered her husband Neil and their two young sons in 2007. Key discussions include the psychological factors behind familicide, the couple's troubled marriage, and the events leading to the murders.

Manling Sang Williams, of Taiwanese descent, had a difficult upbringing and struggled with her identity as a mother. Her relationship with Neil Williams, a kind-hearted man from Whittier, California, deteriorated over the years due to financial stress and personal dissatisfaction.

In August 2007, after a series of arguments and a brief affair, Manling smothered her two children, Ian and Devin, before brutally stabbing Neil with a samurai sword. The police discovered the gruesome scene, leading to Manling's arrest.

During the investigation, inconsistencies in Manling's accounts raised suspicions. Evidence, including a blood-stained cigarette pack found in her car, ultimately led to her confession. The trial revealed her premeditated actions and the psychological turmoil she experienced.

In 2012, Manling was sentenced to death for her crimes, with the judge condemning her actions as selfish and heartless. She remains on death row at the California Central Women's Facility.

TLDR

Manling Sang Williams murdered her husband and two sons in 2007, driven by dissatisfaction and a desire for freedom.

Episode

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a young mother arrives home one morning to a scene of carnage even some of the most seasoned
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detectives were just shocked when they saw brutal i mean really brutal manling sang had stumbled upon her whole
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family slain but to cops her response didn't add up crying one minute but then acting like
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everything was a joke the next how much of manling's story is true she said that
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when she left the house at around 4 am she left the door unlocked who was responsible for murder in an la suburb a
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jealous ex an unknown intruder or a killer much closer to home [Music] [Music] [Music]
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according to statistics in western societies so-called family annihilators are most likely to be white males in
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their 30s family annihilators are are driven to kill their family in an act known as familicide
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95 of family annihilators are male and in half of cases after they've murdered
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their family they then go on to take their own life men when they commit this act it's
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typically for egotistical reasons men who kill their families might have failed financially
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they might think their wife has betrayed the family and so must be punished everything from a man being so
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crazily obsessed and jealous that his girlfriend or wife is out at night and when she comes home he's beat the
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baby to death it's a pretty bizarre phenomena they start to blame the child for the behavior of
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the other person in their relationship i've never personally worked a case where
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someone just killed their child without having some sort of rage with the other party
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pretty sick people some of whom decide their family isn't the status symbol that they hope they
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would be such are the typical cases of familicide but every now and then a case of
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familicide comes along which breaks all of the conventions and that's what happened in roland
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heights los angeles county on august the 7th 2007 with mandling known as ling sang
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at the heart of tragic events she didn't have rage against her children she might have seen them as an
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impediment to her future goals or future plans during the hot dry summer of 1999 in the
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eastern suburbs of los angeles california two shy teenagers crossed paths for the first time
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neil had been talked into going a friend talked him into going to a performance of the rocky
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horror picture show and that's where he meets manling neil williams a student who worked
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part-time at a fast food restaurant had been raised in a close loving single-parent family in the photogenic
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town of whittier neil williams was just kind of one of those nice guys that you don't necessarily remember from
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school he grew up with his mother jan and his sister mala in the los angeles county
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he was described as somewhat of a geek he and his mom jan were very much alike she says
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she says that they were both geeky they both liked star wars a lot uh computer gaming
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quoting monty python and he liked to collect things particularly had kind of an obsession with collecting unusual
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swords uh samurai type swords manling sang had a less harmonious relationship with her parents
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men ling sang of taiwanese descent she was born also in the l.a county area and grew up there
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she had a more difficult ride she had a learning disability and so that made it kind of rough in school and you can
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imagine that she wouldn't have enjoyed her school years this much [Music] i think when children have a difficult
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time growing up maybe a difficult time being accepted possibly even being bullied made to feel unloved
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it's really hard to get your footing in life forensic psychologist dr judy ho
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believes what manding experienced during her formative years could well have shaped her personality
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and not for the better it's really hard to feel good about yourself to believe that you deserve
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good things and to have good decision-making i think when those types of adverse factors happen in your
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childhood sometimes it makes it more difficult for you to not not be narcissistic when you're an adult to
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think about other people and the good of others this was not a side of herself that she
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showed to the young man she met at the movies in 1999 and mandling a meal both on the fringes
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of their peer groups for different reasons hit it off neo was probably just your your textbook
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geek i'm thinking that saying williams was not so much a geek as she was awkward
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uh as as a result of her upbringing i think neil and manly gravitated toward one another because they needed one
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another their kindred spirits in many ways they were both a little bit of an outcast and they got to geek out
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together over things that they mutually enjoyed and bonded over and he's really
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never met anyone like her before and he just thinks she's just amazing she's
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beautiful and she's smart and she's funny and manly and neil become an item
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and they start dating the young couple was smitten but their days of being carefree and unencumbered
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were few a missed period unexplained nausea a trip to the drugstore and confirmation of the news that brought
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their youthful happy-go-lucky relationship to something of an abrupt end before long
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uh menling is pregnant so in 2000 she gives birth to a baby boy and the couple do sort of a rush marriage
