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This episode of My Favorite Murder covers forensic sculptor Frank Bender, his unique contributions to solving cold cases, and his artistic journey. Hosts Georgia Hartstark and Karen Kilgariff discuss Bender's life, his work with law enforcement, and notable cases he helped solve.

Frank Bender, an artist from Philadelphia, became known for his ability to recreate the faces of unidentified victims. His journey began when he was asked to sculpt a bust of a Jane Doe, leading to her identification as Anna Duvall, a missing person.

Bender's techniques combined art and forensic science, allowing him to create lifelike busts from minimal evidence. His work helped identify numerous victims, including Linda Keyes and Rosella Atkinson, providing closure to their families.

In addition to his work with victims, Bender famously created a bust of fugitive John List, which led to List's capture after 18 years on the run. His success rate in solving cases was notable, with estimates ranging from 40% to 85%.

The episode highlights Bender's impact on forensic art and his legacy, as he continued to work on cold cases until his passing in 2011. His story serves as a reminder of the intersection of art and justice.

TLDR

Frank Bender, a forensic sculptor, helped solve cold cases by recreating faces of unidentified victims, including fugitive John List's bust leading to his capture.

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God damn it. I'm going to tell you a story about a person who is extremely good at one specific thing.
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And because of that, he became an unlikely partner to investigators in not only this country, but beyond.
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His work not only helps catch fugitives, but it also gives many John and Jane Does their name back.
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He isn't a cop or a forensic scientist. He's a fine artist whose work predates the modern use of genetic genealogy.
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We have mentioned him on the show back in episode 29, which was spelled episode 20-N-E-I-N.
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This is the story of forensic sculptor Frank Bender. Oh, my God. Like, I'm having flashbacks to my childhood and watching Unsolved Mysteries.
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And I might recognize the busts in the sculpture that was made of this missing person or this skeleton.
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And maybe I could solve the case. Yes. Is that what we're talking about? Yes. You were being called as a seven-year-old to please help the authorities.
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Yeah. And then, yeah, I love these. Okay, great. So the main sources used in this story today are 2004 Esquire article by Brendan Vaughn entitled Man of the Month, Frank Bender,
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and a 1995 New York Times article by Karen DeMasters entitled Solving Crimes, Sculptor Recreates Faces of Tragedy.
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And the rest of the sources are in our show notes. So we'll start with that New York Times article. They describe Frank Bender as, quote, an elfin man with a, quote, bald head, fierce gaze and Van Dyke, which is Van Dykes are for the children.
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The formal name of a little mustache beard combo that you've seen on many, many vape salesmen.
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Sometimes they call it a goatee. Yeah. Incorrect. Because it mustache is there, too.
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Yes, exactly. So all that's to say that Frank Bender doesn't look like someone you'd find hanging around with the cops. More like one of those guys that would be posted up along the Seine with an easel, you know, wearing a little black beret. And that's why it's so strange that in the late 70s, when he's 35 years old, he has this life changing moment at the Philadelphia morgue.
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So he's from Philly. He's born into a working class family. And he's been making art since he was very young.
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But when he gets exposed to the art world, he's kind of put off by it. So when he graduates high school, he actually turns down a scholarship to go to the Pennsylvania Academy of Fine Arts.
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And instead he joins the Navy. Wow. Yeah. But then when he gets out, he comes back home to Philadelphia and he actually becomes a professional photographer.
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But he also draws and he sculpts. And he's very devoted to the practice, so much so that when he wants to work on his figure drawing or brush up on his anatomy drawing skills, he goes and visits the morgue.
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Yeah. So that's where he is on this fateful day in the late 70s when the medical examiner brings him in and shows him the body that they have that he can use to practice and draw on.
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This is a, yeah, very intense. It's very macabre. Yeah. Yeah. But I mean, if you think about it, like there are a few places you can actually go to really see human bodies like that.
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So the medical examiner brings him in and shows him the body they have, which is badly decomposed.
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It's a woman who'd been shot in the head. She's completely unrecognizable. So she has not been identified.
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And that means the investigators kind of have no way to find out who her murderer is because they have no idea who she is.
