“They Came To Kill Me” - Tāme Iti on Forgiveness, Activism & Finding Peace
Episode Description
On this episode, Tame Iti. One of Aotearoa’s most iconic and misunderstood figures.
You probably have an opinion of Tame Iti and think you know who he is. This long form conversation will either change your mind or reinforce what you already believe to be true, and either of those outcomes are fine.
Over seven decades, Tame has been called many things: activist, radical, artist, terrorist, troublemaker… and now, national treasure.
Some of the stuff we cover in this conversation includes:
What really happened the morning the Armed Offenders Squad stormed his home and accused him of being a terrorist, and how he’s made peace with it.
Reflections on serving time in Waikeria prison, confronting anger, and finding growth behind bars.
Meeting Nelson Mandela, shooting the flag, being nominated for New Zealander of the Year, appearing on Celebrity Treasure Island, going viral on TikTok and lots more.
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Chapters
00:00 – The evolution of Tame Iti: from “villain” to national treasure 05:00 – Art as activism — the meaning behind the flag-shooting incident 12:00 – Childhood memories in Ruatoki and being raised by grandparents 20:00 – Being left in a nail box and growing up between two families 26:00 – Punished for speaking te reo — and how it shaped his resistance 33:00 – Wrestling champion turned activist 41:00 – The Māori Tent Embassy and land marches 52:00 – The story behind his moko and its cultural resurgence 1:04:00 – The 2007 Urewera raids and being labelled a terrorist 1:17:00 – Life in Waikeria Prison — anger, growth, and perspective 1:25:00 – Meeting Nelson Mandela and the global struggle for justice 1:31:00 – Cycling, veganism, and giving up smoking 1:34:00 – Planning for the future — and even for death 1:41:00 – Regrets, legacy, and the art of letting go 1:49:00 – Final words: “Smile. Be good. Be kind.”
Brief Summary
Tame Iti discusses his book "Mana," activism, personal growth, and reflections on happiness and legacy.
Key points
- No Regrets. The guest reflects on their past actions without remorse.
- Childhood Memories. The guest recalls their unique upbringing and early memories.
- Father-Son Relationship. He reflects on his desire to connect with his father, revealing deep emotional layers.
- Childhood Awareness. He shares insights about his childhood understanding of social injustices.
- First Encounter with Police. A childhood memory of being stopped by police while driving a tractor.
- Positive Community Reaction. The community's positive response to the speaker's mo.
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Episode highlights
- No RegretsThe guest reflects on their past actions without remorse.“No apologies for all those moments.”6:24Nov 12, 2025
- Childhood MemoriesThe guest recalls their unique upbringing and early memories.“I can always remember standing underneath the table.”16:50Nov 12, 2025
- Father-Son RelationshipHe reflects on his desire to connect with his father, revealing deep emotional layers.“I wanted to know about him. I wanted to have a close relationship with him.”23:46Nov 12, 2025
- Childhood AwarenessHe shares insights about his childhood understanding of social injustices.“You know, as a child, you learn that your eyes, I had eyes, I can see things.”33:11Nov 12, 2025
- First Encounter with PoliceA childhood memory of being stopped by police while driving a tractor.“I think I was only 13, but he caught up with the old man.”44:09Nov 12, 2025
- Positive Community ReactionThe community's positive response to the speaker's mo.“Yeah, most of it admiration. They thought that it suited me at that time.”54:52Nov 12, 2025
- Admiration for ActivismExpressing admiration for the speaker's commitment to activism.“I think it’s admirable. I kind of wish I was more like you in that respect.”58:51Nov 12, 2025
- Anniversary of the ArrestReflecting on the impact of an arrest for terrorism 18 years ago, the speaker shares deep emotions.“It still sits with you then.”1:10:12Nov 12, 2025





