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Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode

June 08, 2022 / 44:04

This episode discusses the tragic case of Ian and Sally Lawrence, focusing on their tumultuous marriage, the events leading to Sally's death, and the subsequent investigation into Ian's actions.

Ian Lawrence, a former airline pilot, and Sally, a successful businesswoman, seemed like a perfect couple until Ian's job loss led to marital strife. Sally's career flourished while Ian struggled, causing jealousy and control issues in their relationship.

As their marriage deteriorated, Sally filed for divorce in 2012, which escalated tensions. Ian's refusal to accept the end of their relationship culminated in a planned car crash intended to kill Sally, making it appear accidental.

On October 6, 2012, Ian crashed his car into a tree with Sally as a passenger, resulting in her death. Evidence revealed that Ian had intentionally disabled the passenger airbag and unclipped Sally's seatbelt before the crash.

After a thorough investigation, Ian was arrested and ultimately convicted of murder, receiving a life sentence. The episode highlights the complexities of their relationship and the tragic outcome of Ian's actions.

TLDR

Ian Lawrence murdered his wife Sally in a staged car crash to gain financially from her death amid their failing marriage.

Episode

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ian and sally lawrence high achievers ian had learned to fly and sally had worked her way up from pa to md ian
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lawrence was a pilot and so was i and i actually introduced them to each other she was basically looking for a partner
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and i said well i know somebody who i thought at the time would be ideal john bolting a father figure in sally's
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life thought them a perfect match but a car crash would claim the life of sally lawrence leave her husband
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apparently injured but being treated in hospital detectives arrive at his bedside it was
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quite clear at that time that his injuries weren't as severe as first portrayed to me i then made a decision
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that mr lawrence would be arrested on suspicion of murder had an airline pilot forgotten that cars
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can tell investigators much about how they've been driven data recorders are
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contained within many modern vehicles so you end up with windows snapshots of the crash
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what would a vehicle's digital record tell detectives searching for the truth
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in the case of mr mrs lawrence [Music] [Music] when ian lawrence and sally perks met it
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seemed that two soul mates had come across each other ian lawrence was seemingly a very successful man he had
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been an airline pilot they he was a successful businessman sally had worked her way up from
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being pa to the managing director at the chemical spills company and she was doing particularly well
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[Music] very very bubbly incredible enthusiasm for life always smiling you know and uh always
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looked on the bright side of everything no matter what it was she was always on the on the plus side you know
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nothing was ever half empty with sully you know and yeah i thought the world of her
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john bolting wanted her to be happy and he thought he knew the right man for her
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she was basically looking for a partner and i said well you know i know somebody who
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i thought at the time would be ideal when sally was introduced to it and they got on really well and
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quite soon were married in a very lavish extravagant wedding i do remember her asking me if i would
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go to church and give her away and i said yes absolutely i would providing she asked her father first because
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they'd fallen out and i'm very happy to say that she did ask her dad and he did
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say yes and he did come and give her away and it was quite um quite a doe they got married instant james the
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greater church in leicester and uh they were somewhere around about between 200 and
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250 people it's a big church a lot of people in there they've splashed out on the reception
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and it's really sort of lavish celebration and everything looks absolutely fine two people very much in
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love big wedding good job good future they led off fifteen thousand quid for the fireworks i mean the display went on
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for about 40 minutes something like that it was quite extraordinary i've never
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seen anything like it [Music] so sally and ian began married life with a bang and for a few years the marriage
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sparkled they lived in a home which sally had bought the couple had a baby they are parents who are older than
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perhaps many he's 40 she's in their late 30s but they don't on this child and
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children can sometimes have a good or a bad effect on relationships it seems in this case it was a good effect because
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it bound them together more and they both loved being parents sally's career was going from strength
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to strength her boss and mentor handed over the reins of the business to her and she began running the company she
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absolutely agreed she took to the job like a doctor walter i couldn't believe
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it how good she was but for ian lawrence things weren't going quite so well in 2007 that seems to be the beginning
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where things started to go wrong for ian lawrence and he was sacked from his job as an airline pilot
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and that seemed to set in motion a kind of a downward spiral it's from this point that the relationship really
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started to go downhill and to turn sour she told me she would have confined an awful lot in me