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it didn't seem like it was planned and they kind of got thrown into marriage as
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a result they go to the county courthouse and they get married and then they plan and have later
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a more formal wedding in a taiwanese church the big formal wedding with all the friends and family
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they were just 21 years old it was a rocky start to married life let's not forget they married at a young
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age there was no support from her family for that marriage in fact they were scandalized by it
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but neil and manling were in love and with the optimism of youth they were certain they could make a go of things
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in some ways i think they were each other saving grace i think they saw each other at that time during their young
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age as a way towards a better life and it explains why they would rush towards marriage at such an early age perhaps
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even before they really understood what marriage would be about i think their relationship escalated so quickly and
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advanced so quickly because they were all that the other person had at the time the newlyweds heard something to prove
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they wanted to show their families that they could cope that the marriage hadn't
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been a mistake a couple years later the couple has a second child a little boy again
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to everybody else this looks like kind of the picture-perfect marriage the couple seems to be happy the children
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are happy the young family moved to a condo in the 18200 block of camino bello roland
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heights an area known to the local taiwanese immigrant community as little taipei
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manling and neil rented the apartment from mandling's parents who run a business in the area
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she's working as a waitress she's doing pretty well with her tips her husband is
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working at a amusement park at disney amusement park and it's great for him because he's that fun-loving geek he's
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still kind of a just a big kid they put on a good show for family and friends but playing at being grown-ups
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was not easy i think it's so difficult to have children when you're still young and
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you're still a child yourself in many ways and you're still developing and all
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of a sudden now having all these responsibilities where you have to take care of others
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and you can't think about your own interests and needs and goals and you have to already put the needs of your
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children ahead of yours and i think that was probably a struggle for both of them
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very quickly manling realized she wanted more from life menling is not happy with
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where they're living she wants a house instead of this little apartment she wants to be able to spend more money
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and they don't have that much pretty early on in the marriage ben ling and neil are having financial
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difficulties they're struggling to to make ends meet he's not bringing in as
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much money and meddling pressures him so in 2006 he quits his job at the amusement park and at her urging he
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takes a course and tries to learn to sell life insurance but he's not really much of a salesman
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so it's not going so well and that job doesn't last neil really struggled with
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holding down jobs manly ended up having to work full-time manning increased her hours at the
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restaurant where she waited tables while neil gave up working together to become a full-time stay-at-home dad
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for him it was the ideal scenario he loves being with the kids he loves being a dad it's perfect for him and
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then in his spare time he can play video games manling though was left feeling like she got the raw deal
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neil basically regressed into a child when he became the stay-at-home father and manling continued to work full-time
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he basically just stayed home never cleaned the house didn't really cook menling is
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really desperately unhappy she's working as a waitress and she's really had it
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with her husband neil because she will come home from work and while neil was a good dad he was a pretty terrible
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housekeeper and the place is always a mess six years into her marriage mrs williams
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had begun to wonder if she was cut out to be a wife or a mother she's kind of had it with being a mom
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she hadn't really bonded with her children and they were part of the cause for her unhappiness
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was there any way out of what she thought was a miserable life one that she had made for herself
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who knew but the seeds of a horrific story had just been sown by the spring of 2007 neil and manling
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williams marriage was on the rocks so the couple is now six years seven years into their
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marriage and they're fighting all the time i'm in loud fights as their relationship deteriorated it was
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reported that they'd have these huge arguments and screaming matches back and forth sometimes the
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neighbors can hear them screaming it's pretty clear that things aren't going
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well it was around this time that maddling sang williams first raised the idea of a
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divorce neil i think it's time to really get serious i want a divorce neil says no
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there's no way my parents got divorced i don't want that i don't want that for us
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i don't want that for our kids so he's resisting she's unhappy so the couple stayed together but in
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manling's mind the marriage was all but over i think when manley started to think
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about this relationship as being over wanting to divorce wanting to leave neil i think the more she talked about it the
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more resolute she became in this decision i think the more she talked about it she decided that this had to
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happen one way or another i don't think that she was thinking maybe there's a
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way to work around this it wasn't just her marriage she was disillusioned with manling's young sons
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were beginning to feel like a millstone around her neck she's kind of had it with being a mom
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kids are getting a little older they're not as cute and cuddly as they were when
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they were babies it definitely seemed like manly had a hard time bonding with her children and it may be that there
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was a part of her that resented having them in the first place maybe she could have bonded with them better but she
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just didn't want to and she didn't want to become more invested in them because
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if she did then she would have to even spend more time in her life dedicating herself to her children's needs and so i
