She Cheated On Me and Thats Not All - Dr. Aria | E56
- Nov 8, 2020
- 1:37:00
- Full Episode
The topics we talk about in this weeks episode titled - 'She Cheated On Me and Thats Not All - with Dr. Aria': 0:00 Intro 1:10 The Story 14:19 Processing the emotions 41:19 Adapting my opinion of marriage and monogamy 01:00:04 How I Lost an intrinsic part of who I was 01:07:57 My Ideal relationship structure 01:23:00 Why unhappiness stems from conformity 01:40:42 Outro
Listen on: Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ZqNiWb7GMap7jUVXKS3I6?si=uiz2b-h4QbaDxWJI2HKBsA Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/e56-she-cheated-on-me-and-thats-not-all-with-dr-aria/id1291423644?i=1000497733261
My book pre-order: (UK, US, AUS, NZ Link) - http://hyperurl.co/xenkw2 (EU & Rest of the World Link) https://www.bookdepository.com/Happy-Sexy-Millionaire-Steven-Bartlett/9781529301496?ref=grid-view&qid=1610300058833&sr=1-2
Special thanks to my good friend Dr. Aria, you can find him at: Instagram - @dr._aria Website - dr-aria.com
Sponsor - https://uk.huel.com/
Brief Summary
Dr. Ari discusses his wife's affair, emotional resilience, and evolving views on monogamy and relationships.
Key points
- Dr. Ari's Unimaginable Story. Dr. Ari shares a deeply personal story of betrayal and emotional resilience.
- The Calm in the Storm. Ari discusses how he maintained calmness in the face of emotional turmoil.
- Navigating Grief and Loss. Ari reveals his process of dealing with grief after discovering his wife's affair.
- Forgiveness Journey. The speaker reflects on their path to forgiveness, emphasizing the importance of letting go.
- Questioning Monogamy. The speaker discusses how their experience led them to question traditional views on monogamy and marriage.
- The Evolution of Relationships. Exploring how evolutionary perspectives shape our views on monogamy and relationships.
Episode highlights
- Dr. Ari's Unimaginable StoryDr. Ari shares a deeply personal story of betrayal and emotional resilience.“It felt like they just been snatched away.”4:50Nov 8, 2020
- The Calm in the StormAri discusses how he maintained calmness in the face of emotional turmoil.“The stillest part of the hurricane is its center.”7:27Nov 8, 2020
- Navigating Grief and LossAri reveals his process of dealing with grief after discovering his wife's affair.“I decided to deal with one moment at a time.”15:51Nov 8, 2020
- Forgiveness JourneyThe speaker reflects on their path to forgiveness, emphasizing the importance of letting go.“I want to travel so lightly I could pass through the eye of a needle.”29:08Nov 8, 2020
- Questioning MonogamyThe speaker discusses how their experience led them to question traditional views on monogamy and marriage.“I began to question my deepest assumptions about monogamy.”42:05Nov 8, 2020
- The Evolution of RelationshipsExploring how evolutionary perspectives shape our views on monogamy and relationships.“It's less about turning away from our partner and more about turning away from a part of ourselves.”1:04:18Nov 8, 2020
- The Role of Space in LoveDiscussing the importance of space in relationships and how it affects desire.“Fire needs air; desire needs space.”1:05:11Nov 8, 2020
- The Ingredients of DesireExploring how stability and safety in relationships might kill desire.“What if the same ingredients that lead to a long-lasting relationship kill desire?”1:16:07Nov 8, 2020
