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Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin

September 18, 2025 / 55:39

This episode covers the case of Stephanie Wasalian, a woman shot in her home in 1993, with discussions about her daughter Nikki's quest for justice. The hosts, Elena and Ash, discuss the details of the case, including the events leading up to the shooting, the investigation, and the impact on Nikki and her family.

Elena and Ash introduce the case by sharing the tragic details of Stephanie's death, which occurred after an argument with her partner, Russell Peterson. They describe how Russell called 911, claiming Stephanie had been shot during a struggle. However, inconsistencies in his story and evidence from the scene raised questions about the true nature of the incident.

The hosts highlight the role of Nikki, Stephanie's daughter, who has taken it upon herself to seek justice for her mother. They discuss Nikki's podcast, "Poppy Killed Mommy," where she shares her experiences and the challenges she faces in uncovering the truth about her mother's death.

Throughout the episode, Elena and Ash express their support for Nikki and emphasize the importance of keeping Stephanie's memory alive. They encourage listeners to sign a petition demanding a complete homicide investigation into Stephanie's case.

The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to support Nikki's efforts and to stay engaged with the ongoing investigation into her mother's unsolved murder.

TLDR

Nikki Wasalian seeks justice for her mother, Stephanie, who was shot in 1993; the case remains unsolved despite evidence suggesting foul play.

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Hey weirdos. I'm Elena. >> I'm Ash. >> And this is Morbid. [Music] >> It is. It's morbid, y'all. And it always
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will be. Always and forever. Forever and ever. What's up, brother? Um, I'm really
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excited because this weekend is when all the haunted houses start >> Oh, opening.
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>> Is it this weekend? >> It's like when like they're starting to trickle open now.
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>> Should we go to one? >> [ __ ] yeah, we should. >> Oh my god. >> Hell yeah. >> Oh my god.
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>> I need a haunted house in my soul. My house my soul is a haunted house right now.
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>> Yeah. I think my soul my soul is like pretty full for sure, but like just today is a rough day.
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>> Um and my soul is barren today. >> Yeah. And it wishes it had it wishes it was filled with spirits.
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>> Yeah. And it can be. >> My spirit would love to be haunted. So, we should go this weekend.
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>> So, we should get that [ __ ] going. >> Yes, let's do that. >> We really should. Um, also like I that
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just made me think of when you got upset that I had um invited like the spirit of
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a ghost. >> Oh, and then it reminded you of the Tik Tok videos. >> And it reminded me of the Tik Tok videos
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because I got to shout this girl out. She is so [ __ ] funny and I need her to know that she makes me laugh when I
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need to laugh and I appreciate that about her. >> She also has my mannerisms down.
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>> Yeah, it's actually like shocking >> to a tea. >> So on Tik Tok >> Tik Tok >> her at is Nicole Kes writes and it's
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Nicole Kites Cr I Tes Nicole Critz writes >> crit writes and she is so funny. >> So [ __ ] funny. I love her her I
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almost said her channel. >> I love her channel. Like and subscribe. >> Well, it's it it uh it goes into the
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next thing we're talking about. >> Oh, yeah. It does a little bit. >> Go like and subscribe to her Tik Tok.
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>> Like it. Smash that like button. >> Smash smash that follow. >> But yeah, her Tik Tok is really funny
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and she's just great. So follow her. Like blow her [ __ ] up because she's great. Um, she does like she'll take
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audio from Old Morbid and rewatch her episodes and scream actually >> and she'll just kind of like uh lip sync
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to them, but she's so [ __ ] good at them. And she also makes me remember some of the funnier things that have
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happened and I appreciate that. >> I know cuz she goes back to like the very early days of morbid sometimes and
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I'm like, "Oh my god, we are funny." >> I'm like, "Oh, look at that." >> Like, lol.
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>> That was funny. >> I also think it's weird. I feel like my voice has changed like throughout the
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years cuz I was 21 22 when we started this. I'm like, damn. Does your voice change within that time period?
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>> Yeah, we're like whole different people. >> It's crazy. I mean, I very much am a
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very different gal than when we started. >> I mean, as we all should be. >> Yeah. You know, keep growth, babe.
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>> Growth. >> But we also like, you know, just a little maybe that was like a little
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little tease that we just said. >> Smash that like button. >> Smash that like button. Like and
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subscribe. >> Speaking of >> channel, all that [ __ ] Uh we have a pretty fun collab that's coming out on
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Monday. And yeah, I mean this Monday because we're caught up, babe. >> Current [ __ ]
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>> So I mean this Monday. Uh it's going to be fun. I think you guys are going to
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dig it. We had a [ __ ] blast with it. And it's it's I don't I don't want to give
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too much away. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> It's a collab. >> You'll hear it. You'll see it.
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>> It's a lengthy collab. >> That's what that's all you need to know. >> It's great.
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>> It's great. >> It was so fun. >> It's so much fun. >> And it's not the only one of its kind.
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>> Nope, it's not. And that's all I have to say about that. It's a lengthy collab
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for sure. >> It is. I need this Baja blast to hit. Today was a Let me tell you, today was a
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a day that required a Baja blast. >> Yeah. Sometimes like just people be people in, you know.
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>> Dear God, they should. >> None of you. >> No, of course not. Literally none of
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you. You guys are You guys are great. >> You guys rule. It's just like >> other people though.
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>> The people that come from us. >> Yeah. I think it's just one of those. I'm re-watching um Housewives of New
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Jersey right now and all I can think is Teresa's tagline when she goes, "If you're not about the Namaste, get the
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hell away." >> Honestly, that's the vibe we need to take on in our own lives. >> Frankly, if you're not about the
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Namaste, stay the hell away. >> Like, get the hell away. I forget exactly what it is, but she's so funny.
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>> Oh, did I tell you guys that I got to go see Danny go? >> Not what I thought you were going to
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say. I thought you were gonna bring up Marcus. >> Oh, probably gonna bring up Marcus.
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Breaking news. >> I know. Just for for my parents out there and teachers >> and and Tit and Tits.
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>> Um, my kids love Danny Go. I'm sure many of your kids also love Danny Go or kids
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in your life. Um, we got to go see him live because he came to Boston with the kids.
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>> Hell yeah. >> We had a [ __ ] blast and they were so sweet. >> Mhm. >> My youngest loves Gerald. who doesn't?
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>> And was so excited to see him. So, like Gerald, shout out to you for like making
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her day. >> Um, but like Danny Gro go crew was so sweet and the show was so great. If
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you're thinking of taking your kids, I highly recommend it. She facetimed me for part of it and I was living for that
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garbage. >> Give me that garbage. Garbage. >> Going to take out the trash. It just
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goes so hard. >> It was great. My kids dance, we danced the entire time. I was exhausted at the
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end of it. >> I bet I would have had a blast. I would have lost my mind. >> Oh yeah, it was amazing.
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>> I would have gone so hard. >> That was really great. And >> and Marcus >> and Marcus. Um just as a final note
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before we get into this. Um have any of you followed Marcus the Worm? >> I'm going to remove South Carolina.
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>> I literally don't know how to explain this and I need you to just look it up.
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>> I'm irritated. >> I am mildly irritated. >> Quite I was irritated. Quite irritated.
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That tells you everything you need to know. Um, but he's he's brought us great joy.
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>> Yeah. Sorry, South Carolina. He did in fact remove >> He did in fact remove you.