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think it was a conscious effort to not get closer to her family you know it sounds like manling had this feeling
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that she things were just beyond her control that she really didn't have a say in in much of what had happened to
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her life she told her friends that she felt like she was rushed into this marriage
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because she got pregnant and suddenly now she has two young children and she's
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a housewife and working as a waitress and and she never wanted that life manling
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may have struggled with motherhood and neil may not have been the provider his wife wanted him to be but there was
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somebody else in their life who was happy to pick up the slack neil's mother jan
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she and her son were so close and once he was married manling was like a daughter to her and she was very
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supportive of the two of them she helped them out financially when they needed she was very close to the
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children she was just the most wonderful grandmother loves spending time with her
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two little grandsons years later jan williams would recount a memory that continued to haunt her
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she remembers this one night where she was caring for her two little grandsons and little ian asked her to sing one of
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his favorite songs puff the magic dragon so she starts singing it and in the middle of it devin stops her and he says
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no stop i'm scared and she says why why are you scared and he said because the
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song says the dragon lives forever but not so little boys and she laughs and she says
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honey that just means that little boys grow up to be grown-ups and they don't
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need their toys anymore though just seven years old the little boy's question to his grandmother jan
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would turn out to be eerily prophetic she says that song now comes back to haunt her
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she says i told him he'd be safe in his bed and he wasn't that was in the spring of 2007. by the
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early summer manning had begun to rebel against the situation that she found herself in acting in many ways as though
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the last six or seven years had simply never happened she was spending a lot of her off time partying
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with her friends going out drinking instead of being a mother june of 2007 manling gets on myspace which was the
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hot place to be before facebook arrived manling discovers an old flame and she's intrigued so menling and her
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old flame and her friends from high school all get together they're out having a
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wonderful time having drinks talking remembering the good old days manling feels free like she hasn't in years a
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few days later she asked her mother-in-law jan to take care of the two little boys because she had to go to
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santa barbara for work imagine asking your mother-in-law to watch your kids so that you can go
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out and cheat on her son with some other guy but that's just what meddling has
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done so she gets to santa barbara and she gives her old boyfriend a call and she says hey i'm in town
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why don't we get together so they actually met up and during that weekend they had sexual
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relations manling sang williams a wife and mother had crossed the line she sees this life unfolding before her
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she can just imagine being with him and not having to deal with with being a housewife and and kids and all of that
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that goes with it and the messy house and she's so enthralled with this guy and he says you know menling um
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you're married i don't i don't feel right about this if you want to have a relationship you have
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to get out of the one you're in the affair came to nothing but manling still only in her 20s had got a taste
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for what life could be like if she was once again free and single i don't think that manly was actually
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looking to be with the man she had a brief fling with it was very brief and i think that was just her acting out
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because she was unhappy in her life i think that it gave her a taste of what freedom could feel like
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that summer los angeles county was hit by drought during the long hot nights manling sang
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williams struggled to sleep manling is just seriously unhappy and she's having trouble sleeping and
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she tells her sister that she's having this recurring nightmare she dreams that she comes home to find
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her whole family dead and that she commits suicide manling confided in her sister that in
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other dreams neil had murdered their little boys before taking his own life it begins to look like either she really
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is coming apart and she's building this in her own imagination or she's actually
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plotting what's about to happen the fact that madeline was basically fantasizing
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in her dreams about neil being dead i think there was a blurring of reality versus
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fantasy i think in her mind she probably thought this would be the cleanest way to go
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had manling begun to plan her escape from the family the family she had come to resent
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she really looked at her husband as a reason for all of her suffering because she needed to pin it on somebody and i
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think she decided to pin everything on her husband making it his fault that she got pregnant too early and making it his
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fault that now they have two children and she has to be a full-time working mom while still having household and
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child care responsibilities she also started saying that neil had changed and that she was afraid that he may have
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hurt her or hurt the boys to former homicide detective rod emery manling's claims about her husband
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didn't drink true neil was not a violent person nor did he ever display any personality of such in
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hindsight these stories were manufactured to kind of lay the groundwork for what was about to happen
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as the long hot la summer of 2007 wore on manling's dissatisfaction with her
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marriage grew how would this unhappy union end let's not kid ourselves she intended for
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him to die whether he did it by his own hand or hers august 8 2007. as the sun rose on a still dry day in
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los angeles county the piece of the early morning was shattered by a woman's
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screams it was manling sang williams in the doorway of her roland heights condo surveying a horrifying scene
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oh my god what's happened here oh my god and her neighbors all come to her aid and they're all surrounding her
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and she says my husband my husband oh my god he's dead he's dead the neighbors described
