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Teen dating violence: A survivor shares her story

October 27, 2013 / 01:29

This episode features Britney Henderson discussing her experience with dating abuse during high school. Key topics include emotional manipulation, physical violence, and recovery.

Brittany recounts her relationship with a senior football star, where she faced criticism, isolation, and control over her life. She describes a particularly frightening incident where her boyfriend pinned her against a wall for laughing.

She shares her fear of speaking out about the abuse and how her father ultimately intervened to end the relationship. Now 21 and studying in Austin, Texas, Britney volunteers at the national dating abuse helpline.

Britney emphasizes the importance of safety and support for victims of abuse, and reflects on the potential consequences had she remained in the relationship.

TLDR

Britney Henderson shares her high school dating abuse experience and her journey to recovery and advocacy.

Episode

1:29
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Britney Henderson from Burlington Wisconsin came face to face with dating abuse her freshman year in high school
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I'd never had a boyfriend before and I fell for the senior football star and it was about 4 months into our relationship
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when I started noticing slight changes Britney says her boyfriend criticized her clothing isolated her from her
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friends and family even controlled her diet but his temper terrified her most of all he had said something and I
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thought it was funny and so I laughed and he turned me and he pinned me up against the wall by my throat and he got
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in my face and started yelling at me for laughing at him did you tell anybody about that mm why not fear fear of what
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he would do next Britney's father eventually stepped in and ended the relationship for her now 21 and in grad
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school in Austin Texas she volunteers at the national dating abuse helpline thank
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you for calling love is respect are you safe to talk victims of abuse once you're involved in it it sucks you in
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this Situation's not your fault you always deserve you know to be safe and support what do you think would have
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happened if you stayed in the relationship there are some heart-wrenching stories out there of a
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lot of victims and what they experience and I'm very thankful that mine never made it to that point

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Episode Highlights

  • Britney's Story of Survival
    Britney shares her experience with dating abuse and how she overcame it.
    “It sucks you in.”
    @ 01m 08s
    October 27, 2013
  • Empowering Victims
    Now a volunteer, Britney helps others navigate the challenges of dating abuse.
    “You always deserve to be safe.”
    @ 01m 13s
    October 27, 2013

Episode Quotes

  • It sucks you in.
    Teen dating violence: A survivor shares her story
  • You always deserve to be safe.
    Teen dating violence: A survivor shares her story
  • I'm very thankful that mine never made it to that point.
    Teen dating violence: A survivor shares her story

Key Moments

  • Dating Abuse00:04
  • Isolation00:23
  • Fear00:43
  • Support00:58
  • Gratitude01:25