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A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.

March 26, 2026 /

This episode covers the trials of Gerhard Koenig for attempted murder, Jeffrey Spence for murder, and Megan Sundwall for assisting in suicide. Guests include Mahealani Richardson and Rachel White.

In Honolulu, Dr. Gerhard Koenig is on trial for allegedly attempting to murder his wife, Ariel Koenig, with a rock during a hike. Ariel testifies about the attack, claiming Gerhard tried to stab her with a syringe before using a rock. The defense argues that Ariel instigated the confrontation.

In Mississippi, Jeffrey Spence is retried for the murder of Kirby Carpenter, with his daughter Caitlin as the prosecution's key witness. Caitlin previously took a plea deal and testified against her father, but the first trial ended in a mistrial.

In Utah, Megan Sundwall is found guilty of assisting her terminally ill friend Casey Terry in committing suicide by insulin overdose. The prosecution argued that Megan poisoned Casey for financial gain.

Safety tips for realtors are discussed, including the importance of verifying clients' identities and using technology for protection.

TLDR

This episode discusses multiple criminal trials, including attempted murder and suicide assistance, along with realtor safety tips.

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A lot of it happens after they figure out who it is, really. Welcome to Dateline True Crime Weekly.
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I'm Andrea Canning. It's March 26th, and here's what's on our docket. Family drama in a Mississippi courtroom as a man accused of murdering his daughter's boyfriend stands trial for a second time.
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And his daughter is the prosecution's star witness. The last time that Caitlin testified, she said she started questioning her dad and he basically told her not to look a gift horse in the mouth.
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In Dateline Roundup, we're on verdict watch in the trial of the Utah nurse accused of poisoning her best friend.
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And 15 years after the murder of an Iowa realtor, news of an arrest. They were shocked that Ramsey was the person who had been arrested.
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Plus, how can realtors protect themselves? We've got some safety tips. It's just a little pin behind my necktie.
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I can be pushing it, sending an alert to the authorities to tell them, hey, I need help.
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Before all that, we're heading to a courtroom in Honolulu where an anesthesiologist is on trial for attempting to murder his wife with a rock.
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On the morning of March 24th, 2025, a woman's cries for help pierced the quiet of the Palipuka Trail,
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a scenic and sometimes treacherous hike overlooking Oahu. Two hikers raced toward the noise and saw a man beating a woman with a rock.
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They called 911. Hi, someone's currently being attacked on the top of Palipuka. Where?
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There's a man trying to kill her. She's blood all over her face. The man fled and the hikers helped the woman, Ariel Koenig, down the trail.
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After an hours-long manhunt, police found her alleged attacker at the edge of the forest.
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It was her husband, Dr. Gerhard Koenig. Now, Dr. Koenig is on trial in a Honolulu courtroom accused of second-degree attempted murder.
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He has pleaded not guilty, and his defense says the story is much more complicated.
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They say, far from being a victim, Ariel is the one who attacked Gerhard first. On Tuesday, exactly one year since the attack, jurors got to hear from Ariel as she took the stand to tell her story of that morning and what led up to it.
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I just started screaming because I, in my mind, he's trying to knock me unconscious to get to be able to drag me over that.
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I just was screaming then. Here to bring us the latest from the courtroom is Hawaii News Now anchor and reporter Mahealani Richardson.
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Welcome back, Mahealani. Aloha, Andrew. Good to see you. Before we get to this story, there's been severe flooding impacting Honolulu this past week. I hope you all are staying safe. I know you're covering that as well.
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That's right. And actually, the judge in the Koenig trial, he thanked the jurors for coming to trial because every single juror has been able to make it to court despite the flooding.
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Amazing. So to start, Mihailani, tell us about the relationship between Gerhard and Arielle Koenig.
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They've been married since 2018, two young sons together living in Maui. That's right. They live in Kahului, Maui, and they also have a 19-year-old stepson. That's her
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stepson. His son, Emile Koenig, from a previous marriage, Emile was also living with them as well.