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her as being barefoot wearing boxer shorts smelling like alcohol so she's screaming you know oh my god who's done
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this my husband somebody help me her hands and feet spattered with blood manling begged her neighbors for help
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she told them that she just returned from a late night drive to cool off her hair
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she likes to do that from time to time when she can't sleep and she was watching the sun rise so when the
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neighbor went in the house they saw neil who was obviously dead blood all throughout the house
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there was clearly no saving 27 year old neil williams the shop neighbor dialed 9-1-1
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officers were there in minutes so the police arrive they go inside they find neil at the top of the stairs
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covered in blood it's blood everywhere he has clearly been stabbed and next to
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him in this pool of blood is this big samurai sword and it's bathed in blood
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the officers could tell that even with the blood and all the destruction that the house was not well kept there was
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garbage overflowing from the garbage cans there was things in disarray and the house just wasn't very much cared
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for what are the two little boys neil william's sons where were they in all of this carnage
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as they continued to look around they went to the boys bedrooms looks like the children are still sleeping
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so you know they're relieved and then they realize wait a minute and they try to wrestle the children and
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they realize the children are not sleeping both were dead in their beds the young one ian on his bottom bunk
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and then above on the top bunk the older brother devin they're both dead in their
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beds it was a devastating discovery manling's husband and her two little boys lay dead
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in the family home yet the hysterical young mother seemed oblivious to the finality of her loss
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she's screaming does anybody know is my husband is my husband still alive is he
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still alive and she's saying my baby's my baby somebody please help my babies
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manling was taken to a sheriff's outpost six miles away in walnut williams hearing for the first time of
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the tragedy that had befallen her son and grandsons assumed manning's questioning was a formality
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within hours the grieving grandmother would be hit by the shocking truth police take meddling down to the station
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um for questioning and they asked her you know where was she she said she she was out she told
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them that she had just gotten home from shopping she had early morning grocery shop
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this was not the same story that she had told neighbors the one about the early morning drive because she couldn't sleep
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a game of detective cat and mouse was about to begin stories are not adding up and she's
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really sort of grasping for stories here but cops are starting to suspect that that something is really wrong here she
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changed her story slightly and she told police that she couldn't sleep that night so she got up went to the ridge to
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smoke a cigarette and came back home to find the family dead she said that when she left the house at
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around 4am she left the door unlocked then she asked if her husband was okay and if her children were okay
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so when she heard that they were dead she had a huge reaction she screamed and cried and wailed she gets sick
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and she could stick into a trash can this could have been just an overwhelming stress
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response detectives were baffled i think this point the police weren't sure what her reaction was was it
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genuine or was she acting or did she really know more than she was saying so police are saying you know
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who would do this why would anyone want to kill your husband can you think of anything and she says well
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you know my husband was actually having an affair for over a year he just confessed to me
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recently that he was having this affair and you know i don't i don't know you know
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could this maybe be a jealous person as his girlfriend that might have done this
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or maybe she had somebody do it could it be jealousy detectives interviewed manling for hours
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over the course of that day and she consistently denied knowing anything about the murders of her sons and
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husband investigators found her version of events hard to believe and her behavior even stranger
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one of the things that the investigators mentioned during her interview was that
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her moods changed quite a bit you know one minute she was arrogant one minute she was sad one minute she was happy and
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the the variations in the mood were just too odd i think manley probably did feel
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a couple of different conflicting feelings as she was processing this in the aftermath but the fact that she was
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so dysregulated crying one minute but then acting like everything was a joke the next probably
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shows the truth of her emotional instability if i were interviewing her then it would be
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a challenge to find out why the mood swings what did detectives make of the grieving
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mother's bizarre behavior in their place rod demery would have seen it as a vital
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clue was it because she actually was in shock about what happened or was it because she was pretending that she
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didn't know what happened or trying to make up a story or a personality so it
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would have been very interesting to find out exactly at what point and what question was
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asked that her mood changed while manling answered hour after hour of questions and neil's family waited
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for news detectives were searching the williams condominium in rowland house there they made a discovery that turned
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manning's story upside down detectives have been investigating um all kinds of of leads
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and one thing they're looking at is electronic devices and computers as they
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always do um and when they look at the computer in the home they find a suicide note supposedly written by neil
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saying that he has just killed the children and he's going to kill himself could this explain what had really
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happened at that cluttered apartment on camino bello to answer that detectives turned to the
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crime scene examiners who were building a picture of how the father and his little boys had died
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three-year-old ian and seven-year-old devin showed no signs of traumatic injury it appeared they may have been
