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Former student confronts her alleged abuser – a trusted gym teacher and coach

October 17, 2014 / 02:41

This episode covers Jamie Cillo's confrontation with her former teacher Andrea Cardoza regarding sexual abuse that occurred during her middle school years. Jamie discusses her journey from being a victim to confronting her alleged abuser, leading to Cardoza's arrest.

In January 2014, Jamie Cillo from Riverside, California, made a phone call to Andrea Cardoza, her former middle school physical education teacher. Jamie reveals that she had been sexually abused by Cardoza from the age of 13 to 20. The conversation highlights the manipulation and brainwashing Jamie experienced during this time.

Jamie expresses her anger and frustration, questioning Cardoza about her actions and the impact they had on her life. Cardoza acknowledges the abuse and expresses regret, but Jamie challenges her justification for the relationship.

After the phone call, Jamie uploaded the video of their conversation to YouTube, which led to the principal being notified and the police getting involved. Cardoza was arrested shortly thereafter, with her bail set at $5 million.

The episode concludes with the mention of Cardoza's upcoming court hearing, emphasizing the ongoing legal ramifications of the case.

TLDR

Jamie Cillo confronts her abuser, Andrea Cardoza, leading to Cardoza's arrest for sexual abuse.

Episode

2:41
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hi may I please speak with Andrea CA in January 2014 in this remarkable phone call Jamie cillo from Riverside
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California had the idea to videotape herself as she confronted the woman who she says abused her sexually her former
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Middle School fizzed teacher Andrea Cardoza hi is this Miss cardosa yes this used to work at
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chimala in Riverside okay this is Jamie Cardoza had not heard from Jamie in a decade Jamie says she
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spent those years trying to bury the painful memories of her abuse how did you get the strength to make that phone
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call I got sick and tired of keeping all this in jimie says the abuse began when
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she was 13 years old and ended when she was 20 she starts kissing me in the locker room she's like well that's what
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you do when you're friends and each thing would go a step further she would say this is what you do when you love
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someone and you know if I say that I didn't want that then it was like I didn't love her last January at the age
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of 28 Jaime learned her alleged abuser was the assistant principal of a California high school and decided she
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had to try to stop her from abusing anyone else so what happens when a student comes in and says that they're
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having sexual relation relationship with with the teacher and I would involve law
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enforcement so how is that any different from what you did when I was at shimaa middle if not do you realize that you
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brainwashed me and you manipulated me and that what you did was wrong yes and I regret
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it I only I just wanted to help you how is having a sexual relationship with the
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12-year-old student helping you sicken me and every day when I think about what you did you sicken me Cardoza never
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denies the abuse the next day Jamie uploaded the video to YouTube and sent the link to the school's principal that
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afternoon the police were called and what happened to Cardoza she was arrested about a week later and her bail
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was set at $5 million so she sits in jail right now it's like a nightmare like I was living it again but needed to
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like do this to overcome everything that happened Andrea Cardoza is scheduled to
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be in court for another hearing later this month

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Episode Highlights

  • Confronting the Past
    Jamie Cardoza confronts her former teacher about years of abuse, seeking justice.
    “I got sick and tired of keeping all this in.”
    @ 00m 44s
    October 17, 2014
  • The Arrest
    After Jamie's confrontation, her abuser is arrested, marking a pivotal moment in her journey.
    “Her bail was set at $5 million, so she sits in jail right now.”
    @ 02m 21s
    October 17, 2014

Episode Quotes

  • I got sick and tired of keeping all this in.
    Former student confronts her alleged abuser – a trusted gym teacher and coach
  • You sicken me and every day when I think about what you did.
    Former student confronts her alleged abuser – a trusted gym teacher and coach
  • It's like a nightmare, like I was living it again.
    Former student confronts her alleged abuser – a trusted gym teacher and coach

Key Moments

  • Confrontation00:44
  • Abuse Revelation00:47
  • Justice Served02:21
  • Emotional Toll02:26

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