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Hi, everybody. I'm Josh Mankiewicz, and we are talking Dateline. And today, our guest
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is Keith Morrison. Hi, Keith. Hello, Josh. How are you today? Okay, that was great.
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What do I say? I say hello. Oh. You said hello, Keith. I said hello, Josh. It's starting right away. This episode is called The Sisterhood. Now, if you haven't
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listen to it or if you haven't watched it on television, the link to the episode is in the
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description to this episode. So go there, listen to it. You can also watch it on TV or stream it on
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Peacock and then come back here. Now, today, Keith has a clip that he's going to play for us,
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interviews that did not make the episode. And then later we will answer some of your questions
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about this broadcast from social media. So stick around for that. All right, here we go.
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Um, it really is quite a journey, at least in the mind of the viewer of Bob from kind
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of like, you know, good guy husband to sort of hapless loser who can't really hold a job
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to, you know, widower to possible murderer. No one will hear you if you scream. I mean, you know, he's going from Fred Flintstone to Hannibal Lecter.
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There is a character who appears often in fiction and more often than we would like to think in real life as well.
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And that character is one who puts on a pretty good impression in the first place and can don all kinds of disguises.
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But when it comes right down to it, he's a selfish person who really is not very ambitious about working and supporting a family.
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He just wants stuff. And that appears to have been what this situation was. He doesn't clean out the garage. He just pretends to clean out the garage. He doesn't go to work, really. He just kind of keeps a job enough that he can say he works. And at the same time, he is a very controlling individual in the marriage. I want my candy. I want my girls. I want to have something going on outside the marriage. And so even after he murdered her, even after he was on bail awaiting trial, he was he was going for bicycle rides around the neighborhood where he wasn't supposed to be going.
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and having dates with people. Among all the horrific things that Bob was proven to have done
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and then also alleged to have done, I have to say that using grief counseling as a place to hook up with people
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would, for me, fall very near the top of the list, taking advantage of people who are really at their worst.
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Well, and when you know what happened back at the beginning, which was that he killed her and then he was going to a kind of a religious school and talking to people who run the religious school and picking up his children and bringing them home from school.
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He was able to hide himself during those occasions, and nobody knew otherwise, frankly.
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He then put on such a show in his 911 call that that's one thing that the initial responders were a little suspicious of.
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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine. Oh, please help me, please.
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Help us on the way, sir. that's one thing i uh one thing i want to talk about is that 9-1-1 call um i i thought it was
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great the way you you play it at the beginning and then at the end you do the analysis of it with uh
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with people who have listened to it you know sort of more carefully and you know he sounds like he's calling for help but he's really talking about himself
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uh which i thought was uh was interesting and he's using that he's using his hysteria
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as a way of covering the fact that he's not actually doing anything. It reminded me a little bit of the IVF doctor that you did the story about.
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A little bit, although the IVF doctor put on his, if he made an error in that 911 call,
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at least one that made people suspicious, it was that he adopted too much of the
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examination room attitude, my patient, and yeah, I'm a doctor, and I'm going to keep my cool.
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Bob's hysterical, but he's not actually doing anything. No, he actually wasn't doing anything.
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And as we now know, those bruises on her body came from some other activity altogether.
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And again if we to believe prosecutors and clearly the jury did then she was already dead at that point Not dying not breathing her last She was already gone at that point in which case She been gone for some time Yeah In which case Bob did not
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I mean, again, if you're going to sell the idea that you are trying to bring this person back, this person you have just killed, you're going to have to do a better job of it than that.
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That is true. You had great interviews in this. I mean, her friends were great. I thought the stuff about, you know, the dress, which they sort of loaned back and forth, the sisterhood of the traveling dress.
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I thought that was something. And the detective, I thought was terrific because he felt it just like everybody else did.
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He carried that case around with him for a long time. And I think it bothered him more deeply than I may have realized when we began to talk.
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Yeah. And Susan McBride, who, you know, I think Bob thought, you know, okay, well, that didn't work out.
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I'm never going to hear from her again. And she ends up like sort of driving a stake into him.
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Oh, yes, she was absolutely the key to the case. Without her, it wouldn't happen.
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But again, you know, it's the happenstance of things, right? And she just, you know, not kept in touch with the home front because she went off to Italy.