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And this is a successful couple, right? I mean, Gerhardt was an anesthesiologist,
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former medical school professor. Ariel worked at a nuclear engineering company. That's right. Highly successful, highly educated. It was this dream-like situation.
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She was able to work from home while Dr. Koenig was an anesthesiologist going to different hospitals
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on Maui. The prosecution and defense, they presented very different theories as to what
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happened that day. Take us through the sequence of events the prosecutor outlined to the jury
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during his opening statements. Well, the prosecutor said that they went up this trail
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the Palipuca Trail. It's not a very far hike to get up to. And the prosecutor said that Ariel did
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not want to be there. She felt this unease in being there. And that's what led to this whole
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confrontation or it was an attack, as the prosecutor calls it. And then as Ariel's moving
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down the trail to safely get by the defendant at this narrow spot with the cliff behind her,
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The defendant pushes her backwards towards that cliff. They start wrestling. They start struggling. They start fighting.
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And he had a syringe in his hand? That's right. Ariel Koenig in her testimony said that in the middle of this alleged attack, he pulled out a syringe and tried to stab her with it and that he also reached into his bag and pulled out a vial. And so at this point, we don't know what was in that vial. The syringe and the vial were never found by police.
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The prosecution, at least, is thinking the theory is that, you know, the syringe came first and then she knocks it out of his hand.
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So then he moves on to a rock. That's right. She told police that she was hit multiple times by this rock, a jagged lava rock, about 10 times.
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The defense said that she was hit twice. The prosecutor said Gerhardt called his older son, Emil, after he ran off into the forest.
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What's important about that phone call? Well, it is very important, Andrea, because at this point, it's becoming a he said, she said
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in a violent attack. Who attacked who? Who started it? This was a FaceTime call. And apparently,
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Dr Koenig was seen on camera and his son saw him bloody We haven heard from Emil yet but according to prosecutors Dr Koenig confessed to trying to kill his wife and he was very depressed about it But according to the defense it was not a
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confession and that he was depressed that they had gotten into the situation and that he wanted
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to end his own life by jumping off the cliff. Oh my goodness. This is Gerhardt's own son who's
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going to have to testify against him. That's a lot. So what is the prosecution's alleged motive
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for the attack. The two of them had been working on their marriage and leading up to the incident,
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they had been going through couples counseling. He had concerns that she had this so-called
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emotional affair with her married co-worker. And the prosecution is basically saying that this
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fueled this rage in Dr. Koenig. The defense, of course, presented a very different version
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of what happened. That's right. The defense repeatedly has said that this was an attack
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instigated by Ariel Koenig, that Ariel Koenig tried to push Gerhardt first and that she tried
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to hit him with a rock. So that was the long buildup to Ariel's testimony on Tuesday. What
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was your impression of her as she took the stand? I mean, she's facing off with the man she says
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tried to kill her. Well, she was very stoic. From the moment she walked into that courtroom,
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she looked straight toward where she was supposed to go. She sat down. All eyes were on her,
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and she just looked straight ahead. My name is Arielle Koenig. And she answered the questions
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very clearly and concisely. Let's take a listen to some of that testimony. My back was to the cliff,
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and he's facing me and the cliff. What happened next? When I walk up to him, then he grabbed me really forcefully by my upper arms.
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And he said, I'm so sick of this. Get back over there. And he starts pushing me back towards the cliff.
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Ariel says it really felt like Gerhart was almost kidding at first. And then for her, she says it turned into a matter of life and death very quickly.
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That's right. She says that she was only 10 feet or less to that cliff, which drops hundreds of feet.
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I threw myself onto the ground because there's a lot of trees and shrubs there so that I could hold on.
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Can you tell us what you remember he said as he was on top of you? Yeah. I mean, I'm screaming and he's telling me, shut the f*** up.
