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The Amato Family Murders | Morbid

May 02, 2023 / 01:11:01

This episode covers the tragic Amato family murders, discussing the life of Grant Amato, his struggles with addiction, and the events leading to the murders of his family members. Key topics include Grant's obsession with a cam girl, his theft of family money, and the subsequent murders of his parents and brother.

Hosts Ash and Elena introduce the episode with a light-hearted discussion about their personal lives, including gastrointestinal issues and a recent collaboration with the podcast Red-Handed. They then transition to the serious topic of the Amato family murders, providing background on Grant Amato's life in Chuluota, Florida.

Grant, the youngest son, faced significant challenges, including being expelled from his nursing program and developing an addiction to online gambling and cam girl services. His relationship with his family deteriorated as he stole money from them to fund his obsession with a cam girl named Sylvie.

On January 25, 2019, after a series of escalating tensions, Grant murdered his family members: his father Chad, brother Cody, and mother Margaret. The episode details the investigation that followed, including Grant's attempts to evade suspicion and his eventual arrest.

The trial culminated in a guilty verdict for Grant, who was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. The episode concludes with reflections on the emotional toll of the case and the impact on the surviving family members.

TLDR

Grant Amato murdered his family after stealing money for a cam girl obsession, leading to his life sentence.

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everyone's immune system's got a little [ __ ] during that yeah so I think we're
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years you guys remember that don't worry we're gonna get into the case but no we're not sometimes we take it old
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school and we just need to like talk at you for a little while yeah just like get into it you know and it's funny
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beings or not um and that's funny to me but that does anyone remember the later years of
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Sabrina the Teenage Witch I bet you you wish you didn't but no I thought they were good like later High School ones
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we're good and like maybe the beginning of college but after that what do you mean I know I'll watch it
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Girls or the last couple of seasons of The Office yeah you lost me there you just I'll watch it because I'm here I'm
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here for this ride but like I'm not enjoying myself I know I love um I love Roxy though in the later years
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yeah she's a great one I think it's when Sabrina starts working at a newspaper that it gets that gets starts well she
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starts dating a guy that I'm very confused by to this Josh uh nope Josh I understood it was this other random I
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don't remember his name I don't remember either that's how much he matters maybe
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I didn't see the last season yeah I think it's the one she's gonna marry until oh no no no no okay yeah which is
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like thank goodness the heart yeah I love that but you know what that was Sabrina for
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today and now we're gonna talk about something not as fun at all nope not not at all but um this is like a pretty
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well-known True Crime case um and I know you guys like to hear like some more current ones so I figured I'd hand this
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on over to you this is the Amato family murders it's a really sad case and at the center of it
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is a man's named Grant Grant Tiernan Amato was born on May 20th 1989 in Chuluota Florida and if you look at that
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you would never think that it said chuliota but guess what I did I went to pronounced names.com and she told me how
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to say it and I said thank you I love that but anyway chuliota he was the youngest son of Chad and Margaret
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um a pharmacist and an operations manager respectively I really love saying respectively after a sentence I
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don't know about you effectively respectively now Margaret brought a son Jason to the marriage from her previous
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marriage and actually Chad wouldn't end up adopting Jason down the road oh okay I thought it was really sweet yeah but
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then the couple went on to have Cody the middle son and then finally Grant the youngest son okay now Margaret and Chad
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raise their family like I said in chulio to Florida it's like a semi small rural
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town in uh the Seminole County of Florida it's about half hour outside of Orlando okay which like I'm gonna be
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there soon and I'm like oh spooky not in chuliota that isn't Orlando Orlando but
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by all accounts the family Dynamic was a good one Chad and Margaret both like were able to maintain stable really
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well-paying jobs they could provide a good life for their children and they could also pursue their own passions and
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their own Hobbies outside of work and for Margaret I just think this is so sweet that hobby for her was her love of
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horses and she particularly loved this one horse named Lady Lady what a cute name for a horse right lady was actually
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a former racehorse that Margaret adopted in like the late 2000s and she'd been boarding lady at the Miracle Lane
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Stables not too far from their house okay now according to people that knew Margaret her relationship was with lady
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who was like a rather stubborn horse was really reflective of how she was so committed to the people that she loved
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especially like her husband and her children yeah she had an unwavering commitment to those people cute now
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while their household was generally loving and supportive Jason would later tell a jury that his father could be
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strict and had very high expectations for his children and this was occasionally a source of tension
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especially as the boy started entering their teenage years Grant and Cody though they were
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inseparable while growing up like they had a bond like no other they were really close in age there was just two
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years between them and they had a ton in common by the time they were in high school they went to um Timber Creek High
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if you're from the area they were doing almost everything together they were both on the school's weightlifting team
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in high school and even Beyond high school they still maintained like a super close relationship after
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graduation they both enrolled in nursing programs at the University of Central Florida and once they finished those
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nursing programs they wanted to continue their education so they each decided to
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study anesthesiology oh wow which like like all right you know and now according to grant their long-term plan
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included buying matching BMWs and living in their parents house together after Chad and Margaret moved to a smaller
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retirement home in Tennessee that they actually purchased a few years before their deaths so part of the plan
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was buying matching BMWs yes okay no comment yep it's giving Step Brothers yeah right like let's get matching BMWs
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and live in Mom and Dad's house when they move to Tennessee nurses Menendez brothers as well see I
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actually don't know a lot about that case yeah that's that's a that's an interesting one we'll cover that one
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eventually yeah I thought that's a u case for sure it's giving Menendez brothers in like one respect not in both
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respects one of these people is fantastic the other not so much ah yes yes now while their commitment for each
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other went both ways Cody definitely was the more responsible of the two and usually got Grant out of a lot of [ __ ]
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and would like clean up his messes solve his problems yeah you know because from
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the outside Grant seemed like he was you know successful and responsible and all
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that but things really took a turn in the mid 2000s I never know how to say that 2010s the 22 000 yeah there you go
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I don't know it's weird the 2010s because that was when Grant was kicked out of his graduate nursing
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program and instead found a nursing job with uh Advent Health a large hospital system in Central Florida okay it's sort
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of unclear why he was kicked out of the anesthesiology program at the University
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of Central Florida but that definitely is the event that marked the beginning of of a very downward spiral that would
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eventually lead to murder awesome so on June 21st 2018 staff at Advent Health actually realized that eight bottles of
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propofol which is a powerful sedative that they usually give people before surgery sedative oh my God idiot why
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can't they just talk no you shouldn't have let that go because it just sounded so cute sedated I'm reading maybe that
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is one way to say it who knows um I hope not I like sedative about it yeah sedative that they give people before
