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The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)

May 15, 2024 / 27:55

This episode covers the harrowing case of the Haran family killings, focusing on Carlos Gutierrez's desperate 911 calls to save his girlfriend, Helen Haran, and the subsequent investigation into the deaths of Helen and her mother, Pamela. Key discussions include the failures of the 911 operators, the relationship dynamics between Carlos, Helen, and her family, and the evidence found at the crime scene.

Carlos Gutierrez, who was in Dallas, Texas, made multiple calls to 911 after Helen informed him that her sister, Megan, had killed their mother. Despite his urgent pleas, the operators did not respond promptly, leading to tragic consequences. Detective Brian Byerson from the Fairfax County Police criticized the handling of Carlos's calls, emphasizing the seriousness of the situation.

The episode also highlights the complicated relationship between Helen and her family, particularly regarding her plans to move in with Carlos. Tensions escalated when Helen's mother canceled a house purchase, leading to further conflict within the family.

Investigators uncovered suspicious evidence at the crime scene, including the placement of a rifle and the condition of the victims' phones. Detective Julia Elliot noted inconsistencies that suggested a murder rather than a murder-suicide.

Ultimately, the episode raises questions about family dynamics, emergency response protocols, and the investigation's direction, as detectives sought to determine the true circumstances surrounding the deaths of Helen and Pamela Haran.

TLDR

Carlos Gutierrez's 911 calls reveal failures in emergency response during the Haran family killings investigation.