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>> But you need to understand he was irritated. >> He was irritated. >> Okay. >> It's you got to look it up on TikTok.
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Everybody just go look right now. If you're driving, pull over. Be late to work for Marcus's sake.
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>> And I got to know if you guys think it's as funny as I think cuz it it made me
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cry laughing. >> Yeah, I think it's very funny. Like I lol hard at it. You raffle.
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>> It feeds myself. >> You raffle. C. >> I do. >> Roll on the floor laughing crying.
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>> And I think you can like look it up on YouTube and stuff too. So if you don't
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have Tik Tok, it's okay. Just look it up on YouTube. >> Marcus is Marcus the Worm.
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>> You'll know him when you see him. >> You You sure certainly will. And that's all I can say about that. All right.
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>> Okay. >> Okay. Well, I think we that's enough bid nasty. If you can even consider Marcus
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bid nasty, which you can write him off on your taxes. Just kidding. You'll get in trouble for that.
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>> You will. >> Just kidding. That's a federal offense. Um so we are going to be talking today um
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about a case that is close to us because a listener of ours and now friend of the
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pod >> friend of the pod Nikki. >> Yeah. Nikki asked that we cover her mother's case and we said abso
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fuckingutulutely we will Nikki. Truly. And honestly, Nikki's amazing. Uh we're going to be talking about her mother's
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case. >> Yeah. Her mother Stephanie >> today. And um we're gonna we'll make sure we're like linking to all of
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Nikki's stuff in the show notes because Nikki also has a podcast. It's called Poppy Killed Mommy and it's P A P I
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Poppy. Um where she talks all about her mother and her mother's case and her quest to get justice and to get answers
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about her mother's case. Um, she's been like just she's she's like as far as daughters go
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>> ultimate >> like A+. She's a daughter. >> She is elite. >> She is not a daughter. She
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>> she is the daughter because she has worked tirelessly to get her mom's case >> just talked about. Just get it looked at
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again. Like just get her mom's like memory and the facts about this case out to as many ears as she possibly can. and
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she's doing an amazing job at it. >> She really is. >> And any parent would be really proud of
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having a child like that. So like, props to Nikki. >> Props to Nikki. Also, props to other
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friend of the pod, Sarah Turney. Sarah, >> who's been helping Nikki. >> Sarah Turney is a badass. I'm sure you
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guys know that. And if you don't, >> Yeah. >> Now you know. >> Well, Nikki is the daughter, not a
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daughter. Sarah is the advocate sister slash all of the above. >> Yeah. Truly. So, if you haven't like
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right off the bat, make sure you go follow I mean Nikki's on Tik Tok a lot where she's like getting you know she
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she posts a lot about this and about like her journey going through all this on Tik Tok and it's Nikki Wasalian Nikki
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was or Nicole was her name on there is Nikki Ni Ki. Um, but again, we're going to link it so you can just make sure
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click on all that >> and make sure you follow her podcast and also make sure you follow Sarah Turney
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and Sarah Attorney's podcast, Voices for Justice, because those are two family of
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true crime run pods that definitely deserve to be blown up. >> Yeah, all the listens in the world
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>> and they're like great people. >> All right, so with all that being said, let's get into the unfortunate events
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of, you know, what really did take place here. So, a little past 1:30 a.m. on July 9th, 1993, an emergency call came
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into the 911 dispatch center in I think it's Yavapai County uh from a man named Russell Peterson. He was requesting an
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ambulance for his girlfriend Stephanie Wasalian. So, he told the dispatcher that he and Stephanie had gotten into a
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fight. Somehow that fight had ended with her being shot and she was now bleeding
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heavily, >> which how does a fight end that way? >> It should never end that way.
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>> It should never end that way. >> Officers from the Sedona Police Department were immediately dispatched
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obviously to the couple's res residence on Coffee Pot Drive, >> which I just feel like nothing bad
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should ever happen on a street named Coffee Pot Drive. >> Absolutely not. So sad. It should be
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like, you know, a cozy a cozy place. >> The coziest of all. >> Nothing bad happens.
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>> Yeah, exactly. >> It's very Stars Holoesque. >> It is. That's immediately what I thought
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of. >> So, they arrived at the residence about 5 minutes later. They let themselves in
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uh through the front door and announced themselves, of course. And Russell came from what they later learned was the
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couple's bedroom. He stuck his head out. He was uh still actually on the phone with the 911 dispatcher at the time. And
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immediately officer saw that his hands were covered in what appeared to be blood.
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>> Oh boy. So now that they were at the scene, he hung up with the dispatcher and led them back into the bedroom where
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they found Stephanie's body on the floor with a quote large caliber gunshot wound
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to her throat. >> Oh my god. >> Yeah. As far as the officers could tell at that point, Stephanie was dead.
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Likely from the gunshot wound obviously and the loss of blood which had now pulled around the right side of her
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head. But more concerning was that in addition to the presence of Russell Peterson, there was also a small child
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in the room >> just sitting on the bed. And she looked, this will break your heart. It's [ __ ]
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terrible. She looked up at the officers and told them, "That's my mommy." >> Oh my god.
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>> Now, luckily, they got her out of there and they got Russell into the next room
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and they started going through everything. in the living room. He explained that that was his
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four-year-old daughter that he shared with Stephanie. He said he didn't >> four years old and she saw her mother in
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that state. >> Oh, that just that shatters >> you could be 2 years old and you would
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never get that image out of your head. Like that poor girl. >> No child should ever have to see that.
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>> And just because at the top of this we kind of told you a little bit about the
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case. This is not Nikki. This is Nikki's little sister. So he said Russell said he didn't think
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that she saw what had happened like saw the shooting but obviously she saw the aftermath. Yeah.
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>> And he said he pro she probably saw him do uh CPR on Stephanie. So he he was telling them I tried CPR. I did this and
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she was here for that. >> So back in the bedroom, Officer Scott Brooks kind of just started to survey
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the scene. He saw that Stephanie was lying in the northern end of the room just beside the bed and she was just
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dressed in a green night shirt and red underwear just like she was going to get into bed soon. You know, just PJs.
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>> On the floor nearby, he saw a 44 caliber magnum revolver. There was blood evidence on the wall and the table just
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above Stephanie's head and also a bullet embedded in the wall with this is awful.
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What appeared to be hair attached to it. >> Oh god. And then there was also a gold
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chain necklace lying on the floor underneath Stephanie's arm, similar to another one that he found on the floor
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by the doorway. >> Okay. >> So, out in the living room, the other officers started to question Russell
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Peterson about the events of that night. He explained that he and Stephanie weren't married, but they'd been living
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together for about four years, and they did have one child together. And there was another daughter in the home, Nikki.
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Um Nikki is Stephanie's daughter from a previous relationship, and he said that Nikki was sleeping when the shooting
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occurred. According to Russell, he'd been working for most of that night. And when he came home later, he could tell
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that Stephanie had been drinking and had spent more than two hours on the phone with her ex-boyfriend, who was the
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father of her other daughter, Nikki. >> And this is Russell saying this. >> This is Russell saying this, by the way.
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Yeah, >> thank you for clarifying that. There he said that there had been some tension
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between the two of them in recent weeks. And he said that stemmed from the fact that he was um invited into a culinary
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program in Ithaca in New York. So it was like a ways away. >> And not only did he plan to go, but he
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had already bought the plane ticket and was leaving the following day. >> Well, damn.
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>> So he kind of like decided this on his own and didn't I think from the sounds
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of it, Stephanie kind of was like, "Yeah, what about your family here? >> Can you include me in this decision?"
