Search Captions & Ask AI

Expert: "Blake Leibel was all about power and control"

October 07, 2018 / 01:48

This episode discusses narcissism, focusing on Blake LaBelle's behavior and mindset. Key topics include narcissistic rage, power dynamics, and accountability.

The conversation highlights LaBelle's grandiose fantasies and preoccupation with violence, as well as his relationship with Yana. When Yana becomes pregnant and withdraws from him, LaBelle's true nature emerges, showcasing his extreme selfishness.

Experts explain how LaBelle's narcissism leads him to believe he is above accountability, as he refuses to acknowledge his actions. The discussion emphasizes the impact of his behavior on innocent victims.

Ultimately, the episode illustrates how the justice system holds LaBelle accountable for his actions, contrasting his self-perception with reality.

TLDR

Blake LaBelle's narcissism leads to violence and denial of accountability in relationships.

Episode

1:48
00:00:00
one of the things we know about narcissus is they're prone to grandiose fantasies of power and control and then
00:00:09
you look at his developing background in his career and there's a lot of evidence
00:00:14
of a preoccupation with violence he takes up with Yana and everything seems on the outside to be superficially okay
00:00:26
and then when she becomes pregnant and she doesn't want to have sexual relations with him anymore
00:00:34
well then we learn what's really going on it's all about him one of the hallmarks of the narcissist is extreme
00:00:42
selfishness they will have what we call narcissistic rage in response to not getting their needs immediately
00:00:50
gratified and that's what we see unfortunately happen to this innocent victim he says the science is gonna tell you
00:00:58
who did this to the police but his subtitles are I'm so important of course it's not me
00:01:06
I can't possibly have done this I'm - above everybody - ever be held accountable for my actions
00:01:14
Blake LaBelle was all about power and control the refusal to acknowledge that he's done anything it's all consistent
00:01:21
with how narcissistic he is he thinks he's gonna get his way he thinks he's gonna get away with it so he's used to
00:01:28
defining the reality for those around him and he believes he can do the same thing here he's been doing it his whole
00:01:34
life well fortunately our system has made him accountable for his actions [Music]

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 60
    Most shocking

Episode Highlights

  • The Nature of Narcissism
    Narcissists often exhibit grandiose fantasies and extreme selfishness, leading to destructive behaviors.
    “One of the hallmarks of the narcissist is extreme selfishness.”
    @ 00m 39s
    October 07, 2018
  • The Consequences of Control
    Blake LaBelle's refusal to acknowledge wrongdoing showcases the dangers of narcissistic behavior.
    “He thinks he's gonna get away with it.”
    @ 01m 25s
    October 07, 2018
  • Justice Served
    Despite his manipulative tendencies, the system holds him accountable for his actions.
    “Fortunately, our system has made him accountable for his actions.”
    @ 01m 38s
    October 07, 2018

Episode Quotes

  • I'm so important, of course it's not me.
    Expert: "Blake Leibel was all about power and control"
  • He thinks he's gonna get away with it.
    Expert: "Blake Leibel was all about power and control"
  • Fortunately, our system has made him accountable for his actions.
    Expert: "Blake Leibel was all about power and control"

Key Moments

  • Superficial Normalcy00:23
  • Narcissistic Rage00:45
  • Accountability Achieved01:38