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Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)

May 11, 2026 / 01:50:28

This episode covers the Chris Watts case, including his background, relationship with Shannan Watts, and the events leading to the tragic murders of his family. Ash and Elena discuss the discovery documents, interviews, and the psychological aspects of the case.

Ash and Elena introduce the case, noting that it is one of their most requested topics. They mention their emotional reactions to the details and the extensive discovery documents available for listeners to explore.

The hosts discuss Chris Watts's early life, including his upbringing in Fayetteville, North Carolina, and his relationship with his parents. They highlight his introverted nature and lack of remarkable achievements, leading to a discussion about his eventual marriage to Shannan.

Shannan's background is explored, detailing her successful career and struggles with lupus. The hosts emphasize her vibrant personality compared to Chris's withdrawn demeanor, setting the stage for the dynamics of their relationship.

The episode concludes with the lead-up to the tragic events, including Chris's affair with Nicole Kessinger and the emotional turmoil in his marriage. Ash and Elena hint at the shocking details to come in part two.

TLDR

Ash and Elena discuss the Chris Watts case, detailing his background, relationship with Shannan, and the events leading to the murders of his family.

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Hey weirdos. I'm Ash. And I'm Elena. And this is Morbid. This is indeed very morbid today.
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>> Yeah. Elena has been sifting through discovery documents for the last 6 hours.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. I did it all night last night, too. I had weird dreams because of it.
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>> I didn't even sift through discovery documents. I just knew that we were doing this case. So, I was kind of like
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watching um obviously, you know, this is the Chris Watts case cuz you've clicked
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on it. >> Yeah. Part one of the Chris Watts case. >> Part one. We watched some of the
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paranormal stuff that goes along with this case. And there was one thing in that video that I couldn't stop thinking
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about last night. I woke up like multiple times throughout the night last night.
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>> Yeah. See, and I've been I So, we I went through it a little bit. We'll talk about it in part two, the paranormal
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aspects of it because there is some strange ones. >> But I was like more going into like the
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the interviews like before he admitted to what he did >> and that shit'll [ __ ] you up.
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>> Oh yeah. >> And just looking at those those discovery documents which we'll link in
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the show notes. Um you can all look at them. You can all look at every goddamn text that was sent between him and
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Shannan, between him and his mistress Nicole. I mean it's >> there's a lot to be seen. There's a lot
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to be seen and a lot of uh just complete lack of humanity on his part, which is >> really upsetting to see.
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>> Um I always swore I wasn't going to do this case because the details are very
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upsetting, but I know you guys really want this case. >> This is one of our most highly requested
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cases >> and I'm, you know, I'm doing this for you. Uh, I also knew this was going to be one of those cases
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that just ate me up like that. I could not stop >> getting deeper and deeper into and that
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has happened. >> Yeah. >> Uh, so I'm going to look forward to disconnect. This is like the Morris
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murders case for me where it's like I'm really looking forward to the end of it where I can say bye.
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>> Yeah. >> Because oh my goodness. >> Um, but yeah, so that's what we'll be doing today. Okay, but before we get to
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that, before we get to all the horror and terrible [ __ ] um, if you haven't gotten your tickets to the live show in
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June, June 27th, New York City >> Radio City Music Hall, >> we're going to be there.
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>> It's going to be big. >> It's going to be huge. >> And there's only so many tickets left.
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>> We're getting to that end point. And I want you guys to come and have fun cuz
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it's one night only. We got a cool theme in mind. We have cool [ __ ] merch. We just had a whole meeting about the
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merch. And it's [ __ ] killer. >> This merch is going to be killer. I'm really And it's only going to be at the
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show. >> Only at the show. You can only get >> Make sure you get your tickets. It's
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going to be fun. I promise you. We're >> Oh, we also booked a sick guest. >> Yeah, we got a special guest.
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>> We have a special guest that's going to blow your goddamn socks off. >> That's true. So, it's going to be a lot
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of fun. So, do it. >> Um, and if you haven't pre-ordered The Butcher Legacy yet, what are you doing,
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>> honey? Uh, >> oh, and if you're looking for more signed copies, there's still more
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people. >> Yeah, cuz I know you guys were looking for them and I told you I'll keep
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signing them as long as my hand works on. So, as long as my hand is on my body, I'll keep signing them for you.
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>> As long as you want them. And so, you can get them at Premier Collectibles. Um, there's some signed ones. And I
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promise you, um, I'm signing them right here. >> Yes, I watch my hand every day each one.
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So that's >> and I always say wow that's a lot of signing going on. >> I always say wow.
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>> I always say wow honey. >> But just to be clear because I know some people are like do you really sign them?
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I really do. There will never be a mass-produced signature of mine. So >> we also like be able to tell but
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>> yeah that'd be insane. >> Uh but yeah enjoy that and pre-order it if you want and you should. It's fun.
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>> And now we're gonna get into this. Um, I'm gonna I I'm gonna try not to get too worked up
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here. >> Good luck with that. >> Yesterday I was so worked up and I was just talking to everybody in the room
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about >> I'm gonna feel worked up because I felt worked up about I don't know like all of
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the ins and outs of this case. I avoided it a lot because >> obviously children are involved so I
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hate that. >> Um, but >> yeah, >> I'll get outraged right along with you. >> Yeah. And everything is going to be I
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mean everything's right in that discovery document that's available for you to take a peek through. It's very long
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obviously but it's all there. So this is all the official [ __ ] >> Now let's start with who Chris Watts is.
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Unfortunately, >> do we have to >> uh I think we have you got to know who this [ __ ] is.
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>> You got to know who this piece of [ __ ] is. Um so he was born May 16th, 1985.
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Hate that he was born in the same year as me. >> I know. A tourist, too. >> I usually love a tourist.
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>> Not this one. >> No, >> not this one. He was born in Fagetville, North Carolina. Uh he was the second to
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two children. Born to Ronnie and Cindy Watts, who I have so many feelings about, but I'm not going to spill all of
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them. >> Keep it quiet. >> But you you can feeling that you will. >> That's just feelings, you know.
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>> Just a feeling. >> Uh growing up, he was very close to his dad. Uh they had they shared a love of
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sports and cars, like you know that kind of thing. >> Dude stuff. >> Um very just
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>> dude bros. >> Sports and cars. Just all right. Uh but Chris's relationship with his father was
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built on more than just these shared interests. They had very similar personalities. And you can see even now
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that they still like not the murderous personality obviously, but I mean like he's a very quiet like subdued guy for
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the most part. Um, and his dad seems a little bit like that as well. Um, so I think what everybody said around them
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was that Chris felt like he was understood by his dad because they were kind of the same.
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>> He was like an average student. He was a good athlete. >> I [ __ ] hate him, but that he he
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didn't do anything remarkable. Like >> I wouldn't think so. >> Nothing to write home about. Um, he was
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super shy, so he didn't really like stand out in any way and he just kind of flew under the radar because he was a
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[ __ ] loser. >> Yeah. Um, but I'm going to be so mean about him. I just need to get that. If
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you are one of those girls who like writes to him in prison or you're going to want to turn this off,
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>> you're going to want to turn this off and you're going to want to go seek some
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real help because this man, after reading more and more about him, I think is one of the biggest pieces of [ __ ] I
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have ever come across in my entire existence of research. If you can kill your own three children, one of which
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was unborn, and your own wife while pregnant with one of those children, >> there's not a good bone in your There's
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nothing good about you and there never was. >> And the details of it all are just
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beyond human comprehension. And how he reacted to all this should >> horrify you to your very [ __ ] core.
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It really should. Uh but when he got to high school, he had become pretty withdrawn. Like he was always very quiet
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and withdrawn. And it wasn't like there something happened that is on record that made this happen. He just was
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always like that. >> That's weird. >> Um and he was kind of aloof as a teenager. He was kind of aloof as an
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adult, too. He didn't give a [ __ ] about anything. >> Um as evidenced by his interview when
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his family was quote unquote missing, and don't worry, we'll get into that. Um his sister Jamie said he didn't go out
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with friends. I was more of a social butterfly and he was quiet and interested in mechanics and cars. He was
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just a focused person and I think that just means like he was a a piece of [ __ ]
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in the making. >> Yeah. >> It wasn't until he enrolled in an automotive technology class that he
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started to find like some kind of confidence. Um, his love of cars and his deep knowledge of NASCAR impressed the
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teacher of the class, uh, Joe Dudy, who, and it's duty y, okay, >> to stifle all of your giggles.
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>> He took Chris under his wing and kind of became like a mentor to him. The teacher
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said it's hard to find a more perfect kid. I'd argue it's not. It'd be super easy. I that's that's me. But he said he
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was in the top 10% of students I ever had and that was in the automotive technology class, not in the school.
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>> Okay. >> Um don't want to give him any undo accolades here. >> Don't don't be doing that.
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>> Um also, uh this the teacher, Mr. Dudy, said uh he could see that Chris struggled socially and he had very few
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friends at the time. That kind of remains something through his life. As you'll see, not too many people were
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willing to go to bat for uh Mr. Watts here >> good. >> Throughout his life. So I think um mom
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and dad were really his like number one people who were going to go bat for him.
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>> Great. >> Uh so the teacher said many times I would look at him and think what's going
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on in his head. >> It was like the wheels were spinning but he was by himself. >> That's a loaded question.
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>> And I saidoo you don't want to know what's going on in his head. >> Yeah. I wonder what was going on in his
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head even back then. >> Probably a whole lot of nothing. >> Yeah. Honestly, I he seems like one of
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those dudes. If you watch any interview with him, he's like one of those guys that if like if you like blew wind
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through his ear, it would like come out the other side like just >> freely like he just nothing one's home.
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>> Yeah. Like just not a lot going on. Now, after graduating from high school, his
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passion for cars led him to enroll at the NASCAR Technical Institute in Morrisville, North Carolina. Uh it was a
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NASCAR sponsored program that specialized in motorsports and like automotive training.
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>> Cars. >> Um just cars. He also found a part-time job lo working at a car dealership.
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>> Cars cuz cars. Uh and when he wasn't in class or at work, he was using his free
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time to study cars. >> Cars. >> So >> you have to do you have to cars. >> Cars. >> You have to say it like Andy Belelffler
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from True Blood. >> From True Blood. Uh I don't know if you're picking up on something here. All
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he cared about was cars. Cars. That's all he had. That's all he had. >> Uh >> he had three looks. That's it. Just
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cars, cars, and cars. >> Cars. NASCAR, car school, >> and a dealership. >> That's it. [ __ ] loser. Uh his former
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roommate, Richard Hodgeges, said he was very dedicated to his work on cars and wasn't the kind of guy that went out and
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partied because he was too busy with cars. >> Uh but he eventually finished the NASCAR
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program and started a full-time job as a mechanic. It wasn't exactly the exciting
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career in NASCAR that he thought he was going to be going forth with. >> Well, he's mediocre. So,
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>> but he made decent money. He enjoyed the work. Says because he loves a car. So,
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he didn't complain and he just kind of like thought he would move up someday, which is how you should go into
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something like that. You start at the bottom, you work your way up. >> Around this same time, he surprised
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everyone by starting his first romantic relationship >> with a car. >> I would have thought so, but no.
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Unfortunately, even the cars were like, "No, thank you, sir." Uh, but this is how weird he was that everybody
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was like, "Wait, what?" >> By all accounts, like again, I wasn't there. I don't know this man. But by all
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accounts, this is how like off like a little aloof and just like shy and not and like withdrawn he was that everyone
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was like, >> "You're going out with a girl? Like what? Another human? Are you sure? Like
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another human and you are going to hang out?" Like that's how off he was. >> That's bleak. Um, but yeah, he started
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his first romantic relationship and the woman Chris was dating had just come out
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of a bad marriage and he never brought her around to meet his family or his co-workers or friends. So,
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>> she existed though. >> I guess she existed. Chris later said, "I was helping her to get through her
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divorce and then she went off with someone else." >> Oh. >> And I said, "That checks."
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>> Okay. >> Also, I'd like to point out right now, so you do know what divorce is.
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>> Yep. So you you have seen >> the basis of divorce >> because Chris Watts, why the [ __ ] didn't
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you just divorce your wife? >> I will never understand this as long as I live. You did know what a divorce was.
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>> There's so many cases where it's like why did you not just separate and divorce?
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>> Truly. Truly. >> Obviously, it's like I know it's complicated. I know there's money. You
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need to explain it to us. We know what I know that it's tough. I'm a I'm a child
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of divorce. I get it. It sucks for like 18 whole years, >> but it's a hell of a lot better than
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murdering your pregnant wife and your two children, I would say. >> Yep. >> I know it's tough, but it's not that
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tough. >> I will stand 12 toes down on that. >> That it's better than murder. It's
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better than family annihilation. And I think if you can't agree on that, it's a problem.
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>> Yeah. >> Uh but between his failure to land the job of his dreams and the messy end to
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his first real relationship, he was feeling discouraged and he wasn't really like psyched to go date again cuz he was
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like, I got her through this divorce. and then she just kind of went off with someone else and she's not a car and
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she's not a car. Um, but his cousin Cindy, not to be confused with his mama Cindy, uh, was able to convince Chris to
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send a Facebook friend request to one of his co her co-workers uh, named Shenan.
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And her u made a name, I believe it's pronounced Zootek. >> Okay. >> Um, I looked it up many many times. Uh,
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but obviously for the rest most of the story she go unfortunately goes by Shannan Watts.
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>> Okay. Um, like Chris, Shannan was also just coming off of a bad breakup and Cindy thought the two of them might hit
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it off. They have something in common there. >> Yeah. >> In retrospect, it is a little weird that
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she thought that they were going to get along cuz they were kind of like very obvious opposites.
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>> Okay. >> Uh, and obviously that can work. So maybe that's what she was thinking.
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Maybe. >> Um, Chris was very quiet, shy, reserved, withdrawn. Like we've said, Shannan was
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friendly. She was gregarious. She was outgoing. like she was just she was pizzazz, you know.
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>> Shannan had grown up in New Jersey but moved to North Carolina uh in the late
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1990s when her father was out of work. >> Love one thing I love is a Jersey girl.
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>> A Jersey [ __ ] love a Jersey girl. >> Yeah, we love it. And the move meant a
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new school for Shannan and she started attending Pinerest High School. This was a progressive school with a focus on the
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arts. >> Okay, cool. >> Uh in that supportive and collaborative environment, she kind of thrived and
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really came into her own. She developed a large circle of friends. She excelled socially. She excelled academically.