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and it was it was apparent to me that things were were going really really wrong
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ian became moody short-tempered jealous perhaps of sally's continued success
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the first cracks began to appear in this perfect looking life and marriage when he had lost his job as a pilot
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and him losing his job coincided with sally being on a period of very swift advancement in hers
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she told me things that were not right i knew that they were not you know sharing a room together
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i knew that she was spending a lot of time away with a family in derbyshire so you've kind of got this reversal
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you've got ian being in the position of being the breadwinner being the person
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with the glamorous job he loses that and at the same time sally is on her way up to a position of
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power quite often in some relationships that look almost perfect from the outside things
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are very very different behind the scenes and where you have this almost sometimes you might think it's like a
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managed vision of what the family is that usually means that there's somebody
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in the background who's very controlling and i think probably that ian lawrence
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was a very controlling individual [Music] there is clear evidence that was the case
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we were in a local public on to have a business lunch and she was telling me that she was really frightened of him
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and that um you know she was frightened of what he would do as time went on i think those cracks got
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really big and although that they were living together still they were living separately so the marriage was falling
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apart right in front of his eyes as the marriage began to fail so ian tried to reinvent himself as an
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entrepreneur he started a number of small businesses he would again appear to be a great
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success sally would be impressed he then set up some businesses and latterly he was running a trailer business
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locally in leicester he genuinely thought that the marriage was worth saving and he wanted to save
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it and he also had a share in a go-kart racing business which was based at leicester
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airport this is very much a man who wants to be in control this was a man who insisted that his wife
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fall back in love with him again which clearly wasn't going to happen all of his business ventures failed
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friends suggested to ian that he was trying too hard he was noticeably changed from the high-flying successful
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pilot with a confident way it's pretty clear to see that this was a term for
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the worst for their relationship [Music] one of the things that that controlling
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people really do not deal with very well at all is when they are challenged and usually
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their home life their family their children their financial status is is the way they perceive themselves
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in the world and when that starts to crack they can get quite panic stricken as time went by sally could no longer
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face living within the relationship had broken down she wanted to move on with her life
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and it becomes apparent that the relationship had broken down between ian and sally
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in 2012 sully actually filed for divorce and it was that divorce that seems to have unsettled
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things at that point sally had commenced another relationship with another man she wanted a new relationship and that
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would have been incendiary for somebody like ian lawrence at least at this point there was the
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facade that they were still together that he was still in control and in a lot of ways he did still have a lot of
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control over her because they were still living together but she was going to leave
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and that would have escalated things dramatically she was looking to move on and just
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start a new life away from here things between ian and sally get so bad that she asks him to leave the house and
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he refuses stays there but they are small intents and purposes living separately under the same roof they'd
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been living separate lives for for over a year although living in the same house
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and they were sharing custody of their 10 year old son the relationship was stressful
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for sally what had begun as the perfect marriage had turned into a prison she felt she
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couldn't escape ian was refusing to leave her home and refusing to accept that the marriage was over i said at the
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time to sully i said don't worry all bullies are cowards i said the chances are he won't
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do anything but i couldn't have been more wrong living under the same roof but leading
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separate lives tensions were high in the lawrence household and sally was desperate to move on
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witnessing her one-time high-achieving husband reduced to a frightening wreck she would have seen first hand the
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escalation in his anxiety and his anger and his resentment and she would have been
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very well aware that perhaps he was becoming quite threatening and it was probably quite an
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intimidating atmosphere in that house during this time months after sally had told ian of a new