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Nobody's going to hear you out here. Nobody's coming to save you. And I'm saying, like, you can't do this.
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everyone knows we're on a hike. They'll know this wasn't an accident and our kids will be orphans.
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She talks about this relationship with Jeffrey Miller, the guy from work, and she really downplays
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it. She's saying, yes, I talked to him, but it wasn't at all anything bad. Right.
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Did you ever have sex with Jeffrey Miller? No. In these messages, did you flirt with Jeffrey Miller?
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Yes, some of them are flirty in nature. How did Gerhardt find out about Ariel's emotional affair?
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Well, he logged on to her WhatsApp and he found that there was this long conversation.
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And Ariel described an angry confrontation. When you say angry, upset, can you describe what he said to you?
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Yeah, call me a lying bitch, you're a whore. You know, how could you do this sort of thing?
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How did the defense handle Ariel on cross-examination? The defense asked very pointed questions every single time about the truthfulness of her answers.
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The defense questioned her on just how serious her injury really was after the incident.
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The defense said that the laceration on her head, though it looked bad on the pictures, it actually was not as severe and it just bleeds a lot.
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You did not have any skull fractures, correct? That's correct. No skull fracture.
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Yeah, no facial fractures, correct? That's correct. No, no fracture on my face. You're discharged the next day, correct?
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Yes, sir. Interesting. How long can we expect this trial to go on for? Well, we expect the trial to go on until mid-April. We potentially can expect to hear from Dr. Koenig himself. He is on the witness list for the defense.
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Yeah, well, since he's claiming self-defense, you know, jurors like to hear, you know, a firsthand account of that. We'll see what happens.
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Mehalani, thank you so much for bringing us this story all the way from Hawaii. We love hearing aloha at the top of our stories.
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It's very special. Thank you. Mahalo, Andrea. It's good to see you again. Coming up, a man accused of murdering his daughter's boyfriend stands trial for a second time.
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And his defense team has a bold new strategy. On November 30, 2022, father and local businessman Kirby Carpenter was shot and killed outside his home in Tippa County, Mississippi.
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He was just 36 years old. For nearly a year, the murder went unsolved. Then, on the one-year anniversary of his death, investigators arrested Kirby's girlfriend, Caitlin Spence, along with her parents, Jeffrey and Karen.
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All three pleaded not guilty. Then, in a sudden change of heart before their trial,
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Caitlin and her mother Karen took a plea deal, leaving Jeffrey to face a jury alone.
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Caitlin testified against her father for the prosecution. Your father told you that he was responsible for Kirby Carpenter's day, correct?
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Yes. But after four and a half hours of deliberation jurors could not reach a verdict a judge declared a mistrial This week prosecutors are trying the case again Jeffrey Spence is on trial in a new courthouse in a different county Dateline producer
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Rachel White, who attended the first trial, is back to tell us what else might be different this
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time around. Welcome back, Rachel. Thanks, Andrea. So first thing, why the move to a new county for
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this new trial? So the judge ordered the retrial to be moved. They were looking for jurors who
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didn't know details about the crime or the case, and the case has gotten a lot of local attention.
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So now we're in Calhoun County. What is the atmosphere like in the courtroom? Kirby's family members that are in the courtroom have been emotional. I think there are a lot of
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things that are hard to hear, and there are also photos from the crime scene that I think are
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really devastating for them to have to look at. So before we get to the opening statements,
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let's remind people of what happened here. Tell us about Kirby. Sure. So Kirby Carpenter was 36 years old. He was a Marine Corps vet, a father of two young
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children, and by all accounts, a very successful businessman. He worked as a rare metals dealer
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and often handled cash, gold, silver, things like that. And Kirby's relationship with Caitlin Spence, his girlfriend, is really central to this case. Explain how they met and how her family became a part of his life.
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Yeah, sure. So Caitlin and Kirby began dating in 2020, and they had a daughter together in July of 2022.