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Unlike Chris who was just a literal nothing and no one would probably remember him. Y
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>> Shannan was like just killing it. She was thriving. >> Love that. Um, and she maintained big
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close groups of girlfriends, especially her entire life, >> which says so much about
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like I know a like some of the details about the way that her friends just rode for her and that says so much about her.
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>> It cannot be stressed enough how much her friends [ __ ] rode for her >> and loved her.
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>> Like her friends, like we're going to get into it. Um they are >> next them and Nate her neighbor
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>> heroes in this whole situation in my opinion. >> Same. >> Okay. So like I think her friends were
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on it. >> So again she developed this huge circle of friends. She was really thriving. Um
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her friend Colby said she was one of the sweetest girls you could ever encounter.
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A >> in her senior year she started dating Leonard King, another Pinerest student.
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And the relationship moved pretty fast, like faster than anyone expected. Before
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the end of the school year, they were engaged. >> Oh, wow. >> And they were discussing like future
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plans. Colby said she was adamant about starting her life and having a family. And a few months after graduation, they
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got married. >> Wow. >> Now, the marriage started out great, but soon the realities of getting married
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right outside of high school started creeping in, which obviously this works for some people,
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>> but I don't doubt that there's a ton of extra >> stressors that come from that because
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you're not exactly established yet, right? Um, so if you're not meant to be, I don't think it's going to work. It's
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going to be the thing that kind of pressure tests your relationship. >> After graduation, Shannan started
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college and Leonard joined the army. But when their cost of living went up and they couldn't afford life on one single
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income, Shannan dropped out of school and got a job selling cell phones. >> Um, although it wasn't what she wanted
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for herself at the time, she excelled in sales. She could because of her personality,
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>> right? >> And within a few years, she was managing the store. >> Wow. and handling all the administrative
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duties. Which I could never It's my nightmare. I could never. Her success at the cell phone store led to the store's
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owner to hire her for his new company. >> Wow. >> This company was called the Dirty South.
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>> Absolutely iconic. >> It was an automobile customization company that catered to high-end
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clientele >> for their cars. >> For their cars. Uh, if it was possible to identify the point where Leonard and
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Shannan's marriage kind of started to fall apart, it was probably when she took that job at Dirty South. At the
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time, she was managing the cell phone store and the new business, often traveling the 130 m between the two in
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the same day. >> Oh, wow. That's a lot. >> So, they were not really seeing a lot of
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each other. It just wasn't working. They tried couples counseling and various other ways to save their marriage. They
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did give it a go, you know, like they did what they could, >> but in by 2007, too much damage had been
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done and they divorced. >> Shannan later told a friend, "I went through a real awful divorce and that
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relationship took a lot from me. It literally took everything. I had to start financially all over." That's
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brutal. But Shannan refused to let the experience drag her down. She continued working hard at her job. She enrolled in
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some night classes at Queens University. and she started looking for property in
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Charlotte where she could start building her own dream home. Nice. Because she was making money.
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>> Let's go. >> Cuz she was real good at sales. >> We love an independent lady and
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>> she's she was hustling. Uh a few years later, she signed off on all the mortgage paperwork and started
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construction on what would be a 4,000 ft 12 room home with four bedrooms and four
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bathrooms. Wow. That she was doing her own. >> That's crazy. >> Yeah. So, the excitement of all this,
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becoming a homeowner, starting a new life, it was soon offset by long periods where she was feeling really exhausted
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and kind of unwell. Oh. And she was starting to notice it. >> In 2010, she finally went to see a
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doctor and she was diagnosed with lupus. >> Oh, [ __ ] >> Uh, it's an autoimmune disease where the
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body's immune system attacks its own organs and tissues. >> Yeah, lupus is no joke.
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>> Lupus sucks. She later said, "When they diagnosed me with lupus, I was lost."
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>> Oh. She didn't know what it was or what to expect. So, of course, she did what
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any of us would do. She went to the internet and tried to search it up. >> And she was immediately terrified by
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what she found online. >> But it was during this period that Shannan received the friend request from
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Chris Watts. >> Having recently come out of a bad marriage followed by chronic health
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problems. She wasn't exactly interested in getting to know anyone at this point,
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regardless of how well her co-orker Cindy thought they would get along. So, she kind of just ignored it. She was
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like, "No." And it's like, "Oh gosh, I just wish she had forever ignored it." >> I know.
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>> But a few months later, when a second message from Chris appeared in her inbox, she figured she might as well
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give him a chance. >> And a few weeks later, they met for their first date at the Epicenter, which
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is an upscale dining and entertainment place in downtown Charlotte. >> Okay. >> Uh, contrary to what Cindy had told them
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both, they had very little in common, and they had a complete lack of chemistry on this first date. I mean,
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from everything you've described about each of them, like I I don't see it. >> Personally, anything I've seen of him,
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I'm like, >> a wet rag has a bigger personality than he does. Like, you're I don't I don't
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blame her for being like, "What the [ __ ] is this?" >> Yeah. >> Despite the disappointing evening,
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though, Chris did manage. He pursued. >> Okay. >> He managed to convince Shannan to give
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him another chance. And a few days later, they attended a concert together. >> Okay.
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>> He later said, "I was persistent trying to pursue her." >> Wow. which does become
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>> a theme, >> a thing for him. >> He becomes obsessed with women. He becomes focused solely on women. We'll
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see it with his mistress Nicole. We'll see it with Shannan. We'll see it with uh later uh women that he becomes
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interested in in prison. He becomes very obsessive with somebody cuz he's a [ __ ] loser. Uh but despite the
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failure of the previous date, he found himself really drawn to Shannan and was determined to convince her that they
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were a good match. >> If you have to convince somebody that you're a good match, I'm sorry, you're
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not. >> Yeah. It took some time, but eventually he did win her over and with a in a few
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months she was very happy with him and she was calling him the man of her dreams.
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>> Wow. So he it sounds like he tried to become what she wanted. >> Yeah. like he tried to
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>> maybe he emulated the qualities and did some Google searches of how to act. >> Yeah. Because as we'll see later, he
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literally has to Google uh what does someone feel when they tell when you tell them you love them.
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>> Yeah. >> Because he literally doesn't know. >> Yeah. >> Because he's not a human being. Like
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he's a lizard person. That doesn't it doesn't make any I'm sure he was googling what does human boy say to
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girl. Like he is not a real thing. >> He's like watching like romcoms and taking notes. He's scary as hell. And
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I'm sure that he was able to cuz one thing about these scary as hell >> [ __ ] lizard people who are just empty
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husks that just look to fill themselves with other people's ideas of emotions. >> They can blend.
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>> They can manipulate too. And they become for you what you need or want because
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that's how they want to get you. >> But deep down they are not that. So then they can't live up to that that fake
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thing that they've created for They can't continue on like that. >> Yeah. And then it becomes dangerous. So
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she had no way of knowing that this man is just this empty husk of [ __ ] that is going to crumble.
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>> Now over time, the various ways that they were compatible started to show themselves, which made it a little
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easier to like go down this path of like maybe we are meant for each other. >> Cuz managing her lupus meant relying on
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a lot of medications and attending a lot of doctor's appointments and like specialist appointments
00:22:08
>> and Shannan was not. She was a lot of things, but she was never a very wellorganized person. We all have our,
00:22:14
you know, >> not either, sister. >> And Chris's lifelong compulsive hyperorganization,
00:22:20
which yeah, uh, it did come in handy here because before long, he would manage her medications for her. He would
00:22:26
kind of keep her doctor schedule under control, remind her you got to take your meds or like you got to go to this
00:22:32
doctor's appointment, which at first glance you would look at and say, "Wow, that's really kind and like thoughtful
00:22:38
and that's somebody who cares about you." >> It's actually insane that he used to
00:22:41
manage her doctor's appointments. We'll get there. >> We'll get there. So, Shannan, meanwhile,
00:22:46
made up for Chris's social struggles and deficiencies, of which he had plenty. Um, she introduced him to her friends
00:22:53
and like included him in all their activities. kind of like gave him a friend group essentially. And before
00:22:58
long, Chris moved into Shannan's house and everything they everyone kind of started to feel pretty confident that
00:23:04
like this might work out. Like I think they're actually working together. >> And as Chris was slowly but surely
00:23:10
becoming integrated into Shannan's life, some people uh especially Chris's family
00:23:16
were were not entirely on board with this. Uh they did not feel like they were a good fit for each other.
00:23:22
>> Just like immediately. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Um, also I want to remind you these are
00:23:26
two grown adults. Um, so no one gives a flying [ __ ] if you think that they're a
00:23:31
fit for each other. They got to figure that out. >> Yep. >> Uh, just putting that out there for
00:23:35
anybody who thinks that this is this makes sense. >> Chris's sister Jamie said, "We met and
00:23:41
we weren't sure. >> It's really not up to you, okay? >> Cuz you're not in the relationship, but
00:23:46
okay." >> Um, when the families got together for the first time, Chris's parents were
00:23:50
immediately suspicious of Shannan's lifestyle. What? >> They said it didn't seem possible that
00:23:55
someone so young could afford such a lavish home. >> Okay. Well, she works her ass off.
00:24:00
>> Here's the thing. Just because your son is a [ __ ] loser, >> right, >> does not mean everyone is. Shannan
00:24:05
worked her ass off. >> Yeah. >> And it's like, what do you say? >> Some people do work their asses off,
00:24:09
others don't. >> So, she assume they assume that she was reckless with money. >> That's quite the assumption to make.
00:24:15
>> She built her dream working two jobs, but she was >> traveling 130 miles back and forth per
00:24:20
day, >> but she was reckless with Yeah, for sure. Then there was the fact that she
00:24:23
had already been married and divorced by her mid20s. >> Who gives a [ __ ] >> Everybody's you clutch the pearls,
00:24:30
[ __ ] >> Get a grip. >> But the biggest problem, at least as far as Chris's uh mother was concerned, was
00:24:35
Shannan's mother, Sandy. >> Oh, the two women clashed immediately. >> Really? >> Uh and Sandy did not walk away from that
00:24:42
meeting feeling good about potential for success here. Uh Sandy later said, and uh I'd like to point out that Sandy was
00:24:49
100% correct here. call her Nostradamus. She said, "I knew she was going to be a
00:24:54
thorn in the marriage." >> And she was a mama. Most mamas. >> Yeah. >> No. >> No. And I think she was like, "Oh,
00:25:01
you're going to be a problem." >> Oh, no. >> Now, in 2011, Shannan's close two closest friends at the time, Gina and
00:25:08
Charlie Deetsz, moved to Broomfield, uh, Colorado. And within weeks, they were saying, "Shannan, you have to move
00:25:15
here." They said, "This Fresh mountaire will be [ __ ] awesome for your lupus. I think it's going to help you. It's a
00:25:21
beautiful area. Like there and she had just experienced a really bad flare up of the illness in the previous months.
00:25:28
>> So the idea of moving was appealing in that sense, but she had just finished building her dream house and things were
00:25:33
going well with Chris. So she's like, I don't know, that's enough that I want to
00:25:37
just like up and leave, right? >> Yeah. That August, Chris and Shannan rented a house in Ocean Isle Beach,
00:25:42
North Carolina, and invited family to spend some time at the beach with them. One afternoon, a few days into the
00:25:48
vacation, Chris approached Frank, who is uh Shannan's father, and told him he wanted to ask Shannan to marry him.
00:25:55
>> Okay. >> But only if Frank gave his permission. >> Uhhuh. >> Not, you know, one to stand in the way
00:26:00
of his daughter's happiness, Frank immediately gave his blessing. And a short time later, Chris proposed to
00:26:05
Shannan on the beach, and she said yes. >> Nice. >> Well, you know, at the time,
00:26:09
>> yeah. Now, a few months later, Chris and Shannan flew to Colorado to visit Gina
00:26:14
and Charlie. And it was the first time Shannan's friends had met her now fiance. And they were pleased that after
00:26:20
such a disastrous relationship, the marriage, she had found someone who seemed by all accounts, everyone said he
00:26:27
seemed very devoted to her. >> Okay. >> Gina recalled he was very doing, attentive, kind, but shy and
00:26:33
introverted. They all say this. His mother says this with much eye in her voice that he was very doing on
00:26:40
>> Shenan, >> which you would think that you'd be proud of your son for being a doting
00:26:43
husband. I >> that's my opinion. >> That's what I would think. >> Like if I had a son and he was a doting
00:26:47
husband, I'd be like, "Hell yeah, I raised him right." >> Yeah. Like hell yeah. Treat treat your
00:26:52
treat your partner like a [ __ ] queen or king or whatever, you know? >> But it was during that trip that the
00:26:58
question of moving to Colorado came up again. Gina was convinced it would be better for Shannan's health and Chris
00:27:04
didn't seem to have an opinion one way or another because he's an empty husk. Everybody like this the idea is going to
00:27:10
come up here and like you know his mom likes to say it and stuff that uh look at any interview with them that uh she
00:27:17
that she was doineering or that she was too like you know that kind of person. I
00:27:23
don't this is just my opinion. It's not that it looks like she's very doineering. It looks like Chris Watts is
00:27:29
an empty, again I say, husk that will just take anything and just roll with it until it doesn't work for him anymore
00:27:36
and then he explodes. >> It also seems that he becomes obsessed with women. That's my opinion.
00:27:41
>> So, if the woman that he's obsessed with wants to move to Colorado, of course,
00:27:44
he's going to go with it. >> Well, he just What does he have going on, right? >> He doesn't care. Sure, let's go to
00:27:49
Colorado. >> There's cars everywhere. >> There's cars everywhere in Colorado. Is
00:27:52
there cars in Colorado? Let's go to Colorado. That's how it seems to me, >> you know? So he was like, "Yeah, I don't
00:27:58
really give a shit." So during the vacation, the couple hired a realer to take them around the area and look at
00:28:03
some properties. And by the time they were leaving to go back to North Carolina, they'd made the decision to
00:28:08
move to Colorado as soon as possible. >> Okay. >> In fact, before they'd even gotten home,
00:28:12
they'd already come up with a plan. Chris would move to Colorado first and stay with Gina and Charlie, while
00:28:18
Shannan remained in North Carolina to sell the house and kind of wrap up all the affairs on the East Coast.
00:28:23
>> Okay? >> Cuz again, they don't have kids at this point. It's much easier. >> Yeah.
00:28:26
>> Now, Chris and Shannan's plan to move to Colorado became yet another point of
00:28:30
contention with the families. >> Mama doesn't want her right. >> While Shannan's family was supportive
00:28:35
and helped her prepare for the move in the upcoming wedding, Chris's mom struggled to accept this.
00:28:42
>> Um, >> I bet >> she said Colorado was Shannan's idea. >> How do you know that? Because you're not
00:28:47
at the dinner table when those conversations are happening. Like, you're >> Yeah.
