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HOW TO HAVE MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS

November 14, 202500:46
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This sounds like a crazy thing
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to say on a podcast in 2025. How do we
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start a conversation with another human
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being?
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I've got a favorite technique that I
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use.
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Andy requires courage and it's a game,
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simple game called low buffalo. High is
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something that's going great for you.
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Low, something that's not so great for
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you. Buffalo, something interesting
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about you.
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Do you say it to them that we're going
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to do high buffalo?
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I play this game with people I meet that
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I want to connect with. Okay.
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Say you've been with working with Susan
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for 12 months. Just sit down with Susan
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and go, Susan, I know this is a bit
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crazy. Listen to a guy named Vin on Darb
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CEO. He said, "If you want to connect
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with someone and you care about the
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connection, play a game called Hilo
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Buffalo. Are you game? Play. I'm giving
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three opportunities for a conversation
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to spark, but in actuality, there are
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six threads here because there's three
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from me, there's three from you. You
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just gave me three things. I've got
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three threads to choose

Podspun Insights

In this episode, the host introduces a quirky yet profound conversation starter called "High Buffalo, Low Buffalo, Buffalo" that aims to deepen connections between people. The game encourages participants to share their highs, lows, and interesting tidbits about themselves, creating a rich tapestry of dialogue. The host emphasizes the courage it takes to engage in such a game, especially in a world where meaningful conversations can feel elusive. By inviting listeners to try this technique with someone they know, the episode transforms a simple interaction into an opportunity for genuine connection and understanding. It’s a delightful exploration of how we can bridge the gap between strangers and friends alike, making the mundane extraordinary through shared experiences and stories.

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Episode Highlights

  • The Game of Connection
    Discover a unique way to connect with others through the game of Hilo Buffalo.
    “If you want to connect with someone and you care about the connection, play a game called Hilo Buffalo.”
    @ 00m 30s
    November 14, 2025

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Starting Conversations00:03
  • Low Buffalo Game00:10
  • Connecting with Others00:19