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Death row inmate's letter to teen reveals surprise

March 30, 2014 / 01:37

This episode covers the emotional journey of a man discovering his biological father, Damon, who was incarcerated. Key discussions include the initial shock of receiving a letter from Damon, the process of getting to know him through letters, and the first meeting after years of anticipation.

The guest shares how he addressed Damon as Dad despite his father's request not to use the title. He recounts the experience of waiting to meet Damon in Louisiana and the surreal moment of their first hug.

They also discuss their evolving relationship, including how often they communicate now, which is about once or twice a week for extended conversations.

TLDR

A man shares his emotional journey meeting his incarcerated father for the first time.

Episode

1:37
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when I received the letter it was a shock and I was just like who is this man you know I'd always grew up thinking
00:00:06
that another man was my dad and then to know that my dad was in prison at that time I didn't know if he was guilty of
00:00:14
it or not I wrote him back and um pretty much asked him who he was I asked him you know little detailed questions about
00:00:23
you know what kind of music do you like um what sports do you like when I wrote the letter I I had addressed him as as
00:00:30
Dad I didn't feel that calling him Damon would be respectful he asked me not to call him dad because he didn't feel that
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that was a title he deserved I pretty much said to myself well you don't have a say
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I'm going to call you Dad anyway we were in Louisiana to be there for him when he
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got out the worst part of it was the waiting the 24 hours before I got to meet him the first
00:01:02
time I met my dad he said hey boy give me a hug it felt unreal in in a sense because it was something that I had
00:01:08
anticipated for so long I never forget that Sunday night we sat down and watched the Pats play uh the Giants that
00:01:15
night we went and got pizza and Coke just changed a little I didn't have phone conversations with him before so I
00:01:23
didn't even know what his voice was like how often do do you and your dad speak now probably once once or twice a week
00:01:30
now but by the time we get done talking it's been about 2 and a half hours

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 80
    Most emotional
  • 75
    Most heartwarming
  • 70
    Most dramatic
  • 70
    Best overall

Episode Highlights

  • A Shocking Revelation
    Discovering my real dad was in prison was a life-changing shock.
    “Who is this man?”
    @ 00m 02s
    March 30, 2014
  • First Meeting
    The first time I met my dad, he said, 'Hey boy, give me a hug.'
    “It felt unreal in a sense.”
    @ 01m 02s
    March 30, 2014
  • Building a Relationship
    Now, my dad and I talk once or twice a week for about two and a half hours.
    “How often do you and your dad speak?”
    @ 01m 28s
    March 30, 2014

Episode Quotes

  • It felt unreal because it was something I had anticipated for so long.
    Death row inmate's letter to teen reveals surprise
  • I didn't have phone conversations with him before, so I didn't even know his voice.
    Death row inmate's letter to teen reveals surprise

Key Moments

  • Meeting Dad01:02
  • Building connection01:28