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And around that same time, Caitlin's parents, Jeff and Karen Spence, came from Virginia, where they lived, to help them with the baby.
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They stayed for several months before returning to their home on November 29th, 2022, which was just one day before Kirby was murdered.
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Okay, so walk us through what investigators say happened the day Kirby was killed.
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So investigators say that Kirby arrived back at his house after going to the grocery store,
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and he was shot twice, once in the neck and once in the chest. And then his body was dragged to the
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side of his carport in the driveway. And then two days later, on December 2nd, Caitlin Spence called 911 and reported finding Kirby's body.
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It took a year, but detectives, the investigation eventually leads them to Caitlin and her parents.
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They're saying that they are involved in this. Yes. So that information came to police from a former employee, someone that Kirby knew, told police that while he was at Kirby's funeral, Caitlin allegedly said something to him along the lines of daddy killed Kirby, speaking about Jeff Spence.
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But Rachel, you just said that Jeffrey Spence had already gone home to Virginia the day before
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Kirby's death. That's 500 miles away. Is that possible that he was the killer? So prosecutors say that Jeff Spence did drive home to Virginia, leaving Kirby and Caitlin's home,
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but then he drove back to Mississippi to kill Kirby. As for motive, the prosecution
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alleges that it was really about money. A few days after the shooting, when Jeffrey Spence was in
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Mississippi, Kirby's side of the family say they noticed something suspicious. They called the
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sheriff's department to report finding bags of silver coins belonging to Kirby in Jeff Spence's
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vehicle. We mentioned that Caitlin and her mom took plea deals. How did that come about, Rachel?
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So Caitlin pleaded guilty to being an accessory after the fact to capital murder.
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and her mother, Karen Spence, entered an Alford plea to charges of being an accessory after the
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fact to grant larceny. Now, an Alford plea is not her pleading guilty. She's just saying the
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prosecutor has enough evidence to convict her and she's received a suspended sentence and is now on
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probation. Are Caitlin and her mom saying that they knew that the dad had done this? That's not
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exactly what they're saying. So the last time that Caitlin testified, she said that she did not know
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that her dad had killed Kirby until many months later when they had this conversation at a
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waterfall near her parents' property. I asked him if he had anything to do with Kirby's death.
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He turned aggressive and very short with me. He said that he did what he had to do,
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that the less I knew, the better. He said that I shouldn't let a gift horse in the mouth.
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How did you take this conversation with respect to Kirby's death? That he was confessing to me that he had killed Kirby.
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So she is in trouble because she didn't say anything? Like, why does she have to take a plea deal?
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Like, was she in on the planning? Sounds like she wasn't, right? I mean, we don't know.
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One of the reasons that investigators are sure that Caitlin wasn't the one who pulled the trigger
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is because she was actually on security video at a local Walmart in the parking lot with her
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daughter at the time that they believed that Kirby was killed. So they know that she couldn't
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have been involved in the actual murder. So Caitlin testified against her dad, and that trial last fall still ended without a verdict. Rachel, the defense must have put up a
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good fight. They focused on, you know, common sense arguments. They told the jury that there
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was no physical evidence placing Jeff Spence at the scene. And they said that the timeline just
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didn't add up. They said that the prosecution didn't prove that he drove back to Mississippi
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like they said that he had. Okay, so mistrial was in September. Retrial is happening right now.
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Opening statements got underway on Tuesday. An assistant DA was up for the prosecution.
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What did he ask the jury to pay attention to? And did you notice anything different?
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So he laid out just what the jury can expect to hear from from prosecutors. And he said that they would prove that Jeff Spence made that drive back to Mississippi to kill Kirby Carpenter.
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Jeff Spence defense is I left on the 29th We prove otherwise The defense also had their opening statements Anything new from them Well the team itself is new So Jeff Spence is now being represented by a new set of attorneys
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And, you know, just like his defense at the first trial, they say there's no proof that Jeff was at the scene when Kirby was murdered.