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>> Yeah. So, at some point, their argument started getting heated, and he said Stephanie left the room, went into the
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bedroom, and came back a few minutes later holding the 44 Magnum that uh Russell's father had given him. So,
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Russell said he was sitting on the couch at the time, and that Stephanie raised the gun in his direction, fired a single
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round, which struck the wall next to his head, and then said that she was going to blow his head off. Now, remember,
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this is him talking about this. Yeah, this is from his point of view because obviously Stephanie cannot say her point
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of view. >> Exactly. However, rather than firing a second shot, he uh she walked back down
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the hallway toward their bedroom and Russell started following behind her. According to him, when they reached the
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bedroom, they started struggling over the gun just inside of the bedroom door and that caused the gun to go off.
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That's when Stephanie was shot. After the shooting, he said he called 911 immediately. They instructed him to
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start chest compressions until officers could arrive and that's just what he did. So that night he was taken into
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custody obviously and the two children were removed from the home and placed in temporary foster care until they could
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figure out a suitable guard uh guardian which is just it's such a sad horrifying
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to think about traumatizing >> event for those two girls. Like not only did the younger child see her mother in that
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state, she obviously wondered what had happened here and then 10-year-old Nikki gets woken up and told that now this is
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her reality. >> Yeah. Like this is your life now. Like this is what you have to do.
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>> And now you're placed in a in a home where like you don't know these people. >> Yeah.
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>> Awful. >> Like your whole life got turned upside down in one instant while you slept
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>> in which >> it's like you're She was 10. Mhm. >> You're 10 years old. >> 10 and four.
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>> You should go to sleep every night >> without care in the world. >> Care in the world
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>> and no worries. >> And you should wake up the next morning without a care in the world. And it's
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like it kills me when this kind of stuff happens >> because you just get thrust into
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adulthood when something like that happens to you. You become an adult at 10 years old or like you know like the
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adult problems get put on you at that age. I also like whenever it's like and obviously um this is like technically an
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unsolved case >> correct because like they haven't decide they haven't officially decided that
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there's fault or what had actually happened >> uh just putting that out there >> which is why I think everybody can kind
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of gather at the top why Nikki has a podcast. >> Yeah. So she, you know, she can better
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explain that, I'm sure. And >> but and obviously I'm just speaking from like, you know, what I'm hearing here is
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whenever like I hear a gun goes off during an argument a lot of times like you're just like explain to me the
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mechanics of that >> because you've shot a gun, right? >> I have. Yeah. >> I've never shot a gun. You have to like
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pull the trigger. I mean, my I haven't shot a lot of guns and it's like but from when what I actually did, it takes
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a lot of I mean, it takes pressure to shoot a gun like >> and I think I'm I'm just confused like
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how this happens like how you're struggling and somehow >> somebody's finger goes on the trigger,
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>> right? >> You know, like that's cuz you have to get your finger into the trigger, you
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know, like >> although there can Well, not only that, but like guns can misfire, right? Like
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if you drop it or something like that. >> Yeah, I'm sure. I don't know about this, but we've seen it happen both
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ways. It just me being like >> how did the gun go off by accident, you know? Like I always question it at least
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like just need to see like the mechanics of it. >> Yeah, that's true. >> But again, I'm not saying that happened
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or didn't happen here. I'm just >> I'm just questioning. >> Just questioning. Well, here's the
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thing. to the crime scene technicians. The evidence seemed to kind of match the description of the events that Russell
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Peterson described. >> Okay. >> And remember, we're at the very beginning here. >> Yeah.
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[Music] In the living room, there was a glass of beer on a side table and a glass of wine
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on a coffee table, indicating that drinking had happened that night, which >> by both of them
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>> by both of them, which is pretty regular in an American home. >> Yeah. In the living room wall just to
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the right of the front door, they discovered a bullet and a bullet jacket lodged in the wall, which did support
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Russell's claim that Stephanie had fired one round at him uh before they went back in the bedroom. And the evidence
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collected from the bedroom also seemed to support Russell's description of that night. But again, he was still in
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custody. So the next morning, he placed a call to his boss at um I think it's Petro's restaurant, and his boss was
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Peter Korn, and he asked Peter to come down to the station. Peter came down after talking to Russell for a short
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time. He agreed to take uh temporary custody of the children. >> Very sweet. I hope he was a good guy. I
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don't know anything about him. >> I hope he was. >> Uh but then he left the station. About
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an hour later though, Peter Korn called the station and asked to speak to Chief Bob Irish. And that was the first of two
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calls between Korn and Irish that morning. Now, according to Peter uh Peter Korn, he knew both Stephanie and
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Russell very well because they both they both worked for him at the restaurant. He confirmed Russell's statement to the
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police about Stephanie having been in distress in recent weeks about, you know, Russell probably going away,
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Russell leaving. And he said, "Yeah, she was very particularly upset about that."
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>> Yeah. Which I can understand that. >> Yeah. It was going to be a 10-day seminar in New York. And it sounds like
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it was, you know, not exactly like, you know, from the sounds of it, it sounds like it was not exactly decided on
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together or discussed in a way where she felt like she had a lot of say in it. >> Exactly. And that's hard when you have a
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family. >> Yeah. And just to clarify, like they live in Arizona. New York is across the
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country. >> A long way away. >> That's 10 days by yourself. That's 10 days trying to figure out how you go to
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work and the children are taken care of. Like >> who knows who is around to support the
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kids. >> Exactly. That's a lot. Like that's Yeah. So during the calls, Peter also revealed
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some important information about uh Stephanie and Russell's relationship. Basically that it was always somewhat
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strained. >> Okay. >> In an interview with another coworker, Katherine Dler, investigators learned
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that Stephanie had a really difficult childhood. >> And this is awful. She had been abused
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in many ways by her mother and her stepfather. >> So why do pe I will never understand
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this. >> Yeah. >> It's like why? Like why why a kid? Like that's what I don't get.
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Like it's like I it just will never I'm glad it doesn't make sense to me, but it'll never make sense to me that I'm
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like why are you picking on a kid? >> It's broken people who have never taken the time to heal themselves.
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>> No. And it's like and then they just pick on the and it's like a kid nine times out of 10 you created.
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>> Well, that's the thing. It's like >> like that's your flesh and blood right there. you, most people in their
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lifetime are going to have to heal from something and you should do that before you have children.
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>> You absolutely should. >> If it's, you know, if you need to do it while you have kids, by all means, like,
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at least you're doing it. >> Make a valiant effort out of it. >> But you got to heal yourself when kids
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enter the picture. >> But you can't heal yourself by inflicting the same kind of terror on
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your children that you possibly went through. >> That's where generational trauma comes
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in. And trust me, it sucks. You should be like your parents should you should be your kid's safe place 100% of the
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time. >> 100% of the time. And to not be your kid's safe place and again we're talking
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about like Stephanie's childhood here >> like that's [ __ ] up. And look and it's
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like and you're going to put them like in a situation where they're going out into the world disadvantaged
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because they never had that safe place. So, they're going to have to work to figure out one how to be that safe place
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for someone else >> and what that even is, >> which she sounds like she figured out
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how to be that safe place for her kids. >> She sure [ __ ] did. >> But she's also going to have to find
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that safe place in other people. And sometimes that's where the problem comes. >> Oh my god. So true.