00:28:51
>> Sorry. [ __ ] off. >> Yeah. Like I'm not in the relationship either. So I'm not saying it wasn't her
00:28:57
idea. But we don't know. We we all share the common thing that we don't know. >> And you know what? He was going along
00:29:03
with it. >> So what's the problem? >> Right. >> But it's like he agreed to it and they
00:29:07
lived there for how long? Like obviously it was fine for a little bit. >> They were also uh grown adults. So uh
00:29:14
she said why did she want to leave and take him all the way to Colorado? >> Take him. He's a grown adult. He's not a
00:29:19
child. She can't take him anywhere. And I literally just wrote here, "Jesus." And while the rest of Chris's family was
00:29:26
a little more supportive than his mom was, they still seemed to harbor resentment for this. Um, as they
00:29:32
prepared for the engagement party, Shannan asked Jaime, his sister, to help in planning, specifically asking her to
00:29:38
order the food, >> and she had told Jaime to order gluten-free food, and she failed to do
00:29:44
so, which resulted in Shannan not being able to eat anything at the >> at the engagement party for her.
00:29:50
>> Wow. Yeah, cool. >> Um Jamie maintains that it was a mistake and it was a it was a like
00:29:57
miscommunication >> that can happen. >> Um for sure it can happen. Yeah, >> just looking at, you know,
00:30:02
>> looking at both sides here. Uh but Sandy Shannan's mom suspects it was maybe could have been just in her opinion a
00:30:11
subtle attempt to punish her for what the Watts family did perceive as stealing Chris from them.
00:30:16
>> Yeah. uh cuz they made it pretty obvious that they felt like she had taken him
00:30:20
away. So, the tension between the families finally came to a head several months later. They believed Shannan was
00:30:26
controlling and overbearing and that she'd manipulated Chris to get her way when it came to all the decisions in the
00:30:32
relationship. That's just how they saw her. >> Okay. >> Uh when it all finally boiled over,
00:30:35
Chris had a falling out with his family over it. >> Years later, he said, "I blew up at my
00:30:40
family to the point where I said I didn't need any of them anymore because I have Shannan." And then are you ready
00:30:46
for So you hear that and you're like whoa like that you actually took a stance. No. Uh he said I don't know if
00:30:52
Shenan coached me to do it or if it was just rage like I'd never seen before. You don't know. He is such a [ __ ] ass
00:31:00
wet rag. Like I can't >> I'm sorry. Like you would know if she coached you to do that. There would be
00:31:04
instances where she would say, "Hey, freak out on your family. Hey, your family sucks."
00:31:08
>> So convenient of you to say that when Shenan cannot dispute that. >> Yeah. And also
00:31:14
grow the [ __ ] up. >> Yeah, >> you got So you stood up for her. I don't know if she coached me. I don't know.
00:31:21
You don't know. >> How do you not know? >> You [ __ ] idiot. You don't know. >> I can't.
00:31:26
>> He's so gross. Like he's so gross. >> He's just a wimp. >> He is gh It just makes me think of Randy
00:31:33
and Scream when he says, "Billy Lumis, what a [ __ ] ass wet rag in Scream Suit." That's literally what he feels
00:31:40
like to me. She coached you. Get a [ __ ] grip, you [ __ ] useless moose knuckle. So by April 2012,
00:31:48
>> not a moose knuckle. >> Yeah, a moose knuckle. A >> [ __ ] Yeah. Yeah, I said it. I stand I stand
00:31:58
by it. By April 2012, Chris had quit his job and moved in with Gina and Charlie, but he stayed in daily
00:32:06
contact with Shannan, who stayed behind to sell the house. And it turned out that the house took a little longer to
00:32:11
sell than they thought. And but by August, she finally found a buyer and even made a little bit of a profit on
00:32:16
the sale because she's a sales girl. >> Hell yeah. >> Uh with the house sold, she joined Chris
00:32:21
in Colorado. >> And they first shared a small bedroom in the Deetsz's basement until October 2013
00:32:29
when they bought the house in Frederick, Colorado. Okay. >> Which was a small town of about 15,000
00:32:34
people. Like a lot of people their age, Chris and and Shannan were into social media, you know, like especially at the
00:32:41
time. Um, and much of their lives together were documented and shared through like Facebook and Instagram.
00:32:46
>> Instagram had like just come out like right around that time. >> Did it really?
00:32:50
>> Yeah. I think Instagram came out my sophomore year of high school, which would have been like 2011, 2012.
00:32:57
>> That's crazy. >> Yeah. >> Um, but in the months leading up to the wedding too, they're they're planning a
00:33:02
wedding. Shannan shared just enthusiastic daily updates about wedding planning and she made a point of showing
00:33:08
off her engagement ring which was $10,000. >> Hell yeah. >> I was like >> crazy.
00:33:16
>> My engagement ring is gorgeous. >> That shocked me. >> It's not $10,000. >> Like that shocked like Okay. Like that.
00:33:24
Damn. I just like that like shocked me. I was like, >> how did people determine how much it
00:33:28
cost? >> I'm not sure. It's just in the documents. Now, around this time, tensions between the families had ramped
00:33:35
up. I mean, it was constant. >> Okay. >> Chris's mom, Cindy, literally told him she didn't think Shannam was good enough
00:33:41
for him and she didn't like how she treated him. And then when it came down to it, they decided not to come to the
00:33:47
wedding. >> His own parents didn't go to his wedding. >> Nope. And her reasoning, which um
00:33:54
there's like interviews that she's given or they have given during like the mom and the dad to people. In one of the
00:34:00
interviews, she literally says, "We didn't attend because Shannan and I just couldn't get along. I didn't like the
00:34:05
way she treated him. >> I'm sorry if you grow up. Grow up. You just can't get along."
00:34:12
>> That's nuts. >> So, you don't go to your only son's wedding. >> That's nuts in my opinion.
00:34:16
>> In my in my opinion. >> That's nuts. >> In my opinion, that's rough. >> Damn.
00:34:21
>> But and it's like what what does that do? >> Well, >> they're getting married regardless of
00:34:27
whether you're there or not. So yeah, what did it do? >> Oh man, >> all it does is add to tension.
00:34:34
>> This is messy. >> So the wedding day finally comes and despite people being jerks about it, uh
00:34:39
on it was on November 3rd, 2012. It was a modest ceremony at the Hilton in Charlotte, their family, most of their
00:34:45
family came and their friends, Shannan's brother Frankie recalled later, "I was crying, thanking God for him being in my
00:34:52
sister's life." >> Oh, wow. >> Now, cuz see, he could dupe everyone. >> Yeah. Yeah. Uh, now with the wedding
00:34:58
behind them, Chris and Shannan left for their honeymoon to Myrtle Beach. They actually were planning to go to Cancun,
00:35:04
but they had to change plans like at the last second because it was too expensive.
00:35:08
>> Oh, okay. >> Uh, which we've all been there. >> Looking back, Gina Deetsz recalls having
00:35:13
never seen either like people so in love. >> Wow. >> Uh, she said they were very happy. They
00:35:18
were newly weds and it was wonderful. And just a few months later, they got more happy news when Shannan discovered
00:35:24
that she was pregnant. years earlier, her doctors had actually told her, "You might have trouble getting pregnant
00:35:29
because of the lupus." Oh, really? So, this news was like even more exciting. >> Now, between the pregnancy and the new
00:35:36
house and the marriage, things were really going well for them. >> Um, like the leadup to the wedding,
00:35:40
Shannan wanted to document every step of her pregnancy, of course, from photos of
00:35:45
her growing tummy to shots of the baby's closet and bedroom as they were filling
00:35:49
it with toys and clothing. exciting. >> Um, Gina said before she and I even met,
00:35:54
she had clothes for her for firstborn. >> Uh, the constant photos and updates on
00:35:59
social media really would reflect this like this couple that's so excited about the birth of their child,
00:36:06
>> of course, >> and it did cuz they were both very very excited about this. But it also to some
00:36:13
people was looking like they were living beyond their means because they were like buying too much when they really
00:36:20
couldn't afford it. >> Okay. >> But I mean that's also none of our [ __ ] business. Um now back in North
00:36:25
Carolina, Chris and Shannan's combined income had been in like so that money really wasn't a problem for them.
00:36:33
>> Um >> well the cost of living I'm sure is also a bit cheaper. >> Yeah. Well, and now Shannan was only
00:36:37
making like a little over the national minimum wage while most of Chris's salary went to bills and the mortgage on
00:36:43
the new house at the time. So basically they were spending more money than they were making which the only reason why
00:36:49
this is important is because financial stress can be a factor in certain like arguments and marriage problems
00:36:55
>> but they didn't seem to worry because they were just putting things on credit
00:36:59
cards and just kind of like paying the minimum and going okay >> which can again become
00:37:03
>> if you're a young person listening you can pay more than the minimum. >> You can
00:37:08
>> I didn't know that when I was younger. I thought you were just supposed to pay
00:37:10
the minimum and I [ __ ] my credit at like 19 years old. >> I feel like 99.99% of people [ __ ] their credit up when
00:37:18
they're >> younger 20 >> cuz we don't teach people enough about it. >> No, we don't learn about it anymore.
00:37:23
>> And the system itself is complete [ __ ] >> It's literally designed to [ __ ]
00:37:27
>> The credit system is ass. It makes no sense. >> Even I'm like my credit score doesn't
00:37:32
make sense right now. >> No, it's ridiculous. >> No. On December 16th, 2013, after 16
00:37:38
hours of labor, Shannan gave birth to a baby girl named Bella Marie. >> Oh, that's a beautiful name.
00:37:43
>> She's so cute. Uh, a few weeks later, Ronnie and Cindy Watts, Chris's parents,
00:37:48
they came to Colorado to visit and meet their new granddaughter. >> Oh, that's nice.
00:37:52
>> Yeah. And Cindy had hoped they could leave the negative experiences in the past, but she wasn't willing to. So,
00:37:59
>> that's that's tough. That's a catch 22. >> Yeah. So, like, you could She was hoping
00:38:04
to do, but she couldn't. >> But she couldn't. She found it difficult to look past her feelings towards
00:38:09
Shannan. >> Grow up. >> Uh Cindy later recalled Chris always seemed anxious and when she needed
00:38:14
something, he would run. He wouldn't walk. He would run. It was very odd. >> Also, maybe he's anxious because of the
00:38:21
tension between the two. He is at all like >> like, "Okay, Cindy." Or he was just a
00:38:27
good husband >> and she was pregnant. Like she just had a baby, >> right? >> Like
00:38:32
>> hello. I'm I'm sorry he's being a good spouse at this time. It's almost like I'm like are are you not like what is
00:38:38
going on? It was very odd that he would go get a wife who just gave birth. Like >> sorry about it.
00:38:46
>> Regardless of what Cindy Watts felt or believed, those who knew Chris and Shannan knew them as a great couple. Um
00:38:53
what their friend Chris Landon told people later, they were the couple that you look at and then turn to your
00:38:59
husband and be like, "Why aren't we like that?" >> Wow. which is like shocking. They said
00:39:04
they seemed so supportive of each other. It was their public face. >> Uhhuh. Which is clear.
00:39:09
>> Yeah. >> Um in May, Chris found a new job as an oil field contractor for Covenant
00:39:14
Testing Technologies in nearby Greenley Gley. Um the change definitely came at the best time because all the money they
00:39:21
had been spending was definitely starting to catch up and this salary increase would go a long way towards
00:39:26
getting them out of that hole. They definitely had a lot of debt at this point. Yeah. But in January 2015,
00:39:33
Shannan learned that she was pregnant with their second child. Um, just as she'd done with the last pregnancy, she
00:39:38
wanted to document all this and she was documenting Bella's life and like all her milestones and she she was just
00:39:45
excited about it. >> To those following along on Facebook and Instagram, and what's really funny about
00:39:50
this right now is in my notes, it autocorrected Facebook to fake book. >> Fake book. And I didn't even do that
00:39:56
intelligent like intelligently. Um that's weird. >> That is weird. >> Everybody who saw them on Facebook and
00:40:04
Instagram would have thought they couldn't look more happy or more well adjusted as a couple. Behind the scenes
00:40:10
though, things were getting a little challenging. In addition to the growing financial problems that were just kind
00:40:15
of stacking on each other, Bella was reaching the age now where she could walk, so she needed a lot more
00:40:20
supervision. Once they start walking, all bets are off. >> Exactly. For the increasingly pregnant
00:40:25
Shenan, that becomes an issue. It's >> tough to keep up with. >> She couldn't get around very easily. And
00:40:29
Chris wasn't around as often as he was during the first pregnancy. The second pregnancy, if you're lucky enough, like,
00:40:35
and that's what you want to have a second pregnancy. >> It is tough because now all of a sudden,
00:40:40
the first one you're like, well, I don't have a child, so I can just I'm the queen of Sheba here. And it's like, but
00:40:46
the second one you're like, oh [ __ ] it's not >> I got to keep up with that one that I
00:40:50
already made. >> Like, it's not just about me now. Uh but couples, you know, and we've seen this
00:40:56
before, everybody knows this. People who obsessively post how happy they are online
00:41:01
>> are usually not that happy >> do tend to be trying to compensate for something or just trying to manifest
00:41:07
that happiness. Obviously, >> not always. I've seen some people who >> a lot of time it is the case.
00:41:12
>> But I we need to remember that social media, especially now, I mean back then
00:41:17
it was. Now I think it's a hundfold social media is complete [ __ ] I think back then it was definitely a
00:41:24
thing where like people who posted all the time would post how happy they were and like whatever and it might not be so
00:41:30
now it's almost 100% across the board I think now like it really is. >> So not to get super woo but a lot of
00:41:36
social media popped off when Neptune was in a really strong placement and Neptune
00:41:40
is the planet of illusions. >> Oh wow that's >> it's actually very fascinating. You can
00:41:44
go down like a deep hole on that. >> Yeah. And I think I assume when you're in a not happy situation or not even at
00:41:52
this point I don't think it was an unhappy situation. I think it was just a challenging and not ideal situation like
00:41:59
things aren't going exactly how you want them to overcompensate. >> I think you're overcompensating because
00:42:03
when people are telling you, "Wow, you're the cutest couple ever." >> Makes you feel better. Couple goals. I
00:42:08
want to be like that. Wow, this is so cute. Blah blah blah. your brain can start believing that that's true and
00:42:14
then it can kind of coast you into the next day kind of thing. It's almost like a just got to get to tomorrow and these
00:42:20
people will tell me I'm great. >> Well, and there's also studies about >> but it's so empty.