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relationship ian lawrence was still refusing to accept that the marriage was over and was unrealistically hoping to
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convince sally to stay with him ian has the aim to try to patch things up try and make the marriage
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the relationship and the family work but sally doesn't think that's the way to go
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she doesn't think that that can be done she was looking to move on and just start a new life away from here
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telling ian once and for all that there was no future in the marriage was to be the trigger behind what appeared to be a
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car accident on a road in leicestershire england in october 2012. ian in the background was
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refusing absolutely refusing to let go his whole identity was tied up in this family his
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whole status in the world and there was no way in his head that he was going to let her
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as he saw it do this to him no one but he knew that ian had set a date for murder the
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divorce proceedings were ongoing uh we found out that the decree nissi was was due to be served on monday the 8th of
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october while sally planned her life without him ian lawrence was planning how to get what he felt he deserved
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which in his case meant the proceeds from the sale of the shared house a house he had not paid for
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the house was at the time valued at three hundred thousand pound there's a lot of equity in it that was all in
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sally's name he had nothing and they'd agreed terms and then a couple of
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days before what one day before um he he changed the terms and said he wanted half of the house
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and she said no he wasn't getting it sally had texted her close friends and her daughters and just raising some
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concerns around ian's demeanor he was demanding more money out of the house she was saying in some of her text
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messages that she felt threatened she didn't want to be alone in the house with him
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one of them said she'd locked herself in her bedroom she feared that he would actually kill
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her one day this is one of the really big red flags that we see when this kind of thing
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happens that the victim actually foretells what could possibly happen to them ian was fixating on a date
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october 8th 2012 the day of the decree nissi the day he would get his hands on a family home and
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an insurance payout but only if sally was dead sally also had a life insurance and that would have given in 250 000
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so when we're looking at potential motives for murder there aren't that many but two of the
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main ones are jealousy and greed and they're both motives that ian would have had
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and i think he felt he was running out of time and he needed to put his plan into action he wouldn't have wanted
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sally to be with anybody else and then the financial side that he would gain through sally dying
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before the decree in ec then that was substantial to him as well it's a surprising fact
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more often than not in these cases where somebody absolutely refuses to let go and their behavior starts to escalate
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that they may make the decision that they're going to kill the person who they see as causing all the angst in
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their life once ian lawrence had decided upon his plan sally's fate was sealed there was
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no going back then it was going to happen and lawrence's weapon of choice would be
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a car as a pilot he felt he had the skills to maneuver an engine the way that he
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wished ian lawrence made the decision that he was going to kill sally and he started
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to plan for that and it seems that what he decided he was going to do was make her death look like an accident so that
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he could protect himself he devised a plan to actually crash the car into the tree
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on the road near where they lived iam's practical man and he was an intelligent
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man and he put a lot of thought into his plan the car crash he was planning would
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happen on the ghatri road in odb leicestershire he decided upon the road where he was
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going to do it picked out the tree that he was going to hit done some dummy runs
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or reconnaissance runs to to see what it was like there work out the time of day when it was best to do
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it the murder spot picked he then needed to manipulate things to ensure that sally
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would be in his car the weekend before the divorce would be finalized their child was on a school
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trip and this would mean that ian and sally would be left in the house without him and that's something sally felt she
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couldn't face and didn't want to happen so she made arrangements to go and stay indeed
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with a boyfriend she had her overnight bag packed she had a handbag with a purse and a
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phone all ready to go on the back seat of her car and that would have been around between
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5 and six pm on that saturday evening sally was ready to drive away in her car the other difficulty that he
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had was getting sally actually to get into the car because it was so old and so grubby
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she never went in it she wouldn't go in it she refused to go at it most times