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surgery they realize eight bottles had gone missing from the locked cabinet where they usually kept it now the empty
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bottles were found a short time later in two rooms that were being overseen by Grant
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as far as anybody could tell the medication hadn't been ordered and security records showed that it was
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Grant who checked the medication yeah so when he was confronted about this whole thing he swore up and down no I
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wasn't stealing it to sell it because they probably thought that that's what was happening there
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but instead he told them quote he administered the drug to patients who were not being adequately relaxed oh
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okay so all right slightly understandable but like you can't just like like you can't for no reason to
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tell anyone so the hospital had no proof of any wrongdoing but they also believed that
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this was not the first time propofol in particular had gone missing under Grant's watch so he was fired
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immediately yeah I can kind of see that now what made the entire ordeal worse was that during the confrontation over
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the missing medication Grant made a ton of comments about relating to self-harm and suicidal ideation so they had to
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call the police and he was he had to be taken into custody as like a protective measure yeah now at the time Advent
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Health administrators seemed to be intent on planning or uh seemed seemed to be intent on pressing charges for the
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theft of the medication so now Grant was unemployed and he was waiting to hear whether he was going to
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face charges for uh grand larceny so he started spending a lot of time online uh-oh I guess that's what you do
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it's not it's not great and he was never leads to good things no he wasn't on like ziprecruiter.com looking for a job
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sponsor us um because that was just a little drop there there you go but he was frequently
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visiting porn sites and he really loved to use twitch for watching lives and gaming so he's just gaming okay doing
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stuff in his room yeah you know you know he actually told his parents though not
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long after he was fired that he really wanted to build a career for himself as a live streamer on Twitch okay which you
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know I'm like I'm sure you could probably make good money doing that but I think back then that was a relatively
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new platform so that might have been a little worrisome to us I could see that I'm sure like the YouTube thing in the
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beginning too when somebody's like when it first came out and people were like I'm gonna be a YouTube star people were
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probably like yeah yeah like that's never gonna happen but now look it really came now look so at the same time
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though because they were they were starting to get worried about about Grand because at the same time Chad and
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Margaret had been noticing large amounts of money missing from their bank accounts and multiple credit card
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charges from websites that they'd never heard of so when they confronted Grant about this missing money he actually
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spilled the beans he admitted everything and said he had taken the money and he had used it to promote himself on Twitch
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okay which wasn't necessarily that's not great no either way that's not great well don't steal money that's something
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like you can't use people's money to do those things no you got to use your own money yeah now or you could ask for a
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loan because that's also an option there you go if you do want to use other people's money you just ask first
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precisely now what Chad and Margaret didn't know about they were about to find out was that Grant hadn't taken the
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money to help build his career he really was spending it on private shows and conversations with a cam girl named
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Sylvia Sylvie vencislavova hopefully okay now Grant had been spending a lot of time on
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Sylvie's site in particular and her site operated by like users would buy tokens
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that they could use to pay for performances and her performances cost 90 tokens per minute oh which like damn
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some coins damn girl now tokens could also be used for tipping and like any kind of other transaction on the site I
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don't really know how it works but Grant event was probably Sylvie's most generous customer and he would purchase
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5 000 tokens a night for six hundred dollars and he was spending about four hours every single night on this website
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oh he was developing I was just in the fashion that's becoming a problem yeah and as his addiction to the website got
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worse and worse he started sending Sylvie quote clothes and sex toys which she would model for viewers but he's not
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spending like he's spending his parents money on these things to send to the school that's the thing it's like this
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is not okay no it's one thing if you're sending it like with your own money like
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have at it yeah like you whatever you're I don't care into but like you're taking
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your parents yeah you can't take other people's money and do these things and also like you don't feel yakayaka about
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using your parents money for this yeah like I would I would feel yucky yeah that's just me I don't know there's I
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don't need that's just me yeah we don't have to go into it I was like I'm about to go into it and then I was like you
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know what now so so over time Grant's relationship with Sylvie came to include chat sessions they were texting and like
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other Communications like the performances and stuff like that it did give the illusion of a personal
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relationship because that's the point but in reality Sylvie was just promoting herself and obviously encouraging Grant
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to spend more money yeah because that's her job of course Girls Gotta Eat yeah on grandson of things though the
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constant contact and the emotional high was enough to convince him that he was deeply in love with Sylvie oh no and for
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that reason he kept stealing money in order to keep in close contact with her oh this is really stressful it's really
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sad it's so sad that's the thing it's like very stressful and sad yeah so the more money he had to spend the closer he
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felt to her now the illusion of a romantic connection between Grant and Sylvie was mostly fueled by the
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performances the texts the chats like I was just saying but it was also kind of fostered by this online community on the
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cam girl site because Grant wasn't only chatting with Sylvie but he actually made friends on this site and he was
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catfishing all of these people leading them to believe that he was this super successful gamer guy who drove a BMW and
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owned this beautiful house when in reality none of that was true he didn't live in a beautiful house but it was his
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parents yeah exactly in a letter he wrote to five or six friends about a month before his whole family was
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murdered he vented about his family calling them controlling and complaining that they quote did not understand how I
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could care for someone as much as I cared for Sylvie oh this really is sad it is now by the
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fall of 2018 so remember this started like in like the 2010s now it's 2018. this has been going a while Grant had
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retreated even further into this fantasy world he was stealing more money from his parents now he was stealing from his
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brother Cody to continue this relationship and when he wasn't able to get hands on their cash he would steal
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their belongings Cody had some guns that Grant ended up stealing and selling for
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cash oh this is like very real addiction oh it's like very deep and very real addiction super real yeah and around the
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same time he also managed to take out a 65 000 loan using his parents house as collateral
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holy [ __ ] isn't that Bonkers what like there is this is so intense it's so deep rooted oh my goodness so
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the family finally reached their breaking point in late November at that point Grant had stolen around a hundred
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and fifty thousand dollars from his parents and sixty thousand dollars from Cody his brother [ __ ] so they sat down
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and confronted him they were like we need to figure this out like this isn't okay and this is so unhinged that it's