00:42:23
>> There are so many studies about what likes and comments do to our brain and it is similar.
00:42:30
The way that it stimulates your brain is crazy >> and it's scary. >> It is scary.
00:42:34
>> That's why like I know this isn't about this kind because we're talking about
00:42:38
this. I just want to say taking social media breaks is so healthy. >> I really encourage everybody to do it if
00:42:44
they can. >> When I I think I took a year off, that [ __ ] was great. >> It is. It's really It It makes you learn
00:42:49
to appreciate things that you're not appreciating right now. >> U But back to this. So, in order to help
00:42:55
with Bella and the soon to be born second baby, Shannan's parents moved into the finished basement in the Watts
00:43:01
house. >> Really? I didn't know that. >> Yeah, they for a short period of time they did. the addition like
00:43:06
>> well with two new people in the home it was Chris said it was stressful of course
00:43:11
>> but he also welcomed the help with Bella because now they have built-in grandparents to help out.
00:43:16
>> Um he later said when they first got here they didn't have a job and so they were around all the time
00:43:21
>> and sorry this is his parents right? >> No her parents. >> Oh her parents. Okay. Um my comment was
00:43:26
I thought that I mean any parents moving in I think is like child echo >> but the presence of her parents
00:43:33
according to him >> he felt like it put a strain on everything and they fought more than
00:43:39
they had in the past according to him >> allegedly. >> Yeah. >> I think it was just cuz he was an
00:43:45
[ __ ] personally. >> By July 2015 Shannan gave birth to their second daughter Celeste would be known
00:43:52
as Cece. >> Such a cute name. Um, she was born with an allergic swallowing disorder.
00:43:57
>> Oh. >> Uh, that required constant medical attention in the first year of her life.
00:44:00
>> Oh, that's really scary. >> Um, which is tough. That's really tough. >> When you also already have another
00:44:05
child, too. >> Yeah, it's really, really tough. So, um, they had also they had filed for
00:44:10
bankruptcy before this, which so it did wipe out a lot of the >> the debt that they were in. Uh, but now
00:44:15
there was going to be medical bills on top of that. Um, so even with the presence of her parents, Shannan was
00:44:20
finding it difficult to keep up with everything. During the day, she was taking care of the girls, trying to keep
00:44:25
up with the house. At night, she was working from home as an auditor for a local hospital. Uh, desperate to get
00:44:31
caught up on everything, in January 2016, she started working part-time as a rep uh a rep for a multi-level marketing
00:44:38
company selling an energy drink called Thrive. >> Okay. The job was mostly online and
00:44:44
thanks to her like she was pretty adept at social media at this point and really
00:44:48
good at sales. >> She was really good at it and she was able to navigate it really well.
00:44:52
According to her Facebook posts at the time, the Thrive was helping with her pain management as well and she had
00:44:58
stopped taking her lupus medication. >> Wow. The energy drink. >> Yeah. I have no I did not look into
00:45:02
Thrive at all so I don't know what it is. I'm not Who knows what it is, right? But the deeper Shannan got into
00:45:08
marketing Thrive online, the more she was kind of bringing Chris in for like sales pitches and like having be him be
00:45:14
a part of like videos and pictures. And Chris was actually using Thrive as well.
00:45:18
So he was commenting on like his experiences, how it was helping him with certain things. But his author John Glat
00:45:24
wrote something about the succession of grinning pictures of Chris was hollow. >> Huh.
00:45:29
>> And if you look at this man, he is hollow. >> He is very hollow. >> His eyes are so [ __ ] dead. I've never
00:45:34
seen anything like it. When I say the lights are on, but no one's home. Yeah. >> Like the lights aren't even on at this
00:45:40
point. >> Yeah. Like truly truly scary. Scary. Now, as Shannan's success with this continued to grow, she tried
00:45:49
to bring Chris on board as a sales rep. But he shockingly lacked the charisma necessary to succeed in sales,
00:45:57
>> which I know crazy. >> You never saw coming. You thought he'd be great at that.
00:46:00
>> He could knock me over with a feather. Chris said she put me underneath her >> so that
00:46:05
>> well she started this. >> She She's bringing you in, babe. >> Right. >> Uh and he said if I wanted to talk to
00:46:11
somebody at the mall or the pool about Thrive, I would just stumble all over my words. It's like, okay, so you're not
00:46:16
good at sales. >> Yeah. >> Who gives a [ __ ] >> Despite his struggles to grow his sales
00:46:21
here, Shannan continued to enthusiastically celebrate him on social media. She really strengthened that
00:46:28
outward appearance of this happy couple. Well, there was definitely some tension
00:46:32
underneath. >> Okay. >> Now, by the end of 2016, her social media presence became even bigger than
00:46:38
it had ever been. She was like really staying consistent posting because like that is how you do it if you want to
00:46:44
grow >> an audience to get paid to do this, which is what she was trying to do. >> Y
00:46:49
>> and she was posting a lot about Chris, too, because she I think she desperately
00:46:53
wanted this marriage to be what she thought it was, >> right? and she's posted one in late
00:46:57
November that was captioned, "My husband Chris, he is my biggest supporter. He's
00:47:01
an amazing father to our beautiful girls and the best husband ever." >> Wow. >> So, she was just like always trying to
00:47:07
pump him up. >> Yeah. >> In early 2017, Sandy and Frank um Shannan's parents packed up their things
00:47:14
and moved back to North Carolina. Like things had settled, >> seemed to even out. Um, by April,
00:47:19
Shannan was working on Thrive full-time, managing her own business and Chris's social media presence, operating like,
00:47:26
you know, both things at once. While it appeared to most people that things were
00:47:31
now going pretty well for the couple, Chris's mother, Cindy, said she could sense a growing tension between them.
00:47:38
>> Could she? >> So, other people thought it was fine, but she >> could she all the way from North
00:47:41
Carolina? That's crazy. Cindy said, "I've never seen her scream at Chris, but I'm sure there was something in
00:47:46
private >> because she because she always had that angry look on her face like she was
00:47:52
disgusted with him." >> You could be angry at somebody and not scream at them. And if you never saw any
00:47:57
evidence of her screaming at him, why would you think that she screamed at him? >> What I have to say is, you know what
00:48:05
they say about assuming Cindy? Something about ass. I don't know. >> Something about ass.
00:48:09
>> I don't know what I don't remember it. I don't remember the saying. >> I just don't think we should assume that
00:48:14
that that she's screaming at him in in private >> if you've never seen that happen.
00:48:19
>> Whether or not Cindy was right about her assessment of Chris and Shannan's relationship, she wasn't the only person
00:48:24
at this point that was noticing a change in the dynamic a little bit. In the late
00:48:28
summer of 2018, um a young woman named uh Nick Nicole Nikki Kessinger >> Kessinger.
00:48:36
>> Kessinger, I think, >> uh began working at the oil company where Chris worked. and his co-workers
00:48:41
couldn't help but notice uh Chris being a [ __ ] ugling creo loser [ __ ] face uh
00:48:48
and just staring at her. >> It's the worst when you see that your coworker has like that.
00:48:52
>> Yeah. When you see that your coworker is this ugling little >> creepfaced [ __ ] face
00:48:57
>> just a lech like that's that's what he looks like >> and he's staring at her all the time.
00:49:03
>> One coworker said Chris would be on his laptop and when she'd walk by he'd look
00:49:07
up and stare at her awkwardly. Ew. Which I'm like, what what got you about that girl? Like that I don't know if that
00:49:14
would do it for me, but okay. >> I know that that would not do it for me. >> Wouldn't do it for me. Now, although
00:49:20
their work should have shouldn't have really brought them in contact very often cuz they were on two separate
00:49:24
things like in this company. Before long, Chris seemed to be finding ways to casually run into Nicole around the
00:49:31
office. >> Imagine that. >> Um, she later said it was always hit or miss. It wasn't an everyday thing
00:49:36
>> in the beginning. Okay. Uh regardless, the attraction between them seemed to be
00:49:41
undeniable and Chris apparently didn't know what a divorce was. So >> good. >> Um in June 2018, Shannan excitedly
00:49:50
posted that she and Chris were expecting a third child. >> You know, >> his reaction in that post
00:49:55
>> Yeah. >> is bonkers in he literally goes, "Awesome. >> Awesome." >> If I told my husband I was pregnant and
00:50:04
he said, >> "Awesome." >> Yeah. Uh just one day after Shannan posted about her pregnancy, Chris and
00:50:12
Nikki spoke for the first time, >> uh she recalled he started talking about his kids and then she mentioned, "Yes, I
00:50:19
have." And he said, "Yes, I have a wife, but we're getting separated." >> Now, what's confusing for me is there
00:50:24
was this >> and then she said that at first he didn't say that he had kids. She didn't
00:50:30
find that out for a while. >> So, I'm not sure which one is stories. >> Yeah, I just I'm not sure which one is
00:50:35
correct. >> Okay. But yeah, he supposedly told her allegedly that he was getting separated
00:50:41
from his wife. If you look at the discovery documents, maybe um I guess you'll just have to
00:50:48
look at them and and kind of take what you will from that. >> Yeah. >> And also when asked, his mother said
00:50:52
that she didn't believe he was happy at all for the pregnancy, >> which is disgusting.
00:50:58
>> He knows how babies are made. He's made to you can avoid that if you're not excited to have another child. And if
00:51:04
you are planning on getting separated, >> maybe don't do that. >> Don't do that.
00:51:08
>> Yeah. Don't have another child if you are actually planning on separating. >> It's pretty simple.
00:51:12
>> Um, but Chris showed Nikki uh pictures of the girls, neglecting to mention that
00:51:17
there was another one on the way, which which that is correct. She found out in the media later.
00:51:24
>> Oh. >> She had no idea that she was pregnant, >> cuz that probably would have changed
00:51:27
things. I would hope at least. >> And she liked that he was an enthusiastic father or seeming to be.
00:51:32
Um, later that day she sent him an email thanking him for being honest about his
00:51:36
relationship status with his wife and she wrote, "Truthfulness is so underrated in our culture." And in his
00:51:43
reply, Chris commented he was a straightforward guy and that lying just complicates things.
00:51:50
>> Well, he's a really bad liar. So, I I do believe that he felt that way. >> It does complicate things. He's not
00:51:55
great at it. >> He's the He might be the worst liar on planet Earth. The polygraph examiner
00:52:00
literally congratulated him on how bad of a liar he was. >> Yeah. If you watched the interview that
00:52:05
he's doing, which we're going to get into. Lies, lies, lies, >> lies, lies, lies, lies.
00:52:09
>> Bad, bad, bad lies. >> He also in that same one told her how absolutely stunning he thought she was.
00:52:15
Excuse me while I vomit for an indefinite amount of time. >> Yeah, >> you [ __ ] piece of [ __ ]
00:52:20
>> I have a lot to say. >> You [ __ ] piece of [ __ ] Now, in the days that followed, uh, Chris and Nicole
00:52:26
continued exchanging. Now, this is the days that followed after his wife announced her third pregnancy.
00:52:32
>> Yep. >> They continued exchanging casual messages through their work email, but
00:52:37
after a week, they started texting and sending messages through less official channels.
00:52:42
>> Meanwhile, Shannan filled her days with, you know, trying to keep the house together.
00:52:47
>> Yeah. Working, >> posting about her pregnancy and like trying to work. On Father's Day, she
00:52:52
posted a long message about how devoted Chris is to their family and how lucky she was to have him, alongside a video
00:52:59
of Bella singing a special song she'd memorized just for him. Oh, >> Bella, who he smothered and shoved into
00:53:08
an oil tank, in case you don't know the case. >> That's horrific. >> I hate this man with every fiber of my
00:53:14
[ __ ] being. >> Same. Now later, Chris said of his relationship with Nicole, "I thought it
00:53:20
was just flirting. I didn't think that something would actually happen." And then ready for his like, "Oh god,
00:53:26
>> I've just never been pursued by anybody before." >> You weren't pursued by Shannan when you
00:53:31
guys got together. >> Shut the [ __ ] That little innocent doeyed baby boy act doesn't [ __ ]
00:53:39
work. Like, >> it's disgusting. >> Oh, I just never had a lady interested in me before. Like, gee golly, it was
00:53:44
just so neat. I couldn't relationship that you say you had before Shannan. You also
00:53:49
>> the [ __ ] up >> dated and married Shannan. >> He's such a waste of chromosomes.
00:53:55
>> But seeing how their relationship unfolded, it's kind of hard to accept that Chris was doing nothing more than
00:54:00
flirting cuz it ramped up pretty quick for flirting to be what you were thinking was happening here. Uh after
00:54:06
they stopped sending messages through work emails, Chris and Nikki began or Nicole, whatever, began taking steps to
00:54:12
communicate through means that wouldn't be discovered. But wait a minute. I thought he was he was separating from
00:54:19
his wife. I thought this was okay. >> So why would you not need to be discovered?
00:54:23
>> I don't know. I don't know. Uh at first, Chris gave Nicole the number for his
00:54:28
work phone, knowing that Shannan regularly checked his personal phone. >> Oh, >> why are you hiding it?
00:54:34
>> Yeah. >> Huh? Then a few days later, Nicole told him that they should start communicating
00:54:39
only through their private phones so no one at work would know they were talking.
00:54:43
>> Okay. >> Why? Why? >> I don't I thought this was okay. >> Weird. Um >> very strange. Uh but Chris may not have
00:54:54
set out to have an affair with Nicole um initially when he was just ugling her in
00:55:00
the in the office. >> He probably just didn't think it was possible. >> The precautions that they were taking in
00:55:06
order to keep their communication secret makes it hard to believe the whole thing
00:55:09
was uh flirting. >> Yeah. >> Seems weird. >> Yeah. I can't imagine that. >> I'd say so.
00:55:15
>> But hey, that's just me using Logic, which is something that both of them seem to treat as like an optional
00:55:21
subscription service. So, >> I don't know. I don't know. We're not on the same thing here. We're not on the
00:55:28
same playing field, I think. >> So, the more Chris and Nicole got to know each other, the more he shared
00:55:32
about his life with Shannan. She did say, Chris said that she was all about appearances in all aspects of life,
00:55:39
which so nice that you're talking [ __ ] to your mistress about your pregnant wife.
00:55:43
>> He said that Chenan pretended everything was fine and that they never argued anything like that.
