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This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)

January 05, 2023 / 38:43

This episode covers the shocking case of Ann Marie Anastasi, her husband Anthony, and his mistress Jacqueline Riggs, leading to a double murder. Key discussions include the dynamics of their unconventional marriage, the murder plot involving Ann Marie's daughter and her boyfriend, and the investigation that revealed the truth behind the deaths.

Michelle Trachtenberg introduces the story, highlighting how Ann Marie discovered her husband had moved his mistress into their home in Lothian, Maryland. Ann Marie's emotional turmoil and the unconventional living situation set the stage for the tragic events that unfold.

The episode details the planning of the murders, with Ann Marie convincing her 13-year-old daughter Sarah and her daughter's boyfriend Gabriel Struss to carry out the killings. Gabriel's troubled background and susceptibility to manipulation are discussed, illustrating how he became involved in the plot.

As the investigation progresses, police uncover evidence that contradicts Ann Marie's claims of a murder-suicide, including gunshot residue and a failed polygraph test. The detectives piece together the timeline of events leading to the brutal murders of Anthony and Jacqueline.

Ultimately, Ann Marie receives a 60-year sentence for her role in the murders, despite never admitting guilt or showing remorse. The episode concludes with a reflection on the complexities of relationships and the potential for betrayal.

TLDR

Ann Marie Anastasi orchestrates the murder of her husband and his mistress, involving her daughter and her boyfriend in a shocking plot.