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like that must have been really scary to set him down and be like this can't happen because you're like
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what is he gonna do it's gotten to a point where clearly he'll do anything something is yeah like he's got No
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Boundaries here so I'd be scared yeah so when they confronted him he admitted that no he wasn't just promoting himself
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on Twitch he really was stealing money to send to Sylvie the Bulgarian model that he was in love with he said so the
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family tried to be supportive because they realized what this was he was struggling with addiction and with their
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support he actually started to get serious about getting his life together and you know like getting healthier yeah
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so things really started to improve in early December Advent Health actually dropped the charges against grant for
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the stolen medication wow so now he wasn't facing those charges anymore that's lucky for him really lucky and he
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and Cody had been planning this trip for a long time to go to Japan they had planned it like before he lost his job
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and Cody was like let's still go like let's still go on the trip we'll figure it out wow so they went on the trip
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together wow so he had like a very supportive unit around like one way more supportive than a lot of families would
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be abso [ __ ] weekly like he he had these people hands back and especially his brother and that's very rare
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but unfortunately by the time they got back home Grant seemed to be slipping into old habits just days after they got
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back from their trip to Japan Grant and his dad got into another argument about the stolen money and the fact that Grant
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was saying he was going to get a new job but not making any moves to do so because I think his dad was like dude
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like you just got home from this trip that you probably shouldn't have even gone on in the first place and now
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you're just like lounging around my house all day like yeah it's time to get a job it's time to start paying back the
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money because he's like 30. yeah come on like like get it together get it together yeah in in the regard of like
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look for a job yeah like be an adult exactly like so Grant would later say of his father quote with him it was every
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single day hours a day he'd come home from work and then he just talked to me about the same exact thing over and over
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and over and over again like yeah probably because they wanted you to better your life and as your
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father he's concerned and when you're making no move to better your life they're gonna keep saying the same thing
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hoping that sometime it clicks right because you're just doing the same thing over and over and over and over they
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feel like they're banging their heads against the wall we're they're all in the same boat yeah now a few days later
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on December 19th the attention caused yet another fight between Chad and Grant and this time Grant stormed out of the
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house and didn't say where he was going now in the weeks leading up to this latest fight the family had actually
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started going to family therapy together oh wow and Grant was said to express during these meetings quote strong
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feelings of worthlessness and at one point he quote broke down emotionally and admitted to being
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severely depressed okay and he hadn't said anything about wanting to harm himself but because he was clearly in
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this like heightened emotional state when he left the house after the fight with his Dad Cody and Margaret were
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really worried I see that especially when he still didn't come home the next day they were like I don't know like
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yeah I would have been feeling about this yeah they were like he's in a low place he left in the middle of a fight
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like we don't we're very worried and he's been very unpredictable he's very much not himself very erratic exactly a
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lot of like very you know he's being very um impulsive yeah like for a while now so it's like I would be worried and
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we and we love him you know like that's the brother and there's a supportive family it sounds like they are so they
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decided the best course of action would be to file a missing persons report just
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to find out where he was according to the missing person report Cody and Margaret told officers that
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Grant had been in contact via text since they reported him missing and that he told them he was quote really tired of
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dealing with everything and he is just gonna handle it his own way which worried them even more yeah
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because given the stress that he'd been under and the fact that he had easy access to fire home Firearms excuse me
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in the family home Cody and Margaret were at this point quote a hundred percent convinced that Grant would try
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to harm himself no so the day after the missing persons report was filed the Seminole County
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Sheriff's Office got a call from an officer in Apopka I believe is how you say it Florida uh saying that Grant
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actually had been located luckily and when officers responded to the call about a suspicious car they found that
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it was registered to Grant a motto that's how they found him when they spoke to them he said he came
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to Apopka to visit family and then told them that he needed a break from his mom
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and he had no intentions of hurting himself he was like you have nothing to worry about I just needed to get out of
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here for a while yeah so the interviewing officer asked the standard questions about safety and self-harm and
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was able to determine that Grant didn't need any kind of psycho Val like he was all right
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and it turned out though that after the fight with his father Grant had gone to his aunt Donna's home and she would
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later tell police he showed up quote skinny and lost looking and that he slept all day since he arrived and she
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was worried about him now while she originally thought that he probably had come to her in a time of
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need he was really just scamming her yeah I could have seen that a few days after Grant show had shown up at the
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door Donna noticed strange and unfamiliar charges to her credit card in large large sums of money and this poor
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lady is just trying to just meditate just trying to be in a good family member and she's not by marriage too oh
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so she didn't even like she had no like you know her obligations were pretty small here right she really took damn
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this guy sucks like this is so mean it is it's due to people who care about you to [ __ ] over
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your family like this yeah like it's just like this lady is taking you into her home like that's really shitty
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exactly now knowing that the situation was getting touchier and touchier by the day Donna decided that it would be
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better to speak with Cody Grant's brother than confront Grant head on smart so she called Cody and told them
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everything that had happened and he was so apologetic so embarrassed and also begged his aunt not to press charges and
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actually told her he would pay back his aunt whatever Grant had charged me like he was like if you don't press charges I
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will pay this back to you like please like we're trying to get him straight like we're trying to make this work so
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precarious time a very precarious time Chad also begged his sister-in-law not to press charges and he actually broke
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down crying over the entire situation and it was quote the first time Donna said she had heard him cry in the 27
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years she knew him oh my God that breaks my heart just like so stressed yeah and
00:26:57
he explained to her the full extent of Grant's problems and he confided and Donna that he and Margaret actually had
00:27:03
to re-mortgage their home oh my God in order to cover the 150 000 that had been stolen from them
00:27:10
I can't imagine what this poor family was going through it must have just been hell and it was years of this yeah like
00:27:18
just years and ups and downs like oh yeah exactly and it was like just when they thought he was getting better he
00:27:24
goes and [ __ ] over like it's one and I'm sure it's one thing for him to [ __ ]
00:27:28
them over like you're angry about that but then you're like oh my God you're you're my child and you're capable of
00:27:33
doing this too you're taking an extended family exactly and like the embarrassment and the shame and the
00:27:39
shock like that's awful I can't imagine now according to Donna Chad told her yeah I'm gonna have to work a few more
