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The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real

June 03, 2026 / 22:16

This episode discusses virtual kidnapping scams, AI voice cloning, and the terrifying experience of Jennifer DeStefano. Jennifer received a call from someone impersonating her daughter Breonna, who was in distress, leading to a frantic situation.

On January 20, 2023, while in Scottsdale, Arizona, Jennifer answered a call from an unknown number. She heard her daughter crying and pleading for help, only to be threatened by a man claiming to have kidnapped Breonna. The caller demanded a ransom of $50,000.

Despite the chaos, Jennifer remained calm and sought help from other parents at the dance studio. They contacted 911, but the dispatcher suggested it might be a scam. Jennifer insisted it was real, as she believed she was having a genuine conversation with her daughter.

Eventually, Jennifer's husband confirmed that Breonna was safe at home, leading to a shift in Jennifer's demeanor. She ended the call with the kidnapper, feeling relief but also anger at the situation.

The episode highlights the dangers of AI technology being used for scams, the emotional trauma caused by such incidents, and the lack of regulation surrounding AI voice cloning.

TLDR

Jennifer DeStefano receives a terrifying call from a scammer impersonating her daughter, highlighting the dangers of AI voice cloning.

Episode

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Hi Crime Junkies, I'm your host Ashley Flowers. And the story I have for you today is one that I want you to listen
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to every single second of. Because by the time it's over, you're going to want to call every person you love and do one
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simple thing that could save you from one of the most terrifying experiences imaginable. This is about something
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that's happening right now to real people. And as technology gets more advanced, so do the criminals looking to
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exploit it. Lots of people have no idea that this is even possible. And the real unsettling part? How cheap
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and accessible the tools to do this actually are, and how fast they're evolving. This is the story about how
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hearing the voice of someone you love could be the beginning of a nightmare. And what you can do to fight back.
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Jennifer DeStefano is one of those moms who's always on the move. She and her husband have four kids in close age, and
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most weekends that means splitting up just to keep up. So on this particular late Friday afternoon, January 20th,
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2023, while Jennifer is in Scottsdale, Arizona, swinging by their 13-year-old daughter's dance studio to pick her up
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after a lesson, her husband is about 150 miles north in the mountains with their
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youngest son and their 15-year-old daughter Breonna, so she can do some training for ski races. [music]
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Now, Jennifer is getting out of her car in the studio parking lot when her phone
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rings. It's an unknown number, and she almost lets it go to voicemail, but unknown calls can be from hospitals. And
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with Breonna on a mountain, it's too risky to ignore [music] it, so she picks up. And it is Breonna on the line, but
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she's crying, barely holding it together. And she tells Jennifer, "Mom, I messed up." Now, Jennifer doesn't
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panic. She's thinking that maybe Breonna got hurt skiing. So she's like, you know, it's okay, Bri, calm down. What's
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going on? What's wrong? And then she hears a man's [music] voice cut in. Telling Breonna to lay down and put her
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head back. And then suddenly she hears her daughter cry out, "Mom, these bad men have me. Help me. Help me." And then
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the man fully takes the phone and he tells Jennifer that he has her daughter. And if she calls the police or breathes
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a word of this to anyone, they will never see her again because he's going to drug her, sexually
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assault her, and leave her for dead in Mexico. [music] She can barely hear what he's saying
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because all she can focus on is her daughter in the background yelling and pleading until her voice goes muffled
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like she's being pulled away from the phone. Jennifer is shaking as she pushes through the dance studio doors. Now, she
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keeps the man on speakerphone, but mutes herself so he can't hear her and she screams for help. And other moms gather
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fast. One rushes outside to call 911 while the rest surround Jennifer and listen as the caller makes threat after
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horrifying threat. >> [music] >> And Jennifer begs to speak to her daughter again. But the man won't put
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her back on the phone. He's doing all of the talking now. And what he wants in exchange for Breonna's life is
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staggering. $1 million dollars. Jennifer is willing to agree to anything right now. But once
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she starts questioning how she's supposed to get him all that money, the guy starts doing the math in his head
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and he decides on his own that there's no way she's going to be able to come up with that much money because he wants
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cash only and he's not going to give her time to get it together. So, he makes this quick decision to give her a
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discount. [music] He'll take $50,000 instead. And he's adamant. He's not willing to mess with wire transfers or
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routing numbers. All that stuff is way too traceable. So, this is the plan. He says she needs to get the 50 grand
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together >> [music] >> and then he's going to come pick her up in a white van. She'll get in, he'll put
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a bag over her head, and then he'll bring her to some undisclosed place to exchange the money for Breonna.
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And he warns Jennifer, >> [music] >> she better have every dollar on her when he gets there. Otherwise,
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both her and her daughter are dead. Now, this whole time, Jennifer's younger daughter has been just
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>> [music] >> standing there, frozen in fear as she listens to this man threaten to assault
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and kill her sister and her mother. So, another parent actually grabs the girl's
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phone and tries to contact Jennifer's husband, because he's way more likely to answer from his other daughter's number
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than one he doesn't recognize, and they need to get in touch with him and find out what's going on. How long has she
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been gone? Does he even know that she's missing yet? But, when she calls, the phone just rings
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>> [music] >> and rings and rings and keeps rolling over to voicemail. As all of this chaos