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Nowhere to start. When Frank Bender sees her body he actually says out loud in the moment quote I know what she looks like So when Frank revisits this moment in interviews years later he makes it sound like he was kind of like in a trance or like he was
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overcome by a powerful revelation. And he says that those words, I know what she looks like,
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just sort of slipped out of his mouth. Amazing. Yeah. So when the ME asks if he knows anything
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about forensics, Frank responds, I don't even know what that word means. But the Emmy is intrigued
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by the confidence that he's shown about thinking he knows what she looks like. So he tells Frank
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to go home and try to create an image of what he thinks this Jane Doe could have looked like in real
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life. So Frank actually ends up going above and beyond. He ends up sculpting an incredibly like
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life bust out of fiberglass. And then he paints the bust by hand, adding eyes, lips, skin tone,
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all the details he's seeing in his mind. And he says, quote, I saw every feature of her face
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and how the form of one part of her face flowed into all the other forms. If you've been studying art your whole life, then you paint people's faces. You know the
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structure so well. Yeah. And he's also getting a sense of things, you know, he will later go on to
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like take in because he doesn't always have a body. So it's very kind of intuitive with him.
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But he's like he locks in and kind of like tries to interpret what he can as an artist. It's great.
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So in this situation, it only takes him eight hours to finish this bust. And when he's done,
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he's looking at the face of a woman who's around 60 years old with a prominent nose and a cleft chin.
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It's so lifelike that authorities decide to photograph this bust and feature it in local newspapers.
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And incredibly, it leads to this Jane Doe's identification. Holy shit. It turns out to be 62-year-old Phoenix native Anna Duvall,
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who's gone missing after traveling to Philly to meet a friend about a real estate investment opportunity there.
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What's super weird is I went to high school with a girl named Anna Duvall, and she and her daughter listened to this podcast.
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So I bet it was super creepy for them to hear that. Wow. Hi, guys. That's so weird.
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You're in this story with us. Oh, my God. That friend, quote unquote, is a man named John Martini, and he'd already scammed Anna out of about $25,000 and lured her to Philadelphia under the pretense of a sham real estate deal.
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And when she gets to Philadelphia, he shoots her. Years later, he is charged with Anna's murder.
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But by that time, he's already incarcerated for committing two other unrelated homicides.
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So he is basically kind of a serial killer, but longer term. More importantly, Frank Bender's sculpture gives Anna Duvall her name back.
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So this experience is incredibly meaningful for Frank, as opposed to the superficiality and the elitism of the art scene.
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And this work makes him feel like his art actually made a positive impact in someone's life.
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And he'll later say, quote, when I stumbled upon this forensic venture, I said, that's my turf.
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That's where I belong. This isn't going to hang on gallery walls. I feel right about this.
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This is where I'm going to put my energy. And I can give back to the people instead of to art collectors.
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Amazing. It's pretty cool. Love it. Of course, when other investigators find out about the success of this bust, they enlist Frank's help on their cases.
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He continues creating busts for the John and Jane Does in the city and around the country.
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And he becomes particularly skilled at creating lifelike sculptures despite having little to work from.
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So in the best case scenario, Frank would be working from a skull that he could actually handle directly as he makes these busts.
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So when that's the case, he basically works the clay over the skull to create a mold.
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And then he removes the skull and he pours plaster into that clay and he lets that set.
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And then he sands and shapes and paints the bust while referring back to the skull for any hints of the person's unique facial features.
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Wow. Yeah. He'll later tell People magazine, quote, I just see the image in my head.
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Then I let my fingers do the sculpting. But usually Frank has nothing more than a picture of the unidentified person's remains or sometimes only a report from an anthropologist suggesting what their sex, age and race could be.
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Sometimes he has much, much less like a few strands of hair. So what Frank does is equal parts creativity and science.
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And he's constantly referencing medical information and anatomy text to make sure that his busts are as realistic as possible.
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But of course, he's also using his technical art skills, his intuition, and an unwavering dedication to reanimating the faces of the unidentified.
