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Dr. Dani. My favorite murder And it's the mailbag. Georgie, you want to go first?
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I would love to. OK, this is called Surprise. I have a secret sibling. And this is actually from the fan call.
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I got we got so many good submissions for the mini mini for the fan call that I just
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had to pull one for, you know, I love to pull one for the main episode. So this is a long story, so I'll make it snappy.
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When I was 15 or 16 years old, circa 2007, I was out and about with my mom running errands
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when she randomly turned to me and said, as if this was normal, oh, by the way, don't be surprised if in the future,
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someone reaches out to you claiming to be your sister. They probably are. Dumbfounded, I asked my mom to repeat what she just said.
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She proceeds to tell me that when my mom and dad were dating, my mom found out what was supposed to be my dad's ex-girlfriend
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was newly pregnant and having a girl. Oh, surprise. All my mom knew was that the ex-girlfriend's plan was to flee to Canada and give my sister up for adoption because at the time my dad was suing her for full custody.
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But my mom never found out what happened. For 10 years, this would be all I knew about my potential sister that may or may not still exist.
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Cut to 2017 and I'm looking through old Facebook messages and I find a message from a girl that I'd never seen before asking if I knew a man named Bob.
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Bob was not my dad's name, but for the sake of the story, just go with it. I thought this was odd as the message was from 2009.
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That's like 10 years before. And yet I had no recollection of receiving it. On a whim, I responded, yes, I know Bob.
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He's my dad. I shit you not. 20 minutes later, she responded and all caps. It was her. It was my sister.
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Well, we immediately started talking and I asked her for her birth date and info,
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then cross reference the information she gave with my mom's recollection and timeline. And it
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was her. That's good to do some sleuthing. You don't want to get scammed, you know.
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Don't just accept any sister that comes along on Facebook. It's it's could be the MyPillow guy.
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You don't know. Ground rules, people. Please. We've been talking on and off since I responded
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to her message and send each other holiday gifts on occasion. And in 2018, I got to go up to
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Vancouver, Canada. I'm in Seattle, Washington, and met her for the first time. We are so alike.
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It's eerie. Turns out the old question of is it nurture or nature is for us 100% nature.
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Meeting her was not only weird since no one in my family has ever mentioned her existence to me even though they all knew where she was Also because she was able to fill in a lot of key information that I had been missing my entire life about our father As it
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turns out, my dad was cheating on both our moms at the same time. And unfortunately, her birth
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mother, I have to put alleged because I guess laws and stuff, was allegedly raped by our father.
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Oh, no. I believe it was this reason that no one in my family told me about my secret sister
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until my mom blurted it out in 2007. My mom and dad divorced when I was three months old
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because he was emotionally and physically abusive and an all-around piece of shit.
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So I have a strong belief that our father did indeed rape her mother. It has been a whirlwind to get to meet someone
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I never knew truly existed. She is an amazing person, a mother to three kids, and I have so enjoyed getting to know her.
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And we're currently planning a trip to Salem, Massachusetts to get our witchy vibes on.
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Hopefully, hopefully next October, COVID willing. What a crazy thing to be like, we're both into witches.
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Let's go to Salem. Like, I never knew you. Come on, new sister. Let's do some practical magic together.
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I love it. Although I wish I had her growing up. I have a half brother who is eight years younger.
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I am so happy that her mom was able to escape our father, flee to Canada, and that she was adopted to an amazing family
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and had a great childhood. Given my childhood experiences, I can't say that would have been true if her mother had stayed.
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Love you all. Stay sexy and check your Facebook messages for secret siblings. Amanda E. And then she says, totally doesn't need to say this, but says, I apologize for the incorrect grammar and run on sentences.
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I'm an engineer. I'm good at math. And that's about it. Amanda, you did great. What an incredible story that has that twist that you don't expect.
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and like so could be a tragic story, but it's one of like, of course, women triumphing and coming
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together. I love that. Well, it's really beautiful that it doesn't really the source doesn't really
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matter because it's that relationship that they have now. And that weird thing of this sister
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bond where it is like the idea that you would have a sister you didn't know about in the second
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you meet her. It's like, yeah, that's completely my sister. I love that. And I love that despite
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these horrible things, these women were able to thrive. Despite this horrible man, these women
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were able to thrive like in spite of him. And like, it's a real fuck you to this dad.