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is unfolding, the mom who called 911 comes back inside and begins talking to Jennifer. She says, [music]
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"This has to be fake. The 911 dispatcher had told her that they've gotten more and more of these lately. A recording of
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a loved one made from AI. They ask you to get some gift cards, Bitcoin, or something." But, Jennifer pushes back.
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She's like, "That's not what this is. It wasn't a recording. This was a back-and-forth interactive conversation
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with her daughter." And on top of that, they wanted to meet to get the money, which is like a whole different
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ballgame, the likes of which the department probably hasn't seen. Still, according to the dispatcher they have on
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the line, they say, "Don't trust it. The technology is advanced enough [music] for you to have a conversation with it.
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It can even replicate emotions in someone's voice." But, Jennifer isn't buying it. This wasn't just an emotional
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voice. It was Breonna's emotional voice, right down to the specific, unique way that
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she cries, like the distinct quiver in her voice. How could a machine fake that? It seems impossible. So, Jennifer
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is still keeping the guy on the line trying to stall until police arrive promising him that she's doing
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everything she can to pull the money together. Then, in the midst of her panic, someone hands her a different
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phone and it's a familiar voice she hears. Her husband's. He had been in the shower, which is why he'd missed the
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barrage of calls over the past few minutes, but he's confused by the urgency because Brianna's fine. He's
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looking at her. She's catching up on homework, not begging for her life. And they are both totally in the dark about
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everything that's happening back in Scottsdale where Jennifer is. After what she has just been through hearing that
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Brianna is fine from her husband isn't even enough. Jennifer needs to hear it from Brianna, but even her daughter's
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voice on the line doesn't totally reassure her like she thought it would. She can't trust her own ears right now.
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She keeps asking her, "Is it really you? Are you really okay?" over and over again until finally [music]
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it sinks in. Her daughter is alive and well. And once she is finally convinced, Jennifer turns back to the would-be
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kidnapper on the phone, but she's not fearful anymore. Now she is furious. [music]
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She tells him that what he's doing is one of the most evil things a person can do.
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And he tries to double down. He keeps insisting that he has her daughter and threatening to kill them both. But by
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this point Jennifer is done. >> [music] >> She hangs up before she just collapses
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on the floor in relief. Now this whole ordeal lasted about [music] 4 minutes. But when Jennifer thinks about the
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damage that it did cause >> [music] >> and what it could have caused, it's chilling. And if there had been
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someone to come get her, police wouldn't have been hot on her trail because by the way, they never showed up. I guess
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since the dispatcher had already concluded it was a scam, they didn't even bother to send anyone, which is
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kind of wild to me. Because I don't care how many of these calls that they've been hearing about, this one sounds
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extreme. Like even if it started as a scam, God only knows where this was headed. Like what was the end game? Was
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it all a test? Would someone have shown up for her? I don't know, and neither does Jennifer.
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But when she followed up with law enforcement later that night, >> [music] >> she was basically told
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no harm, no foul. They said there was no actual crime committed. No one was physically
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kidnapped or harmed, no money exchanged hands. It was deemed a prank. >> [music]
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>> That is not enough for Jennifer. She stays up all night trying to answer the questions running through her mind.
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How did they get her daughter's voice? >> [music] >> Were they being watched? Had they been
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targeted? Were they in any danger actually then or still? As she told our reporter Nina, she went through every
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piece of Brianna's digital footprint that she could find. But Brianna's Instagram and her TikTok accounts are
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private, and she only has a few dozen followers. And while there are a couple of like athletics related things of her
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out there, there is nothing that comes close to explaining what Jennifer heard on that call. So still, to this day, she
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hasn't been able to figure out how they did it. >> [music] >> But what she does find is a vast
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community of people who have been through something similar. Because when Jennifer posted a warning about what
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happened to her on Nextdoor, >> [music] >> the responses flood in. Some people were
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nasty and said that Jennifer was just being gullible. But lots came back with their own versions of this same story.
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This happened to me. This happened to my parents, to my sibling. One of the dance
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studio moms said that her sister had recently been scammed out of $1,500 by the same type of call. A friend of
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Jennifer's got a call that sounded exactly like her 8-year-old son begging for his life after she had just tucked
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him into bed. The caller even used his private nickname. And this kid didn't even have a phone or social media or any
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presence online. So, who the hell knows how they managed to replicate his voice?
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>> [music] >> I mean, Jennifer's own mother had gotten a call from someone pretending to be
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Jennifer's brother. But her mom is hard of hearing, so she kept asking the caller to repeat himself, and eventually
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she just told him, "My son would never talk to me like this. Go find your real mother." And she hung up on him. And her
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mom didn't even think to mention it until Jennifer's whole ordeal happened. And these weren't just
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>> [music] >> fake kidnappings. Jennifer heard about fake arrests, fake medical emergencies,