Episode

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[music playing] Imagine this. A husband moves a mistress into a family home, but guess what?
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His wife is there too. She's upstairs. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON VIDEO): She has [bleep] moved into my house with me and my five kids.
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The [bleep] should have stayed up in [bleep] Michigan. She shouldn't have moved down here.
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She shouldn't have moved into my house. How could she have probably have thought
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that was going to go well? MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: That's the voice of Ann Marie Anastasi
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who decides to do something about her cheating husband, Anthony, and his mistress, Jacqueline Riggs.
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The police department receives a 911 call reporting that, my husband is not breathing.
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And it's just that. This mystery starts unraveling the minute 911 is called. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Who's done what?
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I'm Michelle Trachtenberg, and this is "Meet, Marry, Murder." [music playing] In 2015, Maryland, and the Anastasis
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look like a typical family. CAROLYN CANVILLE: Ann Marie and Anthony Anastasi had been married for 18 years.
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They had five kids. They lived in a rented home in this little town called Lothian, Maryland.
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It's about less than an hour from Washington D.C. JASON KNIGHT: It's a nice house.
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I mean, it's a nice probably four, five-bedroom home on a sizable chunk of land in the southern part
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of the county, which is pretty rural. Nothing out of the ordinary, apparently. But things are not quite as they seemed.
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They had a rather unconventional marriage. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Unconventional?
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You got that right. Younger woman in the basement. She isn't the nanny, she isn't a relative or a friend.
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She's a lover. So when did the twosome become a threesome? It's a story which starts 700 miles away when Anthony
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first meets Jackie Riggs. The Anastasis lived in Saunt Ste Marie, Michigan, on the upper Peninsula.
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Anthony was a volunteer youth hockey coach. During his coaching he met Miss Riggs.
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CAROLYN CANVILLE: She's 25 years old. Now Ann Marie's 43, and her husband is a few years younger.
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And at some point along the way, some sort of romantic relationship developed that was extramarital to his relationship
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with Ann Anastasi. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: What do we know about Jackie? Everybody says she's a straight up woman--
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loves kids. But she's a woman Ann Anastasi never wanted to see again. JASON KNIGHT: At some point in time
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the Anastasis left Michigan and moved as a family to Lothian, Maryland, in Anne Arundel County.
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Mrs. Anastasi believed at the time that that would be the end of Mr. Anastasi's extramarital relationship with Miss Riggs.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Ann and Anthony came from Maryland and want to go home. Why?
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Ann wants to put 700 miles between her and Jackie. JASON KNIGHT: Subsequent to the Anastasis moving to Maryland,
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Miss Riggs was moved by Mr. Anastasi from Michigan down to Maryland, and moved into the Anastasi's basement.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Anthony decides he wants to move Jacqueline into the house,
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let's have her live with us and we can all live happily ever after. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON VIDEO): She
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shouldn't have moved down here. She shouldn't have moved into my house. How could she possible have thought
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that was going to go well? Once she was there, she was-- maybe not quite a member of the family, but lived there.
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And Mrs. Anastasi, actually from what we understand, made dinner and Miss Riggs would join the entire family
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for dinner in the evenings. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Does Jackie Riggs know what she's getting into?
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She's 25 and moving in with a family as a lover to the dad and husband? Crazy, right?
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And it's no five-star hotel either. JASON KNIGHT: The physical environment in which Miss Riggs
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lived with the Anastasis did not objectively look very pleasant. Concrete floors, no walls, you know, no real privacy
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in the basement. The basement was unfinished but it had a bed and some of the other--
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some furniture that you would put in a place to make it look like a bedroom. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Anthony Anastasi has got it made.
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A young lover downstairs, the Mrs looking after the kids-- guess what? Ann Marie put up with it, but she hates it.
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She clearly hoped that the relationship terminated when they moved to Maryland, and was very
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disappointed when Miss Riggs moved back in with them subsequently. But there was-- we never saw anything
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where she put up some sort of resistance and tried to prevent it. Ann Marie may be disappointed--
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that doesn't stop her joining Jackie and Anthony for a literal three-way in the basement.
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JASON KNIGHT: The little bit that I know about it was that Mrs. Anastasi stated that at one point in time
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Mr. Anastasi had convinced her to engage in sexual activity with him and Miss Riggs, but Mrs. Anastasi said that only
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ever happened the one time, she didn't like it, and refused to participate in that ever again.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: And guess what? Anthony focuses on the 25-year-old downstairs.
