My Homeschool Experience: What Worked, What Didn't & What I'd Change

Ex-Homeschoolers Club

  • Sep 18, 2026
  • 55:59
  • Full Episode

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On today's show, I dive deep into my personal journey growing up as a homeschool kid in Southern California. From starting out in public school to transitioning into home education for 2nd grade and going all the way through high school, this is a candid reflection on how my upbringing shaped my independence, routine, and confidence. I open up about the positive aspects (such as building strong time-management skills and thriving in unique extracurriculars like swing dancing and mime troupe) while addressing the flaws, including creationist-focused science curricula and a lack of exposure to diverse worldviews. Finally, I share my current perspective on the homeschool debate, advocating for common-sense regulations to protect children while emphasizing the need for nuanced, open conversations.

*Key Takeaways* • Transitioning to homeschooling requires intentional structure, but finding the right curriculum and building a strong local community are key to long-term social and academic success. • Experiencing home education can foster strong self-reliance, time-management capabilities, and the flexibility to pursue unique hobbies or business ventures. • A lack of diverse perspectives in faith-based curricula, particularly around science and contrasting worldviews, can create significant knowledge gaps later in life. • Evaluating homeschooling should be done on a case-by-case basis, with an emphasis on common-sense regulations to ensure child safety and educational standards.

*Favorite Quote* "It's not as simple as yes regulation, no regulation. Like, it's not as simple as just saying, 'Let's take existing rules and slap them on this thing.' It's not that easy. It's very much a conversation that needs to continue to happen and evolve with lawmakers, with alumni, with current homeschool families, with the education systems that are building the curriculums that are being used for kids." — Jacob Gooden

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*Chapters* 00:00 Welcome To The Ex-Homeschoolers Club 01:33 Support The Show and Join Book Club 03:30 My Homeschool Experience 18:39 Homeschooling Is A Privilege 19:47 Getting Into College 24:41 If You've Got Questions, Ask Them 25:12 Would I Have Succeeded In Public School? 27:24 3 Thing I Liked About My Homeschool Experience 33:17 Some Things I'd Change About My Homeschool Experience 39:55 Where Do I Stand Today With Homeschooling? 47:48 One Of The Biggest Criticisms Of The Show 48:55 Do You Want To Be A Guest On The Show? 54:13 Recap and Wrap Up

Brief Summary

Jacob Gooden shares his homeschooling journey, discussing challenges, benefits, and the importance of community and structure.

Key points

  • Solo Episode Announcement. Jacob shares his excitement for a solo episode after a backlog of guests.
  • Book Club Introduction. Join Jacob as he discusses the new book for the club, 'A Well-Trained Wife.'
  • Public School Memories. Jacob fondly recalls his early years in public school before transitioning to homeschooling.
  • Finding Community in Homeschooling. Jacob discusses the importance of community in his homeschooling journey.
  • The Privilege of Homeschooling. Reflecting on the advantages of a privileged homeschooling experience.
  • Navigating College Life. The challenges and adjustments faced when transitioning from homeschooling to college.

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