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What felt new this time, though, is that they said, you know, things about Kirby's family,
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that they might have been the ones who wanted to steal from him. And that definitely wasn't a part of the trial last time.
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They really also leaned into alternate suspects, including someone that they say owed Kirby money
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and had threatened him 24 hours before he was killed. And they also brought up another man who allegedly threatened to shoot Kirby.
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There are so many people who had motive, who had opportunity to kill Kirby Carter.
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So many people who wanted to see him off. Those people would never, ever investigate.
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Rachel, can we assume Caitlin will testify again? She's such a key player in all of this.
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We don't know what day, but attorneys for both the prosecution and the defense mentioned her in their openings and said that we'd hear from her.
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OK, Rachel, thank you. We will keep an eye on this as the trial moves along. Thanks, Andrea.
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Up next, it's time for Dateline Roundup. A jury decides the fate of the Utah nurse accused of murdering her best friend.
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And 15 years after an Iowa realtor was shot dead at an open house, there's been an arrest.
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Plus, what can real estate agents do to stay safe? We talked to one realtor who's made it his mission to get agents the training and tools they need to protect themselves.
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Welcome back. Joining me for this week's roundup is Dateline producer Marissa Meyer.
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Thanks for being here, Marissa. Thank you for having me, Andrea. Okay, so first up, we are headed to Provo, Utah for a story that you brought us last week, Marissa.
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This is the case of Megan Sundwall, the former nurse on trial for allegedly murdering her best friend, Casey Terry.
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Remind us of the details of that case. Yes, so Casey Terry died in August of 2024, and her friends and family believed that she
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was terminally ill with cancer. But investigators soon learned she didn't actually have cancer and she died from an
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insulin overdose. The prosecutors are alleging that her best friend, Megan Sunwall, poisoned her because
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Megan believed she was the beneficiary of Casey's life insurance policy. Yeah, this is a very twisted case.
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What is new since the last time we talked about it? Closing arguments took place on Monday, and the prosecutor pushed back on the defense's
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theory that Megan was helping her friend fulfill a wish to die by suicide. It was not a best friend merely helping out her other best friend in the whole world.
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This was control. And the person who was in control during that entire time frame sits at that table.
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Megan Sundwell. What did the defense have to say? So Megan's defense attorney said again and again that there's simply no proof that Megan was the one who killed Casey.
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Our system requires proof, not just a good stringing together of suspicious looking things, suspicious looking words.
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Reasonable doubt comes from lack of evidence, lack of proof. And he argued that based on the glucometer readings, it very well could have been Casey
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who gave herself the fatal dose of insulin. And for anyone who doesn't know what a glucometer is,
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because I didn't before I started covering this case, it's a portable medical device that
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essentially measures the amount of sugar in your blood. There is no evidence that anything was
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injected after Casey Terry was unconscious. So it is unaccompanied in this case that Casey Terry
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could have done anything that was the cause of her death herself. The case went to the jury on
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Monday afternoon. Have they reached a verdict? Yes, they found Megan Sudwell not guilty of murder,
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but they did find her guilty of assisting Casey Terry in the commission of suicide,
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which is a second-degree felony. For our next story, we're going to Hudson Valley,
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which is in upstate New York. And a jury deliberated for 14 days before returning a
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verdict in the retrial of a man named Edward Hawley for the murder of his ex-girlfriend,
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Megan McDonald. So, Marissa, this is a story the podcast covered a while ago, but just remind us about the details. So, back in March of 2003, Megan McDonald is 20 years old.
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her friends say that they saw her at a party, but that she left to go look for her ex-boyfriend,
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Edward Hawley. Megan's body was found two days later on a dirt path she'd been bludgeoned to
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death. Marissa, the investigation didn't lead to an arrest until 20 years later when police
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arrested Edward Hawley. He was indicted for second-degree murder in 2024. Last year on the
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podcast, we covered his first trial, which ended in a hung jury. In January, his second trial got
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underway. Days and days go by, as we said, 14 days before the jury returned its verdict.