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so he had to come up with a plan that was going to put her in the passenger seat of that car so that he could do
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what he wants to do but she didn't get in to her car and drive away and some of her friends
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thought that that was very unusual she actually got into his car so he must have somehow
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and we don't know how got her to get into his car sally's car was very clean and tidy
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pristine inside very well kept ian's car was more like a workshop it was full of junk full of rubbish
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sally was always well dressed and her daughters would say that she would have never got in that car voluntarily in
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which i don't know how he ever got her into that car it's an old banger and i
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just bought her a new jaguar so i don't know what happened there i never will no
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i don't suppose he may have frightened her into getting the car he may have told some plausible
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story whether he she was coerced whether she was forced we do not know only ian lawrence knows the answer to that
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question but she did get into the car and that was the last time anyone saw her alive
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but what we do know is that she left her home address in the passenger seat of that peugeot and was then driven along
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towards the racecourse and then along stoughton road towards the airport [Applause]
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he had adapted the car to suit his needs for the crash he had planned so at the time ian lawrence had a maroon
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red peugeot 406 estate i think at the time it would have been about 10 years old
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had a private number plate on it which felt windy which um alluded to his flying days i think some of his
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friends called in that as his nickname it was so it's a big big side estate car
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he had her in the position that he wanted with him in control in an area he knew intimately
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he had a go-kart track just up the road we used to go from home to every day so that's the route that he took with
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sully in the car as he drove towards where he knew he was going to crash the car
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he suddenly leaned over and he unclicked sally's seatbelt he had to wait until it was too late for
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sally to realize what was happening but he had to get that seat belt off of her before they hit the tree or else it
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could have saved her and he then put himself into the brace position and drove straight into a tree at 50
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miles an hour in a collision of a magnitude of 50 miles an hour there's a huge amount of
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energy that's dispersed in a collision if you remove all of the restraint systems in a vehicle that are designed
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to protect you the likelihood of injury goes up incredibly and therefore your likelihood of
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suffering fatal injuries are increased greatly this was a high impact collision with a motor
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vehicle and a very large tree the car had an impacted uh almost square on but mainly on the on the passenger side and
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the the hole at the front of the car had crumpled up so it was a significant impact
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if you're not wearing a seat belt when the vehicle stops moving your inertia
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causes you to travel forwards in the case where a seat belt isn't being worn and there's a sudden
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deceleration of the vehicle the occupant moves forward and you can often see them
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striking the windscreen and you end up with damage to the inside of the windscreen pushing it outwards
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and that was how sally was found she died on the scene probably aware in her last few seconds what was happening
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it would have been quite a scary moment particularly in the last few seconds at a speed of 50 miles an hour closing in
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on a tree would have been quite scary the airline pilot had used his skills to fatal effect
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and not without risk to himself the simple act of driving a car deliberately into a tree
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at 50 miles an hour without breaking is something i think many people would find
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very difficult to do it's a high risk strategy driving a car into a tree with the hope that it's going to go so
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perfectly well that you're going to survive and the other person isn't but
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it still shows a very reckless nature he was willing for it to go wrong he felt so strongly
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he was probably willing to die if that's what happened but the important thing
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was that she did i found out the next day the next morning it was absolutely horrendous i was with
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my best friend and i just went into shock i think i think it was about our past midnight
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so going into the 7th of october when i received a call from one of my detective inspectors
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the passenger in the vehicle that has collided with a tree had died at the scene and the driver of
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the vehicle who was a male uh had been taken to hospital and appeared to be unconscious um and had
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on on the face of it some trauma and some potential brain injuries ian lawrence stood to own the family
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home outright and to benefit from a 250 000 pounds insurance payout he had survived the car crash and was going to
