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The Blue River Murder | Full Episode

March 24, 2026 / 41:08

This episode covers the disappearance and murder of Stephanie Roller Bruner, featuring insights from her best friend Jennifer Vauakis, detective Teresa Berger, and district attorney Mark Roberts.

On a blizzardy night in November 2010, Stephanie Roller, a mother of three, went missing in Silverthorne, Colorado. Detective Teresa Berger was assigned to the case, emphasizing the urgency of the first 24 hours in missing person investigations. Despite extensive searches, no leads were found initially.

As the investigation unfolded, it was revealed that Stephanie had been experiencing marital issues with her husband Dale Bruner and had developed a romantic connection with her dance student Ron Hold House. Tensions escalated when Ron attempted to end the relationship just hours before Stephanie's disappearance.

Tragically, Stephanie's body was discovered in the Blue River days later, leading to a murder investigation focused on Dale and Ron. The case highlighted Dale's odd behavior and past history of violence, raising suspicions about his involvement.

Ultimately, Dale Bruner was arrested and convicted of Stephanie's murder, receiving a 112-year sentence. The episode concludes with reflections on the impact of domestic violence and the importance of awareness in the community.

TLDR

Stephanie Roller Bruner disappeared in 2010; her husband Dale was later convicted of her murder after a tumultuous investigation.

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Stephanie and I did a dance together [music] and it was a dance about love and loss
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and it [music] was an empty chair on the stage. age. The empty chair symbolizes the loss of a loved one.
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I [music] thought, how ironic is this that we do this dance and now Stephanie's the one that's in [music] my
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empty chair. My name is Jennifer Vauakis and Stephanie is my best friend. I think about Stephanie [music]
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every day. Every time I dance, she's with me. It was the Monday before Thanksgiving in
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Silverthornne, very small town, Colorado. [music] It was dark night. It was a blizzard
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that night and very cold. Temperature was 1° with wind chill of minus20 or lower.
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Stephanie Roller Bruner, mother of three, while her young children are asleep, she
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supposedly goes out for a walk on this cold, snowy, blizzard night and she disappears into thin air.
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My job was to find Stephanie. If I couldn't find Stephanie, I felt like I would fail.
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>> My name is Teresa Berger. I'm a detective for the Silverthorn Police Department. I was hoping for the best,
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but I was thinking of the worst. Summit County, Colorado. It can get very cold and it can be very dangerous.
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First 24 hours is the most imperative when finding a missing person. I didn't find her.
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The [music] scenario that you hope happens is that Stephanie would be found safe and unheard somewhere.
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I'm Mark Roberts and I'm the district attorney up here in Summit County. And we were called in early on in the case
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because up here every missing person we look at is possibly a homicide. >> Each day that we looked into Stephanie's
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life, we learned many things. We learned that Stephanie had secrets. She was very scared. She was scared for
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her life. I don't know what it is about beautiful, kind women who fall into these kind of
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traps. That's the biggest question now is why. >> [music] >> This is a story of a mother of three,
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a lovely person who loved to dance, who disappeared. appeared in a blizzard in the cold.
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No leads, no shoe print in the snow, and it's a puzzle. Where is she? When Stephanie Roller went missing in
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November of 2010, Teresa Barger was still a unformed police officer. But before it was over, her determination to
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find out what happened to Stephanie would earn her the title detective. >> I take most of my cases personally. But
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because she was alone and we couldn't find her, that became my project. That became a passion to find her.
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Officer Barger helped launch a massive search and rescue effort to find the missing mother of three. Stephanie's
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husband, Dale Bruner, said he last saw his wife around 10:30 [music] p.m. on Monday night. 24 hours later,
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there was [music] still no sign of her. >> We've called everybody that we can call
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that we know of. I've got the kids at the house at this point. Mommy didn't come home, and I don't know what to tell
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the kids. You can't tell them anything. You don't know anything yet. I'm scared.