Episode

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this episode contains graphic audio and references to Family Violence please listen with care Fairfax County Police
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on fire how may I assist you yes have an emergency more than a thousand miles from where he believes a crime is
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unfolding Carlos Gutierrez is desperately trying to save his girlfriend's life this was back in the
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summer of 2017 hello are you there yes I'm here these calls are from emergency services in
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Northern Virginia that's where the love of his life Helen haran lives I'm thinking my girlfriend's life is in
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danger his girlfriend's life is in danger but Carlos feels like the 911 operator isn't taking him
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seriously why aren't they responding with concern okay sir what I need you to do then is contact your local
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jurisdiction file a report with them and tell them that Fairfax County requires a teletype
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in order to do a welfare check okay I think this is like life or death like I think someone might be dead
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Carlos is trying to make sure the operator understands the seriousness of the situation but instead of quickly
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dispatching police the 911 operator tells him to call someone else contact your local jurisdiction file the report
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have them send a is the teletype and then we will go and check on her okay how do I get a hold of my jurisdiction
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how do I do that I well sir you if you don't have their non-emergency number if you dial 911 you'll get your emergency
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center okay thank you uhhuh bye-bye I would play this 911 call for detective Brian byerson of the Fairfax
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County Police he told me this first operator no longer works at the call center yeah this one is uh incontrovertibly
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horrible we do not require a teletype number to report a possible homicide yeah it's that's completely ridiculous
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Carlos would call speak to an operator and then be told he needed to call someone else again and again listen
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closely because this 911 tape is not exactly easy to understand is your girlfriend at home right
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now well that's the thing she won't answer her phone according to Carlos hours earlier Helen had called him to
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say her mom might be dead and then she stopped answering her phone she hadn't called 911 Carlos didn't hear from her
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and now he was worried Helen was in danger in a Race Against Time Carlos keeps calling the police we're going to
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need you to call your local police department and oh my God I still not good I'm sorry you're still not there how are
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we supposed to get there well you didn't give us an address y'all can't look up the name Pam haran and mlan
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and we looked at the name Pam haran and mlan we don't list individuals by name we don't record information that way
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okay I'm sorry I'm just I'm having a hard time I'm sorry finally more than an hour after his first 911 call police
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tell Carlos that they're sending officers to 's home detective Brian byerson didn't find
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out about Carlos's calls to 911 until after he walked through the haran house and saw the two bodies for himself
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ultimately what Carlos had to say would blow a hole in the theory that this was a murder suicide and that meant a killer
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could still be on the loose if true you have a brutal vicious killer in this community who could kill a
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that is correct I'm Peter Van Sant from 48 hours this is blood is thicker the haran
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family killings episode 2 the [Music] boyfriend Carlos Gutierrez is on the phone with a 911 supervisor out of
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Fairfax County Virginia Virginia Mr guz yes yes ma'am okay so she asks him more about his relationship with Helen haran
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how long have you known your girlfriend for about a year Carlos and Helen had been dating for a year they first met in
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Dallas they were working at a local restaurant together and there were Sparks they hit it off this is Michelle
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sigona she's a producer for 48 hours and has spent years years following the case
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there are cases we will spend months years on and then they will Air this is one of those that we spent an incredible
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amount of time prior to it aing Carlos was in his early 30s when he met Helen she was 23 he said that you know
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although maybe he wasn't technically formally living with her per se in Texas he was at her house 247 so they were
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living together essentially Helen was attending Southern Methodist University and said on her resume that her goal was
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to work for a defense contractor just as her mom Pamela had once done according to Carlos they fell in love and were
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inseparable it seemed like Carlos was planning to include Helen in his long-term future the couple were
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planning to leave Dallas and build a new life together in Northern Virginia he was so dedicated to Helen that Carlos
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was ready to to leave his life in Texas and move to Virginia as Carlos calls 911 the day of
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the tragedy he tells the story of the life they had planned we we got a house that's getting built he even mentions
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the house in Aldi Virginia that Helen's mother was buying he said they were serious
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committed according to Carlos he had big plans for their future he was planning to propose to her at some point
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after Helen made the move back East the couple video chatted texted and called every day he said the night before the
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shootings they missed each other so much that they spent nearly 4 hours talking on the phone it's a long time to talk to
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anyone 10 days before Pamela and Helen's deaths Carlos went to see Helen in Virginia so according to court testimony
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Carlos said he came to the area he did not stay at Pam's house that he and Helen stayed at a hotel nearby Carlos
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said he had no idea that Helen's family had any animosity toward him until after
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the shootings but there were signs none of Helen's family came out to meet him when he and Helen stopped by the house
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for blankets for a Fourth of July outing the blankets were put outside but Carlos
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said he didn't think anything about it Helen's oldest sister Megan would bring this up to police they were in the
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driveway when she came to get blankets for 4th of July and she said Megan wait they're in the driveway she's saying her
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mom told her not to go out and meet him Pamela had bought hel in a house but was now having second thoughts because
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Carlos might move in with her daughter here's Megan in a police recording taken hours after the shooting this
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morning my mom let Helen know that she was canceling the contract on the house she's building her because
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she truly believed that Helen was going to try to move Carlos into the house and
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my mom didn't want him being there after that she said Helen was Furious her mother had changed her mind but also
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said her kid's sister was even mad at her why Megan said she and her husband closed on a house of their own in West
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Virginia so while Helen's dream was taken away Megan was still getting hers she got mad at me and thought the house
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was my fault and then you know Mom was like has nothing to do with her you know why Helen I can't trust you and I'm not
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letting that caros move into that house Megan said that she was leaving to drive
