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Bonnie Contreras on learning boyfriend Bill Hall Jr. was married

October 16, 2016 / 01:57

This episode discusses a conversation about relationships, honesty, and boundaries, featuring a personal story about a man named Bill.

The speaker recounts a lunch at Scusi, an Italian restaurant, where they asked Bill if he was married. Bill responded that he was married but going through a divorce.

The speaker reflects on their feelings about Bill's marital status and their decision to continue seeing him despite this information.

There is a focus on the speaker's perspective regarding privacy and the limits of their inquiry into Bill's personal life.

The episode highlights themes of trust and the complexities of dating someone who is separated.

TLDR

A conversation about dating honesty and boundaries involving Bill's marital status.

Episode

1:57
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did you ever ask Bill if he was married um I did when I did um it was at school ZZZ look alikes cuties the Italian
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restaurant on 1604 yep he would always take me there it was at scusi as I remember we had ordered our food and I
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finally asked him and I said I said I don't want to come off strong or you know [ __ ] or
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I'm like in your business or anything I said but um are you married that's because I don't I don't go out
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with married men how many months into this is that um I want to say like about a month so you fell within that month
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span we had spent a lot of time together by the time I asked him but it was like
00:00:48
about a month when you asked him point-blank if he was married at scusi z-- What did he say he goes yes I'm
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married I'm going through a divorce and I'm separated what'd you do I was like oh nice tat oh
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okay I didn't want to get into his business I didn't want to keep asking him more questions cuz to me that was
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none of my business and how I had never seen a ring on his finger I had never even seen ways of where he would pull
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off a ring or he had you know what tan um I didn't question I didn't I just said oh but he did tell you I'm married
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yep he said I'm married I'm separated going through a divorce should shake it up anyone cezzah no I continued to have
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lunch with him I finished my lunch when did you find out he'd lied to you about that lied to me about what going through
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a divorce he never lied to me he specifically told me that he was going through that he was
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separated and going through a divorce did you do any looking into it no he didn't it was none of my business
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I mean did you google it look on the record I know it was none of my business I feel like it was none of my business

Episode Highlights

  • The Marriage Question
    A pivotal moment when she asks Bill about his marital status, revealing his complicated situation.
    “Are you married?”
    @ 00m 31s
    October 16, 2016
  • His Honest Response
    Bill admits he is married but going through a divorce, complicating their relationship.
    “Yes, I'm married, I'm going through a divorce.”
    @ 00m 53s
    October 16, 2016

Episode Quotes

  • I don't go out with married men.
    Bonnie Contreras on learning boyfriend Bill Hall Jr. was married
  • He goes yes I'm married, I'm going through a divorce and I'm separated.
    Bonnie Contreras on learning boyfriend Bill Hall Jr. was married
  • It was none of my business.
    Bonnie Contreras on learning boyfriend Bill Hall Jr. was married

Key Moments

  • The Question00:31
  • The Revelation00:53
  • Boundaries01:48