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The mother of his kids, and his wife, she's out of the sexual picture. Now, suddenly, this threesome is becoming a twosome.
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It's like three's a crowd and Ann Marie isn't invited. Now, Anthony and Jacqueline are having sex more often
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and Ann Marie is on the outs. Pretty soon, before she knows it, Ann Marie's husband is basically living with this younger woman
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down in the basement. MAN (ON RECORDING): I have to ask this question in. Do you think that your husband and Jacqueline
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were messing around? ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): Oh I know they were. MAN (ON RECORDING): They were?
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And how do you know they were? ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): Because he'd spend most--
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Well, not most. He spent a lot of nights down there with the doors locked. Like a lot of them.
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MAN (ON RECORDING): Did you ever confront them about it? ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING):
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I was told that, basically, to mind my own business. He's going to do what he wants to do, and if I don't like it
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I can get the [bleep] out of the house. And I'm not going to abandon my kids and leave them in that kind of situation.
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JASON KNIGHT: Mrs. Anastasi was questioned by the police in some detail, essentially along the lines
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of, you're a human, you cannot be OK with the behavior in which your husband was engaged with Miss Riggs.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: One day the cops are going to need to prove Ann doesn't like
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Anthony having sex with Jackie. This phone secret recording is going to help their case.
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ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): Problem is, it's not only him. There's also a 24-year-old girl who is dead at my basement.
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She's a [bleep] who moved into my house with me and my five kids. [bleep] should have stayed up in [bleep] Michigan.
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And Ann Marie is basically, my 18-year marriage is basically over. I've just lost him to this younger woman.
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The information we developed subsequently when we were listening to her phone calls
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while she was incarcerated certainly demonstrated that she was incredibly devastated emotionally, and that's what drove
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her to commit these crimes. Ann Marie wants her husband to stop cheating in her own home.
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Enough is enough. She elected to just become the judge, jury, and executioner on her own, and decided that Mr. Anastasi was going to die,
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and Miss Riggs was going to die. It's the planned. It's the blueprint for murder.
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Half of women killed are murdered by their partners. Honestly, we should be careful who we get into bed with.
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I'm Michelle Trachtenberg, and this is "Meet, Marry, Murder." Men can be victims too, like Anthony
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Anastasi, whose wife discovers he's been spending her cash. She had this million-dollar trust fund.
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They spend it all, and he's telling her to go back to her family and get even more money.
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And whenever they get more money he spends it on himself, he buys himself flat screen TVs, and Harley-Davidson
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motorcycles. It's all about Anthony and what Anthony needs, what Anthony wants. JASON KNIGHT: She certainly seemed
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to be someone who was suffering from some sort of emotional abuse. What makes this so difficult is that she elected
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to not avail yourself of any resources whatsoever, to not seek help. She elected to just become the judge, jury, and executioner
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on her own, and decided that Mr. Anastasi was going to die, and Miss Riggs was going to die, and that
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was the only resolution to this problem. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Maybe she's happy to be judge and jury, but she isn't
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happy to pull the trigger. So Ann reaches out to her daughter. MAN (ON RECORDING): We got some records,
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and that night you and [bleep] talk to her for 582 seconds-- 3:00 in the morning.
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That's about 10 minutes. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): That might have been a butt dial.
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MAN (ON RECORDING): That's not a butt dial, that's a long conversation. BRIAN HARRIS: Ann Marie convinced
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her daughter that Anthony was discarding Ann Marie as a piece of trash. She tells her 13-year-old daughter,
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your father has to die. Her mother talks her into this. She gets involved in this murder plot.
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She's a kid, and she's just trying to please her mother. The teenage girl has her own reasons to be angry.
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She overhears her father and Jackie talking about starting their own family. So now, his daughter faces seeing her dad having a baby
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with a woman young enough to be her sister, all while living in their house. Mother and daughter agree Anthony
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and Jacqueline should die, and they know someone who could do the job. Messages on Ann Marie's phone tell
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us who agreed to be the hitman. They examine Ann Marie's phone, and they find these text messages between Ann Marie,
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her 13-year-old daughter, Sarah, and Sarah's 18-year-old boyfriend, Gabriel Struss.
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In those text messages they're talking about a gun and the murder of two people.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: But what's in it for Gabriel? He has nothing against Anthony Anastasi and Jacqueline Riggs.