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to West Virginia that morning before she left she said the door to her mom's home
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office was closed when I was leaving like I said I saw her office door closed and that usually means she's on the
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phone so I just left it PE she remembered how Helen was out on the front porch very upset I think it was
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this afternoon when I was leaving the house and she was crying and I I went out to the porch and I said who you on
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the phone with and she was like caros and I like oh are you okay and she's like and I said and I said
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um are you is everything okay she was crying police had been given two vers of that deadly morning one where Helen was
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scared for her life and another where she was the likely killer but which one did the evidence
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[Music] support this particular case there were things about the scene itself that were
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concerning to us on day one detectives Brian byerson and Julia Elliot a forensics expert looked over the two
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rooms where Helen and Pamela were shot Helen was found upstairs in her bathroom Pamela in the mudroom found on the floor
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under a quilt oddly her phone was sitting on top of the quilt in a pool of blood we know what that means we know
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that it means that that phone was placed there sometime after she died but this wasn't the only strange
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clue Helen's cell phone was set on the bathroom counter near the sink and yet didn't have a spot of blood on it and I
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want to find out who put that cell phone there in that particular place so you want to check for fingerprints and DNA
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yes what do you find on this phone nothing nothing nothing on Helen's phone she'd find the mother's phone was also
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clean on the front we will typically see fingerprints or at least smudges of fingerprints on this one we were able to
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these smears as if someone had wiped it from side to side the bathroom was in disarray with toiletry scattered on the
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floor but Detective Elliot noticed that the rifle was neatly placed why hadn't it tumbled away when she shot herself
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the rifle was still laying perfectly within her legs that to me tells me that if she's moving enough to move things
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off of the back of the toilet I would expect that gun to have fallen down to the floor I also have seen suicides done
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with long guns where they are not able to retain control of the gun but for detectives the rifle's perfect placement
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wouldn't be the only red flag you have a scene that's relatively small detective
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byerson told me that if Helen had killed herself in such a small bathroom there'd
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likely be Blood on the rifle there is blood everywhere it's all over the place however there doesn't seem to be any
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blood on the rifle itself which is sitting in the middle of all of this even though there's blood underneath so
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that is a huge problem to the detective this just didn't make sense we had a generally clean weapon and then
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underneath the weapon there was blood where there shouldn't have been if the weapon was there so that suggests
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perhaps someone else shot Helen it's suggest that the weapon wasn't there until later
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on which doesn't sound like a murder suicide to me then right it does not and in the basement another strange
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sight Detective Elliot found couch cushions that looked like they'd been slashed with a knife I wasn't sure if
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someone was taking out some anger or what they were doing was it a tear kind of cut or was a puncture kind of
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cut it was a stabbing puncture type cut like someone had what practiced on it yes and is it true that there was a long
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knife found in the house yes the knife was in plain sight she took a photo of it still down there in the basement this
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is the knife and it's sitting on a bookshelf that was just to the left of the couch cushions in the same room
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Detective Elliot believed the killer may have considered using the knife as a murder weapon instead of the rifle and
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then when Detective Elliot turned to look at Pamela haran's bookshelves she spotted something else so that Center uh
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set of books that are kind of gray with the Red Band those are photo albums and I got a little uh nosy and I wanted to
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see what my victims may have looked like in Life or as they grew up so I pulled out one of the center photo albums to
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look at it and open it up and behind it was a piece of evidence that ended up being quite important what was found it
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was a photoc copy of Pamela's spreadsheet that she used for all her accounts account numbers and passcodes
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it was also a photocopy of Pamela's bank statement this was still the night of the shootings and while Detective Elliot
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wanted to dig in and learn more about this bank statement financial documents were not on our search warrant and so
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therefore I could not take it we photographed it as we found it that night and eventually a couple days later
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came back with a search warrant to recover those papers and they were not there they were not there they were not
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you found yourself a pretty interesting piece of of evidence right yes at the time we weren't exactly sure what we
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were dealing with detectives were becoming increasingly convinced that both the haran women had been murdered but by who
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and what was the motive it would turn out that Helen's boyfriend Carlos had shared a theory
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with Ashley here's detective John vicory asking the father Steve haran about it tell me again what Carlos says to you to
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her I'll tell you exactly what Ashley tells me that Carlos said to her that Megan shot your mother
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earlier that July Morning Carlos had woken up to some messages from his girlfriend Helen one text read I wanted
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to see if by chance you were awake call me when you do wake up love you to Carlos nothing out of the ordinary
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everything appeared to be okay our producer Michelle sagona read through Carlos's Court testimony about that
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morning he was at home in Dallas and had slept in the two played phone tag until
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after 11: eastern time when Carlos finally caught her Helen was beside herself later in the morning um Carlos
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says specifically that Helen sound sounded frightened and scared he used words like Helen was trembling she was
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sobbing she was very frantic she immediately told him why and Carlos would tell 911 Cy Police Empire how may I assist
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you my girlfriend told me that her sister killed her mom and now my girlfriend won't answer
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her phone Carlos explained to the operator that Helen told him her sister Megan came upstairs to her room and said
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that she killed her mother Pamela so if you let that sink in for a minute she told me that her sister had killed her
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mother I can't imagine being in Dallas Texas while talking to my girlfriend on the phone who was inside this home were
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something horrific has happened and not really knowing what to do Carlos even said Helen told him she could hear her
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mother gasping for life things sounded dire he was trying to get to the heart of what was happening in all of this
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Carlos told Helen to leave immediately he was trying to tell her to out of the house to call police to do something but