00:55:48
>> Is she supposed to be posting your arguments on Instagram? >> I'm not really sure. Do you want her to
00:55:51
post what a [ __ ] stain you are? >> Um, it was about two years earlier that he said he felt like the marriage had
00:55:57
started to go bad for them. >> So, you should have separated. And Nicole, of course, said he tried he said
00:56:02
he tried to talk to her many times, but it fell on deaf ears. >> Okay, >> cool. The more time Chris spent with
00:56:09
Nicole, the more his troubles with Shannan seemed to fade into the back of his mind because now he's distracted. By
00:56:16
the end of July, the two of them were in constant communication, his mistress and
00:56:20
him. >> And they were sneaking off to hotels or Nicole's apartment whenever they could
00:56:24
find the time. >> Chris assured Nicole that he was getting a divorce. That's what is alleged. Um,
00:56:30
>> well, they always do. >> Yeah. So, they could finally be together, but until that happened, she
00:56:35
wanted to take things slow. >> Baby, you got to see divorce papers if you're going to get set up with a man
00:56:40
who's separated, quote unquote. >> Well, and she wanted to take things slow and maybe she did. I don't know. Maybe
00:56:47
take a look at the discovery documents and see. I don't know. Maybe they to me they were a little they they made me a
00:56:53
little confused by the whole thing. But >> maybe we just have different different
00:56:56
definitions of slow. Maybe. Who knows? >> I don't know. >> Who can be sure? I wasn't there.
00:57:01
>> Yeah. >> So, she said he was like in fifth gear the entire time. Maybe it was up to me
00:57:07
to hit the brakes, but he was so kind to me. Why was I going to push him away? >> Cuz he was married and his wife was
00:57:12
pregnant. >> I literally wrote because he was married with children. Nicole, >> that's why.
00:57:16
>> Nicole, it's pretty simple. Babe, >> I got to tell you, when a guy is telling
00:57:19
you, "No, I am going to divorce my wife." >> He's not. >> And even if he is, cool. Then he will
00:57:26
wait until he does like that. It just he can't have his cake and eat it too. >> You'll sleep better.
00:57:30
>> You will. That's the thing. And it's like I'm not saying this is her fault. I'm not saying anything like that. So
00:57:35
like calm your tits. >> I'm just saying it just for you. You're like don't let him have his cake and eat
00:57:41
it too. >> Take care of that situation and then you can feel good about going forward.
00:57:46
That's just my opinion on the whole thing. >> Don't be the other woman. Be the mean
00:57:50
[ __ ] >> Exactly. >> That's my motto. And you just like he's not he's gonna keep telling you that.
00:57:56
>> Exactly. >> And you don't want to be listening to him like that. No. Make him prove it.
00:58:00
>> Yeah. >> Like that's the thing. It's like if he really is unhappy in that relationship
00:58:03
and they are together not happy then they will divorce or separate and you will be able to continue a relationship.
00:58:10
It just doesn't it's always messy when you are going to get involved before their divorce. At least from what I have
00:58:17
seen in my life. That is just my experience >> personal like what I've seen. That's
00:58:22
all. Okay. I'm not saying I'm an expert on this. I'm not saying anything like that.
00:58:25
>> No, it's just >> just saying >> just just that. >> Now, July 24th, this is directly from
00:58:31
the discovery documents, which we will link in the show notes. >> So, it is fact.
00:58:34
>> This is official. Uh July 24th, 2018, uh Nicole Google's quote, "Man I'm having
00:58:40
an affair with says he is leaving his wife." >> Oh. July 25th, 2018. Chris Googles, are
00:58:48
you ready? When to say I love you. When to say I love you in a new relationship.
00:58:54
What do you feel when someone says I love you? And how does it feel when someone says I love you?
00:59:00
>> Okay, let's save the ladder, too. When do you say I love you in a new relationship? When you're divorced.
00:59:05
>> Yeah. >> When you're officially going through the process of getting divorced.
00:59:09
>> Um and also >> when you and your wife are living separately. >> Why are you asking what human emotions
00:59:15
feel like? Like what? Why are you asking that? Why are you asking a search engine?
00:59:19
>> Babe, you have kids and you don't know what love feels like. >> You You've been with somebody and
00:59:26
married and you don't know what love feels like. >> We can laugh and joke. Like obviously
00:59:30
there's a lot to laugh and joke about there, but it actually at its very core is so scary.
00:59:35
>> It is horrifying >> that he asked Google, "What does it feel like when somebody says, "I love you."
00:59:41
>> Well, no. And you and later in one of the interviews, his mom says like he's not the psychopath. Like he's not a
00:59:47
sociopath. I'm not armchair diagnosing here cuz I I don't know what he is. He's something though.
00:59:53
>> You have to ask Google what it feels like when somebody says, "I love you." As a grown person who's been in loving
00:59:59
relationships or what seem like loving relationships, >> you >> what? Like as a father,
01:00:05
>> I I'm like, "What do you feel when your kids tell you?" >> He's not even saying like, "What does it
01:00:09
feel like when someone loves you?" He's saying like, "What does it feel like when someone says I love you?" Right.
01:00:14
>> People have said they love you. >> Why don't you know what that feels like? >> But apparently it doesn't penetrate him.
01:00:19
>> That's It's so scary. >> It is chilling. >> Yeah. Now, the discovery document also
01:00:25
shows that Nicole was googling both Shannan and Chris's Facebooks for long periods of time in
01:00:34
intermittently. Okay. So, then wouldn't she be seeing the videos where Shannan is saying what
01:00:39
a great father and husband that Chris is? That's that's what I'm a little confused about. And again, I'm not
01:00:45
claiming anything here. I'm just saying like what I I do wonder what were you thinking when you were seeing her
01:00:51
posting these. But then again, if I'm going to give the the devil's advocate here, then I'm going to say, well, okay,
01:00:57
she's seeing those. She's probably going to Chris and being like she's all about
01:01:00
appearances. >> And he's like, well, she's just about social media and appearances. Of course,
01:01:03
she's posting that. >> Oh, man. >> Cuz this is what this guy does, you know. >> Yeah. Now whether or not you know
01:01:10
Shannan by all accounts and from the discovery documents when you could see their text messages between each other
01:01:15
it didn't seem like she knew that he was having an affair. It seemed like she was
01:01:19
suspecting it. >> Okay. >> And she just didn't of course didn't want to know. >> Yeah. But that summer she had to know
01:01:26
something changed between them because it was definitely happening. It's very evident that she was understanding that.
01:01:33
Uh Chris was never great at communication, which is not a shock, but the more time he spent with Nicole, the
01:01:38
less he seemed to have anything to say to Shannan. Uh by mid July, it seemed that even his commitment to secrecy had
01:01:45
started to slip because on more than one occasion, he stayed the night at Nicole's apartment.
01:01:50
>> What the [ __ ] Didn't come home to his pregnant wife and two children. >> Two children.
01:01:55
>> That's [ __ ] >> And by the end of July, they had expressed their love for each other. So
01:02:00
that Google started >> So Google said July sounds good. Uh, and he vowed again to divorce his wife so
01:02:05
they could be together, but he hadn't yet. Now, throughout much of the summer, Shannan and the girls were actually in
01:02:11
North Carolina visiting family. Chris had found an excuse to stay behind in Colorado. Of
01:02:16
>> course, he did. >> So, he could be with Nicole. >> Yeah. >> Uh, those weeks that Shannan was away
01:02:20
were, according to Chris, the freest he had ever felt in years without his children
01:02:28
>> and away from his pregnant wife. And the thought of that coming to an end was so
01:02:32
deeply frustrating. >> That's so scary. He spent the entire time with his mistress. And in the later
01:02:40
interviews with police, she said that they had to lie to the babysitter so she wouldn't know where they that they were
01:02:45
be together. When they came home from this trip, Shannan went on a work trip and he was still going out with his
01:02:52
mistress and having the babysitter babysit the kids and telling them that he was going on to work things.
01:02:57
>> What the [ __ ] and she knew that. >> I'm going to keep my comments to myself.
01:03:03
>> Now, back to the North Carolina trip with the girls and Shannan being gone. Shannan was looking forward to returning
01:03:09
home from this trip. Uh, she wanted to see Chris. She wanted to talk about things. Um, but during the trip, if you
01:03:16
again look at the discovery documents where there's all the text messages, it's pretty [ __ ] heart-wrenching. The
01:03:22
discussions between the two are is her literally begging him to give her anything. Just any kind of confirmation
01:03:29
that he loved her, confirmation that he was excited to have another baby. >> While she's carrying his child, she's
01:03:35
begging him for confirmation that he loves her. >> And at one point, she says, "How do you
01:03:38
fall in love with out of love with someone in 5 weeks?" >> Oh my god. >> And she's literally saying to him, "This
01:03:44
came out of nowhere." >> Right? >> Like literally came out of nowhere. She said when he when she showed back up, he
01:03:50
was cold and distant again. And she was saying this to friends, like texting them because he was a spineless little
01:03:54
thumb and he should have just said, "I want to get separated." >> Yep. >> Now, the first two weeks of August were
01:03:59
a huge departure from the norm in the house. The more Chris pulled away from Shannan, the more she was just begging
01:04:04
him to open up and talk to her about what was wrong. And as far as she could tell, everything had been fine when she
01:04:09
left for North Carolina. And she said now that he was home, he wanted nothing to do with her. Like, didn't even want
01:04:15
to touch her. She told a friend that it felt like it came out of nowhere. She kept asking over and over like how do
01:04:20
you fall in love with out of love with somebody so quickly and August 4th, which is in the
01:04:27
beginning of August where we are right now where this is all falling apart. >> Nicole searched wedding dresses for two
01:04:32
hours. >> Oh [ __ ] >> For two hours. That's according to the discovery documents.
01:04:38
>> What the [ __ ] Now, between all of this are multiple texts again where Shannan
01:04:43
is upset and begging him for anything. She says they were all over each other when she left and couldn't get enough of
01:04:50
each other. And she's like, "And then all of a sudden you don't want anything to do with me." That's how quickly he
01:04:55
from somebody else. >> He had five weeks of his mistress and now he has shut off everything to
01:05:01
Shannan. Like he she says he would barely kiss her at the airport. Oh, and during some of the most emotional texts
01:05:08
that she's sending, these big long blocks of texts where she's spilling her entire heart out, Chris Watts was
01:05:15
googling the distance between Moon and Earth. >> What? Yeah. >> What? his pregnant wife is spilling her
01:05:26
heart out to him, begging him just to tell her that it's okay and that he loves her and that he's going to take
01:05:34
like that they're going to be a family and that all of this and he is sitting there googling in the middle of these
01:05:39
texts what's the different distance between Earth and the moon. >> So she literally meant nothing to him at
01:05:46
this point. He is >> he's to be that unbothered unbothered >> while your pre I can't express this
01:05:54
enough like I cannot >> your pregnant wife and mother of your already two born children is begging you
01:06:02
to give her anything and you're doing a science experiment. >> Yeah. He went he didn't answer one at
01:06:07
one point when she was just going on and on and on and she goes she literally said I'm your pregnant wife is spilling
01:06:14
their heart out to you and our marriage is crumbling before us and you're just falling asleep.
01:06:18
>> He's not even falling asleep >> and he and at that point I think he did >> he's applying for an internship at NASA.
01:06:23
What the [ __ ] Like what is wrong with you? August 8th, 2018. According to the discovery documents, we're our official
01:06:31
record. Um, Nicole searched quote, "Marrying your mistress." >> Oh, so she to call yourself the mistress too is
01:06:41
like, >> well, it implies, you know, >> of course it does. >> I'm just saying that that search
01:06:46
implies, you know, >> I'm not saying I'm covering my ass here. I'm not saying anything. But
01:06:54
>> um Shannan at this point was also googling um because she had come home and when she came home they went through
01:07:00
a lot. They were going through everything. But then Shannan said like they were having good discussions when
01:07:05
she got home. They were starting to talk through things. He was still being cold
01:07:08
and distant and he was still saying some things like I don't know what's going on
01:07:11
in my head. >> And she was googling emotionbased couples therapy. She was googling
01:07:16
different couples therapy things. She was like really trying to fix this whole thing,
01:07:21
>> which like I can only imagine like you know how it feels to be pregnant. Like
01:07:24
I'm sure your emotions are high already in a perfect marriage >> and then to have this [ __ ] as your
01:07:30
partner. >> Like that she doesn't need to be under that much stress. >> Now August 9th, Shannan went on a work
01:07:36
trip to Arizona and again she was in a much better mood where and she was talking to friends saying that you know
01:07:43
she was having discussions. He had told her he loved her again because he wasn't
01:07:48
saying that before, >> but she said he was still cold. And at the same time that this is going on that
01:07:54
she's texting her friends that things are getting better, he was transferring pictures of Nicole onto a secret
01:08:01
calculator app on his phone. He does that often. >> Okay. >> They sent a lot of pictures to each
01:08:06
other. And he had a secret calculator app which he would keep them in so Shannan couldn't find them. And those
01:08:13
things get transferred into that app during the weirdest [ __ ] times. Let me tell you, go take a peek at those
01:08:20
discovery documents and read the text messages. >> So that's an app designed to look like a
01:08:24
calculator that you can like hide [ __ ] in. >> I suppose I did not look it up even
01:08:28
exists. >> It's just called a secret calculator app in the discovery documents and I didn't
01:08:33
look any further than that. >> You need to look at what a secret calculator. >> I was I was like I don't know that this
01:08:38
exists. >> Is that like designed for cheating? probably pisses me off >> cuz it's probably like looks like a
01:08:42
calculator. So, it's like you would never >> I'm looking at >> But remember, if you have an iPhone,
01:08:47
there's only one calculator on there. >> Yeah, >> it is a thing. They're vault apps
01:08:53
disguised, this is from Google, as functional calculators to hide photos, video files, and notes behind a pin.
01:08:59
>> Why do those exist? These apps operate with a private password. >> What the? So he was
01:09:05
>> he transferred photos particularly of Nicole into that app several times. >> Yeah.
01:09:13
>> And in the middle of very intense, very emotional conversations with his wife.
01:09:19
>> One of these apps you can hide photos and videos. It includes a secure browser
01:09:24
so you can like separately Google crazy [ __ ] >> Wow. >> Notes and the ability to take new
01:09:29
pictures directly into the app. >> Wow. I did not know that was a thing. >> You can even put You can even put
01:09:37
contacts in there. >> You know who did know that that was a thing? Chris Watts. >> Chris Watts.
01:09:41
>> Wow. >> Meanwhile, as he's doing that, Shannan had ordered a book on Amazon about
01:09:46
talking through problems as a couple >> and like finding love together again. >> Oh my god.
01:09:51
>> When it was delivered, she was in Arizona and got a notification that it was delivered. So, she was like, "Go
01:09:56
check the mail." They found that book in the garage in a trash can. >> Are you [ __ ] kidding He's disgusting.