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But this is a kid with a past-- not a good one. JASON KNIGHT: Gabriel Struss was a young man who
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had a very difficult childhood. Now here's a guy who has no criminal record. He's basically sort of raised himself on the streets
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from the time he's seven. JASON KNIGHT: He was adopted as a young man, subsequently left his adoptive family to return
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to his biological family. He wound up at the time of the murder living in very unfortunate conditions a few miles away
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from the Anastasis. And he's basically raised himself, period. He really didn't have a great growing up life,
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basically kind of a homeless guy, and kind of a guy who could be led. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Ann Marie sees
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Gabriel Struss as a sucker, hers to boss around. CAROLYN CANVILLE: This young boy--
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he's 18, but he's not terribly sophisticated, hasn't had a great upbringing, doesn't--
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he's kind of gullible. JASON KNIGHT: Mr. Struss was uniquely positioned to fall victim to Mrs. Anastasi's manipulations.
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So now you have the story of this scorned wife who has convinced her daughter to join her in this plot,
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and, Oh, let's get your boyfriend to do the dirty work for us. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: The messaging between these three,
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don't think they're not going to be found. Cell phones break secrets. He was communicating over Kik--
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it's one of those apps that if you use it it's supposed to delete after you used.
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Like so he was communicating with her over Kik and Snapchat, the things that teenagers do.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: The texts are a dead giveaway, a blueprint for murder. CAROLYN CANVILLE: In those text messages,
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they're talking about a gun and the murder of two people. Mr. Struss told us that the night of the murder he
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was picked up by Mrs. Anastasi in her car and driven to the Anastasi home. He got out of the car and hid in the yard for some amount
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of time that he could not specify, because he claimed to have actually gone to sleep out in the yard
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while he was out there. At some point in the middle of the night, he received a message on his phone
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calling him into the house. Gabriel Struss goes into the Anastasi house that night,
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and he's ready to kill. He's following the order of his girlfriend's mother. She knows that she has to make Jacqueline's death
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look like a crime of passion, of rage. It was a very, just brutal, gruesome scene in the basement.
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This is "Meet, Marry, Murder," and I'm Michelle Trachtenberg. We are in Lothian, Maryland, and an 18-year-old kid Gabriel
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Struss is following his girlfriend's mother's plan to kill Anthony Anastasi. He creeps into the family home.
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BRIAN HARRIS: On October 4, 2015, Ann Marie hands Gabriel the handgun and a knife.
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Why? You see, Ann Marie's already thinking. She knows that she has to make Jacqueline's death
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look like a crime of passion, of rage. CAROLYN CANVILLE: So he meets Ann Marie in the kitchen
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of the home, she gives him a knife, and then that night Gabriel goes down the stairs to Jacqueline's bedroom where she's sleeping,
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and he attacks. JASON KNIGHT: Miss Riggs did not die right away from one stab wound.
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A common misperception is that-- from movies and TV-- is that if you stab someone
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once that they just die. But the reality is that Miss Riggs was stabbed and woke up,
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and fight or flight kicked in, and Miss Riggs started putting up quite a fight, and Mr. Struss had to stab her multiple times
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all over the chest, the head, the face, before he was able to actually kill her.
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And he stabs her 42 times. He just keeps stabbing her, and stabbing her, and stabbing her.
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And then when he's done she's not moving-- she's clearly dead. It was a very-- just brutal, gruesome scene in the basement
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with the amount of times he had to stab and the amount of force he had to use to actually kill Miss Riggs.
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She was fighting for her life and she did everything she could to ward off Mr. Struss.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Ann Marie has figured everything out, including her version of what's happened,
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down to the last detail. When the police come she wants them to think her husband
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has first killed Jackie and then himself. Once he had killed Miss Riggs, he went back upstairs.
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He then was given the . .380 handgun by Mrs. Anastasi. Gabriel Struss-- he's covered in the blood
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of Jacqueline Riggs. He heads up to the first floor to finish the job he had started.
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JASON KNIGHT: He then went upstairs and stood a couple of feet away from Mr. Anastasi's bed
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and fired the one round into Mr Anastasi's head. He then left the home and went back
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over to his home in the Annapolis area for the rest of the night. Miss Anastasi, from what we were able to gather,
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went and took the .45 caliber handgun that Mr. Anastasi had under his pillow at night out from under the pillow
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and put that into his hand to make it look as if he had shot himself. And then, according to the statement that she gave
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the police, she subsequently went and crawled in bed in a different room and slept until the morning.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Nobody finds out what's happened in that big house on W Bay Front Rd.
