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Harris Todd on his search for missing daughter, ex-wife

November 13, 2015 / 02:57

This episode discusses a father's search for his abducted daughter in Costa Rica, the challenges he faces, and his emotional journey. Key topics include parental abduction, personal determination, and the impact of hope.

The father explains his decision to travel to Costa Rica, a known location for parental abductions, after six years of searching without success. He emphasizes the need to look for his ex-wife and daughter himself, as he believes no one else can recognize them as he would.

He reflects on the nature of his search, acknowledging the luck involved and the importance of being present in the right places. He shares his thoughts on the possibility of not recognizing his daughter but feels a strong connection through his ex-wife.

Despite the challenges, he remains hopeful and committed to the search, expressing that not finding them would still be a step forward. He contrasts his happiness in life with the pain of being separated from his daughter.

The episode highlights the emotional weight of parental abduction and the lengths a parent will go to in order to reconnect with their child.

TLDR

A father searches for his abducted daughter in Costa Rica, reflecting on hope, determination, and the emotional toll of separation.

Episode

2:57
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Why did you come to Costa Rica? Why here as opposed to some other place? Well, I
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mean, Costa Rica is a known haven for people who have abducted their children. Why now? It's been almost 6 years in
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large part. It's because it's been 6 years. Uh it's the fact that nothing else has worked. I don't really know
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what else to do at this point. So the most logical conclusion I could come to was
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to simply go and look myself. Look places that I couldn't expect anyone else to go. At some point in time,
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someone actually did find the needle in the haystack. I couldn't necessarily pay
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anyone else to go and do what I'm going to do, which is look for my ex-wife and daughter. Um the it's going to be it
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would be very difficult for someone uh even the perfect person to recognize Lee if she has changed her her appearance
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drastically. Uh I I will recognize her voice. I will recognize her walk. I don't expect to recognize my daughter of
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course but that's I I'll I'll recognize her by association with Lee. Been here for two roughly two weeks about two
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weeks. You're leaving in a couple days. As you lift off in that plane, if you haven't seen anything more than you've
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seen today. Mhm. Is this going to be a failure? Feel like one? The fact that I didn't find anything
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um in a sense is just as positive as if I did. I mean, I've only scratched the surface here. Haven't looked everywhere.
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There's an element of luck to it, a very large element of luck. And there's no way to accelerate that. If you're a
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surfer and you're sitting on your board in the sand, you're never going to catch
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any waves. Doesn't mean that a wave is going to come if you're in the water, but it does mean if a wave does come and
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you are in the water with the board pointed in the right direction that you have a chance of catching it. I want to
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be in the water. It's the best thing that I can think to do at this point. If you were to find her, she's not going to
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know who you are probably. Oh, without question. She may not speak English be impossible. I'm not
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going to have any trouble getting to know my daughter and she's not going to have any trouble getting to know me. If
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it takes months, it takes months. It won't. You could spend a lifetime looking in these places and never see
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her. What else am I going to do? You know, I'm going to spend a lifetime doing something. I mean, I have a a very
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nice life. The family I have is a good family. Uh and I'm very grateful for that. I like where I live. I like where
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I work. I'm very happy with the circumstances. I'm unhappy with not having my daughter. That is the
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overriding aspect to all of this. If someone were to say, "I'll wave this wine and give you everything you want
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except your daughter." It will be the same. I'm not going to feel any better than I do

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 80
    Most heartbreaking
  • 70
    Most emotional
  • 70
    Best performance
  • 65
    Most intense

Episode Highlights

  • The Element of Luck
    Finding his daughter may depend on chance, but he's determined to try.
    “There's an element of luck to it, a very large element of luck.”
    @ 01m 37s
    November 13, 2015
  • Searching for Family in Costa Rica
    A father's quest to find his missing daughter after six long years.
    “What else am I going to do?”
    @ 02m 26s
    November 13, 2015
  • The Pain of Absence
    Despite a good life, the absence of his daughter overshadows his happiness.
    “I'm unhappy with not having my daughter.”
    @ 02m 45s
    November 13, 2015

Episode Quotes

  • What else am I going to do?
    Harris Todd on his search for missing daughter, ex-wife
  • I'm unhappy with not having my daughter.
    Harris Todd on his search for missing daughter, ex-wife
  • If someone were to say, 'I'll give you everything you want except your daughter.'.
    Harris Todd on his search for missing daughter, ex-wife

Key Moments

  • Element of Luck01:37
  • Determined Search02:26
  • Emotional Struggle02:45

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