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What did the jurors decide? They acquitted Edward Hawley. And we should say Edward Hawley spoke out. He told the Mid-Hudson News, quote,
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it's only right for me to be a free man. I didn't do anything. I should have never been in jail.
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What did Megan's family have to say about the verdict? So they posted a statement on the Justice for Meghan McDonald Facebook page.
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They thanked the prosecutors and said, after decades of seeking the truth, we now have the
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to who took Megan from us. So it seems like it is, you know, some kind of closure for them.
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Yeah. For our final story, we're off to West Des Moines, Iowa, where there's major news in
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the 2011 murder of 27-year-old realtor Ashley Oakland. Marissa, tell us about that case.
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So this is a really interesting case, Andrea. Ashley was fatally shot while working in an
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open house in a townhouse development in West Des Moines. And the case went cold for many,
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many years, despite hundreds of leads that had come in. Then in 2024, the Iowa Attorney General
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launched a cold case unit. And last year, new detectives got onto the case. That brings us to
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last week when police announced that 53-year-old Kristen Ramsey had been arrested and charged with
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Ashley's burner. And Ramsey has yet to enter a plea in this case. So this came out of the blue
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for a lot of people. What do we know about Kristen Ramsey? Yeah. So investigators really
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haven't shared much information at this time. But we know that at the time of her murder,
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Ashley was working as an agent with a firm called Iowa Realty. And at the time of the arrest last
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week, Kristen Ramsey was working for a subsidiary of Iowa Realty, and she had started there a few
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months after Ashley's death. Iowa Realty told NBC News in a statement that they were relieved for
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Ashley's family that there'd been an arrest in the case, but were shocked that Ramsey was the person
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who had been arrested. Kristen Ramsey's next court date is scheduled for early April, and we will
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make sure to follow along as the case progresses. Marissa, thank you very much for that update and
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for all the updates. Thank you so much, Andrea. For our final story, I wanted to talk to someone
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who been on my mind a lot ever since I heard about the arrest made in the case of murdered Iowa realtor Ashley Oakland And his name is Carl Carter I first met Carl more than a decade ago reporting on a
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Dateline episode called The Client, which told the story of another murdered realtor, Carl's mom,
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Beverly. I'm texting her, I'm calling her, and I can't get any response. In 2014, Beverly was one
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of the top-selling realtors in Little Rock, Arkansas, when she was kidnapped and murdered
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by a man posing as a new client, Aaron Lewis. Lewis and his wife, Crystal, were eventually convicted of kidnapping
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and capital murder charges in connection to Beverly's murder. Ever since his mother's death,
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Carl, who is a realtor himself, has been determined to do what he can to keep realtors safe.
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He set up the Beverly Carter Foundation, an organization dedicated to training realtors
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about the potential dangers they face and the tools they can use to protect themselves.
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And Carl is here now to share some of those tips, And we're so grateful to have you on, Carl.
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It's good to see you again. It's always, always good to see you. What a tough time.
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I mean, for all of us that know of Ashley's story and I've, you know, through the work that I've done with a nonprofit, you know, have befriended people that were close to Ashley.
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And so, you know, for a case that I think many of us had just accepted that there was probably not going to be closure.
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Yeah. And then suddenly. Suddenly, we have this arrest. It's a ripple effect for all of the realtors around the country when something like this happens. And you know that all too well. Realtors and these kinds of crimes, it's more common than people might realize.
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Absolutely I mean there are you know countless agents that I met across the country and it doesn just fit one particular profile of a person that going to be victimized Everyone I think has risks that are just associated with this industry that these precious people are working alone Yeah I mean secluded areas sometimes not always the best cell service everywhere can be at nighttime And we should say Carl this isn just an issue for women It happens to men
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too, in the business. It does. There have been, just in the past couple of years, several men
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realtors that were killed while doing the work. Over the years, I've met many, many men that have
00:28:24
been either assaulted or assaulted and robbed. What tips do you give realtors? Well, you know, just thinking about my precious mom, you know, the number one thing that I always
00:28:36
go to is try to find out who you're working with. What have you done to verify their identity?
