Secret Agent: How To Detect A Lie Instantly! - Evy Poumpouras

The Diary Of A CEO

  • Jun 6, 2024
  • 2:03:29
  • Full Episode

Evy Poumpouras is a former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent and multi-media journalist. She is also the co-host of Bravo TV's series ‘Spy Games’ and author of the best-selling memoir, ‘Becoming Bulletproof’.

00:00 Intro 02:22 My Mission To Unlock People's Potential 05:05 How You Became A Secret Service Officer 10:43 How To Get Someone To Do What You Want Them To 13:10 When You Listen To Someone They Like You More 14:34 You Need To Know About Them And Then You Can Start Asking The Right Questions 18:18 How To Get Others To Respect You 22:59 Is It Your Ego Or Have Your Boundaries Being Broken? 26:49 How To Build Confidence 29:34 The Different Versions Of Ourselves We Create 32:49 What I Learnt About Leadership From Working With 4 US Presidents 35:47 I Was In The Room When US Presidents Would Make Tough Decisions 38:36 My First Day Working For George Bush 41:07 Secret Service Training: Only 1% Make It Through 44:16 The 1% Of People That Became Part Of The Secret Service 46:06 How Can You Tell If Someone Is Lying To You? 48:16 Who's The Biggest Liar You've Met? 50:54 Signs They're Lying To You 52:59 What Your Body Language Reveals About You 01:00:19 Do Men Struggle With Strong Women? 01:01:00 What Advice Would You Give Your Daughter Become A Resilient Person 01:04:37 What Do You Work Out Your Mind And Body 01:07:19 What Was The Scariest Day Of Your Career? 01:12:28 How Was Your Mental Health During Your Career? 01:17:48 Discrimination In The Secret Service 01:19:39 How To Be Heard And Respected 01:25:51 Why You Need To Take Personal Responsibility 01:33:48 The Addiction To Being A Victim 01:35:02 Identifying Victims That Don't Want To Change 01:39:47 Undercover Missions 01:45:24 Discrimination In The Job 01:50:58 Labelling Yourself Can Affect The Way You See Yourself

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Brief Summary

Evie Pomporus discusses lie detection, leadership, and overcoming challenges as a woman in the Secret Service.

Key points

  • The Secret Service Experience. Evie shares her unique experiences as a Secret Service agent, highlighting the selfless nature of the job.
  • Conflict Resolution Insights. Evie discusses how to handle disrespect and set boundaries in leadership roles.
  • The Importance of Respect in Leadership. Respect is crucial in leadership, but it's important to distinguish between genuine disrespect and ego.
  • Building Resilience from Presidents. Observing presidents teaches resilience, especially in facing public criticism and maintaining composure.
  • The Importance of Integrity. Integrity is crucial in the selection process; lying can disqualify applicants.
  • Building Self-Confidence. Real success comes from genuinely believing in oneself, not just following tips and tricks.

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