00:27:45
years than I thought I'd have to but it's okay I'll do it for Grant I don't want him to go to jail oh my God yeah
00:27:53
I don't even know what to say mm-hmm it was clear that the stress was taking a considerable toll on everybody but
00:28:01
especially Chad at that point he had to take on a second job just to cover Grant's debts so that his son wouldn't
00:28:08
go to jail that breaks my heart I'm looking at pictures of this family and I'm just
00:28:13
like oh right and that's like love like the love that he had for his son like that's the thing it's like that's
00:28:19
straight up just loving your kid unconditionally just wanting to [ __ ] and I know they're like probably shielding a
00:28:26
lot and it's like but you just want to you want to feel any harm even if they're the ones doing harm you want to
00:28:32
Shield them I mean we've even seen it in our own family of course people and I've
00:28:36
seen it in other people's families like it's family so sad you know and he was the youngest too so I feel like that
00:28:43
plays such a role like it's your it's actually oh yeah maybe that's definitely part of it and that's the thing as far
00:28:48
as everybody could tell the Yamato family was going to incredible lengths in some people's opinions maybe even too
00:28:54
far of course to Shield Grant from the consequences of his actions but at the same time they were also trying to
00:29:01
create and enforce boundaries but as we know it's impossible in a situation yeah
00:29:07
there's no way of knowing how to deal with this kind of situation no because there's no right or wrong way there's no
00:29:14
handbook on it there's everybody reacts different in these kind of situations he's so incredibly addicted to this that
00:29:21
it's like it could be any reaction Under the Sun that could happen and there's no
00:29:26
way to predict it exactly you know like you might come at him nicely and that might piss him off right you might come
00:29:32
at him aggressively and that's the thing that calms them down you have no idea it's just like raising kids like how you
00:29:37
have to like treat each how you react to each one exactly but so that they were going to these incredible
00:29:46
links to create all these foundries but stealing from the extended family from Donna and Troy Yamato was the last straw
00:29:53
for Margaret and Chad yeah and on December or excuse me no don't excuse me I was saying the right thing but excuse
00:29:59
her anyways and just excuse just excuse me another one that's funny but on December
00:30:05
22nd the entire family surprised Grant with an intervention in Donna's driveway among other things they insisted that he
00:30:12
take responsibility for the mistakes that he'd made and they demanded him they were like it's come to the point
00:30:17
where you need to check yourself into rehab yeah like we've got to figure this out absolutely so he ultimately agreed
00:30:24
to checking himself into a clinic in South Florida and he was going to be uh addressing his addiction to sex and
00:30:30
pornography okay so Grant returned home from Rehab on January 5th 2019 after less than two weeks of treatment
00:30:39
and in addition to the more than two hundred thousand dollars at this point that he'd stolen from his parents and
00:30:45
brother he racked up several more debts that he had no means of paying on top of the ten thousand dollars he
00:30:53
paid so that the two could take the trip to Japan Cody agreed to cover eight thousand dollars in accrued attorney's
00:31:00
fees and the fifteen thousand dollar bill for the stay at the South Florida rehab
00:31:06
his brother sat there and took all of that on for him and when you uh I keep looking at the pictures and I'm like he
00:31:13
does have like Cody has such a kind face I mean he was in like a nurse like he was missing like he's just like a good
00:31:19
person absolutely a good person like rips my heart out everything that he was willing to do to keep his brother
00:31:27
who didn't give a [ __ ] yeah exactly like oh so similarly Chad the father had allowed the fraudulent 65 000 on the
00:31:36
house to go through uncontested oh come on quote so it wouldn't be reported because they figured this would give
00:31:44
Grant a clean slate to start over but there was going to be changes and expectations if that was going to be the
00:31:51
case but at the same time it's like maybe if you would let some of this go through and he had gotten in real
00:31:57
trouble mm-hmm like maybe that's sometimes that's what people need I'm not saying it would have stopped
00:32:01
anything I'm just saying sometimes you gotta let some tough love Yeah slip through there especially to a 30 year
00:32:07
old it's like absolutely I think he needed that but I can but it's easy to say that from over here if that's your
00:32:14
own kid no [ __ ] way totally you know what I mean but like looking at it from the outside you're like just let him get
00:32:19
in trouble and you know but like I've seen it in families where the person doing this or the person you know
00:32:24
struggling with addiction is like 50 60. parents will still do anything oh yeah that's no matter what so many families
00:32:32
have this happening in various forms and various degrees like I feel like more families do have this going on than yeah
00:32:41
and that's so sad yeah it's really sad oh and you never think that as a parent that you're going to be you know 70 or
00:32:49
like moving into retirement age right and this is what you're going to be dealing with because that's the thing to
00:32:55
prepare like I said like they they were preparing to retire in Tennessee they bought a home that they wanted to retire
00:33:00
in like and it's like usually and then they had to take off because you've done your the hardest part of your job right
00:33:07
raise them exactly but but this is where God even hurts my heart so Grant comes home from rehab early like did not get
00:33:16
the treatment that he should have and the family decides that they're going to have dinner at a California
00:33:21
Pizza Kitchen which like great [ __ ] decision I love California Pizza I do too actually I haven't had that in a
00:33:26
long time me either me and Drew used to go on dates there all the time when I worked in Boston because there was one
00:33:32
like right there [ __ ] good wow but this one probably wasn't that great so the evening after he returned home they
00:33:39
head over to California Pizza Kitchen probably thinking like a public place will be a better place to have this
00:33:43
discussion and Chad laid out a series of rules and expectations that he had written up for his son it was like a two
00:33:50
P two pages on a yellow legal pad okay among other things Grant was expected to uh get a job during the day
00:33:58
how terrible I was just gonna say already [ __ ] it right discontinue his use of the internet past midnight which
00:34:05
like okay you're in my [ __ ] house well in it you have proven that you can't be trusted with it right so we do
00:34:10
have to give you a boundary and it's it's for your own good that's the thing he needed to um begin paying for his own
00:34:18
cell phone bill this is such basic [ __ ] he needed to develop a plan to pay back the money
00:34:24
he's stolen from his family members very rational go to regular therapy apologize
00:34:30
and make right with the people he'd stolen from all great and most importantly he needed to sever his
00:34:36
relationship quote unquote with Sylvie immediately it's like all of that you can see that's negotiating right that
00:34:44
last one I'm sure was the the non-negotiable one totally yeah so the document it also highlighted the reasons
00:34:51
for the new set of rules it stated that quote Grant through his past transaction
00:34:56
excuse me transgressions has relied on knowledge the family would not report him and cover him yeah and it accused
00:35:03
him of quote family relationship abuse beyond beyond tolerance that's 100 how to describe it too family relationship
00:35:10
abuse because it is knowing that they will not do anything and using that to your own Advantage absolutely and it
00:35:18
hinted at the hurt that he'd caused the family around him Chad's document pointed out quote you chose a stranger
00:35:24
physically non-existent over your entire family that's the part that's like in the way
00:35:31
that that that said is really hit you hard because it's true yeah I mean it's like there's really no other way to
00:35:39
describe that but it's it it's so [ __ ] because like to us we're sitting here like it's a girl on a website but to him
00:35:45
but his mind was in such an altered state because of the addiction that he oh yeah he formed you know yeah that's
00:35:53
why it must be so wild like for them to be sitting there it's probably so frustrating for them because it's very
00:36:00
clear and logical that statement right but to hand it to him Sylvie was his girlfriend yeah as far as he's concerned
00:36:08
you're severing a the most important relationship in his life exactly which it's like that's why that's why
00:36:14
therapists and psychiatrists and mental health facilities exist because they know how to deal with that kind of
00:36:21
thinking right like normal people are not supposed to like everyday people I mean like your family right are not
00:36:26
supposed to know how to deal with like I don't know making the effort to try to understand
00:36:37
exactly and that's what like therapy is for it's like you really but he needed some I believe therapy I feel like this
00:36:44
family is like the like the poster children of like what you should do I know because it seems like they were
00:36:50
doing everything they could like they were trying to keep him out of trouble so that they could handle it as a family
00:36:56
they were going to therapy they sent him to rehab they paid for the rehab they laid out what he needed to do and then
00:37:02
laid out why he needed to do it when they had no need to do that no it was pretty clear why he needed to do all
00:37:08
those things but they took the extra step to be like this is why we are asking this of you that's huge and I
00:37:13
feel like and that even shows like all the work that they did with behavioral specialists because I was gonna say that
00:37:19
does seem like very much a tool that you would get through like you know therapy
00:37:23
or treatment exactly it's like you need to explain why you are requiring these things of this person it's like small
00:37:29
child like a form of respect I'm asking you to do this you should know why right
00:37:33
you know and it's like kids it's like yeah when you're teaching them like you can't do this because this will happen
00:37:38
because this is the reason I'm not just asking you to do this you know but it would be it was made clear to Grant
00:37:44
during the meeting that if he broke any of the rules or any of those expectations he would be kicked out of
00:37:49
the house immediately like this was this was the final yeah we've reached the end
00:37:53
game here exactly so he agreed to the terms during the meeting but it's pretty unlikely that he ever had any intention
00:38:00
of following through yeah with that promise to change his behavior in a letter sent to his friends from the cam
00:38:06
girl website he referred to his father as controlling and abusive and claimed that his mother was quote simply around
00:38:13
for security oh God which I'm like you don't know what you're talking about it's ridiculous and the letter also
00:38:19
hinted at just uh desperation and discouragement that he felt over the ultimatum he told his friends I hate
