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January 22, 2026 / 03:31

This episode covers the unsolved murder of Deborah Atrops, the investigation into her death, and the recent arrest of her husband, Robert Atrops. Key discussions include the timeline of events leading to her disappearance, the discovery of her body, and the complexities surrounding her relationships.

Deborah Atrops was last seen on November 29, 1988, driving on a rural road. Her car was discovered on December 1, with her body found in the trunk, leading to a long investigation. The episode features insights from her daughter, Rihanna, who reflects on the impact of her mother's murder.

The investigation initially focused on Robert Atrops, her husband, who had a troubled marriage with Deborah. However, the episode highlights the emergence of John Pearson, Deborah's romantic interest at the time, as a potential suspect, raising questions about the evidence against both men.

Rihanna expresses disbelief at the accusations against her father, emphasizing her conviction in his innocence. The episode discusses the challenges of solving cold cases and the emotional toll on families involved.

Ultimately, the episode reveals the complexities of the case and the ongoing quest for justice, as new evidence has led to Robert Atrops being charged nearly 35 years after the murder.

TLDR

Deborah Atrops's murder remains controversial, with new evidence implicating her husband Robert Atrops, while her daughter defends his innocence.

Episode

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[music] Deborah Atrops was 30 years old. >> She was a young mother. >> I didn't get to have my mom growing up.
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>> My old pumpkin. >> It was this mystery that has never been solved. >> Rihanna.
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My name is Rihanna and I am referred to in the story as the baby Riri, >> the eight-month-old baby who lost her
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mom. >> Yeah. >> Hi love. >> So you believe on November 29th, 1988, this was the last known location where
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she probably came. >> Mhm. We believe that she drove alone on this very rural road and that was the
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last drive that she took alive. [music] >> The car is found on December 1st. >> I knew she was strangled and she was
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found in her trunk. There was just so much unknown. Who did this? Why did this happen?
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>> We focused pretty early on on Robert >> Handsome >> like me. Bob Atrops was married to Debbie Atrops.
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[music] They had been married for a year or so and they were struggling um having
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issues in their relationship which caused them to [music] separate. >> We continued to conduct additional
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interviews, follow up on various leads and then it went dead. It was a tragedy. There were times when
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I wondered if we would ever make an arrest. Finally getting answers nearly 35 years
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later [music] as prosecutors say now 68-year-old Robert Elmer Atrops is the person
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responsible [music] for the November 1988 murder of his aranged wife Deborah Lee Atrops.
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>> I was just in shock. I couldn't [music] believe it. They 1,000% got it wrong.
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>> The mode of evidence is very very [music] strong. Debbie Atrops had a new romantic
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relationship with a man named John Pearson. They worked together. [music] She was excited about it, but she was
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very concerned about Robert Atrops finding out about her relationship with John Pearson. [music]
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>> The husband is often the obvious suspect. However, Debbie Atrops had a complicated life and kept [music] a lot
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of secrets. >> We view this as a case of actual innocence. There is more evidence that
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suggests John Pearson was involved in Deborah Atrops's murder than there is Bob Atrops. They [music] thoroughly
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interviewed John Pearson. Things were good between him and Debbie [music] Atrops. He had no motive to commit this
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crime. John Pearson did have [music] motive to kill Debbrops. He said that in hindsight he thinks that Debbie Atrops
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was only with him because she was looking for somebody to pay the bills for her. That's plenty [music] motive.
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>> Hello, Rihanna. My dad did not do this. I know my dad. I know his heart. And I know that he'd
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never be able to live with himself doing that.

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 80
    Most heartbreaking
  • 75
    Most shocking
  • 75
    Most controversial
  • 70
    Most dramatic

Episode Highlights

  • The Mystery Unfolds
    Deborah Atrops's tragic murder remains unsolved for nearly 35 years, leaving many questions.
    “It was this mystery that has never been solved.”
    @ 00m 18s
    January 22, 2026
  • The Arrest
    68-year-old Robert Elmer Atrops is named as the murderer of his wife Deborah.
    “Finally getting answers nearly 35 years later.”
    @ 01m 56s
    January 22, 2026
  • Defending Dad
    Rihanna passionately defends her father against the allegations of murder.
    “I know his heart. And I know that he'd never be able to live with himself doing that.”
    @ 03m 20s
    January 22, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • I didn't get to have my mom growing up.
    Sneak peek: The Mother I Wish I Knew
  • I was just in shock. I couldn't believe it.
    Sneak peek: The Mother I Wish I Knew
  • My dad did not do this. I know my dad.
    Sneak peek: The Mother I Wish I Knew

Key Moments

  • Young Mother00:09
  • Tragic Discovery01:06
  • Long Wait for Justice01:56
  • Family Defense03:16

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