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suffocated to death neil williams was a different story even some of the most seasoned cops when
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they found neal's body they were just horrified he's lying in this pool of
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blood and he has just countless stab and slash wounds in all over 90 of them the autopsy would reveal several stab
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marks a large x mark on the stomach his hands from defensive wounds were mingled
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basically he's been butchered the suicide note supposedly written by neil suggested he was going to take his
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own life but could he really have stabbed himself 92 times how could we expect anybody to commit
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suicide with a samurai sword it's odd because that doesn't add up with what's
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actually happened he couldn't have killed himself with that sword still manling stuck to her guns perhaps
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neil's jealous mistress had killed her family perhaps neil himself had done it
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then comes the smoking gun in this case it's a cigarette pack as officers continued their meticulous
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investigation into the couple's lives they seized the game-changing piece of
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evidence inside manling's car police find a cigarette pack with blood on it and they trace that blood
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and they find that it goes back to kneel so police confront manling we found the cigarette box
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in your car why it's important that they found a cigarette box in the cart with
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blood on it is it shoots her story out manling had told cops that she'd been
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for a drive into smoke before coming home to the scene of carnage she claimed that she left the house came
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home and found them dead if she had done that there would be no blood on a cigarette box in her car so
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obviously when she got into the car she had blood on her and got it on the cigarette box and now
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she knows it's over and she breaks down and she confesses everything what exactly had happened that night
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in the home of mr and mrs williams and you imagine he has been asleep and he's waking up and he's being stabbed to
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death late on the 8th of august 2007 in an interview room at the walnut headquarters of the los angeles county
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sheriff's department 27 year old manling sang williams walked detectives through
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the grisly events of the night before so august 7th menling feeds her children pizza for dinner so
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hawaiian pizza with pineapple and ham their favorite and she puts them to bed and
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she tucks the youngest one into his bed with his favorite little blanket the little teddy bears all over it
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and she tucks her older son into the top bunk and he's lying there with his little blanket his favorite with
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spongebob squarepants and then she lets them fall asleep once they were sleeping she crept back
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into their room she goes over to the youngest one ian she takes the pillow and she puts it over his head and she
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holds it there and he's squirming and she holds it there until she doesn't
00:30:19
feel him breathing anymore she's pushing the life out of her son it must have been a very tough way to go
00:30:28
for her children to be struggling for what probably would have been minutes she gets on the ladder and she climbs up
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to her older son devin's bed she does the same thing she takes his pillow she puts it over his face and she holds
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it there and he's squirming a little harder he's a little older and she holds it and
00:30:48
she forces it and she is squeezing the life out of her little boy her husband kneel out of the house
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manling was focused on what she needed to get her life back i think at that point manly was
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completely single-minded she hadn't really bonded with her children and they
00:31:05
were part of the cause for her unhappiness and so perhaps she even delighted in taking her children's lives
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and in fact she did so in such an intimate and painful way she then arranged their bodies she
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kind of put them in a natural sleeping position with their favorite blankets and toys and they both look like they're
00:31:24
just sleeping and she leaves the bedroom with her two now dead children and she goes to her
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computer and she turns it on she logs on to myspace [Music] after looking at the profile of the man
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she'd so recently cheated with at around 9 30 pm manling sent text messages to
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friends showered got changed and went out she went to tgif fridays and had drinks
00:31:52
with friends you're the mother of these two young children you have just with your bare hands you have smothered
00:32:00
both of your children to death and then you go out and have drinks that shows me that there's a profound
00:32:08
lack of empathy callousness involved what's mending intended to happen next is a matter of speculation
00:32:16
it appeared that she was hoping that neil would come home find the kids dead and commit suicide it's very possible
00:32:23
that neil would have said something to her to that effect god if anything ever happened to you or the kids i would kill
00:32:29
myself and it's you know she might have taken that at face value and thought
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that he was absolutely serious when manning returned to the condo little after midnight neil had done
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nothing of the sort he was sitting at the computer oblivious to the bodies of his sons lying in the bunk bed just
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meters away she gets home and she opens the door and the place is just a mess it is trash
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there's trash everywhere and neil has left his his dinner what's left of it
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sitting out on the counter everything is just the trash is overflowing she's furious she is so angry
00:33:05
the couple argued according to manling it was about sex a neighbor heard raised voices then neal went to bed and fell
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asleep leaving manling enraged that her plan for him to take his own life hadn't
00:33:17
come together lisa's how the story goes when he didn't do that that's when she took actions
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into her own hands she goes to his collection and she pulls out the samurai sword and she gets to
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her husband and she starts stabbing him and she stabs and slashes over and over neal woke up and began to
00:33:43
try to defend himself and run off but as he ran she kept slicing she chases him from the bedroom he's he's literally
00:33:52
dying he's been stabbed she just doesn't stop she just keeps slashing and
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stabbing over 90 times she is so enraged she doesn't stop until she knows he's dead
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in his last words were was something like like like help me help me an autopsy would later find that neil
00:34:13
had 92 separate wounds including 22 on his hands where he had tried desperately to defend himself the tips of two of his
00:34:21
fingers had been severed his lungs were punctured as was his small intestine his skull was fractured and in a blow
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that even without the others would have caused certain death he had been stabbed
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through the heart manling's annihilation of neil indeed of her entire family was complete
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it's just an unbelievable thing to imagine what he must have looked like at the end of his