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>> Because you end up going and finding it. You don't find it. You find it. You find
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somebody that's like your parents who treat you terribly. So, I'm not saying that's 100% what happened here. I'm just
00:22:32
saying, you know, it happens. It's so sad that that's most often the case when you look for your safe space in somebody
00:22:39
else. Like there are obviously times where you you do find your safe space in somebody and you could be that lucky.
00:22:44
But >> for sure, >> it's it's it doesn't happen often. >> Yeah. And that's the thing. It's really
00:22:49
sad cuz you again you disadvantage them to picking another safe place. >> Yeah. Exactly.
00:22:54
>> Out in life. Well, so according to this co-orker, Katherine Dler, Stephanie said
00:22:59
that her previous relationship with the father of her oldest daughter, Nikki, had also been physically and emotionally
00:23:04
abusive. So, it does seem like she looked for that safe space. And unfortunately, she got prayed upon
00:23:09
again. >> Yeah, she looked for a safe space and she looked to the only thing >> she was used to, which was somebody
00:23:15
treating her poorly. And that sucks. >> It's a cycle because according to Stephanie's sister, Kathleen, Stephanie
00:23:20
confided in her that Russell had also been physically abusive to her. Again, I'm not stating that as a fact. I'm just
00:23:26
saying that that came up in a conversation that Stephanie's sister had with somebody.
00:23:32
>> Yeah. >> So, who we were able to speak to, as I'm sure you know at this point, was
00:23:36
Stephanie's daughter, Nikki. And that's when we really got a closer look into who Stephanie was and what she meant to
00:23:43
her family, specifically her two daughters, >> and why I can so confidently say that
00:23:47
Nick Stephanie figured out how to be that safe space. >> 100,000 gajillion%. This will bring you
00:23:53
to tears. And the uh these are Nikki's words. I'm reading directly from what she wrote us.
00:23:58
>> Nikki said, "I had my mother in my life for only 10 years. While investigating
00:24:02
her cold case murder after 28 years, that's when I finally discovered who my mother was as a person. But let's start
00:24:08
out with what I remember. My mother was a 10, an absolute model, gorgeous, beautiful inside and out. She
00:24:15
>> She's gorgeous. >> Nikki is spitting truths here because her mom was a hard 10. We saw a picture
00:24:21
of her and I was like that woman is she's gorgeous and she just radiates like I feel like people like that are
00:24:27
kind inside because they it radiates out of them. >> I was going to say she what the outside
00:24:32
was definitely showing what was on the inside. >> Mhm. Nikki said she took great pride in
00:24:36
her appearance and grew her hair out all the way down her back. That's one of the
00:24:40
things I will always remember is her gorgeous long hair and how much care she took in her upkeep. My mother enjoyed
00:24:45
holidays. She would dress up and decorate the home for the big holidays and the little. She lived for the small
00:24:51
moments, and she really did live for the moments with her children. My mom was a
00:24:55
hands-on mom. She enjoy She enjoyed dressing up her girls and taking family photos every Christmas. She was proud of
00:25:01
the family that she created. My mom would keep up with the trends of the '9s. And I remember her buying my
00:25:06
clothes to match Sabrina the Teenage Witch because, >> hell yeah. >> And I love because she just thought
00:25:11
Melissa Joan Hart was the cutest and she wanted her daughter to look the same. for her to choose Sabrina the Teenage
00:25:17
Witch as like I'm gonna dress my girls like that. I'm like game. >> Oh, that's my girl right there. I think
00:25:23
we we share a kindred. >> Yeah. Immediately we were like Stephanie. She's Nikki said I remembered
00:25:28
I remember my mom encouraged me to read. She would buy me the newest RL Stein Goosebumps or Fear Street.
00:25:34
>> I would come home from school and a new book would be on my bed encouraging me
00:25:37
to learn. My mom loved family gatherings at Grandma Be's. Lots of memories in that house. I took out the address. Uh,
00:25:45
I remember one time we were swimming and my mom's friend yelled over, "Stacy, what's your favorite color?" By the way,
00:25:50
um, people called Stephanie Stacy, too, like a nickname. >> Yeah. >> So, she said, "Stacy, what's your
00:25:56
favorite color?" Nikki said she took a drag off her cigarette and responded very cooly, "Gor of weed and money."
00:26:03
I don't know if green was actually my mom's favorite color, but I know that when I was 5 years old, I heard her say
00:26:08
that and 35 years later, I still remember my mom's answer as she took that drag on that cigarette and answered
00:26:14
back, "Green." >> What a badass. >> I think that's just hilarious. >> That's just such a funny way to answer
00:26:20
>> and like just like such a '9s cool girl moment, you know? >> Yeah. >> She said, "Growing up, I knew that my
00:26:25
mom had a hard life. So, when she was an adult, all she wanted was to create a family of her own. I get that. My mother
00:26:31
had no great aspirations of going to college or pursuing a career in medicine or a law degree. She just wanted to have
00:26:36
a family. And that's what she did at the age of 19 when she was born. 7 years later, my little sister would be born.
00:26:42
Four years after that, my mother will be taken from us, leaving two young children alone,
00:26:48
>> which is just awful. She sounds like such a cool like the goosebumps of it all the leaving the book on the bed when
00:26:55
she would come home. >> That's the best. >> Like that kind of [ __ ] the [ __ ] you do
00:26:58
that I'm like I wish that I didn't have that. Like I love that. >> That's such like it's those little and
00:27:05
and obviously look it's those little things you do for your kids that they remember.
00:27:10
>> Leaving a book on their bed for when they get home. >> Like something so simple like that means
00:27:14
like that has shaped Nikki's entire life. Like those are the main memories that she has of her mom and obviously
00:27:21
because her mom was taken from her at such a young age. But those little things have an impact
00:27:25
>> because I vividly remember and it's always going to be like very vivid I can smell them kind of memories. My mom
00:27:34
would leave little decorations for holidays like on my bed. Like so for for Halloween if she went to HomeGoods while
00:27:41
I was at school, she would pick me up a couple of things and leave them on my bed so I could decorate my room.
00:27:46
>> So cute. >> And I can like literally smell like the environment when I walked in and saw
00:27:52
those. It's like that kind of like really fresh memory. And I think that's what Nikki's talking about with that
00:27:57
like green comment >> that you can just like those are the kind of memories that you literally can
00:28:01
like touch. >> They're like imprinted on you. >> Yeah. And she would leave beanie babies
00:28:04
on the front porch when I would come off the bus. >> I love that. >> Yeah. And it's like those kind of things
00:28:10
your kids will never forget those things and they're little. When I was in high school, I was in high school when I
00:28:14
moved in with my grandparents. And my grandpa, every Valentine's Day, would leave me a mug on the counter from like
00:28:21
a really good candy store and put all this yummy candy in it. Every single Valentine's Day, he'd get one for like
00:28:28
Halloween. Like all the fun holidays, he'd give me something little like that. And it's like those are truly the things
00:28:34
that last. >> Yeah. They're little, but they're huge. And I just remember like you were just
00:28:38
saying like walking home, walking into the kitchen, I can literally smell like what was cooking for dinner and just
00:28:43
being like a >> Yep. like you thought of me. >> Oh man. >> So, so back to the case. While
00:28:49
investigators were conducting obviously a large number of interviews with friends and family, just trying to get
00:28:54
the bigger picture of who Stephanie was that we now have thanks to Nikki and of course how she ended up shot in her own
00:29:00
bedroom. The county medical examiner, Dr. Philip Keane performed the autopsy on Stephanie. Now, obviously, he
00:29:08
determined that the cause of death was the gunshot wound to Stephanie's neck, but he had some questions when it came
00:29:14
to Russell Peterson's description of the incident because in his opinion, it did
00:29:19
not in it was not entirely supported by the evidence. >> Interesting. >> So, remember, in his statement to the
00:29:24
police, Russell said that the gun had been in Stephanie's left hand when it went off. This was supported by the
00:29:30
presence of gunpowder residue on her left hand, but by all accounts, Stephanie was right-handed, so it
00:29:37
wouldn't have made sense for her to hold the gun in her non-dominant hand. >> Oh, yeah. You're right. Like that it
00:29:42
could happen, but you know, it'd be weird. And beyond that, in order to inflict the kind of contact wound that
00:29:49
she got in her neck, she would have had to have been holding the gun at a very awkward angle, which would have been
00:29:56
like unnatural under the circumstances. Like her arm wouldn't have really been able to move that way.