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you name it. Different scenarios, same [music] playbook. A loved one's voice on the other end of the line claiming to be
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in some kind of crisis. So, what actually happens on these calls? Virtual kidnapping scams, where
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someone calls a person claiming to have their loved one and demanding ransom, have been around for years. The old
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version was crude. Maybe like a generic recording of someone screaming in the background and a scripted set of
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threats. What has changed now, and what keeps [music] changing, is the technology. AI
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voice cloning software can now replicate exactly what someone sounds like, their
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specific cadence and inflection. Even like in Brianna's case, the unique way they cry. And the raw material is
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everywhere. Voicemail greetings, a TikTok, an Instagram reel, a YouTube video, a podcast. Hi. Anything.
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And they don't need much. Researchers at the cybersecurity company McAfee tested
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these tools a couple of years ago and found that just 3 seconds of audio, less time than it takes to say, "Hello, who's
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calling?" is enough to produce a convincing clone. And that was 3 years ago. Access to
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software that can do that costs as little as $5 [music] a month now. Meanwhile, caller ID can be
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spoofed to display your loved one's actual name and number. And [music] the scam keeps evolving.
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In December 2025, the FBI issued a warning that criminals are now pairing these calls with AI-altered
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proof-of-life photos. [music] Manipulated images of your loved one, often sent as disappearing messages,
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timed to vanish before you have a chance to really like look at them, criticize them, analyze them. Cuz a few seconds of
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panic is all it takes. Now, by all accounts, deepfake voice scams aren't just increasing, [music] they're
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exploding. But clear statistics are hard to come by. The FBI told us that they get lumped
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into broader categories, and a lot of cases never even make it into the numbers at all. Some victims are
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embarrassed and don't report it. Others, like Jennifer's mom, don't even realize
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that they've been targeted. And some who do try to report it end up in Jennifer's position, being told by
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police that there's nothing they can do. Nothing happened. It was just a prank. And while local law enforcement is
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getting more familiar with these scams, they are still damn near impossible to investigate. One of the biggest issues
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is that a lot of these callers are operating outside of the US. >> [music] >> The money moves out of the country fast,
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and by the time anyone starts looking into it, there's almost nothing left to trace. Many of these scams originate in
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Mexico and target Latino families in the Southwestern US, where it's more believable when someone says that a
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loved one has been taken over the border and held there. And those are also some
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of the communities least likely to report. So, what do we know? These sorts of scams are basically run
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like a business. FBI agent Whitney Mitchell compared it to a call center with operators constantly cycling
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through numbers, threatening, demanding, and moving on. They go for volume over precision. They don't need many people
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to fall for it because when someone does pay, the average amount is $11,000. But there aren't just financial
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concerns. Take an incident that happened last September in Kansas. >> [music] >> A woman got a call that appeared to come
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from her mother's phone. A man on the other end of the line claimed to have a gun to her mom's head and was demanding
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a ransom. And in the background, [music] she could hear what sounded exactly like
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her mother's voice. Her brother got an identical call, and when their mom didn't pick up her phone, they called
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911. Police tracked their mother's phone location to a moving car, and thinking that it was an active hostage situation,
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they executed a high-risk traffic stop with weapons drawn. What they found was the mother, totally safe, unaware any of
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this was happening, driving a man that she actually knew to pick up his car. Scammers had spoofed her number to make
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the calls appear to come from her, but she had no idea. [music] Now, luckily in that case, no one was hurt, at least not
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physically. >> [music] >> But that was this time, and no one gets left unscathed even after the incidents
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that police [music] just call a prank. Jennifer said that the trauma they went through was real, [music]
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and it stayed with her. It's something Brianna has continued to deal with even as she moves forward with
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her life. >> [music] >> She's in college now, where she is studying economics and, believe it or
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not, AI. [music] She's learning to harness the tech that was once used to terrorize her family,
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and she's doing well. But the whole thing left a lasting emotional scar on her, and she's had to
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navigate more trauma after experiencing an AI-generated active shooter hoax and multiple lockdowns on her college
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campus. Now, after Jennifer came forward with their story, the case became national news. [music] The media
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attention reached Capitol Hill, and a senator asked Jennifer to testify before the US Senate Judiciary Committee at a
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hearing on AI regulation, >> [music] >> which she did in June 2023. And here is a clip from her [music]
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testimony. >> Money scams have been around for thousands of years. This is entirely
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different. This is terrorizing lasting trauma. Even months later, sharing the story makes me shake to my core. It was
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my daughter's voice. It was her cries. It was her sobs. It was the way she spoke. I will never be able to shake
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that voice and the desperate cries for help out of my mind. It's every parent's worst nightmare to hear your child
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pleading with fear and pain, knowing that they are being harmed and that you're helpless.