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>> The thought of losing Stephanie was too much to take in, says Dale. He'd been in
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love with her from the moment he set eyes on her at a ski resort in Oregon. >> She was wearing sunglasses and I didn't
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know what she really looked like at all until she took her sunglasses off and I was just stunned. I was like, "Wow, this
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she's beautiful." >> They moved together to Silverthornne, Colorado, a town near the popular ski
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resort of Breenidge. Athletic and adventurous, Stephanie fit right in, says friend Jennifer Vakus.
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When Stephanie moved to the county, the first thing she wanted to do was dance. [music] And so I was the lucky recipient
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of that call because I owned a dance studio. [music] We were friends from the very start. From the first word, I knew
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that she was something very special. >> Stephanie went to work for the county reviewing home building plans. And Dale
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built a business as a photographer. They eventually married in Fiji and had three children, a girl,
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a boy, and a second little girl. >> She really wanted children, and she was very happy.
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>> We weren't rich, but we did. We were doing okay. We were able to take the vacations to Mexico and Disney World,
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you know, every year and Hawaii, you know, three or four times in the last few years.
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>> It sounds like an idyllic life. Yeah. >> But a few months before she disappeared,
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Dale's best friend, Brad Olivanti, says he watched that idyllic life morph into something unrecognizable.
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>> I called it the perfect storm. It just seemed like things started going on a different direction quickly.
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>> Stephanie was laid off and Dale's photography business dried up in the tight economy. But that wasn't the worst
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of it. >> What state was your marriage in? >> A juggling act. >> In what sense? >> Well, Stephanie wanted out. She said,
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"I've fallen out of love with you. I've met someone else. I want to move on." >> That someone else was a physical
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therapist named Ron Hold House. They met when Stephanie was teaching [music] him
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to dance for a local benefit, Dancing with the Mountain Stars. >> Hey, Mark. How are you?
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>> Good. How are you doing? District Attorney Mark Hurlbert. >> Even though there did not appear to be
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anything physical, emotionally they appeared to be very connected with each other.
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>> Their secret blog [music] called Souls Seeking tells the story of two lovers longing but unable because of [music]
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circumstance to be together. >> It was definitely a love affair. It was a affair of the heart.
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>> About 6 months after meeting Ron, Stephanie asked Dale for a divorce. Were you willing to get divorced? Yes,
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absolutely. I wanted Stephanie to always be happy. >> Even if it was with someone else,
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>> that's not my choice. I mean, that's her if if that's what makes her happy, then,
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you know, if being with me wasn't going to be make her happy, then that's not why would I want that.
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>> But to the police, the combination of jilted husband and missing wife raised a
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red flag. >> I heard the door and there was two police officers. One of them flat out
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was yelling at me. He said, "Did you kill your wife?" And I was just stunned. I'm like, "What are you talking about?"
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>> But Dale wasn't the only one on their radar. Turns out Mr. Holt House had a Mrs. Hold House. And despite what he
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said in those romantic love letters, Ron had no intention of leaving his wife. He
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broke it to Stephanie the day before she disappeared. He was trying to break it off with Stephanie.
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>> Yes. He said that he would he needed to step back and work on his relationship
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with his wife. >> But Stephanie was so upset, Ron told officer Barger that he agreed to meet
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her in the parking lot where they often came to talk. >> Stephanie and Ron met here about 5 hours
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before Stephanie went missing. >> They parted, but later that night, Officer Barger says Stephanie was still
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fixated on getting Ron back. She wrote him an emotional email detailing her love for him.
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>> And at that point, the trail went cold. [music] >> Dale told officer Barger that around
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10:30, Stephanie told him she needed to clear her head. He heard the door shut and then she walked off into that dark,
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snowy night. It's hard to admit that the worst could happen to you. You don't think it's going to ever
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happen to you. From the minute Stephanie Roller disappeared, Jennifer Vakus and her
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husband Mike scoured the county looking for their missing friend. >> I searched in the river. I searched
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under bridges, covert outlets, even dumpsters and that sort of thing. >> We had to look for her. Who knows where
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she was? It was better than not doing anything at all. >> They went from hotel to hotel.