00:30:03
>> Well, that is where the the questions of like when a gun goes off like that come
00:30:08
into play where like you need to like lay out exactly what would have needed to happen for that injury to happen.
00:30:13
>> And sometimes you're like, doesn't line up. >> So, in his summary, Dr. Keane wrote,
00:30:19
"The character of the wound is such that it is a contact wound," which is awful.
00:30:24
>> Damn. >> And he said, "And the presence of gunpowder residue on the left hand is
00:30:28
more consistent with the deposition in a defensive posture than with any self-inflicted injury, whether
00:30:34
intentional or otherwise." >> Oh. >> So, as a result of his findings, he did list the death as a homicide.
00:30:41
>> Interesting. Very interesting that the gunpowder on the hand cuz I didn't even think of that
00:30:47
that it could be a defense thing like that it was a contact thing, >> right? >> Like that's wild.
00:30:53
>> It is interesting. >> So based on the evidence initially presented and the statements collected
00:30:58
from those who knew the couple, the case, you know, initially seemed to be pretty straightforward. It was tragic,
00:31:04
but at the end of the day, pretty routine. Mhm. >> Now, the coroner's report was definitely
00:31:08
a catalyst to a lot of questions because now that indicated that there was way more to this story and now this death is
00:31:15
a homicide. >> Yeah. >> But that wasn't the only thing complicating what investigators thought
00:31:19
was going to be an open shut case. Not long after Stephanie's death, Detective Walt Spokes sat down with the couple's
00:31:26
younger daughter to find out if she had seen anything that evening, cuz remember, she was awake when they got
00:31:30
the room. >> And they just wanted to see if she could add anything of value to the narrative.
00:31:35
And throughout the interview, he did his best to avoid leading questions, of course, just really stuck to broad
00:31:40
questions about what she remembered. And he asked her, "What happened at home tonight?" And she just looked at him and
00:31:47
said, "My mother died. My dad killed her." That wrecks me. >> Yeah, that must have wrecked those
00:31:57
invest like to hear a little sweet little baby >> who has been through hell say that to
00:32:03
you. I don't know how I don't know how you recover from that and just like obviously your job is a part of your
00:32:09
life but then you just go back to your personal life after >> just like carry that
00:32:14
>> like that's heavy that's heavy. >> Yeah. >> The interview with Stephanie and Russell's daughter it's it's pretty
00:32:20
brief but there are certain revelations made during that discussion that would be pretty significant going forward.
00:32:26
>> The most important being that after she heard the commotion in her parents' bedroom, she went to see what was
00:32:30
happening. And not only did she see her mom lying on the floor, while Russell appeared to be retrieving the gun from
00:32:36
the closet, it wasn't out yet. >> Oh. >> But that meant that directly after the shooting took place, Russell not only
00:32:45
handled the weapon, but also appeared to have moved it from where it had fallen from Stephanie's hand.
00:32:51
>> Oh, >> yeah. >> Interesting. And and again, this is from the discussion with Nikki's younger
00:32:57
sister. >> Exactly. So given the new information and the coroner's report, Detective
00:33:02
Spoke sat down with Russell for another interview and was like, "Whoa, lots of new information here." And
00:33:08
that's when he changed his story in some very significant ways. >> Oh. When he was initially interviewed
00:33:14
immediately after the shooting, he told investigators, like we said, Stephanie had argued. They struggled with the gun.
00:33:19
It went off. Stephanie was killed. But now all of a sudden, he claimed that to the best of his recol uh recollection,
00:33:25
Stephanie fired the gun at him while he was on the couch. then went into the in the bedroom. He followed her and when he
00:33:32
reached the bedroom, he arrived just in time to witness Stephanie fall to the floor after she shot herself.
00:33:40
>> What? >> Yeah. Which she would have had to have done with her left hand, which is
00:33:45
>> at a very unnatural angle. >> At a very unnatural angle. Yeah. >> And in the neck.
00:33:50
>> Yep. Like right on the neck. >> Okay. So, the previous explanation of an accidental shooting during a struggle
00:33:56
would have accounted for the presence of gunpowder on his hands. But if Stephanie
00:34:00
shot herself like he was now claiming, they asked him how did he get gunpowder on his hands?
00:34:06
>> Yeah. >> Cuz now you're removing yourself from even holding the gun at all. >> Yeah.
00:34:11
>> And they said for that matter, why did their daughter tell police that she saw
00:34:15
him taking the gun to the closet? Yeah. >> Where did that like when did that happen
00:34:19
throughout the evening? For the most part, his second interview matched the contents of his initial
00:34:24
statements. He claimed he got home from work. He found Stephanie drunk, agitated. Their conversation was calm,
00:34:30
things got heated, and he said he did his best not to become angry. He told detectives, "I don't have the buttons
00:34:36
that you can push to maybe want to put me into that mode," which is like a bab everybody has
00:34:41
buttons. >> Yeah, everybody has a button, but like not to be pushed into a mode of handling
00:34:46
a gun. >> Yeah. And then eventually things escalated to where Stephanie got the gun, fired a shot at him, and then
00:34:52
that's where his story changes again. According to him, after the shot was fired, he fell over on the couch and it
00:34:58
took him a few seconds to collect himself. And that's when Stephanie went into the bedroom. He said, "I go I go
00:35:04
through the hall and the door is 3/4 of the way closed. I know I told you guys of this confrontation, of this struggle,
00:35:11
and I'm not excluding that maybe it did or did not happen, and that's like the point of darkness for me." So now it's
00:35:16
it maybe did happen, maybe didn't happen, >> and now you don't remember anything that
00:35:20
it's the uh it's it's when people claim the the blackout happens that I'm like, uh oh.
00:35:26
>> And it's like So that's your third story. Yeah. Now, >> and now we're now we're including a
00:35:30
complete blackout. >> A blackout. >> Yeah. >> Which like if you count if you can't
00:35:34
account for that time. >> Yeah. >> That's not good. >> Like uhoh. >> Essentially, he was recanting his
00:35:40
previous statement now that they had struggled over the gun. And now apparently the one where he immediately
00:35:45
walked in and found Stephanie Stephanie lying on the floor and now he that we were just left with this blackout.
00:35:51
>> And he said he didn't regain uh full consciousness until he saw her fall to the floor. He said, "I don't know what
00:35:56
happened. I may know. It'll come to me. I never I don't think I ever put my hands on her."