00:38:26
myself for what I did and I hate the thought of Never Getting to be with her again meaning Sylvie
00:38:31
after everything that I gave and everything that I tried to do with her I just can't comprehend being without her
00:38:36
seeing her be able to be so happy without me in her life is something I guys something I hope you guys never
00:38:42
have to live through wow this is so so deep it really is so it's unknown whether the letter raised
00:38:51
any red flags in Grant's online porn Community but if it did nobody took the alarming tone or the obvious desperation
00:38:59
seriously enough yeah to contact which happens a lot of course yeah that's why online is just not safe no it's really
00:39:06
not but at the same time nobody ever could have expected that his frustration of course not would manifest into what
00:39:12
it did a very short time later just after nine o'clock on the morning of January 25th the Seminole County
00:39:19
Sheriff's Office got a call from Craig Cisco an administrator actually at Advent health
00:39:25
he was one of the multiple employees who were really concerned after Cody had failed to show up for work that morning
00:39:31
because remember they worked together before Grant got fired Cody also wasn't responding to any of
00:39:37
the calls placed to him by co-workers it was entirely unlike him I don't know and according to Cisco Cody quote had
00:39:44
never missed a day of work oh no no because it was so out of character his co-workers were requesting
00:39:51
a well-being check so the deputies arrived at the Yamato house on Sultan Circle just shortly
00:39:57
after taking the call and they found Cody's car parked in the driveway as well as Chad and Margaret's cars parked
00:40:03
in the garage they continuously knocked on the door but nobody was coming to answer
00:40:08
so when their knocks on the door failed to get anybody's attention officers called the cell phones of the three
00:40:14
people inside believed to be home and actually even blasted air horns in an attempt to get their attention yeah but
00:40:21
nothing so as far as they could tell the windows and the doors were locked so one
00:40:26
Deputy ended up having to use a knife to disengage the deadbolt on the back door
00:40:31
and the officers went into the home to conduct the wellness check now when you can't get in like that you
00:40:37
must I wonder what those like investigators were thinking because when you can't get in like that you have to
00:40:42
be like we are not we're coming into something good exactly you know and they were not as soon as they walked in the
00:40:49
house deputies immediately discovered the body of chadamato this is really brutal just so you guys
00:40:55
know the discovery of these bodies is rough okay he was lying on his back in the kitchen it was clear that there was
00:41:00
no signs of life he'd been shot twice in the head and it was lying in a large pool of his own
00:41:06
blood there was actually a holster around his waist when he was discovered with a handgun tucked inside but it
00:41:13
didn't look like he'd tried to retrieve it before he was shot oh man so they moved throughout the house and they
00:41:19
found Cody's body next this is horrible he was curled into a fetal position in the storage room off
00:41:27
of the garage and he had been shot in the face and was covered in blood he was still wearing his nursing scrubs
00:41:35
indicating that he just got back from work oh my God and like his father a handgun was discovered on the floor just
00:41:43
a few feet from his body oh then the officers found Margaret last she was lying face down at her computer in the
00:41:50
family's office she had been shot in the back of the head and there was blood covering her entire face
00:41:57
so to the responding officers the house seemed neat and orderly other than what they had just found in there were a lot
00:42:03
of valuable items easily visible throughout the house but nothing seemed to be missing so they were pretty much
00:42:09
able to rule robbery out right off the bat and investigators obviously suspected that the motivation was
00:42:15
execution because the evidence at the scene pretty much showed that yeah so crime scene technicians noted that
00:42:23
Cody had barely made it into the garage when he'd been shot meaning that the killer did not hesitate to pull the
00:42:30
trigger as soon as he got the opportunity to and evident chilling it's so chilling
00:42:35
evidence collected from the kitchen seemed to indicate that Chad had been shot while standing but the second shot
00:42:41
was delivered quote execution style while he was on the kitchen floor near the center Island
00:42:48
and Margaret had been taken out similarly because she was also shot in the back of the head execution Style
00:42:54
so the picture to investigators was becoming clear whoever killed this family had come to the house with that
00:43:01
exact purpose and no other purpose yeah whatsoever so the deputies had been dispatched to
00:43:07
the home actually less than a month earlier so they knew that there was another occupant of this house but when
00:43:13
they arrived he that person wasn't home Grant and neither was his car so Ebola alert be on the lookout was
00:43:22
immediately issued for Grant even though at the time it was unclear whether he was a suspect a victim or neither
00:43:28
and investigators also started pulling toll records for his toll transponder okay which showed him driving Eastbound
00:43:35
in the morning then westbound in the afternoon but other than that they were unable to locate him
00:43:42
so you know what's going on mm-hmm so his absence in the house became even more suspicious when the investigators
00:43:49
spoke to Cody's girlfriend Sloane she told them all about the issues that had been going on between Grant and the rest
00:43:56
of the family and according to Sloan Cody had become concerned about Grant's unstable behavior in the weeks leading
00:44:03
up to the murders okay she said he quote was afraid that Grant would kill everyone
00:44:08
like he was literally worried about it that that was even a thought I think because he was getting more and more
00:44:15
unhinged as like the days and weeks went on Wow can you imagine having that at be
00:44:21
an actual fear of yours absolutely about your own flesh and blood like being like
00:44:26
I am legitimately scared that they are going to kill everyone in this family I can't even imagine like I can't even I
00:44:33
must have gotten to such a point and she also told the officers that she had been
00:44:37
at work with Cody on January 24th the day before the family was discovered he got a call from his father a little
00:44:44
after nine and his Chad said to Cody like you need to come home like something's wrong yeah and when Sloane
00:44:50
asked Cody what was going on all he said was stupid [ __ ] [ __ ] and then he left work because he's probably so sick
00:44:56
of it so absolutely you know like it was probably just like daily oh it had you know so he's probably like Jesus and
00:45:03
when you're not the one creating all the issues and you're like yanked into it every time exactly something I can't
00:45:09
imagine he must have just been so frustrated but a half hour after that she texted Cody to check in and she was
00:45:16
like Hey like is everything okay and he said oh okay you didn't need to worry which like so sad oh and that was the
00:45:24
last time they spoke so when he didn't show up for work the next morning that was when she and Chris Cisco got
00:45:30
concerned and requested the well-being truck oh man so while a team of officers interviewed friends and Associates of
00:45:37
the Yamato's detective James Galena Galena and uh lilium a grinsoni I believe okay spoke with Jason Amato and
00:45:48
let him know and that's the oldest brother yeah let him know that quote three unidentified bodies had been
00:45:53
discovered in his home okay or in the amount of home he didn't together so Jason explained to the investigators
00:45:59
that while he was Cody's emergency contact on most forms he really didn't speak much with their family or engage
00:46:05
with them very much he said The only person that he talked to regularly was his mother and they spoke every week
00:46:11
okay he confirmed what Sloane had told police about Grant's thefts and destructive Behavior he knew all about
00:46:18
that and when they asked whether he could think of anybody who might want to harm the family Jason told them about
00:46:23
Grant's relationship with Sylvie and he mentioned you know Grant gets mail from her sometimes so she has our address
00:46:30
like or she has their address yeah so that became like oh kind of like another layer to this story like oh is it her
00:46:37
like are they together like yeah they have to think of all these things so the next morning Grant's Car was located by
00:46:43
the Orange County sheriff's deputies in the parking lot of a DoubleTree hotel in
00:46:46
Orlando according to Hotel staff he had checked in the day before which was January 25th
00:46:52
he checked in just after 2 30 in the afternoon and he only registered himself for one day he was scheduled to check
00:46:59
out the next afternoon so quick quick yeah now as officers were speaking with the front desk staff he actually came
00:47:08
out of his room and was confronted by the deputies wow crazy wow so he eventually agreed to
00:47:17
return to the Sheriff's Office for a formal interview wow Bonkers I mean they would have got
00:47:22
him anyway but the fact that he just came out of his room crazy yeah during their interview he confirmed that he had
00:47:27
met Sylvie six months earlier and since then he'd been talking to her regularly and sending her tons and tons of money
00:47:35
he told detectives that he initially agreed to the ultimatum that he got from his dad when he had gotten back from
00:47:40
rehab but then he felt that the rules were very unfair quote because he believed Sylvie was his girlfriend and
00:47:47
they had a relationship it's like very unfair yeah you know what I think is unfair the fact that your
00:47:54
parents had to remortgage their home yeah because you stole that much money from them I'd say that's pretty unfair I
00:48:00
would say so now according to Grant his dad found out that he was still speaking with Sylvie
00:48:05
and on the evening of the 24th they got into an explosive fight over the relationship Grant said his dad grabbed
00:48:12
him by the shirt and demanded that he'd get out of the house so he was able to scoop up some of his
00:48:17
belongings and then he said he got out of there he said he was driving down the street and he met Cody and Cody told him
00:48:23
like oh I'll go straighten things out with Mom and Dad and like come back later like I'll figure it out for you
00:48:29
but he said that was the last time he saw or spoke to any of his family members so the just the detectives were like
00:48:36
okay yeah like cool cool like one problem with your story though Cody was working that night so you didn't run
00:48:43
into each other oof yeah didn't think of that did you like you didn't run into each other by chance on the side of the
00:48:48
road like yeah claimed no so Grant was like oh sorry I was lying oh yeah oops but I'm
00:48:55
gonna thank you for reminding me that I was lying I'm gonna tell you the truth yeah like I'm of course you are not that
00:49:00
I actually didn't leave home right away I waited for Cody to get back home you know like my dad just let that happen
00:49:06
