Lydia Ko & Israel Adesanya’s Mental Coach GRILLS ME on Negative Self-Talk, Self-Sabotage & More!
Episode Description
You possibly don’t know the name. But I promise you, this is one hell of an episode.
David is the author of the book "The Winning Mindset."
And he is most certainly qualified to write a book about personal success and resilience.
For the past 30 years he has carved a reputation for himself as New Zealand's leading mental performance coach. He has worked closely with the likes of Lydia Ko, Israel Adesanya, the Black Ferns, the Breakers and top All Blacks.
He started working with Lydia and Izzy when she was still in primary school, and he was yet to have his first MMA fight.
In this episode we talk about some of these legends David has worked with to get an insight into their mindsets. Then we will get to learn about David Niethe and what makes him tick.
And along the way you will hopefully pick up tons of little ideas for how YOU can get closer to your goals, overcome personal fears, build resilience and generally get more out of your own life.
I do need to warn you. David does not pull punches. His tough love approach means he swears. A lot. If that’s going to be an issue for you, you might like to skip this episode.
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00:00 Introduction 03:12 Defining the Winning Mindset 07:57 The Role of Vision Boards in Success 17:52 Mindset in Overcoming Adversity 21:08 The Blunt Approach to Mental Performance 29:11 Creating an Alter Ego for Success 33:02 Understanding Self-Sabotage 47:31 Confronting Choices and Taking Action 50:46 Building Confidence Through Adversity 52:41 The Importance of Self-Pride 54:37 Career Path and Early Work Experiences 01:01:07 The Journey of Strength Training and Personal Development 01:10:01 Transitioning from Strongman to Mental Performance Coaching 01:15:39 Overcoming the Victim Mentality
Brief Summary
David NE discusses his journey, mental coaching, and working with athletes like Lydia Ko and Israel Adesanya.
Key points
- The Winning Mindset Explained. David discusses the concept of the winning mindset and its subjective nature.
- The Power of Vision. David illustrates how visualization can lead to success, using Israel's story.
- Overcoming Self-Sabotage. A powerful discussion on recognizing and overcoming self-sabotage in performance.
- The Power of Pain. Exploring how pain can lead to personal growth and resilience.
- Building Confidence Through Challenge. Confidence is built through exposure to tough conditions and overcoming them.
- Overcoming Fear. The speaker reflects on their journey from fear to empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-affirmation.
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Episode highlights
- The Winning Mindset ExplainedDavid discusses the concept of the winning mindset and its subjective nature.“For you it could be winning a marathon, for someone else it’s overcoming a fear.”2:10Oct 19, 2024
- The Power of VisionDavid illustrates how visualization can lead to success, using Israel's story.“Thoughts become things.”10:06Oct 19, 2024
- Overcoming Self-SabotageA powerful discussion on recognizing and overcoming self-sabotage in performance.“You cannot change anything you don't first recognize.”25:16Oct 19, 2024
- The Power of PainExploring how pain can lead to personal growth and resilience.“Pain means new life.”37:56Oct 19, 2024
- Building Confidence Through ChallengeConfidence is built through exposure to tough conditions and overcoming them.“We build confidence through putting ourselves and exposing ourselves to tough conditions.”40:21Oct 19, 2024
- Overcoming FearThe speaker reflects on their journey from fear to empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-affirmation.“I was sick and tired of being scared.”43:55Oct 19, 2024
- The Importance of Self-WorkA powerful reminder that the most important project you'll ever work on is yourself.“The most important project you'll ever work on is you.”49:03Oct 19, 2024
- Pride in AccomplishmentsThe speaker discusses the significance of being proud of oneself and the impact it has on others.“I am undoubtedly proud of myself.”53:01Oct 19, 2024





