The Sex Expert: "Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous For Women!" - Louise Perry
- Jun 20, 2024
- 1:49:48
- Full Episode
Louise Perry is a British journalist and host of the ‘Maiden Mother Matriarch’ podcast. She is also press officer for the charity, ‘We Can’t Consent To This’ and author of the book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’.
0:00 Intro 02:21 What are you trying to achieve?? 04:24 What does society disagree with you on? 05:00 The trade-offs of the contraceptive pill 06:09 How has sexual culture changed? 07:38 Working in a rape crisis centre 10:28 How to channel men's aggression in the right direction 12:38 The physical differences between men and women 14:07 How men and women differ in their view on sexuality 15:37 Why men are more likely to have casual sex 18:38 How does a culture of casual sex impact women 24:10 Repercussions of casual sex in society 29:33 The lack of communication and education is hurting both genders 31:57 Why women have icks towards men 34:09 Women should listen to their icks 38:49 Women's 6th sense 41:41 There are some jobs women shouldn't do due to biology 47:23 Heroic masculinity 49:01 Social media affecting our view on relationships & dating 51:33 Wait until engagement to have sex 56:50 The dating crisis 01:01:20 Why you should have sex before marriage 01:04:08 Why is marriage good 01:08:12 How likely you're to get divorced 01:11:41 Step-parents vs biological parents 01:15:26 Why are you saying these unpopular opinions 01:20:29 The decline in birth rates 01:25:55 What porn is doing to your brain 01:30:55 Is reproduction at the heart of male motivation? 01:31:42 Unwanted choking during sex 01:34:03 Should we ban porn? 01:41:15 What are we attracted to? 01:45:29 Better looking people bias 01:48:44 The last guest's question
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Brief Summary
Louise Perry discusses the risks of casual sex for women and the societal impact of changing sexual norms.
Key points
- The Impact of the Pill. Louise Perry argues that the introduction of the pill has profoundly affected women's roles in society.
- The Impact of the Pill on Sexual Norms. The introduction of the pill shifted sexual expectations, making casual sex more common.
- The Ambiguity of Consent. The Aziz Ansari case highlights the complexities of consent and social cues in sexual encounters.
- Women's Disgust Threshold. Women report feeling disgusted after casual sexual encounters more than men do.
- The Role of Women in Policing. Women may excel in roles requiring empathy, but physical confrontations pose challenges.
- The Complexity of Masculinity. Exploring the dual nature of male aggression and courage in society.
Episode highlights
- The Impact of the PillLouise Perry argues that the introduction of the pill has profoundly affected women's roles in society.“The pill is an enormous game changer where suddenly it's a choice.”4:06Jun 20, 2024
- The Impact of the Pill on Sexual NormsThe introduction of the pill shifted sexual expectations, making casual sex more common.“It suddenly was like the default was not we're not having sex.”25:39Jun 20, 2024
- The Ambiguity of ConsentThe Aziz Ansari case highlights the complexities of consent and social cues in sexual encounters.“There's so much ambiguity in terms of what everyone is supposed to do.”28:19Jun 20, 2024
- Women's Disgust ThresholdWomen report feeling disgusted after casual sexual encounters more than men do.“Women feel disgusting after casual encounters, while men feel fine.”30:23Jun 20, 2024
- The Role of Women in PolicingWomen may excel in roles requiring empathy, but physical confrontations pose challenges.“Women are better at interviewing, but physical differences matter in policing.”42:34Jun 20, 2024
- The Complexity of MasculinityExploring the dual nature of male aggression and courage in society.“How do we put youthful male energy to the best possible purposes?”46:29Jun 20, 2024
- The Emotional Bond of SexDiscussing how women tend to bond more emotionally through sexual encounters than men.“Women get more emotionally bonded from sex than men do.”1:02:50Jun 20, 2024
- Divorce Culture's ImpactDivorce culture may lead to regrettable permanent decisions during stressful life phases.“Divorce culture encourages people to make permanent decisions they may regret.”1:09:44Jun 20, 2024