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>> We took every lead that we could and we explored it. They called Stephanie's cell phone countless times hoping she
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would answer. She never did. >> I was in shock. >> According to Dale, Stephanie had left
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that night in a lightweight jacket. She had no purse, no money, no car keys, only a phone she wasn't answering, and a
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computer she wasn't using. >> What? She took her computer, but she didn't take her purse for a walk in
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freezing temperatures. That wasn't adding up. >> Though technically still a missing
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person's case, the Silverthorn PD started treating it as a murder investigation.
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>> Right there. >> And this was one of the people officers wanted to talk to. Ron Holt House, the
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boyfriend. I just want to ask straight up again, not accusing you. Do you know where Stephanie is right now? I
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absolutely have no >> He was nervous, but he was very forthcoming on the information that we
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had asked. >> And I was actually trying to tell her that it was over. And then he said,
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asked me again one more time like, "But we can make it work." I said, "No, I we cannot make this work."
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>> He appeared to me genuine at that point, but we didn't give up because you never
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know. He could be a really good liar. Oh, yeah. He could have been. >> The search for Stephanie slowed down on
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Thanksgiving Day, but not for Officer Barger. She kept grinding away. >> There was nothing leading me to her, and
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that's not normal. Usually, there is a trace somewhere. >> By that evening, she was at her wit's
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end. >> It became a horrible evening. All I kept thinking is we need a locator. >> The next day, Friday,
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>> I want you to stay in the same tracks you came in on. >> Barger sadly got her wish.
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>> Around noon, the frozen body of a woman was found just a few minutes walk from
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Stephanie Roller's home under melting snow in the Blue River. >> The majority of her body was was
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submerged. Agent Greg Sedar with the Colorado Bureau of Investigation was called in to assist the local police.
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>> She was lying face up in the water and she was naked with the exception of a long sleeve teal t-shirt was still
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attached to her right arm. >> That was it. >> Yes, ma'am. >> There was no sign of sexual assault, but
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the clothes she was reportedly wearing were never found. [music] It was very hard to look at her
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cuz I could tell from the pictures it was her. It was the same person that I've been looking for.
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And it was very hard. It's unescribable. I just was so shocked. I couldn't react.
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I couldn't react. My first thought was what happened to her? And my second was my kids. Like, oh
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my god, my kids have lost their mom. This was a very brutal, brutal murder. She was hit over the head, which caused
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her skull to break. She was strangled so hard that a bone in her neck broke. while still alive, thrown into the Blue
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River and left to drown and die of hypothermia. >> How horrible that it had to be for her
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to be in that that river and to sit there and not be able to do anything. She suffered.
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I had to focus now and bring that person to justice because she needed that. And
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her children, her children needed that. Tonight is about celebration to take away memories of Stephanie Roller
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Bruner. >> One week after Stephanie Roller's battered body was pulled from the icy
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waters of the Blue River, >> when I met Stephanie, I just knew I had to be her friend.
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>> Friends, my heart is with you. >> Family and people who had never even met her gathered in the theater where she
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once danced to celebrate her life. Stephanie, thank you for teaching us strength and courage.
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>> It was very important that we called it a celebration because that's who Stephanie was. She always wanted her
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life to be happy. >> It was a beautiful service. >> People are just griefstricken.
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>> But Agent Sedar wasn't just there to pay his respects. He was there to work. And
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that meant keeping a close eye on another of his suspects, Dale Bruner. As I watched Dale, he would look around the
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room comfortable and calm. Then when somebody would walk up to him, he would break down crying, no tears,
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and then when that person filed away, he'd snap back into just a normal demeanor again. It was one of the oddest
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behaviors I've ever seen. >> But Dale's best friend, Brad, a longtime funeral director, says there's no
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accounting for behavior in times of grief. Nevertheless, he suggested it might be time for Dale to lawyer up.
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>> I kind of had a little chat with him. I said, "Pal, um, I don't know if you watch TV," and he does, "But do you know
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that, you know, the husband usually is the person that they're going to come after in a situation like this when a
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wife goes missing and is now deceased." Investigators were definitely eyeing Dale, but he wasn't the only one. There
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were still two others high on their list. >> One was Ron Hold House and the other was
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Cynthia Holt House. >> Cynthia Holt House. >> Hi, Cynthia. >> The boyfriend's wife.