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death when she had hacked at him so many times there was obviously so much built
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up anger and resentment but also i believe a semblance of evil for somebody to do it that many times when you know
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you probably already killed the person by the fourth or the fifth slash of the sword
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she had got what she wanted she was once again free and unencumbered but had she
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planned her next steps i believe manling did completely think through her murders of her family members i just
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don't think that she thought through what would happen after she murdered them i think she
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thought through to the point of when i remove these obstacles to my happiness that my life will be different but she
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didn't really have a plan afterwards for what that would actually look like once
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her entire family was dead first there were practical considerations she changes her clothes and she grabs
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the bloody clothes and she takes them with her she gets in her car and she drives and
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on the way she stops and she dumps this pile of bloody clothing into a trash can
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and then she continues on and goes to her favorite place this ridge near their home and she lights up a cigarette and
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she smokes and she waits for the sun to rise [Music] on august 9 2007 having taken manling's
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shocking confession detectives charged her for her crimes she's charged with three counts of first
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degree murder multiple murder and lying and weight if found guilty she could be sentenced to death
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the callousness of premeditation and the planning of it and the fact that you had
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to be pretty certain that you wanted to kill these people to go through so much forethought whereas
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in a heated situation where you just flow to changes the scenario for the punishment
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news that manly had been charged came as a shock to the couple's families but it
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would be three long years before they would find out if the case against her could be proven
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in the fall of 2010 the trial began and the prosecution's point of view was that madeline just
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wanted her life back she wanted to be free and single and not have the responsibilities or the restrictions of
00:37:05
a marriage and children she just wanted to get back to where she was calling the man that she had slept with
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in the summer of 2007 to the stand prosecutors used the affair to make sense of the killings
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the prosecution argues that you know her motive was that she wanted to get back with this old boyfriend that
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was it during closing arguments the prosecution showed or attempted to show that
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this was pre-meditated for months before and some of the stories that meddling had told family and friends about neil
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that weren't true were kind of set the groundwork for a story that she wanted
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to finally reveal after she committed this murder the defense had a different story they
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believed that she was abused by her husband she had a difficult childhood a difficult
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past abusive past no this was not planned this was you know uncontrolled rage she just sort of snapped madeline's
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father actually testified and said that he believed that he might have done something for her to
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behave that way and he apologized to neil's family which version of manling's crime would
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be the most believable to the jury the trial concluded in november 2010 the jury deliberates for eight hours in
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november of 2010 meddling was found guilty of all charges including the special circumstances of land and weight
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a few days later a jury convened once again to decide manling's fate then comes the punishment phase
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life in prison or the death sentence the jury deliberates and deliberates and they can't come to an agreement
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it's a hung jury the verdict was split eight for the death penalty and four against
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it was a blow for jan williams neil's mother who simply wanted the process to
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be over so she could begin to properly grieve and process the loss of her son grandchildren
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both manling's family and neil's family agreed or asked the judge to give her
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life in prison rather than the death penalty because of the appeals processes and the
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cumbersome processes of a death row or death sentence they just wanted it to end
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their pleas fell on deaf ears in august of 2011 a second jury convenes for the punishment
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of manlington williams in this case in the end the jury is unanimous they recommend the death
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penalty and in january 2012 the judge makes it official manling sang williams is sentenced to
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die in summing up the case the judge made his contempt of manling's actions clear
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he said she had savagely killed her husband and just heartlessly murdered her children
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for selfish narcissistic reasons because she wanted to start a new life with a new man and
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leave her old life behind he said she killed her own two children when there were people who would have been
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happy to take these children in and those are long and brutal deaths several minutes and during each time she could
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have reflected and decided not to but she continued on he said you know she planned this this
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was clearly premeditated she laid out this plan over two months she had plenty of time to reconsider and
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back out the fact that she wore gloves when she killed her husband or latex gloves when she killed her husband
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showed that this was not in the heat of passion the judge said you know this was a heartless killer
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selfish narcissistic heartless killer who could take her own children's lives
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he said you know i it's not for me to forgive and the people who the only people who would be in a
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position to forgive aren't here anymore the case against manling sang williams
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was overwhelming despite the death penalty she remains alive [Music] meddling is currently on death row
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marlene sam williams is currently being held at the california central women's
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facility in chauchila california of the 700 death row inmates in california prisons
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less than two dozen are women and the death penalty was only restored in california in 1976 and since then 13
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inmates have been executed not one of them has been a woman manling would be the first
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Episode Highlights

