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Talking Dateline: Secrets in the Mist

June 18, 2025 /

This episode features Dennis Murphy and Keith Morrison discussing the Dateline episode "Secrets in the Mist," which covers the disappearance of Carol Lubon in 1981.

Carol vanished under mysterious circumstances, leading her family to initially believe she had started a new life. Over time, investigators, including Los Angeles ADA John Lewin, uncovered evidence that pointed to her husband, Mike Lubon, as the killer.

The conversation highlights the challenges faced by prosecutors in a no-body case and the innovative use of social media to gather evidence. Keith and Dennis reflect on the emotional impact of the case on Carol's family and the eventual confession by Mike.

They also discuss the trial, the dynamics within the Lubon family, and the eventual sentencing of Mike to 15 years to life. The episode concludes with updates on Mike's life after prison and his relationship with his son, Mike Jr.

Listeners are encouraged to engage with the show on social media and check out other related podcasts.

TLDR

Dennis Murphy and Keith Morrison discuss Carol Lubon's disappearance and her husband's eventual confession in a complex murder case.

Episode

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Hey everyone, it's Dennis Murphy here and we are talking Dateline. Today I'm pleased to say I'm joined by Keith Morrison to discuss his episode, Secrets in
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the Mist. If you haven't listened to this episode yet, it's the episode two below this one on your
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Dateline feed. So go there, listen to it and stream it on Peacock and then come back here.
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Hey Keith, it's good to see you. Always nice to be in your company. Good to see you, Dennis.
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A delight. I really enjoyed this story. I think of it as not so much as a whodunit is, aren't they going to be able to get him?
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But let's do a little recap before we talk about the spot. It's about 27-year-old Carol Lubon.
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She vanished in the middle of the night in 1981. Her family imagined that she'd moved on and built herself a better life somewhere else.
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But as years went by without hearing from Carol, those closest to her and investigators
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wondered if something far more sinister had happened. Good old-fashioned detective work and the social media app Facebook
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finally took investigators to the killer. It turned out to be none other than Carol's husband, Mike.
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For this Talking Dateline, we have an extra clip from Keith's interview with Mike and Carol's son, Mike Jr.
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So let's dive in and talk Dateline, Keith. You know, I was struck by how little the prosecutors had to work with here.
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Were you? Well, exactly. And this is one of the cases we did with a Los Angeles ADA named John Lewin.
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he specialized in and i think still does whenever he can uh in uh you could call them high motive
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low evidence cases he calls them that himself so they're very difficult to prove no body case
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cynical wisdom is no body no crime how are you going to present your case right you can't
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persuasively tell the jury that in fact the victim is dead yes exactly right and and in this case
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The victim said several times she'd just leave and go off and live a different life with a different guy somewhere else.
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So there was every reason for her family to kind of overcome their worries and decide that she'd just gone on to live a different life.
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And that's why it took so long to solve this case. But eventually, Lewin and his chief investigator, Jim Wallace, decided they were going to take this on.
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And Wallace was able to come up with this forensic idea where you put out a Facebook post.
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When Carol disappeared back in 81, there wasn't such a thing as Facebook. No Facebook, no cell phones.
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This was a long time back. This was a cold, cold case. Cold case. But in 2009, 2010, when they were doing this investigation, they got the idea if they put something on Facebook.
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And if she was around, somebody surely would respond to their Facebook post. Nobody did.
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And that was used as one of the pieces of evidence to prove that she was dead. That really was a leg of evidence in the trial.
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Exactly. Keith, I think you and I are both great believers in having a sense of place for where the story is taking place.
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And you opened this one with very moody shots of the water and fog and boats. Right.
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And, of course, you don't reveal all about why the boat is there, but it's a visual tease, if I can put it that way.
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It's what's going to come down the line. You don't know why. You don't exactly know where.
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You just know that something's going to happen out there, and it's going to be important to this story.
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And that's why we did it that way. We could have started it in a number of ways.
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It just seemed like the appropriate way to begin this story. Keith, set up the board for us a little.
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Who did these people turn out to be? Carol, Mike. Well, these were – this was a kind of a stolid, if I can put it that way, young man, kind of dependable.
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Carol's father liked him so much that he put him to work in his painting business and eventually gave him the painting business when he himself retired.
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But he was a kind of a steady easygoing sort of guy and the family liked him a lot And Carol was a beautiful interesting fascinating young woman
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who was bored with her life with Mike. And she was seeing other guys. She was having flings here and flings there and threatening to leave.
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And one night she does, and then her water car is found at a local bar known to be a place where people meet and mingle.
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Yes. Precisely. Keith, I'm curious about how you did one bit of video business. And that was locate an old-fashioned car, 40 years out of date.
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An Audi Fox was the make and model. The Audi Fox. In red and color. And you guys found one.
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How did you come up with that? Well, that was Robert Dean, our producer, who was very effective at doing little things like that that are tremendously important to do.
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but it was yeah i mean finding an audi fox an old audi fox it was uh you know it was good to have
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um i think it it illustrated what happened and and how mike tried to hide the crime by hiding the car
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or by putting the car in a place where she might have gone to meet somebody and did some business
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around the house too i'm thinking of those kind of james bond tricks of putting scotch tape over
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a drawer or a piece of paper in a door handle or well yes and it looked like she'd come back there
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was some money taken from where who else in that household but carol would have known that there
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were a few 20 dollar bills to be found so numbers of conspiracy theories were formed uh to suggest
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that in fact she was coming back to kind of pick something up or sneak in for something and uh
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hiding and then leaving again well that of course was mike and he was he was uh intentionally doing
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it to try to make it look like she was still alive to try to throw suspicion if there was any off him
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Mike was fairly open at first, Keith, wasn't he? He was talking to the authorities.
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Oh, yes. I mean, he presented well and, you know, he denied he had anything to do with it.
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And and then these incidents would occur. And eventually most of the early investigators came to think that he wasn't wasn't guilty, or at least they certainly couldn't prove that he was.
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No forensics around the house they could use. So it went it just it just went cold.
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Okay, so if you've listened to the showcast, you know Mike Lubot eventually confessed to killing Carol.
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But how did he go about telling his family? We have a clip from Keith's interview with his son, Mike Jr., when we get back.
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Keith, when I step back and when I think about Mike, he seems to be a guy who gets in trouble the more the time goes by and the more that his story changes incrementally.
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and detectives have a very finely tuned ear for a story that changes, don't they?
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They do. And that was really, I think that was probably more important than any other piece of evidence,
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the fact that he would change his story. In different times, he talked to the police.
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One of the detectives said, look, I would think you would remember very well the last time you see your wife.
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And yet that story changed, too. Was it in the bathtub? Did he see her go to the garage?
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Did he see the taillights of her car as she left? it changed bit by bit didn't it it it changed with every storytelling and as much as anything