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>> How are you? >> She at one point had said that she wished that Stephanie was dead. And she
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said this while Stephanie was missing. >> Have you ever taken a polygraph exam before?
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Ron Hold House and his wife Cynthia both took lie detector tests. How'd they do?
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>> They both failed. >> They failed. What did that tell you? >> We needed to do digging.
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So, this is a bridge where Stephanie used to like to walk. >> That's what Dale told us that this was
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one of her favorite places. >> Sadly, [music] it now overlooks the stretch of river where Stephanie
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Roller's body was found. A cruel irony that made Agent Sedar all the more determined to find her killer.
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What's your strategy to solve this case? >> Narrow down who would have motive, opportunity, and ability to kill Miss
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Bruner. >> In his mind, that came down to three people. The jilted husband, the married
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boyfriend, and the boyfriend's jealous wife. >> The jealous wife? I'm the jealous
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boyfriend. >> At this point, I think everybody's a suspect. Investigators believed each one
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had the motive and the ability to kill Stephanie. They just had to figure out which one had the opportunity. Starting
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with Ron Hold House. >> Did Ron have an alibi? >> Yes. His wife. >> So Ron's alibi was Cynthia and Cynthia's
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alibi was >> Ron. Yes. Husband and wife said they were home together all night. And in
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interview after interview, their stories matched. Something that made agent Sedar
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believe them. >> It's almost impossible to lie consistently, not only about yourself,
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but about someone else and have those lies continue to sink up. >> You don't think they could have been
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covering for each other. >> I found that at that time to be highly unlikely. >> Cynthia didn't even learn about the
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affair until after Stephanie went missing, says Sedar. He believes she was too angry to lie for her husband.
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>> Even though you love him as much as you do, I can tell you love him a lot. >> Yeah, I love him a lot, but no, I
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wouldn't love him. >> No, because >> even if you knew he was still going to go to prison, if you did,
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>> you know what? If he made it, I'd go away. >> But what about those lie detector tests?
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The ones they both failed. Agent Sedar thinks Cynthia's distressed emotional state caused her to fail. As for Ron,
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this person. >> I think he was telling us the truth. I think that deep down inside I think he
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really felt like he was on some level responsible for her disappearance. >> He had that guilt that
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>> absolutely. >> So ultimately you focused on another suspect. Who was that? Dale Bruner.
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>> From day one Dale's behavior didn't add up, says Barger. >> He was casual. He was calm about things.
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He did not seem like a person who was looking for his wife. Jennifer was just as perplexed by Dale's demeanor. She got
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to the house about 6 hours after Stephanie was reported missing. [music] >> First thing he did was set me down at
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the kitchen table and start complaining about Stephanie, how she didn't keep the
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house and how he did everything for her. And in my mind, I'm thinking Stephanie's
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missing. What are we talking about here? And I asked him, "What have you done so far?"
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He had done nothing to help find her. Well, okay. Who have you called? Nobody. Nobody. He called nobody.
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What would you do if your spouse went missing? Would you sit there and call nobody?
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>> What's more, he never even left the house to search for her. >> It's human instinct. If you love
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someone, you go search for them. >> But where? Just go out and start walking. Yeah, canvasing.
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>> But I was told I was told the police will do that. >> It must have taken a remarkable amount
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of self-control as a husband who loves his wife, if she's missing, to stay home and not search for her.
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>> Where am I going to look? >> The next day, officer Barger called Dale into the station for questioning. At
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this point, his wife had been missing almost 2 days. Yet, he still seemed unconcerned.
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>> I walked in, there he was, asleep. Dale was asleep in the chair. I was speechless. I really didn't know what
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else to think. I mean, he was sleeping right there, sleeping in the chair, and we're still looking for her.