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Or it's just a completely separate living and existence that it has nothing to do with that
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guy. It's just like he was a part of it and now he's not anywhere in it. And that's and it doesn't
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really matter. And now they're doing their thing. That's I mean, not to change, not to correct your
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thing, but there's also that thing of maybe they're not living in bitterness and fuck you.
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Maybe they're just being like, oh, my God, it's this lovely relationship is like healed all that.
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It's it's a healing experience. I love that. It sounds like to me. No, it's a good that's a good way to spin it instead of my anger and bitterness.
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Well, justified, justified, though, justified. But I think this is like a thing of moving past,
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which is what I find kind of like heartening and lightening about it. Totally. And witchiness.
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Always a good, always a plus. Oh, yeah. I just, I also, not to go all the way back,
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but the idea that the mother randomly while they're out shopping, like what was going on?
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How do you make decisions like that when you're like, I really need to tell this person this thing.
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Am I going to wait till, do you wait till after dinner? Do you wait till this? And then it's a thing that presses on you until you just say it at the weirdest.
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Yeah. So you're like eggs, bread, milk. You have a secret sibling, bacon. Things are much worse with your father than you even could imagine.
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And now let's go get shoes. You're 15 or 16. This is the time. Yeah. God bless her.
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All right. Here's my first email on this. The subject line is son of Sam Berkowitz connection at work.
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Hello, cool aunts. I'm a substance use counselor at an amazing clinic that's expanding to be able to serve a wider array of people in the community.
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We just hired a really impressive art therapist. And as we sat in my office shooting the shit until our next appointment showed up, I learned that she grew up in Yonkers, New York.
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Upon hearing this, my little murderino heart leapt out of my chest, having recently finished watching Sons of Sam.
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Instead of immediately acting on my instinct, I brought up that I completed my undergrad at Sarah Lawrence, which is just outside of Yonkers.
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After a few minutes, I started to ease into the murderino territory because how could I not?
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And began talking about how I recently learned more about the son of Sam murders and David Berkowitz.
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And then she says, oh, yeah, he was my mailman. My brother and I used to tease him.
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Oh, he's got to be someone's mailman since he was a mailman. Oh, my God. After hearing this, I was completely unable to play it cool, so I pressed her for all the details.
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When she was 12 years old, she and her brother would hang out on the balcony on the second floor of their home in the afternoons, right about the same time the mail was delivered, each day.
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My coworker and her younger brother would stare at him as he walked into the yard, at which point he would look up and angrily ask,
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What are you kids looking at? And my coworker would respond to this with, Your rat face.
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Oh my God. Oh, my God. What a perfect slam. Your rat face. To which he replied, I'm going to get you, kid.
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My co-worker stated that she now sees he was saying this in a more teasing, joking way.
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But that didn't that they did not know that at the time. And so by being slightly afraid of him they continue to how the mailman and would at times hide behind the fence and yell rat face at him as he walked by So in a way they as children bullied David Berkley I was just thinking that too
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where it's like, stop doing that. Yeah. Not that. Right. Not that that's an excuse. But
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she also said when she ran away from home when she was a teenager, she lived at Untermyer Park.
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Holy shit. And then it says in parentheses where the cult did their cult shit. And she was well
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aware of the dark things that were supposedly going on in the park's ruins. Needless to say,
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this is my new favorite work friend. I know you hear it each and every day, but on behalf of the
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mental health community, thank you for being who you are and championing the causes that you do.
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Shame kills. Go see your therapist, say sexy, and don't be afraid to call your local serial killer
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out on their shit. Andrea. And then it says pronounced Andrea, or really however you want
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to pronounce it, I've been called worse. Andrea, good one. I mean, this is a whole different time
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when bullying was encouraged. Bullying adults was fine. Yeah. You know, and threatening children
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was encouraged. It'll give them something to be scared about. It was just it was loosey-goosey
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in the on the East Coast or all over the nation. But, you know, people could just kind of throw
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words wherever they wanted back then. There was no one to tell anybody to do better. Clap, clap.
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Thank you. Hashtag thank you. Okay. I accidentally mutilated my grandmother's corpse. Lighthearted.
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Also a badass grandma story. Oh, no. It's not that bad. Okay. I promise. Hello, friendos.
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So my granny, Annie, died a few years ago, right? She had gotten cancer a few times in her life
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before her death. During her last hospitalization, she wasn't allowed to eat salt because of whatever
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medication she was on. She was super cheesed off about the lack of salt on her already gross
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hospital food. So she had one of her kids smuggle a dime bag full of salt into the hospital.