01:10:03
>> So, while the time now while she's in Arizona on this work trip, they had very
01:10:08
nice text messages back and forth with each other. They were talking about the girls, saying they loved each other
01:10:14
during this time, calling each other like he called her Boo. Like, they were like very sending pictures of the girls
01:10:21
to each other, commenting on the girl, like talking about the new baby days before, hours before he would murder
01:10:28
them all. And at the same time, he was also hanging out with the the mistress and lying like lying to the babysitter.
01:10:34
Yep. >> That was during that trip. >> Yep. >> Awesome. >> That now on August 11th, Nicole and
01:10:41
Chris went to dinner. And usually, now this is when uh in Arizona. And usually, according to Nicole, he paid for dinner
01:10:49
with gift cards to hide it from his wife because remember he's divorcing her, but
01:10:55
>> she can't know about this. But that night, he used a credit card and she was shocked by this and took it as a sign
01:11:02
that he was really ready to leave her. I take it as a clear indication that he didn't plan for it to be a problem
01:11:08
anymore. I It's so crazy that you just got to this part of the story cuz I was just thinking to myself, at what point
01:11:15
did he decide to murder her? >> Feels like it might have been here. >> Yeah. >> It's at the very least very highly
01:11:22
suspect to me. >> Yeah. that he's, you know, and I understand that Nicole took it as like,
01:11:27
okay, he's ready to >> she's not going to think he's going to murder his wife. >> Yeah, of course.
01:11:31
>> Like, no, nobody thinks that way. >> I'm sitting here saying looks to me like
01:11:35
he didn't think it would be a problem. I don't know what he was thinking there, but
01:11:41
>> that's so scary. >> In the discovery documents, you will also see that he regularly frequented my
01:11:47
prepaidenter.com, which was a prepaid visa site where you could reload onto that. So, he was only using gift cards
01:11:53
usually. >> Uh, in recovered text, this is just a side thing because it shows you how
01:11:58
[ __ ] weird he is in a text recovered from their phones, which by the way, Nicole and Chris deleted a lot of their
01:12:06
texts when he was arrested, >> but they still found them. >> Of course, they did. You can't delete
01:12:12
>> text actually deleted, >> but they show in the discovery documents which ones were deleted. And she also
01:12:18
deleted all his stuff off her phone when they brought her in for questioning. >> Yikes.
01:12:23
>> But that's just fact. Um he also called her his sexy empanada. >> No. >> At one point, and here's the thing, I
01:12:30
just stumbled on that one. I I How could I ever be looking for that? >> An empanada is like a meat pie.
01:12:35
>> Thank you. I just thought that was it. It popped. I 11:30 at night last night.
01:12:41
I'm sitting there scrolling like a [ __ ] goblin through these discovery documents. like the text that popped up
01:12:47
and I said, "I'm sorry, what?" >> He was super socially awkward. >> That's the thing. Like, who's call sexy
01:12:54
to be a to be a pet name? >> Like, get out of here. >> If you ever called me his sexy empanada,
01:12:58
I'd be like, "What did I do to upset you?" >> Literally, I'd be like, "What is that?"
01:13:01
Like, "Why are you trying to insult me? >> Like, are you all right? >> Sexy empanada."
01:13:05
>> Had to throw that in there because it was just so absurd. >> What? Um, and again, I highly highly
01:13:10
suggest that if you um if you have some time on your hands to take a peek through the discovery documents because
01:13:16
they really do give you such an overview of what was going on, what >> Well, I do
01:13:21
>> what they were searching, what they were talking about, things between him and
01:13:24
Shannan. It gives you a better picture of Shannan and his relationship. >> What I was just going to say is besides
01:13:29
what other people were putting on it. so many rumors when it comes to this case and it's sad discovery because a lot of
01:13:35
them are like a lot of people [ __ ] on Shannan and say she was doineering and she was this and she was that. So I
01:13:41
agree with you. Go look at the discovery. >> Yeah, cuz no matter what I don't give a
01:13:44
[ __ ] She didn't deserve to be murdered. >> And also >> I don't care if she was doineering. Like
01:13:49
who knows? I don't know. I wasn't in the relationship. She doesn't deserve to be
01:13:52
murdered. >> Of course not. And clearly she was blindsided by this whole thing. >> Well that and that's what I mean. like
01:13:57
the discovery documents really give you a clearer picture of what their relationship was and like what how they
01:14:03
were talking to each other, right? >> And it's like it doesn't matter what what the relationship was like or what
01:14:09
she was like or whatever. She's not here to to negate that to say what was happening or speak on it. So, it's
01:14:16
really [ __ ] up to be like, well, she was doineering. Okay, so he should strangle her to death, right,
01:14:22
>> in front of her children? Like, is that really what we think here? Like, come
01:14:26
on, get a grip. Now, in the at the early morning hours of August 13th, 2018, Shenan returned home from the work trip
01:14:34
in Arizona. She had sent him a text before taking off on the plane that said, "Finally on plane and about to
01:14:39
take off. Prayers for a safe flight. Love you." And he didn't respond. >> Nice. >> Pregnant wife was getting on a plane
01:14:46
home and didn't respond. >> Wow. after being dropped off at the house um by her friend Nikki Atinson, Nicole
01:14:53
Atinson >> because he couldn't bother to go pick her up from the airport. >> Um I'll give him this. It it was very
01:14:59
late. It was in the middle of the night and the girls were home. >> Okay. >> So he would have had to take them out at
01:15:04
like 1:00 in the morning. So I'll give him that. >> All right. >> But she went inside leaving her suitcase
01:15:08
by the front door and she walked up to bed trying not to wake the girls. Hours later, Shannan's friend, friend of the
01:15:16
century. Yeah. >> Hours later, Shannan's friend, friend of the century, Nicole Atkinson, called
01:15:23
Shannan's phone to check in. Shannan had missed an appointment with her OBGYn. >> That's why I said earlier, it's very
01:15:30
interesting that he used to manage her doctor's appointments. >> Well, once he got distracted.
01:15:34
>> Yeah. Clearly wasn't doing anymore. >> And she So, she missed the appointment
01:15:38
and she hadn't responded to any of their texts. So Nicole was getting worried. Um
01:15:43
when she couldn't get a hold of Shannan by phone, Nicole Atinson went to the house and found it empty. Uh but she
01:15:50
found Shannan's car there. Her shoes that she always wore were by the door. She could see them and she was like,
01:15:56
"Something's off." So she assumed Chris was at work, but Shannan and the girls were nowhere to be seen. So concerned
01:16:02
about her friend, she called Chris at work, but he said he hadn't seen Shannan since she got home earlier that morning.
01:16:09
So, a group of her friends all band together to text Chris their concerns. They She had friends, let me tell you.
01:16:16
Her friend Cassandra, who like goes by Cassie, texted him about it. And her uh his response was, "She went to a
01:16:22
friend's house with the kids. She won't tell me where, though. When I got home, I'll update you."
01:16:28
>> What? She won't tell you where. >> What? And like her friends are texting you. I would assume that they may know
01:16:33
her other friend. Well, that was what was immediately suspicious to them because like who is this friend? What
01:16:38
the [ __ ] do you mean? >> This is her friend group. >> So, they pressed. >> They didn't let it go.
01:16:43
>> They said they knew that the the couple was having issues and that Shannan was
01:16:47
in a bad way emotionally because of this and they were worried. He was most concerned about them not thinking he was
01:16:53
a bad guy. Meanwhile, this is hours out of him murdering his pregnant wife and children, by the way. But he doesn't
01:16:59
want her her friends to think he's a bad guy. >> But Shannan's the one that's all about
01:17:02
appearances. Cassie responds, "Queen [ __ ] Right now, I don't care about you or your relationship or what
01:17:10
type of person you are or not or what you what I think of you. I'm not trying to be rude when I say that."
01:17:16
>> And she was like, "But just what the [ __ ] going on?" She was like, "I literally don't care about you and I
01:17:21
don't care about your like" Like, they were like, "We don't even like you. >> We just care about Shenan."
01:17:24
>> Meanwhile, during this, he was texting a realer about their unfinished basement.
01:17:30
>> What? >> Yeah. discovery documents. Cassie told him her only concern was quote for his
01:17:36
damn wife and her well-being. >> Good. >> And then she let him have it. She told
01:17:40
him Nikki was calling the police. Nicole, she was calling the police and said, "So unless you want the police to
01:17:45
bust your damn door down, you get home and check on your family." >> Period. >> Queen [ __ ]
01:17:50
>> Period. >> Queen [ __ ] Chris was desperate for them not to call the police. He begged them
01:17:56
not to. He said he was coming home and they were like, "Fuck you." >> Cuz what? Like your wife and children
01:18:01
are missing. Why are you begging us not to call the police? >> Exactly. So Nikki Atkinson called the
01:18:05
Frederick Police Department to report Shannan missing and asked that they go to the house to conduct a well-being
01:18:10
check. >> Yeah. >> Also, there was a group chat with Shannan's friends and her in it. And one
01:18:15
of them said at the time, "The police are here and they need to check Chris's phone and computer."
01:18:20
>> Wow. >> Here's the thing. If I went missing, I tell you right now, I know for a fact
01:18:27
>> that none of my friends first reaction would be, "John did it." Nope. Same. >> If your first reaction is that heavily,
01:18:36
I think he might have done it. >> He's done it. Like at the very least, he's a piece of [ __ ] Like that.
01:18:43
>> I can guarantee. I even said this in front of Deb and every I was like, would
01:18:46
you have thought to check John's phone and computer? She was like, nope. That would not even cross my mind.
01:18:53
>> Like, that's bad. And during all of this, his mistress Nicole called him and he called her several times, but on both
01:19:02
ends they had deleted the calls. Sus. Which, like, why did you do that? >> Sus. Also, during this time, during this
01:19:12
time, during this time, during this time, hours after what we find out later, he had killed his pregnant wife
01:19:20
and his three and fouryear-old daughters. He had, we'll get into it later, don't worry. He had buried
01:19:27
Shannan's body in an oil field and he had shoved the bodies of his three and four yearear-old daughters into an oil
01:19:33
tank >> that they could barely fit into. >> And now during the time when her friends are now
01:19:41
freaking out and he knows what he's done, he sent one final image of his mistress to that secret calculator app.
01:19:49
Are you [ __ ] kidding me? It's in the discovery documents. What the [ __ ] dude? I was
01:20:00
speechless. That takes an evil like I can't comprehend. >> Yeah. >> And also, what are you hiding it from?
01:20:12
>> Well, that's what are you doing? >> Do you think that the police don't see those?
01:20:16
>> Well, that's the thing. I'm like, I think he thought that would be like secret from everybody. Wow. What a
01:20:21
[ __ ] [ __ ] >> Because it's a wind tunnel up there. >> It is a wind tunnel up there. Wow.
01:20:28
>> That is just so diabolical. Your children >> are submerged in an oil tank and your
01:20:35
pregnant wife and unborn child are in the dirt at your work >> and you're sitting there sending spicy
01:20:46
images to a secret [ __ ] file. You just killed three children and your wife. >> Like I'm just like my brain literally
01:20:53
can't comprehend. >> You just annihilated your entire family. Let's call it what it is.
01:20:57
>> Well, that's and maybe it's because this case in particular, one, it's so brutal
01:21:01
and so unthinkable, but two, we have those discovery things and we have so much documentation of every movement of
01:21:08
it that you can really see everything in real time about his dayto-day that it's
01:21:12
just like whoa. Cuz a lot of cases we don't get that. We don't get the >> fullown
01:21:17
>> what's he doing while this is all happening and you get to see this and it's just like oh my god
01:21:22
>> the lack of humanity. >> It's something about that just like threw me for a >> like those are your children.
01:21:31
>> Yeah. >> Those are your children. And the discovery showed that um Nicole Kessinger uh also spent four hours
01:21:38
searching the internet for Chris Watts Shannan's disappearance and things like it, but she deleted it.
01:21:45
>> Okay. >> She also searched >> She also searched and again this is all in there. I'm not
01:21:51
>> Yeah. >> She also searched can cops uh find deleted deleted text messages. >> Yes.
01:21:56
>> How long do phone companies keep text messages? >> And then she deleted all of that. girl.
01:22:03
>> No, >> I'm sorry. The people that think that when you delete something from the
01:22:08
internet that it's just Where do you think it goes? >> Like you don't think they can recover
01:22:12
anything. >> It's such simple thinking. It really is. >> I know that like because of what we do
01:22:17
like we're so much more privy to that kind of information. But like I think even when I was a teenager, I didn't
01:22:23
like get into crazy [ __ ] cuz I was that like cuz I'm normal, but also like >> cuz I'm normal.
01:22:28
>> I know that everything can be tracked. I just don't get the And also, it's just
01:22:33
like and it looks suspicious no matter what. Even if you have nothing to do with anything, just don't do that. It
01:22:39
just doesn't look good. >> No. >> So, an officer arrived at the Watts house a little after 1:30 p.m. And with
01:22:45
Chris's permission, he entered the house. As um Nikki Atinson had said, there was no sign of Shannan and the
01:22:51
girls. More concerning was that while Shannan herself was missing, her car, phone, and wallet were all still inside
01:22:58
the house, and her suitcase was still by the front door. Nothing else in the house appeared to have been disturbed,
01:23:04
there was no sign of break-in because he had killed them. >> Uh-huh. >> Upstairs in Chris and Shannan's bedroom,
01:23:09
they found her wedding ring on the bedside table, >> which I think he planted. >> I It makes sense. Now, to be clear, he
01:23:16
let them in, but first, he went through the garage and made them wait for several minutes before letting them in.
01:23:21
>> Yeah. So now their neighbor Nathaniel Trina Stitch, who I will refer to as Nate,
01:23:28
>> homie of the century, >> another hero here. There's so many people that really came out
01:23:33
>> came through >> to really push this thing way further, way quicker than it probably would have
01:23:39
if they had not been honestly like it it takes a lot of like hutbah >> to like stick your neck out.
01:23:46
>> Yeah. >> And these people investigation when like you're literally in the room with cops.
01:23:51
>> Yeah. It's like very impressive. That can be intimidating because I it's that's hard and I'm glad that these
01:23:56
people did. >> So Nate, the Watts neighbor, called police inside of his home to show them
01:24:01
security camera footage that had a great view of Watts's driveway >> as well as the road in front of all the
01:24:06
houses. Chris had no idea that there was a clear shot of his truck pulling in and
01:24:12
out of the driveway that morning. >> Wow. >> And if you watch the body cam footage of
01:24:16
him watching this, he is freaking the [ __ ] out. I have never seen his hands are folded on top of his head and
01:24:23
extended to his sides like he can barely breathe >> swaying back and forth. >> He's losing his reaction is so guilty.