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Would she ever have known about this? Would she ever have contacted anybody? Clearly, something made her want to investigate Bob a little bit more after the way he behaved.
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Now, plenty of women would just have thought, okay, that guy's a loser. I'm going to block him on social media.
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I'm going to ignore his emails, and I'm going to move on to somebody else. I'm not going to look him up.
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I'm not going to discover that he's married. I'm not going to even have any debate about whether or not to contact his wife.
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But she did all of those things. Yes. This woman figured out he was a cat after all.
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called the wife and blew the whistle. She thought she was doing a good thing. And then she went away.
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And when she came back, she discovered that the victim had died that very day. And it hit her like
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a like a Mack truck, as you can imagine. Like I called I made that call. I talked to that woman.
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And in a matter of hour or two later, she's dead. And so, yes, that's something that Susan has
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carried around with her. At the same time, you know, it was her testimony that made the difference
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in convicting him. The woman who was terribly attacked by Bob, that was a great interview.
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Was it difficult to get her to tell that story? She was reluctant, yes. But she thought about it
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for a time and realized that it was an important story to tell. And often women, in the experience
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of doing these stories will tell us, tell me, I'm sure they tell you that somehow they feel like
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they can't really do anything, like they are powerless in the face of somebody who has taken
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advantage of them or abused them. And it doesn't matter what they say, it's not going to make a
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difference, but it does. And this is one of the stories that indicates it truly does make a
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difference. When we come back, we have more from Keith's interview with former prosecutor Gail
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Strack and attorney Casey Gwynn. So I guess my first question about this is how did this death go down as anything other
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than suspicious from the get go? Because it feels like it took a long time to sort of build suspicion about this.
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It seems like they just kind of bought it from the beginning, bought Bob's story.
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You know, this case took a long time to get to trial, to get to conclusion. Seven years was the process between the time she was killed and the time it was resolved.
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They thought he behaved a little oddly. And they thought, boy, there are a lot of abrasions and things on her body.
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But that makes sense because he dragged her out of the shower and took her into the middle of the room and he was giving her CPR.
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The medical examiner who did the autopsy could not find the cause of death right off the top.
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There was no obvious sign of strangulation, for example. There was no obvious sign of enough brute blunt object force to kill her.
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So they just didn't know for sure. That detective was always kind of suspicious, and he kind of kept at it.
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But he was unable to move against the husband because he didn't have the medical examiner on side.
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There wasn't an indication it was actually a homicide, so he couldn't charge the guy.
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I think that the issue was that the medical examiner who looked at the body initially didn recognize that that was potentially from a strangulation case One of the interesting things about this is that you know that initial determination by law enforcement or by a coroner or medical examiner carries so much weight in so many
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of these cases that we've covered. And everything sort of cascades from that, whether it's, you know, the weight of innocence
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or the weight of guilt. Yeah, the system is front loaded in that interesting way.
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But everything takes so long. The initial determination is so weighty, is so important that it takes a long, long time to undo that, to see a case from the other side.
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That happened in this case, for sure. Let's talk about the Training Institute for Strangulation Prevention.
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I've never heard of them before. How did you guys come across them? And tell me a little bit more about that.
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Our victim's sister who located those people, when we were doing the story and heard about them, they happened to be having a conference not far away from where both the producer and I live.
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And that's where that interview came from that you will see in addition to the material here.
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It's a group who recognize that medical examiners, most prosecutors, most people in local law enforcement in the country are only aware of, you know, one very specific kind of injury from strangulation.
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And they miss a lot. This feels like a good place to listen to this extra sound.
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If you want to see the full video of this, you can see it on our website. It's an interview with the former prosecutor, Gail Strack, and attorney Casey Gwynn.
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And they're talking about the Training Institute of Strangulation Prevention and what can be learned from their work.
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So let's listen to that. The Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention actually started probably in 1995.
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Casey put me in charge of the Domestic Violence Unit. We had two teenagers. Both of them had been choked before they were killed.
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Neither case got prosecuted, and it really changed my life personally. And ever since then, we've been trying to figure out what happened.
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Can we make it better? And can we make it right? Strangulation has been missed for decades and decades in this country.
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There's no black eyes. There's no broken bones. And we didn't understand that for almost 30 years in our work as prosecutors and as social
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change advocates. But the other thing we didn't understand is that men who strangle women are not the same
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as men who push or slap or punch women. If you go after stranglers before they kill, you're getting the killers before the victim is dead.