yeah we got this explosive fight oh yeah and then he got home and I told him everything and that's when he said he
00:49:12
would talk to our parents and I left and no of course I haven't been back yet no
00:49:16
and he said he's like I got that wrong my bad sorry it was like he was at home it was the side of the road yeah I took
00:49:22
the same it's crazy yeah he told them it was around midnight that he left and that he spent the night in his car in
00:49:28
the parking lot of a Publix grocery store so he then told them that he had every
00:49:34
intention to return home the next morning and he actually started heading that way and he got to his neighborhood
00:49:40
but at the last second he changed his mind and he decided you know what I'm not ready to go back down yet but he did
00:49:45
get to the neighborhood so the detectives were like oh like did you see anything unordinate or like out of the
00:49:51
ordinary like the morning because that that could have been when it happened like did you see anything crazy yeah and
00:49:57
he was like no nothing sucks at all hmm but of course the detectives knew that a wild had he actually returned to
00:50:04
the neighborhood that morning he would have seen several police cruisers and news Vans parked outside of the house
00:50:09
which um would certainly qualify as out of the ordinary or at the very least memorable to me I was just gonna say I
00:50:16
think that would be something that I would mention like hey there was this crazy thing yeah that I saw so they
00:50:21
pushed back with that they were like that's weird that you didn't see all the news Vans and like the police like the
00:50:26
presents that's wild crazy and he was like oh I'm so sorry I just keep lying like I'm gonna tell you the truth again
00:50:33
though sorry about that I did see those cop cars and the News fans and that's why I left oh okay he's like thank you
00:50:40
for reminding me of that as well I totally forgot that I saw this but I did yeah and then I was like I did so the
00:50:45
detectives were like you saw all that like most innocent people stumbling upon a scene like that on their front lawn
00:50:51
would want to make sure everyone in their house was safe and unhurt like you didn't yeah and Grant was just like I
00:50:57
don't know I don't know what to say he's like you know what I don't have an answer for
00:51:01
that he just told them once he left the area he went to a local fast food restaurant to use their Wi-Fi and when
00:51:06
he did he checked a local news site and that's how he learned there was a shooting in his neighborhood wow a
00:51:12
shooting okay and when asked again why he didn't feel compelled to check on the family he told the officers
00:51:18
I just didn't want to know wow like you're you're something you are the worst liar
00:51:27
I have ever heard in my entire life truly yeah so he was interviewed like this for hours and hours and hours by
00:51:33
the Seminole County Sheriff's detectives and throughout most of their interview all wow I just got really I was just
00:51:39
gonna say damn you've got real bosses that was wild yeah all Grant did was make himself look more suspicious and
00:51:45
after more than three hours of the conversation Grant still hadn't asked detectives what had happened to his
00:51:51
family you want to know what happened no and he still didn't seem too alarmed by the
00:52:06
situation at all wow okay so detective uh maltari was getting more and more convinced that this is their guy clearly
00:52:13
yeah and he was really hoping to get a confession though because of course that's what you need yeah so she placed
00:52:19
or sorry I had said he earlier she uh placed multiple crime scene photos of Cody's body in front of Grant and
00:52:26
directly asked quote did you leave the house with your brother Cody looking like that [ __ ]
00:52:31
and Grant covered his face but gave no response so multari then produced crime scenes of Chad and Margaret and said or
00:52:38
did you leave the house with your father looking like that or your mother is that
00:52:42
how you left your family damn and Grant glanced at the photos before covering his face again saying no I didn't do any
00:52:49
of this wow like looked back at them and was like initially he suggested it could have
00:52:56
been a murder-suicide and he tried to blame Cody are you kidding me the person that was there for him through
00:53:07
everything oh that pisses me off through wrestling through some type of way through work through their trip to Japan
00:53:14
through the [ __ ] craziness with Aunt Donna there through rehab through all of it the best brother you could literally
00:53:21
ever ask for or even dream up to be quite honest it must have been Cody and then he must have just turned the gun on
00:53:27
himself oh my God what an actual piece of human [ __ ] [ __ ] like that's where I'm like [ __ ] yeah like this like
00:53:36
obviously you're a [ __ ] murderer like go [ __ ] yourself and you had to twist it
00:53:41
at the end there you really had to do that and it's like dude Cody was found in the fetal position barely in the
00:53:47
house and evidence that doesn't even make sense evidence showed you didn't even hesitate before you shot your
00:53:53
brother brother in the face what a piece of [ __ ] your own flesh and blood what a
00:53:58
piece of [ __ ] shot him in the face like wow you're disgusting truly because it's
00:54:03
one thing to steal money from people when you're going through addiction like that's not okay but I understand you're
00:54:08
suffering it's a very different thing to shoot people in the face oh yeah I would
00:54:12
say so that's holy [ __ ] on another level yeah piece of [ __ ] so the detectives
00:54:17
were like yeah no like straight up monster no that doesn't work like that so then he admitted you know I know I
00:54:24
have all the motives I have all the means to carry out this murder but I didn't do it like I know it looks that
00:54:30
way but I didn't do it so the detectives were like if it's not you then who would
00:54:35
have done this and he said that it's not you too right he said I don't know I've
00:54:40
been getting blamed blamed for the last half a year for everything and I've been
00:54:44
trying to move forward in a positive direction and then every day I'm reminded of all the trouble I caused and
00:54:49
then I keep being told the same thing over and over again that there's nothing I can do to change it
00:54:55
is how old is he again like 30 like in his 30s okay so he's not six no okay no just checking he's not because like
00:55:03
really really like every day everybody in the same stuff because I steal money from
00:55:09
them it's like what the [ __ ] it's like yeah okay yeah people are pissed now you're talking about your dead family by
00:55:15
the way yeah like if you're reading it on your brother who did everything for you that is so the fact that he was so
00:55:23
willing to turn around and be like probably Cody it's like so crazy to me [ __ ] dude you are like bottom of the
00:55:29
barrel piece of [ __ ] legit like you couldn't even say some stranger came in there you blamed Cody right what the
00:55:36
[ __ ] like that is what a coward on another level but at the same time detectives felt like they
00:55:42
were super close to getting a confession because they're poking oh yeah and they're like we're gonna get there so
00:55:48
what they did was they ended up contacting his older brother Jason and they were like why don't we get the two
00:55:53
of you in a room together and you confront him I know so Jason goes in the room and
00:55:59
immediately asks Grant whether he had anything to do with it and Grant said no I have nothing to do with it and Grant
00:56:05
told him I want or excuse me Jason told him I want to believe you grant but you're the last person I can put in that
00:56:10
house and I know what happened over the last six months I can understand that that trouble that you've been going
00:56:16
through but it's hard for me to think you would break to this point yeah so they had a 15-minute conversation as
00:56:22
detectives watched and they could tell it was clear that Jason didn't believe Grant's denial either no and it became
00:56:29
particularly evident when he wondered out loud what would have happened had he been in the house at the time of the
00:56:35
murders oh he said I may not have been able to stop you you probably may have hurt me too but at least I would have
00:56:41
known what happened oh and he kept going just trying to get Grant to confess he said they didn't
00:56:48
deserve it no matter what feelings were felt by anybody they were good people yeah and just when they thought Grant
00:56:55
was gonna budge he said I know and they showed it by protecting me what it's like so now you were home
00:57:03
wow and they protected you and you're the sole survivor like what the [ __ ] what and it's like are you talking is he
00:57:10
talking about that or is he talking about protected him throughout the solar deal I don't even know either way it's
00:57:16
like wow you're a [ __ ] monster that you're acknowledging that right like wow exactly holy [ __ ] so while all of that
00:57:24
was going on down at the Sheriff's Office crime scene technicians began a thorough search of the house Grant's Car
00:57:30
and the hotel room that he'd been staying at uh in in Orlando at the DoubleTree now in the search of his car
00:57:37
crime scene analyst Eric Brothers found a handwritten letter that detailed all the issues that had been going on in the
00:57:44
family for the last six months and it included a quote saying I said I'd take care of all your problems at the house
00:57:50
and I have no one will bother you again regarding this just please come home what the hell was that so back in the
00:57:58
interview room like detectives heard about this and they asked Grant about the letter and he said he was the one
00:58:04
that had written it he was like yeah like that's mine and the quote was something Cody said to him the night
00:58:10
that he was kicked out of the house and they were like why would you write a letter in first person yeah as Cody and
00:58:18
he said he was just trying to document their conversation um but like if I was just trying to
00:58:24
document that conversation I'd be like yeah and then Elena said no like that doesn't make any sense that
00:58:30
doesn't make sense so meanwhile analysts combing through the evidence at the DoubleTree found several credit cards
00:58:37
after he murdered his family he stole their credit cards they found multiple people belonging to Cody chat and Chad
00:58:44
that checks a lot and a later search of the Yamato house would turn up even more
00:58:49
credit cards and also images showing the credit card information that Grant had stolen from his aunt and uncle
00:58:55
based on the quote totality of the investigation an arrest warrant was issued and Grant was officially taken
00:59:02
into custody he was charged with three counts of first degree premeditated murder for the deaths of Cody Chad and
00:59:09
Margaret wow so on March 27 2019 there was a bond hearing to determine whether he should be eligible for bond which is
00:59:18
wild yeah his lawyer uh Jeff Dowdy argued that there was no physical evidence tying Grant to the murders
00:59:25
because he lives in the house I was gonna say of course yeah and he should be a loud bond in order to prepare for
00:59:32
the trial but during the hearing the prosecutor played the 16-minute conversation between Jason and Grant
00:59:38
during his initial interview and that was followed up by testimony from Jason who was able to detail all the issues
00:59:45