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CAROLYN CANVILLE: It all looks normal until around lunchtime on October 5, 2015.
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The police department receives a 911 call. It's not a frantic call, but it's a 911 call reporting that, my husband is not breathing.
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And it's just that. This mystery, if one can call it that, starts unraveling the minute 9/11 is called.
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ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): I just spent the day taking the kids to the dentist
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and then going grocery shopping. I'm supposed to be leaving to take my husband to a doctor's
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appointment right now. This 911 call-- what a bizarre call. The person is conversational, there's not a sense of panic,
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there's no heavy breathing. It's very matter of fact, hey, I came home and my husband's
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not breathing. He's laying on the bed. So he's not responding at all, and he's got his gun
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lying next to him in the bed. 911 DISPATCHER (ON RECORDING): Do you think he shot himself?
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ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): I don't know. I didn't turn the lights on in the room.
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Yeah, I think he killed himself. You know, just very nonchalant, matter of fact, conversational.
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Not panic. Where's that sheer panic? MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: She may not have realized at the time,
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but from the very first moment she starts talking to the 911 dispatcher, Ann Marie is incriminating herself.
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BRIAN HARRIS: When the suspect themselves call 911, it's often in that first minute--
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that first 2 minutes of that 911 call that either the motive will be revealed, or the alibi.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Brian Harris knows murder. He's investigated plenty as a homicide detective.
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They'll repeat over and over again what their alibi is. It's no different in this case.
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What's the alibi? Oh, I came home, was wondering where my husband was, and he's laying in the bed and he's not breathing.
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ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): But he's not responding at all, and he's got his gun
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lying next to him in the bed. BRIAN HARRIS: So she clearly wants to establish that all these series of events
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that would take place in the home happened when she wasn't there. Now this emergency dispatcher is thinking, this is bizarre.
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JASON KNIGHT: So a couple of patrol officers from the Southern District of the Anne
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Arundel County Police Department responded to the scene. When they arrived at the Anastasi home,
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Mrs. Anastasi came outside and reported that her husband was dead inside. The police rush to this home and they
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see this, this charming house on the outside and they go inside and there's this house that is just filthy and full
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of clutter. When the officers get there and they go upstairs to the master bedroom, They find Mr. Anastasi lying on his back
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in his bed suffering from a single gunshot wound to the head with a pistol in his hand.
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CAROLYN CANVILLE: And Ann Marie says, well, you know, he was depressed. I mean-- so he obviously killed himself.
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So as a detective, if that's my scene I'm coming to, if somebody's trying to say it's suicide
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I'm going to look at that person's life. Sure Anthony's been depressed. Sure Anthony's had some dark things
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going on in his life, kind of a bizarre lifestyle to begin with. But Anthony's own body would tell me a story.
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CAROLYN CANVILLE: Anthony is lying face up with a single bullet wound. He's dead, there's a gun lying next to him.
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You see, if there's suicide, you would have what's called stippling or tattooing from a close gunshot wound--
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contact wound. Now, that bullet is hot, it's kind of like a branding iron. You have this huge explosion.
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Typically anywhere between 12 and 18 inches-- if I'm further away than that distance
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when I pull the trigger, the entry wound will be nice and clean. If I'm closer than that, I would expect to see what's
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called stippling or tattooing. That big explosion that comes out of the barrel of a gun,
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it has to go somewhere. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: The cops don't see what they expect.
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If it's a suicide they should see the stippling around the wound. From the minute they get in things aren't adding up.
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Now police aren't sure what they have on their hands. Is this a suicide? Is there anyone else living in the home?
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No, my kids aren't here, but, Oh, we have this woman who lives with us. She lives in the basement, but come to think of it
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I haven't heard from her today. Suspicion grows. BRIAN HARRIS: But again, it's very conversational.
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And so what are the officers do? They're sweeping that home going room to room looking for other bodies,
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perhaps maybe even suspect. They take Ann Marie aside, they're going to take her downtown and question her.
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Meanwhile, officers are running down the stairs. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: She's casual and cool.
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So the officers are just not prepared for what they're about to see. As they creep down the stairs hands on their weapons,
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who knows what is down there? What do they hear? Heavy metal music? [heavy metal music playing]
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Then they open the door. They go downstairs in the basement, they find Miss Riggs laying on the ground.