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>> During most of the interview, Barger says he was eerily calm and relaxed. >> And I'm like, what if she just comes
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home? I don't want to worry her parents. What if this is just silly, >> right? And I've only gent,
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you know, some stupid information. Officer Barger says she will never forget the look in those eyes.
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>> You know how you can tell somebody isn't genuine? Their eyes, they look different. You know, there looks like
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there's nothing behind them. There's no care, there's no love, there's nothing behind them.
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>> Dale says he keeps his emotions in check for a reason. >> I know. I could just fall on the floor
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and just start crying. I mean, and then I don't know if I'll be able to get up. So instead,
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>> instead I do this and I hold on. And so that's that's counted as insincere cuz I don't know if I'll stop
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>> stop crying. >> Yeah. >> Investigators might have been able to overlook some of Dale Bruner's weird
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behavior, but they couldn't overlook his timeline. Dale told the police that Stephanie left for her walk on that
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bitterly cold night between 10 and 10:30. He didn't report her missing until 8:45 the next morning. He said to
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give her space. >> I didn't know where she went. I half worried, half is she with the
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boyfriend? Is she not? If she needs her space, whatever she's doing, I don't know. And the last thing I wanted to do
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was badger her. When did you start to worry? >> The morning. I mean, I worried that
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night late, but I'm like, you know, she she's a big girl. >> Why do you think he waited 11 hours to
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call police? >> Waited 11 hours because he was he was getting rid of evidence. >> When you realized that Dale Bruner was
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your prime suspect, were you concerned for the kids? >> Absolutely. Without her there to protect
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him, we were very worried about the kids. The day after their mother's memorial, children's services swept in
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and removed the children from their home. They were sent to live with Stephanie's family. At this point, Brad
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confronted his friend. >> I asked my best friend and looked at him in the eye and said, "Did you have
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anything to do with this?" And he looked me straight in the eye and said, "No." But authorities were learning that Dale
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was a master at hiding the truth. They began to uncover deep [music] secrets in Dale Bruner's past, which gave them
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enough ammunition to arrest [music] him. 8 months after Stephanie Roller's death,
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Dale Bruner was indicted [music] for the murder of his wife. >> We got him. We are going to get justice
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[music] for Stephanie. >> [music] [music] >> District Attorney Mark Hurlebert was
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sure he had the right guy, but he knew he [music] had his work cut out for him. >> Biggest challenge is that we have no
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direct evidence. I mean, this was a circumstantial evidence case. >> Dale, released on bond, remained adamant
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that he was innocent. So adamant, he rejected a deal of 24 years in exchange for a guilty plea.
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>> I'm going, "Dude, you might want to think about that." And he was adamant. He goes, "I am not going to admit to a
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crime that I did not do." Instead, he chose to take his chances in court. In July of 2012, a year and eight
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months after the slaying of Stephanie Roller, Dale Bruner went on trial for her murder.
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>> Here is our victim right in the center of the river. We are hoping to prove that Dale Bruner,
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>> the white material you're seeing right here is snow. >> Hit Stephanie over the head with some
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blunt forced object, strangled her, carried her body in the snow to the Blue River, and threw her body in the river.
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>> There is not a shred of evidence to directly link my client to these crimes. Dale's defense attorney, Rob
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Burnernhard, zeros in on the lack of direct evidence, hoping to show reasonable doubt.
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>> What we know is that they didn't find anything. Nothing, not one footprint, not one track,
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not one fingerprint. I've never seen him do a violent thing in my life. This guy is just a mellow,
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grounded, nice, good guy. He's [snorts] a good guy. Everyone that knows him loves him.
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>> Dale had us all pretty well fooled. You know, he was [music] very kind and nice
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and, you know, almost too nice. So, I would say beware of that too nice. Jennifer says it wasn't until the last
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month of her life that Stephanie finally opened [music] up about the other side of Dale Bruner, the
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dark side. >> She finally got the courage to tell me what was going on in her life.
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>> Stephanie told her Dale had been violent with her in the past. Even during her
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first pregnancy, >> he had gotten angry somehow and threw her on their bed and put his knee on her
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stomach on her belly and um threatened her. >> Dale promised he would get help and she
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decided to stay, but she never forgot. >> She warned me that if she were to get hurt, he did it.