00:28:45
As best you can, ensure that they are actually interested and have the means to purchase a
00:28:51
property. And Carl, I know you talk about meeting in a public place first. Always check your cell
00:28:57
phone battery and signal before heading to an appointment. Technology has really stepped up
00:29:03
with other things you can do to stay safe. There are things like the Alexa devices or the ring
00:29:11
doorbells. So those add a layer of surveillance, but they also add accountability. I've had agents
00:29:18
say, everything's been fine, we've shown multiple properties, and suddenly starting to just get that
00:29:23
weird feeling in your stomach. And so they'll say, hey, just want to be mindful of the fact that I
00:29:30
read in the property description that this home has recording devices. And so just that kind of
00:29:37
little ping of accountability to that person would hopefully deter some. They might think twice about
00:29:44
what they're about to do if they're thinking, oh, is there a chance that there's a camera in here?
00:29:49
But I also love just some of these wearable devices that you can be even more discreet. So,
00:29:55
it looks like jewelry or there one that just a little pen And so I can put it behind my necktie and I can be pushing it sending an alert to my support group or you know the authorities to tell them hey I need help We should say what you were talking about you know with behind your tie or a piece of jewelry
00:30:13
It's called InvisiWare. And also there's a there's a system called Forewarn. What is it, Carl?
00:30:18
So it simply it is you take a phone number and it does a reverse lookup and it hits a ton of databases based on, you know, this data.
00:30:27
Are they who they say they are? So, you know, if people want to get these tips, what should they do?
00:30:33
So, beverlycarterfoundation.org. But also, there's a treasure trove of resources through the National Association of Realtors.
00:30:41
They have an ongoing safety committee. Fantastic. Carl, thank you for doing this interview and for all you're doing to save lives of other
00:30:51
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Episode Highlights

  • Family Drama in Mississippi Courtroom
    A man stands trial for murdering his daughter's boyfriend, with his daughter as the star witness.
    “His daughter is the prosecution's star witness.”
    @ 00m 36s
    March 26, 2026
  • Attempted Murder Trial in Hawaii
    An anesthesiologist faces trial for allegedly attempting to murder his wife with a rock.
    “Dr. Koenig is on trial accused of second-degree attempted murder.”
    @ 02m 04s
    March 26, 2026
  • Megan Sundwall Found Guilty
    A jury finds Megan Sundwall guilty of assisting her best friend in suicide after a murder trial.
    “Megan Sundwall found not guilty of murder, guilty of assisting in suicide.”
    @ 22m 20s
    March 26, 2026
  • Edward Hawley's Acquittal
    Edward Hawley was acquitted after a lengthy trial, marking a significant moment in the case.
    “It's only right for me to be a free man.”
    @ 23m 34s
    March 26, 2026
  • Arrest in Ashley Oakland Case
    Kristen Ramsey was arrested in connection with the cold case of realtor Ashley Oakland.
    “This came out of the blue for a lot of people.”
    @ 24m 53s
    March 26, 2026
  • Carl Carter's Safety Tips
    Carl Carter shares vital safety tips for realtors based on his mother's tragic story.
    “What have you done to verify their identity?”
    @ 28m 36s
    March 26, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • I'm so sick of this. Get back over there.
    A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.
  • Nobody's going to hear you out here. Nobody's coming to save you.
    A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.
  • It's only right for me to be a free man.
    A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.
  • What have you done to verify their identity?
    A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.

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  • Courtroom Tension00:36
  • Hiking Attack01:24
  • Mistrial Drama11:31
  • New Trial Begins12:18
  • Verdict Reached22:20
  • Verdict Announced23:29
  • Family's Statement23:44
  • Arrest Made24:53

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