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be rushed to hospital whilst sally lay dead in the passenger seat had he committed the perfect murder
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ian lawrence's story after the accident was a kind of a low risk strategy really
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because he pretended that he couldn't remember anything if you can't remember
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anything you can't be picked up on lies through meticulous planning ian lawrence
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had murdered his wife to investigate as his own injuries seemed oddly superficial
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in this case there was a huge disparity in the injuries suffered by both of the occupants in the vehicle the driver
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suffering relatively low level injuries for an impact of this type and the front
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seat passenger sustaining fatal injuries the police and the paramedics arrived at
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the scene and i think there were suspicions straight away especially with the paramedics there were some comments
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around whether or not he was feigning some of his injuries and feigning unconsciousness
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ian lawrence was pretending that he was unconscious but he he wasn't acting that
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out awfully well and the paramedics would be very used to seeing people who who really are unconscious and they
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told of their suspicions to the police the fire brigade had attended and had actually cut the occupants out of the
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vehicle because the doors wouldn't open that was the severity of the impact the
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first two people to arrive on the scene one was a retired police officer and the
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other one was a retired fireman and they knew straight away that something was wrong he was feigning
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being unconscious and they they knew that something was completely wrong the condition that i was being told of the
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driver was that he was in and out of consciousness was displaying signs of trauma
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but nothing visibly physically so he had no cuts no apparent broken bones despite ian's odd behavior and the
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reservations of paramedics on the scene he was admitted into hospital he had been in an accident and seemed to be
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showing signs of a severe head injury he was displaying symptoms equivalent to a seven on the glasgow coma scale
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so the glasgow coma scale is used to ascertain somebody's consciousness and alertness when they've been involved in
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some kind of trauma usually head trauma and they rate from 15 being fully conscious fully mobile down to three
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which means you'd be lying there in a coma and and probably going to die so to be scored as a seven by medical
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experts at that time would put mr lawrence with some severe head injuries that on the face of it weren't apparent
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there didn't appear to be any bruising any swelling or any lacerations that would cause him to have a glasgow coma
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scale of seven at the hospital ian lawrence continued to appear to feign injury by this time the nurses caring for him
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had become suspicious later on a nurse contacted us in the incident room saying she wasn't
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comfortable with a patient that she treated that evening and believed that he may have been feigning some of his
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injuries elsewhere another aspect of ian's story was unravelling so when the police
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started their investigation they were able to find out a lot of information and i don't think people realize quite
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how sophisticated these crash scene analysis are especially with the computerization of
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cars and the knowledge we have about things like tire marks from looking at the scene they weren't
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satisfied that this was a pure accident they noticed that the roads were dry the bend on which the accident happened
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was not a severe bend in fact it would have been drivable to upwards of 70 miles an hour on and
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that would be to remain on the same side of the carriageway it became clear to investigators that
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there was no clear cause for the crash and further anomalies were appearing all of the time
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mark crouch is a crash scene investigator who examines cases just like this one when a tyre slows it will
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lock those kind of marks can be seen on a road surface but there weren't any found on this
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occasion when a vehicle leaves the road particularly on mud grass verge you can get quite a
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distinctive mark where the tire drags the grass drags the mud along and you would expect that to happen even with
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quite a low level of braking what was found on the verge in this case was a rolling tire mark
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that wheel didn't lock out the car had gone into the tree and had not slowed down and they were also able
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to show that there were lots of other places that the car could have come to a stop there were escape routes either
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side of the tree there was a farm gate entrance that would have offered little resistance if you'd wanted to drive
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through that if your brakes had failed you'd have gone into a field and gradually just coasted to a stop so then
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we looked at the actual tyre tracks and and the road that led to the point of impact
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and there was no apparent skid marks on the tarmac further evidence emerged as detectives
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dug deeper the seat belt clasp the retainer of the driver was protruding upwards and that