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Turns out Stephanie wasn't the only woman to have experienced Dale Bruner's fury. Terresa Barger got a call on the
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tip line from an old girlfriend of Dales. >> What was the specific thing that she
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said that you went, "Uh-oh." He killed Stephanie. He had to have killed Stephanie because
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this is what he did to me. Jodie Eberhart was in her 20s and living with Dale Bruner in the early 90s when
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she says the mask came off. He'd come home late and she accused him of being out with another girl.
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>> He pushed me down onto the carpet and put his hands around my neck and said, "Um, if you ever say or do that again,
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I'll kill you." And he was actually physically holding me down on on the floor >> with his hand around your neck.
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>> With both hands around my neck. Yeah, it it all happened so fast. I never saw
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it coming. >> In a huge win for the prosecution, the judge allowed Jodie Eberheart and
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another woman with a similar story to testify at trial. >> Do you think it could have been you in
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that river? >> Had I stayed with him, it could have been. Mhm. >> This one's to Ellie for me, but you have
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to wait. >> Wait. For Stephanie, with three little kids, leaving was a daunting prospect.
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>> But six weeks before she was killed, Stephanie came home to find Dale angrily
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striking their son for refusing to listen. That was it. >> She said, quote unquote, "He can do
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anything he wants to me, but when he starts hurting my kids, that's where I draw a line in the sand."
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>> [music] >> Stephanie immediately filed a restraining order forbidding Dale to
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come near her or the children. A recording of the hearing was played in court. >> So, I'm here asking for help.
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>> The room fell silent as Stephanie spoke from the grave about Dale's history of
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abuse. >> I can't go back to him. He has threatened my life years ago, but you know, with a hand on my throat, didn't
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squeeze it, screaming in my face, I will kill you if you leave. >> It was incredibly powerful to hear that
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cuz you don't hear that in murder cases. >> As soon as he finds out from social services that I've entered the system,
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I'm going to run with my kids. I mean, I don't know what he's going to do. >> You were painted as a violent husband.
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Are you violent? Absolutely not. >> Did you ever threaten Stephanie? >> Never. Ever.
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>> She testified at the restraining order hearing. You threatened to kill her. >> I can only I can only think that was
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about custody of the children. That's a guess. >> But they're all lies. >> Absolutely.
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>> Here's the thing. I guess it might be more believable to think that Stephanie
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was lying if she didn't end up dead. But you hear all of these stories about how
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she says you threatened to kill her, that you were a violent man, and then she ends up dead.
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>> It's horrible, isn't it? >> In the weeks leading up to her death, Stephanie's behavior became more
00:31:08
erratic. First, for reasons only Stephanie knows, she rescended the restraining order.
00:31:14
>> I think she rescended the restraining order because she was afraid of him, afraid what he could do to her.
00:31:20
>> So, she let him come home. Then two days before she was killed, >> she actually moved out to the right side
00:31:28
of this duplex right here, right there, >> she packed up the kids and tried [music]
00:31:33
to get away again. But within hours, Stephanie and the kids were back home with Dale. It seems to me that in her
00:31:42
most desperate hour when she realized she couldn't afford what she was trying to do, it must have been so hard for her
00:31:49
to actually go back. >> Why Stephanie didn't knock on her door instead [music] of going back to Dale is
00:31:59
a question that haunts Jennifer to this day. >> You would not believe the guilt, the
00:32:06
remorse, whatifs all the time. What if? And I understand it's not my fault. It's
00:32:14
a situation where she was a victim and victims don't always see clearly or think clearly.