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else that seemed to catch him up that's what got him convicted yes i think it was that more than
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the facebook stuff that got him convicted and as you say that i'm reminded that moment in the
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interview room where that prosecutor with such sharp ears picked up on the phrase he'd suggested
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a scenario to him you can do yourself some good let's spill the story now and tell me what happened
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And then Mike says, that isn't the way it happened. Well, the way what didn't happen exactly like that?
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Are we talking about a murder here? And he had gotten his mix talked up again. It's listening skills that make all the difference.
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Certainly good detective work here, huh? Yes, excellent detective work. That particular detective, Jim Wallace, has retired from police work,
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And he's now, well, he sells Christian books. He talks about you know using forensic evidence to determine the existence of God that sort of thing He a very interesting guy
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We have long discussions and arguments and disagreements all the time. Keith, let's go back to the trial itself.
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You had the in-laws, his former sister-in-law and others on the stand, really seeming quite reluctant to be talking about him to a jury.
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They're clearly still like this guy. Yes. Oh, yes. He remained popular with the family for quite some time.
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That's what I find fascinating, Keith. He remained in good favor with the family all through these years that she was gone.
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Well, because they knew him and they said he was a good guy, a nice guy. He would never do such a thing.
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They had seen him with her over the years, and he'd always been so good to her. And so, you know, kind and non-threatening.
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So they couldn't understand it. Keith, the jury found him guilty. What was the sentencing and what happened as a result of that?
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Well, it was 2013 when he was finally convicted, and he was sent away for 15 to life.
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In the end, eventually, Mike Lubon confessed. Again, telling the story differently and incrementally, huh?
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Incrementally. But he eventually got to what Lewin believes is now the truth. They had an argument.
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he at first said he pushed her and she fell backwards into a coffee table and it killed her
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um then finally he admitted he punched her in the face and she again fell backwards into a
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coffee table and the combination of a hard punch and hitting the table is what did it there's an
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interesting backstory about how this confession is revealed to the family and you had an interview
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with mike jr and he told you that he had learned before other people had can we listen to it now
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I wish you would. What was it like when he confessed to you? Oh, I think it was, I was sad, but I was also relieved to finally hear this come out of his mouth.
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I had been thinking that for a long time. And so to finally hear it, for sure, I was, I don't know the word I'm looking for, but I was okay.
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I mean, I was accepting it. He wrote letters, right, to members of your family? He wrote, my grandmother and my maternal aunts got letters apologizing or kind of explaining what happened.
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And then I think that's the only letters he wrote right away. And then Christmas was coming.
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So he wanted my sister and my brother and all the people had supported him to get through the holiday season before he sent.
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Some in the family had a secret that they kept over Christmas. Right. Yeah, I knew on December 17th.
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And I didn't tell anyone until maybe the first. I mean, I told my aunts. They already knew.
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Then they got their letters later. But that was kind of a secret. Keith, what an awful place this young man had found himself.
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Oh, sure. His mother missing. No one knows exactly what's happened. There's suspicions, of course, about the husband.
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A father he loves, but he doesn't know how much he can believe. But I'll tell you what.
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Interestingly enough, he went through what he went through, and they remain close to this day.
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We'll talk more about that after the break. so keith mike is out of prison how did that happen so he was convicted in what 2013 but
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afterwards he applied for parole at the appropriate time and parole was denied um he had already been in prison for some time by that time uh the prosecutor the man who
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prosecuted john lewin found out about that and thought well you know if anybody of the people
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I've convicted deserves to have parole. It him because you know he a good person He just every good person has a worst day And in his case his worst day was doing something really terrible So this originated in the DA office and not with an appellate lawyer
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Well, it was an appellate lawyer, but then the DA decided he was going to go and support this plea for parole.
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So he went to the parole hearing and he said to the judge, this guy deserves to come out.
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He's done what he needs to do in prison. He would not be a danger to society. Let him go.
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Well, the judge, you know, seeing it was a domestic violence case, denied parole.
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So Lewin was not happy. He went back to the next one. Eventually, the governor denied clemency.
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So finally, Lewin was able to figure out a way to recharge him with voluntary manslaughter instead of murder.
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And he was able to get him resentenced, which then allowed him to be released from prison.
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And so he's been out for a couple of years now. As, you know, he and his son are close again.
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He got, you know, he's getting work. He's getting painting jobs again. And he is living a, you know, he's living a good life.
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And I think a lot of people are surprised thinking of chapters that Mike Sr. and Mike Jr. would actually get extra chapters together, apparently.
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Well, right. Yeah, that's very true. Keith, I have to ask one question for your fans.
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You do a stand-up in this piece, and you seem to be in front of the family house, and you're leaning against a tree.
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People pick up on that so much. Here's Keith leaning again. Do you know that you have an Instagram file called Keith Leans on Things, Trees, Fence Posts?
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Somebody sent me this. Somebody sent me this sign. One of the people who watches our show.
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So naturally, I had to put it on the wall. You know, I'm reminded one time we were all together, the Dateline gang, and I think it was maybe a crime con or something.
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And you were asked this very question about leaning on things. And you said, I don't want to be one of those people pointing my fingers and gesticulating and walking.
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And there was a reason to your lean. That was the reason. Sure. It was. And you see it even now.
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I think it's because I don't know why it is. Honestly, maybe people just feel as if they have to act more and maybe they just talk with their hands.
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but um the the notion of and and you you'd work with camera people who just assume you'd want to
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do that so they'd say start your stand up over here and then walk 30 feet as you're talking to
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me and you can use your hands as you're telling me the story um because that was the normal way
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to do things but i mean if i'm having a conversation with you i'm either sitting in one chair you're
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sitting in another chair across the table and we're having coffee and you know there's nobody's
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you know, dancing around and walking back and forth. As a viewer and a great fan, it totally works for you.
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It's a wonderful, and it's not style. It's you talking to the viewer. Yeah, that's the point.
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It's a one-on-one thing. There's one person watching. Maybe there are several million one persons, but they're all one person.
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Well, Keith, you pulled me all along. Congratulations to you and your team. This is a classic Dateline.
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This is one you can watch again. Well, thank you for saying so. You know, and I think we're going to put a bow on this for now.
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This has been Talking Dateline. And remember, if you have any questions for us about our stories or about Dateline,
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catch a new episode every tuesday wherever you get your podcasts keith my friend good to be with
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you thanks everybody for listening to us a delight to talk to you again dennis you take good care of
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yourself