01:24:31
You can tell in this moment that he said, "I'm caught. >> He's got his It's wild." Like, and then
01:24:38
every now and then he'll just stop watching the footage and look at his phone. I have a question because I asked
01:24:44
John this and he was like, "Are you [ __ ] kidding me? If I was like, if if I was missing and our children weren't
01:24:50
missing and our neighbor said, "I have security camera footage of the whole outside of your house of the time that
01:24:55
she has been gone." >> Glued to it. >> You would be looking at every [ __ ] pixel on there hoping to see something.
01:25:01
>> You would be glued to it. Yep. >> He barely looks at it. He keeps looking away. He keeps looking at his phone.
01:25:08
>> Aren't you waiting to see if someone came and stole your whole family? >> No, cuz he knows that nobody did. I just
01:25:14
like I like you would never look away from that. >> You can find this video by the way and
01:25:20
go watch this video. >> Uh we'll see if we can post one of them. >> I think Drew and I were talking about it
01:25:25
cuz he Drew is not even super into true crime, but he remembers this case and he
01:25:28
was like I remember that being like one of the craziest breaks in this case. >> Oh yeah, I showed John. He was shocked.
01:25:34
He's losing it. His eyes are bugging. He's swallowing hard. His voice is shaking. And he tells the cops several
01:25:40
times that he had been bringing tools out to his truck a lot. And Nate is watching this [ __ ] and also
01:25:46
contradicting everything he said. Like Nate is not afraid to be like, "No, not true."
01:25:50
>> So when the detective rolls up, Nate has already checked the footage to see if
01:25:53
Shannan left the house during the time period she's been missing or if someone else showed up and left with her.
01:25:58
>> Nope. >> And he tells the detective right away, "No one is caught on that camera." And
01:26:02
he says, "I would have caught it." One of the people in the house says that they only have Chris pulling up to right
01:26:08
up to his garage. And they were like, "Why did you pull right up to the garage? does that.
01:26:13
>> And he immediately gets defensive and is still trying to say he just has so many
01:26:17
tools that he was loot loading so many tools loading just tools all over the place. Did I mention tools and loading
01:26:24
them into my truck because I did that. I do that. It's my thing. Like he literally mentions these tools and
01:26:30
loading them a hundred times. >> And he's also looking at his phone, but you can see he's doing that thing that
01:26:36
you do to not have to look anyone in the eyes. Like it's why like where you're just like pretending to be on your
01:26:40
phone. Like you can see while he's beeping and booping that it's the move you make when you're uncomfortable in
01:26:45
public and you just want to like look busy. >> So you just kind of like open and close
01:26:49
apps on your phone and don't actually do anything. He's doing that. >> We've all done it, but we haven't all
01:26:55
been doing that to cover the fact that our neighbor just cracked the case of us annihilating our entire family 6 hours
01:27:00
earlier. He's a [ __ ] idiot. Um, during this, Nate absolutely destroys Chris's nervous system further by
01:27:08
explaining that his camera actually picks up anyone coming down the street from any direction. So, if someone left
01:27:14
or if someone came, they would have got it on camera. And then he just clicks it
01:27:18
back on and says, "And this is him at 517." While this happens, did you think Chris
01:27:24
would miss another opportunity to mention him loading tools? >> No. >> Don't worry, he's still talking about
01:27:30
loading tools. The problem here is that he isn't looking at the footage. He won't look at the footage.
01:27:36
>> So, he wouldn't know what he was doing. >> I would be crouched down just staring at
01:27:40
this footage trying to find something. Nate just keeps reiterating that if he he would have seen someone on this tape
01:27:46
if there was any action at this house. And he even shows them the previous night where it caught cars coming from
01:27:52
each direction. >> He's like, "Oh, and look at this day three days ago where it caught somebody
01:27:57
coming from this direction." He is not. >> This security system doesn't quit much
01:28:02
like myself. >> He said, "Hell yeah, let's He said, "This [ __ ] is weird and you should be
01:28:06
seeing this." >> So they see him loading Shenana and the children into the garage.
01:28:10
>> They see So that's the What he did was he pulled He backed up into his driveway. He opened the garage and he
01:28:16
backed up. So the bed of the truck is in the garage. >> He put Shannan in the bed of the truck
01:28:21
and then he brought the girls into the truck. So, can does the footage show him putting the kids in the truck at like a
01:28:27
weird >> You can't see it because it's like on the other side of the So, you see him
01:28:31
going in there, >> but and you can see that he's doing something. >> Now, at this point, the detective is
01:28:36
speaking to his radio, like talking to another detective. And Chris is like, "Do they need me next door? Should I
01:28:42
leave? Should I go? Should I get out of here? Get >> the [ __ ] out of there." >> And the cop is like, "No." But he just
01:28:47
wants to get the [ __ ] up out of there so badly. He's so upset at this point. He
01:28:51
is like cracking and then something incredible happens. >> This is next level. You can't tell me
01:28:59
that some force is not at work here. >> Like >> you cannot tell me. >> This is incredible. Right next to Chris
01:29:05
as he looks away, the screen changes. It's a American Horror Story commercial. >> Mhm.
01:29:10
>> It's a commercial showing a fetus in a womb. Chris looks over right as it appears and
01:29:17
he stares at it for a second and then he looks up at the cop and he has a look. He looks like he's about to puke. Yep.
01:29:24
>> And he says she was pregnant too. >> Like it it like made him confess that >> and he says that this and as he says
01:29:32
that the screen next to him changes to an explosion like a mushroom cloud which so weird for that to happen. and then a
01:29:41
skull being covered by oil. What are the odds of that? >> What are the odds that those two images
01:29:50
were next to each other? >> And that's just like a lapse in Nate showing the security camera footage.
01:29:56
>> That's just him like clicking back out of it and into it again. >> By happen stance, that commercial was
01:30:00
playing. >> Yeah, >> that's not happen stance. That is Oh, that is some [ __ ] universal [ __ ] at
01:30:07
work. And when Chris turns his entire body away from the TV at this point, it's wild. He's sweating. He honestly
01:30:15
sounds out of breath and like his voice is trembling all of a sudden. He was affected by it.
01:30:21
>> How could you not be? >> It was unbelievable. But when >> And also, I'm sorry for him to go and
01:30:26
she's she's pregnant as well. >> You didn't mention that at the top of the [ __ ] day when you when she got
01:30:31
reported missing. >> Yeah. >> Why is that just coming up? >> Hello. Now, when Chris does well, he
01:30:37
didn't report her missing. So, >> but like all we're this far into this where the neighbor's like, "Oh, I have
01:30:42
security camera footage." And you still haven't told your the cops that your wife missing is pregnant.
01:30:47
>> He doesn't care. >> That's just bonkers. Like, be better at >> Oh, he >> You could say be better at a lot of
01:30:54
things. He sucks at all of this. >> It's nuts. When Chris does leave finally, when he's like when you know
01:31:00
fate shines upon him and lets him out of that house, >> Nate immediate, he literally watches him
01:31:05
leave, waits for the door to shut, looks right at the detective and says, "He's not acting right.
01:31:09
>> He's not." >> He points out the inconsistencies, the lack of video showing anyone coming or
01:31:14
going besides him. the fact that he never loads tools in and out of his garage and points out his body language,
01:31:21
how he didn't look worried. He kept overexplaining the loading tools into the truck thing. And the fact that,
01:31:26
according to Nate, quote, "He's normally quiet, real subdued. He's over here telling you three times what he took out
01:31:32
and what he did, what he did, what he did. He never talks." So, the fact that he's over here blabbing his mouth makes
01:31:37
me kind of suspicious. His neighbor literally gave that detective a [ __ ] gift because he hammered him in front of that
01:31:47
detective. Yep. >> And made it so much easier to see what was going on here. >> He also says that they were clearly
01:31:53
having problems when Shannan left for vacation for 5 weeks. And he said him and his wife were actually worried that
01:31:59
something had happened to her during those 5 weeks. That's telling. >> It is. >> It's unbelievable footage to be honest.
01:32:06
It's truly unbeliev the entire thing. What's important though is how Shenan's friends [ __ ] did the damn thing. Her
01:32:13
neighbors, her friends, like Nate, >> everybody, >> they didn't let up. They put pressure on
01:32:17
him. And within like 6 hours of him killing his entire family, he was having to answer for it already.
01:32:24
>> He had no time to formulate a fake story or try to cover something up like he
01:32:29
thought he would have. >> He was finding himself with his feet held firmly to the fire right away. And
01:32:35
he was [ __ ] up. That night, he facetimed his mistress. >> Hello. >> According to the discovery, he said she
01:32:45
said he was sitting on a bare mattress when he did. And she asked where the sheets were and he was all ky and said
01:32:51
he just wanted to wash them. >> Why would you want to wash the sheets when your wife went missing from that
01:32:56
house and your children did allegedly? >> Which, by the way, he murdered Shannan
01:32:59
in their bed. Y. So, she said he was quiet and that he just kind of stared at her during the call.
01:33:05
>> He loves to just >> He's such a [ __ ] lech. Like, he's such a weird creepy [ __ ] Also, remember
01:33:11
his whole family is missing, quote unquote, and he's facetiming his mistress >> in his room.
01:33:18
>> Like, that would put that would give me pause. >> Excuse me. In him and his wife's room.
01:33:22
>> Like, that would give me a lot of pause. Now, according to discovery documents as
01:33:27
well, on August 13th, uh Nicole, his mistress, found out through the media that his wife was pregnant. She did not
01:33:34
know before. >> Oh, so she found out that day that Shannan went missing. >> And she confronted him about it. And his
01:33:39
response was to ask, "Does this ruin our relationship?" >> The fact that your missing wife and two
01:33:46
children and unborn child are missing. >> No, he was just concerned with >> Also, Shannon was only, I believe, like
01:33:53
>> 15 weeks. Yeah. 15 weeks. So, >> like, do the math there, babe. Like, >> he had a relationship with both of you.
01:34:01
>> And also, it's just like you're saying Shannan is all about appearances. All you gave a [ __ ] with her friends about
01:34:07
was, "Don't think I'm a bad guy. Don't think I'm a bad guy." And now to Nicole, your mistress, you're saying like, "Does
01:34:12
this ruin everything? I don't want it to ruin everything. >> You still want to pursue somebody while
01:34:16
your whole family and children are missing?" And Nicole even said like Kessinger even said that at this time he
01:34:22
did not seem concerned for his family and instead was solely focused on their relationship.
01:34:28
>> That had to have been scary. >> Yeah. And I think it was for her. Also, there was some talk about like should I
01:34:35
pawn her wedding ring >> that was going on during this time. I don't know exactly what was said, so I
01:34:41
won't pretend I do, but there was like some talk of that. >> Why would you pawn her wedding ring?
01:34:45
>> Exactly. She's just missing. >> On August 14th, he the next day he gave what is quite possibly the most damning
01:34:54
and guilty interview with the Denver ABC affiliate station that I have ever or will ever see in my life.
01:35:00
>> We were pausing at certain parts like just like to move on to the next thing.
01:35:04
And he if you pause, he will be full-blown smiling ear to ear at certain points.
01:35:09
>> I have watched this video like a hundred times at this point. And then I watched
01:35:13
this um there's this umangage clinical psychologist and body language expert Dr. G on he's on Tik Tok and on YouTube
01:35:22
I think um we'll link him because he's I think he's fascinating. >> Um he's really good at like analyzing
01:35:28
these things because he doesn't go overboard and he'll say like hey don't pay attention to this thing this isn't
01:35:34
really telling kind of thing. Um, so I watched it a bunch, then I watched a video with him to go through it. And
01:35:40
what I saw was Chris Watts is [ __ ] deadeyed in this. Like deadeyed to the point where you're like,
01:35:46
>> is this a condition? Like what's going on? Why do you have nothing behind there?
01:35:50
>> No affect smiling. No effect. We're going to get to that. >> No affect at all though. No affect. Just
01:35:57
dead. Monotone. Can't even come up with an emotion. There are several things that I noticed here. So, one, he
01:36:04
swallows hard several times. Big gulping swallows. >> Huge gulps. >> Noticeably,
01:36:09
>> he's pursing his lips and gritting his teeth, which he does during the video with Nate as well. Whenever Nate will
01:36:15
point something out, he grits his teeth. >> Mhm. >> That seems to be one of his tells. When
01:36:20
he mentions Cece or Bella, he closes his eyes every single time. >> Mhm. >> And what Dr. G when I watched him said
01:36:28
about that particular thing because I was wondering what that meant. He said that this could be that what happened
01:36:34
espec because he particularly does it when he says Bella. >> Yeah. >> And he said this could be that he said I
01:36:39
I feel like something particularly heinous happened there that he's trying to block out of his head or just doesn't
01:36:45
want to watch again or knows it was particularly bad. And when we get into the details I'm not going to go into
01:36:50
like super details because to be honest my psyche can't handle it. But I know them now and I'll work through that. But
01:36:57
he is correct that there was extra stuff with Bella that I assume. I mean he's not a real person. So I don't I don't
01:37:07
know what if that's just to me that blink that slow close of his eyes is more what I analyze it as is like that's
01:37:16
your child. So biologically there has to be something that zings a little with your child. Maybe I'm not a psychopath.
01:37:23
So, I don't know if they have that, >> but like I imagine there has to be some kind of primitive biological
01:37:30
evolutionary connection to your child that like >> something that awful your body would
01:37:35
just kind of like without even an emotion attached to it just like >> save yourself from.
01:37:40
>> It's a it's a body response. >> Yeah. I think it's not a a heart or soul response. I think it's a bodily
01:37:46
physiological response that like comes from [ __ ] when we were sludged >> involuntary. It's like uh your brain is
01:37:54
like, "Oh [ __ ] my job is to protect you from that, so I'm going to close your eyes." You know what I mean? Like I
01:37:59
think it's that clinical. >> It's just like how your body keeps breathing even like
01:38:02
>> Yeah. I don't think it's that >> he has a feeling about it. Like I don't think he cares. I don't think that it
01:38:08
hurts him. I think he just has a primitive like, >> "Yeah, that was really bad, you know,
01:38:13
like." And so he closes his eyes cuz he does it every time. It's very noticeable
01:38:17
and very consistent. Uh he's swaying, he's hugging himself, which could and and when I watched the Dr. G video, he
01:38:24
also said this. That's like a self soothing thing and also like a nervous thing.