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And they open the bedroom door and it's like a scene from "Helter Skelter." BRIAN HARRIS: And it's a bloody, brutal scene that they find.
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They find the body of yet another victim, Jacqueline Riggs. CAROLYN CANVILLE: There is blood everywhere,
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and there is Jacqueline Riggs lying dead on this blood soaked rug. She's been stabbed 42 times.
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40 plus stab wounds all across your body. 40 plus stab wounds, imagine that. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18,
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19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Ann Marie is cooperating with the police. She is calm but the scene in the basement
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tells detectives of an out of control rage. It is chaos down there. And they ask themselves, where does Ann Marie
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Anastasi fit into all of this? Is she the killer? JASON KNIGHT: Mrs. Anastasi presented herself
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in her interviews to the police as the grieving widow who loved her family, loved her husband, was willing to tolerate
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his indiscretions. MAN (ON RECORDING): The gun that was found next to your husband
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was tested, OK? And compared to the bullet that was found in his skull, OK? There is no possible way that that weapon
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fired that bullet that was in your husband's head. We've got two blood-soaked bodies,
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Anthony Anastasi and Jackie Riggs, lying in the Anastasi family home. The medical examiner arrives to remove them for the autopsy.
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CAROLYN CANVILLE: Meanwhile police are questioning Ann Marie. They've got her downtown and they're asking more questions,
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and Ann Marie keeps saying, my husband committed suicide. I know he was depressed.
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It was a suicide. And they said, well, what about the other woman? The what? What about Jacqueline Riggs?
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She's got 42 stab wounds. What! MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Anne Marie seems shocked and distressed by what she's hearing
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from the detectives, but she gives them a ready made explanation. Mrs. Anastasi's initial statement to the police
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was that she had heard Mr. Anastasi and Miss Riggs engaged in a heated argument in the basement of the home.
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He then came upstairs to the master bedroom, kicked her out of the bedroom and then shut the door,
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and she never saw him alive again. Ann Marie-- when the cops are talking to her they want to know, what do you think happened?
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Which is a great question, What do you think happened Ann Marie? She buys into it and she says, I think that Anthony killed
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Jacqueline, that he went down, they have a relationship, he kills her, and he can't live with himself for what he did,
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and he's so remorseful that he shoots and kills himself. Miss Anastasi presented herself in her interviews
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to the police as the grieving widow who loved her family, loved her husband, was willing to tolerate his indiscretions,
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and was just devastated that this horrible event had befallen her and her family.
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MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Is she going to get away with this? She's been living in a broken marriage with her husband
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and his mistress-- plenty of motive. But some of the evidence might support her story of a murder-suicide.
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She could walk. Based on just what the officers found at the scene-- just by looking at it before they performed any sort
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of crime scene investigation, and based on that statement, it presented as a murder-suicide.
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Might be a viable story. But, you see, the evidence would show that that's completely different.
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As a detective, I often warn other detectives, don't judge people on the way that they grieve.
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However, when you look at the behavior of Ann Marie, is it just bizarre behavior and she's in shock,
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or is this well thought of responses to questions? JASON KNIGHT: During the course of Mrs. Anastasi's
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first interview with the police, they advised her that they discovered Miss Riggs's body in the basement,
00:29:42
and that she had also been murdered. Mrs. Anastasi hardly registered any response or emotion at all.
00:29:52
CAROLYN CANVILLE: Police discover that the gun lying next to Anthony doesn't match the bullet
00:29:59
that came from his body. There's no way that that bullet could have come from that gun.
00:30:05
JASON KNIGHT: Mr Anastasi had a .45 caliber semi-automatic pistol in his hand. Police could not find a .45 caliber
00:30:11
shell casing in the bedroom. They subsequently were able to find a .380 caliber shell
00:30:19
casing in the bedroom that was subsequently analyzed by the firearms examiner for the Anne Arundel County Police
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Department, who gave a definitive conclusion that you could not fire a .380 bullet
00:30:33
from the .45 caliber handgun. Ann Marie didn't count on that. Mr. Anastasi's autopsy came back
00:30:43
to reveal that the round in his head was, in fact, a .380 caliber bullet. Once you know Mr. Anastasi was killed by the .380 caliber
00:30:51
bullet, they knew that the .45 caliber handgun that was in Mr. Anastasi's hand was not the murder weapon.
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MAN (ON RECORDING): The gun that was found next to your husband was tested, OK? And compared to the bullet that was found in his skull, OK?
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There is no possible way that that weapon fired that bullet that was in your husband's head.
00:31:15
It's a completely different weapon, so that means somebody planted that weapon there.
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This is murder-- has murder written all over it. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: The detectives make a breakthrough.
00:31:28
But does Ann Marie fold? No. She's unemotional, even a little detached. What does she care?