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Helen had hesitation according to Carlos Helen was very nervous and possibly scared for her niece who apparently was
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also in the home Helen wanted to protect her niece Megan's Daughter Molly and that she was worried what her sister
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might do if the police showed up she didn't want her niece to see her mother getting arrested soon after Helen
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stopped responding and he called for help but Carlos couldn't recall Pamela haran's
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address okay where do you live I live in Dallas she lives in McLean okay and what's her
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address I don't know she's at her mom's house her mom's name is Pam Harden Carlos thought his future wife's life
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was at risk but this lack of details only left emergency services with more questions they asked caros to call back
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when he had more information and kept having him speak to different operators rehashing what Helen had told him
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finally the public safety supervisor in Fairfax County Virginia called Carlos herself her name is Lisa Wagner Smith
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she wanted to know how this alleged murder had unfolded okay was this just out of the
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blue did she say how she did it or why she did it she said she shot her she said she woke up and her sister told her
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she shot her mom so your girlfriend is sitting in a house with a dead woman the 911
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supervisor sounded skeptical why would Helen stay put if her sister had killed their mom Carlos would call back with
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the right information and reach a 911 operator I I reported a a murder earlier and I didn't have the address now I have
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the address so we didn't we reported a murder earlier do you think something happened
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there well I know for a fact that her sister shot her mom when this morning that's what I'm trying to tell you guys
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yeah this morning she called me and told me that her sister shot her mom and she
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didn't know what to do and I told her to call the cops to get the kids and we call the cops the operator passed Carlos
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back to Lisa the supervisor with the address and some information confirmed after multiple calls from Carlos 911 was
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finally able to send help we are sending an officer out there is there anything else you can think of that we need to
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know no I mean I'm just freaking out I'm thinking something bad happened to my girlfriend in case you didn't catch that
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Carlos said he was freaking out and worried something had happened to Helen before they end the call though Carlos
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did think of something else officers needed to know if y'all need it like I have like some incriminating text that
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her sister sent me Carlos thought Megan was texting him not his girlfriend what does that
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say because after the fact that Helen told me that her sister killed her mom right she I called her and she wouldn't
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answer and then so she text me back Helen did and it was like hey sorry I'm just arguing with my mom she pisses me
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off hate her and I this is after the fact that Helen told me that her sister killed her mom so I know that her sister
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got her phone and was sending these messages here's what one of those texts said everything is fine I'm not mad at
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Megan I'm mad that my mom paid for her house she and her husband should buy it themselves here is our producer Michelle
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sagona again based on these text messages he was receiving they were a huge red flag for Carlos he just wanted
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Helen to call him but all he got were texts and that started to feel suspicious I'm not even mad at her
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really the text continued just effing hate my mom Carlos didn't think that sounded like the woman he loved he kept
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calling Helen cell finally he was able to reach someone but it was not Helen it was Megan on the other side of the phone
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here's Carlos again yes and and now I called my girlfriend and her sister answers the phone and refuses to let me
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to my girlfriend but Carlos persisted and he kept asking I need to speak with Helen I'm having a bad day I need to
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speak with Helen and he's just getting some conflicting information Carlos doesn't back down he said he stayed on
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the phone pushing Megan to give the phone to Helen for nearly 10 minutes he believes at this point that she is not
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okay on that long call Carlos said Megan told him that her mother did didn't approve of him and that she wasn't going
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to let them move into the new house in Aldi Carlos claims that you know Pam had never said that to him or to Helen the
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call ended without him ever speaking to his girlfriend so none of this is making
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sense to him this is why he decides to make a brave move and call 911 Carlos realized that he needed to be the one to
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call for help and would begin his agonizing journey to sound the alarm with the Emergency Services my gosh can
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you imagine I mean not knowing what's happening inside of that house and trying to call 911 and being told you
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have to go through all these steps Megan told police she left the house around 1:30 that afternoon headed for West
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Virginia and then turned around to go to her dad's after she heard about the shooting Ashley was racing to her dad's
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too Carlos had called her while she was in the car but Ashley had trouble believing his story here is detective
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vicory asking Ashley about the call after she arrived at her dad's we we heard you received the call from Carlos
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yes and I don't even know this kid a stranger off the street he was saying that my this sister shot my mom by this
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sister Ashley met Megan who was sitting right there with them she would never do
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that ever never okay obviously I've known one my entire life and we've been through
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hell and bad together I know my sister Ashley told the detective she's been calling her mom and sister Megan chimed
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in to say she has two I left W her mom I was trying to talk Carlos was saying Megan killed her mother but in that
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moment the sisters were dismissive of him I don't know this guy from Adam that's what I that's what I've been
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saying like Ashley made it clear she didn't believe that Megan is a murderer do you recall his exact words Megan shot
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your mom and I was like I'm sorry what we were together all morning M I know like it just nothing's adding up nothing
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was adding up Ashley and her dad didn't seem scared of Megan police didn't arrest her
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and that day law enforcement told the public that the killer was dead Patrol officers thought Helen had
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done it but given how the crime scene didn't neatly fit a murder suicide and Carlos's 911 calls detective berson
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asked himself the question was Megan the killer did she murder both her mom and Helen that morning
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[Music] we have manipulated crime scene in multiple places the wiped phone the possibly
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wiped rifle the placing of the rifle we have the fact that Mom was covered and that her phone was laying on top of the
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quilt a couple days later they would hear about a suspicious call it becomes very obvious to us that there is no
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other there is no Boogeyman here it is exactly who we think it is from 48 hours this is blood is
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thicker the haran family killings Judy Tigard is the executive producer of 48 Hours original reporting by 48 Hours
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Episode Highlights

