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She said, "I'm about to have an affair and I really don't want to do that to Rick, but you know, I need somebody that
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makes me feel appreciated and loved and I don't feel that anymore with him." It brings up this whole host of feelings
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like, "Am I happy? Am I living the life that I want to live?" And I mean, I could read into this for days cuz
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traditionally, the farther back you go in generations, the more you have just these like expectations of what it means
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to be a wife and a mother and married. And like, you pick a path at 19 and then all of a sudden that is your lot in life
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when you're 45. like was her mother happy? I don't know. I mean, actually Rick does say that this kind of was like
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playing a parting. >> Yeah. But I mean, I see your point and I think it's a good one. Like death in
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general just gets people thinking and it is very possible and likely based on what Rick later says that whatever was
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bubbling under the surface got accelerated by her mother's death. Cuz after that fight in Wisconsin, things
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don't go back to status quo when they get back to Indianapolis. Two weeks before she went missing, Bonnie called
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one of her closest friends, Diane Desando. The two actually lived pretty close to each other. And so the two
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would actually go for walks whenever one phoned the other. But this time when Bonnie called, Diane knew that it was
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different right away. I mean, for one, it was late when she called, like 900 p.m. And when she heard Bonnie's voice,
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she could tell right away that she was upset. So the two met up for a walk, and she said Bonnie just like unloaded. She
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said Rick made her feel unappreciated and ugly. Their intimacy was gone and she had to beg him for any affection.
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And this all of this was already taking Diane back. I mean they hung out like with the couple like her and her husband
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altogether. They played cards all the time. She had no idea. >> But you never really know.
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>> Yeah. But then Bonnie, this when she dropped the real bomb.