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She's got nothing to do with it. INTERVIEWER (ON RECORDING): Two people were murdered in your home--
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brutally murdered, OK? And you didn't know what happened. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): No.
00:31:45
MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: But the evidence is building. The cops can prove this is murder, not murder-suicide.
00:31:52
It is not looking good for Ann Marie. And any murder scene, one of the basic things you
00:31:59
would do if there's gunshots that are involved-- we would do what's called a GSR test, a gunshot residue test.
00:32:08
She consented to having her hands and her clothing tested for the presence of gunshot residue,
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so she voluntarily gave up her clothes. MAN (ON RECORDING): There's a couple of things
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I need to clear up real quick. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): Certainly. MAN (ON RECORDING): The tests that they
00:32:23
took from your clothes and your hands-- well, they were all sent off. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING):
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How, they probably found lots of cat milk on there. MAN (ON RECORDING): Well, we found a lot of gunshot residue
00:32:30
on you and on the clothes. ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): Really? MAN (ON RECORDING): Yeah.
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ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): That's weird. She's got a lot of explaining to do.
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So now you have a gun that's not matching up, you've got two people dead, you've
00:32:43
got gunshot residue on the wife, and what do they have on their hands? Now this is clearly not just a murder-suicide.
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JASON KNIGHT: They also took her-- while she was at the police station on the first night,
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and she agreed to undergo a polygraph examination. MAN (ON RECORDING): You have a failed polygraph.
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You've not just failed it, you flunked the hell out of it. POLYGRAPH EXAMINER (ON RECORDING):
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Have you been untruthful during this investigation? ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): No.
00:33:15
POLYGRAPH EXAMINER (ON RECORDING): Did you shoot your husband? ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): No.
00:33:19
During the course of the polygraph examination she did poorly on questions regarding what happened,
00:33:25
and the exact details whether she was involved, if she knew what happened. It's a tense time for Anne Arundel County detectives.
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They know she did it, but do they have enough to charge Ann Marie Anastasi with a double homicide?
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The combination of the failed polygraph, Mrs. Anastasi's story not being completely logical,
00:33:49
and the subsequent evidence that the police developed regarding the firearm, regarding the gunshot
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residue, that all led to identifying her as the prime suspect. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Ann Marie refuses to talk.
00:34:03
But when the cops track down 18-year-old Gabriel Struss, he crumbles. Gabriel, when he's confronted, a rock could
00:34:14
have taken his confession. Gabriel right away, freely, starts flowing with the story of what took place, takes
00:34:24
responsibility, lays it all out, and explains exactly what happened. When they go to Gabriel Struss he confesses right away,
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I did it. I'm involved. Yes, I killed them, but I'm not the one who masterminded it.
00:34:43
It was her idea. And then the story starts coming out. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Gabriel can't stop talking,
00:34:50
so investigators piece together Ann Marie's plan for murder and how she intended to get away with it.
00:34:57
JASON KNIGHT: Mrs. Anastasi got up in the morning, went through her family's normal routine,
00:35:00
got the children off to school, she subsequently had a doctor's appointment, and then she went to a grocery store,
00:35:07
she came back to the home, and somewhere in the 12 or 1 o'clock hour called 911 want to report
00:35:13
that Mr Anastasia was dead. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Turns out as plans go, this one isn't good.
00:35:21
ANN MARIE ANASTASI (ON RECORDING): But he's not responding at all, and he's, got his gun
00:35:25
lying next to him in the bed. 911 DISPATCHER (ON RECORDING): Do you think he shot himself?
00:35:29
JASON KNIGHT: Her actions after both Mr. Anastasi and Miss Riggs were dead were exactly that of someone who had a plan.
00:35:37
And that's one of the main things we relied on in determining to charge her with first degree
00:35:43
premeditated murder. Because, you know, obviously, she had this plan leading up to Mr. Anastasi and Mrs. Riggs's death,
00:35:51
but then she clearly had thought through the entire crime, not just how to commit it, but then she
00:35:56
had a plan for after it was committed for how to try to get away with it. MICHELLE TRACHTENBERG: Gabriel Struss get 60 years in prison.
00:36:03
He tells Jacqueline Riggs's family that he wishes he could take back what he had done.
00:36:08
The prosecutors say he was just a puppet. It was the angry wife who planned everything,
00:36:14
but Ann Marie won't accept blame for her part in the killing of her husband and his lover.
00:36:21
Anne Marie takes this special plea, this Alford deal, that allows her to avoid saying I did it.
00:36:27
She never has to admit it. She doesn't take responsibility for it. What it tells me has a fellow human being, as a homicide
00:36:35
detective, Ann Marie-- she never accepts responsibility, never shows any remorse.
00:36:44
There's never an opportunity to see any kind of human side human emotional side of Ann Marie.
00:36:53
What kind of a mother does this? She's so angry at her husband, she's feeling so betrayed
00:37:00
because he's left her and her 18-year marriage is over with because of this woman-- this younger
00:37:06
woman, where you are so mad you want them gone, but you can't do it. So you actually get your young daughter
00:37:15
involved in this murder plot, and get her boyfriend involved in this murder plot.
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How can a mother live with herself? How can a mother do this and then never accept responsibility for it, and never show any remorse?
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The havoc she left behind, and she could still never take full responsibility. But she also receives a 60-year sentence,
00:37:40
as if she was the one that pulled the trigger, as if she was the one who plunged the knife
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42 times into Jacqueline Riggs. Crazy story, right? Remember, the person most likely to kill you could
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be the person you married. I'm Michelle Trachtenberg and I'll see you next time on "Meet, Marry, Murder."
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Episode Highlights

