What Does Homeschooling Isolation Do To Your Mental Health?
- Jul 24, 2026
- 1:12:01
- Full Episode
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*Trigger Warning:* This episode contains discussions of suicide, depression, trauma, and mental health.
What happens when homeschooling, isolation, and identity all collide? In this episode, I sit down with Beau to talk about growing up homeschooled in a deeply religious environment, navigating gender identity, struggling with severe mental health challenges, and ultimately finding purpose through helping others heal. Beau shares an incredibly honest story about the realities of loneliness, recovery, and becoming a Recovery Support Specialist after surviving some of life's darkest moments.
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*Resources Mentioned* • CRHE: https://crhe.org • Homeschool Alumni Group Sessions: https://crhe.org/homeschool-alumni-groups/
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*Chapters* 00:00 Welcome Back to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club 00:57 Let's Meet Beau 02:17 Was Homeschooling Structured For You? 05:58 How Much Responsibility Did You Hold At Home? 08:38 Where Did You Grow Up? 10:06 The Push To Get Into College Early 12:59 Socializing As A Homeschooler 17:17 What Was Making You Feel Out Of Place In School? 22:06 When Did You Know You We're Trans? 27:26 What Did Early Adulthood Look Like? 30:45 Why Is Mental Health So Stigmatized In The Homeschool World? 32:26 Trigger Warning: We're Talking About Suicide 41:08 What Did It Take To Become A Recovery Support Specialist? 51:06 How To Connect With Other Homeschool Alumni? 58:06 What Do You Think About The Current State Of Homeschooling? 01:01:35 It's Always Ok To Change Your Mind 01:02:42 Don't Be Afraid To Share Your Story 01:05:44 Taking Care Of Yourself After Being Vulnerable 01:10:04 Connect with Beau 01:11:16 Do All The Internet Things
Brief Summary
Jacob and Beau discuss homeschooling, mental health struggles, and the journey of self-discovery as a trans individual.
Key points
- Mental Health and Resources. The episode includes a discussion on mental health, suicide, and available resources.
- Exploring Homeschooling Experiences. Jacob and Beau discuss their unique homeschooling journeys, touching on structure and socialization.
- Transitioning to Community College. Beau shares his experience transitioning from homeschooling to community college.
- The Journey of Identity. Exploring the complexities of gender identity and the feeling of not belonging.
- Finding Comfort in Identity. Realizing one's identity can lead to greater comfort and confidence.
- Mental Health Struggles. A candid discussion about the challenges of mental health and seeking help.
Episode highlights
- Mental Health and ResourcesThe episode includes a discussion on mental health, suicide, and available resources.“We're gonna talk about coming out of that, being stronger on the other side.”0:41Jul 24, 2026
- Exploring Homeschooling ExperiencesJacob and Beau discuss their unique homeschooling journeys, touching on structure and socialization.“Homeschool can have one of those effects, right?”5:25Jul 24, 2026
- Transitioning to Community CollegeBeau shares his experience transitioning from homeschooling to community college.“I think socially, I wasn't fully ready for college.”12:19Jul 24, 2026
- The Journey of IdentityExploring the complexities of gender identity and the feeling of not belonging.“I think part of growing up is this feeling of not belonging.”20:45Jul 24, 2026
- Finding Comfort in IdentityRealizing one's identity can lead to greater comfort and confidence.“I know how I identify. I know who I am, and I feel so much more comfortable.”24:59Jul 24, 2026
- Mental Health StrugglesA candid discussion about the challenges of mental health and seeking help.“I attempted suicide, and that was not the first time I would attempt.”32:46Jul 24, 2026
- Becoming a Recovery Support SpecialistBeau shares their journey to becoming a recovery support specialist, highlighting the importance of lived experience in helping others.“I passed the test and I became a recovery support specialist.”43:25Jul 24, 2026
- The Importance of Shared ExperienceBeau discusses the value of peer support in mental health, emphasizing the connection built through shared experiences.“I can say, 'I've been there.'”46:10Jul 24, 2026