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And just love that idea like he found his lane. Yeah. Like in this weird way. I hate the art world, but I still want to do art.
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And here's a way that like. And I see it. Yeah. Which is a gift. Yeah. Yeah, for sure.
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So this is how Frank eventually gets the nickname, quote, the recomposer of the decomposed.
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So he's clearly a gifted artist. And the more busts he creates, the more apparent his investigative and profiling skills become. He has an amazing talent for picking up tiny bits of information about a person, like a piece of evidence found near a crime scene or the attributes of their bones, and then using that to inform the creations that he makes.
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And to the investigators that he works with, it feels almost supernatural. Reporter Brendan Vaughn writes in his Esquire piece on Frank that, quote,
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when you ask people in law enforcement to explain how Frank Bender does what he does,
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they speak of his intense interest in human nature. They mention his compassion for the victims They point to his talent as a fine artist his uncanny ability to read bones for clues But really the essence of what they saying is this Frank Bender has a sixth sense
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Yeah. Here's one example of that sixth sense in practice. In 1980, Frank is asked to create a bust for an unidentified victim in a town called Slatington, Pennsylvania. So the remains were found by a hunter and they're determined to have been deteriorating outside for 19 months.
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So Frank has very little to go off of, but he begins by analyzing the victim's skull and he built a profile.
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And this analysis leads him to think that this person had an overbite and wavy brown hair.
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And then he focuses on a piece of evidence that was found near the body, a single glasses lens.
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Frank finds a pair of brown frames that fit this specific lens to place on his bust when it's completed.
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Wow. And when an image of this bust is circulated in newspapers, a man calls the police and identifies the woman as his 23-year-old daughter, Linda Keyes.
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Holy shit. She's been missing for more than a year. Oh, my God. Though Linda's cause of death is never determined, she's no longer a Jane Doe.
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And, of course, her family has a little bit of relief. Right. Right. Just a few years later in 1987, a group of kids discover the body of a young woman behind a Philadelphia high school.
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God. So soon Frank is working to identify her. And this is another case where the body is very decomposed.
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So he uses the evidence that's available to conjure up her face. He'll later tell the Toronto Star that, quote,
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she was wearing a ship and shore blouse, a nicely pleated blouse, not a blouse someone her age would wear out in that neighborhood.
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To me, it told me she was looking for a way out. She was looking for a better life.
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So I had her looking up for hope. Oh, my God. I mean, he's interpreting anything he can.
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Yeah. But also, like, putting it together with kind of logical steps. Right. So it's not, like...
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Fanciful. Yeah. Yeah. It's like, how do people really work? Totally. So a year later, in 1988, a woman sees this bust and recognizes her 18-year-old niece,
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Rosella Atkinson who'd been missing for more than a year after last being seen at a local bar.
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She left behind a devastated family and her beloved infant daughter. Rosella's aunt
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will say that one of the most spot on features of Frank's bust is how Rosella is holding her head up
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in that hopeful way which is exactly how she held herself in real life. Wow. That's crazy.
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I know. From a shirt. But it tracks. It's just like it is logic based. Totally. Several years after Rosella is ID'd, her killer, a man named Brian Hall, finally comes forward and confesses. He claims that back in 1987, they'd left that bar together, hooked up, and then he realizes that he's missing money. He accuses her of stealing it from him. When she tells him, you're wrong, I did not steal it, he goes into a fit of rage and strangles her to death and then hides her body.
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Jesus. So now because of Frank's work, Rosella's murderer will face justice. And of course, the family is no longer wondering what happened to their daughter and their mother.
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Right. But Frank's most famous bust is not a Jane or a John Doe case. Instead, it's a very famous fugitive case that I covered on episode 29.
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So I'll just recap it really quick. And also we've done a rewind recently about this.
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Right. So now we're doing kind of inception level podcasting where we're folding in a podcast upon a podcast.
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So in 1989, Frank is asked to recreate a bust of the famous family annihilator and fugitive John List.
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John List had been on the run for 18 years after murdering his entire family in New Jersey.
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I think that might be in reflection now my favorite murder. Yeah. Because it's it has everything.