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The longer this form of terror remains unpunishable, the farther and more egregious it will become. As our world
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moves at a lightning fast pace, the human element of familiarity that lays foundation to our social fabric of what
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is known and what is truth is being revolutionized with AI. Some for good and some for evil. No
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longer can we trust seeing is believing, or I heard it with my own ears, or even
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the sound of your own child's voice. I ask you, when your mother calls, are you going to hang up on her and call her
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back to make sure it's her? When your child calls in need of help, will you end the call and say I don't
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believe it's really you? Is this our new normal? Is this the future we are creating by enabling the abuses of
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artificial intelligence without consequence and without regulation? >> So far, regulation hasn't caught up.
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[music] For the first time, all 50 states introduced AI-related legislation in 2025. But even with that movement,
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there is no clear roadmap. At the federal level, administrations are putting up and then pulling back
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guardrails like some kind of chess piece that will play well with whoever they're
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trying to appeal to or will make them the most money. >> [music] >> No one is actually giving a [ __ ] about
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the people who are being hurt by this new technology that operates pretty much unregulated. One of the only major
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AI-related laws Congress has actually managed to pass so far targets fake images. There is no comprehensive
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federal law specifically governing AI voice cloning. In a lot of ways, it is still like the Wild West. By the time
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anyone figures out how to respond to one version of this, the technology has already moved on, getting cheaper,
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faster, >> [music] >> and scariest of all, harder to detect. And it's especially hard if you're not
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clear-headed. And that's what they're counting on. >> [music] >> Hearing someone you love screaming for
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help, that panic that you feel isn't a side effect of the scam, it's the whole point.
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So, what can we do? Here is what the FBI told us. And every situation is different, so there is no
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perfect playbook for [music] it. But if you think your loved one is in real danger, call 911. If it turns out
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to be a scam, you'll sort that out after. When in doubt, call. At the same time, you have to try to stay calm and
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slow down. The entire scam >> [music] >> runs on your fear. They need you scared,
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they need you reacting and moving fast for it to work. They don't want you questioning their story. But these calls
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are about money, and as long as they think that there is a chance you'll pay, they will probably stay on the line. So,
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use that time. Reach out to your loved one on a separate device using a number that you already have, not one that the
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caller gives you. Now, if you're with someone, have them do it while you keep the caller talking. That's how
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Jennifer's situation ended as quickly as it did. >> [music] >> According to the National Cybersecurity
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Alliance, you can also try asking the caller to switch to a video call. Most scammers don't have both a voice clone
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and a video deepfake ready at once. >> [music] >> At least not yet. But even that won't be foolproof
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forever. And if they send you anything, photos, audio, proof of life, screenshot
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it or save it before it disappears because it may be the only evidence they leave behind. But you know what they
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say, an ounce of prevention [music] is worth a pound of cure. And the biggest thing, like the thing you should do
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today, the second you're done listening to this episode, is to set up a safe word, a specific word or phrase that
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only your circle knows that you can demand if you ever get that call. Don't pick something obvious or easy to
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find out. No one's pets' names or birthdays or anything like that. Choose something that would be completely
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meaningless to a stranger. Hany Farid, a professor at UC Berkeley who specializes
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in digital forensics and misinformation, told Scientific American that he has a code word with his wife. And his advice
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was to test each other on it occasionally because, unlike a password, you won't use it often enough for it to
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stay fresh in your head. And you want it to be muscle memory when an emergency, real or fake, hits. Also, be sure to
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keep the word [music] private. Share it in person or through encrypted channels only. And don't ever post anything
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online that could give it away. I mean, I go an extra step further. We don't even say our word near our phones. Just
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some friendly advice from me. Your apps are listening. [music] Now, if this happens to you, report it
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as soon as possible, no matter how it ends. Even if you never sent a dollar, even if you figured it out within
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seconds, that information matters. If money changes hands, contact your local FBI field office or call
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1-800-CALL-FBI. [music] If there was no financial loss, you should still file a report at IC3.gov.
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Local police response to these calls can be inconsistent. Jennifer found that out
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firsthand. But IC3 makes sure the data gets to the right people. Either way, include everything you have. Phone
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numbers, audio, screenshots, payment details. >> [music] >> Investigators can't track a threat that
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they don't know exists. And every report, loss or no loss, helps them spot patterns, warn the public, and start
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disrupting the networks behind this. You should also share this episode with your loved ones, especially anyone who
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might be more vulnerable to a call like this. And you guys, talk about it. Because honestly, one of the strongest
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defenses your family has is the conversation you have now, before the phone rings, before the terror takes
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over, and before someone on the other end turns a voice that you trust into a weapon.
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>> Meow.