that had been going on in the home and in his closing arguments the prosecutor Stuart Stone said everything points to
00:59:51
the defendant in this case and no one else no one else had any issues or problems with the victims
00:59:57
and even though there was a lack of forensic evidence linking Grant to the crime scene but that's because he lived
01:00:03
there like it's hard to it's like there's a lack of forensic evidence linking anyone to the crime scene
01:00:08
exactly that's the problem here exactly yeah but because or excuse me even though there was that the judge actually
01:00:15
denied the request for Bond oh okay and Grant was returned back to his cell my [ __ ] bye but the issue of bond was
01:00:23
Revisited again in late April and the defense attorney pointed again to the lack of forensic evidence blah blah and
01:00:29
the judge actually ended up siding with him because still at this point there was a lack of proof coming from the
01:00:35
prosecution side so he granted a 750 000 bail damn which Grant would need to pay
01:00:41
10 off yeah he's not gonna no and it came of course with additional requirements right if he was to be on
01:00:48
bond would have to wear a GPS ankle monitor avoid contact with any Witnesses in the case and avoid the internet
01:00:53
altogether which we all know would not have happened no so even though he was in jail and strictly forbidden from
01:01:00
using the internet meaning he had no way of keeping in contact with Sylvie he was
01:01:04
committed to his belief that she was in fact his girlfriend in a handwritten letter to the
01:01:10
girlfriend of his cellmate Grant explained that he and his cellmate had bonded over their shared interests and
01:01:16
work histories he said to the woman I know the pain of being separated from the woman you love my God you've always
01:01:22
been separated from the woman you love literally always and then he went on to tell her that he and Sylvie had plans to
01:01:28
take a cruise quote once all this jail stuff is behind us once all this jail stuff lives behind us
01:01:38
BB you murdered your entire family and even if you're still claiming in a sense that you didn't your entire family was
01:01:46
murdered thank you that's that was going to be my next thing it's like even if you're gonna keep claiming that you had
01:01:51
nothing to do with this that's not something you're gonna put it on to you that your whole family was brutally
01:01:56
slain in their house in the house that you plan to live in with your brother that was curled up in the fetal position
01:02:02
in the garage in the storage room none of this is bothering you at all I know he's just gonna go on a cruise with
01:02:07
someone cool I'm also like did Sylvie know that yeah did Sylvie knows that you guys were going on a cruise because I
01:02:13
don't think so that's uh what does Sylvie know she knew that he became obsessed with her and she was just like
01:02:19
it wasn't that for me it was work yeah like there was no relationship no he was just wondering
01:02:25
I think she must have been terrified yeah so it's honestly unclear uh why Grant was writing long detailed buddy
01:02:33
letters to his soulmate's girlfriend yeah I was gonna ask that next yeah I don't really know but most of his other
01:02:38
correspondence made sense under the circumstances he was clearly unable to come up with the 75 000 Bond so he tried
01:02:46
to access the payout from his parents life insurance policies [ __ ] that are you kidding me but you know he was
01:02:52
informed that um his indictment for their murder happened to make him ineligible for that money like there's
01:02:58
this little thing they're standing in your way tiny rule of like if you're the one on trial for the murder you actually
01:03:04
don't get that you actually don't get this crazy I know it's wild sorry very unfair sorry you know but speaking of
01:03:09
unfair yeah yeah you know all about that grant for sure but anyway the conditions of his bail
01:03:15
made it so that he couldn't use any funds from his parents estate anyway to make bond so instead he began reaching
01:03:21
out to news outlets offering quote tradix to trade exclusive interviews to reporters in exchange for getting money
01:03:29
to bond out of jail wow so he's like yeah yeah I'll talk to you about me yeah so I can get out of here in an email to
01:03:35
a reporter in New York he complained about his inability to come up with the money saying it seems to be my half
01:03:41
brother's mission to make my life that much harder by not believing me communicating me or even helping me even
01:03:47
after I was blessed with a very high Bond wow like you think it's [ __ ] Jason's
01:03:55
responsibility to bond you out of here you murdered his mother his adoptive father and his half-brother he's so
01:04:00
delusional he is his other message to journalists were very similar in tone and they usually
01:04:06
contained a list of repetitive complaints about everything from his experiences in jail he would write about
01:04:12
his interest in Japanese culture and then he would start complaining again about the lack of support outside of
01:04:17
jail and his quote unquote elitist neighbors back home he called them elitist what I'm like I
01:04:25
don't think they're judging you because like you don't have money yeah I don't think they're judging you because um you
01:04:30
murdered your whole family and you murdered their neighbor so I think that's that's part of the Judgment I
01:04:36
don't think it's elitist no I wouldn't say it was now despite his quote-unquote efforts Grant was never able to come up
01:04:42
with the money and he remained in jail awaiting trial but as he was trying his hardest the Seminole County
01:04:48
investigators continued collecting and analyzing a seemingly endless amount of evidence actually coming from the car
01:04:54
and from the house the more prominent evidence included hundreds and hundreds of images and screenshots of Sylvie
01:05:03
there were text conversations between the two and there were screenshots of the bank transactions showing proof of
01:05:09
his countless purchases of those tokens that he could use on the cam girl website
01:05:14
so his trial for the murder murder of his parents and his brother finally began on July 15th in the Seminole
01:05:22
County Circuit Court Stuart Stone was arguing for the prosecution and again Jeff Doughty was
01:05:27
leading the grant leading grants defense team so in his opening statement Stone laid
01:05:32
out the prosecution's theory that Grant had been faced with the ultimatum of giving up his fantasy relationship with
01:05:38
Sylvie or losing the support of his family so he chose to continue that relationship with Sylvie and also chose
01:05:45
to murder his parents and brother awesome thinking that with them out of the way he would be free to continue on
01:05:51
in his relationship and live off of their money yep now the prosecution pointed to the fact
01:05:57
that just a few hours after killing his family Grant logged on to the wi-fi at Publix and tried to connect with Sylvie
01:06:05
my God a few hours this is so beyond Obsession yeah I can't imagine wow so the prosecution told the jury quote his
01:06:15
parents and brothers bodies aren't even cold and he's already re-establishing or
01:06:19
trying to re-establish contact with Sylvie he was just waiting for her to say I love you too come to Bulgaria come
01:06:26
see me but that didn't happen my God because this is her job it's not she's not in love with you she's not in
01:06:33
love with things no like this is literally her job right that's it so throughout the trial it went on for two
01:06:39
weeks the jury was presented with the by then well-known story of Grant's full-blown obsession with Sylvie his
01:06:46
theft of more than at that point two hundred thousand dollars from his family and the incredibly tense relationship
01:06:52
that had developed between him and specifically his father as a result but the more damning evidence actually
01:06:58
came from the uh murder weapon it was in I hope I got this right iwi Jericho 941 pistol that belonged to
01:07:09
his best friend Blake Turpin so Turpin was called to testify and he told the jury that he realized his gun was
01:07:18
missing from his home about a month or two earlier and remembered leaving Grant in his bedroom where the gun was kept
01:07:25
quote for about 10 minutes two weeks prior to the killings oh damn so he not only stole a [ __ ] ton of money from his
01:07:34
family stole their belongings but he stole from his best friend to kill his family I was gonna say and then use that
01:07:41
thing to murder his entire family so that it would be traced back to his best friend while and was willing to say that
01:07:47
it was Cody who did everything yep like he will throw anybody under the bus anybody
01:07:53
so on July 31st 2019 after more than eight hours of deliberation which I truly can't even believe it took that
01:07:59
long the jury unanimously delivered a guilty verdict guilty guilty guilty bye and all three charges of first-degree
01:08:07
premeditated murder yep and the penalty phase of the trial took place on August 12th and it was particularly important
01:08:15
because actually Grant was potentially facing the death penalty for these murders oh damn but during that part of
01:08:20
the trial Jason Amato testified and told the judge it's so hard to go through the
01:08:25
grieving process when there are multiple losses and uncertainty in the future through all this though I'm a proud
01:08:31
Amado and I will rise up smarter and stronger than before and ultimately the judge sentence sentenced Grant a motto
01:08:39
to life in prison without the possibility of parole bye Grand the end bye grants [ __ ] holy wild wow I am
01:08:53
like without words but that's it why I didn't know that story I can't believe I've
01:08:59
never heard that story I actually I have to tell you and I have to um give credit
01:09:03
where credit is due I actually learned of this case from Bailey sarian oh [ __ ]
01:09:07
it was one of the first videos I ever watched of hers oh I love that yeah like years ago oh that's crazy oh I love
01:09:14
Bailey I love Bailey so human like truly so if you want any more information on this case I would
01:09:19
definitely suggest going to uh Bailey's Channel and watching that oh man that you know what it is it's the name
01:09:26
sounded familiar yeah but I did not know this yeah I did not know that and crazy
01:09:31
that it really wasn't that long ago it's so sad it's such a sad case like that at
01:09:35
the end you're like bye Grant see you later but then you're like fall but like everyone and it's like I feel so bad for
01:09:41
Jason like having like what he said going through the grieving process with this as part of it you can't even you're
01:09:47
grieving your entire family and grieving the loss of your brother to your remaining brother who did all of this of
01:09:55
course it's so upsetting and I can't imagine I would just never trust anybody ever again no honestly you shouldn't no
01:10:01
I mean anyways but wow what a story sad well told thank you um shout out to Dave for helping me with
01:10:09
the research David the the most beautiful beautiful being the majestic unicorn him
01:10:15
um so yeah guys we thank you for listening and we hope you keep listening and we hope you keep it
01:10:23
weird but not so weird that any of this yeah none of it not even one part of it except like shop at Publix because I
01:10:33
heard it's a great grocery store definitely do that all right love you bye [Music]
01:10:45
thank you [Music]