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is a sign that that has been in an impact and there was abrasions on the seat belt itself consistent with it
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being in place at point of impact the passenger side the clasp retaining claps was sitting
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down in the normal position indicating that the seat belt had not been engaged on the passenger at the time of impact
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her family members were adamant that she was very very safety conscious she would
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never get in a car without putting on her seat belt it was second nature to her and nobody had ever seen her in a
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vehicle without her seatbelt on for ian lawrence apparently slowly regaining consciousness in a hospital
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bed a new challenge what story could he tell the police to explain the mounting evidence against him
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it was about four o'clock in the morning when i had a conversation with the collision
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investigator and as a result of everything that he'd relayed to me i then made a decision
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that mr lawrence would be arrested on suspicion of murder while he was in hospital it was quite clear at that time
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that his injuries weren't as severe as first portrayed to me and he could really at any time discharged
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himself and walked out of hospital so to prevent that and in line with what i knew um he was
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arrested on submission of murder he said he got no memory of it he was unconscious
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memory loss was a convenient claim at the time but it didn't match the fact that medical practitioners could find no
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head injuries it wasn't going to convince the police he was then released from hospital later
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that morning and then taken to a nearby police station he was assessed for suitability for
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detention booked into the police station and then he was underwent a series of interviews
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in his first interviews mr lawrence claimed that he had a total loss of memory um he didn't remember
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anything after five o'clock and he regained his memory he remembers being in hospital at about nine o'clock that
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night so there's a four hour gap there where he he couldn't remember what had
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happened he underestimates all of the other people around him and that's probably because
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he's got a very high opinion of himself and he he it doesn't uh occur to him
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that anybody would see anything other than an accident because he said so ian lawrence was a prime suspect in the
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murder of sally perks who became sally lawrence but detectives have to prove their case beyond doubt
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and ian was sticking to his story so ian maintained throughout his police interview his amnesia and therefore his
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innocence he denied that there was any anything wrong with the relationship he denied that he'd intentionally
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crashed his car he denied that he'd unclipped sally's seatbelt prior to the point of impact
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facing a resolute ian lawrence investigators needed a breakthrough it would come in the shape of a little
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known fact about cars they have the motoring equivalent of the black box found in aeroplanes and are
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designed amongst other things to record the details of an engine's performance
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we found out that within the vehicle there was a electronic control unit that controlled the deployment of the airbags
00:32:09
vehicles were fitted with supplementary restraint systems srs for short they control everything the the airbags the
00:32:16
seat belts but in order to control those it needs to decrypt some of the signals
00:32:20
that are going around the car but the vehicle needs to make a decision when it's going to deploy an airbag that's an
00:32:26
electronic control module often shorted to an acm and it decides when the crash is happening and decides when to deploy
00:32:33
the airbag lots of those acms record the events of a crash so you end up with windows snapshots of the information
00:32:42
that that black box had at the time that the crash occurred the so-called black box revealed the
00:32:49
lengths that ian went to to ensure sally's death so that was recovered from the wreck of the vehicle and we took
00:32:56
that to peugeot and a technician there was able to read the data from that and from the data held within that box we
00:33:03
ascertained that the passenger airbag had been switched off and had been switched off some six
00:33:09
cycles prior to the crash that was was groundbreaking for us we could actually prove that somebody had turned
00:33:18
that airbag off intentionally and that's why it didn't deploy in this collision we have a number of
00:33:27
different factors striking the tree on the passenger side the seat belt not being worn the air bag
00:33:33
being deactivated the lack of clear braking marks as the vehicle left the verge individually those pieces
00:33:41
aren't that significant but when you start looking at all of those together it starts to build quite a compelling
00:33:47
picture that something unconventional happened in this collision in order to disable the airbag
00:33:54
it takes a physical act you have to have the key to the vehicle insert it into a
00:34:00
socket press down into the spring and turn it physically so it couldn't have been done
00:34:06
accidentally it was an intentional act to turn that airbag off so detectives had the method but at that
00:34:15
stage they felt they didn't have the motive ian was maintaining that the couple were
00:34:20
in a close relationship to him um they lived together they've been living together for over 10 years
00:34:26
they had a 10 year old son they had a normal family life and he didn't allude
00:34:32
to any problems with the relationship at all so as part of our ongoing investigation throughout that next day
00:34:38
we're in contact with sally's family members through her sister her daughters
00:34:44
and it becomes apparent that the relationship had broken down between ian and sully they'd been living
00:34:51
separate lives for for over a year although living in the same house um the relationship was
00:34:58