00:36:02
>> So it's like now you don't know what happened. And how did you just black out? Like now you're like you just like
00:36:08
went unconscious. [Music] And it's like, okay, I'm playing devil's advocate here for sure.
00:36:26
>> Yeah, >> traumatic events can make you black out, >> but you already definitively told one
00:36:33
story and then you said it has all the pieces. >> Actually, that's wrong. And then you
00:36:36
definitively told another story where you remembered everything and now all of a sudden you don't remember. If you
00:36:43
doubt, you got to say that from the jump. >> That's the thing. No matter what, whether like whatever outcome actually
00:36:48
happened here or whatever process happened here, >> you're not making yourself look good
00:36:55
here. No. By changing the story up 100%. >> The second you start changing your story
00:36:59
is the second up. Exactly. So he claimed that after he regained his composure in
00:37:04
the bedroom, he saw the gun on the floor and his instinct was to pick it up and to move it out of the way. So he grabbed
00:37:10
it, he put it back in its leather holster and placed it on the shelf in the closet. But then he said, "Something
00:37:15
clicked off in my mind that said, "No, you can't do that, Russell." Meaning he realized he shouldn't move the weapon.
00:37:21
He went over to the closet and he took it out again and put it back on the floor where he'd gotten it from. And he
00:37:26
said that's when their daughter appeared at the bedroom door. So now that accounted for her seeing her father move
00:37:31
the gun >> come back out. >> So now we're accounting for a story that we know the daughter told which again if
00:37:36
that is what happened why wouldn't you just say that initially >> from the jump >> right just say like yeah and there was
00:37:42
this moment where I went to put it back and I was like oh [ __ ] that could look
00:37:45
suspicious so I took it back out and I think my daughter appeared there. Like why wouldn't you just say that story?
00:37:50
Why is that suddenly coming to you now? >> You got to just say things initially.
00:37:53
>> You got to just say the story >> when you're in a situation like this obviously like people get scared. So
00:37:58
many things can be true, but >> no matter what, it looks sus when you start changing your story.
00:38:02
>> Yeah. >> So throughout the course of the interview, Detective Spokes did his best
00:38:05
to push Russell for any additional information, especially by pointing out the contradictions between his story and
00:38:11
what they now knew from the evidence. For example, now the coroner's ruling indicated that the death was a homicide,
00:38:17
but Dr. Keane was very careful to point out the angle of the entry and exit wounds and the contact burns made it
00:38:24
very unlikely to have been a suicide. So he's sitting there, the detect detective spokes is sitting there
00:38:29
telling Russell like, "Okay, so now your story is that Stephanie shot herself, but the autopsy is not showing us that."
00:38:37
>> That's the thing. The autopsy isn't going to lie. And they reenacted the shooting and the facts of the what the
00:38:45
findings were in the autopsy were verified. Yeah. It confirmed it would have been very very extremely difficult
00:38:52
if not completely impossible for Stephanie to have bent her arm in the position that she had to have to shoot
00:38:58
herself that way. >> Autopsies don't lie. >> That is just you cannot [ __ ] with an
00:39:03
autopsy. That is just they're going to tell you what happened there or what didn't happen there.
00:39:07
>> That's the thing. And it's like not only that, but then they went to the trouble
00:39:10
of reenacting it >> in the work of reenacting it and it confirmed the findings. Yeah,
00:39:14
>> that's a double impossible for her to bend her arm that way. >> Like come on, man. And I'm sorry that
00:39:25
just like >> when you change your story from there was a struggle and the gun went off to
00:39:30
then they shot themselves. >> My hunches are immediately up. Like I'm immediately like what?
00:39:36
>> Now it's now it's completely removed you out of the situation. And then you find
00:39:39
out you can't be completely removed because you have gunpowder on your hands and somebody saw you with a gun. Like
00:39:45
hello. >> So detective spokes in the interview room explained to Russell that he was
00:39:49
pretty much losing all credibility, especially because now he had changed his story like four or five times at
00:39:54
this point. >> That's not great. And to make matters worse, while he was initially pretty
00:39:58
cooperative and forthcoming, after about a week or so, he stopped returning investigators phone calls and just
00:40:04
seemed to be avoiding detectives because they couldn't continue to hold him after
00:40:07
a certain point. >> So, he did get let go of course, but then he kept getting called in for
00:40:11
interviews, but then he just eventually stopped participating in them. >> Damn. >> So, eventually Spokes and his partner
00:40:18
presented Russell with what they believed to have happened that night, which was more or less the original
00:40:23
version of events. They said, "Sure. I think a fight escalated to a struggle over the gun." And during that fight,
00:40:29
Stephanie was shot. Detective spokes said, "I'm trying to give you an opportunity to respond and to help us. I
00:40:35
mean, if this was an accident, we just want to prove it was an accident." >> Yeah.
00:40:39
>> But at that point, Russell was immovable. And just continued to say, "Nope, Stephanie shot herself and I
00:40:44
blacked out during it." >> No. >> The story that makes the least amount of sense. and the story that the forensic
00:40:52
like evidence and the autopsy proved wrong, >> right? >> So, it's like you can't keep hanging on
00:40:57
to that one. >> And they're literally sitting here being like, "We'll give you the initial story
00:41:01
that you gave us back. >> We're giving you the opportunity to just tell us this was an accident. If it was
00:41:06
an accident, tell us move from there." >> But don't take yourself completely out
00:41:10
of it now when the forensics is telling us you were in it. >> Come on. >> And don't get like shoddy and start
00:41:15
avoiding people. >> Yeah. >> Investigators in the law. Hello. >> Not good. >> So, based on the number of times that
00:41:22
his story had changed and the various pieces of contradictory evidence, detectives spokes and the other
00:41:27
investigators felt pretty strongly that Russell Peters was not being entirely forthcoming about what happened on the
00:41:32
night of Stephanie's death. But they didn't have any evidence or eyewitness testimony to prove beyond a reasonable
00:41:39
doubt that he wasn't being truthful. The coroner's report indicated that it seemed unlikely that Stephanie shot
00:41:45
herself, but that didn't mean that she couldn't have. It was just only that it would have been awkward given the
00:41:51
evidence and close to impossible. Yeah. But not impossible. >> Yeah, of course. >> And unfortunately, the only witness that
00:41:57
they did have who saw anything that night aside from Russell obviously was a small child who in addition to
00:42:04
experiencing a considerable trauma like is a is a child. >> I mean, she's three or four years old.
00:42:10
That's like she's so little, you know, like and and again, she's been through so much drama
00:42:17
>> and and you don't want to keep dragging her through this trauma. >> You don't want to keep dragging her
00:42:20
through it. She's a child, so she can't be your only witness that you can throw on the stand because unfortunately, a
00:42:26
jury isn't going to put a man away for life or for a considerable amount of time based on a three-year-old's
00:42:33
>> or four-year-old's word, you know, >> unfortunate reality. So they didn't believe what Russell was telling them,
00:42:39
but they couldn't prove that he wasn't. So there they were at a standstill. >> In the months that followed, new
00:42:44
information and leads just started to dry up because I mean, >> there's only one person involved here.
00:42:50
You're not really going to get any tips or leads. >> Yeah. >> And there just wasn't enough evidence
00:42:54
for the prosecutor to bring the case to a grand jury. So everything just petered
00:42:58
out and the investigation was shelved so that detectives could, you know, focus on more urgent matters.
00:43:05
But in the years since Stephanie's death, her family has never ever lost hope and they still want to get justice
00:43:11
for her. They still continue to push Sedona law enforcement to resolve the case.