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It has everything. There's the ironic ending of the Tiffany lamp or the Tiffany shade or whatever that was.
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Skylight. The skylight that was worth so much money that would have gotten him out of debt.
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All the things. And then just like going and living a normal life. Like you hadn't done anything when you were like just an evil person.
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Yeah, you killed three of your children and your mother and your wife. And then getting fucking caught this way.
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This way by this man. It's so good. Okay. So he's been on the run for 18 years after murdering his entire family in New Jersey.
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And the only thing Frank has to work on when the authorities come to him is decades old photographs and some bits of information about John's life and his personality that have been collected over the years.
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Because he cut himself out of all the photos at home, right? Yes, that's right. Smartly, purposely.
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Yeah, he knew what he was doing. Erased any trace of what he would look like. Right.
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So they probably had to go scrape up some pictures, but they're all like almost 20 years old.
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So Frank gets to work relying on his vivid imagination to guesstimate how John List could have aged over the last 20 years.
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He looks at the old photos and adds heavy jowls, removes some hair, then dresses his bust in a suit and tie because as Frank puts it, quote, the guy wore a suit and tie when he mowed the lawn.
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Wow. Yeah. Frank even throws on a pair of thick black-rimmed glasses because, quote, he would want to look more astute, more in control than he really was.
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Frank comes to this conclusion while consulting with his friend, criminal psychologist Dr. Richard D. Walter.
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The two spend several days walking around Philadelphia talking about what John List might be like today.
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It's just profiling. Yeah. So interesting. Yeah. So in May of 1989, Frank completes this bust of John List, and it's featured in an episode of America's Most Wanted.
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And as fate would have it, a woman in Richmond, Virginia, is watching that night, and she thinks it looks a lot like her.
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neighbor Robert Clark. Robert is an accountant who wears very thick-rimmed glasses.
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So she calls the police. A couple days later, they visit the Clark home. And when they fingerprint him, Robert Clark is quickly exposed as wanted murderer John List.
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He's arrested. He's given five life sentences. And that's largely thanks to Frank Bender's uncanny bust.
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So incredible. Down to the fucking glasses. Yeah. That he didn't even need. That like he put on him for effect.
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Yeah. And it was real and true because of it. Yeah. Because also it's kind of like if you pay attention to people, you get to know people.
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There's like a certain amount of types of people in the world. And it's like this is the kind of guy who would want people to think he's like intelligent and successful.
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Big lesson. Yeah. Yeah. It's so good. It turns out List had moved to Virginia and remarried.
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And it also turns out Liss was watching America's Most Wanted that same night. Remember that detail?
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And his wife was sitting next to him, right? And he's just like watching. Oh, my God.
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John Liss passed away in prison in 2008. But he's not the only wanted man who Frank helped track down.
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Just to name a few, his busts are also credited with helping investigators track down New York mob boss Alphonse Prosecco
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and the leader of a violent outlaw motorcycle game, The Warlocks, named Bobby Naas.
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Wow. So as passionate as Frank Bender is about forensic sculpture, it's not his livelihood.
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Frank only makes between like $1,200 and $1,700 a bust, and he only makes two or three a year.
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And the restraint here seems to be his choice. As you might have guessed, Frank isn't exactly chasing wealth.
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That's not his style. He basically pays his bills doing odd jobs like working on a tugboat and the occasional commission here.
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Oh, my God. What a life. It's almost like he's one of those people that's like, I want to be out and about among the people.
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And that's why he can do that job so well. I want to work on a tugboat. Yeah, you can.
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You think there are cats? I bet there's cats on a tugboat. They got to keep the rats away.
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Or would the, oh, no, they don't fish off a tugboat. Totally different job. If you captained a tugboat, please write in and tell us how many cats are on it.
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Meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow. In his mind, it's his well-intended investigative work that feels meaningful.
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So in 1990, he co-establishes the V-Doc Society made up of detectives and profilers, forensic experts, pathologists and other professionals who regularly meet with the hopes of cracking cold cases.