01:38:28
>> So even if he was actually missing, he might have done the same thing. >> Yeah. Like I don't I would probably do
01:38:33
that too, I guess. I don't know. But then he smiles >> a lot. >> A lot. >> He cannot It's again It seems
01:38:42
involuntary. He can't [ __ ] help it. Well, and it starts when the interviewer said when he tells the interviewer that
01:38:48
he hopes Shenan and the kids are safe. That's when he starts smiling because he knows they're not.
01:38:54
And there's something called Duper's Delight. I find this so fascinating. So, so horrible, but so fascinating.
01:39:01
>> So, basically what Duper's Delight is, and this has been connected to him a lot.
01:39:05
>> Yeah. is that like somebody who lies and you know manipulates will feel like a
01:39:11
smuggness and like some kind of delight like a happiness >> when they are deceiving someone
01:39:16
>> or they think they are at the least >> and they're when they're getting away with it which he is right now.
01:39:21
>> So that's that's genuine >> and it manifests as this little like smirk or like grin that he gets. He gets
01:39:28
it often in this interview. It's not. And I'm glad that like because when I was watching it, I was like, listen, I
01:39:34
will smile in weird situations because I get nervous and I'm social when your three children are missing.
01:39:40
>> This is just simply not one of I will I will tell you, sure, don't judge people's responses to certain things. I
01:39:46
100% judge this because there is I was saying this earlier, my body wouldn't be able to form a smile. No. If my children
01:39:54
were actually missing and my husband was missing, I would be in such severe grief
01:40:00
and turmoil that my body would forget had to smile. I would never be able to have a smile again. I just wouldn't.
01:40:08
Especially not hours after it happened when we don't know what's going on with them.
01:40:11
>> He also just like looks like he's acting insane obviously, but he looks put together. He does not look disheveled.
01:40:18
He doesn't look like he's been crying. He's not crying. >> Yep. When he says, "If they're safe now,
01:40:24
they're going to come back." He knows they aren't. So, he's not That's a way of him not lying. He's saying, "If
01:40:30
they're safe, then they're going to come back." >> But they're not. >> But they're not
01:40:33
>> because he killed them. >> So, I don't have to lie here. So, this is comforting. And he looks comforted.
01:40:38
He's like >> like very smug. >> Yeah. Like smirk. >> Like he almost got away with something
01:40:42
there. And he says it a couple of times. And as the interview goes and he talks about the empty house and how he hates
01:40:48
it, he smiles more and more. That empty house made him so happy. >> Yeah. >> When the interviewer says he's gonna ask
01:40:55
some tough questions, he purses his lips. And according to Dr. G, that's to literally hold things in or it's because
01:41:02
he knows he's got to keep his mouth shut. >> Mhm. >> It's a response that we have when we
01:41:07
know we have to keep quiet about something. So, it's like literally physically keep it in.
01:41:12
>> And he also had one thing he misses about them is what he said. He >> was nuts. He was like, "Yeah, I just,
01:41:18
you know, I miss and it's what he misses about them since they've been gone is telling them they can't have a treat if
01:41:25
they don't eat finish their dinner. >> That's that's the memory you chose of all the memories that you've created
01:41:31
over the three and four years that they've been." >> One memory you could come up with was I
01:41:35
miss telling them they can't have dessert >> and them snuggling on their own couch
01:41:39
watching TV >> by themselves watching TV. >> Not even like being snuggled up with
01:41:43
them on our couch watching TV together. Literally my first thought as like I'm like you don't miss cuddling them. You
01:41:50
don't miss holding them. You don't miss their smell. You don't miss the sound of
01:41:53
their voice. You don't miss tucking them into bed. >> You miss shoving them in front of a TV
01:41:59
on their own designated area >> and not having anything to do with them and just putting on bubble guppies
01:42:04
>> and telling them that they won't have a treat if they don't finish dinner. >> Like what that that alone is like what
01:42:09
diabolical. who don't have any other. I'm like, "Yeah, you >> He didn't Google what people would miss
01:42:14
about their children before him." >> Literally. And that's not even a joke. That's like real.
01:42:18
>> No, I'm being dead serious. >> I genuinely think he would have he would have Googled it if he thought he could
01:42:24
get away with it. >> Just like he googled what does it feel like when someone says they love you?
01:42:28
>> The more he talks about no one being in the house the night before, the more he
01:42:32
smiles. Like he's like, I you know, I didn't put on their rain machine and I didn't turn on their monitor and I
01:42:38
didn't put them into bed. The more he says, the more he smiles. And Dr. G pointed out that this is as he lists the
01:42:44
responsibilities associated with having children. He smiles more because he doesn't have them
01:42:50
now. >> So [ __ ] >> And he full out laughs at one point. >> It's not even like a huh, it's a
01:42:58
>> no. He literally says, "I just want them back." And the most genuine smile crosses right into his eyes for the
01:43:05
first time. He has life in his eyes. >> He laughs. He literally goes, "I just want them back."
01:43:13
>> If you pause it too, he is gritting from ear to ear. We were watching it with
01:43:16
Debbie and she was like, "I would think that this is somebody being interviewed about like their child making the honor
01:43:20
roll or like a a sports win like >> being so proud of them." >> What >> it is one of the most chilling and at
01:43:27
one point he's blinking overtime when they ask him if he was searching like if he was out searching
01:43:34
>> which he would be doing. He starts saying, "No, the police told me I shouldn't because I wouldn't even know
01:43:38
what I was looking for." And he starts blinking and it's he wasn't doing this before
01:43:42
>> cuz they didn't say that. >> And he starts blinking like crazy. And then the cameraman does the [ __ ]
01:43:48
Lorts work and zooms right in on his face as he is blinking like a crazy person.
01:43:53
>> And he continues to blink as they ask about like, "Did the neighbors go? Did they go door to door? Like what
01:43:58
happened?" He keeps blinking while he's saying no and blah blah blah. Like he just starts losing it. like he's losing
01:44:04
it. And the and he's trying to to act like he's crying, but there is absolutely no tears.
01:44:10
>> There's no moisture. >> And and he only tries that once. He tries to pretend like as he's saying
01:44:15
that, I think it's during like the I didn't turn on the rain machine and blah blah blah. He tries to act like make his
01:44:21
voice sound like it's about to cry, but then he starts smiling. So, he real I think he just abandons that. And I
01:44:27
remember seeing this interview on the news in 2018 standing in my living room and I looked right at John and I said,
01:44:35
"He did it." >> Yeah. >> And I remember John had just walked in the room. He hadn't seen the interview
01:44:40
and I was like, "This guy did it." And he was like, "What is this?" And I told him what it was. And he was like,
01:44:44
"That's horrific." Like, "What do you mean that he killed his wife pregnant wife and his two babies? Like what?" And
01:44:51
I was like, "He did it?" Like I remember vividly. I sent it to you. I was literally like, "This guy killed his
01:44:57
entire family." I It was >> the most obvious interview you have ever seen, >> right? Cuz I'm sure probably once you
01:45:04
showed John the full thing, he was like, "Oh, yeah." >> Oh. Showing it to him the other I showed
01:45:07
it to him last night cuz I was like, "This is the interview I was talking about." And he was like, "Oh, fuck."
01:45:11
Like he was just like, "What the fuck?" >> And yeah, so that interview happened the
01:45:15
very next day. And I so glad he did that interview. And he had actually said to Sandy, Shannan's mom, there's an
01:45:24
interview with her where she says she had actually advised him not to do any interviews because she said, "You're the
01:45:30
last person who saw them. I just don't think you should give any interviews right now. I think you should be talking
01:45:35
to investigators and that's it." >> Which wild that like >> like that shows who she is that even she
01:45:41
was trying to like help him out there. >> Yeah. because and um he obviously didn't
01:45:46
listen. And she said about that particular interview, she said, "I thank God he didn't listen to me."
01:45:51
>> Every single day, >> every single she said, "I thank God >> that might make me listen to God." She
01:45:56
was like, "That that was perfect." Like, "Thank you for doing that." >> Yep. >> And so that's how his that's how her mom
01:46:05
was handling it. And then his mom in the interview that came out later with her said that at this point his mom believed
01:46:11
that Shan Shannan had just take taken the girls and left. She didn't think that they were actually missing. Um we
01:46:19
are going to get into what happens next which it happens pretty quick thanks to everybody being
01:46:24
so fast and everybody pressing on him, everyone not giving him a second to formulate a coherent story or cover
01:46:31
story. It's honestly when you see because his co-workers started to uh turning and basically being like people
01:46:39
around him were being like, "Oh, I think he was having an affair by the way." And
01:46:42
like, "Hey, you should know this and hey, you should know that." Meanwhile, her people like her crew were all like
01:46:49
rallying to find her, rallying to get everything done. Like the difference in the people that he had versus the people
01:46:57
she did because it shows you who they were. >> He didn't have a lot of friends. >> Yeah, he didn't.
01:47:01
>> She did. He didn't. And the people that were around him, a lot of them were like, "Uh, no thank you."
01:47:06
>> Yeah. >> So, what we are going to do is part two will be going right into when he is
01:47:11
taken in and has to take a polygraph and that is when everything unravels and when the real story comes out
01:47:17
>> and we will talk about that and then we will get into the paranormal aspects,
01:47:20
some of the weird aspects of the end of this case. >> Um, so stay tuned for that.
01:47:26
>> All right, brothers. Oh, let me get a fun fact. >> A really fun fact. I have to get the
01:47:31
bonus fact >> cuz this is destroying my psyche. >> Nutmeg is technically a hallucinagen.
01:47:38
>> I didn't know that. >> I didn't know that either. This is from Cosmopolitan. It says, "The spice
01:47:41
contains mistressin, a natural compound that has mindaltering effects if ingested in large doses."
01:47:48
>> Damn. >> So, it's a good thing that when we were all doing the cinnamon challenge, we
01:47:52
didn't do the nutmeg challenge. >> Holy [ __ ] I did not do the cinnamon challenge.
01:47:55
>> I didn't do it willingly. >> You didn't do it willingly? >> No. My friend What does that mean? I
01:47:59
didn't know that you couldn't swallow cinnamon. Why would I know that? >> Yeah. >> I was like 14.
01:48:03
>> I was going to say you were young. >> I was young. So I tried and I choked and
01:48:07
almost died and then >> Yeah, that can literally kill you. >> Yeah, it almost killed me in
01:48:11
>> Don't do those stupid [ __ ] challenges everybody because most of them can kill
01:48:14
you. Everyone's just lucky that they didn't die. >> Exactly. >> People did die, I think, with that one
01:48:18
>> of the cinnamon challenge. >> Yeah, I think that actually like hurt people. >> Okay, that's not a fun fact. But the
01:48:22
fact that nutmeg is a hallucinagen is fun fact or can be a hallucinagen. >> I'll take that one as the fun. I put
01:48:27
nutmeg in a lot of stuff, especially in the fall. >> Oh, in the fall. >> I better be careful.
01:48:31
>> I'm tripping in here. >> Maybe that's why we're all tripping. We love the fall so much.
01:48:36
>> Fall so much. >> [ __ ] Everyone's like, "Woo!" >> Yeah, I like that. Period.
01:48:42
>> All right. >> Hell yeah. >> Well, we love you guys. We hope you keep listening
01:48:45
>> and we hope you keep it weird. You better not have to have me tell you not to keep it as weird as Chris
01:48:52
[ __ ] stupid ass Cars Watts. >> But I'm telling you, don't keep it that weird. Go look at the discovery
01:48:58
documents. They're fascinating and horrifying. >> Keep it that weird. >> Yeah. >> Bye, dolls. Bye.

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Episode Highlights

  • Shannan's Lupus Diagnosis
    In 2010, Shannan was diagnosed with lupus, leaving her feeling lost and terrified.
    “When they diagnosed me with lupus, I was lost.”
    @ 18m 26s
    May 11, 2026
  • The First Date
    Shannan and Chris's first date was disappointing, with little chemistry between them.
    “They had very little in common and a complete lack of chemistry.”
    @ 19m 21s
    May 11, 2026
  • Engagement and Family Tensions
    Chris proposed to Shannan, but family tensions escalated, leading to his parents not attending the wedding.
    “We didn't attend because Shannan and I just couldn't get along.”
    @ 34m 02s
    May 11, 2026
  • Wedding Day Emotions
    Frankie recalls crying tears of gratitude during Shannan's wedding. "I was crying, thanking God for him being in my sister's life."
    “I was crying, thanking God for him being in my sister's life.”
    @ 34m 48s
    May 11, 2026
  • Couple Goals
    Friends viewed Chris and Shannan as the ideal couple, prompting envy. "Why aren't we like that?"
    “Why aren't we like that?”
    @ 38m 59s
    May 11, 2026
  • Underwhelming Reaction
    Chris's response to Shannan's pregnancy announcement was surprisingly flat. "Awesome."
    “Awesome.”
    @ 49m 59s
    May 11, 2026
  • Google Searches Expose Lies
    Chris searches for advice on love while his wife is emotionally distressed.
    “What does it feel like when someone says I love you?”
    @ 59m 21s
    May 11, 2026
  • The Secret Calculator App
    Chris Watts used a secret calculator app to hide incriminating photos and messages.
    “Let me tell you, go take a peek at those discovery documents and read the text messages.”
    @ 01h 08m 18s
    May 11, 2026
  • Suspicious Behavior
    Chris Watts' behavior raised alarms among Shannan's friends as they couldn't reach her.
    “Queen [ __ ] Right now, I don't care about you or your relationship.”
    @ 01h 17m 05s
    May 11, 2026
  • The Unbelievable Commercial
    A bizarre coincidence occurs as Chris sees a commercial about a fetus while confessing.
    “What are the odds that those two images were next to each other?”
    @ 01h 29m 50s
    May 11, 2026
  • The Facetime Call
    Chris facetimes his mistress while his family is missing, showing his lack of concern.
    “Why would you want to wash the sheets when your wife went missing?”
    @ 01h 32m 54s
    May 11, 2026
  • The Chilling Interview
    Witnessing the interview, she immediately knew, 'He did it.'
    “He did it.”
    @ 01h 44m 35s
    May 11, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • When they diagnosed me with lupus, I was lost.
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)
  • He's like a lizard person.
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)
  • The lights aren't even on at this point.
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)
  • How do you fall in love with out of love with someone in 5 weeks?
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)
  • It's something about that just like threw me for a loop.
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)
  • That's when he starts smiling because he knows they're not.
    Episode 783: The Watts Family Murders (Part 1)

Key Moments

  • First Date19:10
  • Family Tensions28:30
  • Lies and Deception51:58
  • Secret Communications55:06
  • Desperate Pleas1:03:36
  • Secret Calculator App1:08:23
  • Bizarre Coincidence1:29:50
  • Longing1:43:00

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