00:32:22
The day after moving home, Stephanie made a decision that may have cost her her life. Remember that email she was
00:32:29
writing to her boyfriend Ron the night she disappeared? Well, that email became the smoking gun of the prosecution's
00:32:36
case. This last email that Stephanie wrote is very frank with Ron. I love you so much. You're the love of my life. But
00:32:46
then there's no closing. >> Yes. >> What happened? >> It was never sent. Even though we were
00:32:52
never able to find her a computer, we were able to go to the internet company and find out that this email was never
00:32:58
sent. Herbert thinks Dale saw that email, [music] flew into a rage, hit her over the head,
00:33:08
possibly with the computer they never found, and then strangled her. >> Did you see the email she was writing
00:33:16
that night and then strike her? >> Absolutely not. >> Did you strangle her? >> Absolutely not.
00:33:23
>> Did you kill Stephanie Dale? >> Absolutely not. Beyond a shadow of a doubt, I absolutely
00:33:29
had nothing to do with her death. >> You're 100% sure that it was Dale? >> Yeah.
00:33:36
>> No doubts. >> No. [music] >> No doubts. >> After a two week trial, both sides rest.
00:33:47
It is now up to a jury to decide who to believe. Stephanie Roller, >> I will kill you if you leave.
00:33:54
>> Or Dale Bruner. Did you love your wife? >> Yes, abs. I still love my wife. Jennifer Vakus had walked the entire
00:34:18
journey alongside her dearest friend, Stephanie Roller. She danced with her. She searched for her.
00:34:34
>> Hello, Miss Bosakis. Would you stop there and raise your right hand, please? Do you
00:34:37
>> She confronted Dale Bruner in court for her. There I was, as close as you and I
00:34:42
are to Dale, telling people that he murdered his wife. knowing full well that this could ruin
00:34:52
him. She said that if anything happens to me, he did it. And I had no problem saying that cuz it's the truth.
00:35:05
But waiting in that courthouse for the jury to come back was something she couldn't do.
00:35:13
>> That was the worst time. That was so awful. I was crawling out of my skin. >> So, she got in her car and drove,
00:35:24
stopping by the side of the road next to an osprey nest and waited. >> Ladies and gentlemen, the court has been
00:35:34
informed that the jury has in fact reached its verdicts. >> It didn't take long. In just under 4
00:35:42
hours of deliberation, the verdict was in. We the jury find the defendant Dale Bruner guilty of murder in the second
00:35:52
degree. >> Guilty on all six counts. >> You may take him into custody. >> From murder to assault to tampering with
00:36:02
evidence. >> I remand you to the custody of the Summit County Jail immediately. >> Jennifer got the news on her cell phone
00:36:11
>> and I'm watching these birds thinking, how appropriate is this? because Stephanie was such a nature lover
00:36:18
that I'm in this [music] beautiful place watching these osprey getting the call that yes, the jury found Dale guilty of
00:36:25
all counts. You'd think I would have been ecstatic and super happy, but it was probably one
00:36:33
of the worst moments just to know that Stephanie's gone and that yes, Dale's guilty and that's great, but that
00:36:41
doesn't bring Stephanie back. For Teresa Barger, it was a bittersweet victory for a woman she never knew, but
00:36:50
whose voice she vowed would not be silenced. >> All I could think of is I hope that we
00:36:56
have justice for you and that she can rest in peace. >> Two months later, Stephanie's family and
00:37:05
friends gathered in this courtroom for the last time for the sentencing. quarters back on the record in people of
00:37:11
the state of Colorado versus Dale Bruner. >> One by one, they stood before Judge
00:37:16
Thompson and before Dale Bruner in his prison stripes. >> I'm not going to cry. >> To describe the impact of Stephanie's
00:37:24
murder on their lives >> because I get to do that every night when I'm lying in bed feeling guilty
00:37:29
about what I did or didn't do to help Stephanie. Even the man who'd stood by Dale Bruner
00:37:38
through it all was beginning to question his friend's claim of innocence. >> The bottom line is
00:37:46
someone did this to her. I hope it's not him. If it is, I would like to know the truth.
00:37:56
Was this a horrible accident where you guys got into a fight and you didn't mean to kill her, Dale, but you hurt
00:38:05
her? >> No. You can ask it a thousand ways and it's the the same answer. >> Someday he may face that question again.