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I didn realize that But he basically is one of the founding members So good We also talked about this group on the show in episode I think you talked about them right
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Probably. Cold cases? Probably. Yeah, probably. It was in episode 362, A Generous Number of Apples, your favorite, where, oh, yes, you talked about, sorry, it's right in the paragraph.
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I love to, like, read this and go over it and then just be, like, casually making conversation.
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It was when you covered Pennsylvania's boy in the box case. Right. Yes. Yeah. That's right.
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So for years, there was a boy and the VDoc Society finally gave him his name back just a few years ago in 2022.
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He was four year old Joseph August Zarelli. And this information is a huge break in the still unsolved case of his death.
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I mean, that's one of those classic ones that the older it gets, the less likely it would seem that he would ever be identified.
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And the fact that he was is just incredible. V-docs on it. So as accomplished as Frank Bender is as an artist and an unlikely investigator, it's also worth noting that he is a big character himself.
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His eccentricity is delightfully captured in the Esquire article that we sourced earlier, the one by Brendan Vaughn.
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And he writes, quote, Frank Bender is a spooky dude. And not only because he knows what your skull looks like.
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It's spooky how his answering machine invites you to leave a message for the recomposer of the decomposed.
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And it's a little spooky how he returns your call from his clawfoot bathtub. It's spooky how he talks and it's even spooky how he listens.
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But the spookiest thing about Frank Bender is also the thing that's made him a legend in the field of law enforcement.
00:28:31
Frank Bender sees dead people. That is so, I have chills. It's amazing. It's incredible. I'm so glad you're telling this.
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Yeah. Also, like, what if this is untapped in other people? Totally. That we could be helping each other with these cold cases and these horrible mysteries.
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You would never know unless you like walked into a morgue to do art. Right. Wow.
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So Frank doesn't seem to mind that these things get write-ups or attention. And that's a good thing because he gets a lot of attention for it.
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He's been covered by 60 Minutes, Forensic Files, 48 Hours, written up in GQ in the New York Times.
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And there's been an indie documentary made about him called Recomposer of the Decomposed.
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He's been featured on TV shows as far away as Japan and Germany, presumably thanks to his willingness to travel.
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He's no stranger to flying somewhere far away and collaborating with foreign investigators.
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So the assignments, the media coverage, the successful identification seem to feed Frank's thirst for more investigative work.
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He continues accepting commissions and gets very attached to the cases that he works on hoping that he can push them toward a resolution Ted Botha who wrote a book about Frank even says quote he a fighter for justice He almost like a little Captain America or something So sweet In 2009 Frank is diagnosed
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with cancer at the same time as his wife, Jan, and she passes before him. Yeah. His doctor will
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later tell People magazine, quote, I'm completely baffled as to how he has remained so functional
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through what must be an unimaginable degree of pain. That is courage. But Frank is quite matter of fact about his mesothelioma diagnosis.
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Just a year after learning about it in 2010, he tells a reporter, quote, I'm used to being surrounded by death.
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I've done everything I ever wanted to do. I drove a race car. I've skydived. I've helped identify a lot of people, including fugitives on the most wanted list.
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I bet like being around death that much makes you a little bit more aware of the important things in life.
00:30:42
Yes. Not waste time. Yeah. Your perspective is, you'd think our perspective would be so much better.
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Ours? Nope. Just my anxiety. No, I think so. I think I pay attention more. I think, don't you?
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Oh, over these last 10 years. Yeah. I think there's a lot of lessons and a lot of kind of awareness.
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And a lot of being grateful because the fact that it's not us, by the grace of God, thank fucking God.
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Like, there's no reason. And it's that kind of thing of, like, we shouldn't live in fear.
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The idea of living in fear robs you completely, and there's no reason for it. There's a lot of reason for it.
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There's reason for it, but most people are good. Right. So by this point, Frank has been working with investigators for around 30 years.
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since that very first bust he created to identify Anna Duvall. He's actually, since that time, it's estimated he's created about 40 more.
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He's done it 40 times. That's so many. He doesn't keep an official tally, so that's why it's just an estimation.
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Over the years, Frank has proven he's well worth the, it's roughly $1,700 commission that he accepts for each sculpture he makes.