stressful and we we then later found out that in fact sally had commenced another
00:35:04
relationship with another man um and had been in that relationship for about 10 months
00:35:12
this coupled with the black box evidence was enough for detective neil castle to
00:35:16
make his move that on the face of it was fresh evidence for us it was something that we
00:35:20
weren't aware of before wally and lawrence had been in custody either made policy decisions that was fresh evidence
00:35:27
sent officers out to further arrest lawrence he was brought back into custody a short interview and then we
00:35:34
presented those facts to the cps and they gave us authorized to charge murder ian lawrence was arrested for murder but
00:35:44
he was maintaining his innocence and police had to convince a jury that these were not just coincidences or ian
00:35:50
lawrence might still walk free and he was already planning what he might say to get away with murder
00:35:57
he said he had a dream while he was in prison and it came back to him in a dream
00:36:02
saying that he had a medical condition and he could prove that his leg spasm ian lawrence had been charged with the
00:36:21
murder of his wife investigators were painstakingly piecing together events before the car crash that lawrence was
00:36:27
still claiming had been an accident it emerged that central to what happened that october evening was sally's planned
00:36:34
trip sally was planning to go away for the weekend on that saturday evening and she had her overnight bag
00:36:42
packed and that would have been around between five and six pm on that saturday evening
00:36:49
why then had she got into the car with ian clearly she would not have left a handbag there and keys and money
00:36:58
to get into his car this filthy car that she'd never get into unless she'd been forced
00:37:06
part of the defense evidence that the jury had to consider was that lawrence had crashed because of a leg spasm
00:37:13
ian lawrence eventually came up with a version of events that while he was driving along that road he had a seizure
00:37:21
in his leg which then pressed down on the accelerator increased speed of the vehicle he was
00:37:26
unable to move his leg and engage the brake but he did manage to get his foot off
00:37:33
the accelerator but the vehicle glided and continued towards the tree he didn't give any
00:37:39
explanation as to why the passenger side took the full full force of the impact the prosecution evidence was put to the
00:37:53
jury they were told that sally known for her safety consciousness had not been wearing a seatbelt at the time of the
00:37:59
crash ian appeared to be prepared for the crash by adopting a brace position that could be concluded from a mark left
00:38:08
on his chest by the watch that he was wearing it was a large face watch and visibly
00:38:14
it looked a similar size to the bruce on his chest and the only way that that could have got there is that if he and
00:38:20
lawrence had adopted a brace position by folding his left arm right arm under his seat belt and then on impact
00:38:28
the seat belt would have tensioned and squeezed his arm and hence his watch tightly into his chest causing that
00:38:36
bruise he knew that he was going to strike that tree and yet he had peace of mind to adopt
00:38:44
that brace position he also must have raised his legs up because there was no impact and no injury to either of his
00:38:51
legs and yet the car was concertina quite badly the car's controls had been altered to prevent an airbag deploying a
00:39:00
job lawrence would have found straightforward turning passenger airbags off is quite
00:39:05
an easy thing to do it's a function that's built into many vehicles because
00:39:09
if you wanted to fit a child seat to the front of the car for example it's unsafe
00:39:13
to have an airbag that would go off in those scenarios most of them activated on a key so you
00:39:18
can just turn it off on the side of the vehicle to stop the airbag activating in a crash laptop
00:39:25
at the scene of the crash he had pretended to be unconscious not too convincingly to the paramedics
00:39:31
who arrived even at a crime scene those suspicions of the paramedic are probably the thing
00:39:39
that sparked the investigation so ian lawrence made another mistake there he tried to fake being unconscious and he
00:39:48
clearly didn't know how to do that and as investigators probed the timelines of the lives of ian and sally
00:39:55
it became clear that they were far from happy and that ian stood to gain financially from sally's death
00:40:01
to do so however might not be possible after their divorce was final the former airline pilot had a deadline to meet he
00:40:10
decided that he was going to try to murder sally and try and do that in a way which
00:40:17
as far as he could see would be the perfect murder and if he succeeded there was much to
00:40:23
gain i know why he did it he did it for money he he was a failed businessman he got
00:40:30
three small companies all of which were struggling he murdered her on a saturday
00:40:34
the decree nice high was due two days later on the monday and um sally had been very successful she had a
00:40:42
great job she was well paid she had a lovely big house at that time was worth i don't know
00:40:48
350 000 pounds something like that and he had nothing despite his careful planning and
00:40:57
continued claims of innocence the jury unanimously found him guilty of the murder of his wife
00:41:02
i had no misgiving thoughts however i knew what the verdict was going to be everybody cheered at the time i didn't
00:41:09
ian lawrence made one last desperate bid to escape justice he appealed offering evidence of an excuse that he had raised
00:41:16
in court during his trial he claimed to have multiple sclerosis which had caused
00:41:21
a spasm in his leg so that he had unwillingly pushed down hard on the car's accelerator
00:41:27
i mean it was just so pathetic you know there was nothing wrong with the steering wheel even if what
00:41:35
ian lawrence had said about having a leg spasm were true he could still have steered the car away from the tree but
00:41:42
what they found in the appeal was that his leg spasm would not have caused the accident as it happened
00:41:51
he got life with a minimum of 24 years the judge put three years extra on for it being for money
00:42:01
he put another three years on for him using the car as a weapon to kill her and then he put another three years
00:42:10
on because it was premeditated the couple had met and appeared the perfect match on a lavish wedding day
00:42:21
they had begun their own family before ian's world disintegrated around him leaving him bitter
00:42:28
angry eventually he had killed his wife but justice had been done so everything we do as police officers
00:42:39
is for the families of the victims and it's a great feeling when you can look
00:42:43
the family in the eye and you know that you've done you and your team have done
00:42:47
everything you can to secure and preserve the evidence to then put a case together presented at court
00:42:54
and convince the jury that that person was guilty of that offence and that's
00:42:59
what we did ian lawrence will not be eligible for parole until 2037. sally was 47 when she died and was
00:43:07
described in court as inspirational caring and kind [Music] you

