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what was going on with Gary financially um what happened you married a guy that you thought was very
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successful and had told you he was very successful but what had happened what was really going on he owed a lot of
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people money we would go to Las Vegas he was gambling a lot big sums too big sums
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and was he losing a lot yeah he would gamble like you know $30,000 a hand type of a thing Blackjack and then they give
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you a little piece of paper that's a marker which is like an IOU and he'd sign it you know and I would keep those
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uh keep those like in my cocktail bag or something and at one point This was later in the marriage one point it was
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about maybe2 to3 million wor the markers I had that Gary owed the casino yeah yeah
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yeah so you're telling me you fell in love with one man Gary Triano who then once you were married turned out to be
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another man um pretty much but I was in love and I made the decision this is this I'm going to
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create a family I've gotten married this is uh um I'm fine myself I can work um I
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can provide stability um I can make him the best person he can be and you know that's
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what happened when Gary fell into this debt how did his relationship with you change
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um there was things happening with him that I couldn't understand I mean that I didn't understand there was things
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happening with him in terms of uh his uh um not being very stable um being uh um emotionally
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emotionally not unstable um give me more what do you mean by unstable angry um paranoid what was paranoid
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jealous uh even violent in some situations you know violent this is important what did he do
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um there was a time where uh where I had uh um some friends come in from uh out of the country and I was spending some
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time with my girlfriend and he uh I came back and he was uh absolutely violent I
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mean he threw me where were you what you you know just just crazy and I had bruises all over my neck and my you know
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I mean it was just crazy like that you know so you know I don't know what was happening
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P I know this is really hard for you to talk about this is really hard to talk about but I think the details here are
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important you said you had bruises on your neck what did he do he just lost it I mean he just lost
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it you know when I had my girlfriend saw them I mean it was something that was you know did he choke you yeah yeah yeah
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yeah yeah yeah so that was when he was making a ton of money uh who knows did he ever hit you yeah I don't know
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how much I want to get into this but yeah there was some defin I eventually ended up getting in a restraining order
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at one point you know so I had to be you know had to be careful um to protect myself my kids my you know yeah from
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Gary's violence he was off the wall Off the Wall Off the Wall was he threatening
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you verbally um he threatened me verbally yeah there is a quote from Gary that you told police years ago that
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he said to you I'm thinking about killing you and then turning the gun on myself do you remember him saying
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that that was part of a um that was yeah that was part of a that was part of a a restraining order
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thing that they gave me yeah he he he was he was very very unstable and he had had uh um one night I woke up um
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and he had a well one point he had a gun at my head then he was sitting on a on uh on a chair and he had a gun um just
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playing with a gun he was just off the wall I talk the gun out of his hand I said what are you doing you know we
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started talking and I got talk the gun out of his hand I don't even know how to uncock a gun you know did you fear Gary
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oh yeah oh yeah Gary feared himself I think Gary feared himself Gary feared everything Gary was totally uh um in
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fear