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Episode Highlights

  • A Mother's Nightmare
    Jennifer receives a call from a man claiming to have her daughter, Breonna, demanding ransom.
    “Mom, these bad men have me. Help me.”
    @ 02m 12s
    June 03, 2026
  • The Evolution of Scams
    AI voice cloning technology is making virtual kidnapping scams more convincing and dangerous.
    “AI voice cloning software can now replicate exactly what someone sounds like.”
    @ 10m 58s
    June 03, 2026
  • Call for Action
    Jennifer testifies before the Senate on the need for regulation of AI voice cloning.
    “The longer this form of terror remains unpunishable, the farther it will become.”
    @ 16m 09s
    June 03, 2026
  • Setting Up a Safe Word
    Establish a unique code word with your loved ones to verify identity during suspicious calls.
    “Choose something that would be completely meaningless to a stranger.”
    @ 19m 36s
    June 03, 2026
  • Report Suspicious Calls
    Always report suspicious calls to help authorities track threats, even if no money was lost.
    “Investigators can't track a threat they don't know exists.”
    @ 21m 18s
    June 03, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • Help me. Help me.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real
  • This is terrorizing lasting trauma.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real
  • It's every parent's worst nightmare.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real
  • An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real
  • Your apps are listening.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real
  • One of the strongest defenses is the conversation you have now.
    The AI Kidnapping Call That Felt Completely Real

Key Moments

  • Desperate Call02:12
  • AI Threats10:58
  • Senate Testimony15:31
  • Preventive Measures19:21
  • Safe Word Importance19:36
  • Reporting Threats21:18
  • Family Conversations21:43

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