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Granny Annie, don't give a fuck. Which she kept in her bra. Nice. When she was eventually caught
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by nurses, she told them it was cocaine. She was 88 at the time. Fast forward to when she eventually died and about 60 family members are at her open casket
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viewing. She had five children who organized the visitation who were absolutely horrified upon seeing
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her body. For whatever reason, the mortician had put neon pink lipstick on granny's lips, despite
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having a reference photo which showed her in natural makeup. Her kids were mortified at the pink lips on their mother's corpse.
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Half joking, my older sister and I asked if they wanted us to change the lipstick and they said yes.
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In the middle of the viewing, her children formed a human blockade around the casket,
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pretending to be grieving silently so they could block the view of the casket from guests.
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My sister and I then hesitantly got to work. We wiped off the pink lipstick with a paper towel, all caps, taking off all the skin on her lips with the lipstick.
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We just slapped the new lipstick right on top of it in the general shape of lips.
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We left the tube of liquid lipstick in Granny's casket just in case she needed it in the afterlife.
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To this day, I wonder if the mortician saw our handiwork after the service, wondering what the actual fuck happened to this poor lady's corpse.
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I really hope she wasn't offended that we changed her hard work. Just a side note to Granny's badassery.
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She had a gay son and many gay grandchildren who she'd never judged and all came out to her without issue.
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She was pro-sex work and put my father in his place when he gave my sister a hard time for stripping and making adult films.
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She had confronted strangers in public for using racial slurs on several occasions and definitely would have attended Black Lives Matter protests if she was alive at the time.
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For a couple months, she didn't tell anyone that she had gone 75% blind in her old age and continued to drive her car, explaining that she wanted, quote, just a few more joy rides before handing over her license.
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Yep. Thankfully, she didn't hurt anyone or herself literally driving blind. One last story.
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Christmas before her death, she morbidly gave out some of her jewelry to some of the grandchildren.
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When we asked her why she was giving away her jewelry, her response was, I'm old as hell and definitely going to die soon.
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She was laughing at our horrified looks following that statement. A few months after her death, I visited a psychic medium.
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Granny came through and started talking about the lipstick in her casket. The medium was very confused while my husband and I wheezed laughed ourselves off our chairs.
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her ghost still shows up around the house from time to time before she died she established
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quote secret codes for us to recognize when she haunted us oh my god my sister and i did this
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when we were little for me she agreed to not glad cups over and quote sing me a little song
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when she was around her ghost has broken about five glasses up to this point and every now and
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then my husband and I, sometimes the guests, will hear her voice humming or singing a little tune.
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We miss her dearly. As Granny Annie would definitely say, stay sexy. Nicole Gable,
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you can use my last name. Nicole, with all that information you provided, I am sure that your
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grandmother saw what happened at the funeral home that day and was laughing her ass off.
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That's the only reason I read it is it sounds like a grandma who thought this was funny.
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Yes it wasn like a precious like church lady grandma It was all about you know whatever she was That was funny and was she probably was like thank you for making me not look like a raver at my own funeral And also it I mean to be honest it was worse for Nicole and her sister
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That's a horrible thing to have to experience. It's like the grandma's like, hey, it's over for me.
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That's it's not. I mean, you were asked to do it. It's not like they were messing around.
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It sounds like Granny Annie's last prank on them. Almost. It is incredibly fucked up.
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Thank you for sharing your horrifying story. Having a sense of humor really is a helpful way to get through life.
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It really it'll help you, especially having a sense of humor about your own mouth.
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All right. I'm not going to read you the subject line of this because it gives it away.
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Hi there. My favorite podcast besties. I've written in before about how a co-worker once tried to sell me a gay porno starring her brother, but I was.
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Sometimes you skip the beginning because you're just trying to get to what the meat of the story is.
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And you just realize there are gems for you to be to be found. It's sometimes fun to be like, whoa, I didn't.
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That was. Excuse me. Hold on. I've written in before about how a co-worker once tried to sell me a gay porno starring her brother.
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But as I was listening to Miniso 226 and heard the story about the kids, I think that's really beautiful that that sister was so proud of her brother.
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But as I was listening to Miniso 226 and heard the story about the kids who would throw darts at each other down the stairs, that person mentioned offhandedly that her dad set off a bomb at the seminary building.