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It's hard to get an exact measure of how many cases he has helped solve, But ABC News has reported that he has an 85% success rate.
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Holy shit. I know you'd hate it, but I'd love to see a museum exhibit of all the busts.
00:32:09
I know. And the whole story kind of rolled out of like, because, you know, when you do art in whatever way you do it, it is about inspiration.
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It's just that his inspiration is very odd and specific and incredibly helpful and meaningful.
00:32:25
Right. The Philadelphia Inquirer, meanwhile, once reported that Frank's busts have led to breaks in almost every single one of the cases he's worked.
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Wow That wild Yeah The New York Times is a bit more modest but still impressive putting his success rate at somewhere around 40 percent Wow On a cold case
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Yeah. That's huge. Totally. Yeah. In 2011, Frank Bender succumbs to cancer at age 70.
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As the New York Times reported in his obituary, quote, interviewers are often asked Mr. Bender whether his life among the dead gave him nightmares.
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Yes, he replied, but not in the way you think. For years, he explained, his dreams had been peopled by the dead and by sinister men.
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The sinister men invariably attacked him, Mr. Bender said. And whenever they did, the unnamed dead rose up in his defense.
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Oh, my God. And that's the story of the late and legendary forensic sculptor, Frank Bender.
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Incredible job. Frank Bender. That is so good. I'm so glad you did that. Isn't that a good one?
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Yeah. Because you assume like anytime when we did that story about John List or anytime you think about it, you're just like, oh, that's a thing that the FBI developed.
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Right. And it's a very specific. And then there was a guy and this thing and we're moving on.
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Right. Yeah. Yeah. It's a true artist. Yeah. And like not pursuing that on purpose and it just kind of happening to you.
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It's almost like, you know, fate. Yeah. It's completely fate. He gets a vision of what this woman who's been shot in that head looks like.
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Oh, my God. Incredible job. Thank you. Perfect start to spooky season. Right? Jesus.
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Episode Highlights

  • The Art of Identification
    Bender's busts lead to the identification of missing persons, providing closure to families.
    “Frank Bender's sculpture gives Anna Duvall her name back.”
    @ 14m 50s
    September 18, 2025
  • Frank Bender: The Forensic Sculptor
    Frank Bender transforms the lives of unidentified victims through his art, giving them their names back.
    “When I stumbled upon this forensic venture, I said, that's my turf.”
    @ 15m 09s
    September 18, 2025
  • A Hopeful Interpretation
    Frank interprets a victim's clothing to reflect her search for a better life.
    “She was looking for a way out.”
    @ 19m 43s
    September 18, 2025
  • The Family Annihilator
    Frank Bender's bust of John List helps capture the fugitive after 18 years on the run.
    “John List had been on the run for 18 years after murdering his entire family.”
    @ 21m 45s
    September 18, 2025
  • The Arrest of John List
    John List is captured after a bust created by Frank Bender is featured on America's Most Wanted.
    “And when they fingerprint him, Robert Clark is quickly exposed as wanted murderer John List.”
    @ 24m 10s
    September 18, 2025
  • Frank Bender's Legacy
    Frank Bender's work has led to the identification of numerous cold cases over 30 years.
    “He's actually, since that time, it's estimated he's created about 40 more.”
    @ 31m 33s
    September 18, 2025
  • Frank Bender's Forensic Artistry
    Frank Bender creates busts to help solve cold cases, achieving an impressive success rate.
    “It's just that his inspiration is very odd and specific and incredibly helpful and meaningful.”
    @ 32m 09s
    September 18, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • It's really sucks to have to edit yourself.
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  • I know what she looks like.
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  • That's my turf. That's where I belong.
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  • She was looking for a way out.
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  • It's spooky how he talks and it's even spooky how he listens.
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  • And whenever they did, the unnamed dead rose up in his defense.
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Key Moments

  • Podcasting Begins00:58
  • Frank Bender's Revelation11:50
  • Victim Identification14:50
  • The Family Annihilator21:45
  • Cold Case Breakthrough27:30
  • Life Lessons30:43
  • Frank's Final Years32:53
  • Spooky Dreams33:02

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