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Episode Highlights

  • The Vanishing of Carol Lubon
    In 1981, 27-year-old Carol Lubon vanished, leading to a chilling investigation.
    “But as years went by without hearing from Carol, those closest to her wondered if something far more sinister had happened.”
    @ 00m 44s
    June 18, 2025
  • The Killer Revealed
    Investigators uncovered that Carol's husband, Mike, was the killer after years of mystery.
    “It turned out to be none other than Carol's husband, Mike.”
    @ 00m 58s
    June 18, 2025
  • The Role of Social Media
    A Facebook post became crucial evidence in proving Carol was dead.
    “Nobody did. And that was used as one of the pieces of evidence to prove that she was dead.”
    @ 02m 45s
    June 18, 2025
  • Incremental Confessions
    Mike Lubon’s changing story ultimately led to his conviction.
    “Detectives have a very finely tuned ear for a story that changes, don't they?”
    @ 06m 50s
    June 18, 2025
  • Mike's Release from Prison
    After years of legal battles, Mike Lubon was resentenced and released from prison.
    “He was able to get him resentenced, which then allowed him to be released from prison.”
    @ 13m 10s
    June 18, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • Cynical wisdom is no body no crime.
    Talking Dateline: Secrets in the Mist
  • What was it like when he confessed to you?
    Talking Dateline: Secrets in the Mist
  • Every good person has a worst day.
    Talking Dateline: Secrets in the Mist

Key Moments

  • Vanishing Mystery00:36
  • Sinister Truth00:44
  • Facebook Evidence02:45
  • Changing Stories06:50
  • Confession Revelation10:06

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