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This reminded me of a story from my time in high school that, frankly, I can't believe I've forgotten about.
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I was a pretty big nerd in high school and spent my junior and senior years in various AP science courses.
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I was living in a pretty rural farming community. And since most of my classmates only cared about the three F's, football, farming and fucking.
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I was like, oh, is that something I missed out on? Like, what's the three F's? I grew up in suburbia.
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I know. I was like, oh, you mean FFA, the future farmers of. Oh, fucking our school.
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Our school's singular science teacher had to try pretty hard to keep the students engaged.
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Or maybe he was trying too hard to be a cool teacher. I'll never know. Some of the quote unquote experiments he had us do in the advanced classes included things like making biofuel out of the cafeteria's waste oil,
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bringing in jars of our own urine and running tests to see if we could determine which samples
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he spiked with distilled homemade vodka. Yes, he really taught teenagers. Oh, sorry. I read that wrong in the weirdest way. It's supposed to be bringing in jars of our own
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urine and running tests to see if we could determine which samples he spiked with mess
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or distilling homemade vodka. It doesn't matter. But I think they meant distilled.
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Ah, so like, OK, the urine, I think, is separate from the vodka. Anyway, right. Yes, he really taught teenagers how to make their own illegal booze.
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And he made our class a deal about our finals and that he had a surprise planned.
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If enough of us got an A, he was pretty coy about it, but enough of the students passed.
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So he let us know we were going to blow up an old car. this is okay i was never an ap anything but i heard the stories that the what they got to do
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and was like tried harder i was never gonna make it but tried harder because they got to do the
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clearly the coolest yes smart people trying to impress other smart people you want to be in that
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room so this was in 2010 and at the height of the mythbusters popularity and needless to say we were
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psyched. He insisted it wouldn't be a proper experiment if we didn't learn how to make the
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explosives explosives ourselves. And I'm going to go ahead and gloss over the specifics, partly for
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the obvious safety reasons, but mostly because I can't remember what I had for dinner last Monday,
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let alone complicated weaponry schematics I saw for 15 minutes 11 years ago. He found a farmer
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who'd let us use a dirt field and we all showed up at the designated time, ready to blow that
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shit sky high or whatever slang my peers used. Did I mention I wasn't cool? And because he was
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nothing if not a responsible educator, he called and had the volunteer fire truck and a couple
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police officers come by to, quote, make sure everything stayed safe. Oh, that's cool. Yeah.
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I can only imagine that he sought permission to blow up a car. And the answer was, if we get to
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watch, then hell yeah. Our teacher set the explosives. We were ushered a safe distance away,
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about 50 yards. He hit the button and y'all ever see a campfire that smokes and smolders for a
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while before igniting? It was like that. No big boom, no debris flying at children standing in
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the open. Just a small fire that the adults let burn for 10 minutes or so and then extinguished.
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Incredibly anticlimactic, but considering all the ways that event could have gone,
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this was probably the best possible outcome. Anyway, thank you all for putting out this show
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for all these strangers. And I'll add my voice to the chorus of everyone thanking you for helping
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end the stigma around talking about and treating mental health. It's been a rough year, but I did
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get the opportunity to start therapy. Inspired by the two of you, I've even started writing a book
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to help deal with the issues I'm working through. And although I doubt I'll ever publish it, I'm
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finding the courage to share bits I'm particularly proud of with my friends. Stay sexy and don't try this at home. Drew.
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Drew! That's the first step. This doesn't have to be the book. You know, the next one could be the book. You never know. Yeah. And writing is
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cathartic. It's so strangely therapeutic itself that it's a great idea no matter what you do with
00:24:06
it. And sharing it with your friends is such a beautiful act. Yeah, that's great. Amazing story.
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Amazing teacher. They should all be so interesting. Of all the stories that we share and the directions
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they've gone, the fact that just nothing happened is kind of the greatest. I love it.
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Hey, y'all. And yes, that subject line is a direct quote. It's a semi-long story, but damn is it good.
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Okay, about two years ago, my dear friend from high school moved back to our hometown.
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She's here nearly a year and it was fucking wild. One night we were on FaceTime while I was house sitting and she's unpacking her new apartment.
00:26:37
While on the call, she slices her thumb with an eyebrow razor. Oh, I'm concerned, but my friend is oddly calm and just goes, I sliced my thumb.
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being that I was house sitting for a nurse. I grabbed supplies and went over to aid her.