  • Carlos's Desperate Calls to 911
    Carlos Gutierrez desperately tries to save his girlfriend, Helen, by calling 911 multiple times, but faces frustrating responses from operators.
    “I think this is like life or death.”
    @ 01m 11s
    May 15, 2024
  • The Tragic Morning Unfolds
    On a fateful morning, Carlos learns from Helen that her sister, Megan, has killed their mother, Pamela.
    “She told me that her sister killed her mother.”
    @ 16m 51s
    May 15, 2024
  • Conflicting Information
    Carlos struggles to get information from Megan, who refuses to let him speak to Helen, raising his suspicions.
    “I need to speak with Helen, I'm having a bad day.”
    @ 22m 04s
    May 15, 2024
  • The Confusion Unfolds
    Ashley and her dad seem unconcerned about Megan, raising questions about the case.
    “Nothing's adding up.”
    @ 24m 47s
    May 15, 2024
  • The Investigation Deepens
    Detectives question if Megan could be the killer after examining the crime scene.
    “There is no Boogeyman here.”
    @ 25m 55s
    May 15, 2024

Episode Quotes

  • I think this is like life or death.
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)
  • I can't imagine being in Dallas while talking to my girlfriend...
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)
  • I'm just freaking out, I'm thinking something bad happened to my girlfriend.
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)
  • I'm sorry what?
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)
  • Nothing's adding up.
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)
  • There is no Boogeyman here.
    The Boyfriend | "Blood is Thicker" | "48 Hours" Podcast (Episode 2)

Key Moments

  • Emergency Calls01:11
  • Family Tragedy16:51
  • Desperation20:08
  • Confusion and Fear22:04
  • Shocking Revelation24:42
  • Investigation Questions25:21
  • Crime Scene Manipulation25:30

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