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Episode Highlights

  • Sneak Peek Excitement
    A thrilling moment as a sequel is teased, sparking excitement.
    “I read it and I said oh my [ __ ] gosh.”
    @ 03m 40s
    May 02, 2023
  • The Amato Family Murders
    A deep dive into the tragic case of Grant Amato and his family.
    “This is like a pretty well-known True Crime case.”
    @ 06m 44s
    May 02, 2023
  • Family Confrontation
    Grant's family confronts him about his alarming behavior and addiction issues.
    “This can't happen because you're like, what is he gonna do?”
    @ 20m 03s
    May 02, 2023
  • Therapy Revelations
    During family therapy, Grant reveals strong feelings of worthlessness and severe depression.
    “He admitted to being severely depressed.”
    @ 22m 58s
    May 02, 2023
  • Intervention in the Driveway
    The family stages an intervention, demanding Grant take responsibility for his actions.
    “You chose a stranger physically non-existent over your entire family.”
    @ 35m 24s
    May 02, 2023
  • Desperation in a Letter
    A letter reveals Grant's feelings of desperation and despair over his relationship with Sylvie.
    “I hate myself for what I did.”
    @ 38m 24s
    May 02, 2023
  • Well-Being Check Requested
    Concerned co-workers request a wellness check after Cody fails to show up for work.
    “Cody had never missed a day of work.”
    @ 39m 44s
    May 02, 2023
  • Brutal Discovery
    Officers discover the bodies of the Yamato family, indicating a violent crime scene.
    “The discovery of these bodies is rough.”
    @ 40m 55s
    May 02, 2023
  • Grant's Alibi Falls Apart
    Grant's story crumbles as detectives reveal inconsistencies in his timeline.
    “You didn't run into each other by chance.”
    @ 48m 41s
    May 02, 2023
  • Confrontation with Brother
    Jason confronts Grant about his involvement in the family's deaths, expressing disbelief.
    “You're the last person I can put in that house.”
    @ 56m 09s
    May 02, 2023
  • The Handwritten Letter
    A letter found in Grant's car reveals his troubled mindset. 'I said I'd take care of all your problems.'
    “What the hell was that?”
    @ 57m 55s
    May 02, 2023
  • Guilty Verdict
    After hours of deliberation, the jury finds Grant guilty on all counts. 'Guilty, guilty, guilty.'
    “Bye Grant, see you later!”
    @ 01h 08m 07s
    May 02, 2023

Episode Quotes

  • This is like a pretty well-known True Crime case.
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid
  • Oh no, this really is sad.
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid
  • You chose a stranger physically non-existent over your entire family.
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid
  • I hate myself for what I did.
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid
  • I just didn't want to know.
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid
  • It's so hard to go through the grieving process...
    The Amato Family Murders | Morbid

Key Moments

  • Morbid Introduction00:04
  • True Crime Case06:44
  • Desperation38:19
  • Well-Being Check39:51
  • Brutal Discovery40:55
  • Brotherly Confrontation55:55
  • Interrogation Tension56:35
  • Life Sentence1:08:39

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