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In the 10 minutes, 10 minutes it took to commute to her apartment, my friend was purple faced from
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crying. And then it says she had talked to her mother, wrapped her entire hand into a bloody
00:27:04
t-shirt, which was held over her head. And her highly trained ESA therapy dog was barking at
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at me anytime I left my friend's side. June never barked. So now I was getting shook.
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We decided we needed to get immediate medical services, but she didn't want to go to the ER.
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So we get in my car and I come up with the idea of going to the local firehouse.
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After telling my distressed friend, the only key word she heard was firehouse. And then she screams, what the fuck is a meatball marinara going to help?
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So I think that their local bar must have been called the firehouse. Oh, or maybe, yeah, maybe it's a chain somewhere.
00:27:43
Or like a chain restaurant. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Coincidentally, the restaurant was also in the direction of the fire station.
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So I humored her. Once we get to the local PD firehouse, I run in to get help. The night receptionist tells me to go upstairs to the bunks and I could find a fireman.
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Being the middle of the night, the floor was dark and quiet. So I yelled down the hall, making my presence known, which worked because a fireman and his boxers comes out to investigate.
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Without making eye contact, I told him about my friend and her thumb downstairs, and he said he'd meet us in the bay.
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Several other firemen join us down there to help bandage my friend and make her laugh Best part we didn have the ER hassle or bill Honestly they didn even ask for our names and gave us supplies for aftercare Bonus our moms
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were super proud of us individually for quick thinking to utilize the fire station over the ER.
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Of all the memories we made that year, she lived in our hometown. That one holds high rank.
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I took a photo of my girl and the fireman, but I'm pissed I didn't get her bare feet in the pic.
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stay sexy and mind your brow razors lady olivia from georgia that is hilariously
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we can't be encouraging people just to go straight to the fire department and also
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i love that she said the phrase night receptionist that was a fireman who was sitting there and he
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sees two girls come into the firehouse in the middle of the night and sends them upstairs which
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in the plus 30 years my dad was in the San Francisco Fire Department, you were not allowed to go upstairs.
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That wasn't a thing that you could do. So that quote unquote night receptionist was just a bro fireman being like,
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oh, why don't you go up to where they're all in their boxers right now? Either he was pranking her or he was pranking the other firefighters.
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I think he was pranking everybody at one time where he's like, this is not a life threatening injury.
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We're going to have a little bit of sexy, sexy fun tonight. Oh, well, that's my judgment.
00:29:47
I think you're right. But if anybody gets married from that group of people, that's what I was saying.
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Like I dated him for a few years and it's a lovely story. OK. This is my final story.
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It's funny, but we're entering into a scatological area that we normally never do.
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And I do not encourage nor do I want to read further stories. But this one's sneaking through because it's funny.
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OK, no, we are. This is the one time we're like, not like send us stories. No, no, we don't want to hear.
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We all have them. I'm sure there's a podcast for that. And this is not it. I think Jonah Ray had a shit your pants podcast.
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Plenty of scatological content out there for you to peruse and download onto your phone.
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OK, so this says hometown embarrassing story. Hello. Hello. So happy you're taking embarrassing stories now, as this one is my favorite ever.
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And that's a favorite with a U. So I think we're talking to some sort of Brit or Canadien.
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When we were about 16, my best friend was having work done on her house. It's a Victorian house split over three floors with her room in the bathroom at the top.
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She left for school in the morning and her dad reminded her that work was being done on her bathroom and not to use it.
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and well and good, but come four o'clock on the return home from school, there was nothing on my friend's mind apart from evacuating her bell.
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Deed done. She flushes the toilet and immediately hears her dad running up the stairs shouting,
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no. Shortly after, she hears one of the very scouse, which I don't know what that means.
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I've never read that word before. Very scouse builders shout. What the fuck? It's a flying turd.
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Oh, and it says, sorry, Karen, do your best Scouse Liverpudlian accent. Honey, I don't have one of those.
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I don't got Liverpool in our vernacular. What are you talking about? Scouse is hot.
00:31:50
I'm guessing Scout is hot. Scouse is hottie. I think Scouse must be a word for that accent.
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Oh, OK. I were asking Liverpool murderinos, please, please educate us. OK, anyway, the builders had taken off the waste pipe to the bathroom.
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and therefore instead of flushing harmlessly away her poo flew out at high speed and hit
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the scaffolding literally covering the builders in a shower of shit. Needless to say my friend was mortified
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and spent the rest of the time the builders were working trying to avoid ever seeing them.
