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Sneak peek: Perilous Journey

January 17, 2014 / 02:33

This episode discusses international adoption, child trafficking, and personal experiences with adoption. Guests share their journeys, challenges, and the emotional impact of these issues.

Ryan and his wife reflect on their marriage and his military service, including tours in Kosovo, Iraq, and Afghanistan. They express concern for children in those regions.

The couple discusses their decision to adopt, prompted by Ryan's suggestion. They found their daughters through Celebrate Children International, emphasizing the need for children to be in families.

They reveal the challenges faced during the adoption process, including accusations against in-country representatives and the fine line between adoption and child trafficking.

Determined to bring their daughters home, they describe their efforts to navigate the complexities of international adoption and their commitment to the children.

TLDR

Ryan and his wife share their adoption journey and the challenges of navigating child trafficking issues.

Episode

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We got married in March of 1999. Ryan enlisted into the army. I've done tours in Kosovo, Iraq, and
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Afghanistan. See the reality for children on the street in these different places. And I just wondered to myself
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now, where is he? Where is she? What happened to them? I have three incredible little men, the
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three boys, Taylor, Cole, and Riley, who I love beyond what I could ever say. It was actually Ryan who came to me. I
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was like, I think we should adopt. I just looked at him. I said, I think you're a little bit crazy.
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We found our daughters on a waiting child list. When we saw our girls' pictures on that
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website, it said contact Sue at Celebrate Children International. Children need to be in families, not in
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institutions. What's your name? What is his name? Many of these children would die if it wasn't for adoption. She can
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get you the youngest baby really fast. 3 to 6 months before she can go home. If you get a baby home in 5 months, I mean,
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you're going to love her. I had no way to find out that this was happening until it happened to me. I
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feel that I was taken advantage of. Her incountry representatives are being accused of heinous things. These things
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are not okay. We knew that international adoption is challenging. We were naive in how much real trouble there is.
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What's life or death? I mean, I've literally seen children die. The line between adoption, which is a beautiful
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thing, and child trafficking, which is deplorable, that line is all too fine. I mean, there needs to be a chasm between
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the two. I had to figure out how to get my girls home. If we want this to happen, we're just
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going to have to go do it ourselves. It's just unreal. I mean, is there anything else that a
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person can do to prove to the Congolese government I care about these kids? I love these kids enough to do whatever
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it takes to get them home. Whatever it takes.

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  • 80
    Most heartwarming
  • 75
    Most shocking
  • 70
    Most emotional
  • 70
    Most heartbreaking

Episode Highlights

  • The Call to Adopt
    Ryan suggested adoption, leading to a life-changing decision for their family.
    “I think we should adopt.”
    @ 00m 41s
    January 17, 2014
  • The Reality of Adoption
    Navigating the challenges of international adoption reveals a fine line between love and exploitation.
    “The line between adoption and child trafficking is all too fine.”
    @ 01m 50s
    January 17, 2014

Episode Quotes

  • Children need to be in families, not in institutions.
    Sneak peek: Perilous Journey
  • I love these kids enough to do whatever it takes to get them home.
    Sneak peek: Perilous Journey

Key Moments

  • Military Service00:06
  • Fatherhood00:36
  • Adoption Journey00:41
  • Child Advocacy01:02
  • Challenges of Adoption01:40
  • Determination02:24

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