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The Loss of Connor Garden-Bachop

February 20, 202501:02
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last year
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2024 it looks like an epic year right
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you become a dad for the third time you
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have you won 100th game for Wellington
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you win the is it still called NPC
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what's it called yeah yeah you're on
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fire you're playing rugby in France
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everything's going good and then your um
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your you know your brother um passes
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away at the age of 25 obviously I played
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my H 100th game for Wellington we won
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the championship but I wasn't not
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supposed to be there four months ago
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four months before that like I was in
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France and just been in the offseason I
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was i' just driven back from Spain the
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night before and you know I had no
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thoughts of playing for Wellington at
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all probably ever again cuz I I was
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doing the overseas thing so yeah that
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that was pretty confronting on on the on
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the week of that final especially in my
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100th game everyone saying congrats you
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know do this for your brother your
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brother brought you home for this and
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it's was like far right like thanks bro
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like I'd rather you didn't it real
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bizarre trying to trying to give myself
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permission to be happy in those moments
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where I was really feeling

Podspun Insights

In this poignant episode, the conversation takes a deep dive into the complexities of life, loss, and triumph. The guest reflects on a year filled with highs—becoming a father for the third time, winning his 100th game for Wellington, and achieving championship glory—juxtaposed with the profound grief of losing his brother at just 25. As he recounts the emotional rollercoaster of that championship week, the struggle to find joy amidst sorrow becomes palpable. The candid discussion reveals the raw reality of balancing personal milestones with heart-wrenching loss, making it a compelling exploration of resilience and the human spirit.

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  • 95
    Most heartbreaking
  • 92
    Best performance
  • 90
    Most emotional
  • 90
    Best overall

Episode Highlights

  • A Heartfelt Tribute
    In his 100th game, he plays for his late brother, navigating joy and grief.
    “Everyone saying congrats... do this for your brother.”
    @ 00m 43s
    February 20, 2025

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Tragedy Strikes00:16
  • 100th Game00:20
  • Emotional Conflict00:56