A Public School Teacher's Honest Take on Homeschooling
Episode Description
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In this episode of Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my cousin Amanda, a second-grade public school teacher with 13 years of classroom experience, to explore education from the “dark side.” Haha!
Amanda shares what it’s really like inside today’s public schools: what works, what’s frustrating, and what’s changed over the last decade. From student teaching stories to advocating for kids who need services, she offers an honest look at the realities teachers face, including funding challenges, inclusion classrooms, and navigating parents who are (and aren’t) involved.
We also talk candidly about homeschooling; the myths, the shifts in perception, and the surprising reality that even a public school teacher might consider homeschooling her own children.
*Key Points* • Why Amanda believes second grade is the “sweet spot” • What student teaching really looks like (including full classroom takeover) • How public education has shifted in the last 13 years • The reality of funding and where resources actually go • Why parental involvement makes a massive difference • The biggest myth Amanda had about homeschooling • Why she’s now reconsidering homeschooling for her own kids • What kids actually remember about school (hint: not the standards)
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*Chapters* 00:00 Why She Loves Teaching the Little Ones (Kinder–3rd Vibes) 00:42 Growing Up Public Schooled: Favorite Teachers & Loving School 02:40 When the ‘I Want to Teach’ Lightbulb Turned On 05:15 College Path + Getting Credentialed (5-Year Track) 06:36 Student Teaching Stories: Kindergarten, 6th Grade & Full Class Takeover 09:43 13 Years in the Classroom: Landing in 2nd Grade for Good 10:47 Why Second Grade Is the Sweet Spot: Independence & Interests Bloom 13:23 Which Grades Are ‘Best’ to Teach? (And Why Junior High Is a No) 15:19 Homeschooling From the Other Side: Myths, Social Life & Changing Views 18:19 Homeschool Reality Check: Isolation, Co-ops, and Different Kids Thrive Differently 20:00 How Public School Has Changed: Funding, Services, and Advocating for Kids 23:14 Fighting for Students Without Support at Home 23:40 Where the Money Goes: New Schools vs. Student Services 25:32 Is Public Education ‘Broken’? Advocacy & Community Support 26:21 Parents: Get Involved, Ask Questions, Know Your Rights 29:39 Beyond Parents: Voting, Bonds, and Showing Up to Board Meetings 32:03 Has a Public School Teacher Considered Homeschooling? 34:10 Homeschool Reality Check: Space, Structure, and the Mom/Teacher Blur 36:44 How Much Freedom Do Teachers Have? Standards, Pacing, and Customization 40:57 What Kids Actually Remember: Hands-On Learning Over Test Prep 42:36 Final Takeaway: Whatever You Choose, Stay Involved 44:29 Wrap-Up, Thanks, and Call to Action
Brief Summary
Jacob G and Amanda discuss public education, teaching experiences, and the importance of parental involvement in children's learning.
Key points
- Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club. Jacob introduces Amanda, a public school teacher, to discuss education experiences.
- Amanda's Teaching Journey. Amanda shares her path to becoming a teacher and her experiences in student teaching.
- The Shift in Second Graders. Amanda describes the transition from needing help to gaining independence in second grade.
- The Shift in Education. A discussion on the evolving landscape of public education and parental involvement.
- Advocating for Kids. The importance of parental involvement in advocating for children's educational needs.
- Homeschooling Considerations. Exploring the potential shift to homeschooling and its challenges.
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Episode highlights
- Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers ClubJacob introduces Amanda, a public school teacher, to discuss education experiences.“Today I’ve got a very special guest, my cousin Amanda.”0:54Feb 20, 2026
- Amanda's Teaching JourneyAmanda shares her path to becoming a teacher and her experiences in student teaching.“I think each year just kind of solidified this is what I want to do.”3:39Feb 20, 2026
- The Shift in Second GradersAmanda describes the transition from needing help to gaining independence in second grade.“They’re doing it on their own. That’s amazing.”11:45Feb 20, 2026
- The Shift in EducationA discussion on the evolving landscape of public education and parental involvement.“There’s a hopefulness and dread within the public school system.”20:21Feb 20, 2026
- Advocating for KidsThe importance of parental involvement in advocating for children's educational needs.“When parents are involved, kids get services they weren’t getting before.”28:32Feb 20, 2026
- Homeschooling ConsiderationsExploring the potential shift to homeschooling and its challenges.“I don’t think you really know until you’re in it.”33:44Feb 20, 2026
- Hands-On Learning SticksExperiential learning creates lasting memories for students.“It’s one thing to read it but then to see it...”40:48Feb 20, 2026
- Education is Always ChangingThe landscape of education is continuously evolving, requiring adaptability.“Education is always shifting.”42:53Feb 20, 2026