00:43:15
>> Yeah. >> In the summer of 2020, almost a full 27 years since Stephanie's death, her
00:43:21
sister Wendy met with Sergeant Michael Dominguez from the Sedona Police Department to talk about the case. Wendy
00:43:27
restated her strong belief that Russell was definitely responsible for Stephanie's murder and was like, "Hey,
00:43:34
can you just continue this investigation, please?" Like, >> yeah, can we not just like let this go?
00:43:38
>> Yeah. Like, can we take this off the shelves? >> Which I think this is Arizona, correct,
00:43:42
Sedona? >> This is also where Sarah Attorney's sister Alyssa, her case is ongoing.
00:43:48
>> Yep. So it's just like an interesting >> but got shelved at a certain point and
00:43:51
then she was told just put enough pressure on you know like like just never stop talking about it
00:43:57
>> never stop talking about it >> always like make the public aware get the word out so that's exactly what
00:44:02
we're doing here and what Nikki's trying to do >> and what everybody else in in Stephanie's family was trying to do and
00:44:08
is trying to do >> so Wendy was urging the department to continue the investigation and Sergeant
00:44:15
uh Dominguez explained that they would continue to pursue the case to to the best of their abilities, but suggested
00:44:21
that they might be able to make more progress if the family could aid them in the investigation, which is what Sarah
00:44:26
was also told. >> Yeah. >> Specifically, he told he uh he spoke with Stephanie and Russell's daughter
00:44:32
and asked her to cooperate with them on a confrontation call, and she agreed. >> Wow. A confrontation call. And to be
00:44:40
able to agree to that. >> Yeah. >> Damn. >> Yeah. >> Like that's so scary. It's I can't
00:44:46
imagine being involved in something like that >> like that. That takes some badassery.
00:44:52
>> But as of July 20th, uh 2020, there doesn't appear to have been any additional contact between the Sedona
00:44:58
police and the family. And it's kind of unclear whether that confrontation call took place or not.
00:45:03
>> Interesting. >> So around that time that Dominguez was communicating with Wendy Wasalian, he
00:45:09
also spoke to the press about his taking another look at the case. He told a reporter from the uh Sedona Red Rocks
00:45:15
News, there was no witness other than Russell and the deceased. The children were in bed sleeping in other rooms when
00:45:20
the incident occurred. Not true necessarily. >> The autopsy report from the medical
00:45:24
examiner at the time called it a homicide, but with the advances in technology and criminology in the years
00:45:30
since Stephanie was killed, both the investigators and the family hoped that maybe they could make some progress
00:45:36
here. So he said, "Can I tell you it's a homicide with 100% certainty? No. But based on the evidence I see, there's
00:45:42
more to the story than that of a suicide. >> Yeah. It just doesn't doesn't read that
00:45:47
way at all. >> Yeah. So, he was he was on board to continue this. >> But within just a few weeks of
00:45:52
restarting their investigation, the note of optimism seemed to leave his voice. At the time that Stephanie was killed, a
00:45:59
lot of focus was put on her having held the gun in her non-dominant hand, which would have been pretty counterintuitive
00:46:06
under the circumstances. But he said, and this is a quote, he said, "The family has overfocused on the fact that
00:46:12
she was right-handed and she could have only done this with her right hand." But it's like I think I would over I
00:46:19
would >> It's not over focusing. It's just a big P. It changed everything. >> Yeah.
00:46:24
>> That's when >> you have a dominant hand. >> Well, and that's when investigators went
00:46:28
to him and said like, "Hey, here's what's in the report." And that's when the story started changing. So, I don't
00:46:33
think that's overfocusing. I think that's >> I think that opened up a little bit.
00:46:37
Yeah, exactly. >> I think them focusing on that at all made him change his story a little bit,
00:46:42
it seems, cuz they brought it up and the story changed. So, it's like it was good
00:46:46
that it was brought up. >> That's the thing. If I if if the coroner's report is like the initial
00:46:50
reason that caused doubt and it caused him to change his story, I get pretty [ __ ] hung up on that, too.
00:46:55
>> Well, and also it's like don't say that they're overfocusing on it. You have a
00:46:59
dominant hand and you do things with that dominant hand. And if you're trying to kill yourself, you're not going to
00:47:05
want to [ __ ] it up by using your non-dominant hand. So, I mean, that's just that's a very
00:47:11
>> for forgive the the word I have to say, but morbid thing to say, >> but it's true.
00:47:16
>> Yeah. >> It's just that doesn't make sense. And you do have to think about the logics
00:47:20
involved here. >> You're right. >> And to say they're overfocused on it. No, I think it just is a piece of the
00:47:25
puzzle that makes sense. >> Exactly. Well, he said and he did say it seemed unlikely that anybody, like you
00:47:30
just said, would take the time to switch hands before shooting themselves, but at
00:47:34
the same time, he said it wasn't out of the realm of possibility. >> Okay. And I can agree with that.
00:47:39
>> Yeah. So, he took the original coroner's report to a new medical examiner to get
00:47:43
a second opinion, and the second opinion turned out to be inconclusive, >> which is infuriating.
00:47:50
>> Infuriating. And also like I don't know that this is the case, but it's like I
00:47:54
don't think that one medical examiner is going to want to step on the toes of another one.
00:47:58
>> I'm sure that who knows if there's like some kind of you know like you don't want to be the one that overturns that.
00:48:04
>> It's like I wish you could be brought to several. >> Yeah. >> And have them all kind of like brain
00:48:09
trust it. >> Exactly. >> Even have them all like a few of them work together to figure out cuz when you
00:48:14
have a few of those great minds together, you could probably come up with a better way to do it. Well,
00:48:19
Dominguez said about the medical examiner, he said he told me that based on what he had in front of him, he was
00:48:24
not able to make an assessment in terms of manner. Manor being suicide or homicide or unknown. I think that was a
00:48:30
fair assessment and I trust Dr. Nine because he's been doing autopsies for a very long time. But I think it also
00:48:37
holds weight that he couldn't make a decision. >> That's the thing. If some somebody who's
00:48:41
been somebody who's been doing autopsies for many many years can't really conclusively come up with what happened
00:48:48
and that's big. >> Yeah. And can't say that that was a suicide. >> And that tells you something,
00:48:54
>> right? So obviously there's challenges here, but the good thing is that uh Sergeant Dominguez restated his
00:48:59
intention his intention to pursue the investigation as far as it would take him, but he was pretty careful to avoid
00:49:05
making any promises. Basically, he echoed what the original investigators felt. He they really couldn't prove
00:49:11
anything from a legal standpoint, and there just wasn't enough evidence. >> And despite his best efforts, the
00:49:17
renewed interest in the case didn't come up with any new leads. There was just nothing to go off of. And within a short
00:49:23
time, he found himself at another dead end. >> Oh, so infuriating. >> So, just they feel like there's nowhere left to
00:49:31
go. But that is where the family steps in, and it's always where the family steps in. and usually moves things
00:49:37
along. >> So, in the years since the second investigation just stalled out, Stephanie's family have just been
00:49:42
working tirelessly to keep her memory alive and achieve any kind of justice for her case. In 2022, they worked with
00:49:50
the local Fox affiliate in Phoenix to produce a two-part news story on the case, which obviously celebrated
00:49:56
Stephanie's life, but also highlighted a lot of the unresolved questions in the case. And like we said, most recently,
00:50:03
Stephanie's daughter Nikki has started a multi-part podcast, Poppy Killed Mommy,
00:50:08
where she's exploring the case from her perspective, >> which I think is a very important
00:50:12
perspective. >> Yes. And we urge you, urge you, urge you to go listen to that. >> Yeah. We gave you the story here.