  • A Scene of Carnage
    A young mother returns home to find her family brutally slain, shocking even seasoned detectives.
    “Brutal, I mean really brutal.”
    @ 00m 15s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Rise of Familicide
    Statistics reveal that family annihilators are often white males in their 30s, driven by egotistical reasons.
    “95% of family annihilators are male.”
    @ 01m 29s
    June 08, 2022
  • A Rocky Marriage
    Neil and Manling's rushed marriage leads to financial struggles and dissatisfaction, culminating in conflict.
    “The couple seems to be happy, but playing at being grown-ups was not easy.”
    @ 07m 49s
    June 08, 2022
  • A Shocking Discovery
    Manling's screams shatter the morning as she discovers her husband dead in their condo.
    “Oh my god, what’s happened here?”
    @ 19m 32s
    June 08, 2022
  • A Devastating Discovery
    Officers find two young boys dead in their beds, leading to a shocking investigation.
    “The children are not sleeping; both were dead in their beds.”
    @ 21m 31s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Confession
    Manling Sang Williams confesses to the murders, revealing the chilling details of the night.
    “I pushed the life out of my son.”
    @ 30m 21s
    June 08, 2022
  • Sentenced to Death
    Manling is sentenced to death for the brutal murders of her family.
    “She had savagely killed her husband and just heartlessly murdered her children.”
    @ 39m 58s
    June 08, 2022

Episode Quotes

  • Oh my god, what’s happened here?
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode
  • My husband, my husband, oh my god he’s dead!
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode
  • My baby, somebody please help my babies!
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode
  • How could we expect anybody to commit suicide with a samurai sword?
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode
  • She had savagely killed her husband and just heartlessly murdered her children.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 50 - Tsang Williams - Full Episode

Key Moments

  • Scene of Carnage00:08
  • Familicide Statistics01:12
  • Screams of Horror19:32
  • Hysterical Mother21:53
  • Shocking Truth22:23
  • Bizarre Behavior24:23
  • Confession28:50
  • Death Sentence39:46

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