The Body Trauma Expert: This Eye Movement Trick Can Fix Your Trauma! The Body Keeps The Score!
- Dec 23, 2024
- 2:02:55
- Full Episode
Bessel van der Kolk is Professor of Psychiatry at Boston University School of Medicine and President of the Trauma Research Foundation. He is the author of the global bestselling book ‘The Body Keeps The Score’.
00:00 Intro 02:17 Bessel's Mission 02:54 What Is Trauma? 04:22 What Trauma Treatments Do You Disagree With? 05:48 Does Rationalising Your Trauma Help? 06:47 What Is Considered Trauma? 09:26 Can Small Events Lead to Trauma? 10:05 Bessel's Experience as a Psychiatrist 12:29 Bessel's Parents 15:17 Consequences of Child Abuse 15:53 Is It Important to Understand Childhood Experiences? 16:28 Was Your Mother an Incest Victim? 17:17 How Many Patients Trace Issues to Childhood Experiences? 17:46 Examples of Child Abuse 19:03 How Culture Influences Parenting 21:37 Disciplining Children 23:49 Liberation Equals Separation 25:29 What Did You Learn for Your Children? 26:46 Medical Treatment for Behavioural Dysfunctions in Children 30:21 Impact of Movement on Healing 31:46 Importance of Secure Attachment to a Caregiver 32:43 Can You Heal from Childhood Trauma? 34:18 The Body Keeps the Score 36:12 Somatic Approach to Healing 36:39 Are Women More in Touch with Somatic Healing? 37:47 Impact of Trauma on Creativity 41:00 Trauma as a Perception 44:50 How Many People Have Trauma? 45:35 How Does Trauma Affect Brain Activity? 49:46 Study: Reliving a Traumatic Event 54:59 Most Radical Improvement in Clinical Practice 55:40 EMDR 57:39 How Effective Is EMDR Therapy? 58:46 Demonstration of EMDR 1:03:57 Breath work 1:05:40 Impact of Yoga on Trauma 1:06:08 Study: Effects of a Weekly Yoga Class 1:07:54 Disconnection and Hypersensitivity 1:10:12 Impact of Physical Activity on Trauma 1:13:01 Picking Up People's Energy 1:15:47 Challenges of Individualistic Cultures 1:16:33 Role of Community and Social Connections in Trauma 1:17:22 Are Women Better at Forming Connections? 1:18:04 Building Relationships in the Army 1:18:59 Building Connections Through Sports 1:20:04 How to Get By in an Individualistic Society 1:20:59 Are You Optimistic About the Future? 1:21:58 Are You Able to Point Out Anything Good About Trump? 1:22:19 Human Inclination Toward Fighting 1:22:39 Three Ways to Reverse the Damage of Trauma 1:25:38 Types of Brainwaves 1:27:33 Psychedelic Therapy 1:28:12 Body Practices 1:28:53 Is Touch Healing? 1:29:06 Talk Therapy 1:29:31 Bessel's View on Taking Medications 1:29:53 The Bottom-Up Approach 1:31:38 Does Going to the Gym Help? 1:33:50 Bessel's View on Psychedelic Therapy 1:37:46 Effects of MDMA 1:39:10 Impact of Psychedelics on Treatment-Resistant Depression 1:40:18 Bessel's Experience with Psychedelics 1:42:57 How Did Psychedelic Experiences Change You? 1:43:33 Have You Healed from Your Trauma? 1:44:21 Psychodrama 1:49:18 The Rise in ADHD Diagnoses 1:51:31 Cause of ADHD 1:52:28 Is ADHD Over diagnosed? 1:55:06 How Can We Raise Untraumatised Kids? 1:56:09 Helping People in Traumatic Events 1:58:06 Question from the Previous Guest
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Brief Summary
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk discusses trauma, its effects, and treatment methods like EMDR and psychedelics, emphasizing community support in healing.
Key points
- The Misuse of 'Trauma'. The term 'trauma' has evolved, often losing its true meaning.
- The Importance of Acknowledgment. Not being acknowledged as a child can lead to lifelong issues.
- The Role of Trauma in Parenting. Exploring how childhood experiences shape parenting styles and the importance of secure attachments.
- Healing from Childhood Trauma. Discussing the possibility of healing from trauma and the importance of early experiences.
- Understanding Trauma's Impact on the Brain. How trauma affects brain function and perception, leading to anxiety and triggers.
- The Efficacy of EMDR. A discussion on the effectiveness of EMDR in treating trauma.
Episode highlights
- The Misuse of 'Trauma'The term 'trauma' has evolved, often losing its true meaning.“Now everybody talks everything is a trauma.”3:43Dec 23, 2024
- The Importance of AcknowledgmentNot being acknowledged as a child can lead to lifelong issues.“The crux is not being acknowledged and honored.”17:50Dec 23, 2024
- The Role of Trauma in ParentingExploring how childhood experiences shape parenting styles and the importance of secure attachments.“Kids teach us how to be very important teachers.”25:16Dec 23, 2024
- Healing from Childhood TraumaDiscussing the possibility of healing from trauma and the importance of early experiences.“You can heal from your childhood trauma absolutely.”32:53Dec 23, 2024
- Understanding Trauma's Impact on the BrainHow trauma affects brain function and perception, leading to anxiety and triggers.“Trauma is a perception in your brain.”41:34Dec 23, 2024
- The Efficacy of EMDRA discussion on the effectiveness of EMDR in treating trauma.“78% of people with adult trauma were completely cured.”57:59Dec 23, 2024
- Yoga's Role in HealingExamining how yoga can help reconnect individuals with their bodies.“Yoga makes it possible for you to reconnect your senses.”1:07:58Dec 23, 2024
- The Power of Community in TraumaBonding with others is crucial for trauma recovery, as seen in combat veterans.“Trauma is survived by bonding with other people.”1:16:24Dec 23, 2024





