What I Learned Growing Up Homeschooled (And What I Missed) | EXHS #49

Ex-Homeschoolers Club

  • Sep 4, 2025
  • 1:02:47
  • Full Episode

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In this solo episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm turning the mic on myself to share my full homeschooling journey. From starting in second grade to navigating private Christian homeschool co-ops in Southern California, I unpack the curriculum choices, the socialization opportunities, the challenges, and the lessons I carried into college and adulthood. I reflect on the strengths and weaknesses of Christian-based education, the role of extracurriculars like swing dance and theater, and how homeschooling shaped my worldview, work ethic, and career. This is a candid look at my personal story and what I’ve learned about education, growth, and identity along the way.

*Key Takeaways:* - Insights into different types of homeschooling: private, charter, and unschooling. - Curriculum that worked (Math-U-See, Story of the World) and what fell short (Spanish with Rosetta Stone). - The role of co-ops, church groups, and extracurriculars in building socialization skills. - How Christian-based curriculum shaped my early worldview—and where it left gaps. - Transitioning from homeschool to college: challenges, growth, and learning to adapt.

*Resources Mentioned:* - Math-U-See (math curriculum) - Story of the World (history curriculum) - Exploring Creation (science curriculum) - Rod & Staff English - Rosetta Stone (language learning) - CHEA (Christian Home Educators Association)

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Brief Summary

Jacob Gooden shares his homeschooling journey, discussing curriculum, socialization, and college experiences.

Key points

  • Homeschool Experience Overview. Jacob shares his journey through homeschooling, highlighting its impact on his education.
  • Types of Homeschooling. Jacob discusses various homeschooling methods, including private, public, and unschooling.
  • Curriculum Choices. Jacob reflects on the curriculums he used, including Matthew C and Rod and Staff.
  • The Dangers of a Narrow Curriculum. Exploring the limitations of a strictly Christian homeschooling curriculum and its impact on critical thinking.
  • Building Social Connections. The importance of socialization in homeschooling through church and community activities.
  • Extracurricular Activities and Growth. How extracurriculars like swing dance shaped social skills and confidence.

Tension

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