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Episode Highlights

  • A Perfect Match
    Ian and Sally seemed like soul mates, both high achievers in their fields.
    “When Ian and Sally met, it seemed that two soul mates had come across each other.”
    @ 01m 32s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Cracks Begin to Show
    Ian's job loss leads to jealousy and tension in their marriage.
    “The first cracks began to appear in this perfect looking life and marriage.”
    @ 05m 18s
    June 08, 2022
  • A Marriage in Crisis
    Sally files for divorce, escalating tensions with Ian.
    “Sally actually filed for divorce and it was that divorce that seems to have unsettled things.”
    @ 08m 50s
    June 08, 2022
  • Planning the Unthinkable
    Ian meticulously plans Sally's murder to look like an accident.
    “Ian Lawrence made the decision that he was going to kill Sally.”
    @ 15m 09s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Fatal Crash
    Ian crashes the car, resulting in Sally's death.
    “The airline pilot had used his skills to fatal effect.”
    @ 21m 05s
    June 08, 2022
  • Ian's Arrest
    Ian Lawrence was arrested on suspicion of murder while recovering in the hospital.
    “It was quite clear at that time that his injuries weren't as severe as first portrayed.”
    @ 29m 44s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Black Box Evidence
    Investigators uncovered that the passenger airbag was intentionally deactivated before the crash.
    “We could actually prove that somebody had turned that airbag off intentionally.”
    @ 33m 16s
    June 08, 2022
  • Ian Lawrence's Motive Revealed
    Ian Lawrence murdered his wife for financial gain, as he faced bankruptcy.
    “I know why he did it; he did it for money.”
    @ 40m 25s
    June 08, 2022
  • The Verdict
    Despite his claims of innocence, the jury unanimously found Ian guilty of murder.
    “Despite his careful planning and continued claims of innocence, the jury unanimously found him guilty.”
    @ 40m 59s
    June 08, 2022
  • Sally's Legacy
    Sally was remembered as an inspirational and caring individual after her tragic death.
    “Sally was 47 when she died and was described in court as inspirational, caring, and kind.”
    @ 43m 07s
    June 08, 2022

Episode Quotes

  • I couldn’t believe how good she was.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode
  • All bullies are cowards.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode
  • Sally feared that he would actually kill her one day.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode
  • It was an intentional act to turn that airbag off.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode
  • He did it for money.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode
  • Justice had been done.
    Meet, Marry, Murder - Season 1, Episode 8 - Lawrence - Full Episode

Key Moments

  • Perfect Match01:35
  • Marriage Crisis08:50
  • Planning Murder15:09
  • Fatal Crash21:05
  • Suspicion Arises23:33
  • Arrest and Investigation29:44
  • Black Box Discovery32:49
  • Trial and Verdict40:59

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