00:50:18
>> We gave you the the cold hard facts. >> You need to hear it from her her mouth.
00:50:23
You got to like she was there. She was part of, you know, she knows Stephanie. She knows Russell. She knows all of
00:50:29
this. And like you said, you got to hear it from her mouth. So to end this on Nikki's voice before you go check out
00:50:35
her podcast, again, it's Poppy killed Mommy, here's what she told us in relation to the investigation now and
00:50:40
what she hopes moving forward. She said, "It'll take me 28 years to become involved in my mother's cold case
00:50:46
murder. I will wait for the police to do their job all my life, but I will wait in vain. At the age of 38, I request my
00:50:52
mom's case file, and I read what happened to her, and I'm blown away. I'm just blown away." One of the questions
00:50:58
you asked me was what I feel like I carry today from her and her influence. I know that I carry her rage and her
00:51:04
anger. I'm mad for the life that was taken from her and her children. I feel like I've become her warrior in my 40s,
00:51:10
in my midlife. I'm finally looking back at my childhood and seeing my mother in such a different light. I know that my
00:51:16
mom's case has made me obsessed for some kind of justice. The influence that she
00:51:20
has given me is to never give up, and I never intend to. I've contacted the police and they're telling me it's been
00:51:25
too long. I've contacted wrongful death attorneys and they're telling me the statute of limitation has expired. I'm
00:51:31
not even sure what justice looks like anymore, but I will not stop until there is some kind of accountability. Thank
00:51:37
you for taking the time to listen to the daughter of a miracle woman. >> Damn. Which just gives you chills.
00:51:44
>> That's I'm telling you guys, go listen to Nikki because >> she's going to do it.
00:51:50
>> She'll blow she'll blow you away. >> She's going to do it. There's going to be some kind of justice here. And she's
00:51:56
she reminds me very much of like she her and Sarah have that same like have that
00:52:02
same like just badassery that they're like I'm just not going to stop until and >> it's like just getting something some
00:52:11
kind of justice. >> When you love somebody that much and they make such an impact on your life
00:52:16
being like it being your mom, your sister, your friend, no matter who it is, >> you will fight to to the death for them,
00:52:23
you know. >> It's so true. It's really true. And honestly, like definitely support Nikki
00:52:30
here just to get answers. That's all she's looking for. She's looking for answers.
00:52:34
>> And like we always say, a cold case is >> never cold. That's why when they say
00:52:39
like it's been too long and it's like no, it hasn't. >> Look at the the boy in the box was
00:52:44
solved. >> Yeah. The Summerton Man. >> The Summerton Man was solved. >> Years and years and years.
00:52:48
>> They figured there's so many cases that have been solved later. >> The Golden State Killer.
00:52:53
>> Yeah. The Golden State Killer. I mean, they thought they solved Jack Jack the
00:52:56
Ripper. They didn't, but they're still trying. So, there's that. Don't get me started on that. But they're still
00:53:01
trying. And you don't give up. >> I have full hope and I hope that Nikki does, too. I think she's going to get
00:53:07
this [ __ ] done. >> Yeah. >> And also, because we know you guys can crank out the signatures on a petition
00:53:13
if you do see fit, which I think you will hear. There is a petition um on change.org. It is a demand of a complete
00:53:22
homicide invest in investigation for the murder of Stephanie Marie Walition. We're going to put the link in our show
00:53:28
notes. We'll put it on social media. It has 12,000 signatures right now. >> And Nick Nikki was the one who made it
00:53:33
so this. Yeah. >> So go sign that for Nikki. Share the word. Spread the word. Support her
00:53:40
podcast. Support the change.org petition. And let's crack open this cold case. Let's do it. We're going to Let's
00:53:47
find out what happened here. All right, guys. So, we hope that you blow this case wide open. We're all going to. And
00:53:53
of course, we hope you keep listening. And we hope you keep it weird. But not so weird that you don't go check out
00:54:00
Poppy Killed Mommy by our girl Nikki. >> Nikki. >> And sign that petition. You guys are so
00:54:05
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This episode stands out for the following:

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  • 75
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Episode Highlights

  • Haunted House Excitement
    Elena and Ash discuss their excitement for the haunted house season.
    “I need a haunted house in my soul.”
    @ 00m 42s
    September 18, 2025
  • Nikki's Mother's Case
    Nikki, a friend of the pod, seeks justice for her mother's case.
    “Props to Nikki for her tireless efforts.”
    @ 08m 25s
    September 18, 2025
  • Heartbreaking Scene
    A child witnesses her mother's tragic death, leaving a lasting impact.
    “No child should ever have to see that.”
    @ 12m 01s
    September 18, 2025
  • The Impact of Childhood Trauma
    A discussion on the cycle of abuse and the importance of healing before parenting.
    “You should heal yourself when kids enter the picture.”
    @ 21m 28s
    September 18, 2025
  • Nikki Remembers Her Mother
    Nikki shares touching memories of her mother, Stephanie, highlighting her beauty and love.
    “My mother was a 10, an absolute model, gorgeous, beautiful inside and out.”
    @ 24m 00s
    September 18, 2025
  • A Daughter's Heartbreaking Revelation
    During an interview, Stephanie's daughter reveals a chilling statement about her mother's death.
    “My mother died. My dad killed her.”
    @ 31m 49s
    September 18, 2025
  • The Changing Story
    Russell's account of the night changes multiple times, raising suspicion.
    “The second you start changing your story is the second up.”
    @ 36m 57s
    September 18, 2025
  • A Daughter's Fight for Justice
    Stephanie's family continues to seek justice decades after her death.
    “We urge you, urge you, urge you to go listen to that.”
    @ 50m 13s
    September 18, 2025
  • Nikki's Fight for Justice
    Nikki reflects on her mother's case and her relentless pursuit of accountability.
    “I will not stop until there is some kind of accountability.”
    @ 51m 31s
    September 18, 2025
  • The Power of Love
    A heartfelt reminder of the lengths we go for loved ones.
    “When you love somebody that much, you will fight to the death for them.”
    @ 52m 20s
    September 18, 2025
  • Cold Cases Can Be Solved
    A discussion on the potential to solve cold cases, no matter how long it takes.
    “A cold case is never cold.”
    @ 52m 37s
    September 18, 2025
  • Support Nikki's Petition
    A call to action to sign Nikki's petition for a homicide investigation.
    “Go sign that for Nikki. Share the word.”
    @ 53m 32s
    September 18, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • If you're not about the Namaste, get the hell away.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin
  • It kills me when this kind of stuff happens.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin
  • My mother was a 10, an absolute model, gorgeous, beautiful inside and out.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin
  • I don't know what happened. I may know. It'll come to me.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin
  • Autopsies don't lie.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin
  • It'll take me 28 years to become involved in my mother's cold case murder.
    Episode 710: The Unsolved Death Stephanie Wasilishin

Key Moments

  • Haunted House Season00:31
  • Tragic Incident09:50
  • Heartbreaking Revelation31:49
  • Blackout Confusion35:18
  • Changing Accounts36:46
  • Nikki's Determination51:31
  • Love and Commitment52:20
  • Petition for Justice53:32

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