  • A Husband's Betrayal
    A husband moves his mistress into the family home, igniting a dramatic conflict.
    “How could she have probably thought that was going to go well?”
    @ 00m 28s
    January 05, 2023
  • Blueprint for Murder
    Ann Marie and her daughter plot to kill her husband and his mistress, leading to a shocking crime.
    “The texts are a dead giveaway, a blueprint for murder.”
    @ 13m 29s
    January 05, 2023
  • The 911 Call
    Ann Marie Anastasi makes a chilling 911 call reporting her husband's death, revealing her calm demeanor.
    “This 911 call-- what a bizarre call.”
    @ 19m 11s
    January 05, 2023
  • Brutal Discovery
    Officers find Jacqueline Riggs brutally murdered with 42 stab wounds in a chaotic scene.
    “It's like a scene from 'Helter Skelter.'”
    @ 24m 17s
    January 05, 2023
  • Ann Marie's Alford Deal
    Ann Marie takes a plea deal that allows her to avoid admitting guilt for the murders.
    “She never accepts responsibility, never shows any remorse.”
    @ 36m 23s
    January 05, 2023

Episode Quotes

  • How could she have probably thought that was going to go well?
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)
  • Enough is enough.
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)
  • She may not have realized at the time, but from the very first moment...
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)
  • She's casual and cool.
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)
  • What!
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)
  • Crazy story, right?
    This Love Triangle Hit Too Close To Home *LITERALLY* (Meet Marry Murder with Michelle Trachtenberg)

Key Moments

  • Moving In03:59
  • Murder Plot10:35
  • The 911 Call18:39
  • Discovery of the Crime21:06
  • Bloody Scene24:26
  • Shocking Revelation27:06
  • Murder Plot Unfolds34:50
  • Final Thoughts37:51

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