00:38:17
>> There we go. Hi. Yeah. >> From three other victims in this story. >> [crying]
00:38:26
>> his children. >> There we are. >> If at some point they come to you and say, "Dad,
00:38:37
what happened? Did you kill our mom?" >> Well, I'll tell them the truth. I've never lied to my kids.
00:38:45
>> And you can look in your children's eyes and say, >> "Absolutely. >> I've never hurt your mom,
00:38:50
>> Mr. Bruner." Clearly, Judge Thompson believed otherwise. >> You took Miss Roller's life. You took
00:38:57
your children's mother. And you did it without remorse and in a brutal fashion. >> The judge sentenced Dale [clears throat]
00:39:04
Bruner to 112 years in prison. >> And Mr. Bruner, I can only hope that you will come to
00:39:12
realize the magnitude of your actions. Courts of jury. >> Thank you, honor. Last fall, a room in a local safe house
00:39:29
was [music] dedicated to Stephanie Roller. A reminder of the beautiful woman they
00:39:36
lost, but also of all the women still to be saved. These bad things can't be kept [music]
00:39:50
in the dark closet anymore. This happens. And you know what? It happens in your neighborhood. It could be your
00:39:57
neighbor and you don't even know it. It was my best friend and I didn't even know it. Right under my nose, she was
00:40:05
murdered. So, if you're a woman and you have these worst fears, man, run fast and stay gone.
00:40:37
>> [music] [music] >> Heat. Heat. >> [music]

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  • 85
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  • 85
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  • 80
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Episode Highlights

  • The Dance of Love and Loss
    Jennifer reflects on her dance with Stephanie, symbolizing their deep bond and the pain of loss.
    “Every time I dance, she's with me.”
    @ 01m 00s
    March 24, 2026
  • A Cold Night and a Disappearance
    On a blizzard night, Stephanie Roller goes missing, leaving her family and friends in despair.
    “You can't tell them anything. You don't know anything yet. I'm scared.”
    @ 04m 57s
    March 24, 2026
  • The Perfect Storm
    Stephanie's life takes a turn for the worse as her marriage struggles and she faces job loss.
    “I called it the perfect storm.”
    @ 06m 40s
    March 24, 2026
  • The Brutal Reality
    The investigation reveals the horrific details of Stephanie's murder, shocking those who knew her.
    “This was a very brutal, brutal murder.”
    @ 13m 56s
    March 24, 2026
  • A Celebration of Life
    Friends and family gather to celebrate Stephanie's life, honoring her memory with love.
    “It was very important that we called it a celebration because that's who Stephanie was.”
    @ 15m 07s
    March 24, 2026
  • Dale Bruner Indicted
    Eight months after Stephanie Roller's death, Dale Bruner was indicted for her murder.
    @ 24m 21s
    March 24, 2026
  • Trial for Murder
    Dale Bruner went on trial for the murder of his wife, Stephanie Roller.
    @ 25m 39s
    March 24, 2026
  • Guilty Verdict
    The jury found Dale Bruner guilty of murder in the second degree after a brief deliberation.
    @ 35m 49s
    March 24, 2026
  • Sentencing of Dale Bruner
    Dale Bruner was sentenced to 112 years in prison for the murder of Stephanie Roller.
    @ 39m 04s
    March 24, 2026
  • A Room Dedicated to Stephanie
    A local safe house dedicated a room to Stephanie Roller, honoring her memory and raising awareness.
    @ 39m 31s
    March 24, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • You can't tell them anything. You don't know anything yet. I'm scared.
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode
  • What? She took her computer, but she didn't take her purse for a walk?
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode
  • It was very important that we called it a celebration because that's who Stephanie was.
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode
  • He can do anything he wants to me, but...
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode
  • I will kill you if you leave.
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode
  • You took your children's mother. And you did it without remorse.
    The Blue River Murder | Full Episode

Key Moments

  • Blizzard Night01:21
  • Celebration of Life15:07
  • Confrontation23:51
  • Justice Served24:24
  • Trial Begins25:39
  • Guilty Verdict35:49
  • Sentencing39:04
  • Memory of Stephanie39:31

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