Secret Buddhist Practice To Stop Self Hate & Overthinking!
- Jun 23, 2025
- 1:50:56
- Full Episode
From 6 years in isolation to sounding the alarm, Buddhist Gelong Thubten reveals the hidden epidemic no one is talking about with stress, depression, buddhism, meditation, mental health and more.
Thubten is one of the UK’s most influential meditation teachers, who spent 6 years in isolated meditation retreats, including one which lasted 4 years. He is also the bestselling author of books such as, ‘Handbook for Hard Times: A Monk's Guide to Fearless Living’.
He explains: ◽️ The hidden mental health crisis that’s silently destroying your emotional well-being. ◽️ Why Western culture increases anxiety, depression, and disconnection ◽️ The biggest myths about meditation and how to meditate properly. ◽️ The real reason your meditation practice isn’t working. ◽️ How screen time and phone addiction are hijacking your brain and inner peace. ◽️ Why rejecting pleasure can lead to lasting connection and clarity. ◽️ How unresolved trauma controls your mind and how mindfulness can free you.
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⏱ Timestamps:
00:00 Intro 02:33 Why Is Thubten's Message More Important Now Than Ever Before? 03:03 Thubten's Concerns About Western Society 03:53 Where Does Life Purpose Come From? 05:17 Is Search for Purpose a Misplaced Pursuit? 06:30 Why Is Western Society Increasingly Unhappy? 08:57 Is It Wrong to Find Meaning in the Pursuit of Goals? 11:40 What Led Thubten to Become a Monk? 13:52 Thubten's Difficult Past and Its Impact on His Mind 18:07 Where Do Negative Internal Voices Originate From? 19:05 Who Influenced Thubten to Go to a Monastery? 19:55 Thubten's Heart Condition 20:50 Key Aspects of Living as a Monk 22:27 What Are the Advantages of Celibacy? 24:24 Is Abstinence Sufficient to Overcome Compulsive Behaviour? 27:07 What Is Buddhism? 29:44 Thubten's Journey of Healing 31:34 What Is Meditation? 36:40 Benefits of Buddhist Practices 41:14 Can a Buddhist Mindset Go Hand in Hand With Effectiveness at Work? 46:46 Ads 48:42 How Does Buddhism Think About Victimhood and Trauma? 51:53 Breaking Free From Suffering 58:18 Can We Run Away From Our Pain? 1:04:51 How to Love Yourself When You Feel Broken 1:05:58 Coping With Grief and Loss 1:10:22 Focusing on the Pain in a Loving Way 1:13:19 The Practice of Forgiveness 1:20:18 Ads 1:22:13 Are We Living in a Culture of Fear? 1:25:08 How to Protect Yourself From Fear 1:27:14 The Gap Between Impulse and Action 1:28:14 Incorporating Meditation Into Your Daily Life 1:31:23 Live Meditation 1:38:23 How Can Meditation Change Your Life 1:41:41 Why Did Thubten Take Vows for Life? 1:42:28 Does Working on Your Mind Ever End? 1:43:18 The Gap Between Knowing and Doing 1:45:19 Is Meditation Retreat a Good Idea to Get Started? 1:45:57 Is Buddhism a Solution to the Current World Problems? 1:47:57 Question From the Previous Guest
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Brief Summary
Buddhist monk Gerong Tupton discusses meditation's role in overcoming modern mental health challenges and finding inner peace.
Key points
- The Burden of Modern Life. In today's world, we often feel like something is missing, leading to anxiety and depression.
- The Journey to Monastic Life. Gerong Tupton shares his path to becoming a monk after hitting rock bottom.
- The Power of Desire. Understanding desire is crucial; it's about working with it, not suppressing it.
- Buddhism as Medicine. Buddhism is described as a path to inner understanding and mental discovery.
- Meditation and Mindfulness. Meditation helps in transforming our relationship with thoughts, leading to inner freedom.
- The Power of Meditation. Meditation can transform pain into acceptance and clarity, leading to personal growth.
Episode highlights
- The Burden of Modern LifeIn today's world, we often feel like something is missing, leading to anxiety and depression.“We're constantly made to feel we're not good enough.”2:54Jun 23, 2025
- The Journey to Monastic LifeGerong Tupton shares his path to becoming a monk after hitting rock bottom.“I went to a monastery in a completely broken state.”11:14Jun 23, 2025
- The Power of DesireUnderstanding desire is crucial; it's about working with it, not suppressing it.“You are more than your desire.”22:48Jun 23, 2025
- Buddhism as MedicineBuddhism is described as a path to inner understanding and mental discovery.“Buddhism is a path to internal understanding.”27:24Jun 23, 2025
- Meditation and MindfulnessMeditation helps in transforming our relationship with thoughts, leading to inner freedom.“Meditation makes you more compassionate.”44:00Jun 23, 2025
- The Power of MeditationMeditation can transform pain into acceptance and clarity, leading to personal growth.“Happiness is about being okay with your suffering.”1:02:11Jun 23, 2025
- A Journey Through GriefThe loss of a teacher leads to profound insights about pain and acceptance.“The meditation saw me through.”1:07:07Jun 23, 2025
- Sending Love into PainA powerful practice of sending love into your pain can transform your experience.“You are sending love into the pain you are experiencing.”1:08:54Jun 23, 2025





