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Cecilia Robinson: The Loss You Didn't See #shorts

June 23, 202500:52
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I couldn't stay pregnant and so like
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that's quite traumatizing you know we
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went for over 20 weeks with our first
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baby that was still born and that was
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really difficult right I think the
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problematic thing was after that that
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the clinicians or the doctors at that
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point kind of said oh well look
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lightning doesn't strike twice you
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should just go again there's nothing
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wrong with you and then we had a similar
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experience the next year losing another
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baby at 17 weeks and I lost the the
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girls within a day of each other so the
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year prior on like June 24th I'd found
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out that we lost the baby and on June
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23rd the next year I lost the second
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baby and that was the emotionally,
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physically, you know, for everyone it
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was really hard, right? You know, 11
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years ago, James gave me this gorgeous
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little outfit for our baby girl that we
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knew we were expecting and then, you
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know, 8 weeks later we lost her. And so,
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you just don't know what people's
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journeys look like, right? You just have
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no clue. And you can't assume just
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because they kind of have everything
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that they've ever wanted that they can't
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empathize with you because in fact, many
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people can, right?

Podspun Insights

In this poignant episode, listeners are invited into a deeply personal journey of loss and resilience. The guest shares the heart-wrenching experience of losing two babies, recounting the emotional turmoil and the societal misconceptions surrounding pregnancy loss. With raw honesty, they reflect on the insensitivity of well-meaning clinicians and the isolation that often accompanies such grief. The narrative unfolds with a mix of sorrow and strength, highlighting the importance of empathy and understanding in the face of tragedy. This episode is a powerful reminder that everyone has their own struggles, often hidden beneath the surface, and that compassion is crucial in our interactions with others.

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    Most heartbreaking
  • 90
    Most emotional
  • 90
    Best performance
  • 85
    Most dramatic

Episode Highlights

  • Dismissive Clinicians
    After a stillbirth, doctors told her to try again, minimizing her pain.
    “Lightning doesn’t strike twice, you should just go again.”
    @ 00m 14s
    June 23, 2025
  • The Pain of Loss
    A mother shares her heartbreaking journey of losing multiple pregnancies.
    “You just don’t know what people’s journeys look like.”
    @ 00m 40s
    June 23, 2025

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Trauma00:02
  • Heartbreak00:05
  • Empathy00:46