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Remembering Highway of Tears victim Colleen MacMillen

December 22, 2013 / 03:04

This episode discusses the impact of a traumatic event on a family, focusing on the memories of a young girl with red hair, her love for water, and the aftermath of her disappearance. The conversation highlights the emotional toll on her mother and the community's reaction to the tragedy.

Guests reflect on their childhood experiences, mentioning how they spent time outdoors and the innocence lost after the incident. They describe the challenges of coping with such trauma in the 1970s, when mental health discussions were less common.

One guest shares personal insights about the long-term effects of the event, noting that it took years to fully comprehend its impact. They express gratitude for the preservation of evidence and commend the efforts of the RCMP during the investigation.

TLDR

A family's trauma from a disappearance shapes their lives and community, reflecting on emotional struggles and the importance of evidence preservation.

Episode

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Well, immediately I think of her red hair because that was one of the most striking features of her. And uh she was
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uh somewhat of a shy teenager. Uh one thing I do remember, she didn't like to have her picture taken very
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often, but she loved the water. As Kevin said, we lived on the lake, spent innumerable
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hours in the water, swimming during storms. We had a canoe and just she just loved being outdoors. And
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what did this Bobby Jack Fowler take from you and your family? Well, it really took its toll on my on
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her mom. Yeah. It devastated her and we didn't live there much longer after that.
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It was the innocence that was lost in that whole area. Nothing even remotely close to this had ever happened to
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anyone in our uh in our community. In our community. Yeah. It was just so far out of the realm of
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normal experience that to be honest it never occurred to me that it could happen to me
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just because it was so strange and foreign. Yeah. Unfortunately, in in those 70s,
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people looked upon those type of things differently than they do now. You know, the as far as getting counseling and
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that type of thing. It was just wasn't something you talked about back then. You just sort of tried to forget about
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it and move ahead with your life. And that's I think that's what my mother was trying
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to do is just try and forget about the hor whole ordeal. and uh she she she moved away from the area.
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Must have been agonizing. Well, you know, it myself I can only speak to how I felt at the time and it
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didn't really dawn on me. It wasn't until I was probably in my 20s that uh that I knew that, you know, I wanted
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some answers really. You know, obviously I knew what had happened, but I didn't know the scope of it.
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and how it would really affect me later on at the time. Emotionally, it was a just a very unusual thing to have
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happen. And and uh you got to just forge ahead, make it make your way through and
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move on to the next phase of your life. And and uh both of us have reflected back as adults thinking like, "Wow, how
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did we how did we even get through that?" Yeah. Some satisfaction there. It is in some small part.
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And uh thank God that evidence was preserved the way it was all these years. The RCMP did a fantastic job in
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those days and what they had. It was amazing. Just simply amazing how it all transpired.

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Episode Highlights

  • The Toll of Loss
    The tragedy took a heavy toll on the family, especially her mother.
    “It devastated her and we didn't live there much longer after that.”
    @ 00m 40s
    December 22, 2013
  • Reflections on Trauma
    Years later, the impact of the event still resonates, prompting a search for answers.
    “I wanted some answers really. I knew what had happened, but I didn't know the scope of it.”
    @ 02m 01s
    December 22, 2013

Episode Quotes

  • It was the innocence that was lost in that whole area.
    Remembering Highway of Tears victim Colleen MacMillen
  • Emotionally, it was a just a very unusual thing to have happen.
    Remembering Highway of Tears victim Colleen MacMillen

Key Moments

  • Love for Water00:16
  • Lost Innocence00:46
  • Strange Experience01:08
  • Moving On02:27
  • Preserved Evidence02:49

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