00:32:28
I would literally crawl out a back window and never go back to that house. I would blame it on my dad
00:32:33
first and foremost. He was with them. Oh, he was with them. Oh, no. It didn't put one of the apprentices off, though.
00:32:42
And he still asked dad for her number Oh hell yeah Oh seven red flags Oh yeah yeah yeah Right I was like romantic He knows everything And he still like no it not romantic or very specific in terms of
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interest. That's right. Hope you enjoyed the story. If I ever want to cheer myself up,
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I think of it for a giggle. Both my friend and I have been doctors working at the NHS during the
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pandemic, and we've definitely needed lighthearted stories and your podcast to help us through.
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stay sexy and get your fucking vaccine tea awesome tea way to end it we support you and
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thank you for your work that girl got a date out of it you just don't know you just don't know
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if you if you can make it here you can make it anywhere you can make it anywhere in liverpool
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liverpool hello right that's what we there's the manchester goodbye and there's a liverpool
00:33:40
hello. And I personally would rather have a Liverpool hello than get headbutted or headbutt someone.
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You would rather have shit spray on you. Than be the recipient of a headbutt? Yes.
00:33:53
Shit. This is a hard one. This is one of life's great questions. Would you rather?
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Would you rather, but they're not weird, obscure ones. They're actual things that have happened to people.
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I would 1000% rather get a headbutt than have someone's shit on me. I don't think it's a contest in any way.
00:34:18
One can be washed off. Because yes, you might get a concussion. Yes, that's worse than shit. What if it's
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anywhere near your nose? No, it isn't. Oh, the shit or the head, the broken nose.
00:34:33
Wow. I'm firmly on the side of that the shit is the worst thing. Well, this is why this is the only
00:34:38
letter that's ever passed the muster of shit is because it actually started a conversation around the world.
00:34:45
We're actually starting an important and highly intellectual conversation about headbutts and shitting.
00:34:50
The shitting part, if you get it on you, is okay if you're vaccined. Incorrect? No, you'll be
00:34:56
literally spitting for the rest of your life and hallucinating it. Oh my God. Can I tell you a secret?
00:35:03
And this again is not shit. This is again not called for. What? Super quick. A bunch of people listen to this podcast.
00:35:11
It's not going to be a secret. Okay. You know, I don't. No, I don't care. You do not care.
00:35:18
I was on like one of the rides, like open air rides at Disneyland with like on a date with a boy.
00:35:25
And I was like 19. Yep. Your head in your hand is correct already. And like a kid on the roller coaster in front of us throws up every one of us behind him, which there are a lot of us.
00:35:38
get splattered with the most toxic smelling vomit I've ever just hot dog hot dog everything you can
00:35:46
imagine that fucking the best corn dogs you've ever had by the way the secret corn dog cart
00:35:51
truly okay and then the ride went on for another what felt like 10 minutes and we're all just
00:35:59
sitting there at the end and then we went to the front desk you know or like the office and we're
00:36:04
like, what do we do? And they're like, we'll just give you some free clothes and you can enjoy the
00:36:08
rest of your day. And we were like, that's not what we want to do. It's in my bra.
00:36:12
Yeah, no. Do you have any mini mouth bras back there? Because that's right. I bet you don't. And the smell is inside. And so like he and I had to like walk to our car,
00:36:22
take off all our clothes before we get it. We still dated for like that man was Vince Abril that locked it for the two of you.
00:36:31
If you can make it through this, you can make it through anything. truly truly shit it was we drove home in silence of horror oh yeah the end i mean you think about
00:36:41
there's people have stories like that where like the date was going great and then it's a thing
00:36:46
that's outside of your control or anything and then that's just that for you and that person
00:36:52
we've come to a conclusion we've come to a great place which is send us your date horror stories
00:36:56
date horror stories that could that ended what could have been the greatest love of all oh
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or were. Those are fine too. I love the ones that we read that are like, and we've been married
00:37:09
for 16 years I love those Yes getting together under the worst circumstances That right And that how you knew Yeah Come to the rescue stories Yeah Okay Well another great
00:37:20
another great installment of, of the mini. So thank you so much for writing those in and for being a part of it.
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If you want more, we have many, many episodes now over on the fan cult, fan cult exclusive stories.
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They're all great. Send doors in on the forum. Stay sexy. And don't get murdered.
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