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Our work has prevented homicides in San Diego, in California, and across America.
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That is certainly provocative, the idea that strangling is a precursor to domestic violence, which is in one form or another so many Dateline episodes and so many stories that we cover.
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The idea that they have, you know, prevented deaths was something I wouldn't ever have considered.
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You know, maybe you discover a death, a reason for death that you didn't weren't aware of.
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That seemed obvious. But to prevent them. Well, I guess so. You know, there's an assault on a woman.
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And if she is able to report what happened to her and they can have a proper look at, you know, her the medical indicators, they can stop that person.
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One of the things I really like about this episode is I always like it when we can sort of take our eyes off the actual story that we're telling and do something a little bit bigger.
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In this case, I'm sort of talking about domestic violence and strangulation and the whole issue of, you know, sort of controlling men like that and where that can lead.
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Well, thank you, Josh. But it does go to the heart of what you and I do and have been doing for years, which is as we set out to do these kinds of crime stories, we came to understand that these are stories of abusive, largely of abusive husbands or abusive men who are damaging women. And it's unfortunately very common.
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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE.
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After a break, we'll be back to answer some of your questions from social media.
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All right let look at some questions from social media joy gimbal says chilling story I pray those kids are getting therapy to heal from years alone with their toxic father
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Well, you know, we're not going to know for a long time sort of what the fallout of this is.
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That's one of the problems with this. Right. Although there is a support group around those children, happily.
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so i think they're probably better off than many other children are in similar circumstances um
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something we were already talking about dr linden p says uh just listen to this episode i think the
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investigation was shoddy two fentanyl patches none in her blood they must have been placed on
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her after death with none in the blood one of the major red flags uh you know poor work by by all
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You know, it clearly did take a long time for this. Yes. Yes. It's a fair point.
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And the fentanyl patches were a tell that should have sent them off in a different direction right off the bat.
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You don't take a shower with two fentanyl patches on your body. in now i do want to say this which is frequently when we do these stories and it takes a very long
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time to try somebody um we can say or it can be said that the delay you know didn't really
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have any result it didn't matter but they didn't kill anybody else in the interim they did
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eventually go to go to prison for killing their wife or husband but in this case that's not true
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But that delay allowed Bob Feldman to do some terrible things. Sure. And could have been more terrible.
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We could have had a repeat of that, of the reason that he was on trial. Girl that J says, good for you, Susan, retaining those emails from nasty Bob Feldman.
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Yeah. Good for her. Again, like there would be ample reason and precedent and no one would ever wonder if she had just thought, you know,
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That guy's a loser. That guy's a jerk. That guy's a liar. I don't like the way he's acting.
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Just erase it all. Yeah. That's it. I'm done with you forever. Instead, she sort of, you know, kept going, dug into it.
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Good for her. Here's somebody who wrote, an awkward swim with Bob Feldman is my new band name.
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It does. That does have a great punk rock ring to it, I have to say. Yeah. It just shows you if you have a pool, you'll have a lot of friends.
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Sure. pool in denver and and places like that especially there aren't quite as many pools as
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as there are right around where you live i know josh no it's just one big pool here in california
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yeah i don't personally have one because you probably do you do you're probably cleaning it
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this morning aren't you i see you with one of that that big long thing fishing the leaves out
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of there and holding this glass of wine while you're in the other hand while you're doing it
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saying, you know. That would be perfect, wouldn't it? Is that a leaf on the bottom of the pool? I actually
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I have something that I've got for you that I keep waiting to see you in person so I
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can give it to you. It's a fabulous wine glass which I have something white behind it
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so that people can see it a little better. There it's got your sketch on it, which is pretty good.
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What does it say there? There's some printing there. What does that say? It says here, an ordinary glass of wine, or was it?
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Or was it? So this is going to be yours someday when next we meet. That's very kind.
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This has been waiting for you for a long time. I've been meaning to give this to you, and then I never see you.
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So how are we going to arrange to get this thing transferred? I don't know. Maybe, yeah, give it to one of the producers who sees you more than I do,
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which would be, you know, all of them. Keith, as always, it's been a pleasure. And when I say pleasure, I'm making quote marks with my fingers.
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I'm so touched by that. Very impressed. I knew you would be